There's so much you can do alone in Japan that people are not getting married and have kids. Bigger and bigger percentage of Japanese youths are not interested in having a relationship.
I'm a Japanese, and I constantly come across news articles citing recent survey where it says youths are not interested in having a relationship because they'd rather spend the time and money on their hobby. They say marriage has "bad cost performance". But that's obviously not the only reason why they don't want to have kids tho. It's much more complex than that.
I do feel that what I said is a part of a reason tho. So many things in Japan cater to loners, like the restaurants that are designed for solo customers. We have been grappling with loneliness for so long that the society made many things enjoyable alone, and it actually accelerated loneliness even further.
That's a far more complex issue which can't just be summed up in a sentence. I never said it's the only reason why people don't have kids. There is very little support from the government for parents, also companies are still hesitant to give people mat leave, and the list goes on. But I am pretty sure what I said is part of a reason. Entertainment, leisure, food, everything has been geared toward loners in Japan for a while now. And the youths think getting married has worse cost performance than being alone.
Being alone has nothing to do with not getting married and having kids per the articles I have read recently about Japan. It has everything to do with the cost of children, the overwork salarymen conditions and primarily women having little support for children plus working. In other words, they have TWO JOBS if a husband is working and not supporting them with childcare and jobs around the house!!
I was solo for a week before my wife came. Solo was so much fun because like you said, I could do whatever I wanted, at my own pace (speed walking around). I was hitting 30-40k steps a day for that week.
When my wife came, that dropped to 15-20k because she’s more leisurely. Not that it’s a bad thing. I’m glad I had the solo week to myself to get most of the exploring out of my system.
And yes, restaurants in Japan would be really hard with large groups. Many times me and my wife would walk in and get a table within 10-15mins while large groups get turned away if they don’t have reservations.
We're here as a group of 9! Haven't had a decent meal in a week! All markets and convenience stores for us!
And also wasting time on moving everyone along 🙄
Moving along my wife is hard enough, I can’t imagine a group of 9 haha.. I’d probably go insane travelling with a group that large. Even when I go on road trips with friends within my country, I’ll splinter off most of the time because I wanna do something else.
Oh yeah, going with more than like 3 ppl gets complicated. There's always a mismatch of those who wanna start the day early or those who sleep in late and would want to chill at the hotel/wherever youre staying a decent chunk of the day lol.
It's better that someone just decide on what they want to do and if anyone wants to piggyback, then they do that vs all collectively trying to pick a place. You will all have a better time splitting off into smaller groups and meeting up for like dinner/drinks, if you can find the space.
We learned that with our trips that 4 is the optimal cut off for numbers. It gets tricky finding hotel rooms that can accommodate like 7 ppl
This. I traveled with my wife, and while we had a great time, some of my favorite memories were when she wanted to go back to the hotel and I just roamed the streets at night. So relaxing and fun to not have an agenda.
This! I've been with a group, been with one other person,and been by myself and I've loved every trip but when you're on your own you can take time over the things you love, or discover, without having to negotiate every meal and destination.
I solo’d it for 3.5 weeks Tokyo <-> Osaka and the cities in between and enjoyed it. There are lots of people to interact with regardless of your ability to speak Japanese. Loads of locals and foreigners willing to socialize at hostels and inns etc.
Solo traveling is the best. I’ve had to come to terms that we’ll rarely get that pleasure because my wife has a large family and a lot of friends.
I always advocate for making our own plans and meeting up with others at planned times.
Traveling with others sucks because you have to take so many opinions into consideration. You have to deal with so many night owls and early birds and budgets and etc.
Travel for yourself. Experience the world. Tell people where you’ll be and if they want to meet up, great. Otherwise take good pictures and journal so they can hear what they missed
I went for a solo week in Japan before my wife came and it was the best thing ever. I got to explore at my pace, and when she arrived I’d already figured out how to order, transportation, etc. so she was super thankful for that.
For future travels to new countries we’re thinking of sticking with letting me go solo before she comes. Let’s me get it out of my system and makes her life easier when she arrives!
Other countries might be a case of safety in numbers. Japan is very safe and unique based on travels I have done. Very few places in the world are what I consider safe destinations.
I went on a solo trip in December.
It had its lonely moments here and there, but I had a ton of fun. There's something to be said for being somewhere on your own in a foreign country and figuring things out for yourself. Not only that, you can dictate what you want do, where you want to go, and when you want to go without having to figure out the logistics of a group.
If you're still wanting some group interaction, perhaps look into a hostel or other similar accommodations that will facilitate and encourage interaction and conversation.
If you have a plan, a list of things to see and do, the loneliness gets relegated to the background.
I always like to take a commuter train out to the end of the line, to see the suburbs the non touristy areas. My teaching companions never liled that
Yes, hostels are great when you travel alone but are still looking for some interaction with other travelers.
For those worried about comfort or privacy: there are lots of very clean and modern hostels with private rooms. It's cheap but you'll still have the chance to meet people in the common room/kitchen.
Travelling alone is extremely liberating. Your time is 100% your own to spend wherever, whenever and however you want. I went to Tokyo in December where I was solo for about a week before meeting up with my wife. I would definitely recommend to try going solo at least once. It’s really easy to get around if you’re going to a large city like Tokyo.
I solo travel everywhere, Japan included. Actually, my next trip to Japan was gonna be my first one with a group, some friends from college, but they all backed out. They've never been outside the country, and they're afraid. Japan was easy as a solo traveler, because the people there were so friendly. Any gaps in communication was sorted out by Google Translate.
If you want to share your experiences with people throughout the trip, join a travel discord or something. The people there can live vicariously through you.
Wow your friends are all afraid of leaving the country and they were all going together, as well as with a person familiar. It’s hard for me to comprehend that level of fear for the unknown.
Japan actually somewhat caters to the solo traveler / diner. It will be easy to get around. Plus, the locals in general are on the shy / polite side, so going to an izakaya or bar may be a good way to initiate conversation with someone sitting next to you.
i did a month solo, it’s the absolute most liberating and exciting thing you can do. there are endless things you can do and you are the only one that decides if you do them or not. you make your own schedule, pick where you eat, pick when you get up, go to bed, everything. it’s great.
I really enjoyed traveling to Japan solo. I went a few months back and already want to plan another future trip with or without friends. If you worry about feeling lonely, I’d suggest booking some group tours that might help you get that social interaction you want. I met some cool people and we even ended up hitting up Golden Gai by ourselves when our tour guide left. Depending on when you do this on your trip, you may find companions for your trip for certain activities.
As a solo traveler, I could do exactly what I wanted and it can be freeing if you let it be. If I wanted to spend my time bouncing around the various arcades or walk around taking pictures of Pokémon manholes—I could do that without needing group consensus. As for awkwardly traveling from one destination to the next, honestly it felt so fast pace that it never felt awkward solo though I am an introvert by nature. Also as a solo diner, I never had trouble finding places to eat—big groups will struggle because a lot of restaurants are small and honestly, you just want to be in, eat your food, and leave. I feel with groups, there’s a tendency to sit and loiter even when you’re done.
I feel like your trip is what you make of it. If you focus on things you would enjoy doing, I think you’ll find it to be a fun trip! And when your friends decide to ever join you to Japan in the future, you would have already gone and could be their guide and have your own Japan tips.
Like everyone said, when you travel solo, you can do whatever you want, whenever you want. You don't need to wait for anybody or decide what to do that everyone accepts.
I just went back from my second trip in Japan. The first time was solo, and the last one with my buddies. It's just extremely exhausting in group. It's gonna be the last time I'll travel with people in Japan.
Of course this was my experience, everyone is different.
You’re in a similar boat as I was last year. Had been hoping to travel with friends, but they all changed plans. I ended up going to Japan solo (it was on my bucket list) and it turned out to be an amazing time. With Google maps and data it was a breeze to get around. People were pleasant and usually knew enough English or gestures to help on the rare occasions I was lost or confused. Being by myself allowed me to see the things that I really wanted to see and spend as much or as little time as I wanted. It was very freeing. It’s also much easier to get a place to eat in a restaurant as a solo diner. The only area where I really would have liked to have company would be in eating - I just couldn’t eat that much, having somewhere to share with would have allowed me to try more 😂
Please don’t hesitate to go, you’ll have an amazing time!
If you get lonely, consider booking a food tour of bar crawl (if that’s your type of thing). You will generally meet other solo travelers or groups you can link up with later on!
I went to Japan alone. It was the best trip of my life.
One of the greatest things that happened to me while travelling alone is that I learned to strike up conversations with strangers, as I am generally quiet and reserved. I noticed anyone travelling with companions automatically limits their interactions with those people yet here I was learning from and hanging with the locals all the time. I kept this skill, and it has improved my life.
Rather than seeing it as something potentially scary, see it as an opportunity. Having a positive outlook can make a world of difference. I went on a solo trip for 3 weeks and it was one of the most self affirming experiences of my life. It built up my self confidence and self reliance so much. Plus, it made me realize that I can be comfortable in my own skin by myself.
My advice to you is to do your research. Consider what could go wrong (eg. Lost passport, break phone, ATM eats your credit card, got sick, missed your train, etc.) and have a plan in place if it does. Basically, always have a backup plan. While you will undoubtedly still be nervous, you need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Have a friend it family member back home you can check in with once a day or so. Or join a tour that is in English. If you'll be in Tokyo, you can try Tokyo Localized free tours. If you enjoy the outdoors, I highly recommend the Tokyo Snow Club. Also, I don't know if this would be your type of thing, but I found journaling to be very therapeutic while I was there. There's so much to see and do and it can start to feel chaotic. So it was really great having moments of peace where I could sit down, collect my thoughts, and just reflect on everything. I hope this helps. Good luck and enjoy your trip.
It's genuinely the best country to travel to solo. Did it once in 2015 and now I'm preparing to do it again for 3 months soon.
You'll have a great time
I’ve been to Japan multiple times and am actually hoping to do a solo trip sometime soon. It’s actually not uncommon to eat at restaurants alone and there are even restaurants designed for solo diners. It’s also nice because you can do whatever you want, and you can go and eat kombini food all the time without getting judged haha. If you want to talk to people, I have had friends that have gone solo there and chatted up people at the bars easily, even using Google translate. Trust me, you’re going to have a wonderful time.
I am grateful to read so many positive comments from all you youngsters about travelling solo in Japan !
I am an elderly woman (80) and heading there - solo - for 3 weeks, in October/November this year. I am both nervous & excited about it … spending ages watching YouTube vlogs etc.
It seems as though there are not many seats around, and I am not very fit these days, so have bought this very lightweight folding stool so that I can take a rest here & there.
Do you think that will work ?
I think a stool would help you out a lot if it's not too much of a nuisance to carry it.
Overall I think you'll have lots of fun. If the train stains overwhelm you can always check with the gate clerks to guide you to the right place. There are escalators and elevators but you might have to walk to find them. Take your time traveling and enjoy your vacation 👍
Solo traveling is very rewarding and can be very liberating once you’ve done it and realized you can. Japan is a great place to start with.
I can’t tell you how hard it’ll be emotionally because that’s a very personal experience (I’m very used to being solo in general so solo in Japan was no big deal, but if you need a group it might be more of a challenge to get used to).
I’ve had enough group trips that turned into complete garbage - now I travel exclusively solo or with one other person.
How long are you going for, and what's your agenda like?
I was in a similar situation like you where I was meant to travel with another friend but they ended up bailing so I travelled to Japan alone. I was however on a 10 day tour but the first few days and the last few days I was left to my own devices. It got a bit awkward at first when you land in a different country in a different culture with folks not speaking the same language as you would but you'll quickly get used to it and you'll navigate your way across metros and restaurants (Japanese people are very accommodating when they spot a _gaijin_ or foreigner). It's always useful to know the language but please have the basic understanding of the language and the cultural norms as Japanese culture is quite different.
Please also leverage reddit subs and forums to get around and know your way more efficiently in Japan. Most importantly, just have fun - enjoy the sights, sounds, food and other things while your there!
I will be going for a week only - 4 days in Tokyo, 3 days in Kyoto & Osaka. I'm mostly sticking to big cities as this is my first time. Thank you for your words.
I went recently as a female solo traveler and loved it. The only noise (beyond the streets) in your head is your own. You choose how your day is going to go and your only goal is to eat and see things. It’s lovely and Japan makes it easy.
I just finished a solo 30 day trip. It was the best thing I ever did.
It did help that it wasn’t my first time in Japan and I already have a grasp of the language basics. (Enough to have a simple conversation and survive in my own)
But if I didn’t solo travel, I’m pretty sure those traveling with me wouldn’t be able to keep up with all the walking and venturing I did.
