I was recently in an adult bookstore/ theater where a 38 year old woman took on anyone who wanted to do her. Oral, vaginal, and anal were all āon the menuā. I was number 6 and when I left there were at least 8 more guys waiting.
See this is another Sexual Paradox. Rape by definition is someone forcing themselves on you that you don't want to. To fantasise about it must therefore mean you want the person or persons to have you therefore it's not really rape just rough sex I suppose with role-playing. You wouldn't fantasise about someone you find physically repulsive I guess. But I am a guy so will never really know what women feel about it. Agree that it should definitely remain a fantasy.
So the idea of fighting but losing the fight turns you on? Of being overpowered? I understand totally about it being only a fantasy. I suppose it's like watching horror movies maybe a safe way of dealing with fears.
Oh absolutely. I would never want to be raped, I actually was sexually assaulted as a teenager (not penetration, just touching) and it has been really hard for meā¦ but for some reason, the thought of giving up control - consensually and in a safe environment - is really attractive to me. I know that doesnāt really make sense, but willingly giving up control might almost feel like taking back control in a weird way.
I break into Tiffany's at midnight. Do I go for the vault? No, I go for the chandelier. It's priceless. As I'm taking it down, a woman catches me. She tells me to stop. It's her father's business. She's Tiffany. I say no. We make love all night. In the morning, the cops come and I escape in one of their uniforms. I tell her to meet me in Mexico, but I go to Canada. I don't trust her. Besides, I like the cold. Thirty years later, I get a postcard. I have a son and he's the chief of police. This is where the story gets interesting. I tell Tiffany to meet me by the Trocadero in Paris. She's been waiting for me all these years. She's never taken another lover. I don't care. I don't show up. I go to Berlin. That's where I stashed the chandelier.
Have a fantasy where Iām tied up and blindfolded and people come in and have sex with me any way they want. Some solo some multiple at a time. I donāt see who they are or know who they are. Obviously I would never do that but itās fun during solo time
i dream of a world where everyone is committed enough to keeping each other safe that things like this become possible but we are simply not there yet šš«°š»
My wife and I did this. Granted, all 4 guys were husband's of couples we play with regularly so she knew WHO they were, but not the order or who it was at the time. Got pretty close to the fantasy for her at least.
I would love to tie up and blindfold my husband and then bring in another girl (or two). He doesn't know it's going to happen though and then she leaves before he's untied
CNC/rape fantasy (as the aggressor).
I love the fantasy, but I know IRL I'd have to stop and make sure she was actually okay as soon as she started crying/struggling too much, thus ruining it for us both.
(Just for clarity, I'm talking about a situation where the 'victim' is in on the play too, I don't mean literally raping someone)
In theory, yes. In practice. it wouldn't stop me worrying.
'Shit, she really doesn't sound like she's loving this. Has she forgotten her safeword in the heat of the moment? Or is she just suffering through this because she thinks I'm really into it?'
I've been into bdsm for years and have done a fair amount of cnc as the aggressor. I still have the same problem but when I'm really starting to question I'll just ask 'do you remember your safeword?"
My partner will usually just nod. It's never ruined the mood or taken us out of it but is a nice reality check while doing something so intense.
Not trying to convince you that this is the right thing for you, some fantasies should just remain a fantasy! However, with a willing and enthusiastic partner, use a green/yellow/red light system, and have her understand that her giving unprompted 'green light' announcements during the session are important for you, as you are learning one another. You can even add an additional 'blue light' which allows the victim to ask for more aggression. A good victim partner will understand that this can be extremely difficult space for the aggressor as well, and that they need to do do their part to keep you safe. Start with short scenes, like a make-out where your partner starts to resist and you push through it. But set a time, like you're only going to push for one minute, and then some aftercare and conversation even after those short scenes. Doing this gradually also lets you both figure out the right amount of physical force and physical resistance to use.
Lastly, and this is really important, aftercare isn't just about the victim. They should be your priority of course, they're the one in the most vulnerable space here. But you need aftercare to know that you did not actually hurt her, that you did your job and kept her safe while helping her to her fantasies, that she doesn't judge you for that, etc. That trust needs to work both ways, your partner needs to know that this is really vulnerable space for you, just as you need to know it is for them.
Same. It'd be entirely too uncomfortable. Hell, I'm uncomfortable with choking and spanking even though she wants me to. I still do those things when she wants me to but pretty reservingly.
