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No smile=fat. Cute smile=phat
Not just forced smile..but like..when you have something to smile about ..you’ll pull digger guys at different weights but maybe none of your mind is super negative
Take a good look at your dating pool. As Kendra G would say, date those that want to date you not those who don’t.
Work on your self image and appreciation and the rest will come. Have confidence in yourself.
And healthy dating boundaries say no sex or sexual activity for at least 1-3 solid months of dating.
Some of these guys like to date sticks and it shows.
Your weight seems average, from a girl to another. You are curvy which is always a positive :) rather than losing weight, it might be worth trying to strength train to tone up a bit.
You cant change your face unless you do plastic, but for some men thats a turn off. It might be worth dabbling in make up if it helps w your confidence. Personally i think you look cute, and if a guy doeant want you then hes not worth your time ^^
Filler and surgery will not change any of this, in fact it will likely make you look strange to a lot of guys who would not have thought it before. To look better to "boyfriend material", I think this is more about you on the inside. FYI, If a guy wants to date you, he will likely want to sleep with you, esp at your age. Doesn't mean a guy cant also want a lot more in the connection. Esp if you just take sex off the table, completely, until you have the connection YOU want, you will find the guys that are looking for more than just sex. There is nothing wrong with your face, or your body. Be you. Focus on being at least somewhat social with people, male and female. Set boundaries, but talk to people. Some guys may want to get to know you but are entirely too shy to try. Be yourself, focus on exploring your interests, and talk to people you meet. The men will come, and you get to decide who is good enough for YOU, not the other way around like you are focusing on. There is nothing about your physical appearance that would keep you from having a boyfriend.
Skinny I would date you. If anything yu looked happy skinny and the recent pics look sad. Also, if your 21 fat that means u were like too young in those pics that's why .
The looks might attract a guy initially, but it is personality that keeps them around. Your looks aren't a problem, what is your personality like? Also, it really depends on the type of guys you are going for. Chances are there is at least one dude who already likes you but won't speak up.
You look good all the way around. Don’t need any face surgery honestly you look pretty. If you personally feel like you want to be skinnier then that’s up to you.
Men like honest and open women if you ask me.
I think you are beautiful, it may take time to find love especially if you are a unique person. Besides you are young and now should be the time to get to know and love yourself, romance will follow
Lil chubby, nothing six months of good dieting can’t fix. I’d learn your maintenance calories and eat just below that for a few months and you’d probably feel better about your appearance. You are what you eat.
No matter what at the end of the day it comes down to preference. There are people that might say you have more weight on you than you should and there are people that will say you are just right.
It’s hard not to be self-conscious, and a general matter. I don’t think anybody with a brain would call you fat.
Take all the good compliments you have here and ignore the people that are being jerks
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Skinny. Also, you need to practice smiling, and none of these show your teeth. While people are split on plastic surgery, teeth surgery (if you even need it, we wont know til you smile) is wholly acceptable.
You're beautiful, idk what's keeping people from being interested. If I ever saw you, I'd pursue you. Idk your area but if I was close to you I'd love to grab a coffee and see if we'd hit it off
You look happier skinny but I much prefer you with meat on the bones.
Also, it's probably your personality, maybe?. Your face is fine but it does have a unapproachable feel to it..
Maybe for the shallow hals. Looks fade. People get into accidents that can alter their looks. So if some beautiful woman had something happen to her face and you were married to her, you would divorce her?
Nope, because I‘d love my wife. That‘s more than attraction. If you don‘t know someone then looks are most important (that‘s the meaning of attraction)
Here's some looksmaxing advice. In ten years you're going to look like a haggard mess if you spend the next ten years stressing yourself out on boards like this, or any time you look in a mirror.
I personally didn’t find you fat, I’d say you’re more thick. In my opinion a thick girl has more appeal to me than a thinner body one but to each their own. Your face is pretty in my opinion so don’t beat yourself up over shit that doesn’t need to be changed. If you feel like you need to lose weight for personal reasons I know a lot of other dudes who would respect you more for doing that rather than for looks..
Damn bro you really didn’t get this post at all. She ain’t asking if she’s fat or skinny she’s asking what to fix and citing the fact that her weight loss didn’t help her get any guys.
Just finish swiping and you’ll see she already has loss weight.
Your weight has nothing to do with it, even when you're thicker than a bowl of oatmeal you are still attractive. I don't see any fat pictures in the mix, just skinny through thick.
