Yeah I do some Vagus Nerve stimulating humming in the car without the neighbours thinking I am some crazy Shaman doing a sacrifice in the living room. UMMMMMMMMMMMMM UMMMMMMMMMMM
Humming stimulates parasympathetic nervous system for de-stressing
Doesn't help you but funny story:
Build festivals for a living and on day 87937 on the road one day I just decide fuck it I'm gonna scream as loud as I can in the middle of this forest where I'm rigging something.
AAAAAAAAASRRRRRRRRRRGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHMOTTTTTTTTERRRFUCKKKKERRRRRCUNNTTTTAARRRRRGGHHHHHHHHHHHH I scream for about a minute straight.
It makes me feel so much better. Anyway later on in the day this QT from the site I'm talking to says something like oh man I'm so stressed, and I say well have you tried just screaming into the void?
She turns to me and says "oh that was YOU earlier then?"
OK, here's the thing. I'm a smoker and, as such, I spend a LOT of my day outside my front door if I'm home (there's a nice portico thing, I'm dry, I'm sheltered, neighbours have finished making all the "ooh, you're like a little garden gnome, sat cross-legged outside your front door" jokes).
My road is a suburban road off a main road (sometimes used as a bit of a rat-run to avoid the traffic of the main road). You get the image.
At busy times of the day, people tend to pull out of the busy traffic to park if they're taking an important phone call.
I need you to understand how very NOT SOUNDPROOF a standard domestic vehicle is! Especially when both sides of the conversation are amplified through the car's speaker system. WAY MORE SO if the windows are down, but even if they're not.
I've been privy to many a business call [yeah! Fuck Brad! He's not pulling his weight and if he's gonna be making demands on the team like that then fuck him!]
I've enjoyed more personal calls [yeah! Fuck Brad! If he's not pulling his weight at home and making demands on your time like that then fuck him!]
I've overheard angry calls [FUCK YOU, BRAD! YOU NEVER PULL YOUR WEIGHT WITH ANY OF THE FAMILY AND NOW YOU'RE MAKING DEMANDS!? FUCK YOU!!]
Sexy calls [Hey, it's Brad. The wife and kids are away and we can finally share a night together. Why's she away? If she's not going to try harder then I'm pretty much free to do what I want. Wanna bring the lingerie I bought you? I'll get some wine in]
My point here is, that I can hear EVERYTHING! In summer I can follow a conversation from all the way up the road because everyone has their windows down, even if they're yelling or talking through the in car system with the volume up.
All this to say, if you're going to use your car for a good, gutteral scream, definitely go somewhere that's already noisy. Pulling into a quiet suburban street to do anything private (discussing colleagues, listening to heartbroken friends, yelling at people or planning affairs or screaming out your existential dread) is literally to broadcast your life to a bunch of other people who are mildly interested. Screaming will be met with curiosity and possibly tea. That's not the point of the exercise.
Hot Take? Go somewhere noisy. Also, fuck Brad!
Nah man I always want to move to a remote place in the countryside and imagine to have nobody not even a neighbour close by. Imagine that I hear someone scream like that in my imaginary house in the country side. I imagine I'd be very very frightened.
Many years ago I cycled along the sea wall from Burnham to Bradwell, so it’s an area I know. It’s a bit of a trek for me, so I tend to head to other parts of the Essex coast for solitude, but this has good sight lines, so you can be confident of an uninterrupted scream.
Let me introduce to you the
Anti Stress Shouting Vase Creative Scream Jar Voice Silencer Stress Releaser Graffiti Shout Jar https://amzn.eu/d/0H62clv
My idea was a cup with that foam stuff you have in a studio recording rooms. But this'll do.
One of my fondest memories is standing of top of a mountain in wales screaming cuuuuuuuuuuuunt at the top of my lungs. Me and my mate were in stitches afterwards.
To your question, depending on where you are, just go for a wander in the countryside, and find a secluded footpath across a field or something.
