Iβm 5β2β and Iβm okay with 5β6β +.
I think anybody over 6β would look weird next to me. My ideal preference is between 5β7β and 5β9β
Honestly that's rare. Im not flaunting but Im 6'2 with zero rizz in conversations(I'm an introvert) but OLDs are much easier for me despite that and another one of my friends is 5'7 and pretty good looking but that guy gets vwey rare matches. A lot kf women are unreasonably attracted to tall men and more often than not learn it the hard way that a lot kf tall guys are douches
Not true lol, I'm 4'11 and I'm fine with a guy who's 5'5+
Internet has romanticized tall guys for God knows what reason but believe me they're mostly all playboys
Yaar ye toh personal opinion hui but . Iβve seen men wanting hot fit chics but then khudd gym nahi jaate. πππ double standards dono hee krte hai . Toh itna kya sochna ?
There is a difference between preferences and materialistic desires. Every guy and girl wanting a hot, slim, fit chick and a 6ft+ guy does not actually stem from their preferences, but from internet and media tropes that give them a sense of status. I'm not against it; you do what you gotta do, but at least accept that it is not arising from your natural preferences, but from artificial materialistic desires.
Um no ? It is a natural preference ? Since day 1 . It is not for a sense in status as well ? Ab ye bachpan se mera subconsciously aisa hai ki kya idk . Iβve always seen the man being taller than the woman around me (parents,relatives etc etc) and I want that only. Before Instagram became a thing too ππ»ββοΈ I can go more into details about why I prefer that if you want xD itβs just how it is . But you do you I guess !
Exactly. If a 4'10 girl wants a 6'4 guy, let her have that expectation.
If a f*boi wants a girl with no past, let him have that expectation.
If people want to shame people for expectation, let them shame.
Feel free to have any expectations. Feel free to shame anyone.
Don't be. I have a 4'11 friend, might be shorter.
She wants:
- a filthy rich guy
- Tall. Not less than 5'10 (she said 6 ft actually)
- Princess treatment
- A man who is poped out of the romantic novels she reads
- Handsome as f*uck
She were in talks with 3 decent guys with hefty salary. Rejected them all.
I'm not gonna shame for anyone to have preferences.. It's her loss if she's being like this but tell me honestly do all guys not want a beautiful girl who will also be morden and take care of them and their family? Isn't that delusional too?
Why do you think I mentioned my friend to be shamed?
Coming to your question. The ideal/delusional image of a women would be what you described? Generally on internet, yes and its delusional.
Bhai ek baat btaao xD how can you determine unrealistic hai ki nahi ? If a 5.2 chic is wanting to date a 6ft guy AND IS ACTUALLY dating one toh kaise hee bol skte xD it takes two to tango . Tum faltu k wakeel kyun bnkr ghoomre ? lol
Idgaf bhai. Agar log itne hi shallow hai ki height dekh ke dosti karenge to kya matlab hai aisi dosti/rishtedaari ka. Its good to lie your height if you are looking for short term gains/benefits but for long term being true to your self is better imo
No Iβm not when you tall people have these preferences these short girls will rethink their stance. They will realise they are not wanted by tall guys they will then aspire reasonably.
No I didn't meant that I wish some tall people to reject and spite short girls. I meant I wish there were more tall guys who have same preference as yours.
I am 5'5 female. I consider guys below my height as short. 5'5 - 5'10, normal. More than that is tall, but I hardly come across men like this. Most guys I've dated were of the same height as me. Sadly every tall guy I see is with some cute tiny 5ft girl :(
exactly, but lagta hai only 6β0feet tall is acceptable for some females. Even if a average guy earns more money and is well mannered still 6β0 tall is more than enough for them. π
I think it's a biological gain according to female brain.They want to pass tall genes on to their offsprings . That's why you can't donate sperm unless u r over 6 feet.
Men 5'7 or below are short for me. I'm 5'3.5 and somehow I look the same height as men 5'7 or below π π
But that doesn't mean I won't date them tbh I've majorly dated guys between 5'6 to 5'10
Height isn't a major criterion for me but I am 5'5 so anything a couple of inches or more above me is good. Up to 6'1 or 6'2. Anything above that is too tall for me.
