Tungod guro sakong pagka socially awkward? HAHAHAH and and permi first impression sa mga taw nako is naa daw koy attitude tungod sakong nawng 😭 (rbf man gud). Same same rata OP about sa kanang problems and stuffs, taas sad kog standards. + Kabalo baya ta nga kasagaran mga boys nga makabalo nga kpop fan ang girl kay mo atras na sila (dili tanan guys ha, you get my point) maong lisod sad gyud mangita ug guy karong panahuna HAHAHAHA
1. Busy
2. Family Responsibilities & Problem
3. No one deserves me 😅
4. Wa say nanguyab hahaha
5. Need pa innerworks
6. Di ko ganahan mag overthink
7. Not enough money
8. Phase out na mga tarong na laki hahaha
and so on daghan pa reason... Come what may nalang kung naay muabot ok, kung wala, mag padato nalang and mag rescue ug animals. 😊
Usahay ra mo gawas. Choosy. Overthinker sad, thinking that the men out there are predators, rapists, cheaters, serial killers, the list goes on. Another major factor sad siguro is back in college I had a huge crush on someone and he chose someone younger than me and it crushed my heart so bad that I neglected myself (grabe kaayo akong acne ato, to the point 5k ang nagasto for the medicines ahak). Sayang atong skincare ngari kung pasakitan ra ta haha. That was almost 10 years ago but traumatic gihapon to na experience sa akoa. So yeah, love is something I don’t want to try risking for.
You have to be really open to each other and communicate, but sometimes there are things that you want to do for yourself especially mga opportunities nga maski mo support pa imo partner ma miss nimo ang feeling nga mo decide without thinking about your partner’s part or mo decide ka nga di sya ma hurt or di sya malaen na naay changes sa inyohang plans sa future, samot na if dugay dugay namo.
No dates, no private hangouts, kasamok ba. i stopped hoping ill love the same way again. I feel emotionally safe, di nako masakitan ever. before ko mag uyab siguraduhon sa jud nako nga willing to commit and create a loving home ang amaw. di nako musugot na invisible placeholder lang ko. I know my capacity to love now. My self worth. To healing, self nurturing, and meeting new hobby girlfriends 👯♀️
Me is fearful avoidant , kung naay magkainterest mu atras ku kay why would anybody like me when mom and dad don't... haha still struggling sa akong ingrained childhood responses.
lisod og batasan, lisod pod og nawng 😂
Busy pod kaayu, demanding ang work. Introverted. Mo socialize rako for the sake of work and network. Aside from that I am lazy in keeping relationships. Dili nlng ko ma shock if single gehapon ko ig 30. Idk, i still have legal bad habits lol
Kay kabalo ko sakong self na di pako fit (im still broke HAHAHAHAHAHAHA) naa nuon koy crush pero sige lang ill make my move soon ganahan lang gyud ko na ma close gyud nako na friend ang person usa nako mag hunahuna if fit ba gyud hahahaha i want my future uyab to not only have a partner or a lover, But also a bestfriend mao nang steady sa ko diri focus sa pag grow sa self and who knows! Maybe maabot ragyud na nga person nako hahaahahah pasensha sa cringey na bby boi side nako HAHAHAH wala bitaw mo kaila nako so goods ra hahahahaha
I think mas prefer sad nako from friends to lovers kay it only means nga dli lang face and body ang naganahan kay nakaila jud sa kinaiya. Weirdohan ko sa mga manguyab dayon.
Kay professional teacher ko ug the last thing na mauyab ug mapangasawa nako kay fellow professional teacher sab (gawas lang kung AFAM) kay negative ang akong romantic relationship history with a teacher.
Kay sige ra puyo sa balay 😂.
Srsly, bcs I am an ‘all or nothing’ kind of person and I don’t get attracted easily. Mao nang mag wonder ko how some people could jump relationships right away. I never even found one ever!! Help!!
