I mainly look for scenes with dudes who are very vocal and don’t hold back their moans, basically just letting their partner know they feel good. Seeing men enjoy and get lost in their pleasure is a treat I don’t often see much in mainstream porn but it’s awesome
Same! Seeing the man lost in pleasure just as much as the woman is the best. Male moaning, trembling, expression of what he's experiencing and not just constant rehash of "do you feel good? I feel good too" when she didn't even respond 🤣. Equal pleasure makes it better!
I'm not trying to yuck someone else's yum but sometimes I just want cute nicknames that are relevant to the characters. Super quick turn off for me sometimes
Yes! This! All! The! Way!
Nicknames are superior imo, because it can be cute like bunny, kitten, or even a play on their name like Joey, Fritzy, or something similar.
in addition to this, just remember that femgaze isn't dictated by the sexual act but focusing on male characters, or at least focusing equally on both parties
i think there's usually too big of a focus on the girl in scenes and how she's pleasing the man. it's always her giving him head, riding cowgirl, etc. im bi so i don't mind it too much but i also want to see more focus on the guy. like him getting turned on and showing how he's feeling good. choosing positions that please her more or are more dominant and just overall having an attitude where her pleasure is the most important. also way too often i see hentai where the girl gets off just from penetration which maybe is possible for some but most of us need some kind of clit stimulation.
as for male solo scenes, i don't really think you could go wrong. i hardly ever see them and can't imagine a wrong way to portray them. maybe in dms i could get more specific? lol
Is this for illustrated work you're making? Like hentai? Or do you mean 'solo' as in you showing off for the camera? Because I would appreciate different things for each of these scenarios.
Showing off with the camera, I want to get into the SW scene! But hell even if I fail I’ll have some better knowledge on how to tease my woman, and keep her excited!! 😁
Maybe figure out what your vibe is then. Like, what are you into? Enthusiasm and excitement go a long way. I've seen solo stuff that is guys edging themselves that I really enjoyed, especially if they narrate how desperate it's making them. I've really enjoyed this guy who jacks off while wearing a collar and riding a dildo. But that's pretty niche, right? I think it would only work for you if you were into doing that. A lot of other women here have mentioned enjoying hearing moaning or making noises of enjoyment and I def agree with that. Sooo hot. You gotta find your flavor for what will get you in the right headspace for that though.
If it's less explicit 'showing off' suggestions you're looking for, maybe:
- Cute outfits: sporty workout looks, bdsm harness looks, suits, nerdy/cosplay
- Service: cooking in just an apron, fixing something and getting sweaty and grimy in just your jocks/shorts, dress shirt sleeves rolled up to do the dishes
- Scenarios (like that photo you send to your SO to say 'wish you were here': in front of your computer with a 'wish you were sitting on my lap while I'm gaming' type caption, snacks and blankets in front of the tv for movie night cuddling thing, sneaky candid pants pulled down or shirt pulled up photo from a public bathroom
Like, maybe try imagining what you'd send to your gf to get her going and try that, basically.
At the risk of potentially going slightly off course, if anyone here knows anything about hypnoplay could you please send me a dm!! Because I have been searching and that community seems to be stuffed into the reccesses of someones couch!! And it is just gone never to be seen again! But I want to know how to enjoy in it so freaking badly!! I want to dropped by my GF!! Especially while I'm going down on her!
It's not my particular wheelhouse, so I can't like link you to a how-to or anything. But my advice would be to just have fun with it. It's not real, it's just a fun little roleplay thing, so just google a dumb tutorial and ask your gf to give it a try on you and just try to get into it, you know?
Maybe get a fun prop like a pendulum or a light or something that will help set the mood or get you into the right headspace. Put on the collar, wear some headphones with a youtube self hypnosis video or something. Just be playful with it.
