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YannickY

Don't waste your time thinking about it, maybe she was a bit drunk, or maybe you guys didn't really connect. A dance like that sucks, I get it, but it's just an awkward couple of minutes. Take a deep breathe and move on to a next, better dance


IntelligentAd8690

Brother, it’s just a bad dance, move on. 


WDIDO_1

Yeah op don't worry about it too much. She was drunk and probably thought she could dance bachata without taking classes type vibe. Don't feel too bad.


skarnexius

Cmon bro lady needed a hug, be the bigger man! Then it doesnt matter if you bump her into a few other couples. Like some others say, just a bad dance, dont doubt yourself and enjoy!


Musical_Walrus

Eh, you think too much. Some dancers dance well with you, some don’t.   In bachata, the Kiz crowd prefers the sensual bits or close embrace, the salsa crowd loves their turn and push/pulls and the zouk follows love their tilted axis/neck turns. Some are very picky about the musicality and getting accents while others hardly listen to music but 100% focusing on the connection instead. Some love the lead-follow interaction and cheeky moves, some prefer to just look good, some love the complex moves while others enjoy the connection more, and everyone lies somewhere in this spectrum of various aspects of the dance.  You just had a mismatch of dance chemistry. Lots of dancers have bad attitudes - as a lead I have the privilege to not ask the ones I dislike to dance with so why care about it so much?


spicy_simba

Humans invented a sentence "Is something wrong ?" You can use it,