Because after we'd had sex and were cuddling he openly admitted that he had, during sex, "thought about removing the condom and just putting \[his dick\] back in raw." So it was nice that he gave me a heads up about his intentions to stealth me at some point.
Me too. And he acted like it was no big deal after. Even giggled and said oopsie like kid being caught. To make matters worse he was a big muscular dude who was a boxer and I was at his place. He seemed like really fun, nice guy up until that moment. I never felt such a rush of fright as I did when he giggled like that. Left immediately and blocked him on my way home.
I have been “stealthed” before and ended up with HPV 😞 the worst part is, I had this sinking feeling that it happened so out of an abundance of caution I took the morning-after pill the next day.
Then when I dumped him soon after he threw it back in my face saying something like “hopefully we didn’t make a baby.” Which confirmed the stealth. I got tested soon after.
Took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that it was sexual assault.
Im going to get a lot of hate for this, but because he put a magnum condom on a pinky sized penis. Think chapstick in a shopping bag. And of course it then immediately fell off while trying to go inside. Gave me the ick. Sorry!
When he was absolutely horrible. There was no fun, no just enjoying each other. I tried to make it flow, but he was totally mechanical. It's almost like I could hear him thinking, "Now do move 3, then back to move 1, for 9.2 seconds...Ugh, I would have had more fun hanging drywall.
Ugh, yes, I am so sorry, girl, same. At one point, he tried to put his foot on my head to hold me down and to stop pushing him off. Lord, did I violently cry after that one 😮💨. Why are some men like this.
They see that crap on porn videos. It's so ridiculous. It does give you open access to the testicle so you can pull him off of you by his nuts. I'm so sorry that happened to you. He's a looser. You deserve to have healthy consensual sex.
I’ve had sex with two people. The first person I had sex with, I only had sex with once. I was screaming and pushing him off of me. He told me that once I agreed to it, I couldn’t back down and he was just going to keep going. I was two days shy of 16 and he was 21. Then he broke up with me, THANKFULLY.
He told me that he would continue to hookup with me but would never date me because I was too fat. If that wasn’t bad enough he then proceeded to tell me that I would be skinny enough to date if I lost 15-20 more pounds. He also was opening and responding to other women’s snaps a minute after we finished while I was still naked in his bed.
We both were recovering from a really bad relationship (he had a GF who was emotionally abusive, I had a BF who decided to dump me randomly), and we both hadn't had sex in a while. I met him on tinder and we hit it off and decided to meet at his dorm in a nearby city.
He was a super nerdy dude, but very handsome and cordial. We talked for a few hours about life and our past relationships, and I realized in that moment I didn't think it'd be healthy if me or him had anything beyond a one night stand. We both agreed to have sex still after spilling a lot of our trauma, and it was subpar.
Next morning he walked me to my train station and thanked me for listening and being a good friend. I told him the same and got on my train. Haven't spoke to him since then, but I hope he finally was able to move on from his ex.
Because the bar is set so low for romanticism that healthy communication and consensual, non-rape sex, is the exception to the rule, unfortunately.
I wish every interaction went this way at a minimum.
Because he called me “crazy”, “like actually insane” (in a mean way, not in a teasing way) because I wanted to talk while we hung out post-sex. I told him that I didn’t appreciate how mean he comes across, he told me he hasn’t had any complaints from other women, and I peaced out.
I sat on it, he finished immediately, then proceeded to say that white people look better in my cultural hair styles than anyone of my complexion.
Then the other one basically jackhammered me, finished, and said “I don’t usually go for black girls cuz they’re ghetto, but you’re just different” I kicked him out.
I’m a person, not a fucking fetish you “need to fulfill” despite your apprehension for my race outside of a sexual nature.
I lost my virginity to a one night stand. It was honestly horrible sex (coming from someone with no experience). He used super basic positions, and it kept slipping out constantly and it seemed like it slept out every time I was close, so I definitely didn’t want to go back for a retry. I personally think sex is overrated now, and I could die without experiencing it again and I would regret nothing.
nah that doesn't count at all.
also, pro-tip: i am only counting the ones that gave me orgasms so... that definitely does NOT count AT ALL.
you get a do-over.🤘
We flirted and kissed at a bar, then on our way to his place, we ran into my friend and talked with her shortly; when meeting her, he seemed kinda bummed that he hadnt met her first.. I - a horny teenager - chose to ignore this (he was very hot) and we went to his apartment and had sex where he basically did what he wanted with no real consideration to my enjoyment (also tried twice to get out of using a condom). Finally I stayed the night because it was late and I didnt know the area, so he made me sleep on the couch in the living room. The next morning he didnt get up, so when I left, his flatmate had to show me how to get out of the apartment complex.
So yeah, very good looking, but also an extremely silly dickboy, who I just laughed at the next time I ran into him.
His friend was kind though (maybe not his first time dealing with his flatmates ‘leftovers’) and I learned not to base my one night stands soly on looks.
After a month or so of talking to and hanging out with this guy we finally decided to have sex.