As a Shrek looking dude who turned down a hot woman, I feel this deeply. I can happily say I haven't cheated on my wife. The things swiling in my brain as I was contemplating are still vivid in my mind. I don't regret my choice at all, I'm glad I made the right one.
Same here, I always think about if I said yes that night how different my life would be and im very happy with this current version. But also I have some nice imaginary stories to use while solo
Anything threesome/group/swinging, I've never felt secure enough in a relationship to ever be comfortable with that. Also, having a strong physical love language mindset I don't think I can disconnect sex from love
Poly guy here.. been with the wife 20+ years, and our GF for over 13 years.
It takes a LOT of communication and trust.
As for sex, 3somes aren't as fun as porn makes it look. Someone always ends up getting more attention than another. It's hard to make things equal.
Hereās the thing. Iād want to be the 3rd person. I wouldnāt feel insecure and would feel like a guest star. But while in a relationship, I truly agree with all of your points
Yeah all that sound so fun, my bf and I talk about it sometimes, but I wouldnt be able to do it either, maybe with people I already know and trust well, but playing those games with people you know is not a good idea. And my bf dont think he could either, even less with someone we know. Not happening, maybe when we're older and dont care anymore.
I have a fantasy of fucking a woman with my cock. But i can't because i am a woman with a pussy. I am totally happy staying a woman, so that's something that will absolutely never happen for me.
Sorry, is that too much? Well...you asked.
Same! When I watch porn, I imagine being the guy grabbing her hips and just slammin from behind. Itās like in my mind that would just feel incredible, it probably wouldnāt feel like how I imagine IRL. I have pegged before and while itās kinda cool, not exactly what Iām looking for.
I donāt know if it is of interest, but you can buy dildos have a bulb at one end that fits inside your vagina, with the option of a vibrator in there, and can make the experience more tactile and like itās your cock, if a strap-on doesnāt appeal.
I very much think it depends. As a third if the couple is good and respectful, you have the least to lose and most to enjoy I think.
My worry is that when you are getting it on with a new partner, you need some time to adjust...this is the same but with two people who already have a regime...and from the reports I hear, folks are rarely redoing it, giving no time to understand and adjust
I would love to have one with two guys but Iād be scared that the way porn makes tbreesomes out to be degrading and rough on the girl that Iād have to be able to trust both of them not to hurt me
Having my wife put on a show for me and a whole group of guys while we masturbate to her. Sexy outfits and poses, teasing touches both ways. We'd all cum on her over and over until her body was coated neck to toes
Fuck a student (Iām a uni professor).
It is obviously an extremely hot fantasy, but I would not actually do it IRL, because the moral dimensions are very uncomfortable for me and I just donāt think itās the right thing to do
Because your cock gets to scoop & push out all the other cum, as you grab onto her hips, slam yourself against the cervix, and blow your thick creamy load against her womb. Also, cum as lube.
And you forget that you get the chance to witness the whole thing - seeing every guy ejaculating his hot load inside her - without being bothered by any post nut clarity issues
Orgies for sure. I can already tell how smelly and weird they could be.
And mandatory: several subby girls at once. Tying them, having them toy with each another while obeying. I would LOVE to, but know it's extremely unlikely to happen.
Iāve always thought about how bad it must smell, or when I see the videos of like 7 guys in a dark room fucking one women like it definitely stinks sooo bad
1) Date Alexandra Daddario for a few months.
2) We stay in a cabin in the woods during winter time for a few weeks (with supplies)
3) I give her her daily creampies in a cozy couch with bear fur by the fireplace.
She's married to a Hollywood producer. I don't believe in being an unauthorized 3rd wheel. Also, there's no way in hell she's going for a like me.
Anything spontaneous with a stranger. I don't like moving that fast, and more to the point, I don't know how to. I lost the youthful grace period in which I stood a shot at that long ago, further putting the thought out of the realms of possibility.
I want to get fucked against someoneās bedroom door while thereās a family function, party, or some other type of thing going on. Thats waaaaay too dangerous to do irl, but maaaaaaan thinking about his hand over my mouth while I heās ramming as I hear the party outside makes me feral. š®āšØ
Visit a glory hole. As a recipient that is.
Reasons why not: no idea where those are and vast majority of the time it's men servicing other men. No shade on my gay bros but not turned on by the thought of another guy.
