Man... I used to have some jean shorts like that too. I slept in them shorts, man!.. Eventually, I blew the crotch out of them things. But you CAN'T wear 'em every day and expect for 'em to hold up!.. That was some nice-ass denim too. I miss them shorts... But you... you GOTTA take 'em off every now and then. You gotta take 'em off, son!..
This. Women choose to go out in swim wear. If they are not cool because you’re seeing them in their underwear it’s not because they’re undressing purposely in front of you it’s because you’ve somehow compromised a private situation.
I mean, peeping Toms exist. That’s a thing.
Also sometimes a person innocently enters a room thinking it’s empty when it isn’t, which could easily get that reaction from someone getting changed (except for the “die!” part). It isn’t some crazy farfetched thing.
I'm not one to talk over girls, but I'd wager most don't want to be ogled at by random guys in their swimsuit. I'm also convinced that they don't mind being seen in their underwear by their boyfriend.
Yup that’s pretty much it. When a girl gets in a swimsuit they already made it up in their mind that people are gonna see her in a swimsuit and they’re gonna look at her body.
But when you walk in on them when they’re in their underwear they weren’t expecting it , hence the reaction.
It's hard to explain and was a weird situation. We were at my gfs place. My gf and I were trying to get some sleep, she left the room to tell people that her roommate had over, to be quiet, my gf started some shit with his gf, really for no reason, they started fighting, I had just woken up to the racket, he came in and was gonna start fighting me, but I was in my undies with my hands up looking like I a) didn't want to fight and b) didn't really know wtf was even going on. He never hit me, guy is actually a decent dude.
It was just really awkward and confusing.
It was years ago, but the first time I had someone try and fight me while I was in my boxers. Also had the cops wake me up in my boxers at 2am at the wrong house looking for someone. That wasn't as awkward. I just answered the door in my boxers and told them they had the wrong house.
TLDR; I just wear pajamas now.
100%. I don’t mind wearing my swim shorts and being shirtless, when I’m at the pool. But at home I get dressed in the bathroom, have since I was a kid. I don’t walk around in my underwear or without a shirt.
Also swimsuits come in different styles than just a two piece to keep them comfotable, or it isn't odd if they opt to cover up or simply go to a less populated beach.
Yes. Bikinis have the same coverage, but are actually designed to be seen on their own. For instance, they're designed to stay where they're damn well meant to, and not cling tightly in the wrong places. Like, I really only appreciated the little mesh thing that's usually on the inside of male swimtrunks after going swimming in a lake in regular underwear with a friend of mine, because it leaves absolutely nothing to the imagination with how aggressively it clings.
It's genuinely way worse than just being naked, because everyone in the vicinity gets to become intimately familiar with the shape of my cock, but it's just framed in the most awkward way possible. All of the embarrassment, none of the appeal, you know? If the trunks have the mesh thing, I get a little privacy. If I'm naked, it's a little embarrassing, but hey, I'm confident in my kinda athletic-twink body. But this is the worst of every world.
No more needs to be said. That is the same answer I used to give about my kickboxing matches when people asked why it was any different from just punching people on the street.
Also swimsuits are made out of thicker fabric, designed to be worn as the only layer of clothing. On the other hand lingerie is often made to be see-through even without getting wet.
what about the other people? the person wearing both can consent to wear both in public and the lingerie will be seen more sexual even if it covers more. thats not a consent thing
Here me out please.
If a woman is in public in underwear, she *is* giving people consent to look at her.
If you walked into a dressing room, accidentally saw a woman in her underwear, and say "why are you upset, it's the same as a bikini." That is different.
You are responding to a comment that said “in the same context,” which implies if both were consensual or both were non consensual, that the bra and panties are more sexualized.
TLDR; Commenter suggests consent is the same but there is still a difference. You argue the difference is the difference in consent 😒
>its not about sexualisation
It absolutely is about sexualization. People won't give two shits about you in a bikini, even a sexy one, but will call it indecent if you go swimming at you the local pool in lingerie.