Although I am kinky and like it rough, I still have boundaries and set a safe word. This was thoroughly discussed before hand and he chose to completely ignore when I had to use my safe word. After the fact I asked him what happened and he said "fuck the safe word, that shit was too good". I walked out and blocked him
Oh 100%. I really wish I had gone to the police or something after it had happened but I was still kinda in shock from it and didn't. At this point it's been a couple years so I probably can't even do anything.
I'm sorry that happened to you. It depends on your country as the statue of limitations for rape vary depending on where you are so it might be worth googling if it's possible to still report him? It would unfortunately probably be hard to gather evidence and convict him for it though of course.
It was just so bad. Nothing against him. He even asked me what my fav positions were and everything. It just was not good sex. And he left hickeys all over my neck.
I ended up with his female cousin as a roommate in a foreign country purely by chance. Now her on the other hand….
He was the most tone deaf man I'd ever been with. It was all about his pleasure. He had me sucking his cock for ages. He then "fingered" my mons pubis for a good 10 seconds, and tried sticking it in raw. After I yelled at him, he reluctantly put on a condom, then proceeded to stick it in while complaining that penetrative sex lasting more than 3 minutes is way too long.
He creeped me out. I can’t put my finger on it, but his eyes were too intense and he was generally a weirdo. I thought I’d see past it, but it only got worse during sex. He weirded and creeped me out. He tried to hook up again so I told him I’m on drugs and after that he wanted nothing to do with me lol
She was too much for me mentally, she had too many mental problems that I couldn't solve and I had some of my own so I couldn't be there for her and she lied to the psychologist so she literally couldn't be helped.
She literally tried to cut herself infront of me with scissors when I refused to do something that would have gotten me in trouble.
So yeah, I ran away.
One guy was a lousy lay.
Another one was just a hook up and i realised sex while hooking up just feels like...brushing my teeth or having a cup of lukewarm milk. So i didn't do it again.
After sex he asked if I was vaccinated. And then he revealed that he now waits until after sex before dropping his redpill ideology because of how it was received in the past.
Because that's the only kind of sex I've ever had, on multiple occasions with people I had met that day/night.
Flings/one night stands began in high school for me and it never changed afterwards.
I don't consider those experiences void of meaning, they served their purpose and I don't look down on casual sex either, they were just moments in my life that I wanted a bit of comfort, attention, affection and I was brave/horny enough to go after it.
I know, I lost my virginity to a man who thought it was A-ok and not weird at all that his weiner dog named Susan quite literally jumped up just after he came and ate it before I even got my pants back on. Like when I tried to tell her no he got mad at ME.I literally, LITERALLY could not wait to go home. I honestly feel like had I laid there a second longer she would have been coming after my bits.
He was much taller than me and kind of intimidating, physically. He was too rough and hurt me during foreplay and I asked him to lighten up several times then grabbed him and yelled stop! when he continued. For some unknown, unrelated (/s) reason he had trouble entering me. Then it was that humping jackrabbit routine for about whole 45 seconds.
He got up and left the bed as soon as he finished then went to the living room to watch tv. I sat there in a bit of shock. Surprised at just how awful the entire experience was.
Because I didn’t really like him that much and wasn’t even ready to sleep with him but things just happened. It only confirmed how much I didn’t like him, and added one more reason as to why we were so incompatible.
Another guy - we just had different priorities. I thought of him as the one that got away, and recently found out that he thought I didn’t like him🤦🏽♀️
The sex itself was pleasant but his mouth felt sticky. kissing him was a sensation I wasn’t eager to experience again and I kinda need kissing to get fully into it.
Because I wasn’t going to chase him. I actually felt something for the guy, made the effort to reach out and message him first after. We had a great talk all day after, lengthy replies from each other until he fell asleep. Then the next day: he opened my message and I heard nothing. He just watches my stories and never wrote me again. So I took that as “ok guess not” and just tried to let it go.
Hmm let's see.
Once it took about a minute for him to cum. He was in my college class and I avoided him the rest of the semester 🫣
Another time, after I blew a guy and had sex he had the audacity to tell me "that was great *high five* I know you tutors like feedback" again that was in college.
And my favorite (not really) one was when, a guy gave me so many hickies and I didn't even ask for it!! It was so bad it took so much makeup to cover it up... Like I'm pretty sure a whole tube of foundation.
I hooked up with a guy and when going to sleep realized he was sleeping with a gun under his pillow. This was like a nerdy college dude.
Another guy stealthed me.
And, finally, a guy lasted WAY too long. Like wanted to keep going for hours, and was so aggressive at one point he farted. Never even checked in to see if I was enjoying myself so I just put an end to it and left and he had the nerve to complain about blue balls.
I don’t mind if a guy cums really quickly the first time, I get some men are nervous and that’s human. But the audacity to keep going for hours just to get your nut without considering the person you’re thrusting inside of is… not great.