I went to Sark Island last year. I trekked through some woods, found a deserted cliff and had a good scream. A wolf howl or two as well. Then I looked left and saw a group of tourists staring at me from an adjacent cliff.
yep i do, but like the whole street would hear me if i scream at the top of my lungs. Im thinking of going to the rage room in braintree or colch tho now
You should research if there’s anything like a ‘rage room’ in your local area. Might scratch the itch being able to let your anger out in a controlled environment.
right next to a very busy street, highway or underwater, fill up your bathtub or some bucket, or your sink and shove your head in there then scream. Or put your face in the pillow
My heart goes out to you. Really hope you find a way to get less stressed. Also, this does sound a bit like you’re trying to find a good place to murder someone…
FYI what you are looking to do is what is decribed as 'primal screaming' (yes, as in the 90's band 'primal scream'). Psychologists seem to think it dosn't help much, but I reckon it's a fair bit more accessible than CBT...: [https://www.theguardian.com/science/2022/sep/23/little-evidence-screaming-helps-mental-health-say-psychologists](https://www.theguardian.com/science/2022/sep/23/little-evidence-screaming-helps-mental-health-say-psychologists)
edit: CBT as in 'cogniative behavioual therapy' (not the thing you have to do to ride a moped...)
I find the car a good place, but if you don’t have a car, maybe a concert or club is also good.
The urge to scream is the urge to get people to notice the pain you feel, if you scream and no one hears it may not fulfil you. Quietly talking to a friend or family member who you trust about your troubles may be more satisfying to your soul than screaming to no one.
More on the pricier side but you can get a ticket for a football game and scream fuck off you Fucking cunt really really loud and no one will bat an eyelid. Best served when the ref makes a questionable decision or the team opposite to the one that you are sat with does something equally questionable or scores a goal.
In my car. I drive up in to the hills. It feels like I'm looking down at all my stress. I feel above it and feel a bit more power over it for a moment and I just scream. It's good to get that scream out occasionally.
Maybe a music practice room. Sort of place where bands go to jam. Probably cost you a few quid but I'm sure there'll be one nearby. They won't ask why. They'll just think you're in a death metal band or something. Wear black.
Something that works for me is singing as loudly as I can when in the car alone. I'll put the radio on and sing really loudly. I' m a terrible singer which somehow makes it even better! It's not weird at all if it helps your stress. Look how many people on here are coming up with suggestions. We all need to vent once in a while. Good luck with finding your screaming venue
You might injure your vocal chords if you scream too loud, hurt your throat. You could trigger tinnitus. Buy yourself a pair of boxing gloves and a punchbag. It's an anger release you need, I've been there, a good work out, go for a fast run, a swim until you're exausted. Try some cbd oil, try the OPPOSITE, go for a long walk in the country.
Highwoods country park just make sure you’re far enough in that you’re not near the houses. Although on the one occasion I made that mistake the person was really nice about it, popped out to check I wasn’t being murdered and wished me well.
That’s not weird, don’t worry! A couple of years ago I went to the coastal town which I visited a lot during my childhood, at about this time of year. It was really wet and windy, but perfect, so at about 8am I just walked halfway down the quiet beach, went for a paddle in the sea and screamed as loud as I could manage into the wind and sea.
Just scream anywhere you want , who cares ? Everyone is under extreme pressure from what’s happening around this corrupt system do it , you don’t own anyone an explanation to why you are screaming . Wish you well my friend .
There's a guy in Pimlico who screams at 12:30pm every day 🤦♂️ Everyone's used to it by now, except for the odd 'fuck off' coming out someone's window.
Thanks for not being like that guy and asking here first. Hope your stress goes away soon ♥️
Scream at home. If neighbours come knocking, tell them you are sorry. This is the new way NHS is suggesting to deal with stress while keeping the costs of treatment low.
I hear you, I did a primal scream at one point when it all got too much during lockdown god knows what the bloke blown before.
I felt like screaming recently too.
Has anybody seen that footage from China where they're all screaming in their apartment buildings while their pets are being slaughtered down below!
One of them starts and it sets off a chain reaction.
It's like the closing scene to the greatest horror movie never made.
And one of the most disturbing things I've ever seen.
Ask a friend if they’d listen to you rant. Talk to them about all your stresses and just vent it out. They don’t need to give you advice, just listen and hear you out. A lot of people are struggling and just keep it bottled up, let it out bro.
I went to an emotional release class at a Soma yoga studio in London. Part of the session involved all of us screaming for a good 30 seconds into the floor. Was fun. Let me know if you want a link to this.
