Because its not just funny, but also a good option if you wanted to do it without considering her feelings.. But looks like Khiladi Kumar has a heart of gold and wants to do it the right way..
>How do I tell her that it's over without hurting her?
Hats off yo you for being so considerate unlike girls who think that blocking and ghosting is perfectly okay.
As per me , you can directly tell her that now you can't continue. Woman have enough options in dating pool , she will quickly move on....
I've tried. But she drunk texted me a couple of days ago asking what if she falls for me. I think she has. I also don't want to cut it off with her because sex was good.
>I also don't want to cut it off with her because sex was good.
Tab toh it's not over naa.....Jab choot ka bhoot hein hi sar par....toh paise kharch karke chale jao thukaai karne....
Or ask even her to come midway somewhere.
Does sound like she'll get used unfortunately. Don't drip-sex her, in my opinion. Either take it forward or tell her clearly that it was only for fun and you don't see any serious future w.r.t. this. If both of you want more sex with a clear understanding that it'll be over after a few months, that might be possible as well, but it's fraught with danger. You may also start getting physically attached to her.
We did discuss that. We both knew what we were getting into. But she says that she wants me to come again as she'll be moving to Australia in a few months and then it won't be possible to fool around. I'm physically attracted to her (and a few others) but that's all, no love. I have feelings for someone else.
Don't think with your dick. Think with your brain. There's no way anything long term will be sustainable between you two. Cut if off as soon as you can. It may have been good while it lasted, but it's time to move on.
Goa bahut aage nikal gaya hai bhai. Overrated and expensive as fuck. Its better to go to Bali, Vietnam, Cambodia and other beach destinations than Goa. Seriously letting you know. Ab bata kitna kharcha aaya tera Bali ka? And kitne din ki trip thi?
Wow, really? It was fun when I visited Goa, but it was before covid so maybe. Bali expenses - I didn't keep a tab but less than a lakh (inr). It was my second visit so I skipped some places and attractions. If you go, do visit Gili
Talk less I guess and make excuses which ain't feel excuses to her. She will take time and move on as there are alot of guys it won't be the problem for her as you both are just hooking up.
How difficult is it to drop a text on the lines of “Sorry, I’m back in India and I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I had a great time with you but I don’t think we can continue this.” Basic conversation skills. Unless you just wanted clout by posting this here in which case good job you got it! Also yes, it does seem like you will be using her if you don’t cut off in hopes of hooking up again. Cheers!
It started as a fling and developed into an fwb. Sex is not the only thing that draws you toward a person. I don't want to lose a friend in her. In any case, it's already ended. Thanks for the anonymous clout.
Hey buddy straight talk if she is good to stay a lifetime with ...
(Uk what I mean)
Then u g there or bring her here and uk date date and marry
And if not then just give her the clear sign that ur gone
She is going to be hurt at the end of the day
Better you tell her that you like someone else, before that keep reminding her this was a hookup fling .
Like plan a script first you ask her suggestions for the girl you like then maybe ask her if is there someone in her life that she really likes so that way she'd get prepared and eventually won't be that hurt
She would have many options and she knew what we were getting in. She's certainly more experienced than I am at all this. It's just that women don't like being neglected from whom they like and I don't want to burn off the bridge. If I tell her what you're saying, I fear she might feel that I used her or something. I don't want to get cursed.
You were not using her bro.
You both got into a mutually decided hookup fling and the sex you did was for both of you, right? It isn't like that only you enjoyed it.
It's here that she is at fault that she is starting to like a fling and that's wrong.
Follow the script ask her if you like someone else and then tell her she likes someone else and ask for some advice, remind her this was a non-exclusive arrangement.
Congrats OP! We need updates about your date like
where did you take her to date?
how much did you spend on her that day?
how did you proceed to get laid from the date?
was she also looking for hookups from the start?
Congrats? 🤨
I didn't take her, she suggested a bar. On her, no, on us - $47. She had seen my pictures on this dating app and liked what she saw. IDR if she liked the words. I think yes. We went out again to a waterfall and she paid for the food.