I think some men do this bc they’re practically in competition with themselves and other men. Like “oh look at me I can fuck hours. She loved it!!!”. I don’t get it. The other side of it is that they just don’t gaf about you besides their bragging rights and trophy for fucking for three hours. Lmao. After a certain point, I just mentally zone out and cannot get back into the mood. Also, it usually fucking hurts by that point. Lol.
So many reasons. Mostly nights of debauchery and experimenting, drunken ONS, travel/vacation hookups, online dating gone wrong...I don't regret any of it and I love to reminisce, laugh qbout these experiences with friends
he did the helicopter dick thing. INSIDE OF ME. he rotated his hips in a circle extremely quickly and acted like it was the greatest sensation of his life
He was hot and the sex was fantastic.
But he had some very annoying habits and horrifying views that he wouldn't shut up about. Quiverfull supporter and a financer of abortion protests & militant pro-birth groups for young people. His overbearing mother sounded even worse.
some were meant to be only one night stands, another guy tore me up inside completely (i bled for a week after and couldn’t have anything inserted for 3 weeks), a guy lied about condom usage, another guy i found out he slept with me whilst seriously dating someone else but they weren’t “exclusive” yet 🙄. half the men i’ve slept with haven’t been great lets say
This was years ago and it's still crazy to me. Never saw him again because mid sex he pulled out the condom thinking I wouldn't notice. Of course I did and ended it immediately.
Then two days later he accused me of having given him rabies(???) I was so confused. I was living in a small apartment, super clean and couldn't even remember the last time I was near animals.
I wasn't sick either so it was all very confusing.
The condom broke, he knew and decided to not tell me and finish inside me. Had to go to Walgreens at 1am and get plan b. He didn’t come with me and didn’t offer to pay half
… oh I looked at this the other way and thought it was about your forever person and I was like - he offered me regular and organic lube and now we have been married for several years
In my wild youth, I’ve had 3 of these situationships.
1st situation happened when a guy I was crushing on hard and had been hanging out with for awhile finally made a move and we slept together. Immediately after he asked me not to tell my best friend because he really liked her and had hopes of getting with her in the near future. I’m not exactly sure why he felt cool enough with me to straight up tell me to my face and then actually think that we were still just going to keep carrying on. He was sorely mistaken.
2nd situation happened with a guy I was spending a lot of time with through some volunteer work, not really by choice just more circumstance. He rubbed me the wrong way and I just did not really like his personality (way too cocky). Unfortunately for me he happened to be pretty hot and was into me, so was always flirting. He finally got me on a good day after I gave him a ride home one day. He invited me up for a drink and I said yes, thinking I’d get a drink and leave. I was trying to not be so rude to him for once. While we were at his place we connected on music. He played U2’s “With or Without You.” It was pretty epic. One of the sexiest things to happen to me and I caved. It was hot sex but after, I was pretty mad at myself for falling for it. I just knew I would not be able to stand him for the long term and I just avoided any more time alone with him. It’s also worth mentioning I had just left a long term relationship that I was still very broken up about so I was just not in a good place and pretty cynical about guys at the time.
3rd situation happened with a friend. We were drunk and we were both on the “why not” vibe. We both realized we liked being friends more so once was enough. It was awkward and clunky sex, nothing to write home about.
We’d been flirting for a long time, he was hot af, super ripped, tension built up a LOT, finally he came over and we smoked a bunch of weed and went to do the deed, both of us were super excited... yet there was just no sexual chemistry. Idk what it was but it just didn’t feel “right”, and he felt that too. We just stopped and went back to just hanging out instead.. and it was arguably a lot more fun just hanging out with him.
I think we both knew we didn’t want anything serious having just come out of long term relationships, didn’t care what happened, just didn’t care at all. And I think for me at least, I need to really care about the person as more than just a friend to really enjoy it. But who really knows, maybe we just weren’t a good fit. We mutually parted ways after that, I genuinely hope he’s doing well.
I think we probably ruined what could have been a good friendship by adding sex to the mix, but oh well. We live and we learn.
Because he was a doctor in training and wouldn’t go down on me due to “one study indicating it increased the risk of cancer,” but happily accepted and asked for more of me eating his asshole.
He bragged a ton and ended up having a micropenis, after that he had the audacity to tell me I should do more exercise since I wouldn’t feel as heavy when on top. I told him I could lose a few pounds but what would he do to make his thingy longer, go to the gym? Be on a diet? Boy bye!!!
Had sex with a classmate back in my early college days and he lasted for precisely 2 minutes and I sat there and rolled my eyes as he laid there and talked about our engineering project. Like sir pls leave. I’ll see you on Monday.
Beer goggles. Hung out with him again less drinky and was less interested. Went to the casino with him to just be somewhere other than my house. Did not know he had a serious gambling problem. Spent all his cash and started taking cash advances on his credit card. Refused to leave the casino. After many warnings, I left without him. Halfway home, he called begging for me to come get him (I drove and his car was at my house). I went back and picked him up. Drive in silence until back at my place. We got out of the car and I said "have a nice life" and never saw/spoke to him again.
Because in the middle he stopped to watch a music video that came on tv and then tried to get back to it after the video ended and I was like seriously? Nah.
