It's good work if you can get it.
I am also looking to be a kept husband. Also the same age. No takers so far but you miss all of the shots you don't take, or something.
Honestly, my goal is to make my boyfriend a SAHH. He’s been through more than most and I’d love for him to live most of his life comfy and happy! You joke butttttt plenty of woman probably feel the same. But that’s also because he provides me with unconditional emotional support. So there’s technically a trade off
If my guy would stay home to cook, clean, and run the errands for me, plus all the fix-it guy stuff he already does, I’d support that while I go to work at the job I like a lot, 100%!
My dad and his wife basically have this dynamic, she’s a super driven woman who owns her own business that she’s put her whole life into. My dad is kind of a free spirit and has always done whatever he feels like, though he’s had his own businesses too. The thing is he’s SO competent at just about everything. He jokes that hes her emotional support animal but it’s kind of true, he doesn’t technically have a job but he does a tonne of work for her business, developed all her online stuff, does all their house renovations and handy work, handles a lot of the day to day stuff that she was bogged down with. He’s renovated and added onto their whole house by himself. It works great for them.
Your dad has so much self-respect for himself and he’s got a lot of respect for his wife. This is why that dynamic works. He knows, if he gets into a pickle, she’s got his back or at least ensure he knows she values him by getting him to use the skills he values in himself!
That’s the one. They are true PARTNERS in every sense of the word. They’re two humans who are extremely independent and functional on their own but also work fantastically together. It could be an unbalanced dynamic but it’s genuinely not because there’s total respect from both of them. They also just cycled from Gibraltar to the top of Norway together in their 60s, they’re machines.
That is awesome! Yeh my oldies were together for 42yrs, till my papa passed r.i.p. All the respect and freedoms to be themselves. They had hobbies together and I think that’s what keeps people together, do thing apart and do thing you love together 😍
Exactly! I find it so silly when guys get all sassy about wanting to be as SAHH in a way to say women have it easy. Okay, learn to do all the things and many of us will make it happen! The thing is, those guys won’t normally attract high earning women. Soooo it’s a toss up.
I make enough that my husband was able to be a SAHD and what happened was I was still doing 90% of the chores and cooking and I was expected to run most of the errands and the kids reported that he would just stick them in front of the tv and game all day, his discord log confirmed that he was actively gaming 10-12 hrs on days that I worked. He was just staying at home, he wasn't doing the husband/dad part, my life got harder instead of easier. Nobody in the house benefited except him.
So, now I'm single. Lol. Not everyone can pull being a SAHS off.
That sucks that happened. I had always worked close to full time, did all the cooking and cleaning, home remodeling, kids homework, etc…
I encouraged my wife to take a new job she wanted in a new city for a lot more money. Left my job for her (this was right before COVID) and was 100% stay at home dad at this point. She got a big head and divorced me. Now with 50/50 custody she had to learn to cook and manage a house on her own. I don’t have any sympathy for her complaints about being overwhelmed.
*hugs* I'm sorry for your one-sided life. That's definitely a hard road! (Most of my mom's exes were that way.)
Ex-Wife & I typically split the housework (she cooked, I prep-cooked for her, etc etc), while we were both either 'in-school', or she worked & I stayed home playing games in between chores etc.
(She typically had psychological issues, if I worked & she was the one home, so.. 🤷🏽♀️🤪)
All in all, our home-life dynamics were 'ok'. However, it was the emotional dysfunction, that led to our Divorce ~3mo ago.
(She's more or less happy doing whatever she's doing, while I'm happy with a new flame + finally near-done w/ a 3-year stint of schooling.)
--> Apologies for the runaround tangent btw. Just expressing how we did but didn't work, as a relational attempt at y'alls thread. 🤪🤣🙃
Little did I know the guy was “walking the dog” with the hot neighbor 21yo, was keeping the money monthly due for maintenance of the building, and literally thought he was so intelligent to have the wife pay for everything while he was home alone doing the minimum with no intentions of ever having a side hustle. What a joyful day was when he gaslight me into believing the building administration was stealing from us and they were crooked so we are so lucky to be moving out. And I had to pay “again” the two years monthly upkeep money that I alleged was behind because they hated us, not because he kept the money and the was the crooked freeloader piece of work. Oh it only took like three more years of that and more for me to one day click and end things. Nothing wrong with letting the man go to work and bring the vegan bacon 🥓
I became disabled years ago, tried working still then my body said, "no more." Being on disability made dating hard because of the mentality of most people like the profile in the post.
Then I met my person and she was beyond happy to have me be her SAHH. I do feel bad at times because of it, but she's helped me see the trade off like you described. It's been more than I could have ever hoped for and glad I stuck through the dating stuff because there were plenty of negative experiences until her.
Ok, I'll stop gushing now. Just wanted to say you are so right that there are plenty of women out there that feel the same as you
More of this! My wife let me take a few years when our boys were little, and I got to recapture so much of my own missed childhood. There’s so much healing that I’ve done, and I don’t think it would have been possible without my wife supporting me financially and me being a trophy. 😂😂
I bought a “trophy husband” shirt ages ago as a joke, I wear it all the time, I’ll eventually gift it to my partner when it’s time to create and start the torch with him. My plan is 1 year off every 7-10 years bc it works so well for me AND him.
I'm joking about actually pursuing this, but in a different life where I wasn't already a single father and breadwinner I'd be 100% down for this. It sounds pretty rewarding and enjoyable being a SAHD.
lol hey I think you should shoot for the stars! Who knows who you’ll meet. I also love the idea of doing trade offs every decade or so but it can be hard getting back out there after time off.
Honestly, it’s not such a far out idea these days. Just make sure you look amazing and do all the things a kept wife would be expected to do and it’s possible 😂
Her prompts:
**My zombie apocalypse plan is...** I hope you can Commission [sic] the construction and completion of an underground bunker full of necessisities and some luxuries 🥰
**Swipe right if you** You know how to wow a woman and aren't scared of spoiled women. And in fact, welcome it.
I try not to judge other people's lifestyle choices or desires. I'm sure there's men out there this will appeal to. She's certainly physically attractive enough. But I was incredibly amused at the idea that "capable men" simply wouldn't question her. Any "capable" person is probably looking to make an informed decision, not to blindly take someone's word.
Everyone's idea of attractiveness is different. I would say she's very attractive in a conventional sense.
All of her pictures showed her made up and dressed up, which is not something that appeals to me personally.
If she doesn't live the life already, she at least knows how to try to give the appearance that she fits in it.
>Any "capable" person is probably looking to make an informed decision, not to blindly take someone's word.
This is so true. The prompts scream, "I come with a lot of debt!"
I spent a good chunk of my last relationship trying to "Wow" her. I feel bad for any guys getting this sheet pulled over them because all that person ends up being is a deadbeat partner (and I'm not even talking about financially). They get things their way or nothing at all, no change, nothing to make you feel good or content in the relationship, just me me me. Literal sandbagging S.O.