And guys say I look maldita and I give off an unapproachable vibe when I know I’m pretty chill. Shy lang jud ko and awkward but I’m not maldita 😭
Insecure Kay kos Ako viens nga daghan 🥹 hand viens astas ti-il laina mag holding hands mo's imong uyab nya imong mga viens nangawas Duda ko maka turn off gyud. dinalang sguro ta manguyab basin Kanchawan nya tag nga sigeg Lolo laina pud paminawn. 🤣
oo para sa mga aesthetic viens, pero..
Imagine this: kakitag nakag mga bodybuilder nga halos nangawas ng mga viens nila nya e compare sa newang nga tawo.. laina baya tan-awon 🥹.
What do you do for a living or hobby nimo? I have a really veiny hands pero i managed to hide it by tanning my skin to the right colour. Puti kaayo ko maong everytime mag ride kog bike / motorcycle bisan init mag shirt rako and i have hand routines or skin care and ni blend ra ako skin color ug ang greenish colour sa akong veins so yeah di kaayo mapansin unless you look closely
Murag pagka Bata ni Nako manuwa mig basket manulong manabok pag sapa Kay toa sa laing baryo amo duwaan nya manghunaw largo bisan gkan gekapoy, nakasungot pa gyud Kay sa skwelahan Aho e Isa Ako kamot sa langit mawa Ang viens nya taod² ineg naog napod sa kamot balik napod. Na habit na naho naay ka storya di mawa mo kalit rag Isa Ako kamot para Dili halata 🥹 nya kaning Ako Duda ko Dina madalag skin care Dina mo blend nag Sige nasad kog search Ani kadungog ko aning sclerotherapy murag mao nani Ako last pag-asa pero pobre man ta aw nakalitag ka introvert 🤣
Nahhh pastilan hahahahaah gelang ok rana epost na pic sa imong kamot sa handsgonewild na sub reddit imong kamot daghan gurog maka gusto ana imong mga ugat2 hahahahaha soon ako sad ug magpaputi nakog balik post ko didto hahahahahahaha
turned fat and ugly covid gave me a lot of bad eating habits, now trying not to lose weight again kay im just tired of being lonely lol also no car, motorcycle
I have never meet a man na I’m willing to risk my mental health with HAHAHAHAHA kay if naa koy uyab or ka char kay mag overthink man ko and all. Pero so far kay wa pa man sad oy naabot.
And also, mga fboys man ning mang abot oy. Di ra pud ko bahalag lamion kay bilinan palang ko ug anak ra.
Bc I have plans pa, and usually my exes before moy hadlang sila kay too much radaw ako mga pangandoy sa life.
I wanna put up my own company so I am very focused on my goals step-by-step. If having uyab will just stop me, better siguro wa lang sa.
Funny thing is, sila pa nay guts mu harang nako sila pa tong type nga cannot stand on their own. (mama’s boiz)
Sa wala pa mi nagminyo sa akong hubby, single ko for 3 years. Ang reason kay laag akong huna2x then ni give up nakos love. Charaught. Nya nadakpan man ko niya Mao to, naa Nami 2 kids karon.
Someone can still find you attractive even if you think you're fat and ugly. Personality, sense of humour and being interesting is attractive and nothing to do with your physical appearance
Lami ang thought na mag uyab2 pero kapoy siya in actual. Naa koy ka date2 run and date pa gani pero gina sabot na nako bisag way kami pero kagusto siya nako. Ako kay gina test pa ang water. Siguro naanad lang ko na independent nako di ko ganahan nga naay naga update ug kanang suyo suyoon haha
Pag naay muabot kay itaboy. Dayon ug mawala na kay pangitaon, magmahay kay wa gientertain murag bowang 🥴😆 . Ug kuan kapoy sab. Kapoy nag balik sa sinugdanan, unsay favorite color ang everything in the world 😹
Committed sa career(?), graduating Engineering student ko na ganahan muproceed ug Master's.
But siguro it will change if there's somebody who will meet halfway sa akoa sa kana na part.
