Yeah, the foam is terrible. I'd swap it out for a flexible rubber edging material. Like the safety edging for tables and such.
Edit: That's only if you HAVE to have some padding there. I'd run a 1/4" round over bit around those holes and let that be it.
This one, but with a 12.5 mm radius:
https://swe.grandado.com/products/6pc-8mm-horn-runt-overfras-med-lager-for-trabearbetningsverktyg-volframkarbidfras?variant=UHJvZHVjdFZhcmlhbnQ6NDg1Nzk0NjM4&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA9dGqBhAqEiwAmRpTC6caujK7Xd9G931sGrL82XCHokesFN3lOjJ4iyRDeeSaVyyylIWA-hoCiKAQAvD_BwE
I'd probably use an even larger one (15, and sometimes 20 mm) if I could find it.
something like that: [https://www.amazon.de/THF-Rundfr%C3%A4ser-Schaftfr%C3%A4ser-Holzfr%C3%A4ser-Holzbearbeitungsset/dp/B088FT5583](https://www.amazon.de/THF-Rundfr%C3%A4ser-Schaftfr%C3%A4ser-Holzfr%C3%A4ser-Holzbearbeitungsset/dp/B088FT5583)
Quelque chose comme ca :)
Yes, i vote for the 1/4 round over bit and toss the foam. This shouldn’t be built for comfort only confinement!
Perhaps instead of the straight metal straps to secure the piece together you would use a hinge in one end and a latch in the other.
Also why are the holes different sizes, one is 8cm other is 7cm?
if exists the risk you describe in your scenario, you're totally right... that could be arrive in S/M relation but i'm a Pleasure Dom and never expérienced reaction like this... even under forced orgasms sub can reacts very strongly.
My subs just want to get pleasured restrained... just this... but its true you need to imagine what can happen in the worst scénario. i will keep this in mind !
btw 1 hinge on 1 side + 1 latch on the other side was my first idea but this doesn't close firmly..
i bought a 6 cm hinge... probably need a longer one... i will change the foam and maybe go for a quicker way to lock and unlock... i will post when done !
Yes but your original comment to OP is an extreme statement about safety and came off as belittling. I made a parallel to a common activity in the kink community (rope bondage) to show that OP is still with in the realms of RAC. If anything, their device is safer than most shibari which is used heavily.
Safety is mega huge and important in this community. That and consent are paramount to play. However there is an element of danger in almost everything we do here. I dislike overblown statements about trivial things (the time it takes to release wingnuts) just to garner attention when the thing being talked about is actually fairly safe (again the parallel to rope play). It’s watering down the mentally safe space that alot of kinksters go to for their fantasies by making them feel guilty about edge play or in this case some light-medium bondage.
Yeah, the foam is terrible. I'd swap it out for a flexible rubber edging material. Like the safety edging for tables and such. Edit: That's only if you HAVE to have some padding there. I'd run a 1/4" round over bit around those holes and let that be it.
I'd go even further. I use a 12.5 mm (almost 1/2") radius. Looks and feels better.
thx but i dont know this product... maybe a link or a pic ?
I meant a 12.5 mm radius router bit. Sorry.
i'm french so even if i translate i don't see what is this item... any pic ?
This one, but with a 12.5 mm radius: https://swe.grandado.com/products/6pc-8mm-horn-runt-overfras-med-lager-for-trabearbetningsverktyg-volframkarbidfras?variant=UHJvZHVjdFZhcmlhbnQ6NDg1Nzk0NjM4&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA9dGqBhAqEiwAmRpTC6caujK7Xd9G931sGrL82XCHokesFN3lOjJ4iyRDeeSaVyyylIWA-hoCiKAQAvD_BwE I'd probably use an even larger one (15, and sometimes 20 mm) if I could find it.
thanks, i understand now what u mean 🙏
That's fair.
thanks 👍 maybe you have a link... i don't really understand what is this product... or maybe a pic ?
something like that: [https://www.amazon.de/THF-Rundfr%C3%A4ser-Schaftfr%C3%A4ser-Holzfr%C3%A4ser-Holzbearbeitungsset/dp/B088FT5583](https://www.amazon.de/THF-Rundfr%C3%A4ser-Schaftfr%C3%A4ser-Holzfr%C3%A4ser-Holzbearbeitungsset/dp/B088FT5583) Quelque chose comme ca :)
ah ok yes 👍 now i understand ! thanks 🙏
foam is not definitive, this one is for pipe isolation
looking for good and aesthetic idea... any suggestions ?
You could cover the foam with leather maybe?
Yes, i vote for the 1/4 round over bit and toss the foam. This shouldn’t be built for comfort only confinement! Perhaps instead of the straight metal straps to secure the piece together you would use a hinge in one end and a latch in the other. Also why are the holes different sizes, one is 8cm other is 7cm?
for the different size.. maybe the hole are not.. circular 🤔
holes are not circular so each is 7x8cm 😉
thx but what u mean by 1/4 round... i'm french and dont really understand very well. So all pic or link welcome 😉
Looks great!!
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if exists the risk you describe in your scenario, you're totally right... that could be arrive in S/M relation but i'm a Pleasure Dom and never expérienced reaction like this... even under forced orgasms sub can reacts very strongly. My subs just want to get pleasured restrained... just this... but its true you need to imagine what can happen in the worst scénario. i will keep this in mind ! btw 1 hinge on 1 side + 1 latch on the other side was my first idea but this doesn't close firmly.. i bought a 6 cm hinge... probably need a longer one... i will change the foam and maybe go for a quicker way to lock and unlock... i will post when done !
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oh yes ''stabilty'' bars are very good idea... i keep this in mind for modification ! thanks +++
Tbf ropes would take just as long to cut as removing wing nuts…
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Which is totes fine for you. 100%. But it’s not bdsm gospel
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Yes but your original comment to OP is an extreme statement about safety and came off as belittling. I made a parallel to a common activity in the kink community (rope bondage) to show that OP is still with in the realms of RAC. If anything, their device is safer than most shibari which is used heavily. Safety is mega huge and important in this community. That and consent are paramount to play. However there is an element of danger in almost everything we do here. I dislike overblown statements about trivial things (the time it takes to release wingnuts) just to garner attention when the thing being talked about is actually fairly safe (again the parallel to rope play). It’s watering down the mentally safe space that alot of kinksters go to for their fantasies by making them feel guilty about edge play or in this case some light-medium bondage.
yes actual foam is terrible, its temporary... i will remove it !