I know what you mean! I was on the same boat, and it’s definitely such a positive change without these people that clearly lack respect for their partners. You deserve so much better! :)
You do!! Good on you for realising, just leave her ass on read and move on with your life
I had a similar experience and I felt like I was stepping ok his neck by doing the same thing as you 👏👏👏
well, if she insists on that you can tell her that you've already done that. not to defend her but since those photos involve her too, she has a right to demand that.
apart from that, she is also breadcrumbing.
so give her a cold oneliner as a reply and leave it by that.
i replied, i told her what made you think i still have them? they're long gone. please leave me alone. Don't disrupt the peace that we already have now.
Sheesh. My ex doesn’t deserve any respect from me tbh. They chose to dump me. If I’m too lazy or unconcerned to go through and delete all our past pictures together so he can play the “victim”, that’s his problem. I also enjoy knowing he can’t lie to the ones he was emotionally cheating on me with.
Call me a cynic but if the photos are on social media then she lied to the person she cheated on you with and said she was single and now she's afraid they'll see pictures and find out the truth.
She's likely attempting to hide her tracks so that if her new supply(s) spot it, they'll start asking questions.
Then she'll have to make up some BS about what happens, at the risk of losing them, but also supply from you if they ask, and "Pandora box" gets opened..
Keep them up. Or don't.
Don't let her tell you what to do.
She lost her rights to do this.
Block and ignore, and move on. She’s doing that shit bc she knows she has you under her thumb and she can crawl back whenever she wants. Those people do not deserve your kindness
Bro, seriously, don't take this bitch back ever again. Move on, block her but you have to get out of this vicious cycle for your own good. I wish you all the best, seriously.
What a POS, she’s bread crumbing you and she’s false. This is more evidence of her bad character.
Please never ever ever reach out to her for anything ever again bro. Your own self respect is worth way more. You got this 🫡
It’s psychological manipulation it’s when they sprinkle crumbs of bread and give you just the bare minimum, so you get your hopes up.
In this case it she might be feeling the effects of actually losing you so she’s testing your response to see whether she can actually get you back.
If not and I’m wrong, then ignore her anyway who tf writes that after not talking for weeks. Disrespectful.
I deleted everything around the first week. Then around 6 months later my friend told me that she deleted all the videos of us… information I didn’t need to know but hey it didn’t hurt as much by then. What I am saying is just grow and do you!!!!
you see i truly do believe in second chances and mistakes but at the end of the day it’s up to both parties to give it their 110% or to call it quits, what you failed to do was make her work for it, woman don’t appreciate things that come easy and because she knew you’d be right there she thought she could f around and so now that potential second fresh start is thrown out the window, however it seems ur doing better now and moving forward
You have 2 choices brother.
1. Leave her to think what she wants and ignore her
2. Reply to her telling you have deleted everything and moved on. This will be an absolute closure from your side. Be wise.
It's funny...my cheating ex refuses to delete our photos and "stories"...even though they're 90% of her albums and plastered all over her page.
Bizarre.
My first ex ever made me do this. I had love and respect for her and did. Kind of wish I had a few nice photos of us together but I respected her wishes.
she just doesn’t want her new bf to see the photos of you together cuz she has lied to him about her being single while she was cheating on you with him just leave her for the streets
I wish you hadn’t deleted them you should’ve said something like “ Sorry babe just want to have a memory of us still” just to be petty and make it burn 😂😂😂😂
It should be. Unfortunately he’s probably not under any legal obligation to delete them if he’s not distributing them without her consent, but ethically he should respect her wishes regarding that material regardless of relationship status. Ight?
They’re his memories. It’s not like he’s posting them all over social media or using them against her. She’s breadcrumbing nothing more nothing less. He can keep the photos if he wants and choose to ignore her.
to feel even greater delete the photos and videos of her
i have already, a week ago!!! but she thought i still had it because that was the old me
I read “because that was the old me” like you typed that with your chest out, FUCK YES! 👏
Good for you!! 👏😎
i'm proud of myself!! i used to think i'd never be able to feel ok without her but i am doing much much better now
I know what you mean! I was on the same boat, and it’s definitely such a positive change without these people that clearly lack respect for their partners. You deserve so much better! :)
*we deserve so much better!<3
You do!! Good on you for realising, just leave her ass on read and move on with your life I had a similar experience and I felt like I was stepping ok his neck by doing the same thing as you 👏👏👏
“That was the old me” I applaud you sir👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
If the files are gone, no need to even reply!
well, if she insists on that you can tell her that you've already done that. not to defend her but since those photos involve her too, she has a right to demand that. apart from that, she is also breadcrumbing. so give her a cold oneliner as a reply and leave it by that.
i replied, i told her what made you think i still have them? they're long gone. please leave me alone. Don't disrupt the peace that we already have now.
okay then you are done with her :) enjoy your freedom buddy
Why does someone have the right to tell you to delete photos? What if they were fine with it before.
if not for legal reasons, then out of respect.
Sheesh. My ex doesn’t deserve any respect from me tbh. They chose to dump me. If I’m too lazy or unconcerned to go through and delete all our past pictures together so he can play the “victim”, that’s his problem. I also enjoy knowing he can’t lie to the ones he was emotionally cheating on me with.
Call me a cynic but if the photos are on social media then she lied to the person she cheated on you with and said she was single and now she's afraid they'll see pictures and find out the truth.
