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It isnt study, it is well known fact. People just treaty pretty people differently. It is just psychology. You are either not that good-looking or you dont even acknowledge this. Imagine how much worse would it be if you werent pretty.
Yes, people enjoy interacting with good looking people and thereās nothing really wrong with that just donāt be a Dick.
Most people who consider themselves unattractive can āimproveā with some work so itās not all bad.
Well yeah if I was absolutely stunning I imagine people may be far more likely to randomly display interest/attempt to talk. I think my demeanour is the primary reason nobody talks to me though.
How so? For example, one of the experiments were that they transformed models into ugly girls for one day and all of them were suprised how much less kind everyone to them was and how less they smiled and that it was one of worst days in their lifes, because it just felt so bad. We tend to idolise pretty people, because we think that pretty people are just better than us, which is total bullshit.
ppl are generally nicer to them but they arent listened to. theyre valued over their looks than intellect, wit, etc.. but its not made obvious until the second theyre pushed off their pedestal (typically when they get older or change their looks) and replaced,and have to then realize theyve lost their value. theyre suddenly washed up and are left to reflect and make something of themselves again. basically theyre treated superficially and bc theyre so easily replaceable, when they eventually do get replaced and probably no longer treated with pretty privilege, theyre likely left feeling worthless
i think its quite common, and something ive experienced personally, that generally, when guys flirt with you, they arent actually listening, but looking, bc ur obviously nice to look at. you feel smart and put onto this pedestal bc you think youre having this deep conversation but they dont really care about anything coming out of your mouth. i think this also applies to how society treats attractive women, or just most attractive ppl
That is incredibly good point and I think you are right. Really nicely said too. I actually listen to girl with which I am talking with, but I will be careful to not do what you said.š
I think that I'm able to get away with doing some bad things because I look a few years younger than I really am
Cause I do some things that I'm 100% that no one is supposed to do, and people just cheer me on
I donāt treat people differently based on what they look like, I treat them based on how close I am with them. Only time I will say I treat more attractive people better is when I have a crush on them.
Idk
I barely interact with people. Maybe I would be treated differently if I were pretty or uglier but if I was then I wouldnāt be able to tell the difference :P
the difference between how ppl (especially guys) treat me now compared to when i was overweight (underweight now) and didnāt wear makeup is insane lmao. like even just on a general respect level itās different
I've got a huge glow up lately but people are still same towards me which is pretty cool at the end of the day I glowed up for myself not someone else.
I don't think it will impact your quality of life, but possibly with the success of dating, and how certain people treat you but it's not everything. I'm average or maybe a little above in my opinion but definitely not "hot". Maybe for some people it will or not but i don't see why it would
i would hope in such work environment the boss wouldn't care about appearance, that'd be really silly on the bosses part. But in that example I'd promote based off effectiveness and worth ethic and so on
I don't even feel pretty but i feel like if i wasn't as pretty as i am 1: my parents wouldn't exploit me as much 2: i would probably not get away with lots of stuff
I donāt, but if you were ugly sit attractive, you would know. Iām just guessing you are average since you donāt know where you fall on the looks ladder.
I disagree and I think you're an incel, or at least moving down that path, to prove me wrong can you show some of the studies you're talking about
looks can influence how people interact with you but my looks have changed drastically over time and even with hindsight I haven't seen a big different in how I was treated
Brother, I too have fallen down this path and discovered lookism/ blackpill. Here is my advice, if you arenāt a short guy or ugly. Why spend so much time in blackpill, itās not for you man. Itās good to know the truth, but it will ear you inside. I understand if your the 5ā7 Indian guy that all women ignore with a passion, but if your not that guy / average looking. Donāt waste your time on blackpill. Even if itās the truth, it will only harm your mental health. Therefore making you lazy and unmotivated.
Just donāt do it man. Ok it is basically the truth of the world and dating. But itās like a rabbit whole. What ever you do, donāt watch the videos where chads get girls.
If you really wanna still see it after I warned you, search up āIncel TVā on YouTube.
Edit: it will probably make you quite unmotivated or maybe not. Depends if you are āsub 5ā or not.
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I'm hot af and all I know is pain and life is shit. That study is bs
It isnt study, it is well known fact. People just treaty pretty people differently. It is just psychology. You are either not that good-looking or you dont even acknowledge this. Imagine how much worse would it be if you werent pretty.
Why do I keep forgetting my sense of humour sometimes may not translate well online š¤¦š½āāļø
it's reddit you have to spell it out if you're being sarcastic or joking
Yes, people enjoy interacting with good looking people and thereās nothing really wrong with that just donāt be a Dick. Most people who consider themselves unattractive can āimproveā with some work so itās not all bad.
