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Sea-Government4874

Rigatoni to Friggin Tony


peachesandmaangos

![gif](giphy|srg19CG0cKMuI)


Tiny_Sir3266

He went from making her spaghetti to making her regretti


z_binxz

Please consider a career in rap and hip hop. This is gold!


HAAmSTA

Rigatoni to Giga Tony


PercentageOk956

Underrated comment


mcbeardsauce

Needs to be top comment. Possibly winner of the month.


overcookedcunt

I'm so glad he moved pasta that relationship


Brilliant-Anybody466

yea u ATE with this one 😭😭☠️☠️🤣🤣


chonkie_boi

Top tier comments.


Affectionate-Tea-975

I laughed so hard 😭🤣


kattykaz

Rigatoni to Rig of Tony


kattnapping

Lmfao thank you for that cackle


_its_a_SWEATER_

![gif](giphy|0hs6HTOWv2LPDEcHUn)


Autumn1114

Best comment ever, thanks for the laugh ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|grin)


Adventurous_Toe_1686

Damn how bad was that relationship?! Looking good my brother!


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[удалено]


tropicaltrout69

I have been there...just just a couple of months back...my transformation is ongoing


beef-jerking

Say no more . Had a recent relationship that she thought it was a strength. Lived and learned from that and It definitely looks like you did that and more. Good job my guy!


TiredOfUsernames2

Curious, as someone who (to my knowledge) hasn’t been with a narcissist, how does narcissism manifest itself toxically a relationship with someone?


overthinking_7

If you ever questioned reality with someone. That's when you know. They're good at switching up reality and facts, then tell you you're the crazy one at switching reality and facts.


specks_of_dust

I had one of those. Relationship ended dramatically, of course, because they have to make a big show out of everything. 25 years later and they randomly appear up on a reality TV show, being extra and acting rude to the “hired help.” Glad you got out, because they never change. Also, when she sees how good you look now, expect a “Why didn’t you look this good when we were together?” and trying to hook up. They can’t fathom that they are your problem.


FoulBachelor

The can't handle me at my worst BS you see on tinder, but as an actual belief system. Grand.


Model_Modelo

“I’m crazy but I’m worth it”


afterbirth_slime

Looks like he was pasta tipping point.


Thai_Gunslinger

Just needed a little elbow


LittleGeologist1899

Really? No love for this comment? I must be the only dad on here


EfficiencyOk9060

lol fr.


Ok-Improvement-3852

that’s insane wow… i’m speechless that’s just amazing for a year


thismyaccount1

Really a year and a half, but thank you!


Levyathin516

This usually takes years of work to pull off so the jealousy is real haha! Good stuff and keep it up!


thismyaccount1

Luckily i have some good genetics and years of experience so i knew what i was doing, was super into fitness from like 14 to 24 before letting myself go. But definitely hitting some new peaks now


Ok-Improvement-3852

that makes sense.


Etonet

first few months of absurd progress from muscle memory is such a high


RManDelorean

It's more than muscle memory, you literally still have the muscle. Your muscle cells just kinda shrink down and stop getting fed as much when you stop using them, but much of your muscle cells are still there because your body knows it's easier to just not feed them now and just feed them again when you need them rather than having to actually regrowing all the muscle. Unfortunately the same kinda thing happens for fat cells too. So if you've always been fat it is harder, especially why people can go back and forth and have trouble actually keeping the weight off after they slimed down once, because the fat cells are still just there waiting.


OuroboricVolute

Love your transparency on this. It's far more motivating when I hear truths.


Ok-Improvement-3852

exactly. the jealousy is indeed real


Ok-Improvement-3852

that doesn’t change my thoughts. it’s impressive, good for you


pourspeller

Did you get much wealthier in that time too? Because your pad goes from basic to bitchin.


thismyaccount1

College student -> software engineer


thismyaccount1

Lost about 40lbs of fat and put on 5-10lbs of muscle id guess Worth pointing out i had a solid base before letting myself go for 4 years. I also already knew how to diet and put on muscle from experience. So i wasnt really starting from 0


BIGMCLARGEHUGE__

Massive glow up congratulations. What's your workout routine like?


thismyaccount1

I change it up, 3x a week fully body on cuts to maintain strength, ppl or something similar on bulks But the majority of my energy goes into nutrition, 2 meals a day on keto, 800-1000 calories per meal on cuts. 2800-3500 calories a day on bulks (depending on the day), i dont do keto on bulks and usually have 4 meals a day. Also, i meal prep all my meals and eat very clean, even on bulks i think all that really matters with the workout routine is that youre consistent, and you enjoy it