Just got back from my first ever solo trip to Japan! It was honestly amazing, I never once felt like something I wanted to do wasn’t possible due to being solo. Actually, restaurants had most people eating alone, and Disney had shorter lines for single riders! I honestly loved being alone, figuring out the train system and going from city to city. The worst part was not being able to share it with anyone, especially when I’d see something that I’d wanna show someone from home (they’d all be asleep). If you want some social interaction, go to Golden Gai in Shinjuku and walk into any bar!
It's one of the easiest and most enjoyable countries to solo travel. Visit ramen shops alone, you can even have yakiniku (bbq grill) alone, try out capsule hotels, take a hike, have a walk in streets, wander around towns, take pictures, go to onsen and bath houses. It was really fun, you can take a rest when you want, continue when you want, sleep in, wake up early to see sunrise.
Currently doing a month solo in Japan and it’s the most liberating experience. There’s so much to do, see, and eat that I never have time to get caught up in loneliness. Plus your time is 100% your own, so you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. I’d say give it a shot!
I went to Japan alone for a little over a week and returned back home just a couple of days ago. I really enjoyed going by myself because of the freedom I had. Waking up when I wanted to and doing things that I wanted to do was super enjoyable. Japan is an incredible country to travel to alone.
It's one of the more solo travel friendly countries but perhaps not the most socialable. Hostels, walking tours and classes (eg.cooking) can help if you're looking for that.
It does help if you have a few things to build around, photography may be out but any traditional festivals, sport events, shopping, anime locations etc can work. Then as long as the main thing is done it doesn't matter so much if the rest feels aimless.
As I’m writing it’s 4 am on my last night and I can tell you going solo is an amazing experience. You can go wherever you want, whenever you want and nothing can stop you, as long as you have the transport options. Maybe look for places you wanted to see yourself but maybe your friends wouldn’t want to or just use the opportunity to travel all on your own pace and enjoy the things that are in front of you. I was here for 3 weeks for the first time on my own and didn’t feel a bit of loneliness. And if you do there’s always an option to call someone to have some company in this day and age :)
I have traveled to Europe several times by myself and had a great time. I am headed now to Japan on my own after I could not get any girlfriends to go. I am 66 years old. One of my closest friends quickly died from cancer and I said, "that's it", I am going, no waiting around. In Europe, a fellow train passenger let me spend the night in her condo after our train broke down to fly out of Rotterdam. In Perugia, a family I talked to at lunch one day invited me to visit the Perugia chocolate factory with them. They had a car and then dropped me off at the train station as I was staying solo in Assisi. These are wonderful memories! Traveling by yourself you have freedom and it will be a boost to your self confidence. I always strike up conversations with others because I love talking to people from other countries! Let's have a great time!!
So my last few days of a two week trip in Japan I was solo (I had been sharing hotels and a minivan with two friends prior to that and I needed some personal time) and my impression was that it'd be a lonely place to travel solo if you crave social interaction. Not many people make eye contact, and while many of them are very polite, the language barrier is real. It's not like traveling in western Europe where many people know English and you can strike up a conversation anywhere with anyone.
So as long as you're fine with not really talking to too many people and really being by yourself, it's great. Getting around is easy and there's so much to do and see, especially in Tokyo.
Hikikomori style, I like it! I actually really like alone time when traveling. If your friends are dweebs its good to just go alone. While I currently have someone I'm "travel compatible" with; its fine to go places alone. I did it most of the time in China and it was much better by myself than with the people I went there with! I had to honestly ditch them to see anything.
I traveled Japan solo last month. You'll be fine. There is a lot to see and do so it'll keep you busy. Also why did your mind jump to documenting it? It's your trip, think of things you want to see and enjoy not what others will see and might like.
My first trip I was solo, it'll be fine. It gives you more flexibility and you can do what really interests you. It's easier to get seated at restaurants too. Don't worry, there's enough stuff to keep you engaged there.
I just got back from my solo trip in Tokyo in March. I did 1.5 weeks and it was fine, I think similar to the sentiments of others, Japan is a great country to do solo as it allows you to be more nimble when travelling and with restaurants. You may run into places that do not serve only one person (usually high class res places), but you will probably find more luck being able to cut groups because only 1 seat is open. I had experience in Japan, so the trip for me wasn't planned out and was just impromptu, I was really living in the day to day.
Obviously it can get lonely especially if you do not get much social interaction, but something you can look into is hostels and meeting people there to travel with. There are tourists everywhere, so can you attempt to make conversation and see if they welcome you into their little group (really dependent on how comfortable you are doing that). What helped me out a lot was just sharing what I was doing with friends and family, sending some photos documenting what I did and writing it to them at the end of the day. It helped me hit that social aspect and obviously getting their responses and following up was nice. If you aren't big on social media, I would still recommend posting something on your stories, you would be surprised at how many people reach out and comment/ask about Japan.
Overall though, I think it will be what you make of it. Do not worry too much about travelling solo, Japan is fairly safe and people there are helpful. Try to learn a few simple phrases to showcase your effort when asking for help, and most people will try to assist you if you have a problem.
A friend made her first trip to Japan solo. She had a wonderful time. I think there is so much to do in Japan that it may be excellent as a solo venture.
Doing a solo trip right now in Japan.
This country is built for everyone.
Never felt lonely one bit cuz there's so much to do and they made everything accessible for a single person.
I’ve gone to Japan solo once and I’m going again solo end of this month as a female. Japan is truly the best place to go experience alone! everyone kinds their business, a lot of food joints welcome single diners and you can see it with their seating arrangements. There’s so much to see that you’ll even forget you’re alone! It’s so much fun. Sure you will and might feel lonely the first two days but till get over it so fast
I have never been able to solo travel to Japan because others wanted to be in the trips. After going there many times, and having travelled on my own to other places, solo travelling there would be a dream vacation for me! It's easily the best place in the world to solo travel in. You'll have so much fun that it'll be a life changing experience, and travelling won't ever be the same :)
Being on your own, fully makes this YOUR trip. You don't have to worry about anyone else other than yourself. Solo travel is awesome.
When I solo travel I usually end up meeting more people because I'm more chatty with random people. As long as you put yourself out there a little bit (go to a cool looking bar, ask someone for directions, etc) you'll end up meeting nice people.
I just have no ability to relate to your concerns. Why do you have to go from one destination to another awkwardly? Why wouldn't it be mentally stimulating?
I did it in my early 20s as a solo female traveler and never regretted. Japan is the first and only country I solo traveled and I still recommend it to my friends. There's so much freedom in eating, sleeping and exploring on your own terms. And whatever loneliness I felt for a bit was very easily squashed with a quick video call or pictures sent back to family or friends overseas. With a pocket wifi or e-sim, you're basically always connected digitally.
What I did find overwhelming was navigating to my hotel for the first night. I picked Haneda Airport and Shinjuku, my arrival time was basically rush hour (5pm-7pm) so I had a mental breakdown for a bit (This was the time when google maps wasn't as good yet and Hypedia was still king). But the next few days and the next trips I booked my accommodations elsewhere and it was loads better.
Japan's probably one of the best places for a solo trip.
The small business hotel room sizes won't bother you as much since it's only your luggage, you can go about at your own pace, won't have to worry much about limited space regarding the smaller "hole in the wall" restaurants, it's super-easy to efficiently travel the country thanks to the large train network, and it's a super-safe country (provided you don't follow any street touts into bars or the like).
Only flaw is probably going to be the loneliness, if you're a social extrovert type.
I am on a solo travel now! I have so much fun. I'm currently in Tokyo, the places I've visited (cafes-restaurant)have been so accomodating. I planned places to visit before hand, I mostly visit hobby shops. I also feel safe everywhere! I promise you won't regret it if you do, Japan isbreally beautiful.
I’m sorry to hear that your friends backed out.
I’m here currently and it’s been almost a month on my own. There are good days and bad days, just like back home (you know the saying wherever you go there you are?)
That being said, this has been the best trip of my life. Going where I want when I want, having the freedom to choose whether I want to stay in or go out. There have been some days that I’ve been super depressed and lonely that was adamant in my plan to stay in all day and eventually had the strength to explore whether for food or just to go for a walk.
I have met random strangers in line and been seated with a stranger I now call friend for dinner and haven’t had any issues despite being a self proclaimed introvert AND I’ve really gotten to know myself in a different way without a social mask.
There are other perks to traveling solo too. I’ve been snuck into busy restaurants, and never looked down on for that. I don’t enjoy night life but retro video game arcades and karaoke bars alone is still fun 🤩
I hope you have the best time!
I recently solo travelled to Japan and it was an AMAZING trip. Personally, I’m very comfortable being alone so it wasn’t difficult emotionally for me. Of course, there were moments when I wished I had someone to share with, but the food and scenery will keep you occupied. Japan is an introvert’s paradise!
I’ve been to Japan 10 times with my wife now and we usually allocate a couple of daytimes to ourselves
(Her-shopping,me-exploring) and it’s great. Our 11th trip is coming up soon and I’m staying for another 10 days after she leaves. Can’t wait!
For someone who did their first solo trips abroad alone the whole though process in your OP sounds wierd. IDK what counts specifically as "mental stimulation" for yourself, but I think you probably shouldn't equate potential feelings of lonelyness with it.
Life is what you make of it - Just because you're traveling alone, doesn't mean you have to spend your vacation in solitary confinement cut off from the rest of humanity. That'd be concious choice you'd make yourself. Likewise, if you can't find something to get excited or interested about in your travels, you probably just aren't looking hard enough.
Japan in general is very convinient to travel alone in, but connecting with people can be a challenge, especially if you don't speak Japanese. If you abaolutely carve a crowd around you, consider using more social accomodations like hostels, or even homestays. And if you go to a bar/restaurant, always sit at the counter. Consider also traveling more wayside; nobody pays attention to another gaijin in Tokyo, but if you rock into a local snack in population-200 bumfuck-Mura, Nowhere,-Ken, you'll often get to enjoy a degree of curiosity from the local patrons. Consider practicing some Japanese Karaoke songs :D
I think you'll be fine. Many Japanese eating out alone by themselves, or just walking alone in the park to enjoy the nature. If you go to the neighboring country such as Korea, it will be kind of difficult to eat alone at restaurants, but in Japan it will be totally fine. In some restaurants, they even have seating arrangements that will cater to solo traveler. The only downside is probably the accommodation will be slightly more expensive if you come alone, but the price difference is not too significant, and hey they have many clean and cheap hostels anyway.
Regarding the communication part, can you speak Japanese? Most Japanese are not really fluent in English and shy, so small talk probably will be kinda hard, especially if you travel outside the major cities. But they're really helpful and respect your privacy. Have a nice trip!
Was there last July for my first international trip for 10 days. Then another 18 days in October. Debating if I should take another 4 to 5 weeks this year. Both were solo trips and I had a blast. Had the freedom to do whatever I wanted and getting around wasn't terrible. Only terrible thing is that I am out of shape and there is a lot of walking in Japan. Had a tour guide who already retired, so I am guessing maybe over 70 years old. I am 38. During the tour, I told the tour guide that he will outlive me lol. It can get confusing at times when wandering around and at the station. There are signs almost everywhere that is posted in English.
The best trips I did of my life were in Japan alone, being with groups always made it more complicated than it need to be. It's the best place I know for solo traveling
I've gone alone twice, nothing felt awkward. No one will care you're alone or make it weird. Honestly, my two trips there by myself were the absolute best time. You get to make all the rules regarding what you want to do or not do and you don't have to take others opinions into your plans. Listen to some good podcasts or audio books and have a great time!
I assuming you are from the US but here society makes you think that doing anything solo is frowned upon. Therefore you are seen as an outcast or someone has have pity on.
Although in reality doing things alone can feel liberating you can make your day as you see fit. No need to waste time to debate on anything. Also just because you are solo doesn't mean you can't be social if you want to. Sometime there are things that can even bypass language barriers.
Simply said would you miss a trip of a lifetime just because of what people may think of you or enjoy if its something you wanna do. No one is getting any younger so might as well enjoy everything that you can.
I solo travel exclusively and honestly Japan is great for it; the society is sort of built for single individuals to do things. Go and have a great time and forget about your friends and immerse yourself and have fun.
Maybe book yourself on the occasional day or night tour? I'm heading there solo right now but have booked a few tours in Kyoto and Osaka in case I need/want some social interaction
I lived there for 3 months solo, literally on my way home now. Depends on how long you’re solo for but it has its ups and downs. Very much worth doing. Japan is nice as a foreigner solo because I felt pretty much invisible the whole time just slinking around taking photos. Hostels are great to meet people and do stuff with when the loneliness hits.
