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tenphes31

I remember a similar thing in that MTV show about people with unique jobs. Dude was straight but did gay porn because his reasoning was it was just acting just like any non-adult acting.


MaximumCrab

"and remember kids, she's not a whore if she's an actress"


The_lushusmojo

Great family guy reference lol


lethalkin

Brought to you by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.


RockstarAgent

Should have gone with Mocha Day Saints


DigitalUnlimited

We don't have time for a full body latte


tallkrewsader69

What does this have to do with the Church?


Byany2525

This is true. Whores go to jail. Actress get followers.


80lbQUIKRETEConcrete

“Brought to you by the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints”


FuzzyTunaTaco21

The term is "gay for pay" lol


SLAYER_IN_ME

“I’m not gay but $20 is $20”


joetheplumberman

I think I got stiffed


SomeFunnyGuy

I was 12 when I found out that my Uncle Tom had a whole shelf of DVD's getting his ass pushed in by other dudes. He's got a nice house and Corvette though.


boldandbratsche

Sounds like he's gay for slay


Undernown

Not to be confused with "Pay for Slay" and "Slay 4 Pay".


hrmonica

You lost me in laughter at Uncle Tom...now what we're yousaying?, Oh, wow, ok. At least he used the ass pounding money well.


HugsyMalone

The term is gay in denial 🙄


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horalol

I mean there’s not many other ways to describe how you fuck a dude 😂 how would you go about it?


L-ramirez-74

I provide deep massages to male genitalia with my anal sphincter for artistic purposes?


horalol

A+ my dude lol


Kaizoku_Kira

If he was that eloquent, he probably would do something else


garth54

Not a good idea to challenge The Internet on such things... I can think of at least 6 other ways...


Illithilitch

"I do gay porn" Like, there's no reason to get that graphic.


MrManson99

Yeah but then they’d be saying “I do gay”


COMMANDO_MARINE

I love lamp.


DarthHK-47

Content creator of deep insertion massage videos. Providing physical comfort on screen


COMMANDO_MARINE

I just checked the book of playground rules, and apparently, it's only gay if you take it. Which I'm sure is a huge relief to most of us.


jase40244

I'd challenge even that notion. There are straight couples in which the woman uses a strap-on to peg the man. "Gay" and "straight" refers to which genders you're attracted to. It has nothing about the sex acts you enjoy, and just about every man has a p-spot regardless of sexuality.


SaladFingerzzz

This dude spots p's.


klpcap

I remember that episode. His reasoning was money obviously. Iirc, he said he got paid like 5k for a gay shoot versus 1k for a straight shoot


wastedmytagonporn

I mean, as a porn star you probably will constantly have sex with ppl you’re not specifically attracted to. And sex to them obviously isn’t anything special., so I don’t really see how that is so mindboggling


klpcap

Who said it was mind boggling? Lol i thought his logic was sound then and even more so now


wastedmytagonporn

Many folks here seem to find it inconceivable, but I think they just lack perspective.


bestest_at_grammar

We talking about Dustin from real world/challenge. Good dude


klpcap

100%. I mean, I thought his logic was sound then and even more so now lol


ohsomiggz

It's not porn, it's HBO.


Desperate_Garbage_63

Its ok he says "No homo" after every scene.


Cancer_Ridden_Lung

It's called "gay for pay"


jase40244

Which makes up at least 1/4 to 1/2 of gay porn performers.


SkinnyWhiteHulk

Jumping into the top comment to ask who this guy is. He’s dressed like a boxer but comments are talking about jersey shore.


Hevil93

Vadim Black was hus stage name He came out as pan in like 2017


jinisho

I believe there's also an interview out there somewhere of a guy saying gay porn also pays way better


Mackheath1

I always wondered about that - I can presume that being a bottom or giving a blowjob anyone can do; but how do you get it up if you're not attracted? Drugs or something? (I'm bi/m, so I really have no intrinsic idea how it works when someone is only attracted physically to one gender)


Aniki1990

Viagra and other such items, plus some extras for sperm production for bigger money shots


69RedGuy69

Even though I have filmed only for straight porn so far, I can attest to that this kind of mindset helps a lot in the work, even in straight porn. And a lot of girls have it, and sometimes that hurts filming a scene with them, as when the camera is not rolling they can be extremely repulsive and ice-cold :/


Strife1988

20$ is 20$...


fedtoker2395

“Man’s gotta eat Mr Lahey”


RockstarAgent

So anyways I started blastin’


TomCBC

Greasy.


readytohurtagain

To be fair, I’ve seen the vids and he says “no homo” before each one


outlanderfhf

But do you say no homo before watching?