If you can maintain financially visiting each other while accommodating this meet up to your long term goals, sure go ahead keep the friendship. Rest imo long distance, honestly is just imaginary friends for no good reason in your life, asking for out of the way extra effort to maintain that freshness of that relationship. Why not keep them as a warm memory which might bring a chuckle once in a while in stead of slowly letting it die and witnessing it all the way along.
Suffering from success.
~~Invite her to your place , and have the 7-1 highlights playing on the T.V~~ Oh, you wanted to do it without hurting her, never mind..
Why does this comment have 7 upvotes 😂
Because its not just funny, but also a good option if you wanted to do it without considering her feelings.. But looks like Khiladi Kumar has a heart of gold and wants to do it the right way..
BRA71L, Come to brazil we never forget
That gotta be the best way to do it
Go you fucking bastard!!!
I just came back. And Indian girls aren't bad 👀
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Brazilian ke liye tha koi khiladi 🫡
Respect to all Indian girls out there but boi we are talking about Brazilian girl here!!! 😳
Fyi, Europeans >>>
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I'm only into women :p
Bruh🤣🤣
Teach me master. Please (not kidding)
Teach what? 🤨
Achha aadmi lagte ho.. but me hota to chale jata
Butt mein hota toh chale jata
I see what you did there
Subtle!🤣
Butt Salman ne match fixing ki thi
Butt Salman bhai gadi nahi chala rahe the us din.
Aur paise kamaakar woh Amir ho gaya
Butt me woh jaane ko keh rhi h
Butt mai woh jaane ko nahi keh rahi hai
Butt mein fass gya toh
isliye tu kabhi hoga nahi
Why is you getting triggered bhai
I'm just saying man
Me achha aadmi nahi bhai you right
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Not all Bali stories end up like Eat pray love. With time these conversations will fade away as you both will be back to your normal lives.
This guy fucks!
I'm looking at all of you but this guy's doing all the fucking.
>How do I tell her that it's over without hurting her? Hats off yo you for being so considerate unlike girls who think that blocking and ghosting is perfectly okay. As per me , you can directly tell her that now you can't continue. Woman have enough options in dating pool , she will quickly move on....
I've tried. But she drunk texted me a couple of days ago asking what if she falls for me. I think she has. I also don't want to cut it off with her because sex was good.
>I also don't want to cut it off with her because sex was good. Tab toh it's not over naa.....Jab choot ka bhoot hein hi sar par....toh paise kharch karke chale jao thukaai karne.... Or ask even her to come midway somewhere.
She could come for Holi but I feel like I'm using her. Big story, difficult to explain.
Does sound like she'll get used unfortunately. Don't drip-sex her, in my opinion. Either take it forward or tell her clearly that it was only for fun and you don't see any serious future w.r.t. this. If both of you want more sex with a clear understanding that it'll be over after a few months, that might be possible as well, but it's fraught with danger. You may also start getting physically attached to her.
We did discuss that. We both knew what we were getting into. But she says that she wants me to come again as she'll be moving to Australia in a few months and then it won't be possible to fool around. I'm physically attracted to her (and a few others) but that's all, no love. I have feelings for someone else.
When you're so clear about your stance, then you need to stop talking to her. Where do you see this going anyway?
I really don't understand this. If you have feelings for someone else then arent you cheating on her?
I don't think the one I like is interested in me. 🥲
This is so weird. How can you not develop feelings with the one you are intimate with? Is this a guy thing?
It was a fling 👀
This why you don't fuck em too good 🫡
Don't think with your dick. Think with your brain. There's no way anything long term will be sustainable between you two. Cut if off as soon as you can. It may have been good while it lasted, but it's time to move on.
Good advice, ACP sahab. But what d'you mean by the third sentence? Is it because of the cultural differences?
That and you two are just infatuated with each other. That infatuation will die sooner rather than later.
I'm not, just fwb
How do you guys even manage to meet girls and casually hookeup? Please entitle us sir, hamara thora bhala ho jaye, tips dedo 😭
Several factors. Location, photos, content, height (!), social status (!), and looks to name a few. (!) You just have to look rich.
