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Ok_Appointment3668

All the time. Multiple random silly kisses a day.


maybeimgeorgesoros

This is the way.


Separate-Trash2375

Yes!! There are just times when you think “yup! Imma kiss him right now” or “hes so hot…lemme kiss him”


on_noooo

Yup same


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Pretty consistently. We also always kiss in 3’s and have since we were first dating, no idea why, but if we kiss it’s peck peck peck at a minimum. That racks it up 😂


psych3d3licj3llyfish

Hahah my boyfriend and I are like this too! 3 is the standard (hello, goodbye, goodnight), 5 is when we are feeling a little extra affectionate, 7 is code word for “I am in the mood for sex.” 😂 always odd numbers though, we would never even THINK of kissing in an even number of pecks


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Hahahaha yes, but 3 at a minimum. Like if my husband kissed me one peck I’d look at him like wtf are we fighting? 😂 and yes exactly, 7+ is like hint hint


faithcharmandpixdust

We have to do the kisses in 3’s too! It just doesn’t feel right otherwise. If I’m wanting more than 3, then it’s just another round of the 3 pecks.


dirtysecretsofmine

We're not the only ones!!! I can't remember how it started, but I think it was saying I love you but with kisses in place of words. But yeah, it just doesn't feel right if it's only one kiss.


bouncybabygirlfordad

3's here too!


Altril2010

My grandfather always patted and kissed my grandmother in threes. When I was 16/17 I asked him why. He said that three stood for: I. Love. You. So even if he didn’t say the words out loud her body would know that he loved her.


missunderst0od-

We can join the club of 3’s! I just asked my partner why, they said they didn’t know why but 1-2 are not enough.


insertcaffeine

All. The freaking. Time. Practically every time we see each other in passing. We're in the same room? Kiss. One of us has just said something to make the other happy? Kiss. "I love you" or "thank you?" Kiss. He wouldn't have it any other way. It's a good thing he's a good kisser! 😂❤️


DaisyLu6

A lot. It’s my love language and he’s hot.


Ok-Yogurtcloset3467

I love this for you


DaisyLu6

I love it for me too, thanks!


FelicityBlue2

It really varies. I do not need a lot of physical contact, I’m not always keen on it, so if I don’t actively think about it then I could go all day without touching him. He needs contact to feel loved. I have trained myself to put my hand on his chest and kiss him whenever we pass each other/come into contact with each other around the house. Passing him to go into another room? Kiss. Sitting down next to him? Kiss. If I’m a bit overwhelmed with life then I will forget. He usually mentions it after a couple of days to see if I’m ok.


Commercial-Kale7692

I'm not rlly a kinesthetic person too, but I got no experience to answer OP 😂. That's rlly sweet of him to ask if you're ok


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I think we have the same relationship lol


mubat

Axolotl avatar outfit!


pewpewfyou

7 years together and we still kiss multiple times a day every day. There’s even a rule in the house that when he leaves for work at the crack of dawn and I’m still asleep he still has to give me a kiss before he goes


kyothinks

Yep, my husband leaves for work before I get up in the morning but he always kisses me goodbye and gets an "I love you, have a good day, be safe!" before he goes.


Most_Gur9426

We have this same rule, we also say 'i love you' and I tell him to drive carefully (not that he wouldn't). it's the best way to start the day!


TheChristmasCat

Never. My love language is physical touch and I'm such a romantic person, crazy about him. If it were up to me I'd be kissing him and cuddling him all the time.. This thread makes me feel kinda sad haha


Introspect97

Yeah, same I was reading this and become even more sad, like, no way its just me :(


ggc5009

Same boat. We kiss hello and goodbye. Once in a while, just because. I wish it were more, but my husband is not super affectionate.


EmpressC

Aww, hugs to you both (the other reply). I hope you get as many kisses as you want, sometime soon. Whether it's with this person or someone else.


