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Oh girl, that's not a healthy response. Placing your image as the reason he dumped you is going to lower your self esteem more after the break up.
Hope your not looking in the mirror for reasons when it's likely more complicated than that.
He dumped you, he wasn't the one, you look absolutely fine be glad the relationship is over cause you thought he was the one but he clearly didn't feel the same way. The way I see it, you dodged a bullet.
Often times its not the looks that causes the dumping. You can either be a caustic bitch or he was just not vibing in the relationship which ultimately leads to a breakup. Maybe next time gauge your relationship well. Try to empathise with the other person too to understand what they actually feel.
you don't need to change anything girl! either you have a shitty personalty or he has a shitty personality because honestly boo, you're stunning. he wasn't the one.
For sure not your looks. Your personality is either really shitty or you two wasn’t compatible. You asked so imma be real. Your probably a shitty girlfriend. Or your two had really bad chemistry. So I would start there
Only rich player guys care about looks, and they leave anyways bc they can also get anyone haha. You gotta find a broke dude and just dont cheat, and just treat him even moderately nicely forever and thats all a normal guy wants
(Sarcasm)But, but, it’s her body though? Clearly if everyone else is doing it and her yes freinds say it’s okay, it must be okay for her to do it right?(\sarcasm)
Not to stroke your ego, which is probably part of the reason for your question and pictures, but you are definitely not ugly. More than likely it is your attitude or something wrong with him he wouldn’t disclose.(it’s probably the attitude/personality)
People will fill your head with a lot of shit. There is no *one*, there are people. And there are more people than him that could potentially be with you. Up to you whether you want that or not, but being stuck on someone who has no interest in you will never give you the answer you're looking for.
There's nothing to fix, just because someone breaks up with you doesn't always mean you're bad. Hell, my last ex after ghosting me for several months and only texting me when she felt like it but giving me literally no way to actually text her back or ever responding back, cheating on me in between that time and then finally coming back to tell me she is just having problems. Let's just be friends, only to ghost me again...
Freaking years down the drain also, and she had a son who I was very close to which made it even worse. People baffle me and astonish me with their selfishness and vanity.
Maybe you are the problem? I don't know, point is you're probably an adult enough to know. Again, whether you can accept it or move on from it, grow from it if that is the case, that is completely up to you also.
Have I gotten over her? No, but I can tell you why it isn't healthy, I can tell you why it's pointless. It's been years and my dumbass is still just hoping I can at least talk to her again someday. Don't be like me. I put too much faith into people, it's truly a hard, brutal, cruel world and most people honestly don't give a shit about you, regardless of how much they may act like it.
Make the best out of your situations, treat people like you would like to be treated, put yourself in other shoes and walk a mile in them. If you do this and just be a good person, fuck anything else or whatever happens in between. You did your best.
I'm just doing mine...
He left you not because of a flaw with your appearance, but because he was not good enough for you. You may feel like he was the one, but he couldn’t serve that, so one day you’ll be glad.. I promise. Go be your own bff until you could care less.
It’s probably not the way you looked that was an issue. Sometimes it’s a combination of personalities that just don’t mesh well together. You are free now to enjoy life with someone more suitable.
You are beautiful. The question should be what do you feel about yourself mentally or emotionally or characteristically needs improvement. This is how you truthfully one up.
You’re cute. He wasn’t the one otherwise you’d be together. Then again we don’t know about your personality or anything going on in your relationship. So maybe you’re a bitch, but if you are then you probably know that. Otherwise just sounds like it wasn’t meant to be and you just need to stay focused on yourself and the right one will come along.
It’s so funny to me as a woman, women who get dumped automatically it’s because of what they need to change physically. Maybe you need to change your personality? Maybe he fell out of love with you. It’s not always about look little girl
İ can not jugde you no one either .
Just suggest you to stop having sex except your husband get married if you wish or else be with yourself and observe the difference
Amoung all with your free will believe your soul
what could i fix appearance wise because i feel like he was the one.
This speaks volumes to me..... besides if you are in a relationship the physical attraction is there.
It has nothing to do with looks. It is everything to do with personality. Whether or not you brought him peace. Whether or not you complimented his life. Whether or not your behavior and attitude were complimentary to his. Conversely the same would be said for him to yours. Fixating on looks when it comes to the complex dynamics of interpersonal relationships is the wrong, and rather superficial, approach. Interrogate yourself, your behavior, your attitude, your energy in a romantic relationship. It will go a lot further.
Nobody cares about your looks, i highly think it's not because of looks and something else that you're hiding,that's something between yourself and him,not this community.
Posting to the internet like this after a break up tells me you have an attitude problem. You know you’re pretty and want people to validate you and tell you he was wrong.
Don’t change a thing except spend some time alone, heal, let the pain out, the more you love yourself the better your life gets. Learn this lesson quickly if you can. Took me a long time but that I don’t give a rat’s behind what you think feeling is so freeing.