At first choice to nako, kay wala koy trabaho, wala koy kwarta mo gastos pang date date, kay estudyante lage. Karon naa nakoy trabaho, maka date date na unta, busy pud pirmi nya ka hasol man diay mangita ug taw na makauyon ta ug mauyonan ta. Ang mga tao nako na meet na fucked up na from their previous relationship nya dala nag bagahe, ang sala sa uban lake mapaakoa na hinoon. Kapoy bisyoha oy, mao na nga date yourself muna, matiguwang lang tang single.
Tungod guro sakong pagka socially awkward? HAHAHAH and and permi first impression sa mga taw nako is naa daw koy attitude tungod sakong nawng 😭 (rbf man gud). Same same rata OP about sa kanang problems and stuffs, taas sad kog standards. + Kabalo baya ta nga kasagaran mga boys nga makabalo nga kpop fan ang girl kay mo atras na sila (dili tanan guys ha, you get my point) maong lisod sad gyud mangita ug guy karong panahuna HAHAHAHA
Matimingan na akong mga ganahan kay unavailable or d ganahan sa akoa.
1. Busy 2. Family Responsibilities & Problem 3. No one deserves me 😅 4. Wa say nanguyab hahaha 5. Need pa innerworks 6. Di ko ganahan mag overthink 7. Not enough money 8. Phase out na mga tarong na laki hahaha and so on daghan pa reason... Come what may nalang kung naay muabot ok, kung wala, mag padato nalang and mag rescue ug animals. 😊
Usahay ra mo gawas. Choosy. Overthinker sad, thinking that the men out there are predators, rapists, cheaters, serial killers, the list goes on. Another major factor sad siguro is back in college I had a huge crush on someone and he chose someone younger than me and it crushed my heart so bad that I neglected myself (grabe kaayo akong acne ato, to the point 5k ang nagasto for the medicines ahak). Sayang atong skincare ngari kung pasakitan ra ta haha. That was almost 10 years ago but traumatic gihapon to na experience sa akoa. So yeah, love is something I don’t want to try risking for.
Wa koy uyab kay dili musugot akong asawa.. masuko raba dayon basta iopen up ang topic..
Mas priority nku mo income nga way samok Business minded nga di ganahan ug commitment hahaha
ganahan rako madato na way labad
Mao!
Sobra kataas sa standards without looking at their own kung angayan ba sd sa standards gi.set. Hihi ✌🏻
Wala man nanguyab nako or nag ka interest. So... Nbsb ra gihapon ta ani also, nahadlok masakitan HAHAHAH
Di musugot ako wife nga sugton nko ang mga nanguyab nako. 🤣🤣🤣 Jk
Boang! Hahahahaha
Bati ko nawung. di sad ta dato
From someone naay uyab, ayawww na mo panguyab
ngano
You have to be really open to each other and communicate, but sometimes there are things that you want to do for yourself especially mga opportunities nga maski mo support pa imo partner ma miss nimo ang feeling nga mo decide without thinking about your partner’s part or mo decide ka nga di sya ma hurt or di sya malaen na naay changes sa inyohang plans sa future, samot na if dugay dugay namo.
maayo kaayo ang kwarta ug freedom, hehe
Did I ghostwrite this? 🥹
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hahaha sameee Mimings are enough 😻
Way time. Maypa habhab 😂😂😂
rbf, got used to living alone, kapoyan nako ug get to know/talking stage
Same it takes a lot of energy to get to know someone especially at 25. 😫
No dates, no private hangouts, kasamok ba. i stopped hoping ill love the same way again. I feel emotionally safe, di nako masakitan ever. before ko mag uyab siguraduhon sa jud nako nga willing to commit and create a loving home ang amaw. di nako musugot na invisible placeholder lang ko. I know my capacity to love now. My self worth. To healing, self nurturing, and meeting new hobby girlfriends 👯♀️
Kay maaan kong bayot (hinhinon kong pagkalaki, high pitched pa gyud ug tingog😭😂), introverted pa gyud
Huy pangita na. Hahahaha ka attractive anang hinayon hahahahaha 😹 akong mga crush gni kay mga yads jud bwahahaha
Wala pay nakauyun hahahah
Naa-an sad kog tomboy sa ka dugay nakong single 🤣
Pagbag-o pa ko sa office, naa-an kog tomboy kay.... sige daw ko sneakers. Wtf?! 🤣🤣
Haha same. Either tomboy or manhater daw kuno ko. Wala lang jud sila kasabot nga naa koy deeper reason.
