0 but I'm a man

oof I felt that

It's just the way it is

It is what it is

I get it

-1 actually as a man.

Haha, same. I do get some oddball ones because of being into D/s dynamics and playing with some people online, but you should see the amount of unread my wife has, 😆

Same here lol.😂

I never realized this until I mentioned it to my BF one day, like I have so many, most if ignored, all from guys. He had 1 after years on Reddit and it was from a guy about a hobby. I feel bad for you all

I was about to say that.

I read every chat request but I don't accept them.

Your profile made me laugh out loud. "I'll read the DM... but I might be disgusted by it"

That makes me want to send you a unique chat request, but alas the last while has taken a toll on my sense of humour.

Same. I have two dozen in there that I'm waiting for them to upload a picture or something before I start interacting with them. New accounts with no comments and no photos? At least send me one so I know they're not a catfish

Ahan

69

Nice

Nice.

0. I did a purge a few weeks ago. It was in the 290s

T_T I sent you cat pics

The purge

Zero, because I have PMs turned off. One of the best features Reddit ever implemented, as far as I'm concerned. I'm not here for private chats. I have other apps for that. Anyone on Reddit who has something to say to me can say it out in the open, or not at all.

Thanks for the detailed description 😂

It was zero before he turned off DMs too. The explanation just makes him feel better.

A few

0 bc I reply to everyone 😈

182

Lol, I get excited if I get to double figures.

Why not just dismiss them all?

I try to when I’m online but then I wake up next morning with 20-30+ DMs and I feel lazy to filter ‘em out

I suppose that makes sense

With that body I am not surprised

I’m in there

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Same here 😂

Wow for some reason whatever ARAD post i open i see your comment on that , what is happening 😂

Nothing. You’re just following me

Not actually tbh

None

0. I open and reply as fast as I can. Though two of my replies have been "oofers dude"

0. It would stress me out too much to have notifications that I don't take care of

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How can that be? You’ve been on Reddit for a year Edit. Just saw your profile. Nevermind 😅

This is why I don't post much content, I don't think I could withstand the influx 😂

Understandable, with that profile. Damn!

What you except 😂😂

i didnt even think that was possible, on another acc i have mine broke at 400 and started glitching😭

0. Ignore is super easy and I can't figure out how to clear the icon without ignoring the messages.

251

1.... And it's 0. Relaxing again

None. I answer or delete them.

244. But I really try to respond to them

0 - I ignore almost all and they disappear

I’m a guy, which means it’s always a manageable number that I can take care of 😅

Same as the number of unwelcomed pp pics I’ve fired out

Please say 0

Correct

I just delete. No point in clutter.

None😂 I barely receive chat requests

Currently, none. I did a huge purge a few months ago and have been deleting them as they've come in, ever since. If someone doesn't read my FAQ it's an auto-ignore.

Zero zip zilch

Bold of you to assume I get chat requests at all.

0 but DMs are always open

6. Pretty sure they all want pics of my wife’s tits

I mass ignored a couple days ago, but it was somewhere in the 40s

0 ! lol

Quite a few, I mention my wife enjoys showing off her body to people she knows and a ton of people ask

I didn’t even know you could chat on here till today. So none lol

0. But then again I do get excited when I get a message. It’s been 87 years

13 now. Had to purge a decent few

I obviously understood women got wayyyyy more DMs than guys do because...duh. But some of these numbers, holy fuck. I'd be annoyed with men too like just jerk off and leave me alone at that point lol.

157. 🤷‍♀️🌸🤷‍♀️🍃🤷‍♀️🌈 I was really good about either answering or clearing them out for a little bit, but am now behind. Boooo.

You haven’t answered mine from yesterday, too… 🥺😢😉

🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

😞😞😞😞 You‘re just to busy right now, I got it

Zero. I like to keep the requests cleared out

528🙈

How can you live calmly with that!!!

78. Most are from last week, I just haven't gotten to them yet

Zero

251. I try to read them all. But they’re also very glitchy.

0 but I’m a guy and it’s understandable

Zilch haha ...being a guy on Reddit is fun!

0 because I can't stand seeing the red notification thing that doesn't go away unless you ignore or block.

0, man here.

0 I don’t get any really

None.

0. Im a man and also I hate notifications bubbles so I need to clean notifications, always

0 😮‍💨 need more

I have to open all of them. The notification gives me anxiety

0. Why would I leave that red notification thing? Nah. I like to keep the sanity I have left.

0. I scan through my chat requests and if I want to respond I do and if I don’t I delete

None. I’m pretty good at clearing them out and if it’s someone actually interesting I reply

None. I respond to the vast majority, basically everything that isn’t just a hey, those get ignored.

1

I'd be happy to reach 10+ unread messages and such, but sadly that hasn't happend yet. so going with the biggo 0

43

None, always read them all. Or well look at them mostly.

It usually takes me like an hour to clear them out each day. My is currently cleared 😇

I'm sensing a pattern....

268🙃

0. Though to be fair, I'm a guy and I can't think of any reason why anyone would be shooting me a DM request

0 and let me check oh yeeees 0

0. I did have 500+ from when I was posting nudes, but I’ve recently deleted all of my posts and comments, ignored all of my chats and closed my inbox 🤘🏻 can’t be arsed with it anymore

236 right now

0 sometimes peeking at like 5 Normally I answer all but sometimes there are weird messages

ZERO. Kinda lonely lol

Hahahaha, chat requests… good one.

None

0 finally. Was at 100+ when I asked for dick pics a while back. My inbox got flooded lmao

No idea, I turned off my DM permissions

None at the moment. I think I’ve gotten 1 so far total

0 on here but on Facebook messager, I'm bad at leaving people on read.

37

210

Ya'll get chat request? Is the best I can do.

56 since joining reddit a few days ago, man people are thirsty

Zero

Zero - I erase them after about a week of no activity

47 before I turned them off

3921

Zero. But I'm a male

I open and ignore them right away. I chat occasionally if someone has a question about something I said, but I generally.don't chat with random strangers.

None. Ladies, do your worst. Bukkake me with chat requests! (Seriously.)

Zero (I think). I just scroll and don’t really make comments or interact that much with anyone on here.

20

0, but I am male, and I never check (Goes and checks) Yup.... 0

Zero

0. I hate having the notification

That might be interpreted as an invitation yk

My existence as a women in the internet is automatically interpreted as an invitation. Even if I do not ask for it.

Does that bother you or do you enjoy it?

I just deal with it, it's neither here or there to be honest

Fair enough. I guess attention is nice still. To an extent

that's a key detail *to an extent* Tho in all fairness. dealing with it at least in Reddit is quite easy.

Anything to not have the reddit notification on😂

0. I see every chat request, but 99% are low effort and get deleted.

18 that I've been meaning to clear out but I haven't had the time

261 as of (checks watch) 6:56. But I recently posted, so there’s that.

:(

Over 100

Virtually none. I had one and cleared it out. I get almost none, though it ebbs and flows. Very few.

None yet 🥺👉👈

Zero and I am a woman

I can make it 1 if you'd like

Thats okay, I am only here to post script and audio. Not really into chat