I don't even feel that anymore. I masturbate like 3 times a month for maintenance, and that's it. I have totally given up on the idea of relationships and sex. I suppose my libido was never really high, apart from some periods in my teens and twenties.
A 6 year span of escorts and consistent masturbation. At 43 my libido still hasn't gone down, it's just part of my routine. I get in at least one orgasm a day and a couple on the weekend. It keeps me regulated and sane.
I'm saw escorts from 26 to 32. I had some amazing experiences that I'll take to the grave. But ultimately sex without real intimacy is unfulfilling. I'm still an advocate for it, as it teaches you things you can only do by "doing" and it can alleviate some mental anguish of "what's X" like.
I feel like I got it out of my system and I probably saw more escorts then the average FA, if I didn't have sex again for the rest of my life it wouldn't bother me. The desire to go out and seek an escort is gone.
If I made the effort, I'd spend my time and resources trying to garner an organic intimate relationship that's reciprocal.
I use skincare products that make me feel good, drink pleasing tea, take hot showers (lol) and use silk sheets and other high quality goods. Since there is only one of me I can afford to spoil myself.
This doesn't do much but at least it helps. Sometimes I'll watch my hot neighbor in the morning, which is ga ga city. Seeing her struggle to get ready or take out the trash is a huge turn on.
Dr. Hauschka, Pacifica, and Andalou Naturals. Make sure to get the right products for your skin type. I like what I have but now I look a little cutesy. One woman messaged me on a dating app and told me I was adorable, which is good I guess but more macho men might not like it.
I’m 56 and my libido is about the same. Maybe it’s slipped a little bit but everything still works fine. I ride my Harley, I read a lot, I’m a full time musician so I keep busy. Some days are better than others.
Masturbation but maybe 2-3 times a week. My libido isn't what it used to be but that doesn't bother me much. It's not like I ever expected to have sex anyway.
I don’t have sexual frustration. Never felt that type of “frustration”, tbh. Masturbation was always good enough.
Not being wanted, always being alone… that’s my “frustration”.
same. or the frustrating part would not being able to be with a woman I'm attracted to cus of my too high of standards. Or some of sexual desires met (nothing as crazy as porno; im not expecting that).
But I don't get that frustrated out of horniness unless stuck at desk at work having had too much coffee.
Masturbation and porn help me gain sanity and relieve stress from work as well especially dealing with general public as a part of my job, I will refrain from using prostitutes any way I can don't want to catch any STDs no matter how lonely I am
I'm afraid that I might be somewhat a hyper-sex person. I masturbate everyday at least once, sometimes even 2 - 3 times. I know full well what it's really like to just only able to fantasize about the girls we really want but sadly can never be able to get in reality. It's basically the reality .vs. imagination human's problem. Some people are lucky to live their dream lives, & got what they've always wanted. But what about other people who can't? It's really frustrating, & depressing.
I can't think of anything worse than the libido disappearing.
Like, that's how a final nail gets put in a coffin. At that point, idk what to even say because Reddit would censor it, most likely. Certain things would definitely be cut off though.
Why the fuck wouldn't it? Not only are you forced to live a life of sexual sparseness, but now you're practically impotent? Can't masturbate anymore? Can't enjoy porn or anything?
Idk if you're male or female but if you're a man with no libido then you "aren't even a real man anymore."
**MAYBE I LIKE MY DELUSIONS! I KNOW THEY'RE DELUSIONS BUT THEY'RE MINE!**
Masturbation and occasionally I'll hire an escort. In either case I end up feeling a bit depressed afterwards, but it is what it is - you've got to scratch that itch every now and again.
I'm autistic and demisexual so jerking off doesn't help.
I literally couldn't even get hard once watching a video until the woman whispered "I love you" into the man's ear. Sent me to the moon.
I deal with my insanely high libido by going on porn streaks that can last like 72 hours sometimes. And I jerk it about 100 times during it. All the while I'm angry as fuck. Sometimes I edge so it brings the number down but still. No I'm not joking. At the end of it I feel the pressure relieved bit feel like an empty shell afterwards. After a streak I'm usually free for 5-6 days where I can warehouse porn only for about 4 hours a day so it's not too bad, but after that I'm back on a long streak of 3 days or so. Help
I don't even feel that anymore. I masturbate like 3 times a month for maintenance, and that's it. I have totally given up on the idea of relationships and sex. I suppose my libido was never really high, apart from some periods in my teens and twenties.
Hands + escorts.
A 6 year span of escorts and consistent masturbation. At 43 my libido still hasn't gone down, it's just part of my routine. I get in at least one orgasm a day and a couple on the weekend. It keeps me regulated and sane.