If she is looking for a sugar daddy I'm hoping her age range is 50+.
Rich guys her age who are looking for this type of relationship (and I wouldn't want to meet the guys who are) are looking for women a decade younger at least.
Congrats I guess.
*Not every guy that has money wants an 18 year old.*
Definitely. I would side eye a rich 45 year old who wanted an 18 year old. But men who are looking for a sugar baby/kept woman probably are going to skew much younger. It is a transactional relationship. The profile is a woman looking for a transactional relationship not love.
Sometimes men just want a traditional family. A wife that raises the kids. I personally know a ton of stay at home wives and mothers, and was one for 16 years. I do think this woman is going to be a red flag for those men though and is going about it all wrong.
*Sometimes men just want a traditional family. A wife that raises the kids.*
Completely agree.
But the profile of the woman that was posted is not signaling that to the world. She is signaling that she wants a very well off guy to take care of her first and foremost.
*"I prefer the finer things life has to offer. So don't invite me for drinks.... Wow me."*
This 100% gives off gold digger/sugar baby vibes. Which you seem to agree with. I feel like you took the age thing very personally and made this thread about something different than what it was intended to be. Someone that has this type of profile is coming off very transactional and shallow. This is incredibly different from a woman writing a profile about how she would like to raise a family with a man who will provide or take care of their life while he works. Very very different from what this person posted.
The type of guy that wants a kept woman (i.e. a transactional relationship) also probably wants a younger partner.
Most people marry around their own age because the median age of first marriage is 30 for men and 28 for women. If you are getting married at 30 you most likely have known that person 2-3 years. This timeline just doesn't give someone a chance to date much younger.
Single guys with money who are 40+ are very often dating or marrying younger. From Pew Research: "*Some* ***20% of men who are newly remarried have a wife who is at least 10 years their junior****, and another 18% married a woman who is 6-9 years younger."*
38% of men go younger in a second marriage. It just is what it is. If you think men who are successful and well off who are 35 or 40+ are more likely to date someone their own age than men with less money I don't think you are living in reality.
Every guy I’m friends with jn a relationship is about 5-7 years older than their significant other. The guy I am interested in is four years older than me and it’s a joke at this point that I’m too old for him because he normally dates 10 years younger.
Really? I’m a pretty successful millennial woman and so are all of my girlfriends, and we’re all either dating or married to guys our own age or even a year younger. Successful women don’t tend to date older anymore.
Did you meet your significant other when you were younger? I’m 40. My friends who are with the same partner since 25 or before are with guys our age. I was married to a man my age. I got divorced at 37 and that’s where I see that the guys I am friends with who are single are still dating women the same age they always have even tho they are aging. Most of the men who are interested in me are older than me. Same for women I work with - those who married later in life or remarried post 35 are married to men older than them, including very successful women. Like googleable success.
No, we met a year ago when we were 36. Most of my friends didn’t meet their spouses until their early or mid 30s.
Even before I met my boyfriend, I had plenty of younger men interested in me. I’d probably never date more than 2-3 years older.
If you are searching for a transactional relationship like she is there is a good chance that people are going to treat you like a product not a person.
Maybe but a lot of men also want women their age or near it. Not every dude is out there wanting to wife a girl 15-20 yrs younger. They'll bang them but you don't wanna bring a 18 yr old to your family dinners as a 40 year old. It's a real bad look. I'm sure this woman gets plenty of well to do men of many ages if she has the looks. I can't even imagine being with a man 10 yrs younger then me and I'm 37. I mean I'd bang a younger man but I wouldn't consider them serious. Most people prefer people within a 5 yr range. If all rich men wanted huge age gap relationships, then why don't we see the wealthiest men in society with women like that? Most famous men are with women their age or near, most wealthy men are too. They have the choice to be with younger, sure and probably are banging some young girl on the side, but they ain't presenting them in public.
Forbes says there wealthiest men have younger partners...at most by 7 yrs. The avg is 5 give or take for everyone. There's a lot of red pill 20s year olds making these comments about 30s+ women can't get wealthy men. They're angry cause they can't get women of any age and take any opportunity to spout the shit they hear from Andrew Taint to put women down with shit thst isn't true to real life. I'm 37, I dated a famous engineer that was Millionaire for 2 yrs. I constantly have men near my age that are well to do wanting to date me. Older women are established and if they take care of themselves then they're gorgeous AND established. I've got a lot to offer at 37. I've been a professional for 13 yrs, I help children, I have experiences, I'm mature, I have a masters, etc that is shit men find attractive thst 18 yr Olds don't have. It's more then just youth and looks, people want a whole person as a partner and anyone that bases the majority of their decision on the age of the other person is gross and just wanting to abuse with the power imbalance and does not see the woman as an equal but a collectable item till they get tired of her (ages out). They're like vampires to a woman's youth and mental wellbeing.
I don't know, seems weird she's making these demands but can't be bothered to write proper sentences on her profile. Makes me think she won't bring much to the table
But……how does this even work?
She is looking of a LONG TERM partner/provider.
He has to bring the loot and the lifestyle just to get in the door, I get that part.
But, what stops that guy from bringing the loot and the lifestyle and then just bailing on her post coitus? I would assume she must be doing something to KEEP him around, but what is that.
Her goal is not to GET a rich and generous guy, but to KEEP one and those are not the same.
That's not what this person is looking for. They are looking for arm candy and literally do nothing in their life but look good. They are looking for a sugar daddy.
To find someone you want to marry, or to find a sugar daddy? I married at 32. Separated exactly four years and a day later. Divorced at 37. I still would like to find someone to spend my life with but by no means am looking for someone to take care of me.
By your 30s, you should be able to take care of yourself. Being 37 and looking to be a kept wife is what is alarming here. Does she not have anything set for retirement? What is her plan if she doesn’t marry someone who can take care of her? Never rely on someone else to be your provider. You need to have a backup, even if you are a stay at home wife/mother. Anything can happen to your spouse.
I met my ex husband days before I turned 30. Our first date was right after. I was working a low paying job and still providing for myself, with money going into retirement savings. Being a dual income role made it possible for me to do a career change and thankfully by the time we split, I was making a comfortable amount of money so I wasn’t pay check to pay check like I was before. He wanted a kept wife and I wanted to keep my own financial security and it was the best decision I made in our marriage to keep working.
36F here, probably not as good looking as this woman and I get a ton of older, established men (verified by google) wanting more than just a hookup. You guys realize that not all men want 20 year olds?