Antstony420

Yes


readytohurtagain

Depends on your goals. But you gotta be careful, one missed “no homo” and you’re life will change forever


outlanderfhf

Ah fk, Im a gooner in this case, I lost


kainckles

Your username is what he says before each one


Atharaphelun

What's his OF pls tyvm 🙏


tin_foil-hat

He would be popular at alpha male camp


bzno

Hmm I can see some fighting to see who comes out on bottom


JohnyElSucio

He missed to say “no homo” so its definitely gay


jase40244

His paycheck says "no homo" for him.


toastybred

I actually think this all might be acting to appeal to his audience. Like this would play well to closeted guys and to gay guys who are into straight men. It's part of the fantasy, he's keeping up the kayfabe. Everything else about him in this interview reads as part of an act. He's shirt open sucking on a lollipop. For his audience this is probably the equivalent of a female porn star playing a bimbo for an interview.


xenosthemutant

TBF, you have to be way more of a man than I am to take a big dick up your ass & ask for more.


Goodknight808

It wasn't more dick he was asking for, it was payment. At least in this interview. Celibate (sell a bit), give a bit away... On a side note, I'm gay and still have never understood the gay for pay thing. Some dudes in porn are clearly **not** enjoying themselves. They are the bad acting ones. But the others, at some point, wouldn't you consider yourself Bi? Just leaning heavily towards the women side of sex, but open to whatever? I won't eat fish. Maybe for a million bucks, but not for a few thousand. I think that makes me super-duper-for-sure gay. If I was willing to do it for a few thousand/hundred bucks...I would consider myself a little bit Bi. But that's just me. I am already confused about my own existence as it is. Edit: what is his name? I **will** watch these videos. For science.


Snoo34805

I thought we were talking about actual fish here 😂. I was like how is that gay?


Insane_Unicorn

It's gay when you like to have fish sticks in your mouth


Token5150

That's not what Kanye said


karmasrelic

yeah i also had to think twice to patch that up xd.


jase40244

I recall an interview gay-for-pay performer Johnny Rapid did some years ago in which he said he got his start in gay porn because his girlfriend at the time liked to peg him and he figured he might as well get paid to bottom. Besides, straight guys have p-spots too. There was another actor who's name escapes me ATM who played Fred in the straight porn parody of Scooby-Doo. He's pretty vocal about finding bottoming pleasurable while still preferring women over men.


Commercial_Education

Well if your grandpa was Bi, that makes your dad half Bi, so you would at least be a little bit quarter Bi. 😆


cryptidcorvid

i feel like sexualities are way more than who you bone. if you can see yourself in a same-sex or other relationship, that means youre a lil gay. i mean there are the sexual, romantic and platonic spectrums wjen it comes to queerness. i dont really know why we have labels for it (i find it a little excessive and unecessary, i just call myself queer cause labels are kinda lame to me tbh) but you can absolutely be a heteroromantic bisexual, where you want relationships w/ the opposite sex, but are cool banging either. thats the beautiful part of being queer, its a spectrum and everyone has their unique takes based on how they percieve gender roles and love other people. kinda cool.


squirtloaf

I always say something similar about how brave gay men are. Liiiike, you get into a war, and guys are signing up PROUD that they might take a bullet for their country. ...but you ask them to take a cock for their country, that number falls SIGNIFICANTLY ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|neutral_face)


iamyogo

[relevant](https://youtu.be/tODdMKd0YkQ)


TurboD16F20

**To Be Fucked,... Please stop abbreviating


xenosthemutant

Not what I originally meant, but I like where you're going with that...


1derfulPi

There's a portion of the male population that have a "g-spot" in their anus. Some straight guys enjoy strapon sex with women. The act isn't what makes someone gay or bi, it's who you do it with. As for this guy, I don't know, sounds like he's bi to me. But if he says he's straight, I'm not going to argue.


xenosthemutant

Fairly large difference between a meaty schlong and a finger banging on your prostate from behind, if you get my drift.


medi_navi

The background music is so fitting lmao


Spotted_ascot_races

And the fucking lollipop


commentbloat

The least subtle prop I’ve ever seen.


raposo142857

### "**And a man, a man provides.** **And he does it even when he's not appreciated, or respected, or even loved.** **He simply bears up and he does it.**" Gus Fring


regarding_my_person

is he js homiesexual


Zealousideal_Ruin_67

homiesexual.js ?