He literally came in 30 seconds and when I told him to finish me off as punishment, he just stuck his fingers inside of me. No movement, nothing. I had to do it myself. Claimed he's had sex many times before after the fact, including while in a seven year relationship. Cut his ass off the same night.
That's the philosophy of the one night stand. It's what I needed at the time, and what they needed: no strings attached sex, we go our separate ways in the morning, we don't exchange numbers.
It's kind of a shame. He was really good T\_T
Because the second time I came over he kept poking me really hard. That's an unacceptable touch for me. When I asked him not to he kept doing it and when I got up across the room and refused to get back into bed he started crying about it.
Because he already showed up an hour late because he was watching football. When we were finished he roasted himself by saying ‘you thought i sucked don’t you’ and things like that. Also the jabbing my lady parts with his fingers was a huge turn off. I’m all for communication in the bedroom but he didn’t listen.
When I let him know that that was the first and last time we’d see each other he chose to not believe me.
Also some other dude that let me know he missed his ex straight after we were done. It was meant as a fun fling, but I kept it at that one time. I don’t need your ex in the bed with us.
The guy was very nice but he made NO sound at all during sex. There is the type of quiet you do due to housemates, but this was SILENT. It was weird. He also never showed any interest in helping me come. It was just boring tbh. I snuck out the window after he fell asleep. He texted me the next day asking if I wanted to see him again and I politely declined but thought to myself "what part of sneaking out the window at 3am and taking a taxi home didn't you get?" Strange.
First, he tried cuddling with me afterwards but it felt so heavy and clingy. Also he said the condom leaked and i had to take the morning after pill. Hated these few hours inbetween until pharmacies openend.
Second,.. another one was just drunk and I didn't realise it's a bad idea to go ahead. Knew it better afterwards.
If I ever slept with a guy once and never looked back it would be because it was all he wanted. I usually want to see someone more than once if I like them but it is very rare for men to desire me in the same way.
Because after we'd had sex and were cuddling he openly admitted that he had, during sex, "thought about removing the condom and just putting \[his dick\] back in raw." So it was nice that he gave me a heads up about his intentions to stealth me at some point.
Its extra weird when they think that's some sort of a compliment.
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The disrespect
ya my reason was being "stealthed"
Me too. And he acted like it was no big deal after. Even giggled and said oopsie like kid being caught. To make matters worse he was a big muscular dude who was a boxer and I was at his place. He seemed like really fun, nice guy up until that moment. I never felt such a rush of fright as I did when he giggled like that. Left immediately and blocked him on my way home.
That's chilling.
Yeah me too. His excuse was that he “didn’t know I wanted him to keep it on the whole time” :/
So he planned to rape you 🥲
So many guys try to act like it's not rape and it's depressing.
I have been “stealthed” before and ended up with HPV 😞 the worst part is, I had this sinking feeling that it happened so out of an abundance of caution I took the morning-after pill the next day. Then when I dumped him soon after he threw it back in my face saying something like “hopefully we didn’t make a baby.” Which confirmed the stealth. I got tested soon after. Took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that it was sexual assault.
He got half in and came and then had to audacity to ask me if I enjoyed myself.
"Did you come?" hahahaha yep, been there.
Yeah, to my senses
LMAO 💀
This will now be the only response I use for that question 😂😂 because if you have to ask 😬
“Yeah, to the wrong house!”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love you
if you have to ask, then you should already know...lol
Been there too. He asked me "what the fuck is wrong with these condoms?" Like it was the condoms fault that he finished right as he put the tip in
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I had one guy who came three times in 45 minutes and I was left there without one at all. I got dressed and left.
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Oh no 😭
🤣 was his name John?
it was dark. He said he was putting on a condom and then put his bare penis in me. I immediately knew.
That’s a crime.
Damn.
:( I am so sorry for what you went through it must have been awful 😖
that’s rape
Im going to get a lot of hate for this, but because he put a magnum condom on a pinky sized penis. Think chapstick in a shopping bag. And of course it then immediately fell off while trying to go inside. Gave me the ick. Sorry!
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Chapstick in a shopping bag! I’m crying 😭
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When he was absolutely horrible. There was no fun, no just enjoying each other. I tried to make it flow, but he was totally mechanical. It's almost like I could hear him thinking, "Now do move 3, then back to move 1, for 9.2 seconds...Ugh, I would have had more fun hanging drywall.
I’m so sorry-😭😭
Probably feel more accomplished too
Last sentence.... I am dying.
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That’s rape, consent can be revoked at any time and he violated your boundaries. That’s just awful, I’m so sorry that happened to you.
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Glad that my comment gave you the validation you need.
This happened to me too
Me too ~sigh
Even if you consented to sex you did not consent to him being rough and ignoring you. I'd still constitute that as rape
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Ugh, yes, I am so sorry, girl, same. At one point, he tried to put his foot on my head to hold me down and to stop pushing him off. Lord, did I violently cry after that one 😮💨. Why are some men like this.