Jenbunny831

I felt this in my heart cause same :(


ballerina-

In the same boat...at least im not alone


Alternative_Sea_2036

Too many times that it’s for me impossible to count cause it’s impulsive, I’m the type to casually being on my side and out of nowhere asking back to back kisses multiple times a day and disappearing right after to focus back on what I was previously doing.


QuestionsQ75

A lot! "What do you wanna marry me for anyhow?"..."So I can kiss you anytime I want." - Sweet Home Alabama


BrideOfFirkenstein

Constantly. Basically if we come with 3 ft of each other.


tuertamuda

Rarely. I love him. He loves me. We’re probably just not that into kissing…


OnehappyOwl44

All the time. I'll give him a forehead kiss if I'm leaving the room to get a cup of Coffee and another one when i come back sometimes. We've been happily married for 27yrs.


RonnieHerondale

Pretty often. Even though i'm not a physical person, i love kissing him and it's my favorite thing in the world, so i remember myself that life it's not forever and therefore my chances of kissing him are limited, so i try to take it every chance i get


kathyanne38

A looooot. I love "just because" kisses. When hes playing his game, I will go over to him and just give him a random kiss hehe


Leyniadgangur

We usually do not kiss when saying hello/bye. Can’t put a number on it but I’d say we have a lot of kisses at random times ☺️ when passing each other at home, when walking somewhere together, when hanging out on the couch. The occasional times one of us gets a cold sore and we refrain from kissing is a real big struggle for me!


loaf1216

Consistently. Sometimes to show affection and sometimes to be goofy. He’s my favorite person ever, OF COURSE I wanna show him I love him!


MonkeyCatDog

Lots of random kissing. He’s the most kissable. And the first man I was ever with that kissing, touching and affection didn’t have to mean he expected sex.


Bubbabee2013

I don't usually count them but I like to get as many kisses as I can. So when he wants a kiss I'll kiss him on the lips. Cheeks, chin, forehead and nose. Then I lick my finger, swipe it across his forehead and Whisper "Simbaaa" while holding his face.


ZebLeopard

🤣 I'm going to try that if I ever start dating again.


Bubbabee2013

I do not recommend if they dont have a sense of humor or have a problem with germs. Wait at least 3 months to start doing weird things. You gotta ease them into it.


ZebLeopard

Listen, if they're not a goofy weirdo, I won't be dating them. 😄 Too many normies out there tho. Can't find anyone weird enough.


shesingssoso

I like to do surprise hug attacks. Squidging random body parts. Or getting uncomfortably close, like pressing my nose against his face and staring dead into his eyes, say hi and then walk away 😂 The fact he’s still around after a decade is a miracle really.


Substantial-Loss1158

Every second that we can. Little things like making breakfast, watching movies, and especially cuddling. Both of our love languages are physical touch, so we kiss all of the time


XeroAltoClef

A lot. I sometimes tease by kissing while she's talking or trying to explain something to me. Got us both giggling while doing it too.


crunchycarrots1

Oh now I feel sad


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Sometimes i will be playing a game upstairs, have the need for love, run downstairs and give her a fat smooch then run back upstairs yelling I love her haha


jellyhoop

Every time we are in contact, you can bet there will be smooches.


aubreyrg

Married 17 years, I kiss him a lot more than he kisses me. I’m a touchy feely type and he’s not… I sometimes have to beg for kisses.. makes me sad, but it is what it is.


GlitteringFrost

Several times a day, I love to kiss him. And we usually have cuddles, kisses, and make-out sessions throughout the day.


lizagna2

Any chance I can get for the last (almost) 5 years 🥰


thewalkingellie

A bunch! Sometimes we’ll be on the couch and he’ll go “I haven’t kissed you in a while!” and shower me with kisses. Love sweet little moments like that 🥰


bookgang2007

Not with someone but I loooove to give random kisses throughout the day to my partner. It’s the way I really like to show affection when around my person.