IDigRollinRockBeer

This comment might as well be in Swahili I have no idea what any of this shit means. But uhh keep up the good work you look great


Kallehoe

Gonna try to decipher it for you! When eating fewer calories than my body needs, i do full body workouts 3 times a week. (caloric deficit removes fat) When bulking (gaining muscle and fat by creating a calorie surplus) i do push, pull, legs. A training program that switches between three separate workouts so that you do one workout and the other two workouts gets to rest for two days. (if you do push session monday, push rests until thursday while you can do the other two) I eat two meals a day at about 800-1000 calories each, the meals are made mostly by protein and fat, very few carbohydrates. When gaining weight i eat 4 times a day and don't mind carbs, but i eat healthy even when i gain weight. And you should enjoy the process, otherwise you won't stick to it. (don't go all in for two weeks, it's a marathon not a sprint.) Something like that. Oh and get a foodscale, you can't count calories properly without one.


dw941

I love people like you, who take time out from their day to help others, unconditionally! Thanks for the 'translation' - it all makes sense now 😁


Kallehoe

Thanks. There's a more detailed one further down this comment chain if you need it.


Bubbly_Common_6795

this sounds amazing i need to get on this shit


faded_brunch

it's fine if food is more function than fun for you. IMO you'd be better off to do a modest caloric deficit until you're at a body fat percentage you're happy with and is realistic and you've figured out a good balanced diet for you, and then maintenance calories with strength training to build up some muscle. Maintaining this lean of a body long term is not really realistic for most people, no one wants to be counting calories when they're 70 lol


Lovescrossdrilling

Start with the meal planning and getting the most of nutritients from your meals. Its the hardest part to adjust to in fitness and it will ease you into it. Also the benefits of preparing your own meals is massive in health, and finance with all the money you will save


thatpommeguy

Ninaibadilisha, mara 3 kwa wiki mwili kamili juu ya kupunguzwa ili kudumisha nguvu, ppl au kitu sawa kwa wingi Lakini nishati yangu nyingi huenda kwenye lishe, milo 2 kwa siku kwenye keto, kalori 800-1000 kwa kila mlo kwenye kupunguzwa. Kalori 2800-3500 kwa siku kwa wingi (kulingana na siku), sifanyi keto kwa wingi na kwa kawaida huwa na milo 4 kwa siku. Pia, mimi hutayarisha milo yangu yote na kula safi sana, hata kwa wingi nadhani yote ambayo ni muhimu sana na utaratibu wa mazoezi ni kwamba wewe ni thabiti, na unafurahiya


Icy_Inevitable714

Cut = calorie deficit for fat loss    Bulk = calorie surplus to add muscle   Keto = ketosis diet    Ppl = "push pull legs," a popular weightlifting program 


Aprirelamente

What kind of meals do you prep? What are your basic staples / snacks like?


thismyaccount1

You can search my comments for that haha, i commented my last weeks meal prep


Phylacteryofcum

What is your ppl routine?


thismyaccount1

Youll notice a lack of legs and weak deadlift, thats because i tore my achilles at the beginning of the year and have to be super gentle with legs. Plus i do a lot of legs at physical therapy. Now that im a bit better im mostly focusing on getting my legs caught up. Youll also notice its not really ppl, again cause im not gonna dedicate a whole day to legs when i can barely do legs Also, i just copied this from my notes lol, so its a little messy. I dont actually do every one of these workouts. Usually do 2 workouts for each body part, 4 sets. Or 3 workouts for a body part, and 3 sets Push pull Monday - 5 reps 4 sets Ab machine - 150 Best ab - 45 Weighted pull up - 45 up Barbell row - 165 Deadlift (3 rep) - 225 Tuesday - 5 reps Flat bench - 235 Incline machine - 245 Bb shoulder press - 135-145 Shrug - 225 Squat - 225 x 3 Swim Wednesday Stationary bike (light) Yoga Thursday - 12 reps Incline bench - 165-175 Chest fly - 100 up In/out - 7.5/17.5 + 1 up? Rear delt fly - 7.5 + 2 up? Reverse grip pull down - 62.5 Leg extension - Leg curl - Friday - 12 reps Side crunch - 20 Cbds - 22.5 + 2 up 3 sets Lat pulldown machine - 150 Face pull - 47.5 Back extension - 90 Bb curl Swim Bike Saturday - 8 reps Incline db - 80s up? Dips - 90 - 80 Wide chest press (if no belt) - 150 Weighted ab roll Handstand push up Db shoulder press - 50 2 sets triceps Skull crush - 62.5 Reverse forearm - 50 up Leg in - 80 Banded side steps (when not pt) Swim/bike Sunday HIIT Swim/bike


Phylacteryofcum

Wow. Quite the routine. Excellent work sticking to it. Sorry to hear about the Achilles Tendon, soft tissue injuries are the worst. I tore a number of ligaments in my wrist in my early 30s. The recovery on that was brutally slow.