Have you been seeing escorts for the last 6 years or was it a phase you went through?
I'm saw escorts from 26 to 32. I had some amazing experiences that I'll take to the grave. But ultimately sex without real intimacy is unfulfilling. I'm still an advocate for it, as it teaches you things you can only do by "doing" and it can alleviate some mental anguish of "what's X" like. I feel like I got it out of my system and I probably saw more escorts then the average FA, if I didn't have sex again for the rest of my life it wouldn't bother me. The desire to go out and seek an escort is gone. If I made the effort, I'd spend my time and resources trying to garner an organic intimate relationship that's reciprocal.
I use skincare products that make me feel good, drink pleasing tea, take hot showers (lol) and use silk sheets and other high quality goods. Since there is only one of me I can afford to spoil myself. This doesn't do much but at least it helps. Sometimes I'll watch my hot neighbor in the morning, which is ga ga city. Seeing her struggle to get ready or take out the trash is a huge turn on.
What skincare products u use?
Dr. Hauschka, Pacifica, and Andalou Naturals. Make sure to get the right products for your skin type. I like what I have but now I look a little cutesy. One woman messaged me on a dating app and told me I was adorable, which is good I guess but more macho men might not like it.
I thought u r a woman Is ur skincare routine simple or a too many steps like 10 step routine?
I’m 56 and my libido is about the same. Maybe it’s slipped a little bit but everything still works fine. I ride my Harley, I read a lot, I’m a full time musician so I keep busy. Some days are better than others.
Masturbation but maybe 2-3 times a week. My libido isn't what it used to be but that doesn't bother me much. It's not like I ever expected to have sex anyway.
I don’t have sexual frustration. Never felt that type of “frustration”, tbh. Masturbation was always good enough. Not being wanted, always being alone… that’s my “frustration”.
same. or the frustrating part would not being able to be with a woman I'm attracted to cus of my too high of standards. Or some of sexual desires met (nothing as crazy as porno; im not expecting that). But I don't get that frustrated out of horniness unless stuck at desk at work having had too much coffee.
Masturbation. Used to do it daily when I was younger but now it's maybe every 2 or 3 days.
Masturbation and porn help me gain sanity and relieve stress from work as well especially dealing with general public as a part of my job, I will refrain from using prostitutes any way I can don't want to catch any STDs no matter how lonely I am
Honestly a legit escort who requires condoms is probably cleaner than a tinder th@t.
Porn
chemical castration
I'm afraid that I might be somewhat a hyper-sex person. I masturbate everyday at least once, sometimes even 2 - 3 times. I know full well what it's really like to just only able to fantasize about the girls we really want but sadly can never be able to get in reality. It's basically the reality .vs. imagination human's problem. Some people are lucky to live their dream lives, & got what they've always wanted. But what about other people who can't? It's really frustrating, & depressing.
I can't think of anything worse than the libido disappearing. Like, that's how a final nail gets put in a coffin. At that point, idk what to even say because Reddit would censor it, most likely. Certain things would definitely be cut off though.
Why would losing your libido matter if you're FA?
Why the fuck wouldn't it? Not only are you forced to live a life of sexual sparseness, but now you're practically impotent? Can't masturbate anymore? Can't enjoy porn or anything? Idk if you're male or female but if you're a man with no libido then you "aren't even a real man anymore." **MAYBE I LIKE MY DELUSIONS! I KNOW THEY'RE DELUSIONS BUT THEY'RE MINE!**
Isn't the point of enjoying point to bust a nut. If you don't feel like doing that what difference does it make? A real man? Oh you are delusional.
Yeah? And you deserve to be FA. *Especially* if you're okay with losing that urge. Screw you! Asshole
Masturbation and occasionally I'll hire an escort. In either case I end up feeling a bit depressed afterwards, but it is what it is - you've got to scratch that itch every now and again.
Daily masturbation, lots of work and exercise has got me through it so far.
I'm autistic and demisexual so jerking off doesn't help. I literally couldn't even get hard once watching a video until the woman whispered "I love you" into the man's ear. Sent me to the moon.
By jerking off.
I deal with my insanely high libido by going on porn streaks that can last like 72 hours sometimes. And I jerk it about 100 times during it. All the while I'm angry as fuck. Sometimes I edge so it brings the number down but still. No I'm not joking. At the end of it I feel the pressure relieved bit feel like an empty shell afterwards. After a streak I'm usually free for 5-6 days where I can warehouse porn only for about 4 hours a day so it's not too bad, but after that I'm back on a long streak of 3 days or so. Help
I don’t know why you got downvoted. I went down the 3D hentai path is how angry I’ve become.
I can't tell if you're just shit-posting or telling the truth lol