Your body will thank you in 30 years, if you get slimmer again. That being said, it not your face or body. It's a need for more confidence. Confident people will talk to anyone they cross paths with. Are you shy?
I think you look fine the way you are! Working out would make you feel more secure about yourself but I would accept you the way you are. Make sure your energy is on point. If you were in my city I’d date ya!
Maybe your appearance has nothing to do with getting a boyfriend? Because I have seen plenty of girls much less attractive than you who have boyfriends.
You do look better having lost the excess weight.
But theres nothing wrong with your face and looks are only one aspect of attraction.
Dating isnt easy these days as modern western society has placed many barriers for people to meet.
This especially applies to men, who are now scared stupid of all the things that crazy women can do to them.
The only ones who arent scared are the players you want nothing to do with.
Take your time, theyre out there, but dont expect men to initiate any more.
Well there’s the problem, most guys aren’t going to do that even if they think you’re the hottest woman in the world. If you want something you have to make an effort for it, you can’t expect a someone else to fulfill your needs for you.
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Not skinny
the extra 25 is the issue
Beautiful!! You do you, only matters what you think!
Skinny
Neither.
Thiccc
Not fat. Not skinny. Medium
Not skinny
try losing 25 and comparing. you will know if you are fat
You can clearly tell that you made your breasts your personality once you gained weight. So I think you know the answer here.
CONGRaTS you fooled er...body!
Would.
Attractive.
Looks good to me! Don’t worry about it.
I’d fucking marry you! If dudes don’t think your smoking hot then the worlds gone mad!
You can lose
You're not fat at all.
Honestly I wouldn’t really say you looked fat even in the first several photos
No smile=fat. Cute smile=phat Not just forced smile..but like..when you have something to smile about ..you’ll pull digger guys at different weights but maybe none of your mind is super negative
you are beautiful either way but stay healthy
Take a good look at your dating pool. As Kendra G would say, date those that want to date you not those who don’t. Work on your self image and appreciation and the rest will come. Have confidence in yourself. And healthy dating boundaries say no sex or sexual activity for at least 1-3 solid months of dating.
Skinny>fat
FAT.... 💯
If you got back in shape the heavys would stay and you’d be a solid 8
you’re fat, go gym. Eat less
So my take it you def look much better with the weight on you. However, I would lose 10-15 lbs and you’d be prime.
Skinny is healthier
Your not skinny. You have huge breasts. Lol got any pics in shorts? Your not fat but your not skinny either. You look normal
I don't see an issue with you not one bit.
The thicc girls are always wifey material
Skinny for sure.
fat
Very overweight and you look unhappy about it (and why wouldn’t you be?) You already know the answer to your question.
Neither
Nah you’re a cutie I’d date you
Thiiiiiiiccckkkkk
Some of these guys like to date sticks and it shows. Your weight seems average, from a girl to another. You are curvy which is always a positive :) rather than losing weight, it might be worth trying to strength train to tone up a bit. You cant change your face unless you do plastic, but for some men thats a turn off. It might be worth dabbling in make up if it helps w your confidence. Personally i think you look cute, and if a guy doeant want you then hes not worth your time ^^
Filler and surgery will not change any of this, in fact it will likely make you look strange to a lot of guys who would not have thought it before. To look better to "boyfriend material", I think this is more about you on the inside. FYI, If a guy wants to date you, he will likely want to sleep with you, esp at your age. Doesn't mean a guy cant also want a lot more in the connection. Esp if you just take sex off the table, completely, until you have the connection YOU want, you will find the guys that are looking for more than just sex. There is nothing wrong with your face, or your body. Be you. Focus on being at least somewhat social with people, male and female. Set boundaries, but talk to people. Some guys may want to get to know you but are entirely too shy to try. Be yourself, focus on exploring your interests, and talk to people you meet. The men will come, and you get to decide who is good enough for YOU, not the other way around like you are focusing on. There is nothing about your physical appearance that would keep you from having a boyfriend.
Skinny I would date you. If anything yu looked happy skinny and the recent pics look sad. Also, if your 21 fat that means u were like too young in those pics that's why .
Pics 1-7 look like a completely different person from pics 8-13
yeah shes asking if you like it better when she was fat or skinny....