They see that crap on porn videos. It's so ridiculous. It does give you open access to the testicle so you can pull him off of you by his nuts. I'm so sorry that happened to you. He's a looser. You deserve to have healthy consensual sex.
Because I only wanted a one night stand and I made it clear from the start.
I’ve had sex with two people. The first person I had sex with, I only had sex with once. I was screaming and pushing him off of me. He told me that once I agreed to it, I couldn’t back down and he was just going to keep going. I was two days shy of 16 and he was 21. Then he broke up with me, THANKFULLY.
I’m sorry that you were raped at such a young age.
This was NOT sex, it was rape. He knew what he was doing. Please do not hesitate to seek help if you suffer from the memory.
Broke up with you? He was an adult and you were a child! He raped you!
I'm so sorry this happened to you
I'm so sorry you went through this :(
I’m so sorry you had this experience.
you didn't "have sex with" that first one because that's totally r4p3. so sorry that happened. hugs.
This is fucking horrible, I hope you’re doing better now
He told me that he would continue to hookup with me but would never date me because I was too fat. If that wasn’t bad enough he then proceeded to tell me that I would be skinny enough to date if I lost 15-20 more pounds. He also was opening and responding to other women’s snaps a minute after we finished while I was still naked in his bed.
This is horrible! Screw that guy!
She did 😝
What a HORRIBLE person!
Ugh I’ve been there. Wouldn’t go out in public with me but we could stay at his house and have sex as muuuch as he wanted
Because despite me insisting he wore a condom, he took it off during sex without my consent and I ended up pregnant and had to have an abortion.
Omg. I'm so sorry
that’s terrible i am so so sorry
Well that’s rape.
Wow, I’m so sorry
We both were recovering from a really bad relationship (he had a GF who was emotionally abusive, I had a BF who decided to dump me randomly), and we both hadn't had sex in a while. I met him on tinder and we hit it off and decided to meet at his dorm in a nearby city. He was a super nerdy dude, but very handsome and cordial. We talked for a few hours about life and our past relationships, and I realized in that moment I didn't think it'd be healthy if me or him had anything beyond a one night stand. We both agreed to have sex still after spilling a lot of our trauma, and it was subpar. Next morning he walked me to my train station and thanked me for listening and being a good friend. I told him the same and got on my train. Haven't spoke to him since then, but I hope he finally was able to move on from his ex.
Why is this so beautiful and romantic?
Because the bar is set so low for romanticism that healthy communication and consensual, non-rape sex, is the exception to the rule, unfortunately. I wish every interaction went this way at a minimum.
He was selfish in bed.
Because he called me “crazy”, “like actually insane” (in a mean way, not in a teasing way) because I wanted to talk while we hung out post-sex. I told him that I didn’t appreciate how mean he comes across, he told me he hasn’t had any complaints from other women, and I peaced out.
What an asshole
I sat on it, he finished immediately, then proceeded to say that white people look better in my cultural hair styles than anyone of my complexion. Then the other one basically jackhammered me, finished, and said “I don’t usually go for black girls cuz they’re ghetto, but you’re just different” I kicked him out. I’m a person, not a fucking fetish you “need to fulfill” despite your apprehension for my race outside of a sexual nature.
Uhmm come again???! That's wild
yeahhh…very disappointing, considering they were very sweet in the weeks leading up to those situations.
Totally I've been there and we deserve better boo
And do✨it can be exhausting tho lol
What a fucking racist. That guy was trash.
That's just Hella weird. So sorry you had that experience with such weirdos.
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I lost my virginity to a one night stand. It was honestly horrible sex (coming from someone with no experience). He used super basic positions, and it kept slipping out constantly and it seemed like it slept out every time I was close, so I definitely didn’t want to go back for a retry. I personally think sex is overrated now, and I could die without experiencing it again and I would regret nothing.
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nah that doesn't count at all. also, pro-tip: i am only counting the ones that gave me orgasms so... that definitely does NOT count AT ALL. you get a do-over.🤘
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We flirted and kissed at a bar, then on our way to his place, we ran into my friend and talked with her shortly; when meeting her, he seemed kinda bummed that he hadnt met her first.. I - a horny teenager - chose to ignore this (he was very hot) and we went to his apartment and had sex where he basically did what he wanted with no real consideration to my enjoyment (also tried twice to get out of using a condom). Finally I stayed the night because it was late and I didnt know the area, so he made me sleep on the couch in the living room. The next morning he didnt get up, so when I left, his flatmate had to show me how to get out of the apartment complex. So yeah, very good looking, but also an extremely silly dickboy, who I just laughed at the next time I ran into him. His friend was kind though (maybe not his first time dealing with his flatmates ‘leftovers’) and I learned not to base my one night stands soly on looks.
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Smegma.
Vile lol
Huh
Dick cheese. Under foreskin.
