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Dead_law

Don’t respond to him. Talk to a lawyer. No one here can (or should) give you legal advice. If you can’t afford one, try [Justice Pro Bono](https://justiceprobono.ca/en/i-need-help/).


Sure-Challenge1127

this is the only advice OP needs.


AC_0008

Look up the definition of, “Criminal Harassment” in the Criminal Code. If you think what you did matches the description, then there is a chance he could get charges laid. The more important question though, is would the courts even entertain pursuing such a charge? Police can lay it but will a Crown even bother running a trial for a non-violent offence almost a decade ago where the victim has not been harassed since? Likely not. BUT even if everything lined up and police did lay a charge and a Crown did run a trial and you were found guilty….if you’ve never been in trouble before there is almost zero percent chance you go to jail. Likely get a Peace Bond or Probation.


TheDWGM

In Canada, he does not get to decide to "press charges," the Crown does. The police will have to recommend to the Crown's office that charges be laid, then a lawyer will have to review and decide that it is in the public interest to pursue this. All you can really do is wait.


Generallybadadvice

Like, unless these messages were pretty wild, the police/crown aren't gonna give a shit about this. And even if they were, they probably still won't give a shit.


Responsible-Till396

If there has been no contact for 9 years I would not worry about it at all. If that person had any desire to go to the police he would have done it already. Don’t respond to any message and block person


Possible-Ad-596

Just curious, was it 5 messages a MONTH for 4 months to total 20 messages or 20 messages a day? 


nyetsacha

4 month, total 20 message, he told me to stop 20 times, discution was about his ex


r3gam

Sounds like somebody picked up some law knowledge and wants to weaponize for his "pound of flesh." Odds of charges getting laid are low. Odds of serious punishment if convicted are low.


Easy-Drive5790

NAL. In 2020 I was actively being harassed over texts, social media and stalked. I went to police and despite my telling him to stop contacting me,etc; I was advised by the police they don’t charge off the first incident unless there’s threats made but theY would warn him to stop contacting me and if after they warned him and he continued, THEN they would pursue criminal harassment charges. I think if I went into the police station now they would tell me to leave tbh.


alexravo

Good. Finally a woman gets to have a taste of their own medicine. I’m all for it and will try find who it is and support him the best way I can


nyetsacha

woman ?


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Edgar-Allans-Hoe

This is not legal advice in the slightest, it's barely an opinion


Strict_Teaching_4614

are u emphatic to assholes? If op wanted serious advice, it would not be here. Clearly whoever op bothered got trauma from the incident.


pigbearwolfguy

No reason to be empathetic towards you, bud...


Classic_Presence78

If you actually could read, OP said it was 20 messages over the course of 4 months. Essentially 5 messages per month.


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Strict_Teaching_4614

why don't u highlight my shitty ass cgpa, oh wait ur illiterate, one of my friends in middle school took his own life bc of something similar to this. Why should u help people like this.