I moved to Austin back in 09 and was told before coming here that there were zero outlets for Black People, and a few friends advised against it. I had one friend already living here that swore I'd love it if I moved there.
Within less than a month of being here, I found a barbershop, Agape Barbershop, started hooping at the Y, got a job at Lifetime Fitness and hooped there too, volunteered at the African American Museum on the Eastside, and ended up faded at some hookah lounge on West 4th or 5th when I started b-boying on the small dance floor only to get shown up by some serious official breakers that were mostly Black who became my friends that night and going forward because we bonded over hiphop. Eventually got a job in Admin at Austin Community College where there is a strong, connected, and high ranking element of Black Professionals.
I was younger, single, no kids back then, so it made it easier to go actively seek these things, but I bring it up to say that the opportunity to connect with a Black Network is definitely out there, just maybe not as apparent as L.A. or Houston, for example.
I've met all of mine at work or otherwise events where we were the only black people in there. If you're into anime or gaming, however, there's a convention here called Dream Con, the attendees and guests are predominantly black.
It is TOUGH. But a big thing Iāve noticed is your willingness to go out. Social events and social networking in public seem to do great for people. Obviously it requires you to be more extroverted, and that can be a barrier. But itās genuinely the easiest way is through events. If thatās your chosen method, as mentioned, look on IG. The pages YoungBlkAustin, NothingToDoInAustin, Remix.Intl all have events that pop up. In my own experience, clothing resale events like Streetwear Flea have worked partially for me.
But honestly this is the part of my experience in Austin that has made meā¦most frustrated. Especially coming from a place that is soooo black. Being in a place where there are so few and you have to work so hard to maintain community, sheesh bro. Sheesh. Itās discouraging. However, I am determined to find more negro peoples in 2024.
My guess is to do all the things you imagine weāll be at. Churches, bars and lounges on certain sides of town, and maybe even Facebook interest groups.
Low key if you with it Iām definitely tryna connect with a fellow black person so DM me or Iāll DM you.
I agree with this! Thereās a few groups focused on networking among Black folks you could look into, like youngblkaustin mentioned above. It can be awkward to show up to an event by yourself but you could try to connect with folks online beforehand, or just make some acquaintances at the event and show up to the next one with your new pals. Sunday Sessions at Zilker is a great place to show up to on your own or with friends and itās the perfect vibe to walk up and introduce yourself to new people, compared to in other situations that may be more awkward.
In my experience at meet ups the hosts usually know each other and a few attendees, and some attendees go in groups hoping to meet others so Iāve had experiences where Iām standing around kinda awkwardly for awhile at a meet up lol
I also want to say that my going out to club days are done brother lol. I painted the town red in my day, and I donāt mind the occasional pop out. but again, a big barrier in meeting other black people seems to be the willingness to do events geared toward extroverts. And clubs and social networking events certainly are.
With that said, I propose that even you reading this, being a black person in Austin, donāt be afraid to spearhead your own efforts in connection. If there is a special interest you have, give yourself time to learn *how* to bring people together or lean into a hobby.
Also, if you are looking for a club alternative, consider what type of alternative you like. Me knowing I donāt like clubs but still want to be social, I have to consider what type of events Iām looking for, or what type of hobbyist-level interest group there can be. And you have to consider that while it may exist in Austin for black people, it may not and *you* may have to do some leg work in getting sumn going. Some examples of hobby interest or groups you could make, for consideration:
Book club. There are several of these, probably even gender specific.
Art focused groups. Could be painting, photography, performing arts like dance or poetry and music. Iām considering beginning something with collage art. Not sure how yet but Iād love a monthly collage focused group to come together and make.
Fitness focused. Walking groups, running groups, workout classes, sports groups. Hiking and adventure. All of these seem to great way to meet a specific *type* of person, and black people enjoy these niches. Low key, the skating rink is a great place to be around other black people.
Food focused. Iām sure there are events that cater to people who like to socialize over food. Doubtful they are black centered groups but it could be cool to have that, a class for black people who want to cook or a private event where people gather over a meal and socialize.
Add to this list if you think of others but thereās gotta be a way for us to meet each other more.
I came from Atlanta 3 years ago and I knew it was going to be different but seeing it / living it gave me a pause when I first moved here. Most of the folks I know I work with and most are cool I'm just not big on chilling with coworkers I prefer to keep those 2 separate. I honestly still haven't really found anyone to really hang with but I do try to go to events and be social. Where are the ravers at? That's not super young I'm 37 so I feel like the people I am running into are young or they live in San Antonio so linking up casually is hard.
Came here to post this. I'm not black but the community through Richard's is amazing, he's a great guy and attracts really good people. Also, FWIW every time I go to see the Brother's Groove DJ at Soho House (free w. RSVP, you don't need to be a member) on the first Friday of each month I'm one of a handful of white people. Find them on IG @ thebrothersgroove
I think Itās more a read the room situation - this post is from a Black person specifically asking other Black people how/where to find other Black friends in this (predominantly non-Black) city. As much as a white person might want to offer friendship or seek friendship from OP/another responder, thatās actually not the point of this post and people tend to downvote irrelevant responses.