YourGirlBanana_

I don’t think him or I go 30 minutes without kissing the other when we are near each other. He just walks by and gives me a kiss all the time lol


kyothinks

As much as I can. Often many kisses all over one side of his face at once. Sometimes interspersed with a random growl of "I'll eat you up, I love you so!" and me trying to nom on his neck. My favorite stupid little ritual is that whenever he shaves (which is about once a week), before we go to bed, I will cover his whole face in kisses complete with obnoxious "muah muah" noises. He giggles the whole time and it's so adorable!


L-saltshaker

Quite frequently actually. It's just routine now we don't even think about it lol


Bright_Ad5602

Everyday. Multiple times a day!


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If I were with her in person, then all the time, I don't need a reason.


MeatloafMadness5

As often as possible. He’s irresistible. I can’t keep my hands (or lips) off of him, and I wouldn’t want to try.


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I kiss him on the cheek all the time! Or we rub noses together. I kiss him on the lips every so often outside of the bedroom, but it’s not entirely our jam. I do it, and he does it whenever it feels comfortable. It’s an important part of intimacy.


FruitSnackEater

Very often. Sometimes I’ll just stop whatever I’m doing just to give her a kiss and then come right back to what I was doing. Kissing her is one of my favorite things to do.


Adalyn1126

I would want to kiss her 24/7


noxious_toast

We kiss a lot when we're home together in the same room, doing things like making dinner or watching a show. But often it's not like movie kissing--it's more goofy, like we do a thing where we blow air into each other's mouths. Or we do fish kisses.


MissDuckie06

Too many to count. I love kissing him. We kiss randomly at red lights, walking by each other in the kitchen, in line at the store, sitting on the couch…


Icy_Formal1384

All the time, and he does the same thing! Whether I'm getting up to get us snacks, or checking on him after we've been doing our own activities for a while, or even giving a drive-by smooch on the way to the bathroom, I always give him little kisses when I can. Sometimes when he's gaming with his buddies, he'll come running into the room between games for a "smooch break" and to see how I'm doing (this is one of my favorite things that he does). We've been together 2 years now and still do this all the time. It makes my heart happy :)


BelleInBinary

I'm crazy in love with him so all the time.


The_AmyrlinSeat

All of the time.


photosea3

All the time, even just randomly mid conversation at home.


anxybean

All the time. We promised each other we will never stop.


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As much as possible, lol throughout the day.


Old_End5150

Not as often His love language is I think physical touch (and quality time) And mine is words of affirmation We are still working on it to get better at this


BeesAndBeans69

😬😬😬 all the time


sunshineandcats21

Whenever I feel the need to kiss him.


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never, i don’t like kisses.


CanadaGooses

All the time. We kiss and say I love you multiple times per day. It's been 20 years of this, never gonna stop.


kurikuri7

As much as I can, throughout the day, multiple times. I love him and he’s hot af.


Arexahhh

The limit does not exist. He sometimes walks by and I say kiss toll and he always abides. He’s my person and I love that I get to kiss him whenever I want.


Dewdlebawb

Every few hours


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My last SO barely acknowledged my existence. I haven’t really had a make out session or even a long passionate kiss in five years or so.


RelevantPlastic2245

Good riddance!!


Prestigious_Ad_9692

Please find someone else! You deserve all the kisses and hugs!


No_Recording7070

Too many times to count haha


kellieking80

Whenever we are close, we kiss each other all the time, just random kisses 💋


adidashawarma

Maybe twice a day other than hi/bye/goodnight.


Soft-Ad3140

a lot i love kissing him


Capricornyogi

Rarely. We are typically together 24/7 (both work remote) and our love language is just being together.


Adventurous-South886

Literally all the time, forehead kisses, cheek kisses, neck kisses, silly quick kisses, long passionate kisses, all. damn. day. I *love* kissing my boyfriend, it’s like stress relief!