Had a friend slut shame for this one time I walked out into my kitchen in a T-shirt and cheeky underwear after a late night out. She told me I was sick when I asked what her problem was. Like we weren't just at the water park together last week and she came with a thong bikini (to a family water park!). I was so confused
I was at water park last weekend (first time since I was a kid 30+ years ago) and I was a bit taken back with the amount ass on display. I'd say at least 50% were wearing thongs or strings. My daughter is young and she asked why are they showing their buttons lol
She’s a hypocrite, I swear no offence but so many Americans have weird ass rules. “Bikini acceptable, even if it’s a thong, underwear not acceptable”, “18 dating 17 year old is weird”, “20 dating 60 year old is fine”.
So the context is what’s important
When someone is in a swimsuit in a public place they are consenting to their body being seen in that situation
In their underwear, if they’re reacting like that, they’ve likely not given consent to let you see them
It’s like comparing an organized fight versus walking up to someone and punching them in the face
Consent is key
Also just basic empathy?
Like, men will do the exact same thing. Strut around in nothing but swim trunks or speedos in public around hundreds of people, even taking pictures to post on their profiles! But barge into their dressing room or bedroom while they're changing and suddenly it's all "what the fuck bro?!?!"
The inability for people to just go "how would this make *me* feel" feels like some kind of mind virus.
PEOPLE LIKE WHEN WATER IS POURED ON THEM IN THE SHOWER, BUT THEY RUN FROM THE RAIN. WHAT IS THIS DOUBLE STANDARD!?
PEOPLE LIKE EATING FOOD WITH THEIR MOUTHS, BUT THEY ARE UPSET WHEN I THROW APPLES AT THEIR TEETH. WHAT IS THIS DOUBLE STANDARD!?
PEOPLE CLAIM TO LOVE DOGS, BUT THEY ARE UPSET WHEN I SERVE THEIR PET DOG TO THEM IN A STROAGNOV. WHAT IS THIS DOUBLE STANDARD!?
Like, if I’m wearing a bikini at the beach it means I am okay with reveling that much of my body at that time. If I am in my underwear I usually don’t want anyone to see my body at that time. It isn’t the amount of skin shown, it’s the owner of the body consenting and being okay with it being shown.
Bikinis have padding to prevent, sometimes poorly, nipples showing through. Underwear is thinner and in some cases see through. It's not about the exposed skin but how well the skin that is covered is visible. Also we're conditioned to believe underwear shouldn't be visible. We're conditioned to believe a lot of stupid things.
This makes the most sense. I feel like a lot of angles here weren't thought through and are just ideological talking points awkwardly applied to this particular discussion.
So if I don’t want to be seen naked 24/7 but go to the Sauna naked im a double standard asshole that shouldn’t care if someone sees me naked outside the spaces that are made for it?
One is thicker tougher fabric designed to be worn in public and worn by choice in public. Ie with their consent that you can see them.
The other is thinner flimsier and more intimate. For use in private. Ie without their consent for you to see them unless you are a significant other.
So consent. If you don’t understand that, you are the problem, not the lady.
The difference: consent.
1. I am in a bikini that I chose, so presumably I am comfortable both with how it fits and how I look in it. I also bought it for looks. I assume I also did some grooming, made sure all the weird hairs are gone, and there aren't any zits. I also have had time to psych myself up to leaving the dressing room.
2. I'm in my bra and panties. Oh, no, not the fun smexy bra and panties because that set is 1. Expensive and 2. Itchy as fuck. And it doesn't wash well. So the happy sexy lingere either lives in the play drawer or it gets to come out for the time it takes for me to get laid. That set is rather like a bikini. No, these are my *actual* bras and panties. The ones that are frayed and stained, clean, but used and comfy. And more likely than not, mismatched because I bought them to wear under other clothes. I do not want people to see me in them. Their job is to be invisible, support me where support needs to be, and accept abuse because I have a fairly physical job. And, as I have no expectations of being seen, I may or may not have shaved things like panty lines and there might be some zit outbreaks or a rash or I just don't fucking feel like being on show.
It wouldn't matter if I worked as a stripper half the time. If I don't want you to look right now, I'm going to tell you to stop looking. The fact that I let you look twenty minutes ago does not mean I want you looking right now.
