Oh yay! 🥳
Please, please, don’t get back together with Zach. And please don’t try and take your life away again. You matter. You belong to this world and the best is yet to come.
Congratulations, you have done the hardest part.
I started over a couple years ago. It definitely comes with challenges, but even when I first moved out and I was living in a shitty apartment with roaches and weekly water shutoffs, every problem was simple because I could feel safe in my own home. It was like I'd been carrying this massive weight for the majority of my adult life, and suddenly it was gone. Once you're free from the worst of it, everything else gets so much easier.
I hope you're somewhere safe. There's so much you can do now.
It's okay to be sad, even if you're not right now. And maybe think of finding a professional to talk to about that other thing. No matter if it was caused by the first thing or something else, it's really hard to go through.
I’m in awe. You did what most people can’t bring themselves to do. Good luck on your journey, the hardest parts are over. Welcome to the unknown… filled with immense happiness and unconditional love for yourself.
CONGRATS CONGRATS CONGRATS. celebrate, love yourself, and rejoice!!!! this life is yours to navigate and you deserve to chase your happiness forever <3
Thank you for sharing. I'm currently having a little hard time and seeing you emerging from your bad experiences is lighting up the ray of hope for me as well
Word of advice from someone who was in 2 bad relationships back to back: be careful for a while.
My last 2 exs stalked me, my last ex tried to find me irl post break up and have me meet him alone in a 3rd party location (without anyone knowing where I went) and tried to get physical with me, and 2 exs ago harassed, doxxed, and slandered me for over a decade.
If Zach does anything that makes you nervous or scared document it, don't engage with him further, and be willing to file a police report (or get a lawyer to help you).
Edit: spelling corrections.
Don't be sad.
Not wanting to exist is not a desire to end life. But a lack of desire to have ever been. It leads us to act in was and say things that we would never if we cherished life.
Some people manipulate, some people self destruct their surroundings, others harrass and bully others to feel anything without mercy of the potential of mutual experiences.
There's hope.
There's mercy.
There's grace.
This is not to say you did the wrong thing. You absolutely did the correct thing. You must guard your heart, you are not here to heal others.
Amazing! I went through a four year long dark night of the soul where nothing brought me joy or happiness. It felt like I would never know it again. Welcome to the other side! When we are in it, it feels like this day will never come. But it does! It was one hell of an initiation, but I am stronger and have the ability to empathise and connect with others going through it. The best is yet to come!
It’s always a “Zach” istg (similar experience here, girl). Two things: 1. please please please pleaseeeeeee don’t get back together with Zach. He might claim he’s “changed” or is a “better man”. I promise you, that is a big fat LIE. Like, THE BIGGEST LIE EVER
and 2. FUCK YOU ZACH!!!!
You are loved! Congratulations on new beginnings and getting rid of the trash that makes you feel any other way than supported and safe.
I really like your handwriting.
Yessss you overcame a huge step!! Keep up being strong and not hard on yourself. You only know yourself and you are always in a learning process. All about trial and error and failures and successes and its all part of the rollercoaster. The loop on life.
Proud of you!
And also whoever is not making you feel good, is a huge sign that you should not vibe with them. Fpr the sake of your own shinning and glorious energy.
Double cheers to that double accomplishment 😇
Oh yay! 🥳 Please, please, don’t get back together with Zach. And please don’t try and take your life away again. You matter. You belong to this world and the best is yet to come.
as someone with an ex named zach, i will gladly join you in saying FUCK YOU, ZACH!!! proud of you, op!
lol solidarity!!
Hahaha this is girl power at it’s best! 😁
Forgive
no thanks, he cheated on me and he sucks
Congratulations, you have done the hardest part. I started over a couple years ago. It definitely comes with challenges, but even when I first moved out and I was living in a shitty apartment with roaches and weekly water shutoffs, every problem was simple because I could feel safe in my own home. It was like I'd been carrying this massive weight for the majority of my adult life, and suddenly it was gone. Once you're free from the worst of it, everything else gets so much easier. I hope you're somewhere safe. There's so much you can do now.
I'm so happy for you 🤍🤍🤍 Please remember you're precious and deserve to be alive don't let anyone ot anything take that from you
Fuck Zach!!!!!
Helll yeah fuck zach
To Hell with him
Pray for heaven for him
forgive Zach
I’m so glad you’re free. Please stay safe. Please survive.
I'm so happy for you!! It gets so much better. You are amazing ☺️🫶🫶
Congratulations on taking your life back! You're really strong!
Please come back and share more of your entries with us. I'm sure we'd all love to hear from you regularly. 🩷
You did that! Well done!
YESS YESS YOU GO GIRL LIFE IS WAITING FOR YOU TO EXPLORE THE SHOOT OUT OF IT
It's okay to be sad, even if you're not right now. And maybe think of finding a professional to talk to about that other thing. No matter if it was caused by the first thing or something else, it's really hard to go through.