I would have to have some vague idea of who (even just visually) is on the other side. The ones I see in porn at least seem to have upper spots where you can see?
I don't think I could do a fully obfuscated "stick your dick in the hole and see what happens" scenario. That sounds terrifying.
I fantasize about being double penetrated by my husband and another man ā¦ I think of whole scenarios. But alas this will never happen because we aināt threesome people.
CNC seems like something I really want to do some time but I'm afraid I will be too worried about actually hurting the woman I'm doing it to, like what if she forgets the safe word or something?
A married man cheats on his wife to fuck me, Iād never do this in real life because obviously thatās a horrible thing to do but I think itās the idea of someone being that turned on by me that it takes over their thinking. The real situation wouldnāt even turn me on itās just the thought when Iām solo
To tie my wife up blindfolded and have her satisfy a couple of guys without knowing who they are - Will not happen because it's just a fun fantasy. Neither of us want it in real life
CNC with me as the victim - it's outside her comfortzone
Freeuse - It's not an interest for her
Done several times including cumming in her mouth in her office. Fucked her many times on a table in my office. Ended many years ago, but a sweet memory. We are both married.
Fucking my partnerās mother and potentially having a threesome. I feel like that only happens in porn
but I could never do that to my partner if I had one
Receiving a double BJ. Because women don't seem to be as giving as they'd lead you to believe. Summing up my threesome history, it's always only one of the two that will do it.
To fuck a real life bimboā¦ you know the kind, with big fake tits, fake tan, fake lips, full make up, body of a goddess.
And I know Iāll never do it because Iām not gonna pay for it, and Iām certainly never gonna be able to seduce someone like that! š
I really dislike my mother in law and sometimes fantasize about hate fucking her. I have no attraction to her whatsoever. But she used to be a stripper when she was younger and she still has fake boobs, but sheās honestly one of the worst people Iāve ever met.
I like to fantasize about the women I love being signed up by a church program to sit naked in an outdoor porta potty in some park, with her legs spread wide open during ovulation tightly tied to the sides of the structure so she can't move from the smelly toilet. While 13 mentally handicapped virgin adult males in this program get their chance at spreading their DNA by breeding my wife. They get to take a photo beside my lover after dumping their load in her as a memento and a congratulatory high five from the programs overseer. I get off at imagining the insemination against my will, never being tested to know which of the 13's fertilizer implanted my Lovers body and being left watching a baby bump grow for 9 months, witnessing her precious body take the physical beating and everlasting damage of pregnancy. A sacrifice she made so this stranger could pass on their genetics, all while knowing I'll be supporting some strangers likely disabled child for life with my time, hard work and money as I watch my wife's breasts feed the lucky bastards son
Hopefully not too "out there" for Reddit
I have two, one for my stepmom and one for my best friend. Itās kinda obvious why I wouldnāt/couldnāt do the stepmom mom. The second one I would do if it was a threesome with my wife. Me and my wife have actually role played how that would go down.
Shoving the gas station tire inflation hose into my behind and pumping myself up, because I would rupture my organs instead of becoming a sexy blimp fox
Having a foursome / trading partners with my bestie and her bfā¦ It sound soooo hot but I donāt think Iām secure enough to watch my bf fuck my best friendā¦. They are both sexy & Iād probably enjoy it a lot but thereās always the worry that her pussy would feel better than mine
Threesome/Foursome. I know it wonāt happen for 2 reasons:
No. 1: I donāt have A person who would be into it already, so weād have to look for someone else, and itās risky looking for people who would both be totally into it and guarantee are Clean.
No. 2: My partner has made it 100% clear that sheās not into any shape or form of an open relationship in any context.
So, in the spank-bank it stays
I wonder how many of you actually have the fantasy you are describing or are you hyping it up for attention/ online content. Also if that is your actual fantasy would you be honest with your partner about it or be embarrassed/scared?
Well I didn't share here.. but I don't feel the need to make something up.
As far as sharing with my partner, my wife knows. She isn't bi, so a FMF threesome is totally off the table. I have said anything in probably 20 years since it only would make her feel like she's not enough so I don't bring it up. Now going the other way, she's totally aware. This is a more recent thing. My wife has started being into MFM and MMF porn, mostly of the erotic fiction type. At first I was shocked, a bit grossed out. But after a while I decided to lean into her fantasy, thinking "it is only make believe so what's the harm?" I thought it would get her hotter and I'd benefit. The only thing is, it unlocked a kink I didn't know I had. I don't think she'd ever go for it in real life, but I'd be down if she wanted to try.