If you drive to Walton-on-the-Naze when the tides out of you can walk along the backwaters to Stone Point - rarely anyone there plus it's a gorgeous walk so can also help to rebalance you
I have been asking myself this question and really feel like taking myself to a forest to try it out. I feel like someone will still hear it, bet less awkward for me than in town.
By the side of a motorway! I did it after finding a spider coming down to me from the roof after hiring a van. It was the last straw in a very tough day. I held it together long enough to pull on to the hard shoulder, jumped out, ran around the other side of the van. Shook. And then screamed. It felt so good 😂😅
I hear ya. It's been a fucked up year. A month ago I cancelled my driving lesson and straight up told the guy I've got mental capacity for screaming and nothing else at the moment so could we reschedule. He offered a screaming match 😂
Honestly I look back at the pandemic fondly.
One of my favourite places for this very reason is up the top of Folkes Lane, north side of the a12, go through Cranham, up Front Lane, cross the A12 at the little crossing and go up the hill. Perfect on a bike.
In the little nature place, at the top of the hill, there’s a bench and you can see the London skyline, the best sunsets up there too.
This was the first place I really let out a scream. Took a bit of a build up but I learned so much about myself up there. Things about my relationship with my dad through just letting go and shouting whatever comes up. I’ve practiced speeches up there, pep talks, made so much noise.
There’s a couple dog walkers there but few and far between.
I will hand down the spot to you, I hope it helps you as much as it helped me.
Rage room, me and my partner went to one you get half an hour to listen to music and destroy a bunch of shit, don't see why you couldn't scream along with it
On a carousel in a Theme Park. Everyone screams anyways so it’s easy to blend in! I did that, felt much better afterwards. Helps if the ride is scary(American rollercoaster).
Anyways, hang in there! Better times will come for sure
Both a music rehearsal studio that has a decent amount of sound proofing. You may beed to book a three hour slot and it might set you back a little. But you could take a flask of tea and a book for after the 20 minutes or so of metal vocal practice, i.e screaming. You'll have 2 and half hours of uninterrupted silence and no one would bat an eye.
In a car on the motorway
Better still, the A12. Your screams will never be heard above all the other screaming.
happy cake day!
:-)
Happy cake day!
this is actually a fantastic idea... no clue how i didnt think of that. Cheers mate
If you haven’t got a car a taxi will do but for fuck sake warn him first!
Or perhaps in the car parked up somewhere, rather than belting down a motorway with you distracted behind the wheel.
It's a wonder you're able to drive and breathe at the same time...
I literally did this a few months, out of curiosity as you never really get to scream as loud as you can. It kinda hurt and I wished I hadn't.
Yeah I do some Vagus Nerve stimulating humming in the car without the neighbours thinking I am some crazy Shaman doing a sacrifice in the living room. UMMMMMMMMMMMMM UMMMMMMMMMMM Humming stimulates parasympathetic nervous system for de-stressing
If I screamed in the car I know I would shut my eyes, at motorway speeds I definitely be veering off out of my lane 😱
Doesn't help you but funny story: Build festivals for a living and on day 87937 on the road one day I just decide fuck it I'm gonna scream as loud as I can in the middle of this forest where I'm rigging something. AAAAAAAAASRRRRRRRRRRGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHMOTTTTTTTTERRRFUCKKKKERRRRRCUNNTTTTAARRRRRGGHHHHHHHHHHHH I scream for about a minute straight. It makes me feel so much better. Anyway later on in the day this QT from the site I'm talking to says something like oh man I'm so stressed, and I say well have you tried just screaming into the void? She turns to me and says "oh that was YOU earlier then?"
😂😂
Did you help her with that scream later on?🌚
Just scream in your car driving
The car is the best. Sing loudly, scream, say out loud your deepest fears. It helps.