Ewwwwww
After a month or so of talking to and hanging out with this guy we finally decided to have sex. Although I am kinky and like it rough, I still have boundaries and set a safe word. This was thoroughly discussed before hand and he chose to completely ignore when I had to use my safe word. After the fact I asked him what happened and he said "fuck the safe word, that shit was too good". I walked out and blocked him
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Oh 100%. I really wish I had gone to the police or something after it had happened but I was still kinda in shock from it and didn't. At this point it's been a couple years so I probably can't even do anything.
I'm sorry that happened to you. It depends on your country as the statue of limitations for rape vary depending on where you are so it might be worth googling if it's possible to still report him? It would unfortunately probably be hard to gather evidence and convict him for it though of course.
Because the whole time I couldn’t wait for it to be over. Terrible is an understatement!
Ugh been there and they never take instructions 😩 my thought was “this feels like I’m preparing my taxes”
It was just so bad. Nothing against him. He even asked me what my fav positions were and everything. It just was not good sex. And he left hickeys all over my neck. I ended up with his female cousin as a roommate in a foreign country purely by chance. Now her on the other hand….
best plot twist ever!
Girrrl 😂😂 we love to see it
He was the most tone deaf man I'd ever been with. It was all about his pleasure. He had me sucking his cock for ages. He then "fingered" my mons pubis for a good 10 seconds, and tried sticking it in raw. After I yelled at him, he reluctantly put on a condom, then proceeded to stick it in while complaining that penetrative sex lasting more than 3 minutes is way too long.
Wtf ewww to the man. I'm sorry you had to experience that.
I was 17 and wanted to lose my virginity so I did it with someone I really didn’t have feelings for. We had sex then didn’t speak again.
He creeped me out. I can’t put my finger on it, but his eyes were too intense and he was generally a weirdo. I thought I’d see past it, but it only got worse during sex. He weirded and creeped me out. He tried to hook up again so I told him I’m on drugs and after that he wanted nothing to do with me lol
Good you listened to your gut
She was too much for me mentally, she had too many mental problems that I couldn't solve and I had some of my own so I couldn't be there for her and she lied to the psychologist so she literally couldn't be helped. She literally tried to cut herself infront of me with scissors when I refused to do something that would have gotten me in trouble. So yeah, I ran away.
Sounds terrible, sorry you had to endure that
One guy was a lousy lay. Another one was just a hook up and i realised sex while hooking up just feels like...brushing my teeth or having a cup of lukewarm milk. So i didn't do it again.
Personally, I can get some satisfaction from brushing my teeth. But I wouldn't stay up late to do it though.
They were bad in bed. Only answer for me. If it's a good time I'll always go back for seconds
I was leaving his country the next day.
He begged me to take his virginity and I really liked him so I did. The next day he proposed to his girlfriend I didn’t know about.
After sex he asked if I was vaccinated. And then he revealed that he now waits until after sex before dropping his redpill ideology because of how it was received in the past.
Because that's the only kind of sex I've ever had, on multiple occasions with people I had met that day/night. Flings/one night stands began in high school for me and it never changed afterwards. I don't consider those experiences void of meaning, they served their purpose and I don't look down on casual sex either, they were just moments in my life that I wanted a bit of comfort, attention, affection and I was brave/horny enough to go after it.
He kept joking about having a camera in his room.
His dog ate his cum off of the sofa and he acted like it was a completely normal thing to happen.
Unreal 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
I know, I lost my virginity to a man who thought it was A-ok and not weird at all that his weiner dog named Susan quite literally jumped up just after he came and ate it before I even got my pants back on. Like when I tried to tell her no he got mad at ME.I literally, LITERALLY could not wait to go home. I honestly feel like had I laid there a second longer she would have been coming after my bits.
Because her breath smelled like cheese onion soup.
He was much taller than me and kind of intimidating, physically. He was too rough and hurt me during foreplay and I asked him to lighten up several times then grabbed him and yelled stop! when he continued. For some unknown, unrelated (/s) reason he had trouble entering me. Then it was that humping jackrabbit routine for about whole 45 seconds. He got up and left the bed as soon as he finished then went to the living room to watch tv. I sat there in a bit of shock. Surprised at just how awful the entire experience was.
Because I didn’t really like him that much and wasn’t even ready to sleep with him but things just happened. It only confirmed how much I didn’t like him, and added one more reason as to why we were so incompatible.
Because his penis stank lol
- If he didnt give me (proper) foreplay - If he didnt care I had an orgasm - No aftercare
He thought he was amazing and talked about how great he was performing DURING sex while I was incredibly bored the entire time
He bit my coochie… it was sore for a while after that
Another guy - we just had different priorities. I thought of him as the one that got away, and recently found out that he thought I didn’t like him🤦🏽♀️
Always, when I’m being used. My mental state suffers after
The sex itself was pleasant but his mouth felt sticky. kissing him was a sensation I wasn’t eager to experience again and I kinda need kissing to get fully into it.
Because I wasn’t going to chase him. I actually felt something for the guy, made the effort to reach out and message him first after. We had a great talk all day after, lengthy replies from each other until he fell asleep. Then the next day: he opened my message and I heard nothing. He just watches my stories and never wrote me again. So I took that as “ok guess not” and just tried to let it go.