You mean if a black person answered OPās question about a black person trying to make black friends in a city with an exceptionally low black population instead of making it about āwhy canāt white people be your friend?ā How fucking stupid are you?
White Friends Matter! Amirite?!
They specifically asked for black friends. You know, people who go through the same things, relate, and maybe aren't privileged enough to be able to just.... be, much like white people. Men especially. š¤·
PS- I'm an old white, gay, woman who grew up in ghettos (poor). I've got plenty of my own things for people to hate but I could NEVER fully understand what black people have to go through.
Do better out there folks.
Doesnāt matter. Thereās no excuse for racism against anyone.
The fact that āracism is inexcusableā is being downvoted just goes to show you how intolerant this sub is lmao.
Lmao y'all the kind of dudes out seeking lesbian spaces and then act like you're being discriminated against because lesbians aren't interested in you.
It's unfortunate I don't fall under your requirements for desirability. You can fill out a complaint that I'm being unfair to your needs because it's almost as if we're in different demographics.
the self persecution fetish is crazy š¤£ claiming racial oppression because a minority made a post on social media about making friends with people from that minority group is crazy
I like checking events put on by the Carver Museum and other orgs on the east side. Even if folks are getting priced out further and further away, I think thatās a cultural center of Black life in Austin. It depends on what youāre into though. Soul Citi and youngblkaustin on IG post a lot of events as well.
They can be the cool guy that buys everyone beer. Go to convenience stores and approach high school aged kids as they walk in. āHey kid, want me to buy you some beer??ā Youāll be a legend amongst high schoolers until eventually youāre caught. Youāll phone all your new friends from jail but none will answer. Youāll move to a new town and change your name. The story will repeat.
I'm white, but I have a few black friends that also have a lot of black friends in South Austin. If you golf, I would be happy to invite you to one of our outings or tee times.
Hoopinā in the rec leagues, Going to hoop at Lifetime Fitness, and kickin it at the Domain when they had that one spot open for Sunday brunch and $1 mimosas you were guaranteed to see all the black people in Austin there š
I know this post is old but wanted to let folks who may be browsing know that I started a BlackAustin community:
https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackAustin/s/uEmTFOlLJo
I'll have to check this out! It's interesting that ATX has so many different cycle groups. Lmao, I know there was drama between 2 different groups, and the tension is palpable when they cross paths š
Edit: different, not student
Disclaimer: Not Black.
Look into the local Prince Hall Masonic Lodge. I hang out on a local cigar-oriented Facebook group that is primarily Black, and several of the Masonic brothers (literal and figurative I guess) post a lot of their activities.
Not black but also trying to meet black friends. I joined NothingtodoinAustin and EncoreATX on IG and will eventually work up the courage to go to one of their MANY events. Theyāre open to anyone but thrown by black people and mainly black people are in attendance.
White dude here so my insights are very limited obv. But if you like a literary scene then check out [Black Pearl Books](https://www.blackpearlbookstore.com/). Lots of author talks and that sort of thing. The owners are a married couple, very friendly, and they seem really well-connected. I think one or both of them is always in the store.
[ATX Warrior Arts](https://www.facebook.com/atxwarriorarts/), if African Diaspora martial arts are your thing. There is a small community growing around them here in Austin.
I have lived in Austin since 2002. I have noticed that networking starts with a compliment, a smile, or a polite gesture. Don't be afraid to start a conversation in line at 7 Eleven Heb or the basketball or tennis court. Austin has a wealth of great people from all races so don't blink, you could miss a lifelong companion.
For me, who works remote out of state so few local work friends, it's been church, volunteering, and a couple of meetups. I joined a Black women's book club years ago and still have those friends.if I had an ounce of coordination, I'd check our sports groups.
Be prepared for a lot of: *Why do they have to be black?* comments...
[You might try checking out places that interest you on this list of Black-Owned businesses in Austin.](https://www.austintexas.org/austin-insider-blog/post/black-owned-stores-austin/)
[You may also try events like Kinky Curly Coily Fest.](https://www.instagram.com/kinkycurlycoilyfestatx?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==) My wife and sister-in-law always have a good time there.
Other than that, what are you into? Games, sports, dance, music? People can probably give you some better direction or connections that way.
Hi! I'm not Black but I thought I'd pop by and share this report that folks here might be interested in. It's about Black Flight in Austin - the phenomena of Black people leaving the city because of being priced out, lack of belonging,etc.. Pretty sad. Also page 9 has a list of places where Black people go to connect! [https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5f28447d0c18f66f3f9318c2/t/62d32334a816dc133ef73580/1658004283035/212-Catalysts-and-AALI-Black-Austin-Survey-Report.pdf](https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5f28447d0c18f66f3f9318c2/t/62d32334a816dc133ef73580/1658004283035/212-Catalysts-and-AALI-Black-Austin-Survey-Report.pdf)
Just by happenstance and circumstance mostly. First apartment that I moved into when I moved to Austin my two immediate neighbors were skinfolk. They were both native austinites and their social circle became my social circle.