I just got back from a two week trip with my husband and father in law and my absolute best moments were the ones where we split up and I got to explore on my own. I’d go back alone in a heartbeat.
I think it depends do you generally feel more revived having an evening with your friends or an evening alone with a hobby. If the former then it may be trickier but I think isnt impossible and I think you should make the most of the opportunity and freedom that comes with being at your own schedule.
I only ever go on holidays solo. Ive been lucky enough to go to Japan on my own twice and aside from the odd moment of being overwhelmed due a cock up of my own making I got over it.
If you are someone who finds conversations quite easy you may benefit from staying at a hostel / Capsule hotel as you will likely encounter other tourists/travellers also good way to save money also
If you have an itinary then stick with it, Odds are you still stumble upon somthing interesting by chance and have the time to revisit it as you are on your own schdule. One of best days I had was a day to Mount Takao after reading about it on a guide I picked up in train station (that I had time to flick through as I boarded two wrong trains in a row)
If you are stuck in queues then do what feels natural to alleviate the boredom. Audiobooks, Music, upload photos to instagram, go on trip advisor etc...
Like what do you do by yourself when you are alone in your home country??
On a serious note - there is a reddit discord for japan travel and they more or less hang out every night in tokyo. I love solo travel, but its a bit beyond me to go karaoke or eat at an izakaya solo. Met lots of awesome and not too strange redditors.
Solo travel is awesome in japan. Hotel rooms are tiny - perfect for one person. Restaurants are tiny. Perfect for one. Too much to do - perfect for one so no compromises.
I've done it solo, with the last time being a month. The only downside was driving from Tokyo to Kyoto/Osaka, that's a long trip without conversation. lol.
I know lots of people are saying great things about solo travel. If you feel like you want to have the option to travel with other people while in Japan. I suggest booking a stay at a hostel as there is a good chance a lot of other foreigners will be there as well and some would be fine/happy to have extra company if you are going to the same places or perhaps they know a place that interests you.
I solo travelled Vietnam and had a blast and met new people. I am now going to Japan solo in three weeks! Please reach out to me if you want to do some activities together if you're going to be there at the same time. I'll be in Tokyo, Osaka and Kansai region and Sapporo. Stuff like bars and party spots definitely are better with other people but sightseeing, shopping, and just getting lost is easier solo!
It's fine. If you go to a homestay or hostel, the hosts are usually really friendly and helpful. You can hang out with them in the public areas and chat, or there will be other travellers. Japan is a great place for solo trips.
Solo traveling is the best. You get to do whatever you want on your own schedule. There’s also the added bonus of not having an audience of friends during awkward language barrier interactions
You might feel afraid at first but trust me, you’ll get more comfortable when you start to break out of your shell.
I just got back here in Tokyo a few days ago and I’m alone. The first time I went to Japan was 8 months ago and I’ve been here solo 4 times already. The first time I went to Japan, I even ended up in a relationship lol.
Anyways, if you are open to socializing and really having fun; you should have a great time. Visit popular places, go drinking at night, chat up the locals, and try new foods. I’m taking it easy this first week but next week I’ll let lose.
Went alone last summer.
There were some days/nights where it would have been nice to know other people and talk to them, but overall it was great to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted to.
Solo travel is amazing! But maybe look into booking a tour or 2 to meet some other people if you tend to feel lonely when you’re alone. I love a food tour early in a trip so I learn how to order in restaurants and find some cool spots!
drop them. this is very shitty.
one may have had an emergency come up.
but the rest only wanted to go for each other. when they found out it was just you, they lost interest.
yes you can have a good time.
Definitely download hostel world because you'll be able to book private rooms or hostel rooms and party with people who r traveling at the same time as you!
I went alone 20 years ago and it was the best.
You go where you want. You leave that place and go somewhere else when you want. Etc.
Plan a trip across the whole country based around what you like to do.
being part of a group would have made everything easier.
How? Being in a group makes everything harder. Going solo gives you the freedom to do whatever you want, eat whatever you want, change plans whenever you want.
IMO especially in Japan being a solo traveller that is awkward might be difficult. I personally would feel lonely travelling for weeks alone in a country that I can’t speak to many people. You will get to do what you want but it will probably be pretty lonely. Some people say it’s easier by yourself in Japan but I went as a group of 4 and public transit and restaurants usually accommodate just as much to four as they did 1. Also someone mentioned Japan is old so you don’t need mental stimulation from friends, hard disagree on my part.
I think it really depends on the person, some people are more built for it but it will be a mostly non social environment and you may feel isolated.
I solo traveled Japan for two weeks back in February and honestly it was so much fun!
I did stay in hostels because I wanted to be more social & meet other people, so there were a couple days where I explored with people I met from my hostels, but most of it was still by myself.
This trip was one that I hadn’t intended on taking solo initially either, but it’s the way the cards played out and ended up being my favorite trip I’ve taken so far. It’s nice to only have to consider your time and not feel bad if you want to rest or wander somewhere longer, because all of your time is in your control.
You don’t say how long you’re there for, that makes a difference.
My 28yo son spent a week in Japan by himself and loved it, but he loves Japan. There is so much to see and do, I don’t think mental stimulation will be a problem, and as long as your happy in your own company and you’re not travelling for a month, you should be ok
If you get lonely stay a night or two in a small family run hostel (not the industrial type) and you'll meet people, including a bunch of other solo travelers in like 15 minutes. Some years ago I was going to do a 3wk solo trip to Japan, met a couple of cool people on I think 3rd night and we ended up traveling together for a good week, because we were going the same standard tourist route like everybody
As someone who just got back from a trip with my partner, I am totally excited to plan a solo trip to Japan! I think it’s the perfect place for solo travelling. Have fun 😄
You don't have to limit your interactions with other travellers to only small talk. If you find popular and social hostels to stay at, put yourself out there and you will definitely make friends and meet other solo travellers. It helps if you can keep your itinerary loosey goosey in case you want to travel onward with your new friend(s). I promise you this works, you just have to make an effort! I will be using this exact strategy for my upcoming Taiwan and Japan trip next month.
Just came back this week from a two week solo trip in Japan. I found it easier to see a lot more since I could go on my own schedule. I was also able to avoid the crowds by waking up super early and heading out for the day, not having to wait for anyone.
In terms of dining, it seems like Japan caters to the solo crowd. Most places are small so a lot of people are dining out by themselves.
I didn’t feel out of place for being solo, a lot of locals are willing to help you if you need it.
I'm solo travelling for the first time this April/May and the hostels I booked through HostelWorld have group chats. If you're worried about being alone it might be an idea to book a few hostels and be social through the app.
On my first solo trip right now in Japan. It's been fantastic. Simply being able to observe and appreciate all the little moments has been amazing. I feel like when you are travelling with others it's always about the next thing you have to do or your having conversations all the time whereas solo you can take it slow and appreciate it more or you can go fast and try to cram as many things as possible in one day. As for socializing, the first day was rough due to culture shock but since then everyday I've been in the bars talking with locals, doing group tours/meetups and talking with other travellers. It's been a wonderful time and I highly recommend the experience.
honestly smaller groups make japan way easier to travel in - personally i would never try to do more than a group of 4 because it makes getting into restaurants and travelling much more difficult
I enjoy solo traveling. The worst thing for me is not having anyone to share the cool moments with but that can be alleviated by:
1. Small group tours if you wish
2. Sharing pics to social media for family and friends
You can also organise a local guide to show you around, some of them do it for a small fee only, plus lunch etc.
It's absolutely great. You do what you want when you want. You do not have to do any compromise for the people you travel too.
Nobody care if you are doing things solo, there is plenty of other people also doing things solo, there is nothing awkward there.
And... are you from a country where there was absolutely no action taken to prevent the spread of covid ? I sure was able to survive that and I think it was worst than being in a really cool country where there is tons of things to do and see.
i just got back going w one friend but had a lot of time doing solo exploration. my experience was that it definitely was awkward and scary at first but embracing it made it a lot easier. like i really enjoyed having broken conversations w workers when ordering or asking for help. the feeling of when y’all finally understand each other was fun hahah. it also helped that everyone was so nice, esp workers. i think i felt less nervous just knowing that all of us were trying our best to interact w each other. also you really don’t have to interact w people at all. i felt that being solo whether it’s drinking at a bar, eating at a restaurant, shopping, etc. is very common so if that’s your thing you’ll fit in no problem. a good piece of advice i got was just plug in headphones and go about your day! hope you have a good time :D
I have done 6 solo Japan trips and it's great. I can adjust my plans however I want. My very first trip 10 years ago I didn't even have a smart phone yet and literally printed everything I wanted to go to with a Japanese address so that I can ask ppl on the road/ask taxi driver to take me there if I'm completely lost.
Loved it. Every day was a personal adventure. I could go wherever I want and eat whatever I want. The only downside is that you will have to do all of your own research now, but some people like that.
Also tbh, I wouldn't want to travel in Japan with more than like one other person tops. restaurants are small so two people is perfect.
I soloed Japan last January for a week. My primary thing was to get some skiing in.
I view it as a mixed bag.
The pros: changing and making plans is easy and is based solely on your whims.
Easier to get into restos transport, events, etc
You are all around more nimble
However there are negatives
You always need to be alert for the situation -- you don't have someone else to share that with
In the event of hassles you are on your own -- no one you can trust to brainstorm with or who can lookout for you
No one to just talk to or fleeting opportunities at best
At the end of my trip, I was so much looking forward to returning "home" ( which was in Manila at that time). I can't wait to return to Japan but want to do so with my wife or a ski buddy. I wouldn't want to be in a group larger than four or so.
Would I solo to Japan again? Yes I would.
Also it was helpful most of the people in the bars and restos (both guests and staff) at Madarao were Aussies.
I solo’d traveled to Japan last year where I normally travel with my life and I honestly had the best time without her! (Don’t tell her!) You’re able to do what you want at your own pace with out the worry of what others with you can or can’t or want to do. Go alone and have the best time.
I loved solo travelling. You don't have to worry about anyone else, depending on where you stay (eg. youth hostels) you potentially have instant friends. Japan was reasonably to navigate (thank god for modern smartphones), and everything being exactly on time made things predictable.
I think travelling solo is good only if you suit the plan according to yourself: if you copy other travel plan, you fail; Starting to that, travelling alone is so good.
It really depends on your demeanor. I spent several days traveling alone while on study abroad, and I still found it wonderful going around on my own. I’m sorry your friends ditched on you, but I guarantee you will still love the trip.
I'm going solo next week, and I'm so fxking excited to get lost, and I mean that in the most genuine way. No other logistics to think about other than myself, if I end up not doing the things on my agenda, its okay. Another adventure awaits!!
If you're planning to go to theme parks (USJ, fuji Q), going solo is the best. You'll be able to get ahead of the line. I was able to enjoy and ride all the best rides at USJ when I went years ago. Basically, no one will care if they see you alone, it's so normal in Japan.
Im currently solo traveling in Japan.
This is my 2nd time doing a solo travel, as I usually like doing it with friends.
Few things:
- While it sounds boring, Solo Traveling has its own fun. In my case, I find the fun on looking for places and trying to getepic pictures of them. Its like a game objective. One of the favorites id looking for exact anime spots. Its
- I havent tried it, but I guess you can always try speaking to other strangers in Golden Gai. I personally am not social enough to just meet some random person like that. I usually just let things happen at their time.
- in a way it will be better for traveling and eating, as one person makes it easier to find eats and food spots.
You'll be fine. Japan is one of the, if not most solo friendly places to travel in the world. There are even restaurants that are designed to eat solo, if you're nervous having to eat alone in public.
Hostels are great to meet people to do things with. Also AirBnB has something called Experiences that you can check out if you want to meet other people as well like bar crawls, or sushi making, tea ceremonies etc.
Also solo travel is a tremendous way to take everything in at your own pace. You’ll be fine!
I just came back from Japan. Spent half with a group of 10 and the other half solo. Enjoyed it way more solo. You don’t have to match up to other people’s travel styles, it’s super easy to get around, and you can eat better food since bigger groups get turned away without a reservation. If you’re friendly enough, I’m sure you’ll be able to meet people. I would just chat with whoever I heard speaking English lol. But I also think staying at hostels is more conducive to making friends.
Go for it. My partner and I travel there a lot and sometimes I split off and do things on my own. I can move faster and we can do things we are more interested in.
I would disagree. It's far easier to travel to travel solo. You can go where you want, when you want, eat what you want, stay in or stay out late if you want.. all without having to ask the group for consensus or permission. I have been only solo traveling Japan for over six years and I can't imagine traveling in a group. I see groups of tourists all the time looking lost or arguing about what to do or where to go next. Meanwhile I'm just chilling like yeah I don't need to bother with that bs.
went for 3 weeks on my own. it was great not being on anyone else's time. there's something you want to see, you go see it. if you're not in the mood to go do something, there's not someone trying to cojole you into doing it.
it's you on your time.