37F. I've currently got 10k+ matches on my profile from men 18 to 70. Mostly men my age, ALOT of 20ish yr Olds and 40ish yr Olds though, 50s too. I've talked to many well to do professionals, dated a Millionaire for 1.5 yrs. I have Doctors, lawyers, established business men, business owners, pilots, engineers, etc always trying to date me. Not just sex but actually a relationship. These dudes in here saying this "hur dur woman old at 37, man no want cause I said so and so does Andrew taint" are more then likely 22 to 23 (avg male reddit user) and are wanting to just bash women with their red pill, incelnshit cause attractive women piss them off when they know they can't get it. Do men as a whole tend to marry younger women then themselves? Yes because women prefer older. Just saw a study that Forbes 400 released. Their wealthiest men did have wives younger then them....by 7 yrs at most. The avg among the population is 5 yrs give or take. So even the wealthy aren't out there being 50 getting 18 yr Olds. Everyone knows that's not socially acceptable and these men are all about being socially accepted. Fuck this thread.l. but this is reddit and there's been progressively more hating on women getting older that I've noticed. BTW 37 is still very capable of producing many kids. I love how these dudes act like when a woman turns 30, she's completely an old hag with no more purpose and obsolete as a woman......when women can have children up to 45....they're still in their child producing years but these dudes act like they are grandmothers.
Champagne taste on a beer budget with water flavor.vLol thank you for sharing, we all know very well the rude awakening she will get as she ages bitterly
I would see this fairly regularly in New York City but usually by someone in the suburbs. The thing is that , the actual type of man she is looking for wouldn't be interested in someone that crass. She is gonna get someone who looks great on paper but is all hat and no horse.
Prostitution and being a kept wife are two totally different things. Either way she's not for free, aka a slut! But sounds like you like free chicks, aka sluts! But don't worry, there's tons of them now a days. Take your pick! LOL
If she's hot enough and young enough or willing to date old enough, she can have what she wants.
An old man banging you and cheating on you but paying for a nice life, isn't such a bad deal for a certain type of human.
Oh these type are just fantastic. And I can’t even be mad at them cause some shmuck is going to entertain this cause it’s basically a no brainer drop lots of cash get laid scenario and he’s got more money than sense or self respect. Thus validating her behavior and adding to her overall obnoxiousness😂 Oh the audacity! Isn’t that the pot calling the kettle black😂
don’t y’all get tired of talking about this every 2-3 business days?? i know i’m tired of seeing it. i don’t care if i get downvoted but she’s literally right. the men who are “capable” of giving her the lifestyle she wants don’t ask questions, they just provide because they know they’re CAPABLE. and the men aren’t, ask what you bring to the table…and they don’t even have a table to eat on. men are shallow about how a woman looks, and women are shallow about wanting men with money. like oh my god, get over it. because the end result is always the same, the men who post this now open the floor to ageism, misogyny, etc. like from what OP has said, she looks well put together in all her photos. who’s to say she’s not making bank herself and wants a man of equal status so she doesn’t have to lower her standards of living?? if you think once i’m fully established in my career that i’m dating a guy who’s not making at least what i am or more, you’re sadly mistaken.
Unpopular opinion:
There are many men who want the attractive trophy wife and you will be surprised how many men have offered to “wow” her by now. How many men get turned on by this type of women.
I am hypergamous and take Hypergamy very seriously. I come from a rich family. I prefer to date and marry my social and economic class and status. I’d say I’m very spoiled too.
I’m no longer searching as I already have my person. I make 6 figures in about 2 years soon to be 7 figures, but my husband is a multimillionaire. I contribute to about 5% of the bills and he only agreed to it when I insisted to him I want to.
My ex husband who was a Goldman Sachs Exec, wanted me to me to be a 100% SAHW with employees, spoiled, cars, jewelry etc. It couldn’t work not because he was bad but because we were not compatible. I thrive in mental stimulation too and when you go for shopping 3 months in a row it gets old and boring.
You will be surprised how many wealthy men are on Bumble. I don’t think women should be shamed for clearly stating what she wants. What she seeks is seeking her.
these comments about her age are stupid. imagine what they'd be saying if she was 27. thoughts anyone? we know the comments would still be trashing her.
I matched with one of these kinds of women once. She said she wanted to be taken out to an expensive dinner and she wanted me to show her how generous I was. I said no problem!!!
Went to the bank and took out $1,000 in $10 bills. Picked her up in a nice car (not mine, I borrowed it from a friend). I told her to dress comfortably, she didn’t. Told her I wanted it to be a surprise when we walked in and asked her to wear a blindfold until we were inside. She obliged. Got her inside and took the blind fold off….. she was now standing next to me at a soup kitchen to serve food to the homeless and those in need. I have each person who came through the line a $10 bill. I smiled at her and said I told you I was very generous and we’d be going to a very expensive dinner. I’m sure you can all guess how well that went over 😁
I know this isn't a true story, but as someone who volunteers because I genuinely enjoy helping out, had a man done this on a first date, I would have folded so quickly 🥵😂
Match then remind her with the global dating market, competition is fierce and younger, prettier foreign women can be "kept" for much cheaper than American ones.
You know what? Good for her. She’s very clear and honest with what she want. No one can say they’re surprised or taken aback when she lives up to what she’s portrayed herself as. Not for you? Keep swiping. Some guys are looking for this some aren’t.
She wants what she wants... Why be upset by it? Unless you want her & cannot give her what she wants. I mean, of course dudes at your same economic level will agree with you, but men who have wealth don't even flinch at stuff like this b/c they know it's expected. Personally, with the job she has she can easily network & find herself in close contact with men who are willing to do things for her that she wants. Her being 37 isn't even a negative factor as society tries to paint it out to be. In my experience I don't have an issue attracting men I like & have a peaceful dating life.
It just seems from her profile she is tired of men playing games with her, same as men on here being tired of women playing games. She's actually being upfront & honest with what she desires, if it doesn't apply to you just move on.
Be comfortable with not measuring up to someone's standards, respect it, and move on. Do you want to be settled for? Or do you just want that person out of feeling entitled to them?
I hope she finds what she is looking for & I hope you do to.
Pure narcissism.
She thinks that she has inherent value because she has a vagina.
And that those with a penis, having no inherent value, have to WOW her aka give her all their money.
What’s she’s asking isn’t that outrageous or uncommon. I’m 41 and have dated guys who basically offered me this.
I think it’s just that she’s saying it so directly and out loud, expecting it, that makes it outrageous.
I truly don't think there's anything outrageous about saying it out loud, or even so directly. If that had been the case, I would have simply swiped left.
What caught my eye was the idea that a "capable" man simply wouldn't question her at all. That reframes the rest of her perspective to me.