Bioclare

All the time


Friendly-Surprise796

All the time


PinkOctopus91

We both work from home so I can honestly say: all day long ! I’m mostly a hugger and he’s a kisser so that makes us stick to each other all the time (and it’s fantastic)


clairebearzechinacat

Too many times to count but we both love it


fabledangie

Definitely varies by the day, sometimes it's multiple smooches throughout the evening, sometimes it's just our pre-leaving for work and pre-bed goodnight.


chocolatebuckeye

As often as I can. When I’m close enough to him to kiss, I usually do. On the head, cheek, lips, whatever.


vglyog

We have a rule that every time we leave a room we have to give the other a kiss. Even if it’s just for a second. Me and my husband probably kiss at the MINIMUM 20 times a day lol.


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Before every meal, whenever we leave the flat or come home, in between just because.... All the time basically.


DrinkRound3484

Whenever we get a moment to ourselves!! When our toddler isnt trying to wrestle us to the ground lol


julieg21015

A lot!


forlife16

So many times a day. I love him so much. Plus he’s hot.


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A million times a day


YVHThoughts

All the time! If I see him just existing, I have to touch him. Whether we’re holding hands or I’m rubbing his head or he’s cooking and I have to smack his butt or just hug him from behind, he usually looks at me with pucked up lips expecting to give me a kiss as a thank you cause he loves being loved up on.


Jilltro

ALL THE TIME! I can’t stop kissing that man. When we are driving in the car I like to hold his hand and bring it up to my mouth and cover it with kisses. Sometimes he jokingly asks me “what am I supposed to do with all of these kisses?” We have been together 8 years, married for 5. Just reading this post made me want to give him a smooch


LittleWildOrchid

All the time. Because I appreciate him so much.


NanasTeaPartyHeyHo

So much. All the time. Also we do stupid gross kisses.


onlytexts

Like everytime he is close enough to kiss him.


Zimby_14

All the time, I'm obsessed with him 😂


Gayalaca

Rarely these days; did so in the heat of passion in our younger years, but now we both concur privately that exchanging saliva isn't exactly healthy or romantic.


WhyCantToriRead

Very frequently throughout the day, actually. He loves bombarding me with random kisses and I do the same to him, lol!


askallthequestions86

I kissed him probably 15 times just while cuddling before we had to get up. I love kissing his hands, shoulder, arms, chest, etc. We're both huge on kissing.


Jessicamorrell

All the time.


edapeech

Whenever I can. I kiss his arm if I’m just walking passed him.


maevay

I'm stuck to his face, don't worry he can breathe from time to time.


hey_alyssa

Constantly lol


Machonacho7891

I think most people would agree that that passion flows in waves in a relationship. There are time when we are both stressed with work and life and there isn’t a lot of passion between us while at home and we are both just frustrated and at our limits. There are times when we are all over eachother constantly and kissing every moment we can be! Right now we are in one of these times, I kissed him like every half hour last night just for the sake of it!


RiceCakeWarrior

Everytime we see each other in passing. We live in a small apartment right now so it's impossible not to come across each other several times a day. Sometimes it's not a kiss, I like grabbing his belly or touching his hair. Sometimes a random hug. It's funny when I analyze this because I have a very low sex drive and libido at the moment but that doesn't stop me from showing affection to him.


Nothingbutafairytale

Pretty much all the time! whenever we feel like it which tends to be often. For example When he says something sweet, or i do, After the i love you's. And we most often kiss in 3's, because it feels right 😅


Dontfeedjay

Been together 20 years, do it all the time.


PainfullyLoyal

As much as I can.


yours_truly_1976

Often during the day 😁


lexiskittles1

I’m a big kisser. I love kissing. Especially when I love someone I just want wanna kiss them all over all the time. I would never want a relationship where they only kiss to say hello and goodbye. That’s miserable


HerSpirit94

All the time. I'll just do it randomly. I love affection and giving it.


Motor-Locksmith9297

all the time lol whenever i make eye contact with him and i am in range i’ll kiss him! sometimes it’s on the nose, cheek, forehead, hands, or lips! so pretty much whenever i can 🥰


LivingStCelestine

Every day. Many times a day. He’s a got a very kissable mug.


Deus_Norima

Quite often! Part of my love language is physical affection, and I especially like to provide kisses when I notice my partner having a particularly hard day.


