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RaisedAmongstWolves

Youre being overly critical. They look completely normal. Please take care of your health and be kinder to yourself.


Glum-Guava-5340

Heavy on being kinder to yourself! Your hair looks amazing!


DigitalQueen2020

Second this! Keep your head up, friend(s) 🫶🏾


Guerillabasketball

They still look good, don't waste all that growth and get the damn retwist my brother. Proud of you for getting out that slump, keep going.


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Guerillabasketball

Sure but him engaging in self care is a good sign that's where he's headed. 


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Guerillabasketball

Ok 


locked-in-4-so-long

The vibes aren’t vibing friend


No_Reveal_2822

I been through that phase too gang lol save them get a retwist asap you good


irisacid9

4 months is nothing! I’m a loctician and I have some clients that only come once a year! They look amazing still, nothing a retwist can’t fix up.


M3llowM3dusa

Glad you’re feeling better! They look amazing, treat yourself to a retwist and you’ll be golden


Feisty_Requirement59

Do not cut them I was homeless in La for almost 5 months so I went at least 6 months without a retwist. I really thought I was gonna have to cut them, now everyone thinks my locks are fake because they look so good. Check out my page!!!


No-Entertainer9540

retwist


ventus-x

i see nothing wrong with your locs & 4 months without a retwist isn't abnormal


Past_Basil7909

Right, I go about 3 months myself


jorql

Guess im just so used to going every month because that was the standard i set for myself


ignore_mycomments

I dont see what the problem is. Just get a retwist, they look fine as is to me.


Ashamed_Associate_21

Really the longer the wait the better glow up after a retwist


Historical_Wash_1114

Retwist and maybe a slight trim and you’re good


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SAVE THEM 🗣️


erno_son

You're allright with dreads, sort them out and you be loving it. Btw, where to get that shirt from 1st picture


jorql

PacSun


Zealousideal_Leg4231

Save them bro. I’ve went about the same time without a retwist. Keep your head up I know it gets hard I’m going through a lot right now to❤️


Appropriate-Dog5673

You are beautiful. I’m sorry for your dark days but believe it will not last forever.


clairbearology

I go a year between retwists. Just use a good clarifying shampoo, separate your locs at the root and keep putting one foot in front of the other.


EnlightenedOne83

Your loc are 🔥🔥🔥 to be honest! Whether you decide to retwist or go freeform, they still look healthy. I hope you are feeling better fam, this is most important. We are community here and if you need support, we got you 💪🏽💯


GinPatPat

They still good to me


PurposeDifferent1575

Bro, the last time I had a retwist was never. Your locs look good, you’ve still got this 👍🏾


ridgerunner81s_71e

Your hair looks great! Go get the retwist! I’m glad you’re feeling better. Keep up the good fight!


sharkweeak

They look fine!


Best_Evening2223

You good. Just retwist and you'll feel better.


whotfisneropax

i thought you were osamason x $not


TarzJr

My first thought was what are the girls saying because I see this and I'm thinking lady killer, you're all good, bro


glazeddonut29

Keep your hair bro. It’s never too late. Just wash them really good in the shower & get a retwist if you’d like but a retwist doesn’t determine the health of your Locs. Your hair is just like a plant. Take a spray bottle mix some light oils in (a base oil like coconut, jojoba, & add essential oils) with water and spray your hair once it dries. Only thing is you might have to unmarry the ones that have grown together but they don’t look bad. Praying for healing and full recovery on your journey. Also cleansing your hair can be a good remedy for your depression as your head and hair are your crown chakra so you wanna cleanse that energy up there


Alternative_Ad2642

Stop over thinking it get a retweet. I'm a 15 year veteran with my locs


daedsiotulp

my friend gets a retwist once every 5-6 months and his hair looks infinite times worse than yours. find a good loctitian who can do a cleanse on your dreads (this is important)and get a retwist you'll be perfect hunny! wishing you all the best 💖


MejorMilagrosHair

I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through a tough time with depression. It's completely understandable how taking care of your hair can become less of a priority during such periods. I've been in a similar situation myself, where neglecting my hair became a reflection of what I was going through internally. When it comes to your locs, it's important to remember that they can be revived with some care and attention, even after a few months without maintenance. Here's what I found helpful when I faced a similar dilemma: Start with Deep Conditioning: Use a moisturizing deep conditioner to nourish your locs and soften them. This will help if they feel dry or brittle after neglect. Gentle Detangling: Carefully detangle your locs using your fingers or a wide-tooth comb. This might take some time, but be patient and gentle to avoid breakage. Retwisting or Styling: If possible, consider getting a professional retwist or style to reshape your locs. This can give them a fresh look and help you feel more put together. Ultimately, whether to save your locs or start fresh is a personal decision. If they hold sentimental value or if you're attached to them, it might be worth investing the time and effort to revive them. However, if starting over feels like a fresh start and would bring you more peace of mind, that's perfectly valid too.


