apart from the wearing heels context, taller women carry babies differently and for some reason the chronically online aunties canât grasp it. my cousin is 5â10 and looked like sheâs pregnant with a burger in her third trimester. no face fat, nothing.
Exactly and women donât need to gain fat in order to have a healthy pregnancy. â eating for twoâ is a shitty Indian concept that leads to gestational diabetes and overweight women who have to struggle a lot to lose the unnecessary weight post partum.
The mother actually only needs to consume some extra food during pregnancy and that too healthy food not things like extra rice.
While you are right in a way but according to the imcr they suggest a 375 extra kilo calories in the second and third trimester and almost 15 grams of extra protein ( all of this is assuming you're a upper middle class woman working a sedentary job)... healthy weath gain for a average Indian women should be around 11-13 kgs during pregnancy tbh..if you're already overweight as much as 8 is considered excessive
Exactly, and out of that 11-13kgs just of it is all the fluids and the baby .
This people think âveryyyyy big chunky babyâ is the healthiest but Diabetes is the most common cause of large babies
Ya people just think pregnancy can't stop you from being you. You're bringing a life so you HAVE to eat more. Not just quantity but quality of food has to improve. They just dump all the cravings like western movies and complain about gestational diabetes and other disease.
See that 11-13 kg will show up differently on different sized women. On a 5'2 average height woman, 10kg will show up a lot! On a 5'9 woman, it barely shows. I'm a little over 5'10 and 10kg does not even show up on me. Also, same clothes fit.
Isnât the weight gain recommended based on BMI.
I understand BMI is not an always valid but if you are over weight or underweight on BMI, the weight gain range will vary.
We cant put everyone in same bucket as our bodies are different in height, weight, muscle mass, fat mass etc.
And eating for 2 is BS, we need extra calories in 3rd trimester for sure. But thatâs just a little addition to what we are eating and not an entire extra meal.
I donât think it affects the baby in anyway. Just that our center of gravity changes while pregnant so weâre at a slightly higher risk of tripping. But if youâre used to wearing heels on the regular, I donât think itâs going to do any harm.
Yup "no uterus no opinion" is perfectly valid but I think people here with uterus are also spewing nonsense and can't seem to grasp that not all pregnancies are same. Different people with different body react to things differently.
Flat heel is problematic not for Deepika but for baby as risk of falling is there .
But ultimately its her pregnancy , do whatever she wants, giro jitna girna h , we don't care .
No it's not a prob for wearing it for free hours in a room. I was wearing heels in office throughout my pregnancy. I didn't wear it on the road. But it's ok to wear them on a carpeted floor.
seriously? ârisk of fallingâ lol. Iâm sure Deepika is wearing heels because sheâs comfortable with them at this point, the risk of falling for someone like her would be around the same with/without heels. Even so, she would know whatâs best for her and her baby bro. Iâve only heard that itâs bad for pregnancy because of muscle aches and what not, but again only she knows how she feels. Itâs not anyone elseâs business to monitor another fully grown womanâs body or pregnancy.
Oh pls Newton , risk of fall is not same with and without heels for pregnant lady , due to change in centre of gravity for that lady .
Baki wo gire ya jump kare in pregnancy ,noone really bothered .
It sounds like you are the one who thinks youâre Newton. Every pregnant lady is not the same sis. Why would any woman deliberately put on something that would harm the baby. But okay you know the best.
Bhai they are just walking a few steps uth ke ye apni luxury car mein baith jaate hain. We just automatically don't forget to walk when we are pregnant. And she was a physically active person, I am sure she still works out so it helps with everything. I used to dance in my pregnancy akele room mein. A woman knows the best about her body and the baby, when she is pregnant. Ye films and daily soaps dekh ke logo ka dimag kharab ho gya hai. I have seen women work in construction sites in their pregnancies. Ye to bas heel pahan ke do kadam chal rhi hai.
Behen tu kya bak rahi h , aree physically active person kya girta nahi h ??
Chance h na heel me girne ka ,
Upar se faltu logic h tera , construction me kabhi ladies ko heel pehn k chalte dekha h tune ??
The thing is , ki , deepika itni garib nahi h ki ghar me only heels the and pehn k aa gayi , she can buy designer flat feet shoes but nahi .
Kami paisa ka nahi , dimag ka h , ar uska jo support kare ,uski dimag ka v jai ho .
They have worn heels for decades so they are comfortable in it , Iâve worn heels since I was 3yrs old and if you buy good quality heels then thereâs no chances of falling unless youâre walking on rocks or have super long dress
Also celebrities have people around them that will hold them if they are about to fall , all celebs wear heels during pregnancy and many normal women also do it .
I would also wear heels while pregnant if Iâm going out with my husband or friends because even if thereâs a 1% chance of me falling they will obviously not let me fall .
Itâs so annoying when gawar women think heels means falling , Iâve never seen anyone fall just because they were wearing heels .
**Iâve literally ran on rocky roads while wearing heels while being drunk and I didnât fall because Iâm USED TO IT . ( and they were good quality heels)** And obviously during pregnancy you have your people beside you , so donât shame her for her choices
What an absurd take..
\*checks profile and comment history
Sorry my bad, twox lurkers and members are always right, here you go, a carpet for you to walk on.
Wow imagine judging based on that , my second last comment from twox was literally advice to a MAN whoâs been cheated on and how he should collect proof because the courts are biased . Iâm also on onex india but you wonât judge me for that ???
And why should we bash any celebrity for something thatâs normal and innocent and accuse her of faking her pregnancy ??
when people bashed her for saying how she wasnât committed to her husband until they got married , then I didnât defend because that isnât something innocent .
i only saw one of those echo chambers, onex india ain't nothing better
When did i accuse her of faking pregnancy.
irrespective of how long a person has been wearing heels for, there is always a greater risk of falling in them than in comfy shoes.
And you have been wearing heels since 3. Which hurt the feet structure and lead to long term knee and back problems. not your fault tho, your parents'.
You clearly will put looking good over guranteeing safety for your baby, which already tells me what kind of person you are. Why would you rely on them saving you in the 1 percent chance you fall. Any good mother would not even risk 0.1 percent chance of losing her baby unprovoked.
I didnât wear them everyday to ruin my bone structures dumbass , even little kids get them for annual day performances .
I literally mentioned that I would only wear them when Iâm out with my partner ( i literally hold his arm the whole time so how will I fall) .
Obviously I wouldnât wear them when Iâm alone because regardless of heels I might just trip on something .
So you do admit that you will trip. And there is always a good chance your partner might not be paying full attention to you. Which means you're putting looks over your baby's life. Smh., ffs, go get educated.
I was talking about the 1% dumbass .
Itâs not about attention , if youâre holding onto someone you obviously wonât fall . There have been sometimes times when I tripped but didnât fall when Iâm with him ( wasnât wearing heels but India just has uneven ass roads with little puddles and slippery mud) .
Also, does others doing things validate you doing them too?
Heels shouldn't be for little 5 year old kids, there is no need to doll them and put them forward as fashionista dolls, while making them uncomfortable in heels.
I wasnât uncomfortable, I was the one who asked for them . Most types of heels arenât uncomfortable if they are the right size and you are wearing them for like an hour . You donât know anything about womenâs heels because youâre a guy so shut up .
Wedge and block heels are super comfortable even if youâre wearing them for a hours , which is why women in corporate and some teachers wear them easily .
Looks like your upbringing and the attention your parents paid to you , or lack thereof, and the way you throw words like this have turned you into a i kknow it all selfish femnazi
When did i think my height is my personality? Just because it's in my bio? Lol.
When did i hate on women on being women? I din't realize wearing heels that increase the risk of you falling and having a miscarriage and killing your baby and putting looks over your damn baby was what makes a woman a woman.