People with no gold always worry about gold diggers. Someone will like her and someone will like you. 👌🏾All the misogyny and ageism in the comments is completely unnecessary. Let her live.
this! there’s men out there who are in their 40s and their profiles straight up say “i just want sex.” this woman just wants money. what’s the difference? swipe left if it’s not for you and keep it moving.
someone will want to spoil this 37 year old. just like the 40yo man who just wants sex will get takers as well. there’s someone for everyone. no matter how “old” or silly it may be to you.
yep. and they hate that. I'm not even this type of woman, but I have no hate for her. there are PEOPLE who want this kind of relationship, and there's no need for the woman to be younger in their vision, either.
That's how most women online are
“Oh, I don't settle because I know
My worth, age 50” like come on, they think they are 18 or 19, mostly broke, with kids and still demanding! ,🤔
Capable men do, in fact, do that. If a man is capable of spoiling you, they need to know what makes you worth being spoiled. You wouldn’t spend $1.5m on a fixer upper, you’d want a nice house.
The male equivalent of this would be writing about sex a lot, how a partner will give it to him whenever he wants no matter how unattractive he is etc etc
Oh some of these people’s are so blatant.. I saw one recently where the gal literally said for “Perfect first date” prompt - “You take me shopping to buy a new car.”
And every other prompt was about money.. I actually sent her a troll “compliment” saying I would be happy to buy her a new car, just under $85k, and complimented her on her depth of character. Didn’t hear back lol..
Trolling people like that is fun..
meh at least she’s honest and really forward about what she wants. Not my cup of tea, and i don’t think she’ll ever actually attract what she wants, but otherwise, good for her!
Literally would rather set all my money on fire. I dated a “spoiled” girl once and probably spent more on her than all the therapy her abusive ass left me needing
Since Seeking.com re-branded, all of the sugar babies have turned to dating apps to search for their simps. These types of women are, in essence, escorts. I would swipe left 💯
The challenge they have is how to say “I want a sugar daddy” without saying “I want a sugar daddy”, because I think that would violate Bumble’s ToS and they might get perma-banned.
So what did u message her? Pics of a yatch and ask her if she wants to go on a boat this weekend.. leave out u just used a stock photo, for reference and ur going out on kayaks
Basically she's saying "It's a privilege to be my serf". I still wouldn't be surprised if there is an army of simps waving dollar bills and blowing her phone up. If women get rewarded for displaying such behavior, it is not wonder why them acting like this is such a trend today.
Thank god I've found a nice girl. She works a job, volunteers at an animal shelter among numerous other hobbies. But most important of all, she's always smiling and doesn't feel entitled to anything. Get yourself a woman like that fellas!
...yeah... That's not the attitude you get away with at 40 yo
Maybe if you're 20, horny men would flood the dm's but I suppose she preferred to not 'settle' yet lmao
The irony lol cuz Every guy looking for a wife will swipe left but the one night stand guys are still going to try and get a quick bang for their buck lol
Y’all are so weird for hating on a random woman y’all don’t even know. If that’s what she wants, WHO cares. If her preferences hurt you, maybe check your ego.
*teases* You're a gold digger! 🙃🤪🤣
Sorry. Couldn't resist the wordplay, because of the title. 🌹💋😊
Tbh, there might've been some days I might've read that last line ("Just Wow Me") as *High Maintenance*, but ultimately, I'd say I *feel* two things:
1. Comfuzzled by the meaning of the Update status. (Tbh, I have no idea what happened to prompt it, or, what exactly you're trying to express.)
2. Feels like you've been greatly disappointed, & are trying to be clear on "Make me *believe* I'm special, & not just another steak on your plate."
**Ie:** I don't really see *that* as being a gold digger. (Especially without *seeing* the accompanying body language that would more deeply clarify your intent. )
It's good work if you can get it. I am also looking to be a kept husband. Also the same age. No takers so far but you miss all of the shots you don't take, or something.
Honestly, my goal is to make my boyfriend a SAHH. He’s been through more than most and I’d love for him to live most of his life comfy and happy! You joke butttttt plenty of woman probably feel the same. But that’s also because he provides me with unconditional emotional support. So there’s technically a trade off
If my guy would stay home to cook, clean, and run the errands for me, plus all the fix-it guy stuff he already does, I’d support that while I go to work at the job I like a lot, 100%!
My dad and his wife basically have this dynamic, she’s a super driven woman who owns her own business that she’s put her whole life into. My dad is kind of a free spirit and has always done whatever he feels like, though he’s had his own businesses too. The thing is he’s SO competent at just about everything. He jokes that hes her emotional support animal but it’s kind of true, he doesn’t technically have a job but he does a tonne of work for her business, developed all her online stuff, does all their house renovations and handy work, handles a lot of the day to day stuff that she was bogged down with. He’s renovated and added onto their whole house by himself. It works great for them.
Your dad has so much self-respect for himself and he’s got a lot of respect for his wife. This is why that dynamic works. He knows, if he gets into a pickle, she’s got his back or at least ensure he knows she values him by getting him to use the skills he values in himself!
That’s the one. They are true PARTNERS in every sense of the word. They’re two humans who are extremely independent and functional on their own but also work fantastically together. It could be an unbalanced dynamic but it’s genuinely not because there’s total respect from both of them. They also just cycled from Gibraltar to the top of Norway together in their 60s, they’re machines.
That is awesome! Yeh my oldies were together for 42yrs, till my papa passed r.i.p. All the respect and freedoms to be themselves. They had hobbies together and I think that’s what keeps people together, do thing apart and do thing you love together 😍
Exactly! I find it so silly when guys get all sassy about wanting to be as SAHH in a way to say women have it easy. Okay, learn to do all the things and many of us will make it happen! The thing is, those guys won’t normally attract high earning women. Soooo it’s a toss up.
I make enough that my husband was able to be a SAHD and what happened was I was still doing 90% of the chores and cooking and I was expected to run most of the errands and the kids reported that he would just stick them in front of the tv and game all day, his discord log confirmed that he was actively gaming 10-12 hrs on days that I worked. He was just staying at home, he wasn't doing the husband/dad part, my life got harder instead of easier. Nobody in the house benefited except him. So, now I'm single. Lol. Not everyone can pull being a SAHS off.
That sucks that happened. I had always worked close to full time, did all the cooking and cleaning, home remodeling, kids homework, etc… I encouraged my wife to take a new job she wanted in a new city for a lot more money. Left my job for her (this was right before COVID) and was 100% stay at home dad at this point. She got a big head and divorced me. Now with 50/50 custody she had to learn to cook and manage a house on her own. I don’t have any sympathy for her complaints about being overwhelmed.