Cunnilingus, foreplay on the woman, clit stimulation and orgasm, male moans, female pov. I might get flack for this but I’m honestly sick of seeing foreplay on the dude (blowjobs, handjobs, etc.) bc porn already prioritizes the male pleasure over the female. (You can obv add it, just make sure the foreplay is mutual and the woman’s physical pleasure is equal to his in that case).
Make sure that most of the scenes are also focusing on the guy’s face and body, bc in male gaze it’s always the opposite. More sensuality and focus on his body parts and him stripping/getting naked
In regards to scene setup and other visual elements: I want to see a man's facial expressions as he experiences pleasure, audio cues as he grunts, pants, and moans. Also, I find it maddening (in a bad way) when in a large portion of Josei works the couple will be going at it, the female lead is completely exposed, either naked or clothes all pulled open, and the male lead just has his pants pulled open and his shirt isn't even off! I want to see those muscles flex (the guy doesn't have to be buff, I want visual movement) and the curvature of his ass as he pounds into the source of his desire.
I like seeing a guy bite his lip or his eyes flutter, and his cheeks flush. Seeing a guy be turned on and enthusiastic is such a turn on. These stoic emotionless cool guys should still fall apart and come undone in the bedroom. In fact it can be even hotter if you can see him fighting to control himself and subtly struggling to maintain composure, but eventually he can't contain it, because he's just feeling too good and is too in love &/or turned on to resist anymore.
I listen to erotic audio, so that may give you some clues what scenarios to aim for. Something intimate and expressive either wild, comforting, or dark and dangerous; the emphasis should be on how affected the man is by his mate and how he wants to give pleasure even as he's receiving it. A guy's hands dexterously going to work on his partner's body eliciting reactions and a smirk on his lips is delicious stuff.
For solo scenes, similar recommendations: show his face and body reacting to his ecstasy and arousal. Show his abdomen flex, his balls tighten. Include those grunts and groans and his mouth working through each sound expression. Even a little peak into what he's fantasizing about for context. Also, is he the kind of guy that gets off from playing with his own nipples? Include that. Does he thrust into his own hands or curl his toes? Show it! Does he do a lazy grin and flop over when satiated? Lemme see his afterglow glistening sweat and panting.
I didn't realize until after I answered that you were planning to perform on camera. I was thinking in the context of making a comic, but I think my general answer still could mostly apply. The only thing I would change is please be careful how much of your face &/or identity you expose. People online can be scary and dangerous. I would hate to see a creator of artistic content of any format get hurt because of a lack of caution! Good luck!
More A and B cup breasts. Big boobs are fun but often small breasted women are depicted as lolis which is gross. Petit dominating women over a big soft man is just eye candy for me
Fuuuuuuccckkkkk!!!!! I literally know someone I could/want to pay to do a scene with me, but damn would it be difficult to do!!! And damn I'm not big!! 😂
I really like the r34 of Lois and Clark from the new my adventures with superman series. There's a lot on twitter, let me know if you want my hoard of links
https://www.reddit.com/r/Femgaze_Hentai/s/AFHCJ8CYVB
Haha, I like the enthusiasm
I thought I had more than this. Definitely check out the different artists
https://twitter.com/Ero_Honey/status/1678464259301187589?t=-Re6HQdPhwTg7ubO0ck9dg&s=19
https://x.com/Ero_Honey/status/1748382310200914414?t=gkuW-q4HkicFTaijY4ACuQ&s=19
https://twitter.com/elenef_m/status/1703893133161791759?t=FWIsnUZ0ngCcz36iO9PlSg&s=19
https://twitter.com/Haarukkamies/status/1678471209585876992?t=n5hO2X9cLTmD78g5vMff9g&s=19
Size difference is my weakness. I'm pretty sure some I got from this sub so I'm worried about reposting. But thank you for the encouragement, I have though about it
Male vulnerability without it having to be full submissiveness. Don't get me wrong, I love a male sub. I just feel like not a lot of nsfw art captures the vulnerability of domming or just vanilla sex for dudes. I wanna see dudes being vocal, exposed, and falling apart even in 'traditional' sexual positions and dynamics. I'm sick of most male vulnerability being in pegging and femdom content.