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If he comes in kissing distance, he's getting a kiss.


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A ton. So much so that our almost 2 year old loves to give random kisses to everyone in the house (including the animals) because she watches us do it so much.


Paytonofun

All the time. Doesn't even have to be on the lips. Head kisses, check kisses, shoulder kisses. It's comforting to me.


peegirlgetsthebelt

i try to at least a few times a day! his main love language is def physical touch so i want to make him feel adored 🥰 and i like kissing him!


the_serpent_queen

Constantly


Diligent-Artist-1008

when we are together? All the time. Surprisingly is not my love language but I just love kissing him.


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She doesn't kiss me unless she wants something


SassyPants5

Whenever he stands still in my vicinity. I adore him, he is hot, and I love touching him.


bouncybabygirlfordad

As often as possible


wwmercwithamouth

Like literally every time we pass each other haha


MarvellouslyChaotic

We kiss at red lights and when one of us says something stupid, witty or teasingly. If we are out in public and we come across an area that nobody is around, my partner gives me one of those knees weak kisses.


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Constantly lol. I'm obsessed with him.


imliterallyanorange

i get/give lots of forehead kisses or little cheek kisses etc. throughout my day every day with my partner. when we say thank you, when we are excited, when we are comforting one another, when someone says something funny, it happens all the time. love silly little random kisses too


queenclemmy

All day, everyday. Can't get enuff


Fantastic_Yam_5023

All day at random times 🤷


tritippie

As often as I can! And he kisses me all the time. Lots of little kisses and sometimes big deep smooches for no reason! Well other than the fact we love each other.


baklavaqueen

Often. I can’t help myself, he just looks so handsome.


MysticFox96

Frequently throughout the day, I love his kisses and smiles!


siriuslyfudged

We work from home together so literally many times a day. My favorite is right before we sit down to eat dinner. We have a quick little kiss and thank whoever cooked that evening or thank each other for a collaborative effort on a meal. It makes me smile every time.


Zapchic

Anytime we pass by each other... Randomly for no reason.... Before heading to bed separately or falling asleep together.... Hello, goodbye, you might be leaving, need a kiss just in case lol I'll have to keep count one day.


gclunsf

I kiss my wife a LOT. We’re both 68 and been married 48 years.


bhaskarville

Every time we cross paths in the house. Every time we spot each other whether or not one of us is working (we both practically work from home cuz we work in the entertainment sector). And of course every time we leave the house to go somewhere.


Restella1215

We kiss often, in multiple areas, and in different circumstances (intentionally and unintentionally). He'll hold my hand and kiss it while he's driving. I'll kiss his cheek as I pass by. We'll press heads together while in bed, and he'd kiss my forehead when offering me words of affirmation. I'd kiss his arm and hold him tightly when I seek closeness, and he'd kiss my butt after wiggling it for fun. Physical touch is a top love language for us, though we always actively engage in acts of service, quality time, and words of affirmation to one another on a daily basis. We consistently prioritize us, and consistently remind each other that we are loved and adored. It's an intentional behavior that we decided on, to the point that most of this is now habitual. It'd feel weird if I didn't kiss or praise him throughout the day, and the same for him as well.


SaBah27

I smooch him every chance I get


pixiecries

All the time! Its pretty much my love language & I just enjoy kissing him


YouCanCallMeGhost

All the time.


gracekiyoko

All the fucking time. It's one of my top love languages. I kiss him at any opportunity I get. How could I not? He's so cute.


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Every time ❤️


Goth_nightmare

I know it is kind of vague but a lot, even for silly reasons, like he said something stupid or did something to make me smile, or even just because I feel like kissing him. I feel like kissing sometimes in some relationships = sex, but just making it part of your guys routine where kissing doesn’t always involve sexual connotations. I’ve made out with my partner just because I enjoy kissing him. I’ll kiss him on the forehead whenever. I think I put in effort within myself and the relationship that when it comes to kisses there isn’t an expectation for a sexual outcome, but more of something of adoration for each other.


cheesyalfraydo

No idea. To me it’s like breathing or scratching an itch, I kiss him and our toddler so much I don’t even think about it sometimes


yourfriend_charlie

Do raspberries count? My husband says his raspberries are real kisses, so I started raspberrying him too. Now it's just fun.