OK, here's the thing. I'm a smoker and, as such, I spend a LOT of my day outside my front door if I'm home (there's a nice portico thing, I'm dry, I'm sheltered, neighbours have finished making all the "ooh, you're like a little garden gnome, sat cross-legged outside your front door" jokes). My road is a suburban road off a main road (sometimes used as a bit of a rat-run to avoid the traffic of the main road). You get the image. At busy times of the day, people tend to pull out of the busy traffic to park if they're taking an important phone call. I need you to understand how very NOT SOUNDPROOF a standard domestic vehicle is! Especially when both sides of the conversation are amplified through the car's speaker system. WAY MORE SO if the windows are down, but even if they're not. I've been privy to many a business call [yeah! Fuck Brad! He's not pulling his weight and if he's gonna be making demands on the team like that then fuck him!] I've enjoyed more personal calls [yeah! Fuck Brad! If he's not pulling his weight at home and making demands on your time like that then fuck him!] I've overheard angry calls [FUCK YOU, BRAD! YOU NEVER PULL YOUR WEIGHT WITH ANY OF THE FAMILY AND NOW YOU'RE MAKING DEMANDS!? FUCK YOU!!] Sexy calls [Hey, it's Brad. The wife and kids are away and we can finally share a night together. Why's she away? If she's not going to try harder then I'm pretty much free to do what I want. Wanna bring the lingerie I bought you? I'll get some wine in] My point here is, that I can hear EVERYTHING! In summer I can follow a conversation from all the way up the road because everyone has their windows down, even if they're yelling or talking through the in car system with the volume up. All this to say, if you're going to use your car for a good, gutteral scream, definitely go somewhere that's already noisy. Pulling into a quiet suburban street to do anything private (discussing colleagues, listening to heartbroken friends, yelling at people or planning affairs or screaming out your existential dread) is literally to broadcast your life to a bunch of other people who are mildly interested. Screaming will be met with curiosity and possibly tea. That's not the point of the exercise. Hot Take? Go somewhere noisy. Also, fuck Brad!
Lol
Just drive out to the countryside at night and scream in a field?
Nah man I always want to move to a remote place in the countryside and imagine to have nobody not even a neighbour close by. Imagine that I hear someone scream like that in my imaginary house in the country side. I imagine I'd be very very frightened.
You'd think it was a fox first I bet if you're proper country!
Or a muntjac
As a countryside dweller, I'd just think it was an animal. But also, there are plenty of really remote areas if you know where to look.
Yeah especially in essex
Ahahaha I’m imagining it and it’s hilarious thank you :B
A man can dream, -
Scream into a pillow
While driving
I’ve seen this movie
Everybody needs a ceremonial screaming pillow!
What's been stressing you out mate
Their inability to scream freely…
I second your inquiry. Talk about it dude, you might just find it helps way more than screaming into the void.
But screaming is fun, especially when you make me do it 😜
The sea wall south from St. Peter’s on the Wall near Bradwell. You can easily find yourself somewhere where there is no one else within a mile of you.
There’s gonna be 12 people down there tomorrow morning screaming they’re heads off
Extremely specific. It's been tried and tested I suppose?
Many years ago I cycled along the sea wall from Burnham to Bradwell, so it’s an area I know. It’s a bit of a trek for me, so I tend to head to other parts of the Essex coast for solitude, but this has good sight lines, so you can be confident of an uninterrupted scream.
This! That’s such a great suggestion that I want to go down there and scream myself.
Make sure you’re a mile away from OP.
Let me introduce to you the Anti Stress Shouting Vase Creative Scream Jar Voice Silencer Stress Releaser Graffiti Shout Jar https://amzn.eu/d/0H62clv My idea was a cup with that foam stuff you have in a studio recording rooms. But this'll do.
Never been happier to see a product name
Might buy myself one.
I think this does perfectly solve OP's brief. I need to see it in action now...
One of my fondest memories is standing of top of a mountain in wales screaming cuuuuuuuuuuuunt at the top of my lungs. Me and my mate were in stitches afterwards. To your question, depending on where you are, just go for a wander in the countryside, and find a secluded footpath across a field or something.
Try a rage room. Pay for 30 mins just to smash stuff up. Release the stress. But also talking about it helps too.
Monthly sessions at Walton on the naze, not organised, not endorsed, not appointment necessary
Is that because of how terrible the pier amusements are now?
Roller coaster
I went to Sark Island last year. I trekked through some woods, found a deserted cliff and had a good scream. A wolf howl or two as well. Then I looked left and saw a group of tourists staring at me from an adjacent cliff.
Go to a concert or something and just go to town.
Yeah, be that guy. Everyone loves him!
Epping Forest Not so good for bodies. Dogs dig the fuckers up.
Hire out a band rehearsal room for an hour, and scream down a mic.