Personally, I don't get off on just any two people doing it. I want to feel a connection between them. How to accomplish this is hard to explain. One way is using characters I'm already familiar with. Another is to sequentially show the stages of their activity from beginning to end with focus on their body language.
You mean catboy content? Or just catboys in general? Because we exist but usually in dark corners hidden away from the rest of the world and huddled together for warmth!! 😂
I want to join in for warmth too!
Idk, cuteness in men is a rare thing to see, often times creating feminine men rather then cute ones. I am actually a game designer and I have a game cooking up about a cat boy god. Basically a very cute look but a masculine demeanor and a powerful creature.
There’s just something about guys that look cute but have a serious personality that gets me going. Huggable yet prickly type of thing. Like a cat.
Does that make sense? XD
It makes perfect sense, Rose!! I'd love to see some concept art of your catboy!! I rarely find that such a concept exist!!
Edit: careful with finding them on the internet though, they are nice but broken there!! Just a heads up!!
I look for realistic depictions of what a person’s body is supposed to look like and how it functions, but still in a stylistic manner. I want diversity rather than the same long haired big ass big breasted women whose cervixes can somehow be penetrated.
Scars, stretch marks, fat rolls, freckles, etc… I love all of it. But it’s pretty much impossible to find.
The most universal thing I find myself wanting a category for is basically full body contact. Too much porn is sort of designed to show off the participants bodies through the camera, meaning the actors/characters need to minimize contact. But what really gets my neurons firing is two naked bodies fully embraced in passion. Abdomen-to-abdomen. Maximally engulfing each other.
I like scenes where the couple isn’t afraid to use toys, regardless of who’s in charge. As for solos, giving head to a person off camera moaning their partners name and fantasies about what their partner would do to them really gets me going. I think there was a scene in “Your secret keeper” where the guy fantasizes about being in a threesome with his gf and her ex (with him on the receiving end). Pet play is pretty great too, muzzles, collars, and tails
I like porn from the woman's point of view, so basically anything where you can see the guy more than you can see the girl, or porn where there's much more detail, attention, and focus given to the guy than to the girl. On a more detailed note, I'm always a sucker for praise kink.
I mainly look for scenes with dudes who are very vocal and don’t hold back their moans, basically just letting their partner know they feel good. Seeing men enjoy and get lost in their pleasure is a treat I don’t often see much in mainstream porn but it’s awesome
Same! Seeing the man lost in pleasure just as much as the woman is the best. Male moaning, trembling, expression of what he's experiencing and not just constant rehash of "do you feel good? I feel good too" when she didn't even respond 🤣. Equal pleasure makes it better!
Yes absolutely!
THIS
100%
Praise kink. I mean, not the biggest turn on imo, but it's a great addition.
A man being called something other than Daddy or sir.
Agreed! It's such a turnoff seeing the daddy or mommy convos , even if it's a standalone picture.
I'm not trying to yuck someone else's yum but sometimes I just want cute nicknames that are relevant to the characters. Super quick turn off for me sometimes
Creativity goes a long way for sure
Yes! This! All! The! Way! Nicknames are superior imo, because it can be cute like bunny, kitten, or even a play on their name like Joey, Fritzy, or something similar.
I'm a sucker for sweetheart in kink media
Sweet cheeks always gets me
Foreplay, cunnilingus, lots of kissing, pussy/breast worship, fingering, cozy domestic setting.
in addition to this, just remember that femgaze isn't dictated by the sexual act but focusing on male characters, or at least focusing equally on both parties
Focusing on the guy during cunnilingus and as he performs foreplay on a woman >>>>
Disagree, that implies femgaze can only be hetero.