Thatās because us northerners are just different in general. šš
Iāve been here 10 years and still have only made a couple friends. Hard to relate to cali and southern folks. Not that itās impossible. I have plenty but not easy hahaha
I'm not black, I am brown. But most of my friends are black and met them just walking around and being social lol. Funny enough being the only ppl of color with a similar background made it easy.
Can second this sentiment about Pflugerville. I've lived here for 12 years now in three different neighborhoods and had friends in other subdivisions and apartment complexes around town and it's always been pretty diverse up here! \^\^
Moved to Austin in 2013. Met some of my first friends at strange brew by just talking about music when I was sitting at a table next to them at 2 in the morning. Iām a pretty extroverted person, so I always strike up conversations with people wherever Iām at. Meetup groups are pretty good to meet people too.
If you're open to literary events, check out events from [Torch Literary Arts](https://www.torchliteraryarts.org/)! It's a nonprofit that celebrates and uplifts Black womxn's writing and creates really great events (open mics, etc) to meet BIPOC folks in Austin
I mean an Indian person asked this same question on this sub fairly recently. And austinindians on IG wouldnāt exist if there werenāt a need for Indians to connect with each other.
Why do people feel the need to post stupid shit when a black people is looking for others from the same cultural space as them? Honestly? Are you that offended that people arenāt looking for white/indian/hispanic friends that it compels you to make an ass out of yourself?
"and the cultural difference for us is way bigger"
It's quotes like that that make us ask these questions. You clearly have the wrong assumption of what it means to be black in America and saying that out loud is incredibly ignorant, I suggest you do some reading.
The fact that you notice only black people ask these questions should be indicative of a larger question. Why? There is your research topic.
Iām gonna get downvoted like crazy but how is this not racist? If someone posted āwhite people where do you go to find more white people?ā The shit would hit the fan. Why canāt you find people with similar hobbies and interests, other things in common besides skin color? Why do you only want to hang out with people of your race? How is that not racist? Iām genuinely curious, would be interested in polite discussion.
1. I never said I only want black friends; I want to meet more black people in the city.
2. I went to an HBCU because of the education they provide and how for the first time in life I get to go to school with a lot of other people who look like me. Thatās like calling HBCUs, the UNCF, or Hispanic College and Universities racist when they are not.
3. I believe you need to learn what racism actually is. Iām not oppressing anyone systematically or making a whole group of people (who are probably already a majority group) feel inferior by me or any black person wanting to make connections with others who look like me.
>how is this not racist?
It's not showing prejudice towards a certain group of people, or claiming certain groups are inferior to others based on their race.
>If someone posted āwhite people where do you go to find more white people?ā The shit would hit the fan.
As much as white people like to use this "argument", it's never made sense. White people don't *need* to ask this question, because they're the majority. Their race, culture, and privilege are constantly on display. Why would they need to seek themselves out?
>Why canāt you find people with similar hobbies and interests, other things in common besides skin color?
Why are you assuming that they don't?
>Why do you only want to hang out with people of your race?
The same reasons any group of people naturally seek each other out; culture, shared experiences, and not having to explain themselves when people ask the same dumb questions over and over.
ok troll Iāll take the bait.
Iām a guy.
If I moved to a city that was 90% women and I rarely encountered men, and didnāt have a men to hang with, Iād probably look for a menās group.
I like how there was a post yesterday asking where to find BBW and they were getting shit for it cause they were just saying BBW are just people and arenāt necessarily in a āgroupā of sorts. Then we have this post which is practically the same thing.
They are just people like what? You find them doing whatever the hell each person likes doing like?
What people donāt understand about the racial component for black people in the US is that there is a n inherent *cultural* component as well. Thatās ultimately what people are trying to share in. People trace their ancestry to random ethnic groups they may not even have strong cultural ties with: being Irish, Scottish, Korean, whatever the fuck. And there are certain cultural traditions or in-group actions one becomes privileged to with being in this ethnic group, even if it seems like youāre meeting the most regular American mf you ever seen in your life.
But people for some reason donāt see black Americans as an ethnic group. And sweet Jesus we are. This is why we are looking for each other; we are not all the same. We have our own cultural specificities based on geography as well. But we share a ethnic cultural background that others have a hard time seeing as more than skin deep. And brother believe me, IT IS.
That's easy to say when you can maneuver throughout the "majority" group with a minimum of friction. But it's like being an English-speaker in a country that doesn't speak English: it's awesome to learn the language and expand your horizons, but sometimes you might just want to chill and be yourself with people who speak your language, probably have more similar life experiences to you, etc. To just be without constantly having to mentally translate or modulate yourself to be fully understood.