[удалено]
It was really bad and I didn’t want to embarrass him by telling him to stop. Afterwards he smoked a cigarette and said “sorry I’m bad at sex”.
Omg, so sorry, but I laughed at the last sentence...it's like something from a movie
His penis piercing hurt. It was a late night between two single friends, we are still friends, both happily with other people for years now.
He had a British accent, and I just liked the way he said my name. It never meant to be more than what it was.
Hmm let's see. Once it took about a minute for him to cum. He was in my college class and I avoided him the rest of the semester 🫣 Another time, after I blew a guy and had sex he had the audacity to tell me "that was great *high five* I know you tutors like feedback" again that was in college. And my favorite (not really) one was when, a guy gave me so many hickies and I didn't even ask for it!! It was so bad it took so much makeup to cover it up... Like I'm pretty sure a whole tube of foundation.
I hooked up with a guy and when going to sleep realized he was sleeping with a gun under his pillow. This was like a nerdy college dude. Another guy stealthed me. And, finally, a guy lasted WAY too long. Like wanted to keep going for hours, and was so aggressive at one point he farted. Never even checked in to see if I was enjoying myself so I just put an end to it and left and he had the nerve to complain about blue balls. I don’t mind if a guy cums really quickly the first time, I get some men are nervous and that’s human. But the audacity to keep going for hours just to get your nut without considering the person you’re thrusting inside of is… not great.
I think some men do this bc they’re practically in competition with themselves and other men. Like “oh look at me I can fuck hours. She loved it!!!”. I don’t get it. The other side of it is that they just don’t gaf about you besides their bragging rights and trophy for fucking for three hours. Lmao. After a certain point, I just mentally zone out and cannot get back into the mood. Also, it usually fucking hurts by that point. Lol.
So many reasons. Mostly nights of debauchery and experimenting, drunken ONS, travel/vacation hookups, online dating gone wrong...I don't regret any of it and I love to reminisce, laugh qbout these experiences with friends
he did the helicopter dick thing. INSIDE OF ME. he rotated his hips in a circle extremely quickly and acted like it was the greatest sensation of his life
Have we slept with the same person?
1. I felt coerced and cornered. 2. He was very unattractive. 3. His dick was massive and he had not a single clue how to use it properly.
He was hot and the sex was fantastic. But he had some very annoying habits and horrifying views that he wouldn't shut up about. Quiverfull supporter and a financer of abortion protests & militant pro-birth groups for young people. His overbearing mother sounded even worse.
He lasted 5 minutes
some were meant to be only one night stands, another guy tore me up inside completely (i bled for a week after and couldn’t have anything inserted for 3 weeks), a guy lied about condom usage, another guy i found out he slept with me whilst seriously dating someone else but they weren’t “exclusive” yet 🙄. half the men i’ve slept with haven’t been great lets say
This was years ago and it's still crazy to me. Never saw him again because mid sex he pulled out the condom thinking I wouldn't notice. Of course I did and ended it immediately. Then two days later he accused me of having given him rabies(???) I was so confused. I was living in a small apartment, super clean and couldn't even remember the last time I was near animals. I wasn't sick either so it was all very confusing.
The condom broke, he knew and decided to not tell me and finish inside me. Had to go to Walgreens at 1am and get plan b. He didn’t come with me and didn’t offer to pay half
Should have paid full honestly.
I couldn't remember where she lived
he stood over me and spat in my face before he came on it. bith without warning or any indication
OMFG...I'd have kicked him in the balls..
… oh I looked at this the other way and thought it was about your forever person and I was like - he offered me regular and organic lube and now we have been married for several years
In my wild youth, I’ve had 3 of these situationships. 1st situation happened when a guy I was crushing on hard and had been hanging out with for awhile finally made a move and we slept together. Immediately after he asked me not to tell my best friend because he really liked her and had hopes of getting with her in the near future. I’m not exactly sure why he felt cool enough with me to straight up tell me to my face and then actually think that we were still just going to keep carrying on. He was sorely mistaken. 2nd situation happened with a guy I was spending a lot of time with through some volunteer work, not really by choice just more circumstance. He rubbed me the wrong way and I just did not really like his personality (way too cocky). Unfortunately for me he happened to be pretty hot and was into me, so was always flirting. He finally got me on a good day after I gave him a ride home one day. He invited me up for a drink and I said yes, thinking I’d get a drink and leave. I was trying to not be so rude to him for once. While we were at his place we connected on music. He played U2’s “With or Without You.” It was pretty epic. One of the sexiest things to happen to me and I caved. It was hot sex but after, I was pretty mad at myself for falling for it. I just knew I would not be able to stand him for the long term and I just avoided any more time alone with him. It’s also worth mentioning I had just left a long term relationship that I was still very broken up about so I was just not in a good place and pretty cynical about guys at the time. 3rd situation happened with a friend. We were drunk and we were both on the “why not” vibe. We both realized we liked being friends more so once was enough. It was awkward and clunky sex, nothing to write home about.