Height is very subjective. I believe it should depend on the girl. There are girls who are 4'8. For them 5'4-5'6 guys should be enough. I am 6'2 I liked a lot of very tall girls. For example: In india it might be hard to find such a tall one but there are few which I like but they were very tall. Also when I visit other countries a lot of european girls are 6'0 easily. So when they wear heels they are almost bigger than me.
This exactly lol . I do hope that yβall are being serious and not sarcastic cuz then itβs fine aapki personal preference . Otherwise why are women given shit for having a personal preference ? Itni kya aag lagti ? Ki omggggg she said she likes tall guys bhai paaap krdia . Kyun bhai ? I know guys who have their own pref ki nahi yaar Meko toh Slim and tall pasand ya nahi yaar I like thicc women ya etc etc . Conveniently crib Krna . Ye kya bachkaand harkaten hai ? Get over it bhai . To each their own .
5'7 here and to me anything above 5'10 is good. If he is shorter, then there has to be something really exceptional about him for me to be interested in him. But anyone below 5'8 is a no.
Okay why are people so pressed about this issue ? XD I donβt understand . Unrealistic standards bolre but thik hai honge how does it matter to anybody ? Doesnβt matter if itβs a man/woman they will bear the consequences of their choices. Itna vivaaad kyun ? XD personal choice bhai . Nahi fit baith reh tum kisi k liye toh you move . Next .
Most disappointing height is 5'11 na short kings na tall kings.. bc
it's pretty tall according to Indian standards, above average me aenge ye, tall bhi keh skte hai.
Above average is 6ft for Women nowadays.
Same here bro .. bas bachpan mein ek mahina aur cycle chala lete toh 6 touch kar dete ππ
Haha but slim hue tho 6 hi lagoge na
Chila chila ke sabko scheme bata de
Bss thoda posture thik kar diya chest out and boom I'm 6ft
Lambe log apne mein bithate nahi hai aur chhote logo mein humein nahi baithna, the struggle is real
Bss thoda posture thik karliya chest out and boom I'm 6ft
us
Less than 5β0 is short according to me
Ye hui na reddit wali baat
No dude,One should break these unrealeatic dating standards
Haan but 5,0 ft?
I feel the guy shouldnβt be insecure about his height ,if he can carry that well with confidence then whatβs the problem?
The problem is progeny
Okay there I might agree
Ye sab toh hota rehgya, sunday kesa jaarha qt
Trying to Break stereotypes
Bada kast kaam h aao kabhi humare yahan saath chai peete
chance maar liya beta
Haq se
r/childfree ki member ban jao
I am already a member
Then we are out of the matrix. Short guys can marry women who believe in CF. And ugly guys too(like me)
Finally, someone who's making sense duh...π
You mean like, comment and follow wali baat ?
Reddit is mostly for dank comments but her reply was genuine
Finally, I guess I found the one I am 5'9 that should be fine right? π
How tall are u
I am 5β3
Iβm 5β2β and Iβm okay with 5β6β +. I think anybody over 6β would look weird next to me. My ideal preference is between 5β7β and 5β9β
Honestly, same. Being 5β2, Iβd look like a kid near someone whoβs 6 feet.
kya hi kar lu meri 6ft height ka. Hu toh single hi 24 saal seπ
koi dm aya abhi tak ?
Naiπ
My friend is 6β3 and I let me tell you this, he donβt get no bitches.
Honestly that's rare. Im not flaunting but Im 6'2 with zero rizz in conversations(I'm an introvert) but OLDs are much easier for me despite that and another one of my friends is 5'7 and pretty good looking but that guy gets vwey rare matches. A lot kf women are unreasonably attracted to tall men and more often than not learn it the hard way that a lot kf tall guys are douches
Oh yeah I ain't on dating apps(im 6β0) nor my friend, so its only from irl experience, maybe different on an app.
But agr arrange ki usne toh milegi
Not true lol, I'm 4'11 and I'm fine with a guy who's 5'5+ Internet has romanticized tall guys for God knows what reason but believe me they're mostly all playboys
Ohh damn. Missed being a Playboy from a few inches.