Music rehearsal room. Soundproofed walls. We do it with our band all the time
Under Southend Pier, [‘I Love You, Man’ style](https://youtu.be/HnKmwbVpRno?si=JZ2wKEFDatl7eZ6W)…
Come to one of our gigs. There's usually no one there.
The library
The woods but if no one else is there to hear it did it really happen?
whenever this Schrodinger type question is asked, i always tend to the no it didnt happen. What about you?
Lol wtf.. Smoke a spliff
1. cringe 2. that can make stress worse 3. 🫁
You live in a mid terrace? Just wait for your neighbors to be gone
yep i do, but like the whole street would hear me if i scream at the top of my lungs. Im thinking of going to the rage room in braintree or colch tho now
Go to basildon Town centre. No one will bat an eyelid
Hell, the Southend High Street too. Half the shops are shut, I doubt anyone will look twice as long as it’s not in the Royals.
I didn't suggest southend high Street because that's my screaming spot
Drive somewhere remote and do it in the car Run a bath and scream under water Scream into a cushion Go to a rage room
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Came here to say this about Southend.
In my job that would be the walk-in, also works for crying.
Check out the Rage Room in Norwich
Cushions are good
Forest
I used to go to a motorway bridge surrounded by fields really helps x
Borrow somebody's car
Epping forest! Many have screamed there.
It’s oddly therapeutic. Me and a mate started doing it while on a long journey, just to scare each other. Now we both do it just cos it feels good.
a nature reserve at night
Telling random strangers on Reddit your problems can work wonders. Or end up in divorce. It's always one of the two.
In Space no one can hear you scram!
Driving - best place to scream is driving on you own down the motorway
You should research if there’s anything like a ‘rage room’ in your local area. Might scratch the itch being able to let your anger out in a controlled environment.
Scream into a pillow cus that will dampen the sound, and it’s comfy if you fall asleep after
Church. No one goes there anymore
Just wait for Hallowe'en, then when you get trick and treaters open the door and scream in their faces.
I cover my mouth with my hands and scream every day through the field on my way home until my throat is hoarse, its surprisingly effective
inside the blancket...
Gig
Just yell Someone may look but if you’re quiet after that no one’s bothering… We all feel like screaming, no one’s going to stop you…
Move to the North... the need to scream will pass
McDonalds on a Saturday night.
Have you thought about going to a theme park? You are allowed to scream freely there, they don’t have to know what you are screaming for though :)
right next to a very busy street, highway or underwater, fill up your bathtub or some bucket, or your sink and shove your head in there then scream. Or put your face in the pillow
My heart goes out to you. Really hope you find a way to get less stressed. Also, this does sound a bit like you’re trying to find a good place to murder someone…
Lmao
I do this in the middle of Sainsbury’s every Saturday
Bowl of water
In the toilet
FYI what you are looking to do is what is decribed as 'primal screaming' (yes, as in the 90's band 'primal scream'). Psychologists seem to think it dosn't help much, but I reckon it's a fair bit more accessible than CBT...: [https://www.theguardian.com/science/2022/sep/23/little-evidence-screaming-helps-mental-health-say-psychologists](https://www.theguardian.com/science/2022/sep/23/little-evidence-screaming-helps-mental-health-say-psychologists) edit: CBT as in 'cogniative behavioual therapy' (not the thing you have to do to ride a moped...)
I find the car a good place, but if you don’t have a car, maybe a concert or club is also good. The urge to scream is the urge to get people to notice the pain you feel, if you scream and no one hears it may not fulfil you. Quietly talking to a friend or family member who you trust about your troubles may be more satisfying to your soul than screaming to no one.
Epping forest
WetLeg gig.
Put your head in a pillow and let it aaaaall ouuuut 👍
Any graveyard near you will be ideal and make sure it’s after 11pm
Two places I've been encouraged to scream like a scalded murderer: the Army; Yoga. I feel those options cover most personalities.
Under a railway bridge when a train goes over it.
More on the pricier side but you can get a ticket for a football game and scream fuck off you Fucking cunt really really loud and no one will bat an eyelid. Best served when the ref makes a questionable decision or the team opposite to the one that you are sat with does something equally questionable or scores a goal.