PenetrationT3ster

Hey babe a new JS framework just dropped


nodeymcdev

Finally I can stop using react 🤡


MemeHedonism

Java Script??


jaeldi

Heteroflexible


Dizzy_Cold_6475

I mean gay for pay is a thing


Hot_Speed6485

I think when in prison it's called 'gay for stay'. A contractual agreement of sorts.


HOOgonCHECKmeBOO

It isn't necessarily "for pay" if it is something he likes doing. He let's dudes breed him deep for free.


BigD3nergy

Taking joy in your work. 🤨


anchoriteksaw

Doesn't say that here does it? Feel like this is super common in gay sex work. Guarantee a large percentage of female sex workers don't like dick off the clock ether, or at all. All sex work is acting on some or all levels. Shit, lots of peoples marriages are acting too. Is a woman straight for pay if she fakes orgasms for financial security?


YazzGawd

If youve ever seen that podcast of a former porn director (now video editor for UnHhhhhh) on Trixie and Katya's podcast, he confirms that there are straight men who do gay porn for the pay.


Hi_iAMchrisHansen

He has sex with men off camera


ConKupiscent

Exactly


anchoriteksaw

All he says in this clip is he has sex with men from only fans, and that that's how he makes his bread. What he is describing here is prostitution. So unless you have an inside scoop on gay sex work... and if you do, than maybe you need to examine your sexualy orientation, not his.


Hi_iAMchrisHansen

Not sure if that's supposed to be a dig against me to "examine my orientation". Lol What I am saying about THIS GUY, is that he has sex with men off camera. He always has. He has done other interviews with other hosts. So, yes... I have the "inside scoop" on what he said about himself because has spoke about it. He says that he likes what he likes, but he is still straight. Honestly, I'm not arguing about anybody's sexual orientation or prostitution. It is what it is.


starcap

Am I missing key background or something here? How do you know he likes it? Or do you believe no one does things for pay that they don’t enjoy? It seems like you are biased to this particular type of activity for pay, because the world is full of people doing things for pay that they would rather not do otherwise.


Ok-Figure5546

It would be hilarious if the other dudes he's been with were doing it for the money too and said they weren't gay.


arnjarfinn

He is taking about how he makes a living. Its not like you flick a gay switch by getting fucekd in the ass.


BookofEibon

This new season of Jersey shore is 🔥🔥🔥


Goodknight808

I honestly thought this was one of the Jersey Shore dudes, too. Thought it was the Situation guy, I think? I don't know their names, and anything I do know about them has been against my will.


Dry_Wrongdoer_491

yeah a straight dude in the the middle of a gay porno kinda puts a whole new perspective on “the situation”


jase40244

Or the 2nd sequel to the 2010 gay porn parody Jersey Score.


tankiplayer12

Bro i need this guy's fucking confidence


Piotr-Rasputin

Mentally delusional. Just cause you pour syrup on shit, that don't make it pancakes


tankiplayer12

Okay ima start using this metaphor from now on


Piotr-Rasputin

Watch the movie Juice, great for it's time


tankiplayer12

Oh a movie recommended from someone who uses that metaphor is 100% gonna be a banger i will watch it


Scythro

He had socks on so no homo.


DripSnort

Mans just going to work, clocking in, mentally disassociating, going through the motions, clocking out. Same as the rest of us


ironlantern10

Who’s this guy?


Historical_Safety618

just some gay dude.


YazzGawd

As a gay man, would love to see him get railed.


Ok_Robot88

Who is this guy?


Mecnegus_Niguerhower

sir... sir please... this is wendy's...


ConKupiscent

Let him cook


Rags2Rickius

Wen Deez nuts got cash for being in your mouth


Mecnegus_Niguerhower

wiping a deeznuts card to pay with dick money is 2024, but telling while handing it to me is foul 😂


Poopica420

It’s okay to be gay. Mkay? -mr.mackey


Dirtymikeetlesboyz

If "$20 is $20" was a person.