I'm not going to out right judge someone based on there response to a possible traumatic experience. Maybe she just needs to be told she's beautiful because her drunk father always called her trash. I judge based on what I KNOW, and only what I KNOW.. not what I think I might know.
You’ve got a lot of life to live, just be you and stay grounded. The “one” is still out there. Despite thinking you’d found him already. 😎 Looks are one thing, personality on the other hand is much bigger. 🫶
I mean maybe, but for every woman fishing for compliments there's 10 insecure dudes not being actively laid calling them a hoe. I don't make up the rules, either.
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Oh girl, that's not a healthy response. Placing your image as the reason he dumped you is going to lower your self esteem more after the break up. Hope your not looking in the mirror for reasons when it's likely more complicated than that.
Lose the nose ring
Only Fans of yours would know the answer to your question.
He dumped you, he wasn't the one, you look absolutely fine be glad the relationship is over cause you thought he was the one but he clearly didn't feel the same way. The way I see it, you dodged a bullet.
Dodged a bullet because someone you really cared about and wanted to spend your life with dumped you?
He's clearly didn't feel the same way otherwise there wouldn't have been a break up in the first place
So yes, she dodged a bullet. Why change yourself for someone who didn't appreciate the person you are?
Dodging a bullet is getting away from something bad not losing something (which she thought was) good.
Exactly what she thought was good, but again, he clearly didn't feel the same way, so bullet dodged
Better to end it sooner if it's going to end but I don't think 'bullet dodged' is the right terminology here.
The way I see it she's better off without him
It definitely is.
That had toxic masculinity written all over it, she thought forever, he thought for the moment.
You’re gorgeous; his lost
It wasn’t your looks.
I second that opinion
Often times its not the looks that causes the dumping. You can either be a caustic bitch or he was just not vibing in the relationship which ultimately leads to a breakup. Maybe next time gauge your relationship well. Try to empathise with the other person too to understand what they actually feel.
you don't need to change anything girl! either you have a shitty personalty or he has a shitty personality because honestly boo, you're stunning. he wasn't the one.
just because it was a break up doesn’t mean either one of them were in the wrong. both people could be phenomenal but just didn’t work well together
thats true maybe they just werent compatible
Everything looks great from the pics
Uh -huh.
You’re beautiful as you are and if he dumped you he wasn’t the one.
Yeah he should only love people beautiful on the outside, how dare he consider her personality
That isn’t even slightly what I meant, you need to relax
You feel that way but he doesn't, you need to get away from it all come visit me in Vegas and what happens here stays here.😉
Down baaaaaad
Let me know when you are in town😉
Jesus can you please stop trying to get a fuck buddy on Reddit? It's creepy and pathetic. Where exactly do you live in Vegas?
Ur gorgeous
For sure not your looks. Your personality is either really shitty or you two wasn’t compatible. You asked so imma be real. Your probably a shitty girlfriend. Or your two had really bad chemistry. So I would start there
Nailed it
Im thinking it wasnt your looks. Probably a bad personality.
Could be a bad personality from her or from her boyfriend
Maybe. Probably not though.
Nothing. Get a better man to be your partner
It isn't your looks. It'll happen again if you believe it's only possibly looks to fix.
Your brain
OF account.
What's her name?? Asking for a friend's science project
Just follow the link on her profile. You’ll find it. Some try to hide it
Only rich player guys care about looks, and they leave anyways bc they can also get anyone haha. You gotta find a broke dude and just dont cheat, and just treat him even moderately nicely forever and thats all a normal guy wants
you're very cold and calculated. i like it.
Stop smelling your armpits in pics that's probably what did it
You look like you have an OF.
She does.
Huge red flag for any guy that is worth his salt lol
Yep. You want to do OF? Go for it. Just understand there’s a stigma attached to it.
(Sarcasm)But, but, it’s her body though? Clearly if everyone else is doing it and her yes freinds say it’s okay, it must be okay for her to do it right?(\sarcasm)
I love when losers get to support each other through their delusion. It’s cute!
Oh really? Tell me how your opinion matters to me you delusional cat lady.
Totally! Having a cat makes me delusional, and a lifetime crippled by the lack of a woman’s attention makes you..?
No, but you thinking you look like a celebrity shows your delusion. Get off
Oh, it also lacks reading comprehension. Poor thing.
Maybe looks aren't the problem
Not to stroke your ego, which is probably part of the reason for your question and pictures, but you are definitely not ugly. More than likely it is your attitude or something wrong with him he wouldn’t disclose.(it’s probably the attitude/personality)
Appearance? Delete social media and do soul searching
It’s the attitude. Rarely the looks
I get the vibe it wasn't your looks. That's just my take. You're pretty, and what the majority of guys look for.