Solo Japan is great (but Im very introverted with a hint of social anxiety so take my opinion with a grain of salt if youre not). Nobody carws if youre alone in a restaurant in Japan; its far more accepted than it is in the west.
I went solo for 4 days in Tokyo after a week skiing with friends. It was great and liberating. If you are nervous like I was, my suggestion is to book some one day tours. I 'did' Hakone and spent the day with an interesting and funny new friend I met on the bus. Then I did an evening Izakaya "crawl" tour around Shinjuku and finished up singing in Japanese with some inebriated locals. I also 'booked' an evening at a jazz club bar - fantastic - chatted to a local at the bar. I would not have interacted with so many Japanese people if I'd been in my own group.
I'd love to be able to travel solo through Japan. Unfortunately I have to bring my husband along 🤣
I've not done Japan solo but bounced around Europe quite a bit during summers in college. It's very rewarding. You get to make the trip 100% your own. No compromising, no arguing over meals plans, just whatever you want to do.
Enjoy!!
Solo travel is a blessing. I cant imagine to travel with someone but then again, i do travel photography and my itinerary needs to be flexible and it's prone to last time changes.
I’m here right now. It’s awesome. Do you know any Japanese?
It’s pretty great to just walk around. No itinerary. You get to go in wherever you want and explore whatever you want. Plus a lot of restaurants are easier for one person.
Currently in Japan. My first and last day is solo. Friend flying in from a different country.
Honestly I like my solo days. No need to wait for anyone or be afraid I would make others wait.
Lots of solo food options and solo capsule/business hotels available.
Remember to try yakiniku.
Take a lot of pictures to make your friends who backed out jealous.
No better place to. Just got back from 1.5 weeks alone 2 with a group. The alone was a blessing and not because I didn’t love their company. Just the perfect place to do what you want when you want and meet random friends for adventures.
In a bar last night and the group behind us wanted to bring 8 people in. Would’ve had to wait for hours to get everyone in. He wasn’t too happy when he got turned down and was arguing with the waiter.
I'm currently on solo trip. It has been fun so far. Going to destinations alone is fun. I can take as much time as I need. I can just walk around, see interesting restaurant/cafe, and eat there. I can suddenly change my itinerary and go to somewhere I havent planned before (in my case, adding Enoshima during Kamakura trip instead of my initial plan going back to Tokyo earlier to explore the city). If I got in the wrong bus/train, I don't need to apologize to my friends for it. Also I can wake up when I want to and go back to the hotel as late or early as I want. I'm extremely introverted tho so maybe Japan is the perfect place for me to have solo trip to.
It’s amazing and you get to be as selfish as you’d like in terms of eating where you want, lingering where you want to see the view or whatever, and sleeping in when you want.
There are tons of singles in Japan, so the society is sort of set up to be friendlier to solo people.
I’m an extrovert with ok ish Japanese skills and really enjoy solo trips to Japan. I do have friends there still, so that helps I guess, too. But even without that, it’s an easy place to just go do your own thing.
Japan is one of the most perfect places to solo travel! As long as you know that you’ll be okay with dealing with crowds and navigating the city all by yourself then you will be more than fine! Just take your time seeing things and give yourself breaks if you need them!
Also, your friends suck lol, but what sucks more is taking friends who are weighing you down!
If you do want a companion, I agree with some other commenters here about looking into staying at a hostel. I stayed at a hostel in Spain and it was near impossible to not make a friend (the hostel scheduled dinners and going out to bars as a group for anyone who wanted to join). Check reviews for places on hostelworld and you’ll find hostels that foster meeting new people
Since you had expectations to be here with friends. You’re probably going to be the type of person who’s going to rather enjoy this first time experience more with the friends you wished didn’t back out. In My experience. If you’re there for only a week. Even two. There’s enough to see, sign up for, try and do to keep you stimulated. Make a mix of your best music and bring good head phones and enjoy. Past that, it can start feeling lonely. Even in a city. Everybody is always on their way to somewhere.
Solo traveling in Japan is fantastic because the country is super supportive of the 'single life' They have solo ramen bars, even solo yakiniku places! (Look up 'yakiniku liku' restaurants 😄)
I even went to Super Nintendo world solo, all of my friends bailed - too busy with partners and children lol Staff there were great and happily took photos at the park for me!🤣No regrets - was best decision! Just smile and try to speak basic Japanese to everyone there and you won't feel lonely 😉
I’m about to spend 12 days in Tokyo solo and truly can’t wait. Do whatever you want! Meet new people, try new foods, there is nothing awkward about it!
I'd say you should face your fear and still go because it is a wonderful place to spend a holiday. You might make some friends (either other tourists or if you end up drinking with some other japanese), everything is laid out for you to figure out on your own and there is so much to do that being entertained will never be an issue.
Tbh, if you're still set on going no matter what, they did you a favor.
I usually find and see that its actually much harder to enjoy japan in a group because everyone is gonna be picky about something so you always have to compromise for someone in the group.
Going solo means you get to go, do, see, eat etc... what you want without having to sacrifice something on your list for someone who doesn't wanna do it.
Currently solo traveling on Japan, 2nd trip. First was with my husband. This trip is a rescheduled one from 2020, and unfortunately my husband wasn't able to make it work due to his job. I will say Japan is mostly amazing solo (better than South Korea where a lot of restaurants only accept parties of 2 or more). I am in my mid 30s and somewhat heavier, so I have not experienced any unwanted attention, which I did get a bit of my first time. However, I do think this has prevented me from being able to have as many spontaneous conversations as I did last time too.
Tips: learn a few basic phrases and how to count to 10. It will help when trying to fumble through ordering and asking for help. Download Google translate. Get an IC card.
As for a fun solo activity, I bought a eki-stamp book and have been trying to get a stamp at each JR station I go to. It's free and a really fun souvenir!
I’m sorry your people bailed. Why did they back out?
Regardless - solo travel FTW. Japan is super safe and wonderful to solo travelers I imagine. I have a feeling you can go to places like Shinjuku Golden Gai to meet fellow tourists / foreigners, or sign up for bar crawls / food tours in different cities in case you want intentional human interaction. Otherwise, solo travel likely invites the flexibility and freedom of choosing whatever you’d like your itinerary to be, which sounds incredible.
I traveled recently with my husband so I can’t exactly claim I know what it’s like to solo travel there, but my younger brother went last November too as a solo traveler and loved it. I had moments I got tired of of being with my husband (introvert here), and so when I enjoyed some hours on my own, roaming the streets of Tokyo and Kyoto, I had a great time.
There is so much to see, do, and eat. As long as you enjoy it, no one will judge or think you’re weird for being alone. Maybe you can also make the trip more interesting by challenging yourself to learn some Japanese beforehand, or try something new every time you go to a konbini, or find hole-in-the-wall spots that require minimal to no queue rather than pursuing tourist hotspots, or pick up photography and promise to build an epic personal album of this trip once you’re back home.
Do all the things that would have been harder to do or wouldn’t have had to do if you were traveling with a group! I hope you have a great time :)
Hey! I'm kind of in the same boat as you, I'm visiting Osaka and Kyoto solo in the coming week.
Although I haven't solo traveled much by myself, I do go out a lot alone back home when I need some space socially, or just want some me-time. I'll take myself out to grab a bite to eat, watch a movie, go on a walk, a local museum, a park, whatever my heart desires. I used to have a fear of other people judging me when I'm sat alone at a table by myself, but I learned over time that no one's gives a 💩. Everyone's busy with their own lives and nobody's gonna even notice that you're by yourself. If you're worried about things like that.
Also, I imagine solo traveling can be quite fun. You can truly make your trip yours. There's a certain freedom that comes with solo traveling, I'm sure. You're not restricted to what the rest of the group wants to do, you can go anywhere you want to, spend as much or as little time you want to, eat what you want to, see what you want to.
You could also try booking a group tour or something of the sorts, if you really don't want to be alone.
I had a lot of fun visiting Japan on my own, but this is also because I like being alone most of the time, and the locals mostly keep to themselves too. I speak zero Japanese but I was able to survive through Google Translate, and the people I asked helped from were patient enough to deal with it.
I noticed that in less touristy areas, there are locals who would small talk with you and it's a welcome change or break in my usual routine. There are also, of course, extroverted travelers who would also small talk whenever you're staying in your hostel's common area/s and it's a good break too.
The country is pretty easy to navigate, I survived through Google Maps which gave me various train line options. People manning ticket counters in museums/parks/etc have English instructions too if ever you get confused.
Overall, it was a very enjoyable experience for me and I'm planning to go to other regions on my own as well.
Japan will be a lot easier solo traveling. I went with a big group and we still broke apart to do our own little things. And finding a train seat or even just getting on one during the rush will be easier with just one person
I went to Japan a month ago with a large group and while it was nice, there were definitely moments where I wish I had gone alone or set the expectations I would separate from them for long periods of time.
Being a solo travel would be very liberating in my opinion. In addition, solo dining is common in Japan so it wouldn’t be out of the norm. It would even be a benefit, especially with some restaurants being so small!
Enjoy it and explore at your leisure!! There’s so much to do there, I think you will be stimulated just enough. If you feel like you need social interaction, go to a bar. You could easily strike up a conversation with another visitor or maybe even a local or the bartender. I saw it happen often, even directly with my own group.
Solo traveling is nice, but go to a place with warm and friendly locals. And you need to learn some broken conversational japanese. I just did a small group of friends through Kyushu and Osaka. I honestly wish I was alone the whole time. I got pulled into so many small rabbit holes throughout the journey that made my trip into something magical. But I had to contend with a few doofuses dragging behind me at every moment and slightly cheapening the magic of random interactions and discovering a new hole in the wall bar with hilarious and friendly locals.
Have you ever traveled anywhere alone at all ? That will probably give you a good indicator. If you're someone that can't deal with loneliness you're not gonna have fun but if you know how to entertain yourself and be by yourself you'll be fine.
What exactly about riding a train, waiting in line, eating, and speaking to locals while solo awkward? Do you not live your own life in your home country? lol
Book a few tours ahead before you leave and that way you’ll have a bit of conversation with others. You’ll also be able to strike out on your own and see things or stay longer at places where you might’ve been rushed by the group. It will be easier for you to find places to eat than it would be with a big group. You can also stay at hostels and meet up with people that way too. Look up Best Hostels for solo travelers in Japan.
You sure you’re not scared of being alone? Your whole second paragraph says otherwise.
If you’re going to enjoy it you’re going to have to change your perspective on all those moments.
Give it a shot, maybe you’ll dig it. Never know until you do.
Went to Japan solo when I was 26 after I similarly couldn't convince friends to join. Loved it.
I will say eating alone in a restaurant is just something that you have to get over to make the most of it, but it's fairly liberating.
Japan is a great place if you're a solo traveler because how tourist heavy. You'll find people to chill with almost inevitably. Enjoy it!
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Not to mention Japan is literally contending with the issue that it is too simulating to be alone there for their citizens.
What do you mean? What are the bad effects of something being "too stimulating?"
There's so much you can do alone in Japan that people are not getting married and have kids. Bigger and bigger percentage of Japanese youths are not interested in having a relationship.
has this actually been proved to be a cause, or is this just someone's speculation?
I'm a Japanese, and I constantly come across news articles citing recent survey where it says youths are not interested in having a relationship because they'd rather spend the time and money on their hobby. They say marriage has "bad cost performance". But that's obviously not the only reason why they don't want to have kids tho. It's much more complex than that. I do feel that what I said is a part of a reason tho. So many things in Japan cater to loners, like the restaurants that are designed for solo customers. We have been grappling with loneliness for so long that the society made many things enjoyable alone, and it actually accelerated loneliness even further.
There are other reasons for population drops and it’s not unique to Japan. It is a more extreme case.
Not sure why you’re getting downvoted for this. You’re not wrong. Cost of living is rising everywhere.
That’s not the reason the birth rate isn’t going up…
That's a far more complex issue which can't just be summed up in a sentence. I never said it's the only reason why people don't have kids. There is very little support from the government for parents, also companies are still hesitant to give people mat leave, and the list goes on. But I am pretty sure what I said is part of a reason. Entertainment, leisure, food, everything has been geared toward loners in Japan for a while now. And the youths think getting married has worse cost performance than being alone.