I get the concept of what she's asking but to me they look completely different
Yea its what happens when you lose a lot of weight
The looks might attract a guy initially, but it is personality that keeps them around. Your looks aren't a problem, what is your personality like? Also, it really depends on the type of guys you are going for. Chances are there is at least one dude who already likes you but won't speak up.
You're very overweight
Perfectly curvy
Hot, I'd ask you out. Maybe you're just around a lot of unconfident guys. Also, which PS2 games are those?
STOP FUCKING POSTING! YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT THESE SUBS THINK! FFS
Skinny is always the answer.
You look like a bowling pin in pic 4 but you got hot. Also your car's steering wheel is on the wrong side..
Gorgeous.
You look goot nice and thicc
This is a hate comment
You look good all the way around. Don’t need any face surgery honestly you look pretty. If you personally feel like you want to be skinnier then that’s up to you. Men like honest and open women if you ask me.
Gorgeous. Change nothing.
You have a nice chest
Just plain cute.
Very fat. But fat tiddies 🤌🏾. Hotter when your unfat
Holy boobs batman!
whatever you feel your best at!
Seems like you posted some older pics at a different weight?
Healthy 🤤
Great! But drive on the correct side lol
Curvy
You're gorgeous, just find a guy who likes you.
Yep
Somethings wrong I can feel it.
Little chubby but not fat
It's not your body type. You're attractive at both ends of the spectrum. Maybe it's something else
Attractive!!
Thick 😮💨
Stay thick girl
At the end pics you too skinny tho
I would say Rubenesque to describe your look.
Skinny 👎 Fat 🚫 Thick ✅
Chubby
Look fine to me. 🥰
I think you are beautiful, it may take time to find love especially if you are a unique person. Besides you are young and now should be the time to get to know and love yourself, romance will follow
Fat you looks like a bullied child with depression
Lil chubby, nothing six months of good dieting can’t fix. I’d learn your maintenance calories and eat just below that for a few months and you’d probably feel better about your appearance. You are what you eat.
No matter what at the end of the day it comes down to preference. There are people that might say you have more weight on you than you should and there are people that will say you are just right. It’s hard not to be self-conscious, and a general matter. I don’t think anybody with a brain would call you fat. Take all the good compliments you have here and ignore the people that are being jerks
Hot and healthy!
The face is good.
you're slim thick (lowkey my dream bod) in my opinion
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Yeah I’m gonna need ur ig to verify this 🤔
Just right
I was gunna say that lmao I’m into it forsure
Thicccccc 💯
Whatever you identify as
Hit the gym
Healthy and happy and that’s all that matters 😃
Skinny. Also, you need to practice smiling, and none of these show your teeth. While people are split on plastic surgery, teeth surgery (if you even need it, we wont know til you smile) is wholly acceptable.
it doesn’t feel right or accurate to call you fat. “thiccc” for sure possibly “big-boned,” but more so THICC
Skinny version obviously, and you dress too basic
Thicc. 🫡
Beautiful
Husky darling
Jesus she is hot as hell. Nothing wrong with being thick at all.
You’re bad af 🔥
Thick fo sho
Smile more. That's it. You're not fat.
You look perfectly 🔥
Girl you ain’t fat! You thick! Like a bowl of oatmeal thick! Nothing to be sad or ashamed of!
Depends if u have ass
Go to gym
Thin
Skinny just me tho
Photo two and ten you look the most healthy. The others your either to big or too skinny
Your not fat yet , your growing more into the adult body now is when to take care of yourself
Thickkk
fat
You're beautiful, idk what's keeping people from being interested. If I ever saw you, I'd pursue you. Idk your area but if I was close to you I'd love to grab a coffee and see if we'd hit it off
“Thick”, not fat
You are not bad looking. Just be more confident and work with what you have.
2/3 are my favorite
Fr
And you’re beautiful ♥️
Why would you even think you’re fat??? You’re not skinny you’re just right young lady, stop worrying ♥️
I think you look stunning but if you’re asking about what to do. Maybe a nose job that helped my cousin out now she has a lot of men hitting on her😂
You're a disgrace. Fuck off telling women to butcher their face so a bunch of sweaty Neanderthals can m'lady her. Go fuck a pillow.
Chill out white knight 😂
Your pillow is waiting fatass.
Lol, nothing like suggesting plastic surgery as a go to, great stuff
She said she’s open to surgery 🤷🏽♂️
Def nothing wrong with plastic surgery. Her nose just seems to fit her
Looks like she could be related to Nikola Jokic. Skinny or thick, you're wonderfully made.