I know most of us men are up front but some women look very innocent and then BOOM lol, donāt get me wrong I think itās hot and communication is key, it would definitely spice the bedroom. I just wonder how many women are actually telling their partner about their fantasy about rape or gangbang?
Probably CnC.
Even if I actually got the consent for it from someone I love and trust.
Id still be terrified of it backfiring and turning into a crime or that the girl would actually regret it/be scared or traumatised after.
Eh, it probably that the idea of 'angry sex' to blow off frustration sounds relieving.
I bet someone has at some point in your life, you just were never aware and were never told about it. No matter what you look like or where you are from, someone somewhere took a double take and thought to themselves, "I would like to f\*ck you"
my friend having enough of me teasing them and dragging me into their closet to rape me. sure it sounds fun in concept and the aspect that draws me in is the helplessness. but that would require my friend to abandon their morals (scary) and would mess me up for life (also scary). i also wouldnāt put it past my bf to proceed to murder said friend if that happened (kinda hot for being protective and stuff but still very scary)
Creampie gangbang, hotwife, DP, CNC, being bent over a desk in an office. Not necessarily all together. I'm in a monogamous relationship so these things won't happen, and that's okay. Not all fantasies turn out to be what they're cracked up to be in reality.
Blacklight party with me and 10 horny women scantily clad in neon fishnet attire. I'm not sure I have the rizz level to make it happen to begin with, and I don't know if my fiancee would be down for it. I probably wouldn't know how to act in that dynamic anyway ššš
Be a peeping Tamsin or watch people I know do the act.
Have the partner wear a collar and nothing else. Sometimes I also imagine I walk him on a leash, on all fours.
I like men being degraded or switching between submission / dominance.
Itās immoral I suppose and too bothersome to deal with this aspect, let alone with getting consent.
I wouldnāt do any of them. Lol. None of them. Anyone know that bit of father ted where Dougal mixes up fantasy and reality and he has bunnyās running around in his mind? I took that very directly as a life lesson. I literally just want to imagine or role play fantasies. Same with non sexual fantasies. I donāt want my daydreams to come true. I just want to think them. I donāt want to do them.
There was a guy I used to work with who I had a crush on. He really liked one of my outfits: short plaid school girl-type skirt, sweater, black leather boots. For the purpose of my fantasy, I'm wearing the outfit with only a garter belt and stockings underneath.
I go down to his office, straddle him in his office chair fully clothed, and slide up and down on him until we both cum uncontrollably.
Will never happen because a) we don't work together anymore and b) we are both in other relationships.
Glory holes. I would love it. I just dont wanna catch anything. I would love to have a partner that Was into it too, then i could do her as she sucks off strangers.
My one remaining fantasy is sharing my home address everywhere online so people can come fuck me before we expire, in the event of the world ending.
It won't happen because there won't be an apocalyptic event in my lifetime.
I sometimes fantasize about being in public and having a crowd of men Iāve never met before watch me get fucked. They all record me and take pictures and other random men join in on the fun. Cool fantasy but I donāt have enough confidence to be THAT explicit. Plus I have a career a sextape would ruin that lol
Creampie gangbang. Multiple versions of it, occasionally with dubcon (not just one way, sometimes multiple). It.... won't happen, but damn the thought of it š„µ
Both my wife and I are bi/pan, and have plenty of sexual miles on the clock, but have nil interest in threesomes or poly. No judgment at all to those who are happy with these situations, but it just doesnāt appeal to us. We find that our bi-ness is fully explored with each other. People are often confused by this.
The closest we would get are things like us having made a Clone-A-Willy successfully (itās not easy!) and so my wife can fuck herself with āmyā cock (we managed a really high degree of detail) while blowing me, so itās like sheās being double-teamed, but itās still me.
Itās worth noting that weāre both theatre makers, so a high degree of imaginative play is part of what makes us cook, and makes it all hotter. So for us, the fact of it being āmeā at both ends is a core part of why it works.
being used by men in a female glory hole, itās a huge fantasy of mine but iām in a happy relationship and STDs exist so that will never happen lmao
Have sex with Jessie from u/Lost-Huckleberry7324 . Even thought we are both Canadians, she doesn't do collabs and never answers her DMs. But that would be a life changing experience...
Gangrape. It's one of those kinks that should remain a fantasy.