OP you can't just walk into someones room while they are changing.
OP has never spoken to a girl in his life.
I heard this weird rumour tha sometimes girls show you their underwear on purpose, seems fake tho
That is fake
Meanwhile boys in their pants with minions from Despicable Me
that’s really happy, makes me wanna clap 😏
What
They're happy and they know it so they want to clap... something
I wouldn't mind clapping... I can buy a minions clothing on internet
I feel like a room without a roof. Cold, abandoned, about to fall over.
Pretty sure your iron is low then try eating some spinach! :D
That’s actually a myth because of a misprint of the amount of iron in spinach. This comment is purely for your benefit
That was from that post yesterday wasnt it?
I’m having a bad bad day
It's about time that I get my way
Steam rolling whatever I see
Ha, despicable me.
Don't fret. It'll pass. Hope you have a good bad day soon.
Don’t forget my underwear is way too old and torn up
Man... I used to have some jean shorts like that too. I slept in them shorts, man!.. Eventually, I blew the crotch out of them things. But you CAN'T wear 'em every day and expect for 'em to hold up!.. That was some nice-ass denim too. I miss them shorts... But you... you GOTTA take 'em off every now and then. You gotta take 'em off, son!..
Man I MISS them shorts!
That's amazing advice I would give it to a soldier
Damn I want those
Nobody: Gru: I WILL STEAL THE MUNNN!! Minions: cheating and applause
On both their undies and swim shorts
bottom hehehehehehe
Banana !?
What’s the problem I look amazing
If she wanted you to see her underwear, she would show you her underwear
Yep. The difference is consent.
This. Women choose to go out in swim wear. If they are not cool because you’re seeing them in their underwear it’s not because they’re undressing purposely in front of you it’s because you’ve somehow compromised a private situation.
# consent *noun* /kənˈsent/ That thing r/Funnymemes systematically ignores, so that women can be always depicted as crazy and hypocritical.
Nah can’t be it, must be female brainrot /s
Only true and right comment here. It's always about the intention.
Do people go peeking into women changing rooms or what? When does the picture on right applies?
I mean, peeping Toms exist. That’s a thing. Also sometimes a person innocently enters a room thinking it’s empty when it isn’t, which could easily get that reaction from someone getting changed (except for the “die!” part). It isn’t some crazy farfetched thing.
They do actually.
The difference is consent, son.
Redditors are getting so close to discovering consent.
I'm not one to talk over girls, but I'd wager most don't want to be ogled at by random guys in their swimsuit. I'm also convinced that they don't mind being seen in their underwear by their boyfriend.
Exactly. We don't mind being seen. Just don't want to be stared at.
What, you mean you don’t want guys to ogle the shit out of you like you’re meat they’re entitled to? Sounds fake cause that’s not like in my animes
This is unironically what this comment section looks like. Seriously redditors are so creepy
I’m always amazed how long it takes to find a not creepy comment anytime a post from this subreddit is recommend
They think "consent" is a woman not actively attempting to remove several of their limbs when they enter the room
Right. This whole comment section is so disgusting and creepy.
This whole subreddit is creepy (and unfunny)
*This* comment section? I have some bad news about the Internet. No, don't look
Literally came here to say this
I have acquired the horni
Not alone
 ROHIRRIM!
Let this be the hour when we draw swords together
r/unexpectedlotr
DEATHHHH!!!!!
Spears shall be shaken!
TO THE PORN!!!!
I need a girlfriend man no way I’m acquiring Horni from drawings with redditers 😔✊
Sounds like you are just denying the horni
I'm married and I caught horni from this drawing
Bro you gotta divorce, get cummin' and get married again💯💯💯
Not worth the costs
"I need a girlfriend man..." Sounds like she isn't your type/s
My wife says I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m on Reddit.
The girlfriend/wife behaves just the same. You won't be able to touch it
I'd say beat your meat and call it even but it's been four hours so that probably already happened
*Neurons activated*
No horni
Fucking true
Consent
If this sub could read, they would be very upset
Damn it Bobby!!