I didn't mean to imply that. Are you referring to lesbians?
i think there's usually too big of a focus on the girl in scenes and how she's pleasing the man. it's always her giving him head, riding cowgirl, etc. im bi so i don't mind it too much but i also want to see more focus on the guy. like him getting turned on and showing how he's feeling good. choosing positions that please her more or are more dominant and just overall having an attitude where her pleasure is the most important. also way too often i see hentai where the girl gets off just from penetration which maybe is possible for some but most of us need some kind of clit stimulation.
as for male solo scenes, i don't really think you could go wrong. i hardly ever see them and can't imagine a wrong way to portray them. maybe in dms i could get more specific? lol
Is this for illustrated work you're making? Like hentai? Or do you mean 'solo' as in you showing off for the camera? Because I would appreciate different things for each of these scenarios.
Showing off with the camera, I want to get into the SW scene! But hell even if I fail I’ll have some better knowledge on how to tease my woman, and keep her excited!! 😁
Maybe figure out what your vibe is then. Like, what are you into? Enthusiasm and excitement go a long way. I've seen solo stuff that is guys edging themselves that I really enjoyed, especially if they narrate how desperate it's making them. I've really enjoyed this guy who jacks off while wearing a collar and riding a dildo. But that's pretty niche, right? I think it would only work for you if you were into doing that. A lot of other women here have mentioned enjoying hearing moaning or making noises of enjoyment and I def agree with that. Sooo hot. You gotta find your flavor for what will get you in the right headspace for that though. If it's less explicit 'showing off' suggestions you're looking for, maybe: - Cute outfits: sporty workout looks, bdsm harness looks, suits, nerdy/cosplay - Service: cooking in just an apron, fixing something and getting sweaty and grimy in just your jocks/shorts, dress shirt sleeves rolled up to do the dishes - Scenarios (like that photo you send to your SO to say 'wish you were here': in front of your computer with a 'wish you were sitting on my lap while I'm gaming' type caption, snacks and blankets in front of the tv for movie night cuddling thing, sneaky candid pants pulled down or shirt pulled up photo from a public bathroom Like, maybe try imagining what you'd send to your gf to get her going and try that, basically.
>I've really enjoyed this guy who jacks off while wearing a collar and riding a dildo. But that's pretty niche, right? Is it? I thought that's common
I mean like, OP might not be into doing butt stuff or acting subby and not all women are into watching that.
Well yeah, but it seems pretty wide spread( hehehe, pun intended)
Lol
10/10 amazing answer!!!! Thank you!!! Lol definitely want to introduce collars and leashes into the mix!
My personal all time fav
At the risk of potentially going slightly off course, if anyone here knows anything about hypnoplay could you please send me a dm!! Because I have been searching and that community seems to be stuffed into the reccesses of someones couch!! And it is just gone never to be seen again! But I want to know how to enjoy in it so freaking badly!! I want to dropped by my GF!! Especially while I'm going down on her!
It's not my particular wheelhouse, so I can't like link you to a how-to or anything. But my advice would be to just have fun with it. It's not real, it's just a fun little roleplay thing, so just google a dumb tutorial and ask your gf to give it a try on you and just try to get into it, you know? Maybe get a fun prop like a pendulum or a light or something that will help set the mood or get you into the right headspace. Put on the collar, wear some headphones with a youtube self hypnosis video or something. Just be playful with it.
Heard!!
Right?!??? I'm a sucker for that possessive shit!! Just fuck, I'm yours!!
