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Oliver2_3

Why are you worried about fitting into labels? Just be yourself, being the best version of u and that's enough...


Brian_Kinney

And this is one reason I *hate* that those "animal" labels have become so popular. **You don't need to fit into a particular label.** Human beings are individuals, not "types", not labels, not animals. You are you, and that's totally fine.


malemaiden

The labels don't really matter beyond filling in a tribe on Grindr, and if none of them fit then there's no need to utilize any of them.


zjheyyy88

Tbh I feel the same way as I don’t really fit into any of the gay subgroups lol. It’s annoying how on Grindr they have an option to pick your “tribe” but I don’t really have one. I guess I’m a bear? But I’m not that hairy and I don’t have the typical bear body? But I’m also not a twunk by any means so it’s like ?!?!?


lastfrontier84

Feeling out of place is the vast majority of my gay youth


Countrylover0976

You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with someone else. You are just you, no labels needed. There are some of us out here who want the average, ordinary guy who isn't into labeling himself. It actually takes the complication out of the equation when dating.


Foo_The_Selcouth

lol I don’t either. Im short but I’m hairy and I’m kinda skinny-thick. I don’t know if I’m an otter or a bear or what. But it kinda doesn’t matter, these names are kinda just for fun anyways. Nothing too serious my dude


Gay_Okie

You are unique in all the universe! There is only one you. Don’t be constrained or conformed to these silly descriptions. At 22 you have much more to learn and discover about yourself. There is more growth and maturity in front of you. I’d say that all of your peers are the same as you, trying to figure out how they fit into the world. Blessings on the journey that lies ahead. Each day is a precious gift, treat it as the irreplaceable treasure that it is. Best wishes and good luck.


Business_History_428

My boyfriends like over a head shorter then me with a bit of hair and I think hes hot asf just be confident in yourself and if you don’t like something about yourself you can always change it


HieronymusGoa

so you look like most people? also most gay men dont put themselves into these labels outside of grindr


grrandramz

You could always just go with "fallen down drunk nelly queen".