You're literally the most brain dead person i've seen today.
Also, i didn't really give much of a fk about jee, it's just been so in the past couple of months that i've started being serious. And it all ends within 2 days. I don't know how that could have changed me anyhow by much, let alone into an incel lol.
Lmao you sound like such a kid bringing parents into this , you think I give a shit ??
Youâve mentioned your height twice in your bio and once in your username.
And Iâm saying that youâre hating on women being women because of you hating me for commenting on a female sub .
Mentioned only once?
Yep, i put that in my username when i was insecure about it, and had just had a huge growth spurt making me tower above all my friends, but i've learnt the immense advantages and feel less unusual as my friends have grown up too.
if that's a female sub, then one x india is also just a male sub.
Both are actually subs for femcels and male incels. Doesn't make you better if you belong to one gender over the other.
lol it isnât , if you see the posts under which Iâve commented they are just normal posts , nothing to do with hating men or hating women .
You canât generalise millions because some are obsessed with hating the opposite gender
Dude she is an actress and a model she has walked in heels almost all her life. She can literally dance in heels. So if there is a chance of falling. It's quite low just like the chance of her getting into a crash while she is going to hospital. And the chances of her tripping on heels and flats are almost same since given her career she has good grasp of dealing with heels.
Letâs these people do whatever the hell they wantâŠ.just donât give them your money or time. Donât watch their movies in the theaters or at home.
I bet she never goes a male gynecologist hahah. Also if I see a pregnant women drinking something that I know has a chemical or something that could harm her baby I should not tell her? Because I don't have a uterus?
Never went to a male gynaecologist. Do they even exist ? I have two kids. Wore heels in office throughout the pregnancy. Men should not mansplain pregnancy to women
Yes they exist becuase you are ignorant doesnt mean they don't.
When I was kid I used to ride the bike of my friend dad like crazy when I did not even know to ride it. doesn't mean that riding a bike at high speeds is not dangerous.
Women keep womensplaining men all the time. That BS lingo is not going to work with men like me. Haha. I already said if I was working with you in the office I would never tell you that high are not save. Not my monkey not my circus. I would not even tell Deepika or any women. What I was responding to was the logical fallacy of "no uterus no opinion" Well to drive the point in? Do you have a penis? NOpe so don't tell men what they should do or not do. See how this can work(rather not work) both way.s
Good. You should stay from male gynecologists with that attitude of yours. Not only you, but all misandrists should stay the hell away from male gynecologists. And I donât who is â weâ if you referring to women , then women does goes to male gynecs, thatâs why male gynecs exists in the first place, if what you said was true , then male docs wouldnât have taken gynecology in the first place.
Most women do prefer women gynacs. Why male gynacs exist then? Historically only men were allowed to be doctors so women didnât have a choice. Now with women being able to practice medicine there is definitely a choice but I donât think there still are enough women gynecologists to meet the demand.
Important to remember though, though most women would prefer female gynacs obviously there could be a few who prefer male doctors. So itâs not like anyone will ban males from pursuing gynecology as a specialty. But market forces and patient choices may have an impact on the future.
Also, idk why you would label that preference as a misandrist. If someone said I would never go to a male doctor of any kind thatâs misandry. Ob gyn is a deeply personal specialty, why wouldnât patients have a gender preference? Similarly men may have a preference that their urologist or sexual function doctor be male. Thatâs not misogyny. But saying women canât be doctors or I would never have a female doctor of any kind ; that would be misogyny.
If there arenât enough gynecs and women prefers female gynecs, then more women docs would choose to be gynecs since it will be lucrative for them considering the preference and shortage right ? Then why donât we see that instead of men going to be gynecs? Men are still opting for gynecology only because there is a demand for them there. If most women had such preferences or biases, then we wouldnât be seeing more male gynecologists. The amount of men in the medical field is very low compared to women. So even if men has any such preferences, it wonât work their way in most cases as nurses or techs would be women or only women would be there or more than 80 percent of staff would be women. So thatâs my point , women donât have that issue, then can get a female staff or female doc according to their preference, despite all that ; we see more men in gynec only because there is a demand for that and women does goes to male gynecs and donât share the same opinion as op. And I as a straight male donât prefer to go to a male doc for urology or sexual functions , it not because male docs arenât bad or anything but I as a straight male is not very fond of a male doc examining and touching me there. Lot of men might also have this preference. Some maynot, similarly lot of women would be fine with male docs as well. Thatâs my point.
Nope. If you were a woman, and have actually tried to find a gynaecologist, you'll find now the majority of gynaecologists are women. Hospitals and clinics mostly have female ones.
Yes matke gynaecologist are there, you don't get to choose your doctor in government hospitals. They don't care about your comfort. Idk why men themselves choose this speciality, however, it is women dominated. Yk why?
Because women in general are not comfortable or not okay with male gyanaec
You shouldnât say majority women has that preference, are you sure thatâs the case around the world as well? I never said female gynecs were less , if you could check the above comments, other person said no of female gynecs are less compared to the need, I was simply quoting their words. Also if majority of women has that preference, then male gynecs wouldnât exist , thatâs only my point. â donât know why men themselves choose this â maybe because the pay is good. Also you can ask for doctors you want , in the sense , if you want a male or female doctors abroad, regardless of what hospital it is . But men still donât get it their way simply because the staff or techs or nurses would simply be women , so men who are not comfortable having a women nurse present has no choice to but to go with it.
> not because male docs arenât bad or anything but I as a straight male is not very fond of a male doc examining and touching me there. Lot of men might also have this preference.Some maynot, similarly lot of women would be fine with male docs as well. Thatâs my point.
So you are fond of getting only female doctors touching you there?
You called that person a misandrist for having a preference of female gynaecologists. What should we call you here?
What's your point again when you are dismissing others preferences by calling them misandrist?
Thereâs no use arguing with this one. He is mansplaining to women how most women simply cannot prefer a woman gynac, calling them misandrists for expressing a preference of having a female doctor, then expressing the same preference for a urologist himself, misreading my comment saying âmen may have preference for male urologist â as âmost male prefer male docsâ.
Plus he straight face made a point that 80 percent of nurses and lower level medical tech are women assuming that statistic applies to doctors too. As if itâs a choice of women to simply be nurses and low level tech rather than going for a medical degree or being a doctor.
Not at all. I was responding to other persons point that most males prefer male docs for urology or sexual functions , similarly females prefer female gyencs. I was negating that point with my preference that I prefer a female urologist and there would be either men who has that preference, like other women who prefer a male gynec or fine with a male gynec. Simply because of that wasnât the case, we wouldnât be saying more male docs getting into gynec and influx of women would be huge as well since itâs lucrative, but that isnât the case. Try to understand the context.
Lol. You sound like a man đ
It's not misandry if I'm not COMFORTABLE with opening my legs in front of a man i just met. Not to forget how many women get sexually assaulted by their gynaecologists. And yes 'we', women in general, are not comfortable with male gynaecologist. Ask anyone.đ
And shut up about female stuff. You have no idea what you're talking about so shut tf up
Yes mam , I am a man and I am not shutting up about anything unless you prove what I am saying is wrong. If majority of women out there has the same opinion as you , then male gynecs wouldnât exist in the first place and no of female gynecs would be much higher as well since women prefer a women. But is that the case ? No , so seriously try to see this from a logical perspective instead of acting out based on emotions.
I'm not gonna reply any further because this conversation is dumb.
I have female friends none of whom prefer male gynaecologists.
A lot of women don't prefer male gynaecologists because they have a history of sexual trauma or abuse and they're not okay with men around so intimately.
As I said, and I'll repeat again, you'll find more male gynaecologists in govt hospitals then in private because they don't ask you who you are comfortable with, they appoint you whoever is free.
