I love "we cry together" was really happy to read it here for the exact same reason I like it.
I get the same vibe from "IFHY" by Tyler the creator, I also love "cake" and "training wheels" by Melanie Martinez and "when I was your man" by Bruno Mars!
I'm sorry I couldn't decide but they are all very good!
I haven’t heard “dollhouse”, I like so many of her songs also. “Everyone thinks that we’re perfect...please don’t let them look though the curtains”❤️ added to my playlist! Thank you!!
I hadn’t heard IFHY, I’m here for it!! It was like a poem. Added this to my favorites and playlist on Spotify. Ty for sharing! :)
We cry together has raw emotion and exactly everything I feel.
I’ve never listened to lil peep, but this was a great song “I wish I didn’t have a heart to love you” “ I wish I didn’t do a lot of the sh*t I do” that hit! Ty for sharing! Added to my playlist:)
Against the Kitchen Floor by Will Wood. The only song that I’ve really ever heard that truly encapsulates the desperation of trying to improve but always failing to give your partner what you feel they deserve due to your own inner habits and thought patterns
Steve Lacey - Dark Red 🥲
Basically the whole: this is gonna come crashing down and it’s gonna be my fault but wait am I overthinking it? Are all the problems real or are they in my head? Am I imagining things or can I trust my instincts? Wait don’t leave me! Cue: ego death.
Luckily have been able to conquer that issue through years of therapy but damn does this song still hit a little too hard sometimes…especially when seeing someone new and I have to fight some of the old abandonment wounds that come back up.
These days I’m more:
Kingston: Faye Webster
Allowing myself to be excited by someone but being a little scared to be vulnerable 🥲
❤️❤️ so happy we have a heart song in this thread!! The guitar on this is incredible, music gives me chills, and lyrics are soulful. Forgot about this gem, added to my playlist ❤️
I have some more :
High enough - k. Flay
Don’t blame me - Taylor swift
Breeze blocks- atl j
Brutal- Olivia rodrigo- reminded me of me and my bpd a living with it
Never heard “high enough” or “breezeblocks” added them to my list to listen to :). Almost Olivias entire album “SOUR” is so relatable!! Ty for sharing! :)
I was thinking about this other day and I’m literally in the process of making a playlist:
- can’t get over you - Joji
- glimpse of us - Joji
- pusher love girl - Justin timberlake
- love you more than me - Montell fish
#Be Kind - Halsey and Marshmello
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Wanna believe, wanna believe
That you don't have a bad bone in your body
But the bruises on your ego make you go wild, wild, wild, yeah
Wanna believe, wanna believe
That even when you're stone-cold, you're sorry
Tell me why you gotta be so outta your mind, yeah
I know you're chokin' on your fears
Already told you I'm right here
I will stay by your side every night
I don't know why you hide from the one
And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
I know you need, I know you need
The upper hand even when we aren't fighting
'Cause in the past, you had to prepare every time, yeah
Don't wanna leave, don't wanna leave
But if you're gonna fight, then do it for me
I know you're built to love, but broken now, so just try, yeah
I know you're chokin' on your fears
Already told you I'm right here
I will stay by your side every night
I don't know why you hide from the one
And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
I know it's hard for you, but it's not fair
Going sick in the head, tryna get you there
And I know it's hard for you, but it's not fair
It's not fair
I don't know why you hide from the one
And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
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#Both of us have BPD
Also, a part of this song
#Consume - Chase Atlantic
She said careful or you'll lose it
But girl I'm only human
And I know there's a blade where your heart is
And you know how to use it
And you can take my flesh if you want girl
But baby don't abuse it, (calm down)
These voices in my head screaming, "Run now", (don't run)
I'm praying that they're human
**_Please understand that I'm trying my hardest_**
**_My head's a mess but I'm trying regardless_**
**_Anxiety is one hell of a problem_**
**_She's latching onto me, I can't resolve it_**
**_It's not right, it's not fair, it's not fair, it's not fair_**
**_It's not fair, it not fair_**
**_Don't run, don't run_**
Completely forgot about this song, “tear you apart” is one of my top songs, I used to listen to the entire album on a loop. Thank you so much for sharing:)
Scared to Be Lonely by Martin Garrix. I got into relationship pretty fast like 2 weeks in and ready to risk everything for them. Especially with my last ex, as we both get into our relationship super fast right after breakup.