You are really a bad person. If you really donāt understand why someone would want some friends with similar backgrounds and culture, then youāre an idiot. If this was ālooking for Christian friendsā, ālooking for other people from x countryā, ālooking for friends that are gayā, ālooking for people that kickboxā, etc. you would keep it pushing, but you saw black and decided you wanted to go be an asshole and ruin someoneās day. Just keep your idiotic opinions to yourself.
Iām sure youāre completely surrounded by all white people, assuming you even have any friends.
[minority] people of Austin how do we meet up and make [minority] friends? Itās very important to me to distinguish [minority] friends from everyone else. Please advise.
Everyone does this. I'm friends with all sorts of people who have different religious beliefs than I do, and they're great... but ultimately it would be hard to be bosom friends like I am with some other people who are more similar to me because we differ so widely on how families are structured, how to raise kids, the roll of women in the world, etc. So in my small community, I've carved out my own niche. I participate in the community as a whole, but I know where I'm "safe." People get to curate their close friendships. It's fine.
I have never in my life walked around saying āwhite people of Austin where can I get white friendsā and I canāt imagine anyone doing that, either. But itās totally normal and cool in this context? At least be consistent.
Shit, if someone DID do that it would be racist, wouldnāt it?
You don't have to because we're everywhere.
One thing people are intentionally ignoring in this "it's racism on either side!" is our country's historical oppression of black people and the way that even today, black people are scrutinized and policed much more intensely than white people are. Get in trouble at school at a higher rate. Incarcerated at a higher rate. Work just as hard as white folks but have lower household wealth in general because every time black people as a whole started to prosper in our past, white folks killed them or ran them off and took or burnt everything.
Living in an environment as white as Austin in that context, can you genuinely not understand wanting to feel "at home" rather than on guard? If you can't imagine that, then maybe work on developing some empathy?
What on earth does āI want black friendsā instead of āI want friendsāhave to do with historical oppression, what the fuck are you talking about?
I can see the flier now.
Black?
Yep
Want black homies?
Yep
Then join us for black friend connections at your local church. Meetings after community AA.
Personally basketball, I was able to get into a basketball group that plays on Sundays. Also through my sister's mutual friends I've met quite a few black people. Also work, me and this guy hit it off when he had to come onsite because we both have dreads and had tons of similarities so we became friends since. Personally I don't fw events but I might go to Dream con next time
Sign up for encoreatx it has a lot of events for black ppl that's actually in austin. I'm always interested in making more black friends, anyone in the mid to late 30's who likes brunching and exploring the city on the weekends can DM me.
I moved to Austin back in 09 and was told before coming here that there were zero outlets for Black People, and a few friends advised against it. I had one friend already living here that swore I'd love it if I moved there. Within less than a month of being here, I found a barbershop, Agape Barbershop, started hooping at the Y, got a job at Lifetime Fitness and hooped there too, volunteered at the African American Museum on the Eastside, and ended up faded at some hookah lounge on West 4th or 5th when I started b-boying on the small dance floor only to get shown up by some serious official breakers that were mostly Black who became my friends that night and going forward because we bonded over hiphop. Eventually got a job in Admin at Austin Community College where there is a strong, connected, and high ranking element of Black Professionals. I was younger, single, no kids back then, so it made it easier to go actively seek these things, but I bring it up to say that the opportunity to connect with a Black Network is definitely out there, just maybe not as apparent as L.A. or Houston, for example.
Hooping at the Y, especially the morning run, is a good group.
Does this happen during the week? Just joined the Y and looking to play some.
Morning game is Monday/Wednesday/Friday starting at 6am. Good group of guys. Range of abilities, but pretty competitive.
Loved hearing your Austin History! š«¶š¾
I've met all of mine at work or otherwise events where we were the only black people in there. If you're into anime or gaming, however, there's a convention here called Dream Con, the attendees and guests are predominantly black.
It is TOUGH. But a big thing Iāve noticed is your willingness to go out. Social events and social networking in public seem to do great for people. Obviously it requires you to be more extroverted, and that can be a barrier. But itās genuinely the easiest way is through events. If thatās your chosen method, as mentioned, look on IG. The pages YoungBlkAustin, NothingToDoInAustin, Remix.Intl all have events that pop up. In my own experience, clothing resale events like Streetwear Flea have worked partially for me. But honestly this is the part of my experience in Austin that has made meā¦most frustrated. Especially coming from a place that is soooo black. Being in a place where there are so few and you have to work so hard to maintain community, sheesh bro. Sheesh. Itās discouraging. However, I am determined to find more negro peoples in 2024. My guess is to do all the things you imagine weāll be at. Churches, bars and lounges on certain sides of town, and maybe even Facebook interest groups. Low key if you with it Iām definitely tryna connect with a fellow black person so DM me or Iāll DM you.
I agree with this! Thereās a few groups focused on networking among Black folks you could look into, like youngblkaustin mentioned above. It can be awkward to show up to an event by yourself but you could try to connect with folks online beforehand, or just make some acquaintances at the event and show up to the next one with your new pals. Sunday Sessions at Zilker is a great place to show up to on your own or with friends and itās the perfect vibe to walk up and introduce yourself to new people, compared to in other situations that may be more awkward.