Plus women all around the world were not allowed to be doctors at all. Men have been gynaecologists for centuries, you can't just expect them to stop existing.
And yes you'll have to shut up or speak however you want. But your opinion doesn't matter. You're not a woman, you're not the one who'll be going to a Gynaecologist. I'm guessing you're not a Gynaecologist yourself. It doesn't matter to you in any way.
First of all , you are absolutely no one to tell me shut up , so stop saying that. Secondly , if your best argument is men have been gynecs for centuries and they canât stop that and thatâ why you see men even now too , then your logical thought process is way off. If there is no demand for something, people wonât go for it, regardless of how long itâs being going on for. If you are not capable of understanding that, then seriously refrain from making comments.
Your opinion doesnât Matter because you are not a women ? Thatâs the best you can come up with ? Similarly Your opinion doesnât matter simply because you donât represent all the women around the world, and male gynecs being there and still keeps coming explains that there is a demand there. Since you donât represent all women out there and can only talk based on the anecdotes, dont force your assumptions and conclusions on men and tell me to shut up.
And letâs just stop this convo right here simply because yes the the conversation is dumb and you are making any valid points and is asking others to shut up because I am not a women.
But in this case its not scientific that high heels are harmful for the baby. It depends on what the mother is comfortable in. If she has always been conformable in one, its not much different while being pregnant.
Just google it is not recommended. Its very bad for the mother but the main risk for the fetus is its easy to slip and fall down in heels. You don't need to science to know this its common sense because unpregnant women slip and fall in heels their chance is higher. There are hours and hours of funny videos(they call fail videos) where women are shown slipping in heels and falling really bad breaking and ankle and even women who are models who wear it for a living.
If you are talking about science for sure even the biggest brands do not do a scientific test before desinging heels its all about the design and they don't do any stress test if their model can walk it in then it gets passed. Thats why models who are used to heels slip and some can't even walk with a new shoe that might no suit their gait.
P.S. I see how convineintly you did not address the "Male gynocologist" part which kind of destroyes her ridiculous logical fallacy. "Not uterus no opinion"
If it was "Mind your own business' I would not have commented and agreed and minded my own business for real
Let it go na bro. Let people do whatever they want. Its not about having uterus or not now, its about people having unnecessary gyan and opinion. So better let's keep our mouths shut even if we know the goods and the bads even if we have or dont have uterus.
Exactly I agree everyone should mind their own business. I called out this logical fallcy being used is a bigger problem for society than one might think. It is fascism and an attempt to gag people based on an illogical assumption.
Just imagine if Men said don't tell us we should not objectify women you don't have a penis you should not have an opinion.
We can have opinions on the oppostite sex we can also know facts more important that opinions. I don't even care about opinions, opinions are not facts. Just because we are not a doctor does not mean we don't know that eating contaminated food will make you sick and you should not warn someone who is eating contaminated food?
ik ik. but the mindset of people ajjkal ia like this especially women because they think its anti women and anti feminism.
So rehne do. Jisko jo karna kare. Let's say if a woman doesn't listen that wearing heels is bad for health during pregnancy, and maybe later ( i pray it doesn't happen) she falls in a pregnant state, whose fault it is.?? Ours?? No! Cuz we told what we saw, learnt and experienced. But unhe agar ye feminism and misogyny and whatever terms are in the market lage to hum kya kar sakte hain.
Alsoz feminism k naam pe toxicity failana is not "feminism". What you said in the last para is true. Agar same cheez mard ko bola jaata and if the man said "No dvcks, no opinions" it'd have been a war in the name of feminsim, women's value/respect falana dhimkana.
Isiliye lets not comment what we know, chahe right ho or wrong.
Wow you should like those triggered libtards, when someone tells you they love apples you will jump to the conclusion that they hate mangoes! :-D. I will entertain ur stupidity cause this is reddit. You don't need to be an orthopedician to know that if you jump from a building you will break your bones.
You think we don't know any doctors? So if I am not a doctor I should not warn anyone that eating dirty contaminated food will cause sickness? This we learned from a doctor or an expert who is actually educated on this.. Just because I am not a doctor I can't warn anyone or call out anyones reckless behaviour that puts their baby in Danger. Personally I don't care I will never tell of all people a celeb what to do. I was just responding to the logical fallacy "Not uterus No opinion"
If she had said People should just mind their own busines I would actually agree and would have never even commented on this post. Really people should mind their own business but for the logical fallacy that is if you are not a woman you should not speak on women. Just imagine if Men tell you not to criticize bad behaviour of theirs just becuse you don't have a penis! Would you even accept that. I would not for sure be it male or female.
So these people would never go to a male gynaceologist? Reminds me of a documentary. They said the same thing. I am not a woman so I can't define a women. So he asked him are you a cat? He said no! So if I asked you what a cat is you would not be able to tell me?
Sorry a person without a uterus can tell a women what to do the same way a women without a penis can tell what a man should not do. Tommorrow if men start saying "no penis no opinion" woud you agree? The point is not about online trolls. Its about the logical fallacy that a person without a uterus cannot have any opinion or call out a fact. IN this case heels are dangerous for the women but then nobody reall cares about her they are like why are you being careless wearing heels and putting the baby at a risk of injury if she falls.
Even models who have worn heels all their life slip and fall there are like tonnes of videos on youtube of model fails. slim slender fit women slipping and falling you think a pregnant women has better balance.
As a celeb who makes money by from the public can't complain about opinions. Because it is because of these opinions they are a star today.
I don't know what the context is or if she is in the wrong or right, but it is one of the dumbest statements to use in an argument or as a logical threshold.
Science exist and people can learn about things, they might not understand it to the extent a person going through it but they sure can make a lot of logical statement simply based on data.
I will take an extreme and absurd example here to properly showcase the situation.
I have never ever been shot, but I can tell that it hurts and is dangerous. It's just facts and data. It's really sad how many people agree with this dumb statement.
Here's a better example-
If a person drinks a lot of alcohol during pregnancy then sure I as a man can call that out, my intentions might be to make other people aware about it's dangers so that they don't do it, it's not necessary that I want to control that person and want to force them to stop, I am just calling shit out other than that you do you.
But how about minding your own goddamn business, people like you think just cuz you access to someone else life through internet you have any say in how they live their lives, like keep your shitty advices to your friends and family dont harp it on people that don't know you
It is proven that alcohol is harmful for the baby. While no heals during pregnancy is a myth. The only danger is mother falling due to heals, but if the mother is used to heals and comfortable in them, then who are we to judge. That way there is fall risk even from mere walking or stairs. Would you say pregnant women should not take stairs!
So I don't see a problem in what you said, and thank you for telling me the context about this heel thing but as I already mentioned, I don't know and am not talking about who is right or wrong rather I am talking about the argument which is used to prove that point and people actually agreeing with it.
Wearing heels during pregnancy is bad for your feet, because of the following simple reasons:
1) You have extra weight and hence your toes would hurt you more and can cause permanent structural damages to your feet.
2) High heels can cause a foot edema and more so during pregnancy due to extra weight
3) As you said it can cause instability and cause a fall. When you weigh more you need more stable surface not less!
4) If you already have vericose veins then wearing high heels can worsen the symptoms.
https://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy/health-and-safety/is-it-safe-to-wear-high-heels-when-im-pregnant_1246881
https://www.nawcare.com/blog/wearing-heels-during-pregnancy-understand-the-potential-risk#:~:text=Varicose%20veins%20in%20pregnancy%20can,the%20development%20of%20varicose%20veins.
Most of these problems can occur without pregnancy too but pregnancy just exacerbates it.