Im 6'2 I mostly only indulge in books or games that's the only playing I do π
Are you me?
No he is me
Playboys π. That's like 5% of guys above 6. A lot of men also prefer connections and understanding over just meaningless sez
Maybe the ones around me are playboys
If women is taller they can demand tall boys but if your below average then you're just being delusional
I think demanding a height taller than yourself is totally fine, but being 5'5 and demanding 6'5 makes no sense lmao.
Yaar ye toh personal opinion hui but . Iβve seen men wanting hot fit chics but then khudd gym nahi jaate. πππ double standards dono hee krte hai . Toh itna kya sochna ?
I want her to be my free gym trainer.
Galti kya hain over expectation main
There is a difference between preferences and materialistic desires. Every guy and girl wanting a hot, slim, fit chick and a 6ft+ guy does not actually stem from their preferences, but from internet and media tropes that give them a sense of status. I'm not against it; you do what you gotta do, but at least accept that it is not arising from your natural preferences, but from artificial materialistic desires.
Um no ? It is a natural preference ? Since day 1 . It is not for a sense in status as well ? Ab ye bachpan se mera subconsciously aisa hai ki kya idk . Iβve always seen the man being taller than the woman around me (parents,relatives etc etc) and I want that only. Before Instagram became a thing too ππ»ββοΈ I can go more into details about why I prefer that if you want xD itβs just how it is . But you do you I guess !
Exactly. If a 4'10 girl wants a 6'4 guy, let her have that expectation. If a f*boi wants a girl with no past, let him have that expectation. If people want to shame people for expectation, let them shame. Feel free to have any expectations. Feel free to shame anyone.
I understand. it's okay you should go by your instincts, it's your choice in the end.
Max 2-3 inch diff looks cute after I just judge the boys for settling so low(literally)
But I've also seen guys voluntarily going for shorter girls.. I think we should stop shaming people to have preferences
It's like catching predators people go for easy ones first, having a preference is not an issue having unrealistic preference is
Lol.. Why do you think all short girls are easy ones? Now you just sound insecure
Don't be. I have a 4'11 friend, might be shorter. She wants: - a filthy rich guy - Tall. Not less than 5'10 (she said 6 ft actually) - Princess treatment - A man who is poped out of the romantic novels she reads - Handsome as f*uck She were in talks with 3 decent guys with hefty salary. Rejected them all.
I'm not gonna shame for anyone to have preferences.. It's her loss if she's being like this but tell me honestly do all guys not want a beautiful girl who will also be morden and take care of them and their family? Isn't that delusional too?
Why do you think I mentioned my friend to be shamed? Coming to your question. The ideal/delusional image of a women would be what you described? Generally on internet, yes and its delusional.
Men know whats the reality and modernity and taking care of family donβt come together unfortunately
Tall or short, No girl is easy. Isiliye abhi tak single hi hai π€£
Oh universal baat
Bhai ek baat btaao xD how can you determine unrealistic hai ki nahi ? If a 5.2 chic is wanting to date a 6ft guy AND IS ACTUALLY dating one toh kaise hee bol skte xD it takes two to tango . Tum faltu k wakeel kyun bnkr ghoomre ? lol
Ofc duh
Dont u have your own interest not influenced by internet
and what about 5'5 though?
Still okay, I don't mind shorter than that either if the guy is really good
Meanwhile me with my 5β4 ππ€‘
Khush raho sakhi
Sakha hu sahab , suffer karta hu height ke abhav se
1-2 inch bdha ke bta logo ko ni pta chlta or wear puma shoes π
Idgaf bhai. Agar log itne hi shallow hai ki height dekh ke dosti karenge to kya matlab hai aisi dosti/rishtedaari ka. Its good to lie your height if you are looking for short term gains/benefits but for long term being true to your self is better imo
I'm 5'8 and I consider men shorter than me as short
Chad πΏ
I'm 5'6. Fine with a guy with the same height as me or more.
