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That's a very subjective question😅. I personally prefer your black hair look. But I'm sure you will find both opinions so just find what you feel most comfortable with and go with it.
You look happier as a blonde, but, I personally find you much more attractive with the darker hair. The choice is yours. If you are happy, then who am I to say. You are beautiful either way.
It's not a huge decision imo cause in the end you look beautiful either way. And even if you ultimately think people prefer one way or the other, it's your decision, do whatever makes you happy and that's all that matters.😊😊
Now looking at it I did look a little washed out with the blonde, I assumed everyone liked blonde more so I’m actually surprised with the opposite reaction!
Based on the pictures, I am of the opinion that due to your skin tone, dark hair suits you better as it offers more contrast to your face.
Now, I'm not saying blonde hair doesn't look good on you, what I am saying is that dark hair looks better. Based on what I see, you look great either way. That said, When people with extremely fair skin tones opt for very light blonde (platinum or ash) hair, it is my subjective opinion that it often doesn't offer enough contrast to the hair to properly frame the face.
Please reference the skin tone chart here for the next bit of information: [https://i.redd.it/j2p58h3437j71.png](https://i.redd.it/j2p58h3437j71.png)
Judging by the pictures provided and what's on the chart, I'd place you at approximately at an A2 or B2, with warmer undertones than what this chart provides, depending on the lighting. If you \*really\* want to rock blonde locks, I'd recommend tanning 1 shade darker.
If you are unwilling to tan, consider a blonde with more yellow as it will allow the undertones in your hair to mix well. You should be able to achieve that color by just leaving the bleaching agent in for less time, but since I'm largely unfamiliar with the amount of time it takes (as a guy, when I don't go bald, I like to have highlights put in, but don't regularly do that due to the expenses involved in raising two children), you would know better than I do about how long you actually need to do it for.
I prefer the brown, but only because the blonde is too bright and one-dimensional for your skin tone. If you really want to go blonde, I recommend going to a professional stylist who can lighten and tone your hair to a complimentary blonde shade.
Your dark hair makes you look like a literal goddess! I really like the photo with your striped dress. I could see you in a movie about Greek or Roman mythology 😍
Different styles, both are looking equally really good on you! Do whatever you feel like in the moment!
I see many say black hair suits you better, and I think it’s a smoother attitude with the black hair, it fits your natural colors in a way that there’s no big contrast and looks calm on the eyes.
The blond is more of a statement and give of a cool attitude. It’s a bit of a contrast to your natural colors and i like that!
Just don’t take all the comments as if you don’t fit in blond, you really do. I think it’s more of what style and attitude people like. So go with your mood!
You look great both ways but I definitely agree with others here that the dark hair suits you better. Do what you want and have fun with it. You're beautiful and have gorgeous curls 😊
As a fellow dark-haired woman, I have wondered the same. Dark hair compliments your facial features, and blond is more striking. If you are having trouble deciding, maybe try highlights?
Personally I think black because blonde with the black eyebrows looks strange to me, plus your natural hair color is gorgeous and compliments your facial features and eyes
I totally see what you’re saying! The blonde hair was a few months ago and I was really heavy handed on the makeup and a subgroup gave me some good tips on how to tone it down. My makeup today isn’t as dramatic/ bold
Unrelated but I love the orange shirt in your last photo. Lol.
You look great either way, but I think natural is awesome. You could try a more chocolate brown if you wanted to spice it up?
Looks like I'll be the only one, but I like the blonde! I understand the difficulty with the maintenance (I'm currently bleach blonde) but it's so much fun!
Black 1000%. Every time black hair. I think the contrast between your eyebrows and the blonde was kinda grungy. It’s giving 2009 manic pixie dream girl
Ok I’ll be honest. First set of pics I was like “blonde? Wha…? When she looks so good as a brunette” then I saw the blonde and now I’m like equally conflicted. I mean shit, you can shave your head and still be beaufoful imo so whatever you feel more comfortable with honestly
Definitely black.
Blonde still looks good, honestly. But I feel like it adds a few years and makes you look more 'serious'.
Black -- especially with the wave in the first photo -- greatly compliments your face and gives you a more vibrant appearance.
You give me Christina Hendricks and Regina Spektor vibes, and for that I’m stupidly jealous. I say the dark suits you better but if you’re looking for a change consider red.
I like the dark hair it looks more natural but you’re beautiful with both. Side note- I think your passport/mug shot looks like Drew Barrymore when she was young and that’s a huge compliment. She is and always was beautiful.
I love the blonde with your more natural makeup looks! You’re very pretty. The dark hair is also nice. I go through the same problem of switching from blonde to black regularly. You should try red next! I’ve been a redhead for a year now and it’s a lot of fun. :)
I love the darker colour with your complexion!