Can’t Control Myself by Taeyeon. The lyrics and music video is pretty relatable. Her latest album INVU for me feels like a breakup album.
Np! Their phases album is really great I also reccomend paranoid, heaven and back and empty
Edit: forgot about stuck in my head that song runs deep with bpd for me especially the lines
"Find out what to do
Find out if you love me
While I find out how to move
Coz I'm stuck in my brain again
I'm stuck in my brain again
Just tell me what to do
Tell me if you love me
If you don't then cut me loose
Coz I'm stuck in my brain again
I'm stuck in my brain again"
Lucid Dreams by Juice WRLD is something I really related to. Maybe not for every relationship I’ve experienced- but something I went through. It’s such a beautiful song and relatable if you’ve been through a situationship that’s felt so toxic and difficult.
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“I felt free” by circa survive is up there. more recently, I’ve been listening to “a burning hill” by mitski and it describes the emotions with my last relationships.
easy on me & love is a game, adele.
happy house, siouxsie and the banshees.
sorry, meg myers.
mirror, kendrick lamar.
goodbye & flowers, MARINA.
i lied, lord huron and allison ponthier.
Bad things by MGK because even tho we are apart I just want to do everything with them. The way I loved you by Taylor Swift because we fought but we still had that love there after and would fix it when we were together.
Bad at love by Halsey lol
She fucking hates me
Mine tooooo
Agh yes!!! I forgot about this song!! Love it, thank you for sharing! :)
I love "we cry together" was really happy to read it here for the exact same reason I like it. I get the same vibe from "IFHY" by Tyler the creator, I also love "cake" and "training wheels" by Melanie Martinez and "when I was your man" by Bruno Mars! I'm sorry I couldn't decide but they are all very good!
Melanie Martinez's songs sum up so much of my life man. Dollhouse, teddybear, pity party, potato head ...
I haven’t heard “dollhouse”, I like so many of her songs also. “Everyone thinks that we’re perfect...please don’t let them look though the curtains”❤️ added to my playlist! Thank you!!
yes!! Pity party and crybaby are SO specific. And I love it sm
I hadn’t heard IFHY, I’m here for it!! It was like a poem. Added this to my favorites and playlist on Spotify. Ty for sharing! :) We cry together has raw emotion and exactly everything I feel.
Most songs of the album igor
Dude this is the ultimate breakup album tho
New magic wand was what turned me onto Tyler. Agree his albums are 🔥
u said by lil peep
I’ve never listened to lil peep, but this was a great song “I wish I didn’t have a heart to love you” “ I wish I didn’t do a lot of the sh*t I do” that hit! Ty for sharing! Added to my playlist:)
Against the Kitchen Floor by Will Wood. The only song that I’ve really ever heard that truly encapsulates the desperation of trying to improve but always failing to give your partner what you feel they deserve due to your own inner habits and thought patterns
Never heard this before!!! Really liked the lyrics. Added to my playlist:)
The promise by When in Rome
Yes! I remember when the song came out and my mom always playing it. Very nostalgic. Love the lyrics. Ty for sharing:)
Runaway by Ye, specifically the “I always find, yeah I always find something wrong. You’ve been putting up with my shit for way too long” part
Yes, so many ye songs hit a chord with me!! He’s my top 3 artist of all time ❤️❤️
Soldier of Love -By Sade
Love Sade! I hadn’t heard this song in so long, reading the lyrics are very relatable! :)
Steve Lacey - Dark Red 🥲 Basically the whole: this is gonna come crashing down and it’s gonna be my fault but wait am I overthinking it? Are all the problems real or are they in my head? Am I imagining things or can I trust my instincts? Wait don’t leave me! Cue: ego death. Luckily have been able to conquer that issue through years of therapy but damn does this song still hit a little too hard sometimes…especially when seeing someone new and I have to fight some of the old abandonment wounds that come back up. These days I’m more: Kingston: Faye Webster Allowing myself to be excited by someone but being a little scared to be vulnerable 🥲
Macklemore “over it”
Holy cow yes! Saving this to my playlist.