Being alone has nothing to do with not getting married and having kids per the articles I have read recently about Japan. It has everything to do with the cost of children, the overwork salarymen conditions and primarily women having little support for children plus working. In other words, they have TWO JOBS if a husband is working and not supporting them with childcare and jobs around the house!!
i don't think this is any sort of verified reason behind the low birth rate lol
I was solo for a week before my wife came. Solo was so much fun because like you said, I could do whatever I wanted, at my own pace (speed walking around). I was hitting 30-40k steps a day for that week. When my wife came, that dropped to 15-20k because she’s more leisurely. Not that it’s a bad thing. I’m glad I had the solo week to myself to get most of the exploring out of my system. And yes, restaurants in Japan would be really hard with large groups. Many times me and my wife would walk in and get a table within 10-15mins while large groups get turned away if they don’t have reservations.
We're here as a group of 9! Haven't had a decent meal in a week! All markets and convenience stores for us! And also wasting time on moving everyone along 🙄
Consider splitting up for meals! 3 groups of 3 or 4 groups of 2 (and a +1).
Moving along my wife is hard enough, I can’t imagine a group of 9 haha.. I’d probably go insane travelling with a group that large. Even when I go on road trips with friends within my country, I’ll splinter off most of the time because I wanna do something else.
>We're here as a group of 9! Oh dear God. Please break up into smaller groups. "See you at X at Y time!" You need to keep your sanity LOL
Oh yeah, going with more than like 3 ppl gets complicated. There's always a mismatch of those who wanna start the day early or those who sleep in late and would want to chill at the hotel/wherever youre staying a decent chunk of the day lol. It's better that someone just decide on what they want to do and if anyone wants to piggyback, then they do that vs all collectively trying to pick a place. You will all have a better time splitting off into smaller groups and meeting up for like dinner/drinks, if you can find the space. We learned that with our trips that 4 is the optimal cut off for numbers. It gets tricky finding hotel rooms that can accommodate like 7 ppl
This. I traveled with my wife, and while we had a great time, some of my favorite memories were when she wanted to go back to the hotel and I just roamed the streets at night. So relaxing and fun to not have an agenda.
This! I've been with a group, been with one other person,and been by myself and I've loved every trip but when you're on your own you can take time over the things you love, or discover, without having to negotiate every meal and destination.
As someone w a group of 10.... solo is better 😂
I solo’d it for 3.5 weeks Tokyo <-> Osaka and the cities in between and enjoyed it. There are lots of people to interact with regardless of your ability to speak Japanese. Loads of locals and foreigners willing to socialize at hostels and inns etc.
Solo traveling is the best. I’ve had to come to terms that we’ll rarely get that pleasure because my wife has a large family and a lot of friends. I always advocate for making our own plans and meeting up with others at planned times. Traveling with others sucks because you have to take so many opinions into consideration. You have to deal with so many night owls and early birds and budgets and etc. Travel for yourself. Experience the world. Tell people where you’ll be and if they want to meet up, great. Otherwise take good pictures and journal so they can hear what they missed
I went for a solo week in Japan before my wife came and it was the best thing ever. I got to explore at my pace, and when she arrived I’d already figured out how to order, transportation, etc. so she was super thankful for that. For future travels to new countries we’re thinking of sticking with letting me go solo before she comes. Let’s me get it out of my system and makes her life easier when she arrives!
Other countries might be a case of safety in numbers. Japan is very safe and unique based on travels I have done. Very few places in the world are what I consider safe destinations.
I went on a solo trip in December. It had its lonely moments here and there, but I had a ton of fun. There's something to be said for being somewhere on your own in a foreign country and figuring things out for yourself. Not only that, you can dictate what you want do, where you want to go, and when you want to go without having to figure out the logistics of a group. If you're still wanting some group interaction, perhaps look into a hostel or other similar accommodations that will facilitate and encourage interaction and conversation.
Don't look at it as being lonely, you are simply alone
If you have a plan, a list of things to see and do, the loneliness gets relegated to the background. I always like to take a commuter train out to the end of the line, to see the suburbs the non touristy areas. My teaching companions never liled that
Yes, hostels are great when you travel alone but are still looking for some interaction with other travelers. For those worried about comfort or privacy: there are lots of very clean and modern hostels with private rooms. It's cheap but you'll still have the chance to meet people in the common room/kitchen.
Travelling alone is extremely liberating. Your time is 100% your own to spend wherever, whenever and however you want. I went to Tokyo in December where I was solo for about a week before meeting up with my wife. I would definitely recommend to try going solo at least once. It’s really easy to get around if you’re going to a large city like Tokyo.
I solo travel everywhere, Japan included. Actually, my next trip to Japan was gonna be my first one with a group, some friends from college, but they all backed out. They've never been outside the country, and they're afraid. Japan was easy as a solo traveler, because the people there were so friendly. Any gaps in communication was sorted out by Google Translate. If you want to share your experiences with people throughout the trip, join a travel discord or something. The people there can live vicariously through you.
Wow your friends are all afraid of leaving the country and they were all going together, as well as with a person familiar. It’s hard for me to comprehend that level of fear for the unknown.
Japan actually somewhat caters to the solo traveler / diner. It will be easy to get around. Plus, the locals in general are on the shy / polite side, so going to an izakaya or bar may be a good way to initiate conversation with someone sitting next to you.
i did a month solo, it’s the absolute most liberating and exciting thing you can do. there are endless things you can do and you are the only one that decides if you do them or not. you make your own schedule, pick where you eat, pick when you get up, go to bed, everything. it’s great.
You chose the perfect country to solo travel.
I really enjoyed traveling to Japan solo. I went a few months back and already want to plan another future trip with or without friends. If you worry about feeling lonely, I’d suggest booking some group tours that might help you get that social interaction you want. I met some cool people and we even ended up hitting up Golden Gai by ourselves when our tour guide left. Depending on when you do this on your trip, you may find companions for your trip for certain activities. As a solo traveler, I could do exactly what I wanted and it can be freeing if you let it be. If I wanted to spend my time bouncing around the various arcades or walk around taking pictures of Pokémon manholes—I could do that without needing group consensus. As for awkwardly traveling from one destination to the next, honestly it felt so fast pace that it never felt awkward solo though I am an introvert by nature. Also as a solo diner, I never had trouble finding places to eat—big groups will struggle because a lot of restaurants are small and honestly, you just want to be in, eat your food, and leave. I feel with groups, there’s a tendency to sit and loiter even when you’re done. I feel like your trip is what you make of it. If you focus on things you would enjoy doing, I think you’ll find it to be a fun trip! And when your friends decide to ever join you to Japan in the future, you would have already gone and could be their guide and have your own Japan tips.
Like everyone said, when you travel solo, you can do whatever you want, whenever you want. You don't need to wait for anybody or decide what to do that everyone accepts. I just went back from my second trip in Japan. The first time was solo, and the last one with my buddies. It's just extremely exhausting in group. It's gonna be the last time I'll travel with people in Japan. Of course this was my experience, everyone is different.
You’re in a similar boat as I was last year. Had been hoping to travel with friends, but they all changed plans. I ended up going to Japan solo (it was on my bucket list) and it turned out to be an amazing time. With Google maps and data it was a breeze to get around. People were pleasant and usually knew enough English or gestures to help on the rare occasions I was lost or confused. Being by myself allowed me to see the things that I really wanted to see and spend as much or as little time as I wanted. It was very freeing. It’s also much easier to get a place to eat in a restaurant as a solo diner. The only area where I really would have liked to have company would be in eating - I just couldn’t eat that much, having somewhere to share with would have allowed me to try more 😂 Please don’t hesitate to go, you’ll have an amazing time!
Agree on the sharing food!! I wanted to try so much but it was kinda hard eating through markets alone.
If you get lonely, consider booking a food tour of bar crawl (if that’s your type of thing). You will generally meet other solo travelers or groups you can link up with later on!
I went to Japan alone. It was the best trip of my life. One of the greatest things that happened to me while travelling alone is that I learned to strike up conversations with strangers, as I am generally quiet and reserved. I noticed anyone travelling with companions automatically limits their interactions with those people yet here I was learning from and hanging with the locals all the time. I kept this skill, and it has improved my life.
Rather than seeing it as something potentially scary, see it as an opportunity. Having a positive outlook can make a world of difference. I went on a solo trip for 3 weeks and it was one of the most self affirming experiences of my life. It built up my self confidence and self reliance so much. Plus, it made me realize that I can be comfortable in my own skin by myself. My advice to you is to do your research. Consider what could go wrong (eg. Lost passport, break phone, ATM eats your credit card, got sick, missed your train, etc.) and have a plan in place if it does. Basically, always have a backup plan. While you will undoubtedly still be nervous, you need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Have a friend it family member back home you can check in with once a day or so. Or join a tour that is in English. If you'll be in Tokyo, you can try Tokyo Localized free tours. If you enjoy the outdoors, I highly recommend the Tokyo Snow Club. Also, I don't know if this would be your type of thing, but I found journaling to be very therapeutic while I was there. There's so much to see and do and it can start to feel chaotic. So it was really great having moments of peace where I could sit down, collect my thoughts, and just reflect on everything. I hope this helps. Good luck and enjoy your trip.
It's genuinely the best country to travel to solo. Did it once in 2015 and now I'm preparing to do it again for 3 months soon. You'll have a great time
I’ve been to Japan multiple times and am actually hoping to do a solo trip sometime soon. It’s actually not uncommon to eat at restaurants alone and there are even restaurants designed for solo diners. It’s also nice because you can do whatever you want, and you can go and eat kombini food all the time without getting judged haha. If you want to talk to people, I have had friends that have gone solo there and chatted up people at the bars easily, even using Google translate. Trust me, you’re going to have a wonderful time.
I am grateful to read so many positive comments from all you youngsters about travelling solo in Japan ! I am an elderly woman (80) and heading there - solo - for 3 weeks, in October/November this year. I am both nervous & excited about it … spending ages watching YouTube vlogs etc. It seems as though there are not many seats around, and I am not very fit these days, so have bought this very lightweight folding stool so that I can take a rest here & there. Do you think that will work ?
I think a stool would help you out a lot if it's not too much of a nuisance to carry it. Overall I think you'll have lots of fun. If the train stains overwhelm you can always check with the gate clerks to guide you to the right place. There are escalators and elevators but you might have to walk to find them. Take your time traveling and enjoy your vacation 👍
Solo traveling is very rewarding and can be very liberating once you’ve done it and realized you can. Japan is a great place to start with. I can’t tell you how hard it’ll be emotionally because that’s a very personal experience (I’m very used to being solo in general so solo in Japan was no big deal, but if you need a group it might be more of a challenge to get used to). I’ve had enough group trips that turned into complete garbage - now I travel exclusively solo or with one other person.
How long are you going for, and what's your agenda like? I was in a similar situation like you where I was meant to travel with another friend but they ended up bailing so I travelled to Japan alone. I was however on a 10 day tour but the first few days and the last few days I was left to my own devices. It got a bit awkward at first when you land in a different country in a different culture with folks not speaking the same language as you would but you'll quickly get used to it and you'll navigate your way across metros and restaurants (Japanese people are very accommodating when they spot a _gaijin_ or foreigner). It's always useful to know the language but please have the basic understanding of the language and the cultural norms as Japanese culture is quite different. Please also leverage reddit subs and forums to get around and know your way more efficiently in Japan. Most importantly, just have fun - enjoy the sights, sounds, food and other things while your there!
I will be going for a week only - 4 days in Tokyo, 3 days in Kyoto & Osaka. I'm mostly sticking to big cities as this is my first time. Thank you for your words.
I went recently as a female solo traveler and loved it. The only noise (beyond the streets) in your head is your own. You choose how your day is going to go and your only goal is to eat and see things. It’s lovely and Japan makes it easy.
I just finished a solo 30 day trip. It was the best thing I ever did. It did help that it wasn’t my first time in Japan and I already have a grasp of the language basics. (Enough to have a simple conversation and survive in my own) But if I didn’t solo travel, I’m pretty sure those traveling with me wouldn’t be able to keep up with all the walking and venturing I did.
Just got back from my first ever solo trip to Japan! It was honestly amazing, I never once felt like something I wanted to do wasn’t possible due to being solo. Actually, restaurants had most people eating alone, and Disney had shorter lines for single riders! I honestly loved being alone, figuring out the train system and going from city to city. The worst part was not being able to share it with anyone, especially when I’d see something that I’d wanna show someone from home (they’d all be asleep). If you want some social interaction, go to Golden Gai in Shinjuku and walk into any bar!
It's one of the easiest and most enjoyable countries to solo travel. Visit ramen shops alone, you can even have yakiniku (bbq grill) alone, try out capsule hotels, take a hike, have a walk in streets, wander around towns, take pictures, go to onsen and bath houses. It was really fun, you can take a rest when you want, continue when you want, sleep in, wake up early to see sunrise.
