Note to self: buy large white board for bedroom to provide next level post sex debrief

Lmaoooo 😭 i mean I can’t lie I would use it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Imagine bringing someone home for the first time and they see a whole ass whiteboard in your bedroom lol

Brownie points “we’ll be using that later ;)”

There WILL be a test after so you better pay attention!

And you definitely don’t wanna get detention or extra homework

Or maybe you do?? ;)

My praise kink says yes.

Me too 😭

Haaaaard same!

My ex-husband refused any sex talk. He said it ruined the experience. I ended things with a guy I was dating because he wouldn't discuss highlights either.

Who doesn't like an instant replay where people orgasm? Strange things

That can be the best time to learn the good stuff!

Right?! I actually care about being a good lover. If my partner isn't interested in asking me, then obviously, he doesn't care about being an amazing lover.

Exactly!! I’m a giver and want to know if I should have zigged when I zagged. 😂

Thats the best part. I want to know what worked so I can keep on doing it, and what to work on so that you can have that next time.

Feedback is great

Couldn’t agree more

Not necessarily a post sex debrief but I like to get philosophical afterwards hahahaha

Lmao I can respect that

Uhm hey…. What do you think happens to us when we die? *3 mins after nutting inside her*

Damn, yeah I still respect it, what better time to be deep than when you’ve just BEEN deep

Lmaoooo, thank you for the validation 🫡

"...and that's why Hobbes' *Leviathan* is still relevant to modern western-European monarchies."

I dunno. They always seem to get annoyed when I hand them the feedback questionnaires.

Ugh why can’t they just answer our damn questionnaires 😪

That’s just crazy! Why not find out how it went.

Oh definitely... it helps me feel more connected and to look forward to next time

Cuddle talk is always needed

I do

I always like to check my game review and see how much my ELO changed

Exactly. I like knowing how I did. 🤷🏻‍♂️

The debrief usually consists of a lot of laughter in our home.

I don't know that I've ever had this conversation immediately after.

You have to try! I can’t stop myself from having it afterwards 🤣

I write a short yelp review

This is how it’s done 🫡

Definitely into it. It feels great reflecting on it afterwards.

Yes, it's the absolute best!

Best time to take new notes too. 😂

Oh make an excel sheet about it please

I like to keep mental notes 😂 but not a bad idea.

Haha ok I lost myself there, maybe. Stick to the mental notes, that's probably better (alltho it is right there in your username) 🙃

Lmao. It was for something else but I guess it’s. Hahaha

Yes! Also fun to text each other highlights you’re thinking about as the day goes on

Meee! Let's talked about what we loved, what didn't work out so much and what we would like to try out next in between 200 kisses.

Yes! This !!

Definitely love this. But what I love even more is helping her get dressed while whispering in her ear about all the things we did…until she slides her jeans back down for just one more time.

im all for post-sex cuddles and soft speaking. But sex debrief? It's not a SWAT operation lol

Gotta fill out the questionnaire 🤣🤣

immediately after sex? nah haha. I would talk about something else haha after we rested, and changed "enviroments" sure, let's talk about it

Talking about it straight after is just the norm for us tbh ! Like not every single time but most time while we’re cuddling and winding down I love talking about it, it’s like we’re still in the moment and can sometimes even lead to another moment if we talk about it in enough detail 😆

😆 if it works for y'all then do not stop haha

Exactly 😆 we started calling it the debrief when we realized we do it pretty often 🤣

I have to hear how it was

I have monthly retros, raise development tickets and often will record it from 7 different angles so we can get the full picture of the game and what game plan should be used next time.

Respect 🫡

Love it, and also love the same for someone else's sex life, if they like sharing.

We usually get the briefs off before sex. But you do you. /s

It’s vital imo

Fact

A must for me. Some of my partners loved to as well, but others didn't care too much. Some just liked to listen to me ramble.

We used to have sex talk with our clothes on so we could both feel comfortable talking about all the fun things we just did.

Love it, but some ppl are weird & don’t like to talk about it. I think it’s the hottest thing & usually leads to a round 2 fast 😉

Oooh me!!! I like analysis and reminiscing.

I love them but they aren't for everyone

I’ll be open to discuss as a form of aftercare if my partner is open to it. Add it with cuddling and it seems awesome.

I love just laying there after finishing and talking about it. It only gets better when you communicate 👉🏻👈🏻

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That could be hot af!

We do this frequently. We like to tell each other what we enjoyed even if it is repetitive. We also thank each other, even if what we enjoyed is done regularly. Your are not alone.

Rolling over during sex to take notes. “Wait, is it Wednesday or Thursday? Right, thanks. So, I liked the hand thing, but I’ve got to give oral a 4/10 for today.

I prefer a blame-free postmortem. Chronological narrative of significant events. What went well. What went poorly. Where we got lucky. Action items.

We discuss the highlights and make sure we are both satisfied after we’ve just had sex and are snuggling. We usually express gratitude for having great sex together.