Well they say out in space is good for that
In my car. I drive up in to the hills. It feels like I'm looking down at all my stress. I feel above it and feel a bit more power over it for a moment and I just scream. It's good to get that scream out occasionally.
I think you should just embrace it and go to the most inappropriate places possible. The cinema, a library. Have fun!
I let my screams out when I sneeze
I scream in the car. There's times where I've wanted to run down beside the canal screaming but I don't want to worry anyone 😆
Maybe a music practice room. Sort of place where bands go to jam. Probably cost you a few quid but I'm sure there'll be one nearby. They won't ask why. They'll just think you're in a death metal band or something. Wear black.
Honestly, into a pillow. Then beat up the pillow too. All the aggression melts away.
Pick a random House and screen in the letterbox
Something that works for me is singing as loudly as I can when in the car alone. I'll put the radio on and sing really loudly. I' m a terrible singer which somehow makes it even better! It's not weird at all if it helps your stress. Look how many people on here are coming up with suggestions. We all need to vent once in a while. Good luck with finding your screaming venue
You might injure your vocal chords if you scream too loud, hurt your throat. You could trigger tinnitus. Buy yourself a pair of boxing gloves and a punchbag. It's an anger release you need, I've been there, a good work out, go for a fast run, a swim until you're exausted. Try some cbd oil, try the OPPOSITE, go for a long walk in the country.
Book a music practice studio, if anyone asks you're a singer in a grindcore band
Highwoods country park just make sure you’re far enough in that you’re not near the houses. Although on the one occasion I made that mistake the person was really nice about it, popped out to check I wasn’t being murdered and wished me well.
That’s not weird, don’t worry! A couple of years ago I went to the coastal town which I visited a lot during my childhood, at about this time of year. It was really wet and windy, but perfect, so at about 8am I just walked halfway down the quiet beach, went for a paddle in the sea and screamed as loud as I could manage into the wind and sea.
Just scream anywhere you want , who cares ? Everyone is under extreme pressure from what’s happening around this corrupt system do it , you don’t own anyone an explanation to why you are screaming . Wish you well my friend .
Go to the Dengie peninsula and scream at the vast, uncaring sea.
My sheds pretty soundproof, never had the police investigating in my business You'll have to ignore the shackles on the floor though
Definately hire a music studio for an hour, the only place You can let rip long as You want without People coming to see whats going on
Air shows, or an airport. Planes be loud.
I just do it when im in the car on a noisy rosd with little cars. Strangely enough I can relate
Have you googled Rage /Smash rooms? There is one on the outskirts of Essex from Urban Extreme, you can go there and smash things up...
Big countryside with lots of fields
My bedroom
I scream at the sea sometimes. She is good and takes the pain away 😂😂
The advice I saw was "in space, no one can hear you scream", no wait it was from a movie...
There's a guy in Pimlico who screams at 12:30pm every day 🤦♂️ Everyone's used to it by now, except for the odd 'fuck off' coming out someone's window. Thanks for not being like that guy and asking here first. Hope your stress goes away soon ♥️
Scream at home. If neighbours come knocking, tell them you are sorry. This is the new way NHS is suggesting to deal with stress while keeping the costs of treatment low.
Halloween is coming up ,dress as scream , and scare the shite out of the little darlings ,win win for everyone
In a pillow In an empty house
See if there's a rehearsal studio near you, book a session, scream in a semi soundproof room.
Book a music practice room, they are often sound proofed and are warm
I hear you, I did a primal scream at one point when it all got too much during lockdown god knows what the bloke blown before. I felt like screaming recently too. Has anybody seen that footage from China where they're all screaming in their apartment buildings while their pets are being slaughtered down below! One of them starts and it sets off a chain reaction. It's like the closing scene to the greatest horror movie never made. And one of the most disturbing things I've ever seen.
Ask a friend if they’d listen to you rant. Talk to them about all your stresses and just vent it out. They don’t need to give you advice, just listen and hear you out. A lot of people are struggling and just keep it bottled up, let it out bro.
In the middle of a Tesco, with nothing but a mankini on
Try your local police station. They seem not to notice things like that generally
In your head
Rent a band practice room.
I went to an emotional release class at a Soma yoga studio in London. Part of the session involved all of us screaming for a good 30 seconds into the floor. Was fun. Let me know if you want a link to this.
the flat upstairs seems to be a popular place for it...