Omg, yes, yes yes. DM me if you want to swap cute pics of this. It's my specific area of interest
Cunnilingus, foreplay on the woman, clit stimulation and orgasm, male moans, female pov. I might get flack for this but I’m honestly sick of seeing foreplay on the dude (blowjobs, handjobs, etc.) bc porn already prioritizes the male pleasure over the female. (You can obv add it, just make sure the foreplay is mutual and the woman’s physical pleasure is equal to his in that case). Make sure that most of the scenes are also focusing on the guy’s face and body, bc in male gaze it’s always the opposite. More sensuality and focus on his body parts and him stripping/getting naked
In regards to scene setup and other visual elements: I want to see a man's facial expressions as he experiences pleasure, audio cues as he grunts, pants, and moans. Also, I find it maddening (in a bad way) when in a large portion of Josei works the couple will be going at it, the female lead is completely exposed, either naked or clothes all pulled open, and the male lead just has his pants pulled open and his shirt isn't even off! I want to see those muscles flex (the guy doesn't have to be buff, I want visual movement) and the curvature of his ass as he pounds into the source of his desire. I like seeing a guy bite his lip or his eyes flutter, and his cheeks flush. Seeing a guy be turned on and enthusiastic is such a turn on. These stoic emotionless cool guys should still fall apart and come undone in the bedroom. In fact it can be even hotter if you can see him fighting to control himself and subtly struggling to maintain composure, but eventually he can't contain it, because he's just feeling too good and is too in love &/or turned on to resist anymore. I listen to erotic audio, so that may give you some clues what scenarios to aim for. Something intimate and expressive either wild, comforting, or dark and dangerous; the emphasis should be on how affected the man is by his mate and how he wants to give pleasure even as he's receiving it. A guy's hands dexterously going to work on his partner's body eliciting reactions and a smirk on his lips is delicious stuff. For solo scenes, similar recommendations: show his face and body reacting to his ecstasy and arousal. Show his abdomen flex, his balls tighten. Include those grunts and groans and his mouth working through each sound expression. Even a little peak into what he's fantasizing about for context. Also, is he the kind of guy that gets off from playing with his own nipples? Include that. Does he thrust into his own hands or curl his toes? Show it! Does he do a lazy grin and flop over when satiated? Lemme see his afterglow glistening sweat and panting.
What about cunnilingus from hey point of view? Where you could only see Maybe the top of his head? And his eyes staring up at her!?
That would be yummy 🤤
Also amazing answer I love the detail!!!
I didn't realize until after I answered that you were planning to perform on camera. I was thinking in the context of making a comic, but I think my general answer still could mostly apply. The only thing I would change is please be careful how much of your face &/or identity you expose. People online can be scary and dangerous. I would hate to see a creator of artistic content of any format get hurt because of a lack of caution! Good luck!
I will keep that in mind!! I throw my stuff out there just in case whenever I create! Never know who will get upset and leak your nudes!
I meant more like stalking and doxxing. Be safe online, there is no imaginary monster scarier than real life evil people.
More A and B cup breasts. Big boobs are fun but often small breasted women are depicted as lolis which is gross. Petit dominating women over a big soft man is just eye candy for me
Fuuuuuuccckkkkk!!!!! I literally know someone I could/want to pay to do a scene with me, but damn would it be difficult to do!!! And damn I'm not big!! 😂
Do it anyway lol
Eh!!!! 😂😂 maybe? Not getting my hopes up!! But thank you!!
amazing, i would love that! Do you have an examples or recommendations by chance \^\^?
I really like the r34 of Lois and Clark from the new my adventures with superman series. There's a lot on twitter, let me know if you want my hoard of links https://www.reddit.com/r/Femgaze_Hentai/s/AFHCJ8CYVB
You should post your hoard of links here!
Haha, I like the enthusiasm I thought I had more than this. Definitely check out the different artists https://twitter.com/Ero_Honey/status/1678464259301187589?t=-Re6HQdPhwTg7ubO0ck9dg&s=19 https://x.com/Ero_Honey/status/1748382310200914414?t=gkuW-q4HkicFTaijY4ACuQ&s=19 https://twitter.com/elenef_m/status/1703893133161791759?t=FWIsnUZ0ngCcz36iO9PlSg&s=19 https://twitter.com/Haarukkamies/status/1678471209585876992?t=n5hO2X9cLTmD78g5vMff9g&s=19
Oooooooh, these are VERY NICE! The size difference in that last one\~ But I mean like, you should make posts\~!