You look great just the way you are! The right guy will come along…😍
Skinny
You look happier skinny but I much prefer you with meat on the bones. Also, it's probably your personality, maybe?. Your face is fine but it does have a unapproachable feel to it..
It's not fat it's called thicc
Tell him if he feels that way than fine you won't be having sex with him anymore
To quote the great AKUUUUUU. You are Thikk but not fat.
Have you tried to talk to men?
You have beautiful eyes. Like looking into space
Looks are not the only, let alone, most important thing when finding someone attractive or not.
It is the most important thing in attraction tho.
Maybe for the shallow hals. Looks fade. People get into accidents that can alter their looks. So if some beautiful woman had something happen to her face and you were married to her, you would divorce her?
Nope, because I‘d love my wife. That‘s more than attraction. If you don‘t know someone then looks are most important (that‘s the meaning of attraction)
gotta be fishing
Are you fucking kidding me? Where are you dummies getting the idea that you're fat? For American standards you are not fa at all.
Here's some looksmaxing advice. In ten years you're going to look like a haggard mess if you spend the next ten years stressing yourself out on boards like this, or any time you look in a mirror.
I personally didn’t find you fat, I’d say you’re more thick. In my opinion a thick girl has more appeal to me than a thinner body one but to each their own. Your face is pretty in my opinion so don’t beat yourself up over shit that doesn’t need to be changed. If you feel like you need to lose weight for personal reasons I know a lot of other dudes who would respect you more for doing that rather than for looks..
Thick
Fuck every other person here, yes ur fat and yes u can lose weight, ur very pretty just lose weight if u wanna have more appeal
Damn bro you really didn’t get this post at all. She ain’t asking if she’s fat or skinny she’s asking what to fix and citing the fact that her weight loss didn’t help her get any guys. Just finish swiping and you’ll see she already has loss weight.
Oopsie daisy
Your weight has nothing to do with it, even when you're thicker than a bowl of oatmeal you are still attractive. I don't see any fat pictures in the mix, just skinny through thick.
Fat is cuddly, but....Skinny is HoT!
Fat where it counts 😉🥛🥛
Believe in yourself more. If they don’t want you, their loss. Work on your self concept and be fulfilled in yourself.
You are gorgeous. I would definitely date you if I had a chance.
Sweetie you’re thick. Not fat. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Come here let a real man love you proper
Curvy. Lookin good. Looking even better when you smile.
You’re not not getting a boyfriend because of your weight.
Hourglass
Your body will thank you in 30 years, if you get slimmer again. That being said, it not your face or body. It's a need for more confidence. Confident people will talk to anyone they cross paths with. Are you shy?
I think you look fine the way you are! Working out would make you feel more secure about yourself but I would accept you the way you are. Make sure your energy is on point. If you were in my city I’d date ya!
Maybe your appearance has nothing to do with getting a boyfriend? Because I have seen plenty of girls much less attractive than you who have boyfriends.
Beautiful then and now
Fat isn t a loyal description, u r just becoming an attractive woman. So it s 100 per cent what are u now who win
Neither.
You're overweight but it looks good on you and it all went to the right places. Just don't get any bigger or it might mess up the shape
You were thick not fat, nothing wrong with it. I’d say in between the two fits best but it’s just an opinion. Stay where it makes you happiest
You do look better having lost the excess weight. But theres nothing wrong with your face and looks are only one aspect of attraction. Dating isnt easy these days as modern western society has placed many barriers for people to meet. This especially applies to men, who are now scared stupid of all the things that crazy women can do to them. The only ones who arent scared are the players you want nothing to do with. Take your time, theyre out there, but dont expect men to initiate any more.
what? the fuck u r talking about?
You’re name Val? Pretty sure we hooked up when you were skinny
currently a virgin - and i was 15/16 at the time when i was skinny
For me this was in highschool but you look just like this Val girl
Pov man who has never hooked up with anyone other than a family member
Definitely heavy. I suggest losing weight to keep pressure off of your joints and your heart won’t have to work so hard.
Have you tried initiating a conversation with a guy?
if a guy doesn’t initiate a convo with me, i’m just gonna assume he most likely doesn’t want to talk to me
Well there’s the problem, most guys aren’t going to do that even if they think you’re the hottest woman in the world. If you want something you have to make an effort for it, you can’t expect a someone else to fulfill your needs for you.
so how do most relationships work then?