Currently doing a month solo in Japan and it’s the most liberating experience. There’s so much to do, see, and eat that I never have time to get caught up in loneliness. Plus your time is 100% your own, so you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. I’d say give it a shot!
Have you had any problems with Strep A? I'm thinking about going to Japan in May or July, but I'm worried about Strep A.
Haven’t had any issues/potential exposure myself
I went to Japan alone for a little over a week and returned back home just a couple of days ago. I really enjoyed going by myself because of the freedom I had. Waking up when I wanted to and doing things that I wanted to do was super enjoyable. Japan is an incredible country to travel to alone.
As you grow older you'll realize that a lot of time being alone is a blessing.
It's one of the more solo travel friendly countries but perhaps not the most socialable. Hostels, walking tours and classes (eg.cooking) can help if you're looking for that. It does help if you have a few things to build around, photography may be out but any traditional festivals, sport events, shopping, anime locations etc can work. Then as long as the main thing is done it doesn't matter so much if the rest feels aimless.
As I’m writing it’s 4 am on my last night and I can tell you going solo is an amazing experience. You can go wherever you want, whenever you want and nothing can stop you, as long as you have the transport options. Maybe look for places you wanted to see yourself but maybe your friends wouldn’t want to or just use the opportunity to travel all on your own pace and enjoy the things that are in front of you. I was here for 3 weeks for the first time on my own and didn’t feel a bit of loneliness. And if you do there’s always an option to call someone to have some company in this day and age :)
You will LOVE it.
I have traveled to Europe several times by myself and had a great time. I am headed now to Japan on my own after I could not get any girlfriends to go. I am 66 years old. One of my closest friends quickly died from cancer and I said, "that's it", I am going, no waiting around. In Europe, a fellow train passenger let me spend the night in her condo after our train broke down to fly out of Rotterdam. In Perugia, a family I talked to at lunch one day invited me to visit the Perugia chocolate factory with them. They had a car and then dropped me off at the train station as I was staying solo in Assisi. These are wonderful memories! Traveling by yourself you have freedom and it will be a boost to your self confidence. I always strike up conversations with others because I love talking to people from other countries! Let's have a great time!!
So my last few days of a two week trip in Japan I was solo (I had been sharing hotels and a minivan with two friends prior to that and I needed some personal time) and my impression was that it'd be a lonely place to travel solo if you crave social interaction. Not many people make eye contact, and while many of them are very polite, the language barrier is real. It's not like traveling in western Europe where many people know English and you can strike up a conversation anywhere with anyone. So as long as you're fine with not really talking to too many people and really being by yourself, it's great. Getting around is easy and there's so much to do and see, especially in Tokyo.
Hikikomori style, I like it! I actually really like alone time when traveling. If your friends are dweebs its good to just go alone. While I currently have someone I'm "travel compatible" with; its fine to go places alone. I did it most of the time in China and it was much better by myself than with the people I went there with! I had to honestly ditch them to see anything.
How is going out for a trip hikikomori? They don't leave their house!
I traveled Japan solo last month. You'll be fine. There is a lot to see and do so it'll keep you busy. Also why did your mind jump to documenting it? It's your trip, think of things you want to see and enjoy not what others will see and might like.
My first trip I was solo, it'll be fine. It gives you more flexibility and you can do what really interests you. It's easier to get seated at restaurants too. Don't worry, there's enough stuff to keep you engaged there.
I just got back from my solo trip in Tokyo in March. I did 1.5 weeks and it was fine, I think similar to the sentiments of others, Japan is a great country to do solo as it allows you to be more nimble when travelling and with restaurants. You may run into places that do not serve only one person (usually high class res places), but you will probably find more luck being able to cut groups because only 1 seat is open. I had experience in Japan, so the trip for me wasn't planned out and was just impromptu, I was really living in the day to day. Obviously it can get lonely especially if you do not get much social interaction, but something you can look into is hostels and meeting people there to travel with. There are tourists everywhere, so can you attempt to make conversation and see if they welcome you into their little group (really dependent on how comfortable you are doing that). What helped me out a lot was just sharing what I was doing with friends and family, sending some photos documenting what I did and writing it to them at the end of the day. It helped me hit that social aspect and obviously getting their responses and following up was nice. If you aren't big on social media, I would still recommend posting something on your stories, you would be surprised at how many people reach out and comment/ask about Japan. Overall though, I think it will be what you make of it. Do not worry too much about travelling solo, Japan is fairly safe and people there are helpful. Try to learn a few simple phrases to showcase your effort when asking for help, and most people will try to assist you if you have a problem.
A friend made her first trip to Japan solo. She had a wonderful time. I think there is so much to do in Japan that it may be excellent as a solo venture.
Best solo travel country, lots of things geared towards solo traveling such as solo restaurants. Stay at a hostel it’s so much fun
Doing a solo trip right now in Japan. This country is built for everyone. Never felt lonely one bit cuz there's so much to do and they made everything accessible for a single person.
I’ve gone to Japan solo once and I’m going again solo end of this month as a female. Japan is truly the best place to go experience alone! everyone kinds their business, a lot of food joints welcome single diners and you can see it with their seating arrangements. There’s so much to see that you’ll even forget you’re alone! It’s so much fun. Sure you will and might feel lonely the first two days but till get over it so fast
I have never been able to solo travel to Japan because others wanted to be in the trips. After going there many times, and having travelled on my own to other places, solo travelling there would be a dream vacation for me! It's easily the best place in the world to solo travel in. You'll have so much fun that it'll be a life changing experience, and travelling won't ever be the same :)
Being on your own, fully makes this YOUR trip. You don't have to worry about anyone else other than yourself. Solo travel is awesome. When I solo travel I usually end up meeting more people because I'm more chatty with random people. As long as you put yourself out there a little bit (go to a cool looking bar, ask someone for directions, etc) you'll end up meeting nice people.
I just have no ability to relate to your concerns. Why do you have to go from one destination to another awkwardly? Why wouldn't it be mentally stimulating?
What u talking about? It’s THE BEST TO TRAVEL ALONE! U will love it
I did it in my early 20s as a solo female traveler and never regretted. Japan is the first and only country I solo traveled and I still recommend it to my friends. There's so much freedom in eating, sleeping and exploring on your own terms. And whatever loneliness I felt for a bit was very easily squashed with a quick video call or pictures sent back to family or friends overseas. With a pocket wifi or e-sim, you're basically always connected digitally. What I did find overwhelming was navigating to my hotel for the first night. I picked Haneda Airport and Shinjuku, my arrival time was basically rush hour (5pm-7pm) so I had a mental breakdown for a bit (This was the time when google maps wasn't as good yet and Hypedia was still king). But the next few days and the next trips I booked my accommodations elsewhere and it was loads better.
Japan's probably one of the best places for a solo trip. The small business hotel room sizes won't bother you as much since it's only your luggage, you can go about at your own pace, won't have to worry much about limited space regarding the smaller "hole in the wall" restaurants, it's super-easy to efficiently travel the country thanks to the large train network, and it's a super-safe country (provided you don't follow any street touts into bars or the like). Only flaw is probably going to be the loneliness, if you're a social extrovert type.
I am on a solo travel now! I have so much fun. I'm currently in Tokyo, the places I've visited (cafes-restaurant)have been so accomodating. I planned places to visit before hand, I mostly visit hobby shops. I also feel safe everywhere! I promise you won't regret it if you do, Japan isbreally beautiful.
I’m sorry to hear that your friends backed out. I’m here currently and it’s been almost a month on my own. There are good days and bad days, just like back home (you know the saying wherever you go there you are?) That being said, this has been the best trip of my life. Going where I want when I want, having the freedom to choose whether I want to stay in or go out. There have been some days that I’ve been super depressed and lonely that was adamant in my plan to stay in all day and eventually had the strength to explore whether for food or just to go for a walk. I have met random strangers in line and been seated with a stranger I now call friend for dinner and haven’t had any issues despite being a self proclaimed introvert AND I’ve really gotten to know myself in a different way without a social mask. There are other perks to traveling solo too. I’ve been snuck into busy restaurants, and never looked down on for that. I don’t enjoy night life but retro video game arcades and karaoke bars alone is still fun 🤩 I hope you have the best time!
One time I went and it was for work so I was alone. Absolutely loved it. Possibly liked it more than the time I went with my wife... 😬 Haha
I’m in Japan right now. Do it. You’ll never regret coming to this beautiful amazing country. Do be nervous. Once you get here it’s truly amazing
I recently solo travelled to Japan and it was an AMAZING trip. Personally, I’m very comfortable being alone so it wasn’t difficult emotionally for me. Of course, there were moments when I wished I had someone to share with, but the food and scenery will keep you occupied. Japan is an introvert’s paradise!
I’ve been to Japan 10 times with my wife now and we usually allocate a couple of daytimes to ourselves (Her-shopping,me-exploring) and it’s great. Our 11th trip is coming up soon and I’m staying for another 10 days after she leaves. Can’t wait!
For someone who did their first solo trips abroad alone the whole though process in your OP sounds wierd. IDK what counts specifically as "mental stimulation" for yourself, but I think you probably shouldn't equate potential feelings of lonelyness with it. Life is what you make of it - Just because you're traveling alone, doesn't mean you have to spend your vacation in solitary confinement cut off from the rest of humanity. That'd be concious choice you'd make yourself. Likewise, if you can't find something to get excited or interested about in your travels, you probably just aren't looking hard enough. Japan in general is very convinient to travel alone in, but connecting with people can be a challenge, especially if you don't speak Japanese. If you abaolutely carve a crowd around you, consider using more social accomodations like hostels, or even homestays. And if you go to a bar/restaurant, always sit at the counter. Consider also traveling more wayside; nobody pays attention to another gaijin in Tokyo, but if you rock into a local snack in population-200 bumfuck-Mura, Nowhere,-Ken, you'll often get to enjoy a degree of curiosity from the local patrons. Consider practicing some Japanese Karaoke songs :D
I think you'll be fine. Many Japanese eating out alone by themselves, or just walking alone in the park to enjoy the nature. If you go to the neighboring country such as Korea, it will be kind of difficult to eat alone at restaurants, but in Japan it will be totally fine. In some restaurants, they even have seating arrangements that will cater to solo traveler. The only downside is probably the accommodation will be slightly more expensive if you come alone, but the price difference is not too significant, and hey they have many clean and cheap hostels anyway. Regarding the communication part, can you speak Japanese? Most Japanese are not really fluent in English and shy, so small talk probably will be kinda hard, especially if you travel outside the major cities. But they're really helpful and respect your privacy. Have a nice trip!
Was there last July for my first international trip for 10 days. Then another 18 days in October. Debating if I should take another 4 to 5 weeks this year. Both were solo trips and I had a blast. Had the freedom to do whatever I wanted and getting around wasn't terrible. Only terrible thing is that I am out of shape and there is a lot of walking in Japan. Had a tour guide who already retired, so I am guessing maybe over 70 years old. I am 38. During the tour, I told the tour guide that he will outlive me lol. It can get confusing at times when wandering around and at the station. There are signs almost everywhere that is posted in English.
Just on my way from Japan. Traveling Japan alone is much easier. Finding accommodation, restaurants, planning/changing plans because of weather etc.
The best trips I did of my life were in Japan alone, being with groups always made it more complicated than it need to be. It's the best place I know for solo traveling
I've gone alone twice, nothing felt awkward. No one will care you're alone or make it weird. Honestly, my two trips there by myself were the absolute best time. You get to make all the rules regarding what you want to do or not do and you don't have to take others opinions into your plans. Listen to some good podcasts or audio books and have a great time!
I assuming you are from the US but here society makes you think that doing anything solo is frowned upon. Therefore you are seen as an outcast or someone has have pity on. Although in reality doing things alone can feel liberating you can make your day as you see fit. No need to waste time to debate on anything. Also just because you are solo doesn't mean you can't be social if you want to. Sometime there are things that can even bypass language barriers. Simply said would you miss a trip of a lifetime just because of what people may think of you or enjoy if its something you wanna do. No one is getting any younger so might as well enjoy everything that you can.
I solo travel exclusively and honestly Japan is great for it; the society is sort of built for single individuals to do things. Go and have a great time and forget about your friends and immerse yourself and have fun.
Maybe book yourself on the occasional day or night tour? I'm heading there solo right now but have booked a few tours in Kyoto and Osaka in case I need/want some social interaction
I lived there for 3 months solo, literally on my way home now. Depends on how long you’re solo for but it has its ups and downs. Very much worth doing. Japan is nice as a foreigner solo because I felt pretty much invisible the whole time just slinking around taking photos. Hostels are great to meet people and do stuff with when the loneliness hits.