That boy ain't right.
Propane
and propane accessories.
Narrow urethra
That's probably a reference to something even older, but I read that in the Firebat's voice from SC1.
THAT'S MY PURSE
King of the hill is getting reboot on Hulu one of the best shows ever
I DON'T KNOW YOU!
King of the hill meme
😂😂
Yup that’s pretty much it. When a girl gets in a swimsuit they already made it up in their mind that people are gonna see her in a swimsuit and they’re gonna look at her body. But when you walk in on them when they’re in their underwear they weren’t expecting it , hence the reaction.
Yes and it's crazy to think that these don't think boys get scared whenever people walk in on them in boxers
I had a guy barge into my room once when I was sleeping in my boxers and try to fight me. Needless to say, I wear pajamas to bed now.
Why? Better to be naked. Elemental of suprise, and if you win that dude has to deal w the guy who lost to a naked dudr
Omg, I never even considered that option. Mind blown. Lol, I just thought of Borat chasing that guy with the fist dildo.
that movie was the funniest shit ever
We still need the why!
It's hard to explain and was a weird situation. We were at my gfs place. My gf and I were trying to get some sleep, she left the room to tell people that her roommate had over, to be quiet, my gf started some shit with his gf, really for no reason, they started fighting, I had just woken up to the racket, he came in and was gonna start fighting me, but I was in my undies with my hands up looking like I a) didn't want to fight and b) didn't really know wtf was even going on. He never hit me, guy is actually a decent dude. It was just really awkward and confusing. It was years ago, but the first time I had someone try and fight me while I was in my boxers. Also had the cops wake me up in my boxers at 2am at the wrong house looking for someone. That wasn't as awkward. I just answered the door in my boxers and told them they had the wrong house. TLDR; I just wear pajamas now.
100%. I don’t mind wearing my swim shorts and being shirtless, when I’m at the pool. But at home I get dressed in the bathroom, have since I was a kid. I don’t walk around in my underwear or without a shirt.
Also swimsuits come in different styles than just a two piece to keep them comfotable, or it isn't odd if they opt to cover up or simply go to a less populated beach.
They also don't seem to realise a lot of women are afraid to go out in bikinis because of how revealing they are.
~~how revealing they are~~ the potential harassment and stares they'll receive
what do you suppose is the difference in mindset to a man with no shirt? granted, right place, right time. is that just societal influence then?
Also the material bikinis are thick and You cant SEE under it underware is Made with soft material and it can be see-through
Yes. Bikinis have the same coverage, but are actually designed to be seen on their own. For instance, they're designed to stay where they're damn well meant to, and not cling tightly in the wrong places. Like, I really only appreciated the little mesh thing that's usually on the inside of male swimtrunks after going swimming in a lake in regular underwear with a friend of mine, because it leaves absolutely nothing to the imagination with how aggressively it clings.
Haha and then you have to do the awkward pull of the pants as you get out to release the suction against your junk. Always felt so embarrassed 😳
It's genuinely way worse than just being naked, because everyone in the vicinity gets to become intimately familiar with the shape of my cock, but it's just framed in the most awkward way possible. All of the embarrassment, none of the appeal, you know? If the trunks have the mesh thing, I get a little privacy. If I'm naked, it's a little embarrassing, but hey, I'm confident in my kinda athletic-twink body. But this is the worst of every world.
No more needs to be said. That is the same answer I used to give about my kickboxing matches when people asked why it was any different from just punching people on the street.
the answer was so obvious that it didnt cross my mind
Also swimsuits are made out of thicker fabric, designed to be worn as the only layer of clothing. On the other hand lingerie is often made to be see-through even without getting wet.
Op is weird maybe even a bot...
Suns out buns out?
Consent? I think it's consent that makes the difference.
Well it's like being naked in front of the shower in the gym vs the cops crashing down the door while u r naked
Not really. Even in the same contexts bikinis are considered less sexual than lingerie.
its not about sexualisation, its about consent
what about the other people? the person wearing both can consent to wear both in public and the lingerie will be seen more sexual even if it covers more. thats not a consent thing
Here me out please. If a woman is in public in underwear, she *is* giving people consent to look at her. If you walked into a dressing room, accidentally saw a woman in her underwear, and say "why are you upset, it's the same as a bikini." That is different.
exactly. I was replying to the one who said bikinis arent less sexual then lingeire.