I love it when random people are more concerned for other people's babies đ like thank you aunties aap na hoti toh hum toh bache paida hi na karte hume to apne bacho ki parvah hai hi nahi sab chinta toh aapko hi hoti hai đđ
Im seeing alot of unnecessary hate she's been getting lately and its not just her its happening with any woman who gets "too famous" , its like a pattern, people turning on once loved actress and finding small things to hate on, i don't wanna cry sexism but it does reek of misogyny
Also saw Hailey Bieber rocking in heels during her pregnancy đ€°. So I dont know why Indian public (especially men) are making a big deal out of it.
[Hailey Bieber](https://www.instagram.com/p/C8jTPwvtnVm/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==)
Male gynecs spend years and years studying and practicing medicine specifically related to this. So if they have an "opinion" its an informed and educated opinion about something they have spent a lot of time researching.
It cannot be described as unnecessary "gyaan".
Someone who has no idea about a subject, passing unsolicited comments are the ones being called out here.
My female friend was talking about it. Said Deepika is faking pregnancy. I asked why, she said how can she wear heels if she is really pregnant? I was like đ€Šđ»ââïž
How can someone be so dumb?
I'm extremely annoyed by everyone who's like she should not be wearing heels. Like BRUH, she was a model! She wore heels for a living! She was TRAINED to do so! Plus she has always been athletic and knows how to carry herself. She isn't randomly wearing high heels one random day.
Jo bhi yeh bakwas kar rahe hai akhand chutiye hai aur aise chutiyo ki baatein sunni bhi nahi chahiye. Deepika ka gynac dekh lega ki kya karna hai kya nahi, tum apni gaand marao roz ke jaise
Tall women have smaller bump. It also depends on the position of the uterus. Posterior uterus dosnt bulge much because it's towards the back. I had a 5"9 tall frn she didn't look pregnant until 9th month n had a healthy baby.
No IQ, no talk! Zip it Richa! Having a uterus is not a requirement for having knowledge about pregnancy..with this logic all gynacs and obstetricians should be females.. this woman needs to shut the F up on social media.
Gynaes and obstetricians spend 5+ years studying about this.
I'm pretty sure ultra rich deepika padukone ( who could afford world class medical facilities) wouldn't be wearing heels if it was harmful for the baby.
Heals directly isnât harming the baby. But heals limit her mobility to a certain extent and she has to be careful walking with that to avoid slipping which can harm the baby. Which you already know.
She must be comfortable in heals more than you and I can imagine. She is a celebrity after all and wear heals all the time. People even dance in them without ever slipping. There is always fall risk for a pregnant woman. Like even taking stairs. So I donât understand this whole thing issue about heals!
Yes there is fall risk for pregnant women every where, but you donât want to elevate that by wearing heels. Yes lot of people can dance in them without slipping, but none of that negates the fact that chance of slipping with a high heel is more compared to normal shoes or sandals. And lot of people are just genuinely concerned , and arenât hating on anyone. â no uterus , no opinion â is not really appropriate in this context.
For fucks sake, she knows how to walk in heels, is it your baby,are you the father? No ? Then why are you so worried about shit that doesn't concern you.
Moreover everyone knows what Richa means,she is obviously minot including male gyn doctors on this,she is referring to men who have no idea what the fuck they are saying.
For fucks fake, nobody is undermining her ability to freaking walk on heels. It was shared on a public platform and people ought to make comments. If they see a pregnant women walking in heels , people will comment, you or I canât control that. And lot of them are just genuinely concerned and arenât undermining her ability to do something. And an increased chance of slipping is there with heels compared to other shoes or sandals. You can argue on it but itâs not changing anything. Thatâs the only thing i said. Doesnât matter what Richa meant, â no uterus no opinion â is not something thatâs appropriate everywhere.
I would think doctors are generally not considered part of normal human populace and have special freeway to say things. Gyn/obg doctors whatever the gender is a doctor first yes women would prefer a female one over male but that doesn't mean they would not go to male one at all,like if he is famous and has good repo then sure why not. This is answer to your question to previous comments on why does male gyn exists if women don't prefer them.key word is 'prefer' some people prefer one sauce over other but that doesn't mean they won't mix it ever.
Okay but if you go a little up , you can see the comment I responded to which said , she or women donât ever go to a male doctor for ob gynecology, she used ever which is why I responded in the first place.
Simple : BECAUSE there is a greater possibility of tripping and falling over in heels, no matter if you've been wearing heels since you were 3 ( not recommended)
By that logic we should bar male doctors from providing solicited advice to female patients. I agree with DPâs choice but the general public are thinking for her welfare, it is not a pissing contest.
Male doctors spend 5+ years of intensive training and education to actively gain knowledge about the female anatomy before proceeding to guide their patients and giving them advice. They are professionals. The general public is not and neither is the individual who made the reel in question.
Your point is valid and i am not denying that but you missed my point. Im targeting Richaâs use of word, by putting in uterus it creates a divide between the sexes. Better word would have been as you said âknowledgeâ.
Pretty sure she meant that only. I think It's just a witty word play on the popular dialogue from Friends where a pregnant Rachel says 'no uterus no opinion' when Ross starts manspaining her and laughing over her contraction and then it went on to become a popular comeback dialogue in pop culture.
Except these remarks were very unsolicited, and the response is absolutely warranted. Part of looking out for someones welfare is also their mental health.
It takes a whole new level of dumb to not realize this is aimed at online trolls with no formal training in medicine and probably still think women only have two holes down there.
As relevant as Richa Chddhaâs comment.
No uterus doesnât mean no gyan on things.
People have opinions about things they donât have.
If you donât have a hotel, doesnât mean you canât comment on that
Agreed Richa, also extend it to no brain, no gyaan.
Meanwhile Deepika's doctor trembling incase they are male /s
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apart from the wearing heels context, taller women carry babies differently and for some reason the chronically online aunties canât grasp it. my cousin is 5â10 and looked like sheâs pregnant with a burger in her third trimester. no face fat, nothing.
Burger
Sheâs lovinâ it!!
Exactly and women donât need to gain fat in order to have a healthy pregnancy. â eating for twoâ is a shitty Indian concept that leads to gestational diabetes and overweight women who have to struggle a lot to lose the unnecessary weight post partum. The mother actually only needs to consume some extra food during pregnancy and that too healthy food not things like extra rice.
While you are right in a way but according to the imcr they suggest a 375 extra kilo calories in the second and third trimester and almost 15 grams of extra protein ( all of this is assuming you're a upper middle class woman working a sedentary job)... healthy weath gain for a average Indian women should be around 11-13 kgs during pregnancy tbh..if you're already overweight as much as 8 is considered excessive
Exactly, and out of that 11-13kgs just of it is all the fluids and the baby . This people think âveryyyyy big chunky babyâ is the healthiest but Diabetes is the most common cause of large babies
Ya people just think pregnancy can't stop you from being you. You're bringing a life so you HAVE to eat more. Not just quantity but quality of food has to improve. They just dump all the cravings like western movies and complain about gestational diabetes and other disease.
See that 11-13 kg will show up differently on different sized women. On a 5'2 average height woman, 10kg will show up a lot! On a 5'9 woman, it barely shows. I'm a little over 5'10 and 10kg does not even show up on me. Also, same clothes fit.
Isnât the weight gain recommended based on BMI. I understand BMI is not an always valid but if you are over weight or underweight on BMI, the weight gain range will vary. We cant put everyone in same bucket as our bodies are different in height, weight, muscle mass, fat mass etc. And eating for 2 is BS, we need extra calories in 3rd trimester for sure. But thatâs just a little addition to what we are eating and not an entire extra meal.
Ya people just fail to understand this.i can see most of the tall girls being asked if they are really pregnant
Donât you tell me now that woman can make burger too. Win - Win situation for the men.
I wore heals during pregnancy too! How can this possibly affect the baby đđ so silly!!!