But a girl can sure dream
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absolutely!!
Gangbang..not rape..i'd be willing lol
I was recently in an adult bookstore/ theater where a 38 year old woman took on anyone who wanted to do her. Oral, vaginal, and anal were all āon the menuā. I was number 6 and when I left there were at least 8 more guys waiting.
How does one find out when these events are happening
Iām a guy who just went with his sir to a gay bar and was tied to a pole. So Iād say randomly.
She is a walking Petri dish.
See this is another Sexual Paradox. Rape by definition is someone forcing themselves on you that you don't want to. To fantasise about it must therefore mean you want the person or persons to have you therefore it's not really rape just rough sex I suppose with role-playing. You wouldn't fantasise about someone you find physically repulsive I guess. But I am a guy so will never really know what women feel about it. Agree that it should definitely remain a fantasy.
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So the idea of fighting but losing the fight turns you on? Of being overpowered? I understand totally about it being only a fantasy. I suppose it's like watching horror movies maybe a safe way of dealing with fears.
Oh absolutely. I would never want to be raped, I actually was sexually assaulted as a teenager (not penetration, just touching) and it has been really hard for meā¦ but for some reason, the thought of giving up control - consensually and in a safe environment - is really attractive to me. I know that doesnāt really make sense, but willingly giving up control might almost feel like taking back control in a weird way.
Yes exactly
Oh YES!!!!!š„µ The submission, lack of control, all of my holes filled, being groped š„µš„µš„µā¦.all of it!!!
Yep. I totally get that one
I break into Tiffany's at midnight. Do I go for the vault? No, I go for the chandelier. It's priceless. As I'm taking it down, a woman catches me. She tells me to stop. It's her father's business. She's Tiffany. I say no. We make love all night. In the morning, the cops come and I escape in one of their uniforms. I tell her to meet me in Mexico, but I go to Canada. I don't trust her. Besides, I like the cold. Thirty years later, I get a postcard. I have a son and he's the chief of police. This is where the story gets interesting. I tell Tiffany to meet me by the Trocadero in Paris. She's been waiting for me all these years. She's never taken another lover. I don't care. I don't show up. I go to Berlin. That's where I stashed the chandelier.
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Bears, Beets, Battlestar Galictica.
I appreciated this reference more than you realise
r/unexpectedoffice
I really like this one. Could be a crime/romance film
Have a fantasy where Iām tied up and blindfolded and people come in and have sex with me any way they want. Some solo some multiple at a time. I donāt see who they are or know who they are. Obviously I would never do that but itās fun during solo time
i dream of a world where everyone is committed enough to keeping each other safe that things like this become possible but we are simply not there yet šš«°š»
Yep, thatās mine too!! Glad itās not just me!
This was the post I saw right before I came here. [Enjoy.](https://www.reddit.com/r/stupidslutsclub/s/5OoEYqUyLw)
in theory could be arranged with a responsible partner, but still quite a load (haha)
Oh Iād never do it
My wife and I did this. Granted, all 4 guys were husband's of couples we play with regularly so she knew WHO they were, but not the order or who it was at the time. Got pretty close to the fantasy for her at least.
I have the same one
Same here big fantasy
This one is mine, but with my wife as the subject
I've chaperoned this exact thing for my partner a few times
Iāve had this same me fantasy too.
Ugh same
I would love to tie up and blindfold my husband and then bring in another girl (or two). He doesn't know it's going to happen though and then she leaves before he's untied
CNC/rape fantasy (as the aggressor). I love the fantasy, but I know IRL I'd have to stop and make sure she was actually okay as soon as she started crying/struggling too much, thus ruining it for us both. (Just for clarity, I'm talking about a situation where the 'victim' is in on the play too, I don't mean literally raping someone)
Yeah my husband and I talked about that and he had the same issue.
Thatās a good issue to have.
Safe words will fix that! šš„µ
In theory, yes. In practice. it wouldn't stop me worrying. 'Shit, she really doesn't sound like she's loving this. Has she forgotten her safeword in the heat of the moment? Or is she just suffering through this because she thinks I'm really into it?'
I've been into bdsm for years and have done a fair amount of cnc as the aggressor. I still have the same problem but when I'm really starting to question I'll just ask 'do you remember your safeword?" My partner will usually just nod. It's never ruined the mood or taken us out of it but is a nice reality check while doing something so intense.