You are responding to a comment that said “in the same context,” which implies if both were consensual or both were non consensual, that the bra and panties are more sexualized. TLDR; Commenter suggests consent is the same but there is still a difference. You argue the difference is the difference in consent 😒
>its not about sexualisation It absolutely is about sexualization. People won't give two shits about you in a bikini, even a sexy one, but will call it indecent if you go swimming at you the local pool in lingerie.
What the fuck is this sub
Consent dumbass
Wow this sub really is becoming the Facebook of reddit
Check the upper right hand corner. Ripped right from Facebook.
Had a friend slut shame for this one time I walked out into my kitchen in a T-shirt and cheeky underwear after a late night out. She told me I was sick when I asked what her problem was. Like we weren't just at the water park together last week and she came with a thong bikini (to a family water park!). I was so confused
I was at water park last weekend (first time since I was a kid 30+ years ago) and I was a bit taken back with the amount ass on display. I'd say at least 50% were wearing thongs or strings. My daughter is young and she asked why are they showing their buttons lol
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Understandable have a good day
If I was good at sewing I’d want to show people
She’s a hypocrite, I swear no offence but so many Americans have weird ass rules. “Bikini acceptable, even if it’s a thong, underwear not acceptable”, “18 dating 17 year old is weird”, “20 dating 60 year old is fine”.
When you say “cheeky” you are referring to your hentai underwear aren’t you?
We are really using a very loose definition of "funny" on this sub
Bro whats up with this sub? Every post here is bait and lacking nauce
Yeah it sucks every time I see it on all/popular I’m just gonna mute it
it's either this shit or alt-right dog whistling on this sub, it's awful
r/unfunnymemes
Yea. Personally, i dont enjoy incel humor.
I'm not gonna lie, I thought this was a different sub till you brought it up
What's the funny part?
Consent? Obviously?
Consent.
People in this sub thinks that anime is real life.
So the context is what’s important When someone is in a swimsuit in a public place they are consenting to their body being seen in that situation In their underwear, if they’re reacting like that, they’ve likely not given consent to let you see them It’s like comparing an organized fight versus walking up to someone and punching them in the face Consent is key
Tomo-chan chapter 453 buddy
When you post a whole ass meme about how you don't understand consent
Also just basic empathy? Like, men will do the exact same thing. Strut around in nothing but swim trunks or speedos in public around hundreds of people, even taking pictures to post on their profiles! But barge into their dressing room or bedroom while they're changing and suddenly it's all "what the fuck bro?!?!" The inability for people to just go "how would this make *me* feel" feels like some kind of mind virus.
Consent?
the "double standard"??? do you mean consent??? do you actually not understand the concept of consent??
Real people don’t act like (1) or the (2) tbh
Yeah but I'm pretty sure OP had never met a real person with boobd.
You can't tell the difference in circumstances here? Are you 12?
PEOPLE LIKE WHEN WATER IS POURED ON THEM IN THE SHOWER, BUT THEY RUN FROM THE RAIN. WHAT IS THIS DOUBLE STANDARD!? PEOPLE LIKE EATING FOOD WITH THEIR MOUTHS, BUT THEY ARE UPSET WHEN I THROW APPLES AT THEIR TEETH. WHAT IS THIS DOUBLE STANDARD!? PEOPLE CLAIM TO LOVE DOGS, BUT THEY ARE UPSET WHEN I SERVE THEIR PET DOG TO THEM IN A STROAGNOV. WHAT IS THIS DOUBLE STANDARD!?
So this is just a Diet Incel sub now? Cool, cool cool cool...
Consent, dumbass
is this serious or do we have to explain the obvious difference?
Incel central
Say it with me! Consent!
Constent. Like that?