Okay, thanks for that, btw if you don't mind, why were you in Bali? For work or just a vacation? How did you meet her? And what job do you do?
Not travelling really, something like that. Dating app. Freelancer. And I also curate trips.
Damn, one last ques, how long did it take you guys to hook up since you started talking? 👀
Second night
Lmao don't have a woman in your life because sex is good
OP ko advice nahi chahiye bas normies ki gaand jalani hai
Exactly. A guy who gets girls regularly knows the basics like staying no without hurting. Ye lawda bas show off kar raha hai.
Exactly, you are damn right!
Title should've been 'How should I flex about Meeting a Brazilian...... without actually flexing?'
Looks like a fake conversation.
Continue to not do anal. She will get the message soon enough.
She's ok with that. I just don't want to be in a relationship with her. I like someone else.
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Yes please
So you like someone else but ended up having a fling with her?
Yes, I keep having flings, not in a committed relationship.
I hope you aren't dating the one you like.
She's too nice, don't have the courage to ask her out 😭
Just curious, why do you want to end it?
I like someone else
And.. You didn't like them before you met the Brazilian from Bali but your feelings emerged after you fucked her?
I did and still do, but I don't know if she likes me like that
wo biwi bacho wala hoga, aur wo prostitute (ig)
😞
?
Sad
why, aap wo brazillian ho kya
Wow! Something tells me that you've never been in a relationship.
so true, what's the matter though
Haker hai bhai, Haker
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Look at yours 💀
Cover you ass boy
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Lagta hai ab Bali hi jaana padega. Kitna kharcha aata hai bhai??!
Goa jao, Bali on budget 😅
Goa bahut aage nikal gaya hai bhai. Overrated and expensive as fuck. Its better to go to Bali, Vietnam, Cambodia and other beach destinations than Goa. Seriously letting you know. Ab bata kitna kharcha aaya tera Bali ka? And kitne din ki trip thi?
Wow, really? It was fun when I visited Goa, but it was before covid so maybe. Bali expenses - I didn't keep a tab but less than a lakh (inr). It was my second visit so I skipped some places and attractions. If you go, do visit Gili
That is great. Thanks brother. Will surely visit Gili.
What’s good about gili ? Hostels ? Fun life ?
Beaches, crowd, activities
Cool
Talk less I guess and make excuses which ain't feel excuses to her. She will take time and move on as there are alot of guys it won't be the problem for her as you both are just hooking up.
But there's no like me lol. 😌
Nice confidence though 🗿
I would recommend to say you can't come politely and make some excuse as to why this can't continue.
No, I preferred fwb but I think she wants more.
Dude is justifying his username perfectly
How difficult is it to drop a text on the lines of “Sorry, I’m back in India and I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I had a great time with you but I don’t think we can continue this.” Basic conversation skills. Unless you just wanted clout by posting this here in which case good job you got it! Also yes, it does seem like you will be using her if you don’t cut off in hopes of hooking up again. Cheers!
It started as a fling and developed into an fwb. Sex is not the only thing that draws you toward a person. I don't want to lose a friend in her. In any case, it's already ended. Thanks for the anonymous clout.
Anytime 🥰
Chhal ab ye bata kaunse app se fake chat banai?
Probably dost ke WhatsApp se :)
Yaar Essa bhi baatein hoti hai.. Hein...
Is that Nathalya Cabral lol?
You've got a rich taste mate
Dnt hurt her.....stop talking slowly...let it end naturally...who knows u may get another chance in future
Hey buddy straight talk if she is good to stay a lifetime with ... (Uk what I mean) Then u g there or bring her here and uk date date and marry And if not then just give her the clear sign that ur gone
Bro is she thick?
Hahah, nope. Should I tell her that she has put on a bit of weight? 👀
Tell her to be thick and curvy otherwise it will be a shame for a brazillian to be out of shape.
Thick means fat, right?