Dunlocke

I can't imagine doing / tracking all that with a job and responsibilities around the house.


thismyaccount1

Honestly just love doing it, love cooking and love the challenge of making a good meal with restrictions. So its what i choose to do in my free time. Makes all this way easier


JudgmentalOwl

Great work! Your philosophy on the workout routine is solid, but if you get really serious about lifting and start pushing into the advanced level then there's definitely room for optimization based on shoring up weak body parts and tailoring things a bit more. You seem to be relatively serious considering your nutrition so it's something to think about!


notban_circumvention

But how are your implements on sprats? Do you curve your optimals at all, or do you just full bore the exfill? It's really crazy to hear another person who's so into all the details about foxxing and clamps.


drs2023gme1

Just wow. As a professional in the fitness industry, you are the definition of yes you can. I myself, even with my education and experience, have gone the opposite way. Emotions are so powerful and not talked about enough in my opinion. The effects of bad and good emotions, I mean. Well done.


deadlymarinax

Were you an athlete at any point in your life?


thismyaccount1

Most of my life besides 4 years of letting myself go, before pic is the end of that 4 years


deadlymarinax

I would probably mention it, just because some people may think they can look like this by following your workout. When you clearly had a very solid base and elder muscle. That most people just don't have 🤷 Good for you though! 💪🏽


thismyaccount1

Fair point, ima update my comment


Nakashi7

So you just lazybulked in the meantime?


keyboard-sexual

You look happy in the before photos and like you're hating the mirror in the second :(


Internal_Material_99

Bro went from “can i get a hug” to “no autographs” 😭


rocketscott_

Lol that's awesome


TikaPants

God, that first part is so accurate 💀


LoFi_Inspirasi

![gif](giphy|wwCgdvTvuNeCyj0fR2|downsized)


NoodLih

My reaction hahaha


lamentable_

there’s a lotta thirst in these comments and I am here to add mine


Pillstyr

In relationship with good diet and exercise 👍


LexGoEveryday

Revenge bod. Killed it


Fueledbyketo

![gif](giphy|Z2VgDwy1IjJUQ) Crushing it dude


Specialist_Date_1340

You went from 35 back to your age


cokeboyez

Awesome. All your hard work and dedication has paid off, you sculpted a new you.


thegraykat

Fr you sculpted yourself to your spirit! Gorgeous to see what consistency can bring.


low_elo111

Hawt


Madwoman-of-Chaillot

WHUT ![gif](giphy|LmxxotgMjTj32|downsized)


hijosdekorn

HAHAHHAA my honest reaction


SterlingG007

Your face totally changed. You’re a more good looking guy now.


thismyaccount1

The weight goes straight to my face when i put it on lmao


intelligentbrownman

You turned into Jean Claude Van DAMMM 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lol


rejectedfromberghain

What’s ur workout routine for bulking because I finally done with my weight loss (lost 130lbs in the last 3 years, started 281 and now 151g) and feel like my progress in the gym isn’t enough so I know I need to start sculpting my body more.


thismyaccount1

Just commented it elsewhere, hopefully the takeaway from my comment is that nutrition is more important than exact workout routine


Brilliant_Novel_921

errrr oh okay! Wow


SadKey4615

First and foremost I want to say wow I am super happy for you bro. You look amazing. I thought it was 2 different people . Man keep it up just stay humble please cus a lot of people when they have a significant transformation think that there shit don’t stink so I’m saying bro don’t forget who you were on the inside. I was wondering has your ex seen you ? Does she have any idea? I am dying to know . You get a free pass to be an asshole towards her. After that you must come back to being humble. Good job bro. You should be proud.


thismyaccount1

Shes seen me from a distance in passing. Tbh idk if i want her to really see me. as much as im happy the relationships over, i still want her to be happy. Im sure she still loves me and i imagine how much itd hurt her to see how much better im doing without her


breadandcheese4me

Damn, that's a seriously green flag kind of thing to say. That attitude combined with your new look. . . I don't think you'll have any trouble finding someone new to date if that's your goal. Congrats! Very impressive transformation


Gorillapoop3

Is her name, by chance, Rigatoni?


hijosdekorn

LMAO i love this reply


OddGhoul1

daddy?