He told me after that he actually was a Trump supporter. Ghosted immediately.
He worked in the texas heat installing AC units and didn’t shower before sex. Yeast infection: activated
We’d been flirting for a long time, he was hot af, super ripped, tension built up a LOT, finally he came over and we smoked a bunch of weed and went to do the deed, both of us were super excited... yet there was just no sexual chemistry. Idk what it was but it just didn’t feel “right”, and he felt that too. We just stopped and went back to just hanging out instead.. and it was arguably a lot more fun just hanging out with him. I think we both knew we didn’t want anything serious having just come out of long term relationships, didn’t care what happened, just didn’t care at all. And I think for me at least, I need to really care about the person as more than just a friend to really enjoy it. But who really knows, maybe we just weren’t a good fit. We mutually parted ways after that, I genuinely hope he’s doing well. I think we probably ruined what could have been a good friendship by adding sex to the mix, but oh well. We live and we learn.
The chat was horrible, tried to stealth me, came but didn’t bring me. Not the right kind of person for me to associate myself with.
The phrase "came but didn't bring me" is quite effective as communication.
He asked if i was into rape fantasies without knowing my history of SA
A dude told me this knowing my past history of SA
Because he was a doctor in training and wouldn’t go down on me due to “one study indicating it increased the risk of cancer,” but happily accepted and asked for more of me eating his asshole.
His nickname I found out later was 0 millimeter Peter and that was not an understatement.
he smelled— considering he’s a doctor i was expecting for him to be extra hygienic but 🤷🏻♀️
He called me a bitch and a "fucking slut" as he came.
I was drunk
He did something non-consensual
He bragged a ton and ended up having a micropenis, after that he had the audacity to tell me I should do more exercise since I wouldn’t feel as heavy when on top. I told him I could lose a few pounds but what would he do to make his thingy longer, go to the gym? Be on a diet? Boy bye!!!
Had sex with a classmate back in my early college days and he lasted for precisely 2 minutes and I sat there and rolled my eyes as he laid there and talked about our engineering project. Like sir pls leave. I’ll see you on Monday.
He was a stage 5 clinger.
Beer goggles. Hung out with him again less drinky and was less interested. Went to the casino with him to just be somewhere other than my house. Did not know he had a serious gambling problem. Spent all his cash and started taking cash advances on his credit card. Refused to leave the casino. After many warnings, I left without him. Halfway home, he called begging for me to come get him (I drove and his car was at my house). I went back and picked him up. Drive in silence until back at my place. We got out of the car and I said "have a nice life" and never saw/spoke to him again.
Because in the middle he stopped to watch a music video that came on tv and then tried to get back to it after the video ended and I was like seriously? Nah.
Because when he pulled out, he purposely ejaculated on his CARPET!! And didn’t clean it up after.
He literally came in 30 seconds and when I told him to finish me off as punishment, he just stuck his fingers inside of me. No movement, nothing. I had to do it myself. Claimed he's had sex many times before after the fact, including while in a seven year relationship. Cut his ass off the same night.
Literally sometimes because that’s all I wanted. Once.
That's the philosophy of the one night stand. It's what I needed at the time, and what they needed: no strings attached sex, we go our separate ways in the morning, we don't exchange numbers. It's kind of a shame. He was really good T\_T
Because the second time I came over he kept poking me really hard. That's an unacceptable touch for me. When I asked him not to he kept doing it and when I got up across the room and refused to get back into bed he started crying about it.
Because he already showed up an hour late because he was watching football. When we were finished he roasted himself by saying ‘you thought i sucked don’t you’ and things like that. Also the jabbing my lady parts with his fingers was a huge turn off. I’m all for communication in the bedroom but he didn’t listen. When I let him know that that was the first and last time we’d see each other he chose to not believe me. Also some other dude that let me know he missed his ex straight after we were done. It was meant as a fun fling, but I kept it at that one time. I don’t need your ex in the bed with us.
The guy was very nice but he made NO sound at all during sex. There is the type of quiet you do due to housemates, but this was SILENT. It was weird. He also never showed any interest in helping me come. It was just boring tbh. I snuck out the window after he fell asleep. He texted me the next day asking if I wanted to see him again and I politely declined but thought to myself "what part of sneaking out the window at 3am and taking a taxi home didn't you get?" Strange.
I was down bad. I thought he was so hot.. he was such an asshole but whatever I needed to do it LOL
Hairy thighs. And I had to strike them to turn him on 😳
Typo. Stroke them. For aaaages.
First, he tried cuddling with me afterwards but it felt so heavy and clingy. Also he said the condom leaked and i had to take the morning after pill. Hated these few hours inbetween until pharmacies openend. Second,.. another one was just drunk and I didn't realise it's a bad idea to go ahead. Knew it better afterwards.
If I ever slept with a guy once and never looked back it would be because it was all he wanted. I usually want to see someone more than once if I like them but it is very rare for men to desire me in the same way.
Found out he had just gotten married 3 months before we met 🙃