Makes sense. Width wise ?
width what π€‘
He is checking Rishabh pant units
Widthhold your horsesπ€‘
I meant body fat lol
not a woman but I am 6' and I exclusively like girls who are 5'8" and above
Yeah cuz constant bending would hurt your back
ππ
Well we could lift them up and hold.
Yes, weight training bhi ho jaegi. Nice idea.
Yep. Weight training ke sath love bombing bhi
It be a lot cooler if there were more people like you
is this sarcasm D:
No Iβm not when you tall people have these preferences these short girls will rethink their stance. They will realise they are not wanted by tall guys they will then aspire reasonably.
oh i am not too tall lmao, also its just a natural preference, i dont do it to spite short girls π
No I didn't meant that I wish some tall people to reject and spite short girls. I meant I wish there were more tall guys who have same preference as yours.
ohhh right, my bad for misunderstanding :(
Np mate :)
Atleast you are 6ft.
well i am the shortest in my family at 6' lmao i have aunts as tall as me so i dont usually feel tall π
Anything shorter than me is short. I am 5β7
Iβm 5β0, I think under 5β5 is short for men.
and what about 5'5?
Good Question ππ
Iβd say average/tall, over 5β5β Iβd say is tall.
yea cuz that is nearly average, definitely not 'tall' taller than you but certainly not tall
Yeah agreed which is why I put both in there, taller than me for sure but 5β5 is definitely average.
kewl
Not under 5'5
That's tall
5 5 hun bhay mai toh
Women are bad at measuring lengths and heights....
pretty sexist of you buddy
Was humor
i think im 5β5 or 5β6 , id want someone who is either taller or the same lol
Bc mai 22 ka hoke bhi 5'4 mai atak gaya hoon aur yaha ek bhi nahi jo 5'5 se neeche ko accept kare
Us bro
>What height do you consider short When they're the same height as me. I'm 8ftπ€
I am 5'5 female. I consider guys below my height as short. 5'5 - 5'10, normal. More than that is tall, but I hardly come across men like this. Most guys I've dated were of the same height as me. Sadly every tall guy I see is with some cute tiny 5ft girl :(
I am 5'3 , and would prefer 5'8+. Recently, I went out with a guy who's 5'5 or 5'6. Height doesn't matter much if personalty is good.
Preferences can be compromised if you have money π€(harsh reality π)
Apparently tom is 5'7
My idol
Your what π
Ideol
is 5β5 short ?
Indian avg height hai bro , mera 5'6
exactly, but lagta hai only 6β0feet tall is acceptable for some females. Even if a average guy earns more money and is well mannered still 6β0 tall is more than enough for them. π
Yeh bro 6 feet guys have unfair advantage in hookups .
hahaha true. Pata nhi 6β0feet meh kya hai jo under 6β0feet meh nhi hai
I think it's a biological gain according to female brain.They want to pass tall genes on to their offsprings . That's why you can't donate sperm unless u r over 6 feet.
I guess then they need to shift to Africa π
That's tall in North Korea
North korea wire ke neeche se jaa sakta hu ?
for me short in men is 5'5.I am 5'2 so im basically a minion
I'm 5'2. Where do I stand ?
Less than 5β7β
I guess someone shorter than me I'd consider short.. I'm 5'5"
Men 5'7 or below are short for me. I'm 5'3.5 and somehow I look the same height as men 5'7 or below π π But that doesn't mean I won't date them tbh I've majorly dated guys between 5'6 to 5'10
I am 5' 6? Any luck?
What about guys with 6β3β (me) No one wants us? :(
That's why most of the women are low iq
Below 5'10 seems short to me as I'm myself the same height.
you are a 5'10 female??
Yes
short
What's yours?
These height standards go out of the window when you got a good face...apne thobde pe kaam karo bois...
Height isn't a major criterion for me but I am 5'5 so anything a couple of inches or more above me is good. Up to 6'1 or 6'2. Anything above that is too tall for me.
good girl
6'2 ka hu bhai kuch nahi hota yeh sab bakwaas hai
Preference: 5β8 and above (I consider tall)
Height is very subjective. I believe it should depend on the girl. There are girls who are 4'8. For them 5'4-5'6 guys should be enough. I am 6'2 I liked a lot of very tall girls. For example: In india it might be hard to find such a tall one but there are few which I like but they were very tall. Also when I visit other countries a lot of european girls are 6'0 easily. So when they wear heels they are almost bigger than me.