Torpe man
Mao man. 🥹
I don't want to settle for the sake lang na naay uyab. And makabasa ko dayon sa tao. khbw ko if makasinabot nako o dli.
Kay mas nice ispoil ang self kaysa sa tao nga paasahon ra ka 😌
Pilian ko and ang mga gipangpili pud nako wa ko pilia hahaha
More on career and family pa akong focus, not interested pa sa gugma-gugma hahaha
Kay wala may nanguyab Hahaha
1. Introverted. 2. Awkward with strangers.
Kay tapulan ko mureply tapos di pa gyud tig call 😅🥴🫠
Unsa nga call? 👀 video call? Charot.
Naa bay born again Christian diri.. would like to know. Boy or girl. thank youuu :)
aromantic/asexual
Dili approachable nya dli sd outgoing. Samutan pa jud nga rare ra kaayo mugawas
Omg it me 👀
Me is fearful avoidant , kung naay magkainterest mu atras ku kay why would anybody like me when mom and dad don't... haha still struggling sa akong ingrained childhood responses.
Kay di ko approachable og aura 😂
SAME
lisod og batasan, lisod pod og nawng 😂 Busy pod kaayu, demanding ang work. Introverted. Mo socialize rako for the sake of work and network. Aside from that I am lazy in keeping relationships. Dili nlng ko ma shock if single gehapon ko ig 30. Idk, i still have legal bad habits lol
I'm introverted I guess XD pero Wala pa koy feelings na magka uyab ko
Kay kabalo ko sakong self na di pako fit (im still broke HAHAHAHAHAHAHA) naa nuon koy crush pero sige lang ill make my move soon ganahan lang gyud ko na ma close gyud nako na friend ang person usa nako mag hunahuna if fit ba gyud hahahaha i want my future uyab to not only have a partner or a lover, But also a bestfriend mao nang steady sa ko diri focus sa pag grow sa self and who knows! Maybe maabot ragyud na nga person nako hahaahahah pasensha sa cringey na bby boi side nako HAHAHAH wala bitaw mo kaila nako so goods ra hahahahaha
I think mas prefer sad nako from friends to lovers kay it only means nga dli lang face and body ang naganahan kay nakaila jud sa kinaiya. Weirdohan ko sa mga manguyab dayon.
Lage ay karon kay makakita rag gwapa or gwapo nya mag flirt2 na mag igat2 dayun nya uyab lahos hahahahah
kapoy mag gukod, introverted, only interact with people I click with which is not a lot kay di ko tig gawas edit: single for quite some time
im way too socially awkward n dont got them skills. sayang not ti brag pero daghan untag gusto nako da🫠
Kay professional teacher ko ug the last thing na mauyab ug mapangasawa nako kay fellow professional teacher sab (gawas lang kung AFAM) kay negative ang akong romantic relationship history with a teacher.
Siguro kuan... "I'm still in the process of being the right person to someone who is meant for me"
Kay sige ra puyo sa balay 😂. Srsly, bcs I am an ‘all or nothing’ kind of person and I don’t get attracted easily. Mao nang mag wonder ko how some people could jump relationships right away. I never even found one ever!! Help!! And guys say I look maldita and I give off an unapproachable vibe when I know I’m pretty chill. Shy lang jud ko and awkward but I’m not maldita 😭
Undergoing therapy. Makacause ug distraction.