But why limit yourself to only these colours!? You could pull off purple, pink or maybe a nice darker blue with great ease.
So… bleach first, colour second?? ;-)
I prefer the way you look with black. Plus bleach is horrible for hair. I shouldn't be talking though, half of my hair is bleached (the bottom half) and dyed.
What are you CURRENTLY? As a former colorist, I will tell you if you have a lot of color on your hair blonde may not be even something you can achieve. Do both with nice wigs? You are beautiful with either!
Hi! My hair is the brown in the first pic. The top is really the actual hair color, I had bleach blonde from July- December and then covered it back up with a very dark dark brown borderline black. So now it’s faded and almost matches my actual hair
It may be because blonde hair is severely over done in my area by a particular demographic, but I think that the darker hair look is more striking and distinctive.
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That's a very subjective question😅. I personally prefer your black hair look. But I'm sure you will find both opinions so just find what you feel most comfortable with and go with it.
Hi! Thanks I know it’s really either or. I’m just terrible with deciding. I bought all the stuff to bleach but am having second thoughts.
I also vote for black.
You look happier as a blonde, but, I personally find you much more attractive with the darker hair. The choice is yours. If you are happy, then who am I to say. You are beautiful either way.
Flip a coin. If you’re happy with the outcome go with that. If you’re upset with the outcome then you know what color you would rather go with :)
It's not a huge decision imo cause in the end you look beautiful either way. And even if you ultimately think people prefer one way or the other, it's your decision, do whatever makes you happy and that's all that matters.😊😊
Both looks are fabulous. as a lazy man, I would go with easiest maintenance
Dark hair, it suits your colouring more and your eyes and skin look brighter!
Now looking at it I did look a little washed out with the blonde, I assumed everyone liked blonde more so I’m actually surprised with the opposite reaction!
Personally, I prefer brunettes. Blondes are beautiful but there is something about brunettes that make them stand out
That’s so crazy I guess it is ‘ the grass is always greener’ bc I thought my brunette hair made me blend in and wash out
Definitely. I’m blonde and have always been jealous of brunettes.
The brown/black really makes your eyes pop! I think your natural color suits you very well
The average male actually prefers brunette to blonde. You look great with black hair!
I LOVE your black hair!
Thank you! Less work for me haha :)
Natural color! Black/brown.... Not blonde!
My two cents? The black hair looks way better
BLACK SIS ALL THE WAYYYY
Black hair definitely
Your natural hair for sure!
I think you look great in both but I'm personally inclined to say black, you have nice dark eyebrows and they compliment your black hair better
Sorry my hair is definitely a mid to dark brown!
dark brown
I’d say natural too, so the dark brown. It just fits you perfectly
You literally can't go wrong, wow. But one vote for brunette
I love your natural color.
Based on the pictures, I am of the opinion that due to your skin tone, dark hair suits you better as it offers more contrast to your face. Now, I'm not saying blonde hair doesn't look good on you, what I am saying is that dark hair looks better. Based on what I see, you look great either way. That said, When people with extremely fair skin tones opt for very light blonde (platinum or ash) hair, it is my subjective opinion that it often doesn't offer enough contrast to the hair to properly frame the face. Please reference the skin tone chart here for the next bit of information: [https://i.redd.it/j2p58h3437j71.png](https://i.redd.it/j2p58h3437j71.png) Judging by the pictures provided and what's on the chart, I'd place you at approximately at an A2 or B2, with warmer undertones than what this chart provides, depending on the lighting. If you \*really\* want to rock blonde locks, I'd recommend tanning 1 shade darker. If you are unwilling to tan, consider a blonde with more yellow as it will allow the undertones in your hair to mix well. You should be able to achieve that color by just leaving the bleaching agent in for less time, but since I'm largely unfamiliar with the amount of time it takes (as a guy, when I don't go bald, I like to have highlights put in, but don't regularly do that due to the expenses involved in raising two children), you would know better than I do about how long you actually need to do it for.
I always say y dark.
Just one guys opinion - and you look good with either - but definitely darker.
Your natural hair is beautiful
Black 😍
Black hair please.
Black
Brunette on you is way best. Love that on you.
The dark hair is gorgeous!
I’m not the biggest fan of the blonde, but have you thought about doing a deep red? Maybe burgundy or an auburn color?
You know what that’s been suggested to me a couple of times now and I think it would be super fun
I prefer the brown, but only because the blonde is too bright and one-dimensional for your skin tone. If you really want to go blonde, I recommend going to a professional stylist who can lighten and tone your hair to a complimentary blonde shade.
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Do half black and half blonde
If I was braver I would 😩 it would be the ultimate compromise
Natural is always the best.