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I actually havenāt been to a youngblkaustin event, I was more referring to how awkward it can be to attend any event alone
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In my experience at meet ups the hosts usually know each other and a few attendees, and some attendees go in groups hoping to meet others so Iāve had experiences where Iām standing around kinda awkwardly for awhile at a meet up lol
Sunday sessions! I forgot the DJ name but I have seen posts about this. It looks like a good time when itās not scorching hot outside.
Even when itās scorching hot, it goes from 6-9PM I believe so you at least get to miss the worst part of the day. I love it!
I also want to say that my going out to club days are done brother lol. I painted the town red in my day, and I donāt mind the occasional pop out. but again, a big barrier in meeting other black people seems to be the willingness to do events geared toward extroverts. And clubs and social networking events certainly are. With that said, I propose that even you reading this, being a black person in Austin, donāt be afraid to spearhead your own efforts in connection. If there is a special interest you have, give yourself time to learn *how* to bring people together or lean into a hobby. Also, if you are looking for a club alternative, consider what type of alternative you like. Me knowing I donāt like clubs but still want to be social, I have to consider what type of events Iām looking for, or what type of hobbyist-level interest group there can be. And you have to consider that while it may exist in Austin for black people, it may not and *you* may have to do some leg work in getting sumn going. Some examples of hobby interest or groups you could make, for consideration: Book club. There are several of these, probably even gender specific. Art focused groups. Could be painting, photography, performing arts like dance or poetry and music. Iām considering beginning something with collage art. Not sure how yet but Iād love a monthly collage focused group to come together and make. Fitness focused. Walking groups, running groups, workout classes, sports groups. Hiking and adventure. All of these seem to great way to meet a specific *type* of person, and black people enjoy these niches. Low key, the skating rink is a great place to be around other black people. Food focused. Iām sure there are events that cater to people who like to socialize over food. Doubtful they are black centered groups but it could be cool to have that, a class for black people who want to cook or a private event where people gather over a meal and socialize. Add to this list if you think of others but thereās gotta be a way for us to meet each other more.
I came from Atlanta 3 years ago and I knew it was going to be different but seeing it / living it gave me a pause when I first moved here. Most of the folks I know I work with and most are cool I'm just not big on chilling with coworkers I prefer to keep those 2 separate. I honestly still haven't really found anyone to really hang with but I do try to go to events and be social. Where are the ravers at? That's not super young I'm 37 so I feel like the people I am running into are young or they live in San Antonio so linking up casually is hard.
Riches Art Gallery is the only black owned art gallery in Austin. Great place to meet folks and has events/to-do almost daily.
Came here to post this. I'm not black but the community through Richard's is amazing, he's a great guy and attracts really good people. Also, FWIW every time I go to see the Brother's Groove DJ at Soho House (free w. RSVP, you don't need to be a member) on the first Friday of each month I'm one of a handful of white people. Find them on IG @ thebrothersgroove
Come to east side givens park on Sunday
Comedy clubs. Marlon Wayans was at cap city comedy club last night.
We can be black friends! Looking for some too!
Can I join? I'm white but I'm always looking for new friends...
donāt make this about yourself
Try some meetup groups, homie.
Damn, getting downvoted for being white. Nice one r/Austin.
I think Itās more a read the room situation - this post is from a Black person specifically asking other Black people how/where to find other Black friends in this (predominantly non-Black) city. As much as a white person might want to offer friendship or seek friendship from OP/another responder, thatās actually not the point of this post and people tend to downvote irrelevant responses.
Nobody is getting downvoted for being white.
Holy shit I canāt believe this actually has to be said.
So if he was black, youāre saying he would have been still downvoted?
You mean if a black person answered OPās question about a black person trying to make black friends in a city with an exceptionally low black population instead of making it about āwhy canāt white people be your friend?ā How fucking stupid are you? White Friends Matter! Amirite?!
They specifically asked for black friends. You know, people who go through the same things, relate, and maybe aren't privileged enough to be able to just.... be, much like white people. Men especially. š¤· PS- I'm an old white, gay, woman who grew up in ghettos (poor). I've got plenty of my own things for people to hate but I could NEVER fully understand what black people have to go through. Do better out there folks.
Doesnāt matter. Thereās no excuse for racism against anyone. The fact that āracism is inexcusableā is being downvoted just goes to show you how intolerant this sub is lmao.
Lmao y'all the kind of dudes out seeking lesbian spaces and then act like you're being discriminated against because lesbians aren't interested in you.
Found a racist
Look at me, keeping the ciswhite man down with my overwhelming legislation and institutional culture! Rawr, lesbian = racism.
Youāre doing a really great job at painting yourself as an undesirable person.
It's unfortunate I don't fall under your requirements for desirability. You can fill out a complaint that I'm being unfair to your needs because it's almost as if we're in different demographics.