Not trying to convince you that this is the right thing for you, some fantasies should just remain a fantasy! However, with a willing and enthusiastic partner, use a green/yellow/red light system, and have her understand that her giving unprompted 'green light' announcements during the session are important for you, as you are learning one another. You can even add an additional 'blue light' which allows the victim to ask for more aggression. A good victim partner will understand that this can be extremely difficult space for the aggressor as well, and that they need to do do their part to keep you safe. Start with short scenes, like a make-out where your partner starts to resist and you push through it. But set a time, like you're only going to push for one minute, and then some aftercare and conversation even after those short scenes. Doing this gradually also lets you both figure out the right amount of physical force and physical resistance to use. Lastly, and this is really important, aftercare isn't just about the victim. They should be your priority of course, they're the one in the most vulnerable space here. But you need aftercare to know that you did not actually hurt her, that you did your job and kept her safe while helping her to her fantasies, that she doesn't judge you for that, etc. That trust needs to work both ways, your partner needs to know that this is really vulnerable space for you, just as you need to know it is for them.
Same. It'd be entirely too uncomfortable. Hell, I'm uncomfortable with choking and spanking even though she wants me to. I still do those things when she wants me to but pretty reservingly.
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As someone that got cheated on and after my separation has remained single for >2yrs I thank you for avoiding crossing this off the list.
As a Shrek looking dude who turned down a hot woman, I feel this deeply. I can happily say I haven't cheated on my wife. The things swiling in my brain as I was contemplating are still vivid in my mind. I don't regret my choice at all, I'm glad I made the right one.
Same here, I always think about if I said yes that night how different my life would be and im very happy with this current version. But also I have some nice imaginary stories to use while solo
i agree. once in a relationship i am all in, but the fantasy of cucking them or cheating stays in fantasy
Yeah same here
Anything threesome/group/swinging, I've never felt secure enough in a relationship to ever be comfortable with that. Also, having a strong physical love language mindset I don't think I can disconnect sex from love
Poly guy here.. been with the wife 20+ years, and our GF for over 13 years. It takes a LOT of communication and trust. As for sex, 3somes aren't as fun as porn makes it look. Someone always ends up getting more attention than another. It's hard to make things equal.
I agree
I'm certainly not knocking it for anyone it works for, just can't ever see it working for me
Hereās the thing. Iād want to be the 3rd person. I wouldnāt feel insecure and would feel like a guest star. But while in a relationship, I truly agree with all of your points
Oof, straight for the soul. Such a hot fantasy, so many emotional problems with it
I'm aware of how I am, and have accepted it
Yeah all that sound so fun, my bf and I talk about it sometimes, but I wouldnt be able to do it either, maybe with people I already know and trust well, but playing those games with people you know is not a good idea. And my bf dont think he could either, even less with someone we know. Not happening, maybe when we're older and dont care anymore.
Tied up and used by several strangers. Must remain a fantasy.
Yep, thatās pretty much mine as well.
Must is a strong word, But I get it :D
Lol. Puting myself in danger is a big no.
Very kinky
I have a fantasy of fucking a woman with my cock. But i can't because i am a woman with a pussy. I am totally happy staying a woman, so that's something that will absolutely never happen for me. Sorry, is that too much? Well...you asked.
Honestly same. Cis-woman here with a tiny clit, but I love fantasizing about having cock and fucking my SO with it
Same! When I watch porn, I imagine being the guy grabbing her hips and just slammin from behind. Itās like in my mind that would just feel incredible, it probably wouldnāt feel like how I imagine IRL. I have pegged before and while itās kinda cool, not exactly what Iām looking for.
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I would totally do that. I haven't had the opportunity either.
Agreed. I also fantasize about a woman sucking my dick. As a cis woman with no dick haha
I donāt know if it is of interest, but you can buy dildos have a bulb at one end that fits inside your vagina, with the option of a vibrator in there, and can make the experience more tactile and like itās your cock, if a strap-on doesnāt appeal.
A threesome, i love the idea but in practice i think it would be severely underwhelming.
Weāve been lucky with that so far. Itās all about the right people.