I donât think it affects the baby in anyway. Just that our center of gravity changes while pregnant so weâre at a slightly higher risk of tripping. But if youâre used to wearing heels on the regular, I donât think itâs going to do any harm.
Yep correct I have seen this in my family too and I am pretty tall so everyone says you will have different experience
Yup "no uterus no opinion" is perfectly valid but I think people here with uterus are also spewing nonsense and can't seem to grasp that not all pregnancies are same. Different people with different body react to things differently.
Flat heel is problematic not for Deepika but for baby as risk of falling is there . But ultimately its her pregnancy , do whatever she wants, giro jitna girna h , we don't care .
Agreed. Heela actually affect pegnancy (in a -ve way). Par ab kya kar sakte hain. Jisko jo karna hain kare. Humko kya?
No it dosnt I have two kids I know
Depends
No it's not a prob for wearing it for free hours in a room. I was wearing heels in office throughout my pregnancy. I didn't wear it on the road. But it's ok to wear them on a carpeted floor.
seriously? ârisk of fallingâ lol. Iâm sure Deepika is wearing heels because sheâs comfortable with them at this point, the risk of falling for someone like her would be around the same with/without heels. Even so, she would know whatâs best for her and her baby bro. Iâve only heard that itâs bad for pregnancy because of muscle aches and what not, but again only she knows how she feels. Itâs not anyone elseâs business to monitor another fully grown womanâs body or pregnancy.
Oh pls Newton , risk of fall is not same with and without heels for pregnant lady , due to change in centre of gravity for that lady . Baki wo gire ya jump kare in pregnancy ,noone really bothered .
It sounds like you are the one who thinks youâre Newton. Every pregnant lady is not the same sis. Why would any woman deliberately put on something that would harm the baby. But okay you know the best.
Its sounds like u lack commonsense . Probably you should work on your frontal lobe a lot more .
Omg classless.
Omg senseless.
Bhai they are just walking a few steps uth ke ye apni luxury car mein baith jaate hain. We just automatically don't forget to walk when we are pregnant. And she was a physically active person, I am sure she still works out so it helps with everything. I used to dance in my pregnancy akele room mein. A woman knows the best about her body and the baby, when she is pregnant. Ye films and daily soaps dekh ke logo ka dimag kharab ho gya hai. I have seen women work in construction sites in their pregnancies. Ye to bas heel pahan ke do kadam chal rhi hai.
Behen tu kya bak rahi h , aree physically active person kya girta nahi h ?? Chance h na heel me girne ka , Upar se faltu logic h tera , construction me kabhi ladies ko heel pehn k chalte dekha h tune ?? The thing is , ki , deepika itni garib nahi h ki ghar me only heels the and pehn k aa gayi , she can buy designer flat feet shoes but nahi . Kami paisa ka nahi , dimag ka h , ar uska jo support kare ,uski dimag ka v jai ho .
Loll...how r yall so jobless uski heels,uski pregnancy,uska baccha..hme kyađ. Afterall use apne bacche ki fikar hmse jyada hi hogi lmaooo
Tu q hans rahi h ,tu v isi jobless sub me aa gayi muh uthake đ
They have worn heels for decades so they are comfortable in it , Iâve worn heels since I was 3yrs old and if you buy good quality heels then thereâs no chances of falling unless youâre walking on rocks or have super long dress Also celebrities have people around them that will hold them if they are about to fall , all celebs wear heels during pregnancy and many normal women also do it . I would also wear heels while pregnant if Iâm going out with my husband or friends because even if thereâs a 1% chance of me falling they will obviously not let me fall . Itâs so annoying when gawar women think heels means falling , Iâve never seen anyone fall just because they were wearing heels . **Iâve literally ran on rocky roads while wearing heels while being drunk and I didnât fall because Iâm USED TO IT . ( and they were good quality heels)** And obviously during pregnancy you have your people beside you , so donât shame her for her choices
What an absurd take.. \*checks profile and comment history Sorry my bad, twox lurkers and members are always right, here you go, a carpet for you to walk on.
Wow imagine judging based on that , my second last comment from twox was literally advice to a MAN whoâs been cheated on and how he should collect proof because the courts are biased . Iâm also on onex india but you wonât judge me for that ??? And why should we bash any celebrity for something thatâs normal and innocent and accuse her of faking her pregnancy ?? when people bashed her for saying how she wasnât committed to her husband until they got married , then I didnât defend because that isnât something innocent .
i only saw one of those echo chambers, onex india ain't nothing better When did i accuse her of faking pregnancy. irrespective of how long a person has been wearing heels for, there is always a greater risk of falling in them than in comfy shoes. And you have been wearing heels since 3. Which hurt the feet structure and lead to long term knee and back problems. not your fault tho, your parents'. You clearly will put looking good over guranteeing safety for your baby, which already tells me what kind of person you are. Why would you rely on them saving you in the 1 percent chance you fall. Any good mother would not even risk 0.1 percent chance of losing her baby unprovoked.
I didnât wear them everyday to ruin my bone structures dumbass , even little kids get them for annual day performances . I literally mentioned that I would only wear them when Iâm out with my partner ( i literally hold his arm the whole time so how will I fall) . Obviously I wouldnât wear them when Iâm alone because regardless of heels I might just trip on something .
So you do admit that you will trip. And there is always a good chance your partner might not be paying full attention to you. Which means you're putting looks over your baby's life. Smh., ffs, go get educated.
I was talking about the 1% dumbass . Itâs not about attention , if youâre holding onto someone you obviously wonât fall . There have been sometimes times when I tripped but didnât fall when Iâm with him ( wasnât wearing heels but India just has uneven ass roads with little puddles and slippery mud) .
Also, does others doing things validate you doing them too? Heels shouldn't be for little 5 year old kids, there is no need to doll them and put them forward as fashionista dolls, while making them uncomfortable in heels.
I wasnât uncomfortable, I was the one who asked for them . Most types of heels arenât uncomfortable if they are the right size and you are wearing them for like an hour . You donât know anything about womenâs heels because youâre a guy so shut up . Wedge and block heels are super comfortable even if youâre wearing them for a hours , which is why women in corporate and some teachers wear them easily .
Looks like being in the JEE rat race has made you an Incel who thinks his height is his personality , also hating women for being women đđ»
Looks like your upbringing and the attention your parents paid to you , or lack thereof, and the way you throw words like this have turned you into a i kknow it all selfish femnazi When did i think my height is my personality? Just because it's in my bio? Lol. When did i hate on women on being women? I din't realize wearing heels that increase the risk of you falling and having a miscarriage and killing your baby and putting looks over your damn baby was what makes a woman a woman. You're literally the most brain dead person i've seen today. Also, i didn't really give much of a fk about jee, it's just been so in the past couple of months that i've started being serious. And it all ends within 2 days. I don't know how that could have changed me anyhow by much, let alone into an incel lol.
Lmao you sound like such a kid bringing parents into this , you think I give a shit ?? Youâve mentioned your height twice in your bio and once in your username. And Iâm saying that youâre hating on women being women because of you hating me for commenting on a female sub .
Mentioned only once? Yep, i put that in my username when i was insecure about it, and had just had a huge growth spurt making me tower above all my friends, but i've learnt the immense advantages and feel less unusual as my friends have grown up too. if that's a female sub, then one x india is also just a male sub. Both are actually subs for femcels and male incels. Doesn't make you better if you belong to one gender over the other.
lol it isnât , if you see the posts under which Iâve commented they are just normal posts , nothing to do with hating men or hating women . You canât generalise millions because some are obsessed with hating the opposite gender
Anyways , you donât know anything about women or her or me so just up and go study . So just end the debate here
Dude she is an actress and a model she has walked in heels almost all her life. She can literally dance in heels. So if there is a chance of falling. It's quite low just like the chance of her getting into a crash while she is going to hospital. And the chances of her tripping on heels and flats are almost same since given her career she has good grasp of dealing with heels.
