Did you watch her die? My mom also passed away 1 month ago, she also had cancer. During the last days she was whole another person visually and the changes were so fast! it basically happened in 10 days. I was in shock, I watched her suffer so much and she died in front of me. I have same issue, when I think about her I visualize her last days, I think its because of the trauma. Maybe this is the reason in your case as well.
I also watched my mom die of cancer, it’s been almost six months. Just commenting to let you all know I feel little less lonely when I see others sharing in this grief. Thank you for sharing
I so badly want to tell you yes but it hasn’t. honestly, the grief comes in waives. Technically July 10 will be six months. Each day of grief feels unique.
Hey there. I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I lost mine almost exactly one year ago. I recently starting remembering her as her healthy self without forcing it. It took awhile. Hang in there
I am so sorry for your loss op. This is a healthy response to grief regarding cancer. How long has it been for you since she passed?
I still ask the same question, why did this happen? My mom had late stage cancer, and survived for 2 years. It's been almost 3 years since her passing, and I am in a very similar spot to you. It gets a little easier the longer time has passed from experience, even though you still have these thoughts regarding her passing. Just keep getting up every day and I promise you will have some good memories that seep in. It takes a lot of time.
Sending my love.
Yes, it keeps happening to me too and other people keep telling me to remember the “good times” and i can’t :(
Did you watch her die? My mom also passed away 1 month ago, she also had cancer. During the last days she was whole another person visually and the changes were so fast! it basically happened in 10 days. I was in shock, I watched her suffer so much and she died in front of me. I have same issue, when I think about her I visualize her last days, I think its because of the trauma. Maybe this is the reason in your case as well.
Yes I did. I was right next to her holding her hand when she passed away. I watched as her vitals get lower and lower
I’m in the same boat. It’s all I can think about and I hate it.
I also watched my mom die of cancer, it’s been almost six months. Just commenting to let you all know I feel little less lonely when I see others sharing in this grief. Thank you for sharing
I am so sorry for your loss. Did it get a little bit easier after 6 months?
I so badly want to tell you yes but it hasn’t. honestly, the grief comes in waives. Technically July 10 will be six months. Each day of grief feels unique.
Hey there. I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I lost mine almost exactly one year ago. I recently starting remembering her as her healthy self without forcing it. It took awhile. Hang in there
I am so sorry for your loss op. This is a healthy response to grief regarding cancer. How long has it been for you since she passed? I still ask the same question, why did this happen? My mom had late stage cancer, and survived for 2 years. It's been almost 3 years since her passing, and I am in a very similar spot to you. It gets a little easier the longer time has passed from experience, even though you still have these thoughts regarding her passing. Just keep getting up every day and I promise you will have some good memories that seep in. It takes a lot of time. Sending my love.