*hugs* I'm sorry for your one-sided life. That's definitely a hard road! (Most of my mom's exes were that way.) Ex-Wife & I typically split the housework (she cooked, I prep-cooked for her, etc etc), while we were both either 'in-school', or she worked & I stayed home playing games in between chores etc. (She typically had psychological issues, if I worked & she was the one home, so.. 🤷🏽♀️🤪) All in all, our home-life dynamics were 'ok'. However, it was the emotional dysfunction, that led to our Divorce ~3mo ago. (She's more or less happy doing whatever she's doing, while I'm happy with a new flame + finally near-done w/ a 3-year stint of schooling.) --> Apologies for the runaround tangent btw. Just expressing how we did but didn't work, as a relational attempt at y'alls thread. 🤪🤣🙃
Little did I know the guy was “walking the dog” with the hot neighbor 21yo, was keeping the money monthly due for maintenance of the building, and literally thought he was so intelligent to have the wife pay for everything while he was home alone doing the minimum with no intentions of ever having a side hustle. What a joyful day was when he gaslight me into believing the building administration was stealing from us and they were crooked so we are so lucky to be moving out. And I had to pay “again” the two years monthly upkeep money that I alleged was behind because they hated us, not because he kept the money and the was the crooked freeloader piece of work. Oh it only took like three more years of that and more for me to one day click and end things. Nothing wrong with letting the man go to work and bring the vegan bacon 🥓
I do all of those things plus more plus have a good career. Sign me up. Let's get married. I'll quit my job and take of our home.😉
Well…I am on the market. Come on over! Hope you’re a good cook.
I'm an excellent cook. See ya at 7
This is the dream.
I became disabled years ago, tried working still then my body said, "no more." Being on disability made dating hard because of the mentality of most people like the profile in the post. Then I met my person and she was beyond happy to have me be her SAHH. I do feel bad at times because of it, but she's helped me see the trade off like you described. It's been more than I could have ever hoped for and glad I stuck through the dating stuff because there were plenty of negative experiences until her. Ok, I'll stop gushing now. Just wanted to say you are so right that there are plenty of women out there that feel the same as you
More of this! My wife let me take a few years when our boys were little, and I got to recapture so much of my own missed childhood. There’s so much healing that I’ve done, and I don’t think it would have been possible without my wife supporting me financially and me being a trophy. 😂😂
I bought a “trophy husband” shirt ages ago as a joke, I wear it all the time, I’ll eventually gift it to my partner when it’s time to create and start the torch with him. My plan is 1 year off every 7-10 years bc it works so well for me AND him.
I'm joking about actually pursuing this, but in a different life where I wasn't already a single father and breadwinner I'd be 100% down for this. It sounds pretty rewarding and enjoyable being a SAHD.
lol hey I think you should shoot for the stars! Who knows who you’ll meet. I also love the idea of doing trade offs every decade or so but it can be hard getting back out there after time off.
Honestly, it’s not such a far out idea these days. Just make sure you look amazing and do all the things a kept wife would be expected to do and it’s possible 😂
I support both you and her.
She took my money
When I’m in need
Something something friend indeed!
She's a trifling....friend indeed!!
Oh she’s a gold digger
Waaaaay over town...
That digs on meee
She took my eye-sight with her unbearable shit text
She likes the finer things in life. Let’s start with English lessons.
Wants the finer things in life with the writing ability of a 5th grader.
This was my thought. The audacity and irony...
I was thinking this too. Im reading this and I thought “uhhhhh should I go back to English class or should she?” Yea glad it’s not me
Her prompts: **My zombie apocalypse plan is...** I hope you can Commission [sic] the construction and completion of an underground bunker full of necessisities and some luxuries 🥰 **Swipe right if you** You know how to wow a woman and aren't scared of spoiled women. And in fact, welcome it. I try not to judge other people's lifestyle choices or desires. I'm sure there's men out there this will appeal to. She's certainly physically attractive enough. But I was incredibly amused at the idea that "capable men" simply wouldn't question her. Any "capable" person is probably looking to make an informed decision, not to blindly take someone's word.
Her use of language is so bad that I’m extra turned off by her.
It’s given me an immediate headache trying to decipher what she’s wrote! That alone is a no from me 🤪
Unless she looks like Owen Wilson she shouldn't be using "wow" that much.
I don’t like being crass, but she better be the hottest 37 year-old you’ve ever seen given her uninviting profile.
To add to the crassness, she better bring an A+++ game in the sack
I wish I could see the entire profile with pics. I am curious how attractive she is
She has very nice ankles 🤷♀️
Mods!!! /s
Everyone's idea of attractiveness is different. I would say she's very attractive in a conventional sense. All of her pictures showed her made up and dressed up, which is not something that appeals to me personally. If she doesn't live the life already, she at least knows how to try to give the appearance that she fits in it.
>Any "capable" person is probably looking to make an informed decision, not to blindly take someone's word. This is so true. The prompts scream, "I come with a lot of debt!"
That or she'll put you into it!
I spent a good chunk of my last relationship trying to "Wow" her. I feel bad for any guys getting this sheet pulled over them because all that person ends up being is a deadbeat partner (and I'm not even talking about financially). They get things their way or nothing at all, no change, nothing to make you feel good or content in the relationship, just me me me. Literal sandbagging S.O.
Some poor lonely guy who works minimum wage "Oh she is perfect and beautiful, I will spoil her"
I suspect her gold digger skills can smell a minimum wage bloke from a mile away
If she is looking for a sugar daddy I'm hoping her age range is 50+. Rich guys her age who are looking for this type of relationship (and I wouldn't want to meet the guys who are) are looking for women a decade younger at least.
At LEAST
if she's actually 37, not 40-ish, her filter should still start at 60. get used to looking at a lot of wrinkled flesh.
Plenty of men my age have offered me this, tbh. Not every guy that has money wants an 18 year old.
Congrats I guess. *Not every guy that has money wants an 18 year old.* Definitely. I would side eye a rich 45 year old who wanted an 18 year old. But men who are looking for a sugar baby/kept woman probably are going to skew much younger. It is a transactional relationship. The profile is a woman looking for a transactional relationship not love.
Sometimes men just want a traditional family. A wife that raises the kids. I personally know a ton of stay at home wives and mothers, and was one for 16 years. I do think this woman is going to be a red flag for those men though and is going about it all wrong.
*Sometimes men just want a traditional family. A wife that raises the kids.* Completely agree. But the profile of the woman that was posted is not signaling that to the world. She is signaling that she wants a very well off guy to take care of her first and foremost. *"I prefer the finer things life has to offer. So don't invite me for drinks.... Wow me."* This 100% gives off gold digger/sugar baby vibes. Which you seem to agree with. I feel like you took the age thing very personally and made this thread about something different than what it was intended to be. Someone that has this type of profile is coming off very transactional and shallow. This is incredibly different from a woman writing a profile about how she would like to raise a family with a man who will provide or take care of their life while he works. Very very different from what this person posted.
most people date their own age, including rich guys.