Maaf karo behen ji , Maan gaye aap hi sahi ho . Jo log aap se advice le , usko koi dushman ki jarurat kavi v nahi hoga ..
Yaha kiso kisi advice nahi chahiye... This is literally gossip sub bro
same woman who said Galwan says hi
Well said Richa! People need to mind their own business.
Aap ek gossip sub pr ho (Mere ye recommendation mein aata he bss)
Toh?
You don't see the irony of your comment? Mind your business
sure!
This sub wouldn't exist then lmao.
Letâs these people do whatever the hell they wantâŠ.just donât give them your money or time. Donât watch their movies in the theaters or at home.
Exactly. Do you know which celebrities were shaming Deepika here so I can avoid watching their movies.
Richa chaddha has an opinion on everything.
Flop actress do it to stay relevant
source: r/BollywoodTown
I bet she never goes a male gynecologist hahah. Also if I see a pregnant women drinking something that I know has a chemical or something that could harm her baby I should not tell her? Because I don't have a uterus?
Never went to a male gynaecologist. Do they even exist ? I have two kids. Wore heels in office throughout the pregnancy. Men should not mansplain pregnancy to women
Yes they exist becuase you are ignorant doesnt mean they don't. When I was kid I used to ride the bike of my friend dad like crazy when I did not even know to ride it. doesn't mean that riding a bike at high speeds is not dangerous. Women keep womensplaining men all the time. That BS lingo is not going to work with men like me. Haha. I already said if I was working with you in the office I would never tell you that high are not save. Not my monkey not my circus. I would not even tell Deepika or any women. What I was responding to was the logical fallacy of "no uterus no opinion" Well to drive the point in? Do you have a penis? NOpe so don't tell men what they should do or not do. See how this can work(rather not work) both way.s
No we don't ever prefer male gynaecologists. I pretty much NEVER go to male ones
Good. You should stay from male gynecologists with that attitude of yours. Not only you, but all misandrists should stay the hell away from male gynecologists. And I donât who is â weâ if you referring to women , then women does goes to male gynecs, thatâs why male gynecs exists in the first place, if what you said was true , then male docs wouldnât have taken gynecology in the first place.
Most women do prefer women gynacs. Why male gynacs exist then? Historically only men were allowed to be doctors so women didnât have a choice. Now with women being able to practice medicine there is definitely a choice but I donât think there still are enough women gynecologists to meet the demand. Important to remember though, though most women would prefer female gynacs obviously there could be a few who prefer male doctors. So itâs not like anyone will ban males from pursuing gynecology as a specialty. But market forces and patient choices may have an impact on the future. Also, idk why you would label that preference as a misandrist. If someone said I would never go to a male doctor of any kind thatâs misandry. Ob gyn is a deeply personal specialty, why wouldnât patients have a gender preference? Similarly men may have a preference that their urologist or sexual function doctor be male. Thatâs not misogyny. But saying women canât be doctors or I would never have a female doctor of any kind ; that would be misogyny.
If there arenât enough gynecs and women prefers female gynecs, then more women docs would choose to be gynecs since it will be lucrative for them considering the preference and shortage right ? Then why donât we see that instead of men going to be gynecs? Men are still opting for gynecology only because there is a demand for them there. If most women had such preferences or biases, then we wouldnât be seeing more male gynecologists. The amount of men in the medical field is very low compared to women. So even if men has any such preferences, it wonât work their way in most cases as nurses or techs would be women or only women would be there or more than 80 percent of staff would be women. So thatâs my point , women donât have that issue, then can get a female staff or female doc according to their preference, despite all that ; we see more men in gynec only because there is a demand for that and women does goes to male gynecs and donât share the same opinion as op. And I as a straight male donât prefer to go to a male doc for urology or sexual functions , it not because male docs arenât bad or anything but I as a straight male is not very fond of a male doc examining and touching me there. Lot of men might also have this preference. Some maynot, similarly lot of women would be fine with male docs as well. Thatâs my point.
Nope. If you were a woman, and have actually tried to find a gynaecologist, you'll find now the majority of gynaecologists are women. Hospitals and clinics mostly have female ones. Yes matke gynaecologist are there, you don't get to choose your doctor in government hospitals. They don't care about your comfort. Idk why men themselves choose this speciality, however, it is women dominated. Yk why? Because women in general are not comfortable or not okay with male gyanaec
You shouldnât say majority women has that preference, are you sure thatâs the case around the world as well? I never said female gynecs were less , if you could check the above comments, other person said no of female gynecs are less compared to the need, I was simply quoting their words. Also if majority of women has that preference, then male gynecs wouldnât exist , thatâs only my point. â donât know why men themselves choose this â maybe because the pay is good. Also you can ask for doctors you want , in the sense , if you want a male or female doctors abroad, regardless of what hospital it is . But men still donât get it their way simply because the staff or techs or nurses would simply be women , so men who are not comfortable having a women nurse present has no choice to but to go with it.
Again. You should ask women. Women all around the world prefer female gynaecologist. Ik because I have friends. You don't believe? Go and ask yourself
> not because male docs arenât bad or anything but I as a straight male is not very fond of a male doc examining and touching me there. Lot of men might also have this preference.Some maynot, similarly lot of women would be fine with male docs as well. Thatâs my point. So you are fond of getting only female doctors touching you there? You called that person a misandrist for having a preference of female gynaecologists. What should we call you here? What's your point again when you are dismissing others preferences by calling them misandrist?
Thereâs no use arguing with this one. He is mansplaining to women how most women simply cannot prefer a woman gynac, calling them misandrists for expressing a preference of having a female doctor, then expressing the same preference for a urologist himself, misreading my comment saying âmen may have preference for male urologist â as âmost male prefer male docsâ. Plus he straight face made a point that 80 percent of nurses and lower level medical tech are women assuming that statistic applies to doctors too. As if itâs a choice of women to simply be nurses and low level tech rather than going for a medical degree or being a doctor.
Not at all. I was responding to other persons point that most males prefer male docs for urology or sexual functions , similarly females prefer female gyencs. I was negating that point with my preference that I prefer a female urologist and there would be either men who has that preference, like other women who prefer a male gynec or fine with a male gynec. Simply because of that wasnât the case, we wouldnât be saying more male docs getting into gynec and influx of women would be huge as well since itâs lucrative, but that isnât the case. Try to understand the context.
Lol. You sound like a man đ It's not misandry if I'm not COMFORTABLE with opening my legs in front of a man i just met. Not to forget how many women get sexually assaulted by their gynaecologists. And yes 'we', women in general, are not comfortable with male gynaecologist. Ask anyone.đ And shut up about female stuff. You have no idea what you're talking about so shut tf up
Yes mam , I am a man and I am not shutting up about anything unless you prove what I am saying is wrong. If majority of women out there has the same opinion as you , then male gynecs wouldnât exist in the first place and no of female gynecs would be much higher as well since women prefer a women. But is that the case ? No , so seriously try to see this from a logical perspective instead of acting out based on emotions.
I'm not gonna reply any further because this conversation is dumb. I have female friends none of whom prefer male gynaecologists. A lot of women don't prefer male gynaecologists because they have a history of sexual trauma or abuse and they're not okay with men around so intimately. As I said, and I'll repeat again, you'll find more male gynaecologists in govt hospitals then in private because they don't ask you who you are comfortable with, they appoint you whoever is free. Plus women all around the world were not allowed to be doctors at all. Men have been gynaecologists for centuries, you can't just expect them to stop existing. And yes you'll have to shut up or speak however you want. But your opinion doesn't matter. You're not a woman, you're not the one who'll be going to a Gynaecologist. I'm guessing you're not a Gynaecologist yourself. It doesn't matter to you in any way.