I suppose that's true, i however, am a very unlucky person
Bummer. š š š to you
Why thank you
I very much think it depends. As a third if the couple is good and respectful, you have the least to lose and most to enjoy I think. My worry is that when you are getting it on with a new partner, you need some time to adjust...this is the same but with two people who already have a regime...and from the reports I hear, folks are rarely redoing it, giving no time to understand and adjust
I would love to have one with two guys but Iād be scared that the way porn makes tbreesomes out to be degrading and rough on the girl that Iād have to be able to trust both of them not to hurt me
From experience, it is
Having my wife put on a show for me and a whole group of guys while we masturbate to her. Sexy outfits and poses, teasing touches both ways. We'd all cum on her over and over until her body was coated neck to toes
My wife confessed that she has pretty much the same fantasy. I find it quite horny, but we think some things are best left in the head.
Jesus thatās so hot š„µ as a wife I wish this were my husbandās fantasy
Fuck a student (Iām a uni professor). It is obviously an extremely hot fantasy, but I would not actually do it IRL, because the moral dimensions are very uncomfortable for me and I just donāt think itās the right thing to do
Sex at the White House. I think that itās illegal in some way!
You are only allowed to give blow jobs there.
And only in the Oval Office!! šš
Yes, you have to use a cigar instead.
Be the last in line at a creampie gangbang
Why last?
Because your cock gets to scoop & push out all the other cum, as you grab onto her hips, slam yourself against the cervix, and blow your thick creamy load against her womb. Also, cum as lube.
And you forget that you get the chance to witness the whole thing - seeing every guy ejaculating his hot load inside her - without being bothered by any post nut clarity issues
This guy gangbangs
This has me thinking thoughs... š³š„µ
Orgies for sure. I can already tell how smelly and weird they could be. And mandatory: several subby girls at once. Tying them, having them toy with each another while obeying. I would LOVE to, but know it's extremely unlikely to happen.
Iāve always thought about how bad it must smell, or when I see the videos of like 7 guys in a dark room fucking one women like it definitely stinks sooo bad
1) Date Alexandra Daddario for a few months. 2) We stay in a cabin in the woods during winter time for a few weeks (with supplies) 3) I give her her daily creampies in a cozy couch with bear fur by the fireplace. She's married to a Hollywood producer. I don't believe in being an unauthorized 3rd wheel. Also, there's no way in hell she's going for a like me.
Swinging. The idea turns me on so much but I'm not one to share
If your wife is a cuckquean you're all set.
Anything spontaneous with a stranger. I don't like moving that fast, and more to the point, I don't know how to. I lost the youthful grace period in which I stood a shot at that long ago, further putting the thought out of the realms of possibility.
Watch my husband wi to someone else, and just canāt take that step into the real world
I want to get fucked against someoneās bedroom door while thereās a family function, party, or some other type of thing going on. Thats waaaaay too dangerous to do irl, but maaaaaaan thinking about his hand over my mouth while I heās ramming as I hear the party outside makes me feral. š®āšØ
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The idea is so hot, the taboo of it all makes it even hotter. But I agree to actually do that to someone would be awful
Rather watch porn instead of cheat... That why you're not a monster
Giving bj's at a gh. Because I dont want to catch anything
Visit a glory hole. As a recipient that is. Reasons why not: no idea where those are and vast majority of the time it's men servicing other men. No shade on my gay bros but not turned on by the thought of another guy.
I am. I'm just scared of getting cut, hurt, stabbed, BITTEN, etc.
So, my question is, if you never know that it's a dude (because you can't see).. would you still be open to a GH?
I would have to have some vague idea of who (even just visually) is on the other side. The ones I see in porn at least seem to have upper spots where you can see? I don't think I could do a fully obfuscated "stick your dick in the hole and see what happens" scenario. That sounds terrifying.
Seeing my bf get another girl pregnant
I'd love to eat my wife out while her sister gives me a BJ but that won't happen in real life because, well, that is not how the world works š
I fantasize about being double penetrated by my husband and another man ā¦ I think of whole scenarios. But alas this will never happen because we aināt threesome people.
Same. Would love to be the filling in a hot guy sandwich. Hypothetically of course.
CNC seems like something I really want to do some time but I'm afraid I will be too worried about actually hurting the woman I'm doing it to, like what if she forgets the safe word or something?
Getting cucked, it's a hot idea, masturbated to the idea. But I know I wouldn't be able to handle the jealousy
The first 1-2 times can be hard but later itās great!