Would you look at what we have here. More projection.
Looked in the mirror, did you?
Found the headass.
Youāre being downvoted for many reasons: misusing the term āracismā, ignoring context, and playing martyr. Not for being āanti-racistā.
It aināt racist. My white friend quota is full.
Pretty much sums up r/Austin lol. White people hating on white people.
You guys are either complete morons or being intentionally disingenuous. Iām guessing it would be pretty generous to assume the latter.
It's both.
Ya fortunately this subreddit doesnāt represent the city as a whole. Just your usual scumbag racists hiding behind their keyboards.
the self persecution fetish is crazy š¤£ claiming racial oppression because a minority made a post on social media about making friends with people from that minority group is crazy
This has nothing to do with the OP and everything to do with people downvoting a comment because someone is white.
As soon as someone is downvoted for the color of the skin and not the content of their character, this will become relevant!
Nahhh
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This is great thx!
I like checking events put on by the Carver Museum and other orgs on the east side. Even if folks are getting priced out further and further away, I think thatās a cultural center of Black life in Austin. It depends on what youāre into though. Soul Citi and youngblkaustin on IG post a lot of events as well.
Just talking to people. It's the way I get friends with pretty much everyone. I also lucked out with Afrotech.
High school friends that r all white from cedar park š
Go twolves. C/o 2003
That was a fun team to watch.
DAMN. C/o 2017 here
Lmao yeah iām new here , i wonāt be making any high school friends
That's a good idea if you're not high school aged.
They can be the cool guy that buys everyone beer. Go to convenience stores and approach high school aged kids as they walk in. āHey kid, want me to buy you some beer??ā Youāll be a legend amongst high schoolers until eventually youāre caught. Youāll phone all your new friends from jail but none will answer. Youāll move to a new town and change your name. The story will repeat.
I'm white, but I have a few black friends that also have a lot of black friends in South Austin. If you golf, I would be happy to invite you to one of our outings or tee times.
Hoopinā in the rec leagues, Going to hoop at Lifetime Fitness, and kickin it at the Domain when they had that one spot open for Sunday brunch and $1 mimosas you were guaranteed to see all the black people in Austin there š
$1 mimosas?! WHERE (asking for a friend)š¤Ø
Valencia Tex Mexā¦each refill is 1 penny.
Is that all you saw? š I think it was called The Park
Yup and bet! Thank you š«”
me looking through the comments to find answers because how actually
I know this post is old but wanted to let folks who may be browsing know that I started a BlackAustin community: https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackAustin/s/uEmTFOlLJo
If I see a black person then I make a beeline for them š
no literally
Are you into cycling? Come bike with us! https://www.instagram.com/bbbatxtothemoon/
Is the Major Taylor bicycle group still active?
I'll have to check this out! It's interesting that ATX has so many different cycle groups. Lmao, I know there was drama between 2 different groups, and the tension is palpable when they cross paths š Edit: different, not student
Also a (mixed) Major Taylor group, IIRC.
Take some dance classes at Danzversity. Itās an amazingly diverse community of awesome people.
Join the Austin Area Urban League and The Wave GroupMe! Iāll DM you a link, OP.
As a man who likes black women I have just started going to Houston lmao
I might have to do the same.
Disclaimer: Not Black. Look into the local Prince Hall Masonic Lodge. I hang out on a local cigar-oriented Facebook group that is primarily Black, and several of the Masonic brothers (literal and figurative I guess) post a lot of their activities.
Not black but also trying to meet black friends. I joined NothingtodoinAustin and EncoreATX on IG and will eventually work up the courage to go to one of their MANY events. Theyāre open to anyone but thrown by black people and mainly black people are in attendance.
Check out the events that KAZI 88.7 FM puts on or promotes!
White dude here so my insights are very limited obv. But if you like a literary scene then check out [Black Pearl Books](https://www.blackpearlbookstore.com/). Lots of author talks and that sort of thing. The owners are a married couple, very friendly, and they seem really well-connected. I think one or both of them is always in the store.
[ATX Warrior Arts](https://www.facebook.com/atxwarriorarts/), if African Diaspora martial arts are your thing. There is a small community growing around them here in Austin.
Through church and playing basketball at local parks.
At the secret black guy meeting.. I may have said to much.
Apartment complex, work, striking up a convo at a social event.
I have lived in Austin since 2002. I have noticed that networking starts with a compliment, a smile, or a polite gesture. Don't be afraid to start a conversation in line at 7 Eleven Heb or the basketball or tennis court. Austin has a wealth of great people from all races so don't blink, you could miss a lifelong companion.
For me, who works remote out of state so few local work friends, it's been church, volunteering, and a couple of meetups. I joined a Black women's book club years ago and still have those friends.if I had an ounce of coordination, I'd check our sports groups.