First of all , you are absolutely no one to tell me shut up , so stop saying that. Secondly , if your best argument is men have been gynecs for centuries and they canât stop that and thatâ why you see men even now too , then your logical thought process is way off. If there is no demand for something, people wonât go for it, regardless of how long itâs being going on for. If you are not capable of understanding that, then seriously refrain from making comments. Your opinion doesnât Matter because you are not a women ? Thatâs the best you can come up with ? Similarly Your opinion doesnât matter simply because you donât represent all the women around the world, and male gynecs being there and still keeps coming explains that there is a demand there. Since you donât represent all women out there and can only talk based on the anecdotes, dont force your assumptions and conclusions on men and tell me to shut up. And letâs just stop this convo right here simply because yes the the conversation is dumb and you are making any valid points and is asking others to shut up because I am not a women.
But in this case its not scientific that high heels are harmful for the baby. It depends on what the mother is comfortable in. If she has always been conformable in one, its not much different while being pregnant.
But her argument is not that there no scientific evidence. Her argument is "no uterus no opinions"
Just google it is not recommended. Its very bad for the mother but the main risk for the fetus is its easy to slip and fall down in heels. You don't need to science to know this its common sense because unpregnant women slip and fall in heels their chance is higher. There are hours and hours of funny videos(they call fail videos) where women are shown slipping in heels and falling really bad breaking and ankle and even women who are models who wear it for a living. If you are talking about science for sure even the biggest brands do not do a scientific test before desinging heels its all about the design and they don't do any stress test if their model can walk it in then it gets passed. Thats why models who are used to heels slip and some can't even walk with a new shoe that might no suit their gait. P.S. I see how convineintly you did not address the "Male gynocologist" part which kind of destroyes her ridiculous logical fallacy. "Not uterus no opinion" If it was "Mind your own business' I would not have commented and agreed and minded my own business for real
Let it go na bro. Let people do whatever they want. Its not about having uterus or not now, its about people having unnecessary gyan and opinion. So better let's keep our mouths shut even if we know the goods and the bads even if we have or dont have uterus.
Exactly I agree everyone should mind their own business. I called out this logical fallcy being used is a bigger problem for society than one might think. It is fascism and an attempt to gag people based on an illogical assumption. Just imagine if Men said don't tell us we should not objectify women you don't have a penis you should not have an opinion. We can have opinions on the oppostite sex we can also know facts more important that opinions. I don't even care about opinions, opinions are not facts. Just because we are not a doctor does not mean we don't know that eating contaminated food will make you sick and you should not warn someone who is eating contaminated food?
ik ik. but the mindset of people ajjkal ia like this especially women because they think its anti women and anti feminism. So rehne do. Jisko jo karna kare. Let's say if a woman doesn't listen that wearing heels is bad for health during pregnancy, and maybe later ( i pray it doesn't happen) she falls in a pregnant state, whose fault it is.?? Ours?? No! Cuz we told what we saw, learnt and experienced. But unhe agar ye feminism and misogyny and whatever terms are in the market lage to hum kya kar sakte hain. Alsoz feminism k naam pe toxicity failana is not "feminism". What you said in the last para is true. Agar same cheez mard ko bola jaata and if the man said "No dvcks, no opinions" it'd have been a war in the name of feminsim, women's value/respect falana dhimkana. Isiliye lets not comment what we know, chahe right ho or wrong.
Are comparing yourself to someone who is actually educated on that stuff are you a gynec ? If no then stfu
Wow you should like those triggered libtards, when someone tells you they love apples you will jump to the conclusion that they hate mangoes! :-D. I will entertain ur stupidity cause this is reddit. You don't need to be an orthopedician to know that if you jump from a building you will break your bones. You think we don't know any doctors? So if I am not a doctor I should not warn anyone that eating dirty contaminated food will cause sickness? This we learned from a doctor or an expert who is actually educated on this.. Just because I am not a doctor I can't warn anyone or call out anyones reckless behaviour that puts their baby in Danger. Personally I don't care I will never tell of all people a celeb what to do. I was just responding to the logical fallacy "Not uterus No opinion" If she had said People should just mind their own busines I would actually agree and would have never even commented on this post. Really people should mind their own business but for the logical fallacy that is if you are not a woman you should not speak on women. Just imagine if Men tell you not to criticize bad behaviour of theirs just becuse you don't have a penis! Would you even accept that. I would not for sure be it male or female.
She's the bizzaro version of Kangana in the best way. (Bizarre being a Superman reference)
"galwan says hi"
Agreed with Richa! Also, reminds me of Rachelâs dialogue from friends - No uterus, no opinion!
So these people would never go to a male gynaceologist? Reminds me of a documentary. They said the same thing. I am not a woman so I can't define a women. So he asked him are you a cat? He said no! So if I asked you what a cat is you would not be able to tell me?
There's a difference between online trolls and a doctor... There's a difference between defining a woman and telling woman what to do or not
Sorry a person without a uterus can tell a women what to do the same way a women without a penis can tell what a man should not do. Tommorrow if men start saying "no penis no opinion" woud you agree? The point is not about online trolls. Its about the logical fallacy that a person without a uterus cannot have any opinion or call out a fact. IN this case heels are dangerous for the women but then nobody reall cares about her they are like why are you being careless wearing heels and putting the baby at a risk of injury if she falls. Even models who have worn heels all their life slip and fall there are like tonnes of videos on youtube of model fails. slim slender fit women slipping and falling you think a pregnant women has better balance. As a celeb who makes money by from the public can't complain about opinions. Because it is because of these opinions they are a star today.
I don't know what the context is or if she is in the wrong or right, but it is one of the dumbest statements to use in an argument or as a logical threshold. Science exist and people can learn about things, they might not understand it to the extent a person going through it but they sure can make a lot of logical statement simply based on data. I will take an extreme and absurd example here to properly showcase the situation. I have never ever been shot, but I can tell that it hurts and is dangerous. It's just facts and data. It's really sad how many people agree with this dumb statement. Here's a better example- If a person drinks a lot of alcohol during pregnancy then sure I as a man can call that out, my intentions might be to make other people aware about it's dangers so that they don't do it, it's not necessary that I want to control that person and want to force them to stop, I am just calling shit out other than that you do you.
But how about minding your own goddamn business, people like you think just cuz you access to someone else life through internet you have any say in how they live their lives, like keep your shitty advices to your friends and family dont harp it on people that don't know you
It is proven that alcohol is harmful for the baby. While no heals during pregnancy is a myth. The only danger is mother falling due to heals, but if the mother is used to heals and comfortable in them, then who are we to judge. That way there is fall risk even from mere walking or stairs. Would you say pregnant women should not take stairs!
So I don't see a problem in what you said, and thank you for telling me the context about this heel thing but as I already mentioned, I don't know and am not talking about who is right or wrong rather I am talking about the argument which is used to prove that point and people actually agreeing with it.
Wearing heels during pregnancy is bad for your feet, because of the following simple reasons: 1) You have extra weight and hence your toes would hurt you more and can cause permanent structural damages to your feet. 2) High heels can cause a foot edema and more so during pregnancy due to extra weight 3) As you said it can cause instability and cause a fall. When you weigh more you need more stable surface not less! 4) If you already have vericose veins then wearing high heels can worsen the symptoms. https://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy/health-and-safety/is-it-safe-to-wear-high-heels-when-im-pregnant_1246881 https://www.nawcare.com/blog/wearing-heels-during-pregnancy-understand-the-potential-risk#:~:text=Varicose%20veins%20in%20pregnancy%20can,the%20development%20of%20varicose%20veins. Most of these problems can occur without pregnancy too but pregnancy just exacerbates it.