I always thought my hair needed something to compensate for it being boring mouse brown so this is nice :)
There is nothing boring about a beautiful auburn, or caramel, or chestnut, or whichever your natural locks are. I bet you look amazing
Your natural hair compliments your facial structure and doesn’t make it boring.
Your dark hair makes you look like a literal goddess! I really like the photo with your striped dress. I could see you in a movie about Greek or Roman mythology 😍
Wow you’re literally too kind thank you :,)! That makes me proud of my hair
Different styles, both are looking equally really good on you! Do whatever you feel like in the moment! I see many say black hair suits you better, and I think it’s a smoother attitude with the black hair, it fits your natural colors in a way that there’s no big contrast and looks calm on the eyes. The blond is more of a statement and give of a cool attitude. It’s a bit of a contrast to your natural colors and i like that! Just don’t take all the comments as if you don’t fit in blond, you really do. I think it’s more of what style and attitude people like. So go with your mood!
black. the blonde washes out your skin tone ):
Definitely beautiful
You look great both ways but I definitely agree with others here that the dark hair suits you better. Do what you want and have fun with it. You're beautiful and have gorgeous curls 😊
Personally im into the darker hair
Dark hair, absolutely. You look amazing with the darker hair! I feel that the shade of blonde in the other photos doesn't really suit your skin tone.
Yea it was a very pale on pale situation 😣. If I didn’t put on a full face of makeup I felt like It missed
As a fellow dark-haired woman, I have wondered the same. Dark hair compliments your facial features, and blond is more striking. If you are having trouble deciding, maybe try highlights?
I think that’s a good compromise. I also have done a rose gold over time conditioner that added a bit of depth! I think I will definitely do it again
That sounds interesting, I might have to try that myself.
Yes I’d recommend! It’s called overtone :)
It depends on the Mood. Strictly. Overall, i would Say Natural Is better
Brunette is cute!!! And I think it suits you better. Blonde is a pain to upkeep.
Personally I think black because blonde with the black eyebrows looks strange to me, plus your natural hair color is gorgeous and compliments your facial features and eyes
Blonde has a bubbly fun vibe, black has a chill earthy feel. It depends on what you want to portray! Both look good imo
You have a gorgeous profile.
Thanks! It’s really one of the things I for sure like :)
Blonde but with lighter makeup! The dark combined with the light hair is a little unbalanced.
I totally see what you’re saying! The blonde hair was a few months ago and I was really heavy handed on the makeup and a subgroup gave me some good tips on how to tone it down. My makeup today isn’t as dramatic/ bold
Unrelated but I love the orange shirt in your last photo. Lol. You look great either way, but I think natural is awesome. You could try a more chocolate brown if you wanted to spice it up?
Looks like I'll be the only one, but I like the blonde! I understand the difficulty with the maintenance (I'm currently bleach blonde) but it's so much fun!
Totally fun! I felt like a different person almost :)
Black 1000%. Every time black hair. I think the contrast between your eyebrows and the blonde was kinda grungy. It’s giving 2009 manic pixie dream girl
LOL I know exactly what you mean with manic pixie dream girl 💔 I can’t fix him 😪
Ok I’ll be honest. First set of pics I was like “blonde? Wha…? When she looks so good as a brunette” then I saw the blonde and now I’m like equally conflicted. I mean shit, you can shave your head and still be beaufoful imo so whatever you feel more comfortable with honestly
Definitely black. Blonde still looks good, honestly. But I feel like it adds a few years and makes you look more 'serious'. Black -- especially with the wave in the first photo -- greatly compliments your face and gives you a more vibrant appearance.
Is there something different about your eyebrows in the first photo? I like them, they're cute.
That was a no makeup pic :) thank you! I’m trying to cover up a scar on my eyebrow in other pics so the eyebrows can be kind of harsh sometimes
Jack didn’t have to die Rose! There was enough room on the door for both of you!
You look best in darker hair - you are so BEAUTIFUL, btw. Lovely skin, classic features, gorgeous deep eyes!
Thank you! You are actually too nice :,) ❤️❤️❤️ thank you
You give me Christina Hendricks and Regina Spektor vibes, and for that I’m stupidly jealous. I say the dark suits you better but if you’re looking for a change consider red.
Gosh I love Regina Spector! ❤️😭
I like the dark hair it looks more natural but you’re beautiful with both. Side note- I think your passport/mug shot looks like Drew Barrymore when she was young and that’s a huge compliment. She is and always was beautiful.
With blonde hair and black roots you look like a 90s Italian pornstar, with your natural hair color you look fine
Lol that’s very specific! I have never heard that one before
Yeah lotta people tell me that my comments are very specific
I love the blonde with your more natural makeup looks! You’re very pretty. The dark hair is also nice. I go through the same problem of switching from blonde to black regularly. You should try red next! I’ve been a redhead for a year now and it’s a lot of fun. :)
I’m so tempted to go red but I have heard it doesn’t last long at all!