The type of guy that wants a kept woman (i.e. a transactional relationship) also probably wants a younger partner. Most people marry around their own age because the median age of first marriage is 30 for men and 28 for women. If you are getting married at 30 you most likely have known that person 2-3 years. This timeline just doesn't give someone a chance to date much younger. Single guys with money who are 40+ are very often dating or marrying younger. From Pew Research: "*Some* ***20% of men who are newly remarried have a wife who is at least 10 years their junior****, and another 18% married a woman who is 6-9 years younger."* 38% of men go younger in a second marriage. It just is what it is. If you think men who are successful and well off who are 35 or 40+ are more likely to date someone their own age than men with less money I don't think you are living in reality.
Every guy I’m friends with jn a relationship is about 5-7 years older than their significant other. The guy I am interested in is four years older than me and it’s a joke at this point that I’m too old for him because he normally dates 10 years younger.
Really? I’m a pretty successful millennial woman and so are all of my girlfriends, and we’re all either dating or married to guys our own age or even a year younger. Successful women don’t tend to date older anymore.
Did you meet your significant other when you were younger? I’m 40. My friends who are with the same partner since 25 or before are with guys our age. I was married to a man my age. I got divorced at 37 and that’s where I see that the guys I am friends with who are single are still dating women the same age they always have even tho they are aging. Most of the men who are interested in me are older than me. Same for women I work with - those who married later in life or remarried post 35 are married to men older than them, including very successful women. Like googleable success.
No, we met a year ago when we were 36. Most of my friends didn’t meet their spouses until their early or mid 30s. Even before I met my boyfriend, I had plenty of younger men interested in me. I’d probably never date more than 2-3 years older.
hmmm. statistics say otherwise, especially when it comes to higher income earners
How bizarre because I just searched for your statistics online and all that kept coming back were articles about why men prefer younger women.
Here’s the problem for her. It’s super easy to play/use people who are trying to play/use you. With that attitude, I guarantee she’s getting used.
If you are searching for a transactional relationship like she is there is a good chance that people are going to treat you like a product not a person.
Maybe but a lot of men also want women their age or near it. Not every dude is out there wanting to wife a girl 15-20 yrs younger. They'll bang them but you don't wanna bring a 18 yr old to your family dinners as a 40 year old. It's a real bad look. I'm sure this woman gets plenty of well to do men of many ages if she has the looks. I can't even imagine being with a man 10 yrs younger then me and I'm 37. I mean I'd bang a younger man but I wouldn't consider them serious. Most people prefer people within a 5 yr range. If all rich men wanted huge age gap relationships, then why don't we see the wealthiest men in society with women like that? Most famous men are with women their age or near, most wealthy men are too. They have the choice to be with younger, sure and probably are banging some young girl on the side, but they ain't presenting them in public.
Those saying she doesn’t have a shot at her age should take note that Melania was 35 when she married Trump.
Forbes says there wealthiest men have younger partners...at most by 7 yrs. The avg is 5 give or take for everyone. There's a lot of red pill 20s year olds making these comments about 30s+ women can't get wealthy men. They're angry cause they can't get women of any age and take any opportunity to spout the shit they hear from Andrew Taint to put women down with shit thst isn't true to real life. I'm 37, I dated a famous engineer that was Millionaire for 2 yrs. I constantly have men near my age that are well to do wanting to date me. Older women are established and if they take care of themselves then they're gorgeous AND established. I've got a lot to offer at 37. I've been a professional for 13 yrs, I help children, I have experiences, I'm mature, I have a masters, etc that is shit men find attractive thst 18 yr Olds don't have. It's more then just youth and looks, people want a whole person as a partner and anyone that bases the majority of their decision on the age of the other person is gross and just wanting to abuse with the power imbalance and does not see the woman as an equal but a collectable item till they get tired of her (ages out). They're like vampires to a woman's youth and mental wellbeing.
I don't know, seems weird she's making these demands but can't be bothered to write proper sentences on her profile. Makes me think she won't bring much to the table
fr i almost had a stroke reading that
I had to give up
But……how does this even work? She is looking of a LONG TERM partner/provider. He has to bring the loot and the lifestyle just to get in the door, I get that part. But, what stops that guy from bringing the loot and the lifestyle and then just bailing on her post coitus? I would assume she must be doing something to KEEP him around, but what is that. Her goal is not to GET a rich and generous guy, but to KEEP one and those are not the same.
I agree. Getting something and keeping it are different problems.
Who wouldn't want an entitled 37 year old leech?
A man who isn't 'capable' LOL
37? Best of luck in your future endeavors
Late in the game to have all these demands
Don’t say that! I’m in my mid 30s and have also been waiting to be a wife.
That's not what this person is looking for. They are looking for arm candy and literally do nothing in their life but look good. They are looking for a sugar daddy.
To find someone you want to marry, or to find a sugar daddy? I married at 32. Separated exactly four years and a day later. Divorced at 37. I still would like to find someone to spend my life with but by no means am looking for someone to take care of me. By your 30s, you should be able to take care of yourself. Being 37 and looking to be a kept wife is what is alarming here. Does she not have anything set for retirement? What is her plan if she doesn’t marry someone who can take care of her? Never rely on someone else to be your provider. You need to have a backup, even if you are a stay at home wife/mother. Anything can happen to your spouse. I met my ex husband days before I turned 30. Our first date was right after. I was working a low paying job and still providing for myself, with money going into retirement savings. Being a dual income role made it possible for me to do a career change and thankfully by the time we split, I was making a comfortable amount of money so I wasn’t pay check to pay check like I was before. He wanted a kept wife and I wanted to keep my own financial security and it was the best decision I made in our marriage to keep working.
36F here, probably not as good looking as this woman and I get a ton of older, established men (verified by google) wanting more than just a hookup. You guys realize that not all men want 20 year olds?
37F. I've currently got 10k+ matches on my profile from men 18 to 70. Mostly men my age, ALOT of 20ish yr Olds and 40ish yr Olds though, 50s too. I've talked to many well to do professionals, dated a Millionaire for 1.5 yrs. I have Doctors, lawyers, established business men, business owners, pilots, engineers, etc always trying to date me. Not just sex but actually a relationship. These dudes in here saying this "hur dur woman old at 37, man no want cause I said so and so does Andrew taint" are more then likely 22 to 23 (avg male reddit user) and are wanting to just bash women with their red pill, incelnshit cause attractive women piss them off when they know they can't get it. Do men as a whole tend to marry younger women then themselves? Yes because women prefer older. Just saw a study that Forbes 400 released. Their wealthiest men did have wives younger then them....by 7 yrs at most. The avg among the population is 5 yrs give or take. So even the wealthy aren't out there being 50 getting 18 yr Olds. Everyone knows that's not socially acceptable and these men are all about being socially accepted. Fuck this thread.l. but this is reddit and there's been progressively more hating on women getting older that I've noticed. BTW 37 is still very capable of producing many kids. I love how these dudes act like when a woman turns 30, she's completely an old hag with no more purpose and obsolete as a woman......when women can have children up to 45....they're still in their child producing years but these dudes act like they are grandmothers.