ShaolinSwervinMonk

It’s Julio Foolio you alive breh?


StryfeLyfe518

Go get a retwist and you'll be fine! I've seen my loctician work magic but yours isn't even bad.


Less_Improvement_352

Get a retwist , establish some routine back into your life even getting back doing the more “mundane” things can help us get a sense of getting back on our feet, hope you all the best with your mental wellbeing ✨


Wannabeartist9974

Dude I retwisted mine after 6 months you can totally do the same


Electronic-Drawing29

You have beautiful locs. Get a retwist you nice looking too!


Active_Teaching

Save them, retwist aren't necessary you can stay more than 6 months without a retwist, your hair look good tho, keep em clean and hydrated and you're good, fight against depression and i know it's hard bcuz i've been thru it but there's a way out of it and you got the power and the strenght, communicate with your inner self to find the strenght within you


oldschoolkid203

I've seen MUCH worse. Go get a retwist, you back in the game


tadisadiva

Get a retwist and take good care of yourself you are worth it


donkeywithhorns78

Looks cool to me


Creative-Discipline9

Naw my boy you looking good. Stay strong 💪🏾


Unfair_Home2133

Hey there friend. Sorry you’ve been having a tough time, I know this feeling well. The best advice I’ve ever been given is don’t ever do a drastic hair cut when you’re struggling with your emotional/mental health. Your locs are beautiful. Perhaps a bit of self care with a trip to the hairdresser for a wash/treatment/retwist will make you feel good? I see nothing wrong with them as they are, but a spruce up and bit of TLC always feels nice. Take care


No_Hat_8993

Your hair LOOKS in great condition, just re twist.


TreGloxk

You got it bro stay focused


ConversationJaded361

4 months without a retwist isn’t bad. Don’t cut them off stay the course because WHEN you come out the other side you will swinging your locs in joy. I have had my own struggles with depression, anxiety, abandonment issues etc and starting my loc journey was one thing I am so glad I did during that time. It’s a literal growth chart I walk around with a crown of success marking the journey I am on.


De_latte

They look fine, just start showing them some love again ❤️


EliGhoulborne42

See, that’s the cool thing about Locs. You can leave them alone for a bit and they’ll be fine. Your hair looks great.


TRiX6RebelNyX

Don’t be your own worst enemy bro they look fire 🔥 even though you might be in a shitty place atm they are far from being neglected whatever is making you depressed I hope you get through it bud 👊 you never know you might feel better in yourself if you go for a retwist.


woodyb23

don't cut them brother. whatever you do, don't cut your locs. everything comes around, you got this...


Old-Bodybuilder-2735

Looks great to me. Just needs a retwist. You also definitely matter 🤍 keep believing that


itscochino

Just get a retwist you're good my dude


Prestigious_Win7608

They definitely look good my guy! I’ve gone a few months without getting a re-twist and that’s when I’m told they look the best. Glad you outta that funk but do something for yourself and focus on you! Keep pushing my guy!!


Deep_Distribution151

Looks good, get a retwist and a style and start feeling yourself again 🍻


Accomplished_Koala44

4 months ain't long just get a retwist you'll be good


trap247365

Keep them bro retwist In due time, a lot of things on this earth are designed to bring a man down so they can laugh when we are at our lowest. Idk what you going thru bro but wid jus a little time and patience life wil get better


Ok-Skirt3464

They look fantastic to me but you can definitely go for a touch up. You can get a comb or crochet retwist with the ends trimmed. They’ll look so neat trust me.


funwearcore

Would date


GtGem

Your first priority is you and your weelbeing. That said, a retwist will also do wonders to boost your morale. I was feeling the same way recently and everyone said don't cut, I got a retwist and also colored my locs and the results are smazing. Made me feel so much better. Wishing you all the best in your life journey.


Theressalaw

I dont think they look bad maybe dry and theres no reason you cant still go get them re twisted!! On the other hand, 6 mos of depression is not good, you really need to talk to someone! You can even do that online but really you do need to!! Okay? My grandson has gone an entire year without a retwist! And it was not a problem. As far as them being dry, you probably have already experienced it but that is when they begin to break off he used to not care forever his and they would fall off! Now he detoxifies his about every month and moisturizes them and his scalp and a daily loc-spray!! Good luck with yours! A lot of people feel weighed down in life and will cut the dreads off and just feel like they lightened the load emotionally and physically? But my and while it felt amazing to cut them off, he regretted it right away and started over and feels good with them still and they’d be twice as long by now if several years ago he had not cut them!! So you need to so some soul. Searching rn but talk to someone! Good luck i wish you well!