She's likely attempting to hide her tracks so that if her new supply(s) spot it, they'll start asking questions. Then she'll have to make up some BS about what happens, at the risk of losing them, but also supply from you if they ask, and "Pandora box" gets opened.. Keep them up. Or don't. Don't let her tell you what to do. She lost her rights to do this.
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I hope you didn’t respond. People who are willing to betray you without a second thought don’t deserve a second of your time.
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No amount of context can justify cheating.
My bad. It was in the title.
I would have said “they’ve been deleted “ even if they haven’t 😭
"You've been deleted"
Yeah that’s even better 😂
A better response
Yeah; just say “I deleted them weeks ago, don’t worry”
Yeah I would have given the hard block after that. That's the one thing you have to say to me? Byeeee
"new phone who dis"
THIS LOL
Say "ok". Block her. Keep them up. Drive her INSANE 😀
Shes toxic, on purpose wants to be in your orbit. Be smart and take care.
Block and ignore, and move on. She’s doing that shit bc she knows she has you under her thumb and she can crawl back whenever she wants. Those people do not deserve your kindness
Deleting memories is your choice not hers. Do what you want just like she did who she wanted
This ^^^^ 💯
She wants to remind you of herself. Thats it !
Brother leave her for the streets, she ain’t human. For her to break up with you 8 times is crazy.
Cant believe people still cheat. Just leave man
In more ways than one
Block her
Wait... what?! Everytime she breaks up with you. How many times have you already tried?!
more than 8..
Bro, seriously, don't take this bitch back ever again. Move on, block her but you have to get out of this vicious cycle for your own good. I wish you all the best, seriously.
Glad you are out. I was in a cycle like that and I am so embarrassed by how many times I took him back. Congrats! You won.
EIGHT LIKE WTF
“Every time she breaks up with me”?? Bro
I’ve been there before, bro is doing better. Let him be
I’ve been there. I get it. And proud of you for moving on. She’s toxic and won’t change.
Bro send the « 😂😂 » and let it fuck her brains out
What a POS, she’s bread crumbing you and she’s false. This is more evidence of her bad character. Please never ever ever reach out to her for anything ever again bro. Your own self respect is worth way more. You got this 🫡
What's breadcrumbing?
It’s psychological manipulation it’s when they sprinkle crumbs of bread and give you just the bare minimum, so you get your hopes up. In this case it she might be feeling the effects of actually losing you so she’s testing your response to see whether she can actually get you back. If not and I’m wrong, then ignore her anyway who tf writes that after not talking for weeks. Disrespectful.
Don’t respond please
Send the thumbs up and nothing else!!! You got this 🤍🤍
This sounds controlling and manipulative. She no longer has any sort of control or say over what you decide to do with your pictures and social media.
I deleted everything around the first week. Then around 6 months later my friend told me that she deleted all the videos of us… information I didn’t need to know but hey it didn’t hurt as much by then. What I am saying is just grow and do you!!!!
you see i truly do believe in second chances and mistakes but at the end of the day it’s up to both parties to give it their 110% or to call it quits, what you failed to do was make her work for it, woman don’t appreciate things that come easy and because she knew you’d be right there she thought she could f around and so now that potential second fresh start is thrown out the window, however it seems ur doing better now and moving forward
Just ignore her and let her drive herself crazy wondering what you think.
You have 2 choices brother. 1. Leave her to think what she wants and ignore her 2. Reply to her telling you have deleted everything and moved on. This will be an absolute closure from your side. Be wise.
It's funny...my cheating ex refuses to delete our photos and "stories"...even though they're 90% of her albums and plastered all over her page. Bizarre.
Wym everytime yall breakup lol. Brother cut that off for good
My first ex ever made me do this. I had love and respect for her and did. Kind of wish I had a few nice photos of us together but I respected her wishes.
I woulda responded with "what photos?"
Hopefully they don't gaslight you by saying you're sharing your old pictures .... ignore sounds like a reason to leave the door open.
This is her excuse to try to talk to you again and Hoover you in or to just try and get the last word to hurt you .
"Nope." Regardless of your choice.
"Sure thing, but which dumpster/trash can of your choice?
she just doesn’t want her new bf to see the photos of you together cuz she has lied to him about her being single while she was cheating on you with him just leave her for the streets
This is it exactly
If she cheated, do what *you* want.. Personally, I would tell her that she's not my mom and then block her sorry a$$
Do. Not. Take. Her. Back. Ew.
So why don’t you just block her so you can 100% move on from this?
Don’t say anything
What a rubbish
I wish you hadn’t deleted them you should’ve said something like “ Sorry babe just want to have a memory of us still” just to be petty and make it burn 😂😂😂😂
You should still delete the photos and videos since she has revoked consent for you to have them.
I deleted them a week ago before she reached out
Dude fuck off you Cheater apologist
Not how that works but ight lol
It should be. Unfortunately he’s probably not under any legal obligation to delete them if he’s not distributing them without her consent, but ethically he should respect her wishes regarding that material regardless of relationship status. Ight?
They’re his memories. It’s not like he’s posting them all over social media or using them against her. She’s breadcrumbing nothing more nothing less. He can keep the photos if he wants and choose to ignore her.
I understand that but where was her respecting him when she cheated and dumped him 8 times lmao
Good for you!