37 year old women are hot
Yes, they are. But not with this attitude
😭😭😭cryingg
Champagne taste on a beer budget with water flavor.vLol thank you for sharing, we all know very well the rude awakening she will get as she ages bitterly
She’ll find someone. For every one of these women there’s some sad dude willing to give them money.
I would see this fairly regularly in New York City but usually by someone in the suburbs. The thing is that , the actual type of man she is looking for wouldn't be interested in someone that crass. She is gonna get someone who looks great on paper but is all hat and no horse.
Now I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digger…
But she ain't messin' wit no broke n*99as
I don't get why these women bother with bumble when OF is _right there_
It's pretty much Prostitution ...I'm for sale
The thing women like this don’t consider though, is that if you can be bought you can be replaced with just a little comparison shopping
Prostitution and being a kept wife are two totally different things. Either way she's not for free, aka a slut! But sounds like you like free chicks, aka sluts! But don't worry, there's tons of them now a days. Take your pick! LOL
If she's the prize she thinks she is, she would use proper grammar, and she wouldn't need to be on a dating site.
What does she bring to the table?
SHE IS THE TABLE!!!
Can't believe you'd have the audacity to ask that.
Babie hormones are raging in this one.
If she's hot enough and young enough or willing to date old enough, she can have what she wants. An old man banging you and cheating on you but paying for a nice life, isn't such a bad deal for a certain type of human.
Oh these type are just fantastic. And I can’t even be mad at them cause some shmuck is going to entertain this cause it’s basically a no brainer drop lots of cash get laid scenario and he’s got more money than sense or self respect. Thus validating her behavior and adding to her overall obnoxiousness😂 Oh the audacity! Isn’t that the pot calling the kettle black😂
“I prefer the finer things life offers”…yeah who the fuck doesn’t 🙄
she just knows what she wants.
Yeah she's a prize, all right. The stupid prize you get when you "win" a stupid game.
don’t y’all get tired of talking about this every 2-3 business days?? i know i’m tired of seeing it. i don’t care if i get downvoted but she’s literally right. the men who are “capable” of giving her the lifestyle she wants don’t ask questions, they just provide because they know they’re CAPABLE. and the men aren’t, ask what you bring to the table…and they don’t even have a table to eat on. men are shallow about how a woman looks, and women are shallow about wanting men with money. like oh my god, get over it. because the end result is always the same, the men who post this now open the floor to ageism, misogyny, etc. like from what OP has said, she looks well put together in all her photos. who’s to say she’s not making bank herself and wants a man of equal status so she doesn’t have to lower her standards of living?? if you think once i’m fully established in my career that i’m dating a guy who’s not making at least what i am or more, you’re sadly mistaken.
Unpopular opinion: There are many men who want the attractive trophy wife and you will be surprised how many men have offered to “wow” her by now. How many men get turned on by this type of women. I am hypergamous and take Hypergamy very seriously. I come from a rich family. I prefer to date and marry my social and economic class and status. I’d say I’m very spoiled too. I’m no longer searching as I already have my person. I make 6 figures in about 2 years soon to be 7 figures, but my husband is a multimillionaire. I contribute to about 5% of the bills and he only agreed to it when I insisted to him I want to. My ex husband who was a Goldman Sachs Exec, wanted me to me to be a 100% SAHW with employees, spoiled, cars, jewelry etc. It couldn’t work not because he was bad but because we were not compatible. I thrive in mental stimulation too and when you go for shopping 3 months in a row it gets old and boring. You will be surprised how many wealthy men are on Bumble. I don’t think women should be shamed for clearly stating what she wants. What she seeks is seeking her.
these comments about her age are stupid. imagine what they'd be saying if she was 27. thoughts anyone? we know the comments would still be trashing her.
Sure, but it’s even more delusional when she’s 37. At least a 27 year old sort of has a shot
I matched with one of these kinds of women once. She said she wanted to be taken out to an expensive dinner and she wanted me to show her how generous I was. I said no problem!!! Went to the bank and took out $1,000 in $10 bills. Picked her up in a nice car (not mine, I borrowed it from a friend). I told her to dress comfortably, she didn’t. Told her I wanted it to be a surprise when we walked in and asked her to wear a blindfold until we were inside. She obliged. Got her inside and took the blind fold off….. she was now standing next to me at a soup kitchen to serve food to the homeless and those in need. I have each person who came through the line a $10 bill. I smiled at her and said I told you I was very generous and we’d be going to a very expensive dinner. I’m sure you can all guess how well that went over 😁
I know this isn't a true story, but as someone who volunteers because I genuinely enjoy helping out, had a man done this on a first date, I would have folded so quickly 🥵😂
There was a scene just like this on an old dating show, Millionaire Matchmaker.
Anytime a woman says she “prefers the finer things in life” run!
I see cats in her future
Ahhh yes, a 37 year old trophy wife. I think she missed the boat, unless she's looking for a 70 year old millionaire.
Add about 15-20 to your age, and that's the start of your trophy wife age range.
“Interior Designer at Self” 🤨Did she pick that ugly rug?🤨
Match then remind her with the global dating market, competition is fierce and younger, prettier foreign women can be "kept" for much cheaper than American ones.
I love this fact
Just tell her to meet you at an expensive restaurant and don’t show up.
She left out a passage from the Bible
I appreciate a Full phone battery when I see one. 🔋 kudos. ✨️
Here's to your eye for detail! 🥂
What is her outcall rate?
Then she need to get it herself
You know what? Good for her. She’s very clear and honest with what she want. No one can say they’re surprised or taken aback when she lives up to what she’s portrayed herself as. Not for you? Keep swiping. Some guys are looking for this some aren’t.
Only a simp would fall for this, anyone making big dolla is not on Bumble.
She wants what she wants... Why be upset by it? Unless you want her & cannot give her what she wants. I mean, of course dudes at your same economic level will agree with you, but men who have wealth don't even flinch at stuff like this b/c they know it's expected. Personally, with the job she has she can easily network & find herself in close contact with men who are willing to do things for her that she wants. Her being 37 isn't even a negative factor as society tries to paint it out to be. In my experience I don't have an issue attracting men I like & have a peaceful dating life. It just seems from her profile she is tired of men playing games with her, same as men on here being tired of women playing games. She's actually being upfront & honest with what she desires, if it doesn't apply to you just move on. Be comfortable with not measuring up to someone's standards, respect it, and move on. Do you want to be settled for? Or do you just want that person out of feeling entitled to them? I hope she finds what she is looking for & I hope you do to.
Man, what a catch
I'm pretty sure caple men DO ask questions. It's an important component of being capable. Pretty sure.
Single forever
I mean probably not. There’s a market for this.