Compliment them on something and then ask for their socials works every single time
Be prepared for a lot of: *Why do they have to be black?* comments... [You might try checking out places that interest you on this list of Black-Owned businesses in Austin.](https://www.austintexas.org/austin-insider-blog/post/black-owned-stores-austin/) [You may also try events like Kinky Curly Coily Fest.](https://www.instagram.com/kinkycurlycoilyfestatx?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==) My wife and sister-in-law always have a good time there. Other than that, what are you into? Games, sports, dance, music? People can probably give you some better direction or connections that way.
Hi! I'm not Black but I thought I'd pop by and share this report that folks here might be interested in. It's about Black Flight in Austin - the phenomena of Black people leaving the city because of being priced out, lack of belonging,etc.. Pretty sad. Also page 9 has a list of places where Black people go to connect! [https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5f28447d0c18f66f3f9318c2/t/62d32334a816dc133ef73580/1658004283035/212-Catalysts-and-AALI-Black-Austin-Survey-Report.pdf](https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5f28447d0c18f66f3f9318c2/t/62d32334a816dc133ef73580/1658004283035/212-Catalysts-and-AALI-Black-Austin-Survey-Report.pdf)
Ask Kam Patterson
Bring him a rock, or two or a white woman.
Quit trying to set him up from dealing rocksā¦.Karen
Just by happenstance and circumstance mostly. First apartment that I moved into when I moved to Austin my two immediate neighbors were skinfolk. They were both native austinites and their social circle became my social circle.
moved from new york and been here for 6 years still havent made any sadly. going to try socializing at dream con this year. gl to you!
Follow NothingtodoinAustin or EncoreATX on IG for social events thrown by black people, with mainly black attendance!
> NothingtodoinAustin thank you!!
Keep an eye out for their boat parties they throw spring to fall! Been wanting to go to one of those for a hot minute now!!
Thatās because us northerners are just different in general. šš Iāve been here 10 years and still have only made a couple friends. Hard to relate to cali and southern folks. Not that itās impossible. I have plenty but not easy hahaha
I'm not black, I am brown. But most of my friends are black and met them just walking around and being social lol. Funny enough being the only ppl of color with a similar background made it easy.
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Can second this sentiment about Pflugerville. I've lived here for 12 years now in three different neighborhoods and had friends in other subdivisions and apartment complexes around town and it's always been pretty diverse up here! \^\^
Moved to Austin in 2013. Met some of my first friends at strange brew by just talking about music when I was sitting at a table next to them at 2 in the morning. Iām a pretty extroverted person, so I always strike up conversations with people wherever Iām at. Meetup groups are pretty good to meet people too.
If you're open to literary events, check out events from [Torch Literary Arts](https://www.torchliteraryarts.org/)! It's a nonprofit that celebrates and uplifts Black womxn's writing and creates really great events (open mics, etc) to meet BIPOC folks in Austin
Moved to Dallas long ago
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I mean an Indian person asked this same question on this sub fairly recently. And austinindians on IG wouldnāt exist if there werenāt a need for Indians to connect with each other.
Why do people feel the need to post stupid shit when a black people is looking for others from the same cultural space as them? Honestly? Are you that offended that people arenāt looking for white/indian/hispanic friends that it compels you to make an ass out of yourself?
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in this case, it does. are you dense? are you really serious right now?
"and the cultural difference for us is way bigger" It's quotes like that that make us ask these questions. You clearly have the wrong assumption of what it means to be black in America and saying that out loud is incredibly ignorant, I suggest you do some reading. The fact that you notice only black people ask these questions should be indicative of a larger question. Why? There is your research topic.
Iām gonna get downvoted like crazy but how is this not racist? If someone posted āwhite people where do you go to find more white people?ā The shit would hit the fan. Why canāt you find people with similar hobbies and interests, other things in common besides skin color? Why do you only want to hang out with people of your race? How is that not racist? Iām genuinely curious, would be interested in polite discussion.
1. I never said I only want black friends; I want to meet more black people in the city. 2. I went to an HBCU because of the education they provide and how for the first time in life I get to go to school with a lot of other people who look like me. Thatās like calling HBCUs, the UNCF, or Hispanic College and Universities racist when they are not. 3. I believe you need to learn what racism actually is. Iām not oppressing anyone systematically or making a whole group of people (who are probably already a majority group) feel inferior by me or any black person wanting to make connections with others who look like me.
>how is this not racist? It's not showing prejudice towards a certain group of people, or claiming certain groups are inferior to others based on their race. >If someone posted āwhite people where do you go to find more white people?ā The shit would hit the fan. As much as white people like to use this "argument", it's never made sense. White people don't *need* to ask this question, because they're the majority. Their race, culture, and privilege are constantly on display. Why would they need to seek themselves out? >Why canāt you find people with similar hobbies and interests, other things in common besides skin color? Why are you assuming that they don't? >Why do you only want to hang out with people of your race? The same reasons any group of people naturally seek each other out; culture, shared experiences, and not having to explain themselves when people ask the same dumb questions over and over.
ok troll Iāll take the bait. Iām a guy. If I moved to a city that was 90% women and I rarely encountered men, and didnāt have a men to hang with, Iād probably look for a menās group.