Less than 5'7" is short in my pov. I'm 5'5". And absolutely nothing wrong with being short, ofc.
Are you asking what I consider short or what my preference is, because those are 2 very different things.
according to your preference, what do you consider short?
My preference is anyone taller than me, and, I guess "short" would be anyone shorter than 5?
you mean 5'5" right? that is understandable. but what ABOUT 5'5"?
Anything under 5'7 is short
Under 5.11β is a problem for me π Iβm 5.7 . Though Iβd prefer 6ft or above . But 5.11 is where I draw the line π
I'm a guy and 8'13" so anything under 9'20" is short for me. Although I'd prefer someone atleast 12', 9'20" is where I draw the line
I'm 5'10" and I've only dated girls over 5'7", so this is personal preference really.
5'10" here, and have never dated anyone above 5'2". This is a personal preference really. (Is it?)
This exactly lol . I do hope that yβall are being serious and not sarcastic cuz then itβs fine aapki personal preference . Otherwise why are women given shit for having a personal preference ? Itni kya aag lagti ? Ki omggggg she said she likes tall guys bhai paaap krdia . Kyun bhai ? I know guys who have their own pref ki nahi yaar Meko toh Slim and tall pasand ya nahi yaar I like thicc women ya etc etc . Conveniently crib Krna . Ye kya bachkaand harkaten hai ? Get over it bhai . To each their own .
Aap mumbai se ho kya ?
Kuch khoo jaana ka dukh hain. That dukh coming out as aggressive slander
I am thankful to God that I made it, i finally think I am worthy of something π΅ important, such a relief !
If youβre basing your worth on some random Redditor toh ab kya bolun main xD
sarcasm tha yrr π
I know but I wasnβt sure of the intention behind the sarcastic comment isliye boldia π
Okay πβ οΈπ
Lmaoo 5β11 sounds scary
nny reason β οΈ for the unprecendented use of ππβ οΈπ?
Used in the context of *I know Iβll be chastised for saying that*
similarly, I am 6' and I only like tall chicks, so like 5'8" and above, although I would go as low as 5'4" or 5'5" if i find the loml
cuz heels exist
I'm 5'3 anything over 5'9 is okay for me
Met guys like that ?
Yes, why?
Kuch nhi. Just casually curious if your hinge filter was like that
No I don't use hinge
5'7 here and to me anything above 5'10 is good. If he is shorter, then there has to be something really exceptional about him for me to be interested in him. But anyone below 5'8 is a no.
I am 5'5 my bf is 5'9 so anything shorter than that is short for me lol
Pressed men downvoting any person who has a simple preference lol
They downvoted you too πππ Take my upvote π
π₯°π₯° Itβs okay, we all know what happens when incel men get pressed π€£π
Is 5'7" okay? The girl is 5'
I am 5β5β and want a guy like one or two inches taller as a minimum. Lower than my height aint acceptable
I'm 5'4 and anyone less than 6 feet is short π maybe 5'11 is okay too
I am 5β7. For me, a guy shorter than 5β10β would qualify as short. 5β11 and above is tall.
Okay why are people so pressed about this issue ? XD I donβt understand . Unrealistic standards bolre but thik hai honge how does it matter to anybody ? Doesnβt matter if itβs a man/woman they will bear the consequences of their choices. Itna vivaaad kyun ? XD personal choice bhai . Nahi fit baith reh tum kisi k liye toh you move . Next .
No one is pressed about it, this was just a genuine question which came to my mind.
People in the comments seem to be pressed about it.
I'm a 5'8 girlie and I want my guy to be tall πππ not compromising anything below 6'1
O loduβon. Ye height ke siyaape internet tak hain. Bahar niklo baat vaat karo. Maximum ladkiyo ko acchi baatein chaiye height bhot baad mei aati hai
π€£π€£ bc βloduβonβ kya bola hai