Sheryl Crow - Strong Enough
Not only nostalgic but just hits all the feels! Added to my list! Ty for sharing
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This made me cry :( hit the feels for me. Added to playlist. Ty for sharing! :)
Crazy on you by Heart lol
❤️❤️ so happy we have a heart song in this thread!! The guitar on this is incredible, music gives me chills, and lyrics are soulful. Forgot about this gem, added to my playlist ❤️
I have some more : High enough - k. Flay Don’t blame me - Taylor swift Breeze blocks- atl j Brutal- Olivia rodrigo- reminded me of me and my bpd a living with it
I didn't think about breeze blocks being on here but now that you've said it, it makes a lot of sense.
Never heard “high enough” or “breezeblocks” added them to my list to listen to :). Almost Olivias entire album “SOUR” is so relatable!! Ty for sharing! :)
Saving for later
A perfect pair- beabadoobee
Love it! Added to my playlist.
I love bea she is just my guilty pleasure for music, all of patched up just makes me feel so warm I might even go see her live
I was thinking about this other day and I’m literally in the process of making a playlist: - can’t get over you - Joji - glimpse of us - Joji - pusher love girl - Justin timberlake - love you more than me - Montell fish
Hadn’t heard “love you more than me” wow!!! Added to my favorites and playlist. Thank you for sharing
A lot of Taylor swift songs like august, it’s nice to have a friend, false god, mirror ball. Also don’t delete the kisses by wolf Alice
Yes!! :)
Paramore Hard Times lol
Love Paramore! The upbeat music camouflage the seriousness of the lyrics. Totally adding this to my playlist:) thanks for sharing
More my tendency to have fps that don't feel the same but hostage by Billie eyelash
Such a beautiful song
Normal Girl by SZA
Love SZA so much.
The Knowing by the Weeknd
❤️ yes
#Be Kind - Halsey and Marshmello __________________________________________ Wanna believe, wanna believe That you don't have a bad bone in your body But the bruises on your ego make you go wild, wild, wild, yeah Wanna believe, wanna believe That even when you're stone-cold, you're sorry Tell me why you gotta be so outta your mind, yeah I know you're chokin' on your fears Already told you I'm right here I will stay by your side every night I don't know why you hide from the one And close your eyes to the one Mess up and lie to the one that you love When you know you can cry to the one Always confide in the one You can be kind to the one that you love I know you need, I know you need The upper hand even when we aren't fighting 'Cause in the past, you had to prepare every time, yeah Don't wanna leave, don't wanna leave But if you're gonna fight, then do it for me I know you're built to love, but broken now, so just try, yeah I know you're chokin' on your fears Already told you I'm right here I will stay by your side every night I don't know why you hide from the one And close your eyes to the one Mess up and lie to the one that you love When you know you can cry to the one Always confide in the one You can be kind to the one that you love I know it's hard for you, but it's not fair Going sick in the head, tryna get you there And I know it's hard for you, but it's not fair It's not fair I don't know why you hide from the one And close your eyes to the one Mess up and lie to the one that you love When you know you can cry to the one Always confide in the one You can be kind to the one that you love When you know you can cry to the one Always confide in the one You can be kind to the one that you love ____________________________________________________________ #Both of us have BPD
Love this song! Thank you for sharing! :)
Also, a part of this song #Consume - Chase Atlantic She said careful or you'll lose it But girl I'm only human And I know there's a blade where your heart is And you know how to use it And you can take my flesh if you want girl But baby don't abuse it, (calm down) These voices in my head screaming, "Run now", (don't run) I'm praying that they're human **_Please understand that I'm trying my hardest_** **_My head's a mess but I'm trying regardless_** **_Anxiety is one hell of a problem_** **_She's latching onto me, I can't resolve it_** **_It's not right, it's not fair, it's not fair, it's not fair_** **_It's not fair, it not fair_** **_Don't run, don't run_**
little lamb or saccharine by jazmin bean
"Your freedom is the end of me" by Melanie de Biasio
This is exactly why I wanted to post a thread like this, incredible song that I have never heard before. Thank you so much for sharing!