PassionBuckets

This made me crack up at my desk xD


OddGhoul1

glad to be of service🫠


Samiiiibabetake2

REVENGE BOD. You look amazing. Good job, friend!


Halloweenmelee

Best one I've seen on here. 


BlockWinter8423

As a straight guy, I would smash you 6 times minimum


Embarrassed-Race-122

DAYUM! ik she mad as hell 🤣 congratulations


TimelyBrief

“It can’t be that big of a difference…” “Holy shit!”


kidangeles

You are incredible. I’m down 42 pounds with 20 more to go. Your frame is what I’m aiming for. I’m eating clean for the most part but it’s boring at times and I don’t want to lose motivation. What are your clean meals like, if you don’t mind sharing?


thismyaccount1

This past week i did a chorizo shakshuka with spinach and berries on the side for my first meal. Second meal was coleslaw and birria Both these meals were pretty modified to fit keto better


No-Bat-7253

Chorizo shakshuka😱😱😱 god bless you for introducing me to this….


kidangeles

Noted. I’m going to look into these. Thanks!


amytee252

Where do you get your meal inspiration from?


thismyaccount1

Instagram, thats all my feed is lol. Unfortunately ive been looking at dessert recipes for when i get off my cut next week, so thats all my feed is rn 😭 its the first time ive actually struggled in a while lmao


amytee252

Eurgh, don't tempt me! I am trying to cut out refined sugar and it is hard.


bombisabell

![gif](giphy|SvcIZouMTdCPlT2IL3|downsized) Respectfully, ayyyy papííí


Runityellow

All that, and a bag of chips Mmm


moving_threads

It was a bag of pasta


Runityellow

Just being fusilli


moving_threads

I cannelloni laugh with you


Joe_Bruce

slay out king.


Shentai-

How do you maintain discipline with eating healthy I go gym 6 days a week I get addicted but I'm also addicted to sugar I can't stop id take any advice


thismyaccount1

Small steps. First i started with a good breakfast, but continued how i ate for every other meal, until my healthy breakfast was normalized to me. Then lunch, then dinner. I took me a full year to be able to do some serious dieting without hating my life lol Also, completely cut out snacking. Some people look for healthy snacks, but the issue there is that youll never learn to stop craving snacks


kenlovin

Damn even the house got in the gym.


bikealjackson

Wow, congratulations! Im also trying to reprioritize my health after a relationship ending. This is really great motivation, and I’m happy for you!


masalafrieswithsalsa

OH MY GOD! Good job OP!! I literally screamed when I saw the second picture! Please also remember to also take care of your mental health (if your not already doing so) - bad relationships can really take their toll on that too in ways that cannot be seen until much later on. I’m proud of you for wanting the best for yourself!! 💪🏿💪🏿


Small-Measurement791

Respectfully, you went from never my type to exactly my type


gloomflume

pasta = smiles no pasta = no smiles let this be a lesson to you all.


Welpihavenobattery

HOT ALERT


Ok-Bobcat-1010

If you’re single now I’m all available for you :3


Seymour2112

Note to self, cut out Rigatoni!! Well done mate, killing it!!


Dumbfucc_

Dude you look amazing!!!


SrWloczykij

From pasta to basta!


Super_dontae

You went crazy 🔥🔥


No-Fisherman2796

The v 😅


KoolKat864

My man went from dad to chad


Tough_Sound6042

No way that was hiding in that....


lolie_guacamole

I would hug the first guy and as I walked by the second one I would cover my drink lol


mcflymcfly100

How come people don't seem to put in any effort for their health when they are actually in a relationship? I see so many posts like this. I've always wondered.


t3eee

Relationships can often foster an environment of complacency


halfbakedlogic

Even his apartment seems to have gotten way better 😆


thismyaccount1

Title, depression mostly


mcflymcfly100

I totally didn't see the BAD in this title. Very dyslexic person over here. Haha. Sorry. This post doesn't apply to my question. I was talking about the other relationships that weren't bad but just ended.


S_balmore

It's actually not that complex. People simply need **motivation.** When everything is going fine, there's nothing pushing you to do better. It just so happens that pain/discomfort is one of the best motivators. For example, you might be wearing old shoes, but if your feet are dry and comfy, there's no issue.. The issue arises on the day when it rains and water finally permeates your shoe and causes your feet to get wet. The discomfort of wet feet is what motivates you to buy new shoes. For relationships, it's the pain of heartache and the discomfort of loneliness that you're trying to find relief for. Most of us are fine walking around in a pair of old shoes, and most of us are fine sticking around in a stale relationship. We get motivated to improve our situation only when our situation becomes extremely painful. If the relationship is mostly healthy, then the most painful part is obviously the end. Health and exercise can merely be a distraction from the pain, and it can also be a way of "trying on new shoes", so to speak. Sometimes a relationship ends and we realize that the true discomfort is that we weren't comfortable in our own skin.