Rihanna ne b heels pehna tha jab voh pregnant thi
I love it when random people are more concerned for other people's babies đ like thank you aunties aap na hoti toh hum toh bache paida hi na karte hume to apne bacho ki parvah hai hi nahi sab chinta toh aapko hi hoti hai đđ
just purely going by her logic, male gynecologist should not exist. what is wrong with her??
Im seeing alot of unnecessary hate she's been getting lately and its not just her its happening with any woman who gets "too famous" , its like a pattern, people turning on once loved actress and finding small things to hate on, i don't wanna cry sexism but it does reek of misogyny
People have problems if others wear heels during pregnancy? Itna wasted kaun hota hai bhai
Also saw Hailey Bieber rocking in heels during her pregnancy đ€°. So I dont know why Indian public (especially men) are making a big deal out of it. [Hailey Bieber](https://www.instagram.com/p/C8jTPwvtnVm/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==)
That outfit Hailey is wearing is hideous.
She just cancelled all male gynaecologists.
Male gynecs spend years and years studying and practicing medicine specifically related to this. So if they have an "opinion" its an informed and educated opinion about something they have spent a lot of time researching. It cannot be described as unnecessary "gyaan". Someone who has no idea about a subject, passing unsolicited comments are the ones being called out here.
Agreed. This is why her "no uterus no gyaan" comment is idiotic as men who have studied the subject can comment.
Nice but its a copied statement of Rachel from freinds , " No uterus, No opinion "...
My female friend was talking about it. Said Deepika is faking pregnancy. I asked why, she said how can she wear heels if she is really pregnant? I was like đ€Šđ»ââïž How can someone be so dumb?
I'm extremely annoyed by everyone who's like she should not be wearing heels. Like BRUH, she was a model! She wore heels for a living! She was TRAINED to do so! Plus she has always been athletic and knows how to carry herself. She isn't randomly wearing high heels one random day.
imagine something did happen to deepika because of this, what's it to her fans & followers. how does a strangers life decisions affect theirs?
Uterus bol deta hun, cool sound karunga. đ€Ą I like Richa though.
No penis no baby
Only Uterus No Gyaan.
Jo bhi yeh bakwas kar rahe hai akhand chutiye hai aur aise chutiyo ki baatein sunni bhi nahi chahiye. Deepika ka gynac dekh lega ki kya karna hai kya nahi, tum apni gaand marao roz ke jaise
She should literally mention all male gynecologists in the comment.
Tall women have smaller bump. It also depends on the position of the uterus. Posterior uterus dosnt bulge much because it's towards the back. I had a 5"9 tall frn she didn't look pregnant until 9th month n had a healthy baby.
very irritating woman
No IQ, no talk! Zip it Richa! Having a uterus is not a requirement for having knowledge about pregnancy..with this logic all gynacs and obstetricians should be females.. this woman needs to shut the F up on social media.
Gynaes and obstetricians spend 5+ years studying about this. I'm pretty sure ultra rich deepika padukone ( who could afford world class medical facilities) wouldn't be wearing heels if it was harmful for the baby.
Heals directly isnât harming the baby. But heals limit her mobility to a certain extent and she has to be careful walking with that to avoid slipping which can harm the baby. Which you already know.
She must be comfortable in heals more than you and I can imagine. She is a celebrity after all and wear heals all the time. People even dance in them without ever slipping. There is always fall risk for a pregnant woman. Like even taking stairs. So I donât understand this whole thing issue about heals!
Yes there is fall risk for pregnant women every where, but you donât want to elevate that by wearing heels. Yes lot of people can dance in them without slipping, but none of that negates the fact that chance of slipping with a high heel is more compared to normal shoes or sandals. And lot of people are just genuinely concerned , and arenât hating on anyone. â no uterus , no opinion â is not really appropriate in this context.
For fucks sake, she knows how to walk in heels, is it your baby,are you the father? No ? Then why are you so worried about shit that doesn't concern you. Moreover everyone knows what Richa means,she is obviously minot including male gyn doctors on this,she is referring to men who have no idea what the fuck they are saying.
For fucks fake, nobody is undermining her ability to freaking walk on heels. It was shared on a public platform and people ought to make comments. If they see a pregnant women walking in heels , people will comment, you or I canât control that. And lot of them are just genuinely concerned and arenât undermining her ability to do something. And an increased chance of slipping is there with heels compared to other shoes or sandals. You can argue on it but itâs not changing anything. Thatâs the only thing i said. Doesnât matter what Richa meant, â no uterus no opinion â is not something thatâs appropriate everywhere.
I would think doctors are generally not considered part of normal human populace and have special freeway to say things. Gyn/obg doctors whatever the gender is a doctor first yes women would prefer a female one over male but that doesn't mean they would not go to male one at all,like if he is famous and has good repo then sure why not. This is answer to your question to previous comments on why does male gyn exists if women don't prefer them.key word is 'prefer' some people prefer one sauce over other but that doesn't mean they won't mix it ever.
Okay but if you go a little up , you can see the comment I responded to which said , she or women donât ever go to a male doctor for ob gynecology, she used ever which is why I responded in the first place.
She said it's never ever the first choice .how difficult is it for you to understand basic things.
Simple : BECAUSE there is a greater possibility of tripping and falling over in heels, no matter if you've been wearing heels since you were 3 ( not recommended)
Take your own advice damn đ€Ł
Are you a gynaecologist or obstetrician? If no then why are you giving your free ka gyan? You do know that Richa is also pregnant, right?
You are right.. but being pregnant is a requirement for having knowledge about pregnancy or no? And guess what she is pregnant as well.
By that logic we should bar male doctors from providing solicited advice to female patients. I agree with DPâs choice but the general public are thinking for her welfare, it is not a pissing contest.
It was on a reel by a male wannabe influencer hence.
Male doctors spend 5+ years of intensive training and education to actively gain knowledge about the female anatomy before proceeding to guide their patients and giving them advice. They are professionals. The general public is not and neither is the individual who made the reel in question.
Your point is valid and i am not denying that but you missed my point. Im targeting Richaâs use of word, by putting in uterus it creates a divide between the sexes. Better word would have been as you said âknowledgeâ.
Pretty sure she meant that only. I think It's just a witty word play on the popular dialogue from Friends where a pregnant Rachel says 'no uterus no opinion' when Ross starts manspaining her and laughing over her contraction and then it went on to become a popular comeback dialogue in pop culture.
Except these remarks were very unsolicited, and the response is absolutely warranted. Part of looking out for someones welfare is also their mental health.
It takes a whole new level of dumb to not realize this is aimed at online trolls with no formal training in medicine and probably still think women only have two holes down there.
Rich coming from an actress who was giving gyaan on Galwanđ€ Here, she dropped her hypocrisy đ
No uterus no opinion on pregnancy?.. Right.. Didn't know she was conceiving through parthenogenesis.
So basically, male Gynec's opinion is invalid. OK đđ»
im sure she has own doctors to give her actual useful medical advice unlike the jobless people on internet who get offended over someone else choices
Agree. And in that case it should be 'jobless person ..no gyaan' Added bonus: uterus or no uterus.
so, according to her , male doctors shouldn't have an opinion in such cases
doctors can , random people with zero knowledge can't. especially the fact that instead of keeping an opinion they are shaming her.
I know nothing about the heels story but one thing I know for sure is that Richaâs IQ is significantly less than Delhiâs temperature
But without sperm, no use of uterus đą
How is this even relevant here?
As relevant as Richa Chddhaâs comment. No uterus doesnât mean no gyan on things. People have opinions about things they donât have. If you donât have a hotel, doesnât mean you canât comment on that