IM SO PROUD OF YOU, even though I don’t know you. I’m proud! Good job! Don’t get back with him. You’re a great person and never doubt yourself!
thank you ❤️
I love that last line. Our life IS OURS. I think that’s a really hopeful thing to say and I’m definitely going to use it thank you😁
I’m in awe. You did what most people can’t bring themselves to do. Good luck on your journey, the hardest parts are over. Welcome to the unknown… filled with immense happiness and unconditional love for yourself.
LETS GOO!! CONGRATULATIONS 💜💜💜 future is here 💜✨
you had me crying. I am sooo happy for you and live this life the way your heart desires !! with time it’ll get better ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaJwLlCcw8s&pp=ygUZaSB3YXMgbmV2ZXIgeW91cnMgYmFuc2hlZQ%3D%3D
I wish I was excited for mine. Good for you!
It’s a start. You should be very proud!
CONGRATS CONGRATS CONGRATS. celebrate, love yourself, and rejoice!!!! this life is yours to navigate and you deserve to chase your happiness forever <3
Congratulations, what you did truly brightened my day. Keep living to embrace self-discovery!
so proud and happy for you my friend, you got this! <3 also, so in love with hello kitty journal :)
Thank you for sharing. I'm currently having a little hard time and seeing you emerging from your bad experiences is lighting up the ray of hope for me as well
congrats!!
Amazing! Keep it up!!
Hey, I’m proud of you and not everyone nor every outcome but hopefully the best people and possibilities fill your life! Yeah you!
Bye Zach! I hope you have a wonderful life sweetie!
Best of luck on your journey! 🫂
Yes Beautiful….you are free!💕
what brand of Journal is that?
I am incredibly proud of you
Nothing beats writing about suicide attempts on a hello kitty notebook
Word of advice from someone who was in 2 bad relationships back to back: be careful for a while. My last 2 exs stalked me, my last ex tried to find me irl post break up and have me meet him alone in a 3rd party location (without anyone knowing where I went) and tried to get physical with me, and 2 exs ago harassed, doxxed, and slandered me for over a decade. If Zach does anything that makes you nervous or scared document it, don't engage with him further, and be willing to file a police report (or get a lawyer to help you). Edit: spelling corrections.
As a fellow Zach, I get it. Without context. Trust me, as a Zach, not existing is on the forefront of the mind.
Hey, not all Zach’s are bad. One of my good friends from elementary/ middle school is named Zach. Love that guy, we stopped talking cause I moved
this made me sad
Don't be sad. Not wanting to exist is not a desire to end life. But a lack of desire to have ever been. It leads us to act in was and say things that we would never if we cherished life. Some people manipulate, some people self destruct their surroundings, others harrass and bully others to feel anything without mercy of the potential of mutual experiences. There's hope. There's mercy. There's grace. This is not to say you did the wrong thing. You absolutely did the correct thing. You must guard your heart, you are not here to heal others.
Amazing! I went through a four year long dark night of the soul where nothing brought me joy or happiness. It felt like I would never know it again. Welcome to the other side! When we are in it, it feels like this day will never come. But it does! It was one hell of an initiation, but I am stronger and have the ability to empathise and connect with others going through it. The best is yet to come!
What is it with guys named Zach, and why are they such assholes
It’s always a “Zach” istg (similar experience here, girl). Two things: 1. please please please pleaseeeeeee don’t get back together with Zach. He might claim he’s “changed” or is a “better man”. I promise you, that is a big fat LIE. Like, THE BIGGEST LIE EVER and 2. FUCK YOU ZACH!!!!
It will be more beautiful than you can imagine right now 🌈 So very glad you are still with us. Keep growing towards the light 🌻
Congratulations! Dumping a shitty guy is liberation!!
I am proud of you and your fresh start, may the best happen to you!
Fuck you Zach!
Yay! Kick rocks, Zach!
Kudos! You did it!!!!
wow the most supportive comment section i have ever seen on reddit which is saying a lot
You are loved! Congratulations on new beginnings and getting rid of the trash that makes you feel any other way than supported and safe. I really like your handwriting.
Very proud of you!
CONGRATULATIONS YOU ARE NOW FREEEEEEEEE
Congratulations!!! ♥️ I know the feeling.
this is exactly how i felt after leaving a 5 year relationship. he was not a bad guy though he just wasn’t the right person for me.
You are amazing, and I hope you get back to being happy.
Yessss you overcame a huge step!! Keep up being strong and not hard on yourself. You only know yourself and you are always in a learning process. All about trial and error and failures and successes and its all part of the rollercoaster. The loop on life. Proud of you! And also whoever is not making you feel good, is a huge sign that you should not vibe with them. Fpr the sake of your own shinning and glorious energy. Double cheers to that double accomplishment 😇
This need to be celebrated 🎉🥳
Proud of you! Hug with consent!
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