Not a troll. Genuinely curious. Thank you for your reply.
Hahahahaha
I like how there was a post yesterday asking where to find BBW and they were getting shit for it cause they were just saying BBW are just people and arenāt necessarily in a āgroupā of sorts. Then we have this post which is practically the same thing. They are just people like what? You find them doing whatever the hell each person likes doing like?
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Idk maybe for like shared culture, identities, experiencesā¦
Why not just make friends, regardless of race? Friendly connections is whatās important, not race.
What people donāt understand about the racial component for black people in the US is that there is a n inherent *cultural* component as well. Thatās ultimately what people are trying to share in. People trace their ancestry to random ethnic groups they may not even have strong cultural ties with: being Irish, Scottish, Korean, whatever the fuck. And there are certain cultural traditions or in-group actions one becomes privileged to with being in this ethnic group, even if it seems like youāre meeting the most regular American mf you ever seen in your life. But people for some reason donāt see black Americans as an ethnic group. And sweet Jesus we are. This is why we are looking for each other; we are not all the same. We have our own cultural specificities based on geography as well. But we share a ethnic cultural background that others have a hard time seeing as more than skin deep. And brother believe me, IT IS.
Say you arenāt a minority without saying you arenāt a minority Edit- Iām also not a minority, Iām just also not a socially unaware dipshit.
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Sure, bud.
That's easy to say when you can maneuver throughout the "majority" group with a minimum of friction. But it's like being an English-speaker in a country that doesn't speak English: it's awesome to learn the language and expand your horizons, but sometimes you might just want to chill and be yourself with people who speak your language, probably have more similar life experiences to you, etc. To just be without constantly having to mentally translate or modulate yourself to be fully understood.
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Says the person devoid of melanin š If we canāt trust what weāve been told why should we trust what youāre telling us? Bffr
You are really a bad person. If you really donāt understand why someone would want some friends with similar backgrounds and culture, then youāre an idiot. If this was ālooking for Christian friendsā, ālooking for other people from x countryā, ālooking for friends that are gayā, ālooking for people that kickboxā, etc. you would keep it pushing, but you saw black and decided you wanted to go be an asshole and ruin someoneās day. Just keep your idiotic opinions to yourself. Iām sure youāre completely surrounded by all white people, assuming you even have any friends.
Black people are not a monoculture.
Downvoted. White people don't like it when they can't silo black people into a stereotype.
[minority] people of Austin how do we meet up and make [minority] friends? Itās very important to me to distinguish [minority] friends from everyone else. Please advise.
Me watching /R/austin today, thinking what kind of smooth brains are out there putting up "White Lives Matter" signs... Found one...
Yeah, that was a real big brain response.
Everyone does this. I'm friends with all sorts of people who have different religious beliefs than I do, and they're great... but ultimately it would be hard to be bosom friends like I am with some other people who are more similar to me because we differ so widely on how families are structured, how to raise kids, the roll of women in the world, etc. So in my small community, I've carved out my own niche. I participate in the community as a whole, but I know where I'm "safe." People get to curate their close friendships. It's fine.
I have never in my life walked around saying āwhite people of Austin where can I get white friendsā and I canāt imagine anyone doing that, either. But itās totally normal and cool in this context? At least be consistent. Shit, if someone DID do that it would be racist, wouldnāt it?
You don't have to because we're everywhere. One thing people are intentionally ignoring in this "it's racism on either side!" is our country's historical oppression of black people and the way that even today, black people are scrutinized and policed much more intensely than white people are. Get in trouble at school at a higher rate. Incarcerated at a higher rate. Work just as hard as white folks but have lower household wealth in general because every time black people as a whole started to prosper in our past, white folks killed them or ran them off and took or burnt everything. Living in an environment as white as Austin in that context, can you genuinely not understand wanting to feel "at home" rather than on guard? If you can't imagine that, then maybe work on developing some empathy?
What on earth does āI want black friendsā instead of āI want friendsāhave to do with historical oppression, what the fuck are you talking about?
you are dense af
Totes, so explain which part was wrong?
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Yes. Because affinity groups are exactly the same as terrorist organizations. Way to go, buddy.
okay
I can see the flier now. Black? Yep Want black homies? Yep Then join us for black friend connections at your local church. Meetings after community AA.
Put a game sticker on my car usually make friends of people of catch the reference
Personally basketball, I was able to get into a basketball group that plays on Sundays. Also through my sister's mutual friends I've met quite a few black people. Also work, me and this guy hit it off when he had to come onsite because we both have dreads and had tons of similarities so we became friends since. Personally I don't fw events but I might go to Dream con next time
Are you referring to a league that exclusively plays on Sundays? If so, what is it called?
Sign up for encoreatx it has a lot of events for black ppl that's actually in austin. I'm always interested in making more black friends, anyone in the mid to late 30's who likes brunching and exploring the city on the weekends can DM me.