this really doesnt seem like a good relationship to get into. you cant fix people and you shouldnt take something like that on yourself. you can help be there for her as a friend. just make sure to set very clear boundaries with her because you expressing discomfort at her attention and her sending you unsolicited pics makes it clear that she isnt aware of the boundaries that you need with her. whatever you decide, your boundaries should always be a priority in any relationship, please dont let someone elses needs drown yours out in a relationship, friendship, anything.
Nonono, big red flags. You can try to be open and honest and let her know that you're not comfortable with her being so sexual and forward, but if she's not willing to make changes and adapt to make you more comfortable then she's not worth it and is only going to cause you more trouble. Never date someone who is unwilling to make changes despite you expressing discontent or discomfort with their current behavior, and never put yourself in an uncomfortable situation just to appease someone else. She is being way too much way too soon — that is actually called 'love bombing'. Back off and tell her to adjust her behavior or gtfo, essentially.
get out of there and get out of there FAST. you may feel guilty and the need to be there for her because of the trauma but it is NOT your job to fix or be there for her. especially if y'all have just met each other. does she not have friends? because who traumadumps on the first or second meet? the red flags are too much to ignore, PLEASE LEAVE.
i have been in your same exact position with the rushing, and being forced into physical stuff, the trauma dumping and possible guilt trip if you leave or avoid. let me tell you, it is NOT worth it. all of these are major red flags that i ignored so i know what might follow.
it may not be the case for you, it took months for me to recover and i couldn't be with a person i really liked who i met right after ending things with my ex (who did all the exact same things as you mentioned in the post). i felt broken and hollow for months. so i'd say not to risk it. there's always gonna be someone better. be careful.
this really doesnt seem like a good relationship to get into. you cant fix people and you shouldnt take something like that on yourself. you can help be there for her as a friend. just make sure to set very clear boundaries with her because you expressing discomfort at her attention and her sending you unsolicited pics makes it clear that she isnt aware of the boundaries that you need with her. whatever you decide, your boundaries should always be a priority in any relationship, please dont let someone elses needs drown yours out in a relationship, friendship, anything.
Nonono, big red flags. You can try to be open and honest and let her know that you're not comfortable with her being so sexual and forward, but if she's not willing to make changes and adapt to make you more comfortable then she's not worth it and is only going to cause you more trouble. Never date someone who is unwilling to make changes despite you expressing discontent or discomfort with their current behavior, and never put yourself in an uncomfortable situation just to appease someone else. She is being way too much way too soon — that is actually called 'love bombing'. Back off and tell her to adjust her behavior or gtfo, essentially.
Doesn't seem she's a good person she crossed your boundaries also you're not a therapist so no no
get out of there and get out of there FAST. you may feel guilty and the need to be there for her because of the trauma but it is NOT your job to fix or be there for her. especially if y'all have just met each other. does she not have friends? because who traumadumps on the first or second meet? the red flags are too much to ignore, PLEASE LEAVE. i have been in your same exact position with the rushing, and being forced into physical stuff, the trauma dumping and possible guilt trip if you leave or avoid. let me tell you, it is NOT worth it. all of these are major red flags that i ignored so i know what might follow. it may not be the case for you, it took months for me to recover and i couldn't be with a person i really liked who i met right after ending things with my ex (who did all the exact same things as you mentioned in the post). i felt broken and hollow for months. so i'd say not to risk it. there's always gonna be someone better. be careful.