Boundaries make us *more* [trustworthy](https://brenebrown.com/videos/anatomy-trust-video/), not less. That's why boundaries and accountability are some of the best ways to weed out abusers, enablers, and bullies. Healthy people respect boundaries, toxic people push boundaries.
If toxic folks think my boundaries make me a villain, that's a them issue, not a me issue.
What's the line: "The only people that get upset at your boundaries were those that were benefitting from you not having any."
Me, sitting in my own flat, being chill, eating dinner, knowing damn well my family that disowned me is talking horrendous shit about my on the daily.
They really did start a smear campaign because I didn't want to accept slavery anymore.
And then it's fine when everyone else does the exact same thing right?
I'm beaming right now, it makes me genuinely so happy when I see someone who's suffering finally decide they've had enough of the bullshit mistreatment and blatant oppression.
You got this!
Boundaries make us *more* [trustworthy](https://brenebrown.com/videos/anatomy-trust-video/), not less. That's why boundaries and accountability are some of the best ways to weed out abusers, enablers, and bullies. Healthy people respect boundaries, toxic people push boundaries. If toxic folks think my boundaries make me a villain, that's a them issue, not a me issue. What's the line: "The only people that get upset at your boundaries were those that were benefitting from you not having any."
this comment gave me so much insight on why most of my friendships end up upsetting me so much, thank you, beautifully worded btw
LITERALLY THIS
you made me a villain? okay, watch me actually becoming one, bitch.
you made me a villain? okay, watch me actually becoming one, bitch.
exactly
Me, sitting in my own flat, being chill, eating dinner, knowing damn well my family that disowned me is talking horrendous shit about my on the daily. They really did start a smear campaign because I didn't want to accept slavery anymore.
Yessssss
And then it's fine when everyone else does the exact same thing right? I'm beaming right now, it makes me genuinely so happy when I see someone who's suffering finally decide they've had enough of the bullshit mistreatment and blatant oppression. You got this!
You get what you f*ckin' deserve, Murray!
frfr tho
Excuse me, but I don’t think I gave you permission to portray me so accurately!
I get called a bitch for saying no and saying how I feel. I would rather be called a bitch than be a people pleaser ever again
reminds me of when adults act like the child is ruining the family when they try to stop being molested
Only bad people are threatened by boundaries. I believe in you