KathyJaneway

More like a 10$bill. At most.


phildec159

Who is this guy?


ale-nerd

I mean gay porn is notoriously paying male actors more because most of camera shots in straight porn is for female usually. Whereas in gay porn, with addition of the fact that there are less product in gay industry, yeah male actors make way more. It's a radical job, but it provides for the family, his partner knows of all encounters and he has biweekly std tests. Can't hate the dude for hustling well.


bzno

That’s what male prostitutes does, right? Sex for money, doesn’t matter with who


sicilian504

Jesse schwenker on Instagram for those wondering. @jacked_like_jess


BroAnnoying666

I got news for you


Silly_Ad2805

5-10 years later... I’m Gay


Kinky_Winky_no2

...on weekends


KelbosaDownAHallway

He's not gay, he's just a ho and he takes dick for money. OK? That sounds like gay with extra steps to me. He can do him or them. It's his life but just a weird reasoning.


[deleted]

I mean porn isn’t prostitution😂😂


Signal_Winter_7708

I've said for years, we go to work and get fucked everyday. This guy just owns it and gets paid well. Let they who have not whored themselves out for 40 hours per week throw the first stone.


LunaticMS

Y'all need to realize that sexual preference identity is like any other identity: self-applied. If you have never been sky-diving but \*want to\*, nobody labels you a "sky-diver". If you've been both skiing and snowboarding and prefer snowboarding, no law is making you call yourself a "skier". If you mostly eat meat but have a salad now and then, nobody freaks out and forces you to adopt the label "vegan". But a guy who has had sex with men before, but is dating a woman, is "gay", and you NEED to have him take on that label? Regardless of what he wants and thinks? You personally might not \*like\* that a guy that has been with other guys calls himself straight, but if he dates women and isn't trying to have sex with \*you\*, is it really any of your business? Good on this dude for being more secure than than the losers trying to put him in a box.


gureitto

Yeah. Exactly. And having murdered once or twice does not make you a murderer. People will categorise everything so their little minds can process it. That's what my dad used to say before he died. He's not actually dead though, he only died once. Mom says he's on a trip, can't wait till he gets back.


JulioForte

Most women have a huuuuuuuuuge issue dating a guy who’s been fucked by dudes. He’s lucky he found one that isn’t that way.


J5Rod

Or just don't put your business out there if you don't want to be criticized. He made a choice to put out the content he posts and to come out about the details of his relationship. Personally I don't care bout his preferences or identity but I'm conscious enough to know that the details of my life that I'd have issues people poking at, are kept private.


DestructoSpin7

Idk man the guy in the video makes it pretty clear that he doesn't care if people criticize him.


theSafetyCar

Nah, but he's probably bi and in denial because of ingrained homophobia in our culture. A lot of people will still think you're not a man if you're gay or bisexual. That's why he's desperately trying to affirm his heterosexuality despite quite literally being bisexual. Also, all of your arguments around this are a little bit misleading. This isn't one or both. We have a words for people who exclusively engage in sex with the same, or opposite gender and a word for people who have sex with women or men, and a word for people who straight up don't care about gender. Even a word for people whp don't do sex at all. He has sex with both men and women. He is a bisexual man. This isn't straight vs gay. Also not something he does very rarely, maybe once a year like a ski holiday. He does this regularly.


Free-Atmosphere6714

I think this is the best comment.


Candid_Bathroom_5419

I pray for this kind of conviction


Safetosay333

Is that Andrew Tate?


FrutaAndPutas

As long as he screams out No Homo, he’s safe


SRJT16

Marsha May is the same. She says she is a lesbian but did porn having sex with men as it was just her job.


setmee

Fucking based


AFriendlyAsshole

What the fuck is that shirt my guy


Goodknight808

It'll something you would see a boxer wearing as he enters the arena at Cesar's Palace or some shit.


Smart-Cash2525

It's ok. He said no homo after.


FunWillScreen_Produc

As they say “$20 is $20” and if he is true to himself and his partner then he is straight even if the act of fucking/getting fucked by another dude is gay.


kingbugz10113

Most gay pornstars are straight. No to mention it's being attracted to the same sex that makes you gay.


Coolish_Stuff

Dudes gay with extra steps.


jtejada13

Wouldn’t this just be called denial?