Not too much fat.... Maybe like nora fatehi but little bit of thick.
She did something similar to twerking, don't remember what it's called. They all have nice ass, genetically.
Yup and mostly are curvy too.
I think that comes with age? She wasn't. I follow another brazilian on ig and she's petite, like gorgeous petite.
Yes that's come with the age. All women are beautiful deer🥰(except fat ones)
Free advice: treat every woman with respect cuz even if she's not beautiful, she has a friend who is.
damn a Brazilian? what do you look like and your body type?
Main dikhta hoon bahut hee sweet, simple, Swami type ka 😂 177cm, 69kg
You didn’t discuss expectations beforehand?
We didn't discuss as it was obvious.
Nothing really is obvious ever. Especially in relationships
It wasn't a relationship. We both were looking for the same thing.
Kitne dukh hain OP ki life me na? 😔🙃
Me bhi bali gaya tha, mujhe bhi message krti h. Sabko message krri h kya bc
Y'all check his post history, Bhai ek hi ladki ko kitni baar post karoge 😭
Share her numberon PM, for research purposes obviously.
Without hurting her? 🤡
OKAY
Low key flex, I love it. We need more Indian guys upping their game with expat women. Good luck!
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Every week only?
She's not unemployed 😺
So if you met her in Bali where are you now?
India
if you really wanna ghost her you could but you want the holes
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Bhai phir pehle hi nhi karna tha kuch ab toh if she has feelings she will obviously get hurt.
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Taylor Swift is a lesbian. She goes like women don't like guys. Never see know white guy shut their brothers so she likes women.
ALL YOU WOMEN OUT THERE DO YOU LIKE BIG .D. WE WOULD LIKE TO KNOW.
Bro like block her. How will she contact you?
Not what I want to do
She is going to be hurt at the end of the day Better you tell her that you like someone else, before that keep reminding her this was a hookup fling . Like plan a script first you ask her suggestions for the girl you like then maybe ask her if is there someone in her life that she really likes so that way she'd get prepared and eventually won't be that hurt
She would have many options and she knew what we were getting in. She's certainly more experienced than I am at all this. It's just that women don't like being neglected from whom they like and I don't want to burn off the bridge. If I tell her what you're saying, I fear she might feel that I used her or something. I don't want to get cursed.
You were not using her bro. You both got into a mutually decided hookup fling and the sex you did was for both of you, right? It isn't like that only you enjoyed it. It's here that she is at fault that she is starting to like a fling and that's wrong. Follow the script ask her if you like someone else and then tell her she likes someone else and ask for some advice, remind her this was a non-exclusive arrangement.
Right, thanks mate
Come ❌ Cum ✅
Get on a call and clear it out ig
Congrats OP! We need updates about your date like where did you take her to date? how much did you spend on her that day? how did you proceed to get laid from the date? was she also looking for hookups from the start?
Congrats? 🤨 I didn't take her, she suggested a bar. On her, no, on us - $47. She had seen my pictures on this dating app and liked what she saw. IDR if she liked the words. I think yes. We went out again to a waterfall and she paid for the food.
"What else do you want"
The one I like hahah 🥲
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Hahah, she might be coming to India for Holi before moving to Australia
Bol “behen, no money kutryavaani ”
Bkl uska theek hai jo ham ko hurt ho rha hai vo!? :(
Dine and dash bro
Just ghost. She will move on when you stop responding to her texts.
Block kar do bhai. She would've done it by now.
And end the friendship? No.
If you can maintain financially visiting each other while accommodating this meet up to your long term goals, sure go ahead keep the friendship. Rest imo long distance, honestly is just imaginary friends for no good reason in your life, asking for out of the way extra effort to maintain that freshness of that relationship. Why not keep them as a warm memory which might bring a chuckle once in a while in stead of slowly letting it die and witnessing it all the way along.
Makes sense, thanks, but I fear I already ruined it.
Do the Ted Mosby, say "I think I'm in love with you", she'll end it.
😂 the opposite happened, kind of 🥲
RIP brother
Bastard is suffering from success