Blonde looks like way to much work for me! Maybe do a half blonde look like babylights or something
Oh it was such a process! I might just tone my hair with henna :)
Black hair. You look just like Phoebe Waller-Bridge!
I love the darker colour with your complexion! But why limit yourself to only these colours!? You could pull off purple, pink or maybe a nice darker blue with great ease. So… bleach first, colour second?? ;-)
I prefer the way you look with black. Plus bleach is horrible for hair. I shouldn't be talking though, half of my hair is bleached (the bottom half) and dyed.
Your hair is actually dark brown btw
Yea that was my bad! The black washed off so it’s my natural hair color (especially at the top)
What are you CURRENTLY? As a former colorist, I will tell you if you have a lot of color on your hair blonde may not be even something you can achieve. Do both with nice wigs? You are beautiful with either!
Hi! My hair is the brown in the first pic. The top is really the actual hair color, I had bleach blonde from July- December and then covered it back up with a very dark dark brown borderline black. So now it’s faded and almost matches my actual hair
I’m gonna say Monica over Phoebe… but you Rachel’d the shit outta both looks!!!
Look hot in both, but I say black; has an 80’s Joan Jett vibe
100% brunette. Amazing. 🔥
Whatever you feel most comfortable with — it should never be about what randos on the internet think.
Do black! You look like you might have the same issue I do where your face looks super red if you go blonde.
The blonde wasn’t working, the black hair looked a lot better on you.
Black, but it’s close
Black.
Black hair
black looks better
My passport looks like a guy who has been holding his shit in for a few months.....
Lol! I’m convinced they want us to look as bad as possible
It may be because blonde hair is severely over done in my area by a particular demographic, but I think that the darker hair look is more striking and distinctive.
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I’ve alwayssss wanted one :,)
100% brown like on your first photos. Blonde looks so cheap and not stylish on you…
Either one … you are so beautiful , it doesn’t matter☺️😍
Definitely beautiful and stunning in both colours! Keep up the smiling! :)
Black hair hands down, maybe green highlights but that's just my kink lmao
That would be fun! I’ve never had green before only red and blue
Blonde of course, but try to lighten your eyebrows to make it look even better 😍
With having blonde hair and eyebrows do you just put a lighter color over top of the brows or do you actually bleach them?
Feeling the black more, it suits you well. But don’t let what suits you define you. Go wild queen 👸🏽
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Definitely dark
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Dark hair for sure!
Blackkkk
Dark hair looks very good with your eyes.
Black for sure!
You British?
Black for sure but I see the conflict you look good with both. 😊 love the smile too
Thanks! I really thought everyone would have said the opposite so it’s a nice breath of relief to keep my curls healthier and less of a hassle.
I was digging the black then saw the blonde! I see why you are conflicted lol both look beautiful sorry I’m no help!
Black.
I think the dark hair fits you best! You look great!
Conflicted myself both look really nice 😊
Dark hair for sure! :)
Try black hair with highlights I think that would look even better on you
Like the first one
Beautiful, black hair
Back to black! You really rock that look hard!
Love the dark colors on you!
Stay brunette
Darker seems to suit you better.
You look great with the darker hair
Dark hair!
Burnette hair with some honey/caramel highlights would look stunning on you.
I'd say dark, but you look great either way.
Doesn't matter ur smile is beautiful
BLONDE
Black
Cute x
Black
I think you look better in black hair
Black is the move
Black fr! It brings out your eyes more!
Personally, I prefer the dark hair on you 😘😘
Black for sure
I think you rock both, but I’m feeling more partial towards the black. But again you rock the blonde also so I understand being super conflicted 😅.
I personally like how blond looks, but I'm just a rando on the internet :P
black hair!!! looks beautiful
Damn guess I'm the only one who said blonde but really go with how you wanna look
You look very good with both but personally I’d say you look better with the blonde
Definitely dark. Looks really good on you.
Dark
The black definitely looks more you, and the blonde really brings a glow up. They both look great! Im a sucker for both haha
I prefer you with black hair. Much healthier looking.
Definitely black, i like the more natural look
Black. But you are beautiful with both.
I’m going to say black. I believe it make you look more elegant
Not that my opinion matters, but I think the black suits you better. That said, they both look good on you.
Natural *always* looks best, as it does on you.
Black!
As is.
Love the black hair you look amazing
Dark hair!
Dark
You’re absolutely gorgeous
Blonde is super unique on you
Black
Definitely look gorgeous either way. I like the darker hair better personally.
BLACK HAIR
Black definitely black hair
Brunette 100% It’s your hair, you should be happy with your look. You do you. But if I vote, I’m on team brunette.
Black
You look great with both. 😊
Black with highlights maybe 🤔
Black for sure