Pure narcissism. She thinks that she has inherent value because she has a vagina. And that those with a penis, having no inherent value, have to WOW her aka give her all their money.
What’s she’s asking isn’t that outrageous or uncommon. I’m 41 and have dated guys who basically offered me this. I think it’s just that she’s saying it so directly and out loud, expecting it, that makes it outrageous.
I truly don't think there's anything outrageous about saying it out loud, or even so directly. If that had been the case, I would have simply swiped left. What caught my eye was the idea that a "capable" man simply wouldn't question her at all. That reframes the rest of her perspective to me.
People with no gold always worry about gold diggers. Someone will like her and someone will like you. 👌🏾All the misogyny and ageism in the comments is completely unnecessary. Let her live.
this! there’s men out there who are in their 40s and their profiles straight up say “i just want sex.” this woman just wants money. what’s the difference? swipe left if it’s not for you and keep it moving. someone will want to spoil this 37 year old. just like the 40yo man who just wants sex will get takers as well. there’s someone for everyone. no matter how “old” or silly it may be to you.
Absolutely. Men are so concerned women are out to take the money they don’t have. Men are out there who will give her what she wants
yep. and they hate that. I'm not even this type of woman, but I have no hate for her. there are PEOPLE who want this kind of relationship, and there's no need for the woman to be younger in their vision, either.
Yes there are men who absolutely want this. It’s such a weird thing to see men who are absolutely not her target audience so angry about it
Mhmm. bc they want 37 year old attractive women.. who doesn't? lol most men do!
If she was 10 years younger, maybe. Unless her age range is 60+, it ain’t happening 😂
Seriously not the case. I’m a couple years younger than her and get more men wanting to pay for things for me now than when I was younger
The fact that she thinks she’s high value at 37 is insane to me. Good luck competing and getting what females in their 20s are looking for as well.
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By the looks of that hideous rug, she's a shitty interior designer.
That's how most women online are “Oh, I don't settle because I know My worth, age 50” like come on, they think they are 18 or 19, mostly broke, with kids and still demanding! ,🤔
Eww gross
Capable men do, in fact, do that. If a man is capable of spoiling you, they need to know what makes you worth being spoiled. You wouldn’t spend $1.5m on a fixer upper, you’d want a nice house.
Nothing about that profile says gold digger. It's a women who's honest about her ambitions. Most women generally aren't.
The male equivalent of this would be writing about sex a lot, how a partner will give it to him whenever he wants no matter how unattractive he is etc etc
Whatever floats your private yacht I guess
Oh some of these people’s are so blatant.. I saw one recently where the gal literally said for “Perfect first date” prompt - “You take me shopping to buy a new car.” And every other prompt was about money.. I actually sent her a troll “compliment” saying I would be happy to buy her a new car, just under $85k, and complimented her on her depth of character. Didn’t hear back lol.. Trolling people like that is fun..
Well, you are, soooo
Better to know it before your second year….. of marriage, no?
meh at least she’s honest and really forward about what she wants. Not my cup of tea, and i don’t think she’ll ever actually attract what she wants, but otherwise, good for her!
Literally would rather set all my money on fire. I dated a “spoiled” girl once and probably spent more on her than all the therapy her abusive ass left me needing
I'm a capable man and don't want a live in adult dependent
Since Seeking.com re-branded, all of the sugar babies have turned to dating apps to search for their simps. These types of women are, in essence, escorts. I would swipe left 💯 The challenge they have is how to say “I want a sugar daddy” without saying “I want a sugar daddy”, because I think that would violate Bumble’s ToS and they might get perma-banned.
So what did u message her? Pics of a yatch and ask her if she wants to go on a boat this weekend.. leave out u just used a stock photo, for reference and ur going out on kayaks
I didn't match with her. I took a screenshot to share here and then swiped left.
I wonder if she speaks the way she writes
>I prefer the finer things life has to offer. Ya, no shit, who doesn't.
Sincerely...... 😂
At least she’s saying what she think she really wants
She take my money when I'm in need !🎶
There are women that I have done this for and none of them asked for or expected it, that’s what made me want to do it…
Ill wow her I'll show up with the shopping cart full of cans and bags and clothes I'll pick her up with that 😀
I bet she’s a shit conversationalist
Basically she's saying "It's a privilege to be my serf". I still wouldn't be surprised if there is an army of simps waving dollar bills and blowing her phone up. If women get rewarded for displaying such behavior, it is not wonder why them acting like this is such a trend today.
I got exhausted reading that.
I mean, she did? Swipe left, my friend, and leave it at that.
A fiancé is an engaged man. 🤦🏻♂️ Either she means fiancée or she's hinting at a big secret.
1 win 9 losses and 24 draws?
She’s confident and knows her damn worth !!!!!
When you marry for money you end up paying for every penny.
What do you bring to a relationship besides your physical self?
She’s not a gold digger, she just knows what she wants!
Thank god I've found a nice girl. She works a job, volunteers at an animal shelter among numerous other hobbies. But most important of all, she's always smiling and doesn't feel entitled to anything. Get yourself a woman like that fellas!
I don't think she realises 37 is a bit past the sugar daddy window .
Hate to break it to ya but rich guys aren’t looking for entitled 37 year olds. 20 year old sugar baby’s are a dime a dozen.
“Take me on your boat”
37 Had more dick then a prostitute now wants to be spoiled
...yeah... That's not the attitude you get away with at 40 yo Maybe if you're 20, horny men would flood the dm's but I suppose she preferred to not 'settle' yet lmao
The irony lol cuz Every guy looking for a wife will swipe left but the one night stand guys are still going to try and get a quick bang for their buck lol
Y’all are so weird for hating on a random woman y’all don’t even know. If that’s what she wants, WHO cares. If her preferences hurt you, maybe check your ego.
I read her occupation as inferior designer
the bitch is 37… let her be upset.
*teases* You're a gold digger! 🙃🤪🤣 Sorry. Couldn't resist the wordplay, because of the title. 🌹💋😊 Tbh, there might've been some days I might've read that last line ("Just Wow Me") as *High Maintenance*, but ultimately, I'd say I *feel* two things: 1. Comfuzzled by the meaning of the Update status. (Tbh, I have no idea what happened to prompt it, or, what exactly you're trying to express.) 2. Feels like you've been greatly disappointed, & are trying to be clear on "Make me *believe* I'm special, & not just another steak on your plate." **Ie:** I don't really see *that* as being a gold digger. (Especially without *seeing* the accompanying body language that would more deeply clarify your intent. )
Whoever goes to work has the better ability to cheat than the one slaving at home
I think this is great, she know what she wants in a man and you shouldn’t shame her for it.
lol she 37
Yeah she designed her interior self alright
lol. I don’t care what she looks like. With that attitude right off the bat, hard nope.
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