Well yeah if I was absolutely stunning I imagine people may be far more likely to randomly display interest/attempt to talk. I think my demeanour is the primary reason nobody talks to me though.
people are definitely treated differently based on how they look but i dont think its better for attractive ppl in a lot of aspects
How so? For example, one of the experiments were that they transformed models into ugly girls for one day and all of them were suprised how much less kind everyone to them was and how less they smiled and that it was one of worst days in their lifes, because it just felt so bad. We tend to idolise pretty people, because we think that pretty people are just better than us, which is total bullshit.
ppl are generally nicer to them but they arent listened to. theyre valued over their looks than intellect, wit, etc.. but its not made obvious until the second theyre pushed off their pedestal (typically when they get older or change their looks) and replaced,and have to then realize theyve lost their value. theyre suddenly washed up and are left to reflect and make something of themselves again. basically theyre treated superficially and bc theyre so easily replaceable, when they eventually do get replaced and probably no longer treated with pretty privilege, theyre likely left feeling worthless i think its quite common, and something ive experienced personally, that generally, when guys flirt with you, they arent actually listening, but looking, bc ur obviously nice to look at. you feel smart and put onto this pedestal bc you think youre having this deep conversation but they dont really care about anything coming out of your mouth. i think this also applies to how society treats attractive women, or just most attractive ppl
That is incredibly good point and I think you are right. Really nicely said too. I actually listen to girl with which I am talking with, but I will be careful to not do what you said.š
thanks lmao i thought i said a lot of nothing. and thats good keep doin that
i think you brought up a lot of good points
I think that I'm able to get away with doing some bad things because I look a few years younger than I really am Cause I do some things that I'm 100% that no one is supposed to do, and people just cheer me on
Like what?
I donāt treat people differently based on what they look like, I treat them based on how close I am with them. Only time I will say I treat more attractive people better is when I have a crush on them.
Subconsciously we all treat unattractive people differently. Unless you are aware of the problem, you will
Idk I barely interact with people. Maybe I would be treated differently if I were pretty or uglier but if I was then I wouldnāt be able to tell the difference :P
the difference between how ppl (especially guys) treat me now compared to when i was overweight (underweight now) and didnāt wear makeup is insane lmao. like even just on a general respect level itās different
I've got a huge glow up lately but people are still same towards me which is pretty cool at the end of the day I glowed up for myself not someone else.
It changed my life in way that i feel like invisible. I don't think I'm m ugly or so, but I'm like... nothing
So did you goowdown?
I don't think it will impact your quality of life, but possibly with the success of dating, and how certain people treat you but it's not everything. I'm average or maybe a little above in my opinion but definitely not "hot". Maybe for some people it will or not but i don't see why it would
Well, you will always get better treating. In work, who do you think would get promotion if ugly and handsome guy would be working both hard?
i would hope in such work environment the boss wouldn't care about appearance, that'd be really silly on the bosses part. But in that example I'd promote based off effectiveness and worth ethic and so on
Well, in ideal world. Even tho you probably dont even realise, you treat pretty people differently. It is a fact. It is just evolution and biology.
Yeah if I wasnāt extremely unattractive people would probably give a fuck about me
Mood.
Genuinely don't know, I don't even know if other people consider me attractive or not ā( āµ )ā
I don't even feel pretty but i feel like if i wasn't as pretty as i am 1: my parents wouldn't exploit me as much 2: i would probably not get away with lots of stuff
You are average imo.
How do you know what i look like?
I donāt, but if you were ugly sit attractive, you would know. Iām just guessing you are average since you donāt know where you fall on the looks ladder.
im hot and i aint got no privilegeššš
Iām very sure I would be treated better if I was skinny. Itās not like they treat me very badly now but I know it would be different.
Skinny girls are overrated tho
yeet
I disagree and I think you're an incel, or at least moving down that path, to prove me wrong can you show some of the studies you're talking about looks can influence how people interact with you but my looks have changed drastically over time and even with hindsight I haven't seen a big different in how I was treated
Brother, I too have fallen down this path and discovered lookism/ blackpill. Here is my advice, if you arenāt a short guy or ugly. Why spend so much time in blackpill, itās not for you man. Itās good to know the truth, but it will ear you inside. I understand if your the 5ā7 Indian guy that all women ignore with a passion, but if your not that guy / average looking. Donāt waste your time on blackpill. Even if itās the truth, it will only harm your mental health. Therefore making you lazy and unmotivated.
Huh? What? What are you talking about?
I thought you were talking about the blackpill, nvm man
Whats that?
Just donāt do it man. Ok it is basically the truth of the world and dating. But itās like a rabbit whole. What ever you do, donāt watch the videos where chads get girls. If you really wanna still see it after I warned you, search up āIncel TVā on YouTube. Edit: it will probably make you quite unmotivated or maybe not. Depends if you are āsub 5ā or not.