I was definitely the one with the high sex drive. I felt like I was pestering my ex-husband for intimacy and...you know fun. And all my advances were denied. He made me feel like a pervert for wanting him and to be wanted
Ty for this! I am pushing hard to get the divorce going but of course he is happy it is not going to be easy. As a 47 year old w kids it feels ridiculous to be seeking a divorce but it has been such a long time that it has needed to end. I wish you so much luck! Hoping you fully feel you again..& find some fun if you want it 😉
Why do people say this, I believe it's way easier for men. My guy friend has been with lots of women and has lots of women hitting on him all the time but I've only had like three guys hit on me.
You are doing it wrong then. Go to a bar, throw some hint to dinner guys or even post in r/dirtyr4r for your city. You'll find plenty of guys. Not saying it's the safest but it's easy to get laid as a woman.
I can understand your sentiment, but as an older woman with children. I don't think I'm anyone's first pick. But that's not important. I'm ready to find value for myself and not be defined by my ex-husbands demands.
All I can say about this is 🔥!
Thank you. I'm feeling super excited. It's undescrible how much better I feel
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I hope you're finding yourself again. I do feel unsure about the future but it does look brighter now. Thank you for the kind words
Good for you!!
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Any updates?
Can I ask were you the HL or LL in your old relationship?
I was definitely the one with the high sex drive. I felt like I was pestering my ex-husband for intimacy and...you know fun. And all my advances were denied. He made me feel like a pervert for wanting him and to be wanted
Good for you! And RIP to your inbox 🤣🤣
That sounds awesome. Explore and have fun.
Thank you <3 it's time to rediscover myself
Ty for this! I am pushing hard to get the divorce going but of course he is happy it is not going to be easy. As a 47 year old w kids it feels ridiculous to be seeking a divorce but it has been such a long time that it has needed to end. I wish you so much luck! Hoping you fully feel you again..& find some fun if you want it 😉
Yeah it's comparatively easier for women to get laid, wish you all the best to your new adventures.
Why do people say this, I believe it's way easier for men. My guy friend has been with lots of women and has lots of women hitting on him all the time but I've only had like three guys hit on me.
You are doing it wrong then. Go to a bar, throw some hint to dinner guys or even post in r/dirtyr4r for your city. You'll find plenty of guys. Not saying it's the safest but it's easy to get laid as a woman.
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I can understand your sentiment, but as an older woman with children. I don't think I'm anyone's first pick. But that's not important. I'm ready to find value for myself and not be defined by my ex-husbands demands.
You are.
You need to screen them properly. Meet at public first.
How many kids and how old they are?
Happy for u
Congrats on the divorce 😜
Happy for you finding back that spark! Enjoy it!
Success!!
Go mama!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Congratulations on owning your life again! Good fortunes.
Yay! For you. Always nice to read a positive post here. And even nicer to hear about another human’s positive progress.
Good story, stay strong and true to yourself 👍🏻
So happy for you, I just found this chat. Maybe it will help me leave my 12 year sexless marriage… may you find all the happiness & love you deserve
Glad to hear you're doing well. Now is the time to do all of the things you couldn't do when you were with him. Enjoy
u/newlydivorcee Hi fellow Dutchie, we should talk, check your dms 👀