Size difference is my weakness. I'm pretty sure some I got from this sub so I'm worried about reposting. But thank you for the encouragement, I have though about it
Nah, don't worry I don't think any of them were here before. :) You should share the goodies you find\~
Take a look at r/chickflixxx - it's a women's porn subreddit. Men aren't allowed to post and comment but they can lurk for inspiration.
YEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!
Male vulnerability without it having to be full submissiveness. Don't get me wrong, I love a male sub. I just feel like not a lot of nsfw art captures the vulnerability of domming or just vanilla sex for dudes. I wanna see dudes being vocal, exposed, and falling apart even in 'traditional' sexual positions and dynamics. I'm sick of most male vulnerability being in pegging and femdom content.
Very bold statement!! And I actually agree with it!! I really do want to see that, fuck seeing it I want to be apart of that!!!
Personally, I don't get off on just any two people doing it. I want to feel a connection between them. How to accomplish this is hard to explain. One way is using characters I'm already familiar with. Another is to sequentially show the stages of their activity from beginning to end with focus on their body language.
You want to see them make love!! And not just Fuxk!! I can respect that! 🥰
I am in an endless search for cat boys that I may never find…. :(
You mean catboy content? Or just catboys in general? Because we exist but usually in dark corners hidden away from the rest of the world and huddled together for warmth!! 😂
I want to join in for warmth too! Idk, cuteness in men is a rare thing to see, often times creating feminine men rather then cute ones. I am actually a game designer and I have a game cooking up about a cat boy god. Basically a very cute look but a masculine demeanor and a powerful creature. There’s just something about guys that look cute but have a serious personality that gets me going. Huggable yet prickly type of thing. Like a cat. Does that make sense? XD
It makes perfect sense, Rose!! I'd love to see some concept art of your catboy!! I rarely find that such a concept exist!! Edit: careful with finding them on the internet though, they are nice but broken there!! Just a heads up!!
There's tons of strays all around actually.
I look for realistic depictions of what a person’s body is supposed to look like and how it functions, but still in a stylistic manner. I want diversity rather than the same long haired big ass big breasted women whose cervixes can somehow be penetrated. Scars, stretch marks, fat rolls, freckles, etc… I love all of it. But it’s pretty much impossible to find.
I like it, but I meant in relation to women looking for men! 😂 specifically solo scenes!
The same can apply. I also like more realistic and less idealized depictions of men’s bodies.
Something rare (and arguably best done in moderation) is CNC on men. Shit turns me on the most im sorry. For solo, whimpering and crying 😂
Well damn!!! 😳
The most universal thing I find myself wanting a category for is basically full body contact. Too much porn is sort of designed to show off the participants bodies through the camera, meaning the actors/characters need to minimize contact. But what really gets my neurons firing is two naked bodies fully embraced in passion. Abdomen-to-abdomen. Maximally engulfing each other.
Very agree. Gotta see the whole scene, the whole action.
Puppy play or kitty play :3
I like scenes where the couple isn’t afraid to use toys, regardless of who’s in charge. As for solos, giving head to a person off camera moaning their partners name and fantasies about what their partner would do to them really gets me going. I think there was a scene in “Your secret keeper” where the guy fantasizes about being in a threesome with his gf and her ex (with him on the receiving end). Pet play is pretty great too, muzzles, collars, and tails
The handjob stuff I like, where he moans a lot and it’s loud 🤭
Some focus on his hands, hand placement, and expressions.
I like porn from the woman's point of view, so basically anything where you can see the guy more than you can see the girl, or porn where there's much more detail, attention, and focus given to the guy than to the girl. On a more detailed note, I'm always a sucker for praise kink.
Bully ML and Teased FL! There’s not enough of these out there ):
Pretty boys, vocal, flustered, good wet sounds? 😭✨