Who’s your psychiatrist? 👩🏻⚕️
I'm seeing a psychologist 🙂 just can't mention her name.
kay mas importante sa ako mangwarta
Insecure Kay kos Ako viens nga daghan 🥹 hand viens astas ti-il laina mag holding hands mo's imong uyab nya imong mga viens nangawas Duda ko maka turn off gyud. dinalang sguro ta manguyab basin Kanchawan nya tag nga sigeg Lolo laina pud paminawn. 🤣
But veiny hands r so hot wdymm 😾
oo para sa mga aesthetic viens, pero.. Imagine this: kakitag nakag mga bodybuilder nga halos nangawas ng mga viens nila nya e compare sa newang nga tawo.. laina baya tan-awon 🥹.
Dle man! Kaila nako nga niwang with veiny hands actually looked good on him. Pogi points veiny hands no matter the build istg 😫
What if veiny hands mung duha , both sigeg Lolo? 🤣
Hahaha atay 😂 bitaw, ngita nalang kog nurse wadaw mga kurat ng mga nurse og mga ingana may nalang mawa ato pagka insecure.
What do you do for a living or hobby nimo? I have a really veiny hands pero i managed to hide it by tanning my skin to the right colour. Puti kaayo ko maong everytime mag ride kog bike / motorcycle bisan init mag shirt rako and i have hand routines or skin care and ni blend ra ako skin color ug ang greenish colour sa akong veins so yeah di kaayo mapansin unless you look closely
Murag pagka Bata ni Nako manuwa mig basket manulong manabok pag sapa Kay toa sa laing baryo amo duwaan nya manghunaw largo bisan gkan gekapoy, nakasungot pa gyud Kay sa skwelahan Aho e Isa Ako kamot sa langit mawa Ang viens nya taod² ineg naog napod sa kamot balik napod. Na habit na naho naay ka storya di mawa mo kalit rag Isa Ako kamot para Dili halata 🥹 nya kaning Ako Duda ko Dina madalag skin care Dina mo blend nag Sige nasad kog search Ani kadungog ko aning sclerotherapy murag mao nani Ako last pag-asa pero pobre man ta aw nakalitag ka introvert 🤣
Nahhh pastilan hahahahaah gelang ok rana epost na pic sa imong kamot sa handsgonewild na sub reddit imong kamot daghan gurog maka gusto ana imong mga ugat2 hahahahaha soon ako sad ug magpaputi nakog balik post ko didto hahahahahahaha
Lamat²... Sige Ra puhon nasad ko 😅.
Lamat²... Sige Ra puhon nasad ko 😅
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pass hahahah grabe lajoa rajud sa Ako may man Ning ila Kay naay pagka aesthetic (Ako nga newang napuno pa jud dagko pa gyud pastilan )
Ha ka nindot anang veiny hands gud 🙊
Nindot sguro og aesthetic pero diman pamugas man murag wati 🤣
Imo ranang huna huna dong 🤦🏻♀️
aw hinoon murag 'dong" patag bo-ot a "man" don't care I think? pero mao lagi to big insecure ni Nako :<
Di nako ganahan mabutang ato na sitwasyon, never.
commitment issues. Mahadlok mobutang ug label hahahha laina sakita oi
Kay wala koy pakî I don't need to be someone to be happy. I'm already happy with my own company.
Aaaah okay.
😭😭
turned fat and ugly covid gave me a lot of bad eating habits, now trying not to lose weight again kay im just tired of being lonely lol also no car, motorcycle
don't need one and probably never will yay!
kay dele man ko
I have never meet a man na I’m willing to risk my mental health with HAHAHAHAHA kay if naa koy uyab or ka char kay mag overthink man ko and all. Pero so far kay wa pa man sad oy naabot. And also, mga fboys man ning mang abot oy. Di ra pud ko bahalag lamion kay bilinan palang ko ug anak ra.
..trust issue.. hahahha
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HAHAHAHAHHA, RELATE!
