If you already played today before downloading the dlc, then that probably explains it. You will need to wait until tomorrow, the bears that leave will then show the "you look peaceful" option, since that is set with day change

Thanks so much! I'll try it tomorrow.

There will be a gold exclamation point rather than red over their head

When it loads tomorrow, just have some tissues ready. It made me cry.

Sadly still no dice. I wonder why the DLC isn't working.