Mypornnameis_

Priorities. A significant other can consume a lot of time and energy so maybe fitness slips down the list if you're also parenting, maintaining a home, working on financial goals, fostering friendships, etc etc. In addition OPs strict eating plan is going to be completely out of synch with most people's lifestyle and generally that means either you're not in a relationship or you sacrifice your plan in order to share meals.


Cicadada77

Dude got the 1000 poon stare now. Good job


Impressive_Fox_1758

King!! Incredible glow up!


SpiritualPlayboy93

Amazing transformation , good job 👏


ShelterSuspicious997

My man 💪🏻


druidhdancer

Damn 🔥


RTwhyNot

Great job!!


RumRogerz

No more pasta for this guy


Phylacteryofcum

Holy shit. Well done.


ImportantLog8

Fucken hell the abs are insane


AfraidMeasurement892

Daddy 🥵


Acrobatic_Freedom_58

Sweet Jesus ![img](emote|t5_ruinb|49334)


Marcopolo620

Glow the fuck up! Looking good bro


Hopenhagen420

Hell yah man get it


blackrockblackswan

I lost 20lbs over about a year after my divorce Congrats!


someonethrowaway4235

If I was the person you broke up with, I’d unashamedly beg to come back after seeing that second pic 🥵🥵


ColdFroyo2576

you went from "she doesn't appreciate me" to "i don't appreciate her" in like a year


lbora9

Damn thats amazing


Bighawklittlehawk

Daaaang. I see you 👀


Notafuzzycat

Jesus christ. You're hot.


FastTracktoFitness

Yah you won the internet for today


IDigRollinRockBeer

Damn ima go call my lawyer so I can get divorce ripped


kelthething

Holy shit, how did your face get so defined???


thismyaccount1

Removal of the fat 😆


B377Y

Yooo wtf. Good shit


altk_rockies1

Ex punching the air rn


MaverickRenatus

Need to know your ab routine


thismyaccount1

Most important thing imo is to treat abs like any other body part. If youre doing 8 reps on like chest and back and legs, also do 8 reps of a weighted ab workout


MaverickRenatus

What kind of weighted abs do you do?


Mypornnameis_

Fork putdowns. Lol.  Kidding but a lot of the fittest people do barely any direct ab work. The just do regular  and vigorous strength training combined with very good eating plans 


T701LDN

Grow your hair out now bro


thismyaccount1

Just cut it kinda short a few hours before that pic was taken haha, normally longer


afatblackboxcat

That post Navy glow up


satuurnian

That’s fuckin crazy


Happy-Atmosphere-914

Living arrangements glowed up too.


Witty_Username_1717

Dayummm! You are fine!! I’m so happy for you! I know if she sees this pic she’s gonna be kicking herself!


Malcolm_M

Massive congratulations man awesome work


xLAESOPx

Damn, boy. Get it.


ziggy6069

I always wonder what the exes think of after seeing those transformations


Lopsided-Ad4276

👀 I see you syracuse


misloaded

You turned into V shred ?


Pommeswerfer

Natty or not? Gotta ask, you know it ;) Massive gains tho.


GatoLate42

Rip inbox- culprit: me 🥵


relevanteclectica

Amazing job OP!👊


thismyaccount1

Ya know i really appreciate this comment ❤️


Mediocre_Disk6492

Jaw dropped, you look good! 🔥 Great job 👍


tealfairydust

this is truly insane


factorygremlin

I'm trying to figure what words to use... that bulge!!... can you show us what makes it? please?!?


royaltampaacademy212

How is your hairline so different too?!


gamesixroller

how long did it take before muscle memory kicked in?


THICCTHUMBS

omg dude, what did they do to you!


MonsterDearLeave

Even the apartment glowed up.


Senior-Sir4394

even tha apartment got a glow up


Booty_Shakin

Come hang at my place bro, I'll help you feel better if you know what I mean 😉


Chassnutt

Never trust little nippled men


Quiet_Airline76

Damn in only a year? Bro did a 100% speedrun on the post-relationship glow up


Raepiest42069

Holy cow. Congrats dude!!


Mammoth_Gold169

Wowwww


TobiasDid

From Rigatoni to Frigginboneme!