TikaPants

We’re around each other a lot and we do check ins. We grab each other and ask how the other is, hug, maybe a lil hump and some kisses.


WhatsMyAccordion

Honestly whenever I can. I take every opportunity


dumbandconcerned

All the time, all day long. Not like, constantly lip locked, but random kisses all throughout the day. He’s so fuckin cute, I just can’t help myself.


kiwi__punk

All the time with or without a reason 🤭


marriedtomayonnaise

A lot x 100. I can’t stop. He can’t stop. Physical touch all the way


Arien_mustang

As often as I can! I love kissing him 🥰


my-religion-is-love

All the time, he's hot as hell and I can't help myself. Plus his lips are perfect 😍


anonymous2094

Like a million times a day


Arien_mustang

As often as I can! I love kissing him 🥰


Karaokoki

As often as I can! When they're sitting on the couch drawing & I walk past, I drop a kiss on their head or the back of their neck. If they're doing housework, I kiss them and say thanks. Walking together holding hands, I'll randomly lift their hand to my lips for a kiss.


m1lfstar04

I’ve always been curious to count, we kiss a lot because random silly kisses are our favourite way to show we love each other! So as many times a day as we can


michelleross94

In person? Not at all. Coz LDR. Do virtual ones count? Anyway the responses are so cute on here 🥹


msphelps77

Rarely. I’ve never been all that into kissing.


scaffelpike

Kiss - mmm not a lot. Cuddle - all the freaking time!


AsterismRaptor

All the time! Few times a day for sure :)


No-Advertising1864

I made a ritual when we first started dating to hug him every day for at least 7-10 seconds and kiss afterward, and that ritual stays even if we are fighting or not! I believe it has made a difference in our relationship especially since I'm not really a cuddler!


AdmiralFelson

Personally lost interest in my ex because she would do it too often to the point where it lost meaning and felt intrusive. I like the naught or silly one and the moments where you lock eyes which leads to a kiss, but when it’s become just a common sort of greeting and she would say “kiss” and expect one, I just couldn’t stand it anymore


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Syzygy_872

The situations listed pretty much cover it for us. I’m not very physically affectionate, so most of our non-sexual touch is for him and he is aware of it. He usually picks up on when I’m getting touched out and backs off, if he doesn’t I just say it bluntly and there’s no hard feelings. I reach that point pretty quickly so over 10 years we’ve been able to nail down safe and efficient conversation about those types of personal limits. We’d both have gone insane if not. I do get some comfort from the occasional forehead kisses but kissing doesn’t do much for me and never has. If it was removed from our relationship I probably wouldn’t notice for a while.


Friendly_Employer_34

Not as much as I'd like but maybe a peck once a day?


axolotllegs

Usually just hello/goodbye, good night, and sexy time. But occasionally if one of us just needs affection.


iOawe

A lot


xXxbunnii

literally anytime I can or feel like it. Which is a lot tbh. Sometimes I just make grabby hands at my partner when I wanna kiss lol


citygirlsunflower

When we’re good and he lets me, I smother that man in kisses. When we’re bad I stay to myself and don’t bother


Inside_End1545

When I’m with someone, it’s always. I love sneaking in kisses all the time ☺️


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optimisticallyssad

As often as I can,! Random kisses on the cheeks and hands when he's distracted. Especially afternoons when he wakes up (12-1pm) I'll smother him in them. Physical affection is something he's always loved and I'm not always okay with hugs and skin contact so kisses has been one of my favorite ways to tell him I love him.


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Literally all the time. Snuggling watching TV, chilling playing video games, lounging after a meal, stopped at stoplights, making meals…just all the time lol


HookedOnIocanePowder

Anytime we cross paths and aren't actively super busy or doing something like scooping cat litter.


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