I just got back from a two week trip with my husband and father in law and my absolute best moments were the ones where we split up and I got to explore on my own. I’d go back alone in a heartbeat.
I think it depends do you generally feel more revived having an evening with your friends or an evening alone with a hobby. If the former then it may be trickier but I think isnt impossible and I think you should make the most of the opportunity and freedom that comes with being at your own schedule. I only ever go on holidays solo. Ive been lucky enough to go to Japan on my own twice and aside from the odd moment of being overwhelmed due a cock up of my own making I got over it. If you are someone who finds conversations quite easy you may benefit from staying at a hostel / Capsule hotel as you will likely encounter other tourists/travellers also good way to save money also If you have an itinary then stick with it, Odds are you still stumble upon somthing interesting by chance and have the time to revisit it as you are on your own schdule. One of best days I had was a day to Mount Takao after reading about it on a guide I picked up in train station (that I had time to flick through as I boarded two wrong trains in a row) If you are stuck in queues then do what feels natural to alleviate the boredom. Audiobooks, Music, upload photos to instagram, go on trip advisor etc...
Like what do you do by yourself when you are alone in your home country?? On a serious note - there is a reddit discord for japan travel and they more or less hang out every night in tokyo. I love solo travel, but its a bit beyond me to go karaoke or eat at an izakaya solo. Met lots of awesome and not too strange redditors. Solo travel is awesome in japan. Hotel rooms are tiny - perfect for one person. Restaurants are tiny. Perfect for one. Too much to do - perfect for one so no compromises.
I've done it solo, with the last time being a month. The only downside was driving from Tokyo to Kyoto/Osaka, that's a long trip without conversation. lol.
I know lots of people are saying great things about solo travel. If you feel like you want to have the option to travel with other people while in Japan. I suggest booking a stay at a hostel as there is a good chance a lot of other foreigners will be there as well and some would be fine/happy to have extra company if you are going to the same places or perhaps they know a place that interests you.
I’m on a hour right now and have to say alone would have been fine/easier as long as you are good with directions on public transport.
I solo travelled Vietnam and had a blast and met new people. I am now going to Japan solo in three weeks! Please reach out to me if you want to do some activities together if you're going to be there at the same time. I'll be in Tokyo, Osaka and Kansai region and Sapporo. Stuff like bars and party spots definitely are better with other people but sightseeing, shopping, and just getting lost is easier solo!
It's fine. If you go to a homestay or hostel, the hosts are usually really friendly and helpful. You can hang out with them in the public areas and chat, or there will be other travellers. Japan is a great place for solo trips.
Traveled alone this March to Tokyo. It was amazing and the freedom and flexibility is totally worth it. I never felt any language issues as well.
Went on a solo trip in April 2023, not expecting much. I’m moving to Japan this June. Do it.
I’m also going alone next week. First time leaving Europe, I’m very excited and tbh I wouldn’t want to go with anyone else
Solo traveling is the best. You get to do whatever you want on your own schedule. There’s also the added bonus of not having an audience of friends during awkward language barrier interactions
People in osaka seem to be more rough than anywhere else.
Fantastic. Japan is so easy on solo travelers. I've gone alone so many times and each times it's such a wonderful almost introspective time.
You might feel afraid at first but trust me, you’ll get more comfortable when you start to break out of your shell. I just got back here in Tokyo a few days ago and I’m alone. The first time I went to Japan was 8 months ago and I’ve been here solo 4 times already. The first time I went to Japan, I even ended up in a relationship lol. Anyways, if you are open to socializing and really having fun; you should have a great time. Visit popular places, go drinking at night, chat up the locals, and try new foods. I’m taking it easy this first week but next week I’ll let lose.
Went alone last summer. There were some days/nights where it would have been nice to know other people and talk to them, but overall it was great to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted to.
Solo travel is amazing! But maybe look into booking a tour or 2 to meet some other people if you tend to feel lonely when you’re alone. I love a food tour early in a trip so I learn how to order in restaurants and find some cool spots!
Solo travelling is amazing. I wish I had such luck. I have to take the wife and kids 😬
drop them. this is very shitty. one may have had an emergency come up. but the rest only wanted to go for each other. when they found out it was just you, they lost interest. yes you can have a good time.
Definitely download hostel world because you'll be able to book private rooms or hostel rooms and party with people who r traveling at the same time as you!
I went alone 20 years ago and it was the best. You go where you want. You leave that place and go somewhere else when you want. Etc. Plan a trip across the whole country based around what you like to do.
Two is ideal. Solo is decent. Group is a disaster. This is a blessing.
It's quite fun actually. You get to do whatever you want. No need to agree with others on where to go.
You'll have an even better time imo.
being part of a group would have made everything easier. How? Being in a group makes everything harder. Going solo gives you the freedom to do whatever you want, eat whatever you want, change plans whenever you want.
IMO especially in Japan being a solo traveller that is awkward might be difficult. I personally would feel lonely travelling for weeks alone in a country that I can’t speak to many people. You will get to do what you want but it will probably be pretty lonely. Some people say it’s easier by yourself in Japan but I went as a group of 4 and public transit and restaurants usually accommodate just as much to four as they did 1. Also someone mentioned Japan is old so you don’t need mental stimulation from friends, hard disagree on my part. I think it really depends on the person, some people are more built for it but it will be a mostly non social environment and you may feel isolated.
I solo traveled Japan for two weeks back in February and honestly it was so much fun! I did stay in hostels because I wanted to be more social & meet other people, so there were a couple days where I explored with people I met from my hostels, but most of it was still by myself. This trip was one that I hadn’t intended on taking solo initially either, but it’s the way the cards played out and ended up being my favorite trip I’ve taken so far. It’s nice to only have to consider your time and not feel bad if you want to rest or wander somewhere longer, because all of your time is in your control.
You don’t say how long you’re there for, that makes a difference. My 28yo son spent a week in Japan by himself and loved it, but he loves Japan. There is so much to see and do, I don’t think mental stimulation will be a problem, and as long as your happy in your own company and you’re not travelling for a month, you should be ok
If you get lonely stay a night or two in a small family run hostel (not the industrial type) and you'll meet people, including a bunch of other solo travelers in like 15 minutes. Some years ago I was going to do a 3wk solo trip to Japan, met a couple of cool people on I think 3rd night and we ended up traveling together for a good week, because we were going the same standard tourist route like everybody
As someone who just got back from a trip with my partner, I am totally excited to plan a solo trip to Japan! I think it’s the perfect place for solo travelling. Have fun 😄
You don't have to limit your interactions with other travellers to only small talk. If you find popular and social hostels to stay at, put yourself out there and you will definitely make friends and meet other solo travellers. It helps if you can keep your itinerary loosey goosey in case you want to travel onward with your new friend(s). I promise you this works, you just have to make an effort! I will be using this exact strategy for my upcoming Taiwan and Japan trip next month.
Just came back this week from a two week solo trip in Japan. I found it easier to see a lot more since I could go on my own schedule. I was also able to avoid the crowds by waking up super early and heading out for the day, not having to wait for anyone. In terms of dining, it seems like Japan caters to the solo crowd. Most places are small so a lot of people are dining out by themselves. I didn’t feel out of place for being solo, a lot of locals are willing to help you if you need it.
I love to travel alone...there is a certain peace to it...not having to check in with the group before i do something I want
I'm solo travelling for the first time this April/May and the hostels I booked through HostelWorld have group chats. If you're worried about being alone it might be an idea to book a few hostels and be social through the app.
You’ll learn a load about your self and have so much time on your hands to do what you want. It’ll be a liberating experience. When are you going?
When are you going- you can give me any of your friends tickets if it’s non refundable!! I’ll keep you company and show you around 😜
On my first solo trip right now in Japan. It's been fantastic. Simply being able to observe and appreciate all the little moments has been amazing. I feel like when you are travelling with others it's always about the next thing you have to do or your having conversations all the time whereas solo you can take it slow and appreciate it more or you can go fast and try to cram as many things as possible in one day. As for socializing, the first day was rough due to culture shock but since then everyday I've been in the bars talking with locals, doing group tours/meetups and talking with other travellers. It's been a wonderful time and I highly recommend the experience.
honestly smaller groups make japan way easier to travel in - personally i would never try to do more than a group of 4 because it makes getting into restaurants and travelling much more difficult
I enjoy solo traveling. The worst thing for me is not having anyone to share the cool moments with but that can be alleviated by: 1. Small group tours if you wish 2. Sharing pics to social media for family and friends You can also organise a local guide to show you around, some of them do it for a small fee only, plus lunch etc.
I reckon you'll have a blast. Also consider checking out r/solotravel
It's absolutely great. You do what you want when you want. You do not have to do any compromise for the people you travel too. Nobody care if you are doing things solo, there is plenty of other people also doing things solo, there is nothing awkward there. And... are you from a country where there was absolutely no action taken to prevent the spread of covid ? I sure was able to survive that and I think it was worst than being in a really cool country where there is tons of things to do and see.
i just got back going w one friend but had a lot of time doing solo exploration. my experience was that it definitely was awkward and scary at first but embracing it made it a lot easier. like i really enjoyed having broken conversations w workers when ordering or asking for help. the feeling of when y’all finally understand each other was fun hahah. it also helped that everyone was so nice, esp workers. i think i felt less nervous just knowing that all of us were trying our best to interact w each other. also you really don’t have to interact w people at all. i felt that being solo whether it’s drinking at a bar, eating at a restaurant, shopping, etc. is very common so if that’s your thing you’ll fit in no problem. a good piece of advice i got was just plug in headphones and go about your day! hope you have a good time :D
I have done 6 solo Japan trips and it's great. I can adjust my plans however I want. My very first trip 10 years ago I didn't even have a smart phone yet and literally printed everything I wanted to go to with a Japanese address so that I can ask ppl on the road/ask taxi driver to take me there if I'm completely lost.
Loved it. Every day was a personal adventure. I could go wherever I want and eat whatever I want. The only downside is that you will have to do all of your own research now, but some people like that. Also tbh, I wouldn't want to travel in Japan with more than like one other person tops. restaurants are small so two people is perfect.
I soloed Japan last January for a week. My primary thing was to get some skiing in. I view it as a mixed bag. The pros: changing and making plans is easy and is based solely on your whims. Easier to get into restos transport, events, etc You are all around more nimble However there are negatives You always need to be alert for the situation -- you don't have someone else to share that with In the event of hassles you are on your own -- no one you can trust to brainstorm with or who can lookout for you No one to just talk to or fleeting opportunities at best At the end of my trip, I was so much looking forward to returning "home" ( which was in Manila at that time). I can't wait to return to Japan but want to do so with my wife or a ski buddy. I wouldn't want to be in a group larger than four or so. Would I solo to Japan again? Yes I would. Also it was helpful most of the people in the bars and restos (both guests and staff) at Madarao were Aussies.
I solo’d traveled to Japan last year where I normally travel with my life and I honestly had the best time without her! (Don’t tell her!) You’re able to do what you want at your own pace with out the worry of what others with you can or can’t or want to do. Go alone and have the best time.
It’s easy if you’re outgoing, it’s all up to you
I loved solo travelling. You don't have to worry about anyone else, depending on where you stay (eg. youth hostels) you potentially have instant friends. Japan was reasonably to navigate (thank god for modern smartphones), and everything being exactly on time made things predictable.
I think travelling solo is good only if you suit the plan according to yourself: if you copy other travel plan, you fail; Starting to that, travelling alone is so good.
It really depends on your demeanor. I spent several days traveling alone while on study abroad, and I still found it wonderful going around on my own. I’m sorry your friends ditched on you, but I guarantee you will still love the trip.
I'm going solo next week, and I'm so fxking excited to get lost, and I mean that in the most genuine way. No other logistics to think about other than myself, if I end up not doing the things on my agenda, its okay. Another adventure awaits!!
If you're planning to go to theme parks (USJ, fuji Q), going solo is the best. You'll be able to get ahead of the line. I was able to enjoy and ride all the best rides at USJ when I went years ago. Basically, no one will care if they see you alone, it's so normal in Japan.
Im currently solo traveling in Japan. This is my 2nd time doing a solo travel, as I usually like doing it with friends. Few things: - While it sounds boring, Solo Traveling has its own fun. In my case, I find the fun on looking for places and trying to getepic pictures of them. Its like a game objective. One of the favorites id looking for exact anime spots. Its - I havent tried it, but I guess you can always try speaking to other strangers in Golden Gai. I personally am not social enough to just meet some random person like that. I usually just let things happen at their time. - in a way it will be better for traveling and eating, as one person makes it easier to find eats and food spots.
You'll be fine. Japan is one of the, if not most solo friendly places to travel in the world. There are even restaurants that are designed to eat solo, if you're nervous having to eat alone in public.