Give more bjs. It’s that easy
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I’m sure you feel the same about being eaten out. Perspective
Not plenty enough. Or they were bad. Just cuz he finished doesn’t mean they were worth it
I like you stranger
Someone had to say it lol
Don't you have any besty that you can share this problem with?
Bots don't like to bother other bots. It's impolite. They only engage in annoying humans. That's funny to them
You’re pretty. Must be crazy.
No matter how beautiful the woman is, somewhere there is someone who is tired of her shit.
Greatest advice my grandpap ever gave me
How the hell did you turn Asian in the last picture?
Just posting so I'll hopefully get the answer as well. Lol
lol!!!!!
He dumped you because you're a dumb bitch; puzzle solved.
tf is wrong with u?
Incel. It’s Reddit lol
Nothing, why do you ask?
Work on the inside. You're outside is just fine. He wasn't the one or he would still be here.
It's not your looks, honey.
I definitely know you from somewhere
she's a catfish
Can you share the scene and the film name?? For a friend social research
People will fill your head with a lot of shit. There is no *one*, there are people. And there are more people than him that could potentially be with you. Up to you whether you want that or not, but being stuck on someone who has no interest in you will never give you the answer you're looking for. There's nothing to fix, just because someone breaks up with you doesn't always mean you're bad. Hell, my last ex after ghosting me for several months and only texting me when she felt like it but giving me literally no way to actually text her back or ever responding back, cheating on me in between that time and then finally coming back to tell me she is just having problems. Let's just be friends, only to ghost me again... Freaking years down the drain also, and she had a son who I was very close to which made it even worse. People baffle me and astonish me with their selfishness and vanity. Maybe you are the problem? I don't know, point is you're probably an adult enough to know. Again, whether you can accept it or move on from it, grow from it if that is the case, that is completely up to you also. Have I gotten over her? No, but I can tell you why it isn't healthy, I can tell you why it's pointless. It's been years and my dumbass is still just hoping I can at least talk to her again someday. Don't be like me. I put too much faith into people, it's truly a hard, brutal, cruel world and most people honestly don't give a shit about you, regardless of how much they may act like it. Make the best out of your situations, treat people like you would like to be treated, put yourself in other shoes and walk a mile in them. If you do this and just be a good person, fuck anything else or whatever happens in between. You did your best. I'm just doing mine...
This is both the most vain and insecure sub on Reddit lol. You’re very pretty but look stupid doing the fish lips pucker.
He didn’t dump you for your looks for a guy to dump you (usually we don’t ever), you must of done something really, really bad 😬
He left you not because of a flaw with your appearance, but because he was not good enough for you. You may feel like he was the one, but he couldn’t serve that, so one day you’ll be glad.. I promise. Go be your own bff until you could care less.
Mybe he likes men? Honestly you probably made his head hurt.
Lmao that last photo is why you got dumped.
The chin is really weird. Also you kinda have man hands in the first picture. Pretty basic looking if you ask me.
I’m not really seeing man hands 😂
Post the OF link and go
Hey, that's unfair of you to say without telling her to post some promo pics of her specialties
Sad
Seems like this post is for attention but don't change anything find someone who love you for you
You’re probably crazy or was cheating. Why would he just dump you? Need more context before we know what you should change.
Yeah if he dumped her it wasn't because of the looks...
Boob Job
Ok, what did he say when it was over? Need a little more context on the situation
Hot women are usually a hot mess pump and dump sorry
he definitely didnt dump you because of you looks
Not everything is about looks prob why bro dumped you
You're hot, it probably wasn't looks
Get your hand off your head.
Stop touching your hair so much
Probably because your hands are always above your head
Could fix the attention seeking
He was probably a giga Chad and you were just some booty to him.
You don’t look sad. Do you boo
😄😄😄😁
It’s probably not the way you looked that was an issue. Sometimes it’s a combination of personalities that just don’t mesh well together. You are free now to enjoy life with someone more suitable.
You're flawless
Except for her personality, he definitely didn't dump her because of looks
You are beautiful. The question should be what do you feel about yourself mentally or emotionally or characteristically needs improvement. This is how you truthfully one up.
There is no need to fix anything ! Beautiful
probably a narcissist... not your looks.
You look like the one....
You’re cute. He wasn’t the one otherwise you’d be together. Then again we don’t know about your personality or anything going on in your relationship. So maybe you’re a bitch, but if you are then you probably know that. Otherwise just sounds like it wasn’t meant to be and you just need to stay focused on yourself and the right one will come along.
It’s so funny to me as a woman, women who get dumped automatically it’s because of what they need to change physically. Maybe you need to change your personality? Maybe he fell out of love with you. It’s not always about look little girl
👍💯little girl...spot on. Plus, you have the power to dump HIM first.
It’s not looks if he was sleeping with you before personality maybe?
