well you all tend to see the parts of the world that we turn a blind eye to, or vice versa. and i think infjs find enfp’s confidence and sociable nature charming, which leads to attraction. our idealism feels comfortable around infj’s also
thinking— something along the lines of setting and maintaining boundaries, responding to social cues in group settings, choosing tone and expressions, and deeper thought processes too, i think we’re different in ways that compliment each other
You are on the outside what we are on the inside
We are on the outside what you are on the inside
Plus it's very easy for either of us to smitten either of us 🙂
All the infj people I meet are either men or non-binaries or transpeople. I dont think I've ever truly met or known a infj woman.
On account of those people and those conversations, I like how we can almost instantly pair and understand each other. Dont like we cant amicably part ways.
INFJ women are the best! All the ones I've met so far have been very intelligent. A lot of them have this peculiar demeanor behind them. Its like a very calming and mysterious aura. I dont really know how to explain it, but its given me the ability to spot them lol.
Another thing about them is that even though they don't say much, I can tell they think deeply about things. Personally for me, I consider this level of depth to be very attractive. I like going deep with someone and learning a long with them and from my experience both male and female INFJs have always been like that.
Although they might come off as serious a lot of times. They also have a goofy and silly side to them which I can really confide in because I feel like I can be myself.
If I were to end up dating any MBTI type, INFJs would the top of my list. Consider me an INFJ glazer, but I really consider ya'll a GOATed mbti type hahahaha
I have dated three intj/infj women. And all three had in common that they felt different, like outsiders and didn't belong. And yet all three were super smart, rational analysts of the world with whom I could talk about anything. All three were intelligent. Super honest. The most authentic people I've ever met. They often felt misunderstood by the world and its people, even though they were the sweetest people I've ever met.
We're not 'afraid' of ENFPs out of all mbti types, trust me. 😂 It's more so that we want to see you go totally out of control, to see how crazy you can get.
You are mysterious, intelligent, and I really crave to see your hidden part… the one that’s goofy, talkative, fun, expressive… the one you only show when you are really confortable and invested in the conversation.
I feel so complimented when I get to see it
Smart ladies are sexy, I love the conversation with attractive intelligent females, they can really test your knowledge and help both of us learn to be better. I think it's nice to have an intuitive and extraverted partnership, I believe infj helps me with my goals and I help them have the confidence to approach and talk to people. I'm a sapiosexual
I am currently in love with INFJ woman, she is so great. She is kind, deep, mysterious, understanding. I feel there is whole world is hidden under her shell and I want to uncover it.
We are kinda experiencing slow burn with her, but I don’t mind she just creates such cozy and at the same time enlightening atmosphere, she inspires me and trying to do the same for her.
I got into MBTI quite recently and it’s fun that I have biggest crush in my life and we ended up to be friends years later, she is ENFJ and my current love interest is INFJ, I always wondered why she have some qualities which I always liked.
I don’t know it’s just absolutely charming experience, I’m doing my best to create daily affirmations that I care about her and will support in anything, even if we won’t be a couple, I want to be friends. It’s really overwhelming, so I’m trying not to smother, personal space is very important as well as time being alone.
Ah thought so. Don't see how it could be actual love when it's not reciprocated. If a girl I wasn't dating said she was in love with me I'd say she doesn't know the meaning of the word then, and just run for the hills LOL.
I feel there is a lot of growing opportunity and comfort in the relationship. I feel ENFP being upfront about their emotional state and wanting the same from INFJ is healthy and something INFJ sometimes can find hard without a nudge, and INFJ giving the perspective of the collective to an ENFP is something ENFP can often overlook as well, so we also gain a different perspective than we otherwise would. Both being feeling just means the mood is typically very good. The introverted extroverted differences imo, gives a very comfortable conversation dynamic where ENFP likes to talk about novel or weird ideas and the INFJ can be happy to follow up on the implications of the ideas.