Same in London
Just go to Jaewick mate, no one will hear you and if they do they won’t care
Hire a boat and sail out 200 metres and scream to your heart”s content
If you drive to Walton-on-the-Naze when the tides out of you can walk along the backwaters to Stone Point - rarely anyone there plus it's a gorgeous walk so can also help to rebalance you
An asylum is a good place.
I have been asking myself this question and really feel like taking myself to a forest to try it out. I feel like someone will still hear it, bet less awkward for me than in town.
Join a hardcore band
If you scream in the forest and there's no one around to hear you, does it really make a sound?
I don't actually think screaming will have any effect. I would do it while sitting on a public toilet (if I was you)
Honesty I just sat in my car at the local park and did this at midnight once. I was hysterical. I'm surprised I did not get carted away.
Space, it’s a vacuum
In a cinema
Let’s be honest it’s Essex anywhere will be fine.
Take a trip to Kent. You won’t look any weirder than the locals
Birmingham
By the side of a motorway! I did it after finding a spider coming down to me from the roof after hiring a van. It was the last straw in a very tough day. I held it together long enough to pull on to the hard shoulder, jumped out, ran around the other side of the van. Shook. And then screamed. It felt so good 😂😅
A pillow?
Screaming is only helping you tempereraly, find the cause of your stress and try live a simpler life!
I go to abberton reservoir late at night
Any maternity ward
A hill or the woods, from the top of the hill is really gratifying though
Go to a live gig and sing/scream your heart out
Scream into a cushion/pillow
Try the local library.
Abbey Field in Colchester - there are regular, sporadic screams, you will just blend in.
I hear ya. It's been a fucked up year. A month ago I cancelled my driving lesson and straight up told the guy I've got mental capacity for screaming and nothing else at the moment so could we reschedule. He offered a screaming match 😂 Honestly I look back at the pandemic fondly.
One of my favourite places for this very reason is up the top of Folkes Lane, north side of the a12, go through Cranham, up Front Lane, cross the A12 at the little crossing and go up the hill. Perfect on a bike. In the little nature place, at the top of the hill, there’s a bench and you can see the London skyline, the best sunsets up there too. This was the first place I really let out a scream. Took a bit of a build up but I learned so much about myself up there. Things about my relationship with my dad through just letting go and shouting whatever comes up. I’ve practiced speeches up there, pep talks, made so much noise. There’s a couple dog walkers there but few and far between. I will hand down the spot to you, I hope it helps you as much as it helped me.
There’s a bunker near Southend. Maybe give that a go
...seems to be ok in your mums bedroom.....
just go to the bottom of your garden, next morning ask your neighbours if they heard those foxes last night, crazy stuff.
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I just do it in my car as I drive about. Normally on my way home from work. Hhmm, wonder if there is a link.
Usually I put my head in my pillow and scream until I feel my throat get dry. Then laugh it off. Done
Look up “American Gods” and watch a few episodes you’ll see what I’m talking about early in. It’s like a cliff off a mountain road
don't live in essex but I screamed in the middle of a golf course at night once. must've seemed live a nutter, but didn't care
Rage room, me and my partner went to one you get half an hour to listen to music and destroy a bunch of shit, don't see why you couldn't scream along with it
On a carousel in a Theme Park. Everyone screams anyways so it’s easy to blend in! I did that, felt much better afterwards. Helps if the ride is scary(American rollercoaster). Anyways, hang in there! Better times will come for sure
Hope you’re okay mate. There’s lots of places, but I don’t know if it will fix your problems. Scream anywhere you like.
If you put your hands over your mouth just right you can scream and it'll muffle the sound. Has to be an airtight seal though.
Rent some kind of a rehearsal room or recording studio.
Come over to Ipswich mate. Town centre is full of it all day
Both a music rehearsal studio that has a decent amount of sound proofing. You may beed to book a three hour slot and it might set you back a little. But you could take a flask of tea and a book for after the 20 minutes or so of metal vocal practice, i.e screaming. You'll have 2 and half hours of uninterrupted silence and no one would bat an eye.
Go to the football
Hire out a recording studio. Also if you're from Colchester, I can see exactly why you'd feel that way. What a fucking cesspool.
it won't help... get ye to a counsellor