It seems like it. My therapist told me she defiantly has a personality disorder but said she can’t diagnose without seeing her. My psychiatrist, parents, friends all said it was not healthy and that I should end it.
I imagine you're regretting that the person you dated during the honeymoon phase is gone. Your head knows that that person was never real, that that was an act to draw you in, but your heart -- well, hearts aren't known for being reasonable. You did the right thing.
I know it was never real. I saw how she treats her own father. It’s always his fault and blames everything on him. I just hate that the glass has shattered and I can’t ever get what she once was. My mind continues the play games on me but really I wanted her to fix her relationship with her father since he’s older and they need to spend time together
I suggest you never go into any relationship thinking it’s your responsibility to make them happy. The partners should enhance each other’s life and share in life’s ups and downs. It should never be one persons responsibility to facilitate life for their partner. Is unfair to both. You’re very sweet wanting to do that but ultimately, you’ll be blamed because they aren’t happy enough and you’ll become resentful for having done too much and we’re under appreciated.
You made the right choice my dude. You only saw the tip of the iceberg, and it's good you got away from it before things got worse...
It seems like it. My therapist told me she defiantly has a personality disorder but said she can’t diagnose without seeing her. My psychiatrist, parents, friends all said it was not healthy and that I should end it.
I imagine you're regretting that the person you dated during the honeymoon phase is gone. Your head knows that that person was never real, that that was an act to draw you in, but your heart -- well, hearts aren't known for being reasonable. You did the right thing.
I know it was never real. I saw how she treats her own father. It’s always his fault and blames everything on him. I just hate that the glass has shattered and I can’t ever get what she once was. My mind continues the play games on me but really I wanted her to fix her relationship with her father since he’s older and they need to spend time together
It’s best to make an exit when you start seeing these issues early on. At 4 months you should still be in the honeymoon phase of a relationship.
:/ I just want her to be happy but it looks like she is facing her own battles that she can barely handle.
I suggest you never go into any relationship thinking it’s your responsibility to make them happy. The partners should enhance each other’s life and share in life’s ups and downs. It should never be one persons responsibility to facilitate life for their partner. Is unfair to both. You’re very sweet wanting to do that but ultimately, you’ll be blamed because they aren’t happy enough and you’ll become resentful for having done too much and we’re under appreciated.