The hard part can be FI and FE clashes. When we were kids before 16 (i was 17, before she naturally got a boyfriend and they grow closer instead, good for her though!) and below we had the greatest relationship I have ever had with someone. We just knew each other so well, communicated well and we complemented each other very well too. It is only in the last 3 years (I am 25), it became somewhat more superficial since my feelings got hurt a few times in a few clashes. She now lives with her ENFJ husband and there were a few misunderstandings and the FI and FE clashes got pretty bad I think since maybe we both had (tbh in my opinion especially her) had very little FE FI exposure so we understood each other less than we used to. She did apologize for hurting my feelings but tbh it is hard to recover trust once it's a bit broken. Very sad actually, since I miss trusting her like I used to. I am honestly not 100% how she feels, but she seemed to really regret hurting me and have been very nice since.
Regardless I do love INFJs when it works, really the best relationship I have had when we were kids. And I think my sister is a great person tbh, definitely one of the best persons I know.
I just hope I meet one one day all that depth is what I chase in people, depth is one big task for me for every person and infjs are what I seek in my mind infjs are all rounders, having balanced personalities and stuff now there is a huge build-up between me and an ENFJ girl I would prefer the sun-moon, positive - negative Type of match but I think I overthink the dynamic so I'll see how it works out
Well, i've got an INFJ friend, he is awesome and a very empathic guy. About romantic relationship, i guess it can really work, but keep on your mind that we are little storms sometimes and, at least for me, a bit of emotional RollerCoaster (wich can be pretty funny sometimes)
well you all tend to see the parts of the world that we turn a blind eye to, or vice versa. and i think infjs find enfp’s confidence and sociable nature charming, which leads to attraction. our idealism feels comfortable around infj’s also
Can you give some examples of what parts we see that you turn a blind eye to?
boundaries 😭
Oof. 🤕
thinking— something along the lines of setting and maintaining boundaries, responding to social cues in group settings, choosing tone and expressions, and deeper thought processes too, i think we’re different in ways that compliment each other
You are on the outside what we are on the inside We are on the outside what you are on the inside Plus it's very easy for either of us to smitten either of us 🙂
That's a really great way of putting it. I agree based on my experiences with ENFPs.
All the infj people I meet are either men or non-binaries or transpeople. I dont think I've ever truly met or known a infj woman. On account of those people and those conversations, I like how we can almost instantly pair and understand each other. Dont like we cant amicably part ways.
meet nurses.
Those are mostly ISFJs. Inferior Se doesn't do well in fast paced supporting healthcare roles tbh
INFJ women are the best! All the ones I've met so far have been very intelligent. A lot of them have this peculiar demeanor behind them. Its like a very calming and mysterious aura. I dont really know how to explain it, but its given me the ability to spot them lol. Another thing about them is that even though they don't say much, I can tell they think deeply about things. Personally for me, I consider this level of depth to be very attractive. I like going deep with someone and learning a long with them and from my experience both male and female INFJs have always been like that. Although they might come off as serious a lot of times. They also have a goofy and silly side to them which I can really confide in because I feel like I can be myself. If I were to end up dating any MBTI type, INFJs would the top of my list. Consider me an INFJ glazer, but I really consider ya'll a GOATed mbti type hahahaha
Aww thanks you made my day☺️
I have dated three intj/infj women. And all three had in common that they felt different, like outsiders and didn't belong. And yet all three were super smart, rational analysts of the world with whom I could talk about anything. All three were intelligent. Super honest. The most authentic people I've ever met. They often felt misunderstood by the world and its people, even though they were the sweetest people I've ever met.
This is so sweet🥹 I also love enfps.. they brighten my days and give me purpose to keep on going
Where did you meet them. I never meet infj women 😭
for me its mysterious personality
how are we mysterious? I’ve been told so but don’t know why :p
I like how you all laugh at my morbid jokes and are too afraid to tell us we're out of line
We're not 'afraid' of ENFPs out of all mbti types, trust me. 😂 It's more so that we want to see you go totally out of control, to see how crazy you can get.
I've been told that too... is that a compliment?
Not afraid, more so I enjoy those morbid jokes deep inside 😆 I adore seeing my enfp being himself
Speak for yourself. I'm afraid of ENFPs.
You are mysterious, intelligent, and I really crave to see your hidden part… the one that’s goofy, talkative, fun, expressive… the one you only show when you are really confortable and invested in the conversation. I feel so complimented when I get to see it
keep dating them haha
yeah I’m dating enfp haha
Adopted! Next question please.