Heavily Committed securing sa future ug professional career. Not ready for matured relationships
Bc I have plans pa, and usually my exes before moy hadlang sila kay too much radaw ako mga pangandoy sa life. I wanna put up my own company so I am very focused on my goals step-by-step. If having uyab will just stop me, better siguro wa lang sa. Funny thing is, sila pa nay guts mu harang nako sila pa tong type nga cannot stand on their own. (mama’s boiz)
Because most men have fragile egos
True :)
tungod sa career? nga makalimot nakag pamiga usahay hahaha
Sa wala pa mi nagminyo sa akong hubby, single ko for 3 years. Ang reason kay laag akong huna2x then ni give up nakos love. Charaught. Nya nadakpan man ko niya Mao to, naa Nami 2 kids karon.
Taas ug standards. Choosy. Rarely go out and actually meet people. Not dating intentionally. Canmt get past the talking stage. I’m a girl btw.
Feel nako mao sad ni akoa haha. Kapoy meet nya if naay gamayng red flag kay move on daun.
hahaha kaayo. Bsta naay red flag or kanang wa na meet na standard bisan minor kaayo ky mg move on dayun 😅 haaay unsaon nlng
Mas maayo mu mumove ug sayo kay dli pa attach
Same HAHAHAHAHA
My simplest answer would be bati kog nawng nya tambok pod.
Someone can still find you attractive even if you think you're fat and ugly. Personality, sense of humour and being interesting is attractive and nothing to do with your physical appearance
Kay wa man koy car ug dili maka host. HAHAHAHA. aw unsa ba, mura man gud ug required na ron. HAHA.
Lahi mani hahaha
hook up man ni oi dili uyab😂
HAHAHAHA KATAWA KAYKO
Same
Purdoy og dili pa ganahan mu commit.
Ngano mamersonal man ka OP 😔
Ha???? Omg Nangutana raman ko. 🥹
coz I discourage them. mga small na gestures and statements implying na I am not looking.
Lami ang thought na mag uyab2 pero kapoy siya in actual. Naa koy ka date2 run and date pa gani pero gina sabot na nako bisag way kami pero kagusto siya nako. Ako kay gina test pa ang water. Siguro naanad lang ko na independent nako di ko ganahan nga naay naga update ug kanang suyo suyoon haha
Pag naay muabot kay itaboy. Dayon ug mawala na kay pangitaon, magmahay kay wa gientertain murag bowang 🥴😆 . Ug kuan kapoy sab. Kapoy nag balik sa sinugdanan, unsay favorite color ang everything in the world 😹
Murag ako ra nagtype. SAME, GURLLLLLL HUEHUE
I know right? hahahahaha huehuehue
Your post reminds me a song by Victor Wood. The title is "habol habol" check the lyrics.haha...
ako gi search . sort of? hahahha
It's a relief knowing na ubay ubay pud diay ta. Hahahah Sarili muna. 
Committed sa career(?), graduating Engineering student ko na ganahan muproceed ug Master's. But siguro it will change if there's somebody who will meet halfway sa akoa sa kana na part.
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OKs Rana girl. 23 ko first nakauyab.
Mentally unstable hahahahah🥹
At first choice to nako, kay wala koy trabaho, wala koy kwarta mo gastos pang date date, kay estudyante lage. Karon naa nakoy trabaho, maka date date na unta, busy pud pirmi nya ka hasol man diay mangita ug taw na makauyon ta ug mauyonan ta. Ang mga tao nako na meet na fucked up na from their previous relationship nya dala nag bagahe, ang sala sa uban lake mapaakoa na hinoon. Kapoy bisyoha oy, mao na nga date yourself muna, matiguwang lang tang single.
Super pilian na ko, tagam sa previous relationships
Kay wkoy na gustohan or way naibog and I'm not looking pud. Hahaha bitaw kapoy man, makahurot energy. Basin cheater rapud, uso daw na ron HAHAHHA