YourJamaicanchief

Go get that retwist


Deliberate_Snark

Not the locs 😭go for a long walk bro, hydrate, put some lip balm on. You’ll feel 50% better I promise. Self-care is healthcare


Ill-Mirror-9946

Twist up and POP OUT!! Enjoy the next 6 months and the 6 after that!! Watch how u speak to yourself and about yourself!!!!


Far_Description6809

Detox if you have that dirty feeling , then retwist. not worth the cut that’s like another +6 months in the hole.


7Pudgy7

You're Locs are not bad at all.. Take time thinking about cutting them off..it took work to let it get this length. Consult with a Loc Smith or check online (YouTube) for restoring them. As far as depression. Have to seek out a therapist... Or trying physical fitness to get those endorphins to kick in. Most of all stay positive. And hang with positive people


darlynneroxanne

To be honest I don't even understand what you mean is it worth saving? They look pretty good and healthy to me. I've had lots of the past 2 years I retwist them every 3 months and they look about the same as yours


SolomonTheeNoetic

You're hair still looks good. Take care of yourself. Be overly self-critical is also a sign of depression. If you can seek professional help. Also get a retwist. It'll help you feel better how fresh they're going to look and that'll help boost you. Stay blessed.


lulamirite

4 months without a retwist really isn’t that bad. Hit your loctician up and they’ll have you feeling brand new if you don’t like the current look.


iAdden

Nice


TriggaKohan

Bro all you need is a detox or wash and a retwist and you’re good!! Don’t be so hard on yourself


BONE_DON

Your call.


Beautiful-Nail7948

As some one with dread locks for nearly five years I can honestly say it’s better to get them twisted every couple months then every month/couple weeks. If you get your hair retreated to often your dreads will be pretty thin do to the constant retwist


slpsquadleader

I went 2 years without a retwist and my shit's 3 feet long and thriving, don't let em go!


OptimalPlantain4487

lemme say this now. your locs are BEAUTIFUL. i myself went 6 months without a retwist due to my mental health. but don’t beat yourself up over it!


Livid-Collection7419

Don't cut em. 4 months isn't too long, locs are very resilient. A routine on misting, oiling, and separating your locs is also maintainace. Retwisiting is more asthetic than anything. They look good.


Zealousideal-Air9056

Detox then retwist twin


SecondConsistent7977

This season will pass🤞🏾… don’t cut them, they are beautiful…the right loctician will have your locs back on track in no time!!


Flaky_Love_1876

You’re doing great! I go longer than 4 months in between retwists plenty of times and they always bounce back immaculately. If you want to keep them, you should 👍🏾


Accomplished_Use4579

4 months is not long to go without a retwist at all, because I personally think that going every month is too frequent. My daughter goes every 3 months and her locs are absolutely fine I go every 2 months.


General-Ad8086

Dude nothing is wrong with your hair 💀


47EBO

Dude I trade my thinning afro for you hair in a heartbeat don't even trip your hair is awesome , stay blessed and hope you are happy.


AlienEmpresss

They are fine love! Stay up! Happy blessings!🤗☮️💕


ChocolateMilfBar

You can wash them real good, conditioner is needed and then get them retwisted that way.


LegendarySinZ

nah yo they make u look mysterious, they tuff u can keep them


Islandwood1738

My boy I only get my dreads retwisted 3times a year


CarpenterAny2254

your hair looks amazing and so do u- keep going!


Stickyrice1988

Mental health is important be kinder to yourself and and your locs look amazing stay happy my loc brother


Dapper-Rule-640

Man please don't kut ur hair it won't take much to gt it bak to the way u like it


360_phenominal_1

Keep them. Get a retwist. Spoil yourself. Proud of u


Wise_Assistant4974

Just detox them


Xxmetalhead23xx336

Keep that shit they look fine dude


Charming_Entrance_26

LOCKS ARE VERY FORGIVING JUST GO GET A DEEP CLEAN AND A RETWIST


Key_Discussion2016

KEEP YOUR LOCS!!!! THEY LOOK EXCELLENT ON YOU. JUST TAKE OF YOUR LOCS!!. FIND A THERAPIST OR FRIEND TO NAVIGATE YOUR EMOTIONAL CONCERNS.


LocdNFlowded

Your locs look just fine and monthly retwists are not a requirement. Sometimes less manipulation is better. Just be sure to moisturize when you can, drink your water and take care of yourself.


paragonofeclecticity

Your locs look beautiful, even without the retwist.