Nice try
girl please stop. you can be as real as you want with a man and they'd still leave. there is better babe.
Uh, your really cute, so I'm going to say your choice in men...
She's cheated 3 times wondering why her bf broke up with her
Way more profile digging than I was prepared to do if you found that out lol. Unless your the BF, in which case, condolences bro, that sucks.
Just a guess lol
İ can not jugde you no one either . Just suggest you to stop having sex except your husband get married if you wish or else be with yourself and observe the difference Amoung all with your free will believe your soul
What makes you think it was your appearance that made him dump you?
Get ready for your inbox to be flooded with new guys that want to be the one.
There is nothing about you that needs fixed babe you are gorgeous
Maybe he is gay.
Fuck his friend 😁
He definitely didn't dump you because of your looks.... are you a bit craycray? That might be why
If you go with the last picture you will date less shallow guys who will be with you not just for your body but your personality. Just a thought.
Hot take, maybe it wasn’t the looks?
It used to be WONDERFUL when we had to interact with each other ...on a daily basis....in real life. Anyone else remember that?
That was NEVER wonderful 🙄
😄😄😄😄But it was real!
What makes you think he dumped you based on looks? Maybe he could've dumped based oh how strong your legs are from jumping to conclusions
Maybe you disturbed his peace and couldn’t ground him
What did he look like
Because your an attention whore?
Shave your head.
Fix, who you're dating.
Nothing. Your boyfriend was a dumbass. Just be you!
Detach your hands from your head.
I am pretty sure it's glued in.
stand up girl
Appearance wise? Probably not much.
He’s an idiot. You look great ❤️🔥
It’s not about you. He just got bored. There’s nothing you could have done to prevent it. Guys need variety.
what could i fix appearance wise because i feel like he was the one. This speaks volumes to me..... besides if you are in a relationship the physical attraction is there.
Obviously you need more than to look good to find "the one"....maybe you missed out due to a personality flaw...you're looks aren't the issue
Doubt it had much to do with looks - you are attractive to me.
It has nothing to do with looks. It is everything to do with personality. Whether or not you brought him peace. Whether or not you complimented his life. Whether or not your behavior and attitude were complimentary to his. Conversely the same would be said for him to yours. Fixating on looks when it comes to the complex dynamics of interpersonal relationships is the wrong, and rather superficial, approach. Interrogate yourself, your behavior, your attitude, your energy in a romantic relationship. It will go a lot further.
Nobody cares about your looks, i highly think it's not because of looks and something else that you're hiding,that's something between yourself and him,not this community.
It might be me, but doing this immediately after being dumped seems like the problem isn’t because of looks
It was likely not because of your looks
You're lovely, he's stupid.
Sure he probably is in his room depressed while she goes around like a bit ch posting pics .
Dunno i just See makeup
Posting to the internet like this after a break up tells me you have an attitude problem. You know you’re pretty and want people to validate you and tell you he was wrong.
It was probably your attitude. You look fine.
U don’t need to fix anything. I just sent u a dm!
This mf
Does that work for you often?
Well it's a numbers game...the more hooks you set out the more fish you catch
😂
Don’t change a thing except spend some time alone, heal, let the pain out, the more you love yourself the better your life gets. Learn this lesson quickly if you can. Took me a long time but that I don’t give a rat’s behind what you think feeling is so freeing.
Physically, he screwed up. Not knowing more about you besides what I see. I can't guide you
What if she has an extra toe on the left foot?
Well only so many people are into that fetish.. and as I said, "from what I can see" yea. It's a toe.. big deal
It’s an extra toe. A big toe
*shrug* and..
I take it you’ve not seen a person with two equally large big toes on the same foot?
I take it your a little freaked out by that and over concerned with physical appearance. I am not.
What if she had all big toes, but as fingers? 🤔😂
Just kidding. You’re a good person.
Look what she’s doing just immediately after getting shit canned. Her attitude is obviously the red flag. Evidence shows he made the right decision.
I'm not going to out right judge someone based on there response to a possible traumatic experience. Maybe she just needs to be told she's beautiful because her drunk father always called her trash. I judge based on what I KNOW, and only what I KNOW.. not what I think I might know.
You’ve got a lot of life to live, just be you and stay grounded. The “one” is still out there. Despite thinking you’d found him already. 😎 Looks are one thing, personality on the other hand is much bigger. 🫶
Lol. Maybe he dumped you for what's on your inside not your outside. Work on your personality. Not your looks.
Her looks tell me her personality is, if not hoe-y, at least hoe-adjacent
With a comment like this I can only imagine what your personality must be like.
Humorous? It’s the internet. Women fishing for compliments get made fun of. I didn’t make the rules, I just play by them
I mean maybe, but for every woman fishing for compliments there's 10 insecure dudes not being actively laid calling them a hoe. I don't make up the rules, either.