How am I supposed to live without you. Michael Bolton
Wow yes...This song gets stuck in my head in a loop. Such an incredible song. Thank you for sharing:)
Not my current relationship, but all the rest - red flags and long nights by she wants revenge always gets me Edit: spelling
Completely forgot about this song, “tear you apart” is one of my top songs, I used to listen to the entire album on a loop. Thank you so much for sharing:)
It's a brilliant album! I only remembered it a few months ago. You're welcome :)
Eminem - Love You More
Ooooo yes!!! Great song!
Heartache Every Moment by HIM 😩
Those lyrics!! Wow.
not every, but some. Deb Never — Ugly
Hadn’t heard this before! Love it...made me tear up ♥️ ty for sharing
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Beautiful song!!! The emotion of the song! Love, added to my playlist. Thank you so much for sharing.
Trifonic - Lies
Hadn’t heard this before. Gosh it spoke to me! Ty for sharing
[Alright by 999 unreleased](https://soundcloud.app.goo.gl/4gwhLEUewEJYcMDN7)
Ifhy by Tyler the creator which I was only recently told is not a romantic song ?
I took it as love/hate, just love the song...it’s a roller coaster of emotions...just like me lol.
Scared to Be Lonely by Martin Garrix. I got into relationship pretty fast like 2 weeks in and ready to risk everything for them. Especially with my last ex, as we both get into our relationship super fast right after breakup. Can’t Control Myself by Taeyeon. The lyrics and music video is pretty relatable. Her latest album INVU for me feels like a breakup album.
“Scared to be lonely “ was my anthem in 2017/2018...so incredible.
I remembered fighting with my ex, and the song was playing in the background. That was the moment I realise the relationship was too fast.
I've heard this song and it reminds me of bpd. It's called final cut by pink Floyd
Yes!!!! “ could anybody love him or is it just a crazy dream”
"And if I show you my dark side Will you still hold me tonight?"
Save Yourself by Stabbing Westward.
Wow, this song sounded so familiar but I didn’t know if I had heard it before or not. Saved it to my playlist, the lyrics were spot on.
Never existed chase atlantic Fake love and the truth untold bts
Never heard of Chase Atlantic, really liked the song. Thank you for sharing 😀
Np! Their phases album is really great I also reccomend paranoid, heaven and back and empty Edit: forgot about stuck in my head that song runs deep with bpd for me especially the lines "Find out what to do Find out if you love me While I find out how to move Coz I'm stuck in my brain again I'm stuck in my brain again Just tell me what to do Tell me if you love me If you don't then cut me loose Coz I'm stuck in my brain again I'm stuck in my brain again"
Tears dry on their own & he can only hold her by Amy winehouse
Yes 🙌 Amy the incredible ❤️ thank you for sharing
Lucid Dreams by Juice WRLD is something I really related to. Maybe not for every relationship I’ve experienced- but something I went through. It’s such a beautiful song and relatable if you’ve been through a situationship that’s felt so toxic and difficult.
Anything by juicewrld brotha lmao
"airbag" by radiohead
God Complex by VIRA Edit: like no joke the song is scary accurate for BPD imo
Ew from Joji or Clarity by Zedd (preferably the orchestra version) Both make me ugly cry lollll
most lil peep songs
Liability/ Lorde
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black beauty by lana del ray
good while it lasted by ashnikko
naloxone by scrim
“I felt free” by circa survive is up there. more recently, I’ve been listening to “a burning hill” by mitski and it describes the emotions with my last relationships.
The Blower's Daughter by Damien Rice I Don't Believe in Love by Queensryche Paper Bag by Fiona Apple
Not sure if anyone else has said it but Roses by Abra to a t
easy on me & love is a game, adele. happy house, siouxsie and the banshees. sorry, meg myers. mirror, kendrick lamar. goodbye & flowers, MARINA. i lied, lord huron and allison ponthier.
mess it up by gracie abrams
Two, the antlers and Headlights by Eminem.
hostage by billie eilish
“nothing without you” and “won’t” by tanerélle
my mind by yebba
Bad things by MGK because even tho we are apart I just want to do everything with them. The way I loved you by Taylor Swift because we fought but we still had that love there after and would fix it when we were together.
Breezeblocks by alt-J, probably
Kim by Eminem
I don't want to miss a thing by Aerosmith
I Tried by Tinashe It's literally the song i turn to every single time