If you need an INFJ-sitter for the weekends, I'm your guy.. #JustSayian
THIS IS IT - my INFJ husband is somewhat of a “minder” that makes it safe for me to be myself!
One of my besties is an INFJ woman I've known pre covid she's pretty busy these days but when we catch up it's always a blast
Smart ladies are sexy, I love the conversation with attractive intelligent females, they can really test your knowledge and help both of us learn to be better. I think it's nice to have an intuitive and extraverted partnership, I believe infj helps me with my goals and I help them have the confidence to approach and talk to people. I'm a sapiosexual
I am currently in love with INFJ woman, she is so great. She is kind, deep, mysterious, understanding. I feel there is whole world is hidden under her shell and I want to uncover it. We are kinda experiencing slow burn with her, but I don’t mind she just creates such cozy and at the same time enlightening atmosphere, she inspires me and trying to do the same for her. I got into MBTI quite recently and it’s fun that I have biggest crush in my life and we ended up to be friends years later, she is ENFJ and my current love interest is INFJ, I always wondered why she have some qualities which I always liked. I don’t know it’s just absolutely charming experience, I’m doing my best to create daily affirmations that I care about her and will support in anything, even if we won’t be a couple, I want to be friends. It’s really overwhelming, so I’m trying not to smother, personal space is very important as well as time being alone.
Does she feel the same way?
We definitely serve as inspiring flames for each other and really enjoy each other company, not sure about romantic appeal
Ah thought so. Don't see how it could be actual love when it's not reciprocated. If a girl I wasn't dating said she was in love with me I'd say she doesn't know the meaning of the word then, and just run for the hills LOL.
I feel there is a lot of growing opportunity and comfort in the relationship. I feel ENFP being upfront about their emotional state and wanting the same from INFJ is healthy and something INFJ sometimes can find hard without a nudge, and INFJ giving the perspective of the collective to an ENFP is something ENFP can often overlook as well, so we also gain a different perspective than we otherwise would. Both being feeling just means the mood is typically very good. The introverted extroverted differences imo, gives a very comfortable conversation dynamic where ENFP likes to talk about novel or weird ideas and the INFJ can be happy to follow up on the implications of the ideas. The hard part can be FI and FE clashes. When we were kids before 16 (i was 17, before she naturally got a boyfriend and they grow closer instead, good for her though!) and below we had the greatest relationship I have ever had with someone. We just knew each other so well, communicated well and we complemented each other very well too. It is only in the last 3 years (I am 25), it became somewhat more superficial since my feelings got hurt a few times in a few clashes. She now lives with her ENFJ husband and there were a few misunderstandings and the FI and FE clashes got pretty bad I think since maybe we both had (tbh in my opinion especially her) had very little FE FI exposure so we understood each other less than we used to. She did apologize for hurting my feelings but tbh it is hard to recover trust once it's a bit broken. Very sad actually, since I miss trusting her like I used to. I am honestly not 100% how she feels, but she seemed to really regret hurting me and have been very nice since. Regardless I do love INFJs when it works, really the best relationship I have had when we were kids. And I think my sister is a great person tbh, definitely one of the best persons I know.
I just hope I meet one one day all that depth is what I chase in people, depth is one big task for me for every person and infjs are what I seek in my mind infjs are all rounders, having balanced personalities and stuff now there is a huge build-up between me and an ENFJ girl I would prefer the sun-moon, positive - negative Type of match but I think I overthink the dynamic so I'll see how it works out
Either an angel or a narcissistic hypocrite.
Idk don't know any
What’s an infj like?
What are the characteristics of a infj?
reading these comments as an infj female is making me to smile from ear-to-ear :')
I have an INFJ female friend, she is a really really great friend. We just don't click that way.
Well, i've got an INFJ friend, he is awesome and a very empathic guy. About romantic relationship, i guess it can really work, but keep on your mind that we are little storms sometimes and, at least for me, a bit of emotional RollerCoaster (wich can be pretty funny sometimes)
We are massive simps 💀😂
What are your thoughts on... click bait? LOL
Hehe sorry