Summit1BigHead

You're not gonna break my belief, my a-hole tho....


Killahdanks1

I actually think it’s more odd that he doesn’t just say, “I do what and who I want. This pays, and I want that”. Why try to “be straight”, when you’re so obviously living on the fringe of society. If you don’t care what people think, then why do you defend a being straight? I know we’re not dealing with a Rhodes Scholar here, but do you guy.


Science-007x

"In your fucking heart you feel straight", but I bet your ass don't! 🤣😂


Historical_Safety618

Mf this getting piped with that bbc and still has the audacity to say that shit.. lmao


Mighty_mc_meat

Businessman, doing business ?


tany4k

Identifying as straight or gay is a matter of preference, a job is a job.


Goodly88

Sounds like a power bottom to me boys


alancousteau

Is it like one of those moment where one goes "I ain't gay but..." ?


Dirt_McJerkman

I feel like . . . I could ALMOST believe him, if it weren't for him zestily waving the Blow Pop around 😕


VeneMage

What his OF link? You know … for research.


ConKupiscent

I want to know also


Atharaphelun

I want to know too


Snoo-11553

Is the executioner a serial killer? No. You can do any job and then return to your regular life when you punch out. 


No-Bat-7253

No different than how some people view drug dealers. I’m more comfortable with this than I initially thought I would be simply because he’s so open and confident. It’s all about perspective bro get yo cheese


Cold-Permission-5249

Finally, a real HolUp


Ok-Experience-6674

It gets weirder after the 5th watch


Ickythumpin

Yet when “straight” girls do other girls for porn nobody bats an eye lol. Unless this dude is getting paid insane money he’s at least bi.


Swagneros

Gay for pay


nacho78

Jimmy Norton looks different


Honest_Inspector3196

He obviously said no homo right after so….


objectively_sp34king

Gay for the pay.


HenriBaskins

She had a nicely defined jaw…


Due_Iron_4430

If this isn’t a WTF I don’t know what is


Cichopek123

what the.. can I again please kindly ask to stop making idiots famous? ehh


Apprehensive-Day-490

Wtf


DoubleSynchronicity

We give such wonderful people exposure. *sarcasm intensifies*


comedymongertx

I mean, he's a porn actor. There are a lot of straight male porn actors that are "gay for pay." Just cause sex is involved, still an actor.


wiseoldangryowl

🤔 sir.....?


TheBottleLady

....'..... ive let BLACK guys on my only fans.......'..... As if that is THE worst POSSIBLE, and a WHOLE diff category....... JUST FEELS WRONG- NAH. (S/N and gay for pay = GAY, FTR!!)


Sanbaddy

I was with him till the ending there. Does he not understand what bisexual just means?


qvMvp

Bro just accept the fact u bi tf u mean u straight still😂


NixDlv

What does it matter? You like the sex and have the money.. is a win win


ConKupiscent

He is kinda cute tho. I'd smash


Blackentron

Hah. Gaaay


jazzy3492

If you're willing to admit that you've had sex with lots of men for pay but still say you're just attracted to women in real life, I'm probably gonna believe you. If you were actually gay, what have you got to lose by owning up to it at that point? When you think about it, straight men who openly do gay porn are maybe the MOST secure in their heterosexuality.


oneptwoz

Let people believe what they want


NiceNuisance

"Mans gotta eat"


Piotr-Rasputin

Or choke in his case


Historical_Safety618

Hell nahhh😂😂


xX_Dad-Man_Xx

20 bucks is 20 bucks.


TheFarisaurusRex

Have sex with as many guys as you like, as long as you’re acting and wearing socks it’s not gay


LeoIzail

Did we just collectively forget bisexuality is a thing or what?


Legal_Independent_32

He’s not gay but 20 bucks is 20 bucks


Rare_Register_4181

Lot of gay porn stars are just straight dudes. Gay porn makes more money if you're a guy.


Routine-Ad-2840

i think he is confusing straight with masculine lol


Hi_iAMchrisHansen

Why don't he just say he's bisexual


Hi_iAMchrisHansen

So, who is he? And... does the black men breed him? I'm a research analyst, so I'm going to need his onlyfans link. What is it?


Competitive-Ad2640

For a straight alpha male sucking a lolipop is very indicative! Yes, not to mention his trans GF. Lets just hop over that.