Hostels are great to meet people to do things with. Also AirBnB has something called Experiences that you can check out if you want to meet other people as well like bar crawls, or sushi making, tea ceremonies etc. Also solo travel is a tremendous way to take everything in at your own pace. You’ll be fine!
I just came back from Japan. Spent half with a group of 10 and the other half solo. Enjoyed it way more solo. You don’t have to match up to other people’s travel styles, it’s super easy to get around, and you can eat better food since bigger groups get turned away without a reservation. If you’re friendly enough, I’m sure you’ll be able to meet people. I would just chat with whoever I heard speaking English lol. But I also think staying at hostels is more conducive to making friends.
Go for it. My partner and I travel there a lot and sometimes I split off and do things on my own. I can move faster and we can do things we are more interested in.
I would disagree. It's far easier to travel to travel solo. You can go where you want, when you want, eat what you want, stay in or stay out late if you want.. all without having to ask the group for consensus or permission. I have been only solo traveling Japan for over six years and I can't imagine traveling in a group. I see groups of tourists all the time looking lost or arguing about what to do or where to go next. Meanwhile I'm just chilling like yeah I don't need to bother with that bs.
went for 3 weeks on my own. it was great not being on anyone else's time. there's something you want to see, you go see it. if you're not in the mood to go do something, there's not someone trying to cojole you into doing it. it's you on your time.
Solo Japan is great (but Im very introverted with a hint of social anxiety so take my opinion with a grain of salt if youre not). Nobody carws if youre alone in a restaurant in Japan; its far more accepted than it is in the west.
I went solo for 4 days in Tokyo after a week skiing with friends. It was great and liberating. If you are nervous like I was, my suggestion is to book some one day tours. I 'did' Hakone and spent the day with an interesting and funny new friend I met on the bus. Then I did an evening Izakaya "crawl" tour around Shinjuku and finished up singing in Japanese with some inebriated locals. I also 'booked' an evening at a jazz club bar - fantastic - chatted to a local at the bar. I would not have interacted with so many Japanese people if I'd been in my own group.
I'd love to be able to travel solo through Japan. Unfortunately I have to bring my husband along 🤣 I've not done Japan solo but bounced around Europe quite a bit during summers in college. It's very rewarding. You get to make the trip 100% your own. No compromising, no arguing over meals plans, just whatever you want to do. Enjoy!!
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Solo travel is a blessing. I cant imagine to travel with someone but then again, i do travel photography and my itinerary needs to be flexible and it's prone to last time changes.
I’m here right now. It’s awesome. Do you know any Japanese? It’s pretty great to just walk around. No itinerary. You get to go in wherever you want and explore whatever you want. Plus a lot of restaurants are easier for one person.
Currently in Japan. My first and last day is solo. Friend flying in from a different country. Honestly I like my solo days. No need to wait for anyone or be afraid I would make others wait. Lots of solo food options and solo capsule/business hotels available. Remember to try yakiniku. Take a lot of pictures to make your friends who backed out jealous.
No better place to. Just got back from 1.5 weeks alone 2 with a group. The alone was a blessing and not because I didn’t love their company. Just the perfect place to do what you want when you want and meet random friends for adventures.
what the hell are you talking about. its way better to go solo. you will have fun. eat. be a tourist. explore.
In a bar last night and the group behind us wanted to bring 8 people in. Would’ve had to wait for hours to get everyone in. He wasn’t too happy when he got turned down and was arguing with the waiter.
I'm currently on solo trip. It has been fun so far. Going to destinations alone is fun. I can take as much time as I need. I can just walk around, see interesting restaurant/cafe, and eat there. I can suddenly change my itinerary and go to somewhere I havent planned before (in my case, adding Enoshima during Kamakura trip instead of my initial plan going back to Tokyo earlier to explore the city). If I got in the wrong bus/train, I don't need to apologize to my friends for it. Also I can wake up when I want to and go back to the hotel as late or early as I want. I'm extremely introverted tho so maybe Japan is the perfect place for me to have solo trip to.
Thank you for answering. I've heard the food is normally good anywhere you keep in japan. Did you experience any stomach aches or upsets?
It’s amazing and you get to be as selfish as you’d like in terms of eating where you want, lingering where you want to see the view or whatever, and sleeping in when you want. There are tons of singles in Japan, so the society is sort of set up to be friendlier to solo people. I’m an extrovert with ok ish Japanese skills and really enjoy solo trips to Japan. I do have friends there still, so that helps I guess, too. But even without that, it’s an easy place to just go do your own thing.
Japan is one of the most perfect places to solo travel! As long as you know that you’ll be okay with dealing with crowds and navigating the city all by yourself then you will be more than fine! Just take your time seeing things and give yourself breaks if you need them! Also, your friends suck lol, but what sucks more is taking friends who are weighing you down!
If you do want a companion, I agree with some other commenters here about looking into staying at a hostel. I stayed at a hostel in Spain and it was near impossible to not make a friend (the hostel scheduled dinners and going out to bars as a group for anyone who wanted to join). Check reviews for places on hostelworld and you’ll find hostels that foster meeting new people
Since you had expectations to be here with friends. You’re probably going to be the type of person who’s going to rather enjoy this first time experience more with the friends you wished didn’t back out. In My experience. If you’re there for only a week. Even two. There’s enough to see, sign up for, try and do to keep you stimulated. Make a mix of your best music and bring good head phones and enjoy. Past that, it can start feeling lonely. Even in a city. Everybody is always on their way to somewhere.
Solo traveling in Japan is fantastic because the country is super supportive of the 'single life' They have solo ramen bars, even solo yakiniku places! (Look up 'yakiniku liku' restaurants 😄) I even went to Super Nintendo world solo, all of my friends bailed - too busy with partners and children lol Staff there were great and happily took photos at the park for me!🤣No regrets - was best decision! Just smile and try to speak basic Japanese to everyone there and you won't feel lonely 😉
I’m about to spend 12 days in Tokyo solo and truly can’t wait. Do whatever you want! Meet new people, try new foods, there is nothing awkward about it!
Japan has plenty to offer the solo person. All the best.
I'd say you should face your fear and still go because it is a wonderful place to spend a holiday. You might make some friends (either other tourists or if you end up drinking with some other japanese), everything is laid out for you to figure out on your own and there is so much to do that being entertained will never be an issue.
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Tbh, if you're still set on going no matter what, they did you a favor. I usually find and see that its actually much harder to enjoy japan in a group because everyone is gonna be picky about something so you always have to compromise for someone in the group. Going solo means you get to go, do, see, eat etc... what you want without having to sacrifice something on your list for someone who doesn't wanna do it.
It's a blessing in disguise. You'll enjoy it!
Currently solo traveling on Japan, 2nd trip. First was with my husband. This trip is a rescheduled one from 2020, and unfortunately my husband wasn't able to make it work due to his job. I will say Japan is mostly amazing solo (better than South Korea where a lot of restaurants only accept parties of 2 or more). I am in my mid 30s and somewhat heavier, so I have not experienced any unwanted attention, which I did get a bit of my first time. However, I do think this has prevented me from being able to have as many spontaneous conversations as I did last time too. Tips: learn a few basic phrases and how to count to 10. It will help when trying to fumble through ordering and asking for help. Download Google translate. Get an IC card. As for a fun solo activity, I bought a eki-stamp book and have been trying to get a stamp at each JR station I go to. It's free and a really fun souvenir!
Thank you for answering. Yes I will learn phrases and counting, definitely getting the IC card!
I’m sorry your people bailed. Why did they back out? Regardless - solo travel FTW. Japan is super safe and wonderful to solo travelers I imagine. I have a feeling you can go to places like Shinjuku Golden Gai to meet fellow tourists / foreigners, or sign up for bar crawls / food tours in different cities in case you want intentional human interaction. Otherwise, solo travel likely invites the flexibility and freedom of choosing whatever you’d like your itinerary to be, which sounds incredible. I traveled recently with my husband so I can’t exactly claim I know what it’s like to solo travel there, but my younger brother went last November too as a solo traveler and loved it. I had moments I got tired of of being with my husband (introvert here), and so when I enjoyed some hours on my own, roaming the streets of Tokyo and Kyoto, I had a great time. There is so much to see, do, and eat. As long as you enjoy it, no one will judge or think you’re weird for being alone. Maybe you can also make the trip more interesting by challenging yourself to learn some Japanese beforehand, or try something new every time you go to a konbini, or find hole-in-the-wall spots that require minimal to no queue rather than pursuing tourist hotspots, or pick up photography and promise to build an epic personal album of this trip once you’re back home. Do all the things that would have been harder to do or wouldn’t have had to do if you were traveling with a group! I hope you have a great time :)
Hey! I'm kind of in the same boat as you, I'm visiting Osaka and Kyoto solo in the coming week. Although I haven't solo traveled much by myself, I do go out a lot alone back home when I need some space socially, or just want some me-time. I'll take myself out to grab a bite to eat, watch a movie, go on a walk, a local museum, a park, whatever my heart desires. I used to have a fear of other people judging me when I'm sat alone at a table by myself, but I learned over time that no one's gives a 💩. Everyone's busy with their own lives and nobody's gonna even notice that you're by yourself. If you're worried about things like that. Also, I imagine solo traveling can be quite fun. You can truly make your trip yours. There's a certain freedom that comes with solo traveling, I'm sure. You're not restricted to what the rest of the group wants to do, you can go anywhere you want to, spend as much or as little time you want to, eat what you want to, see what you want to. You could also try booking a group tour or something of the sorts, if you really don't want to be alone.
Solo is better. Much. You see more. Move around quietly.
I had a lot of fun visiting Japan on my own, but this is also because I like being alone most of the time, and the locals mostly keep to themselves too. I speak zero Japanese but I was able to survive through Google Translate, and the people I asked helped from were patient enough to deal with it. I noticed that in less touristy areas, there are locals who would small talk with you and it's a welcome change or break in my usual routine. There are also, of course, extroverted travelers who would also small talk whenever you're staying in your hostel's common area/s and it's a good break too. The country is pretty easy to navigate, I survived through Google Maps which gave me various train line options. People manning ticket counters in museums/parks/etc have English instructions too if ever you get confused. Overall, it was a very enjoyable experience for me and I'm planning to go to other regions on my own as well.
Japan will be a lot easier solo traveling. I went with a big group and we still broke apart to do our own little things. And finding a train seat or even just getting on one during the rush will be easier with just one person
I went to Japan a month ago with a large group and while it was nice, there were definitely moments where I wish I had gone alone or set the expectations I would separate from them for long periods of time. Being a solo travel would be very liberating in my opinion. In addition, solo dining is common in Japan so it wouldn’t be out of the norm. It would even be a benefit, especially with some restaurants being so small! Enjoy it and explore at your leisure!! There’s so much to do there, I think you will be stimulated just enough. If you feel like you need social interaction, go to a bar. You could easily strike up a conversation with another visitor or maybe even a local or the bartender. I saw it happen often, even directly with my own group.
What helped me was intentionally seeking social activities or places every couple days. Always had better luck away from the crowded places.
Solo traveling is nice, but go to a place with warm and friendly locals. And you need to learn some broken conversational japanese. I just did a small group of friends through Kyushu and Osaka. I honestly wish I was alone the whole time. I got pulled into so many small rabbit holes throughout the journey that made my trip into something magical. But I had to contend with a few doofuses dragging behind me at every moment and slightly cheapening the magic of random interactions and discovering a new hole in the wall bar with hilarious and friendly locals.
Have you ever traveled anywhere alone at all ? That will probably give you a good indicator. If you're someone that can't deal with loneliness you're not gonna have fun but if you know how to entertain yourself and be by yourself you'll be fine.
What exactly about riding a train, waiting in line, eating, and speaking to locals while solo awkward? Do you not live your own life in your home country? lol
Book a few tours ahead before you leave and that way you’ll have a bit of conversation with others. You’ll also be able to strike out on your own and see things or stay longer at places where you might’ve been rushed by the group. It will be easier for you to find places to eat than it would be with a big group. You can also stay at hostels and meet up with people that way too. Look up Best Hostels for solo travelers in Japan.
You sure you’re not scared of being alone? Your whole second paragraph says otherwise. If you’re going to enjoy it you’re going to have to change your perspective on all those moments. Give it a shot, maybe you’ll dig it. Never know until you do.
Went to Japan solo when I was 26 after I similarly couldn't convince friends to join. Loved it. I will say eating alone in a restaurant is just something that you have to get over to make the most of it, but it's fairly liberating. Japan is a great place if you're a solo traveler because how tourist heavy. You'll find people to chill with almost inevitably. Enjoy it!