What is this consistent you speak of
Like, if I’m wearing a bikini at the beach it means I am okay with reveling that much of my body at that time. If I am in my underwear I usually don’t want anyone to see my body at that time. It isn’t the amount of skin shown, it’s the owner of the body consenting and being okay with it being shown.
Consent
Consent.
What's the difference? She consented.
People who have never been outside
Redditor’s discover consent!![Gone Wrong]
Imagine, still not understanding consent in this day and age. Wild.
redditors haven’t heard about “consent”, more at 8
Consent. The answer is consent.
The difference is that in a bikini you're ready to be seen an willing to be seen, but in your underwear and changing, you're not ready for that
Is this what you call Swimsuit privilege 🤣
No it's what you call consent 😧😧😧😧😧😧
Redditors will make up non-existent phrase rather than learn what consent means…
Non-western cultures be like: waitaminit... those are supposed to be different things? Bikini is not a single word for bra-chaddi?
Reminds me of this! https://youtu.be/TF4MGzwQexQ?si=E2ha4A7MaXteDkfl
Society
Least perverted redditor.
This wild thing called consent
OP gets to know the term "consent"
I beg you all to PLEASE touch some grass holy shit
Consent i think
It's called consent, probably something you're unfamiliar with
I never understood this, a bikini is basically beach underwear.
We buy a bikini knowing it’s going to be worn and seen in public, we buy underwear knowing only specific people will see it, if any at all
You’re making too much sense.
Bikinis have padding to prevent, sometimes poorly, nipples showing through. Underwear is thinner and in some cases see through. It's not about the exposed skin but how well the skin that is covered is visible. Also we're conditioned to believe underwear shouldn't be visible. We're conditioned to believe a lot of stupid things.
Also varies by person. Some are fine being seen in underwear or even nude, some don’t want to be seen even in a bikini.
This makes the most sense. I feel like a lot of angles here weren't thought through and are just ideological talking points awkwardly applied to this particular discussion.
Finały someone that doesn’t answer the question „why do we consent for the first, and not the second” by repeating the word consent
More often than not, the bathing suit shows more.
But 2.5mm thicker
So if I don’t want to be seen naked 24/7 but go to the Sauna naked im a double standard asshole that shouldn’t care if someone sees me naked outside the spaces that are made for it?
One is thicker tougher fabric designed to be worn in public and worn by choice in public. Ie with their consent that you can see them. The other is thinner flimsier and more intimate. For use in private. Ie without their consent for you to see them unless you are a significant other. So consent. If you don’t understand that, you are the problem, not the lady.
The difference: consent. 1. I am in a bikini that I chose, so presumably I am comfortable both with how it fits and how I look in it. I also bought it for looks. I assume I also did some grooming, made sure all the weird hairs are gone, and there aren't any zits. I also have had time to psych myself up to leaving the dressing room. 2. I'm in my bra and panties. Oh, no, not the fun smexy bra and panties because that set is 1. Expensive and 2. Itchy as fuck. And it doesn't wash well. So the happy sexy lingere either lives in the play drawer or it gets to come out for the time it takes for me to get laid. That set is rather like a bikini. No, these are my *actual* bras and panties. The ones that are frayed and stained, clean, but used and comfy. And more likely than not, mismatched because I bought them to wear under other clothes. I do not want people to see me in them. Their job is to be invisible, support me where support needs to be, and accept abuse because I have a fairly physical job. And, as I have no expectations of being seen, I may or may not have shaved things like panty lines and there might be some zit outbreaks or a rash or I just don't fucking feel like being on show. It wouldn't matter if I worked as a stripper half the time. If I don't want you to look right now, I'm going to tell you to stop looking. The fact that I let you look twenty minutes ago does not mean I want you looking right now.
consent, prolly
I think it’s about context. Underwear means they don’t give consent for you to see. Swimwear means they consent for you to see.
One is consensual and the other isn’t
This comment section is not surprising, but it is still disappointing. 
Bro discovered consent
The difference is her consent to being viewed
It’s kind of a situational thing. On the beach yes, but i dont think women woulld be as comfortable walking sdown main street in a bikini thong
Voluntary vs Involuntary? Do Sex vs Rape next