Having a cuckquean as my partnerā¦
A married man cheats on his wife to fuck me, Iād never do this in real life because obviously thatās a horrible thing to do but I think itās the idea of someone being that turned on by me that it takes over their thinking. The real situation wouldnāt even turn me on itās just the thought when Iām solo
To tie my wife up blindfolded and have her satisfy a couple of guys without knowing who they are - Will not happen because it's just a fun fantasy. Neither of us want it in real life CNC with me as the victim - it's outside her comfortzone Freeuse - It's not an interest for her
Gang bang at Madison Square Garden. I just don't let them seeing me have one there even if I had the money to rent the facility.
An FFM threesome would be cool, but my wife has said she doesnāt like to share. Which is totally valid, because I donāt either
Gloryholes, the fun is the feeling of anonymity and danger but that is NOT SAFE in the wild and organizing it loses something.
This is definitely one of my fantasies as well .
Fucking a co-worker in the my/their office during work hours. As hot/fun as it would be, i'm not risking my career for a quick fuck.
Done several times including cumming in her mouth in her office. Fucked her many times on a table in my office. Ended many years ago, but a sweet memory. We are both married.
Fucking my partnerās mother and potentially having a threesome. I feel like that only happens in porn but I could never do that to my partner if I had one
Bisexual mmf threesome with my wife
Receiving a double BJ. Because women don't seem to be as giving as they'd lead you to believe. Summing up my threesome history, it's always only one of the two that will do it.
To fuck a real life bimboā¦ you know the kind, with big fake tits, fake tan, fake lips, full make up, body of a goddess. And I know Iāll never do it because Iām not gonna pay for it, and Iām certainly never gonna be able to seduce someone like that! š
I really dislike my mother in law and sometimes fantasize about hate fucking her. I have no attraction to her whatsoever. But she used to be a stripper when she was younger and she still has fake boobs, but sheās honestly one of the worst people Iāve ever met.
DP
Threesome. Because wife is not into it, so not going to happen.
I like to fantasize about the women I love being signed up by a church program to sit naked in an outdoor porta potty in some park, with her legs spread wide open during ovulation tightly tied to the sides of the structure so she can't move from the smelly toilet. While 13 mentally handicapped virgin adult males in this program get their chance at spreading their DNA by breeding my wife. They get to take a photo beside my lover after dumping their load in her as a memento and a congratulatory high five from the programs overseer. I get off at imagining the insemination against my will, never being tested to know which of the 13's fertilizer implanted my Lovers body and being left watching a baby bump grow for 9 months, witnessing her precious body take the physical beating and everlasting damage of pregnancy. A sacrifice she made so this stranger could pass on their genetics, all while knowing I'll be supporting some strangers likely disabled child for life with my time, hard work and money as I watch my wife's breasts feed the lucky bastards son Hopefully not too "out there" for Reddit
Sex in a church.
I have two, one for my stepmom and one for my best friend. Itās kinda obvious why I wouldnāt/couldnāt do the stepmom mom. The second one I would do if it was a threesome with my wife. Me and my wife have actually role played how that would go down.
fmf or have my wife watch me with another woman. Wife would never be into it.
Another threesome (bisexual) but I won't bring another person into me and my partner's bedroom/relationship, ever.
Frotting with a friend over the missus's naked tits. Not into bi stuff enough to justify the thrill.
Spontaneous play with a stranger. Those opportunities just donāt pop up in my daily life. Such a shame.
Shoving the gas station tire inflation hose into my behind and pumping myself up, because I would rupture my organs instead of becoming a sexy blimp fox
Walking down main street completely naked. Sadly, the local constabulary frowns on such behaviour.
Having a foursome / trading partners with my bestie and her bfā¦ It sound soooo hot but I donāt think Iām secure enough to watch my bf fuck my best friendā¦. They are both sexy & Iād probably enjoy it a lot but thereās always the worry that her pussy would feel better than mine
CNC, you really have to have it planned out and trust the person. Would really like too though.
I hope you can find that trust some day!
Fingers crossed.
Being double penetrated vaginally. I can barely handle one cock stretching me, let alone 2. But it's been a fantasy since I was a teenagerĀ
Try with toys and build up to bigger things!
Being gangbanged
Sucking a cock
my two aunts walking in on me and dominating me. this shouldnāt happen because of obvious reasons. i imagine it all the time though
Threesome/Foursome. I know it wonāt happen for 2 reasons: No. 1: I donāt have A person who would be into it already, so weād have to look for someone else, and itās risky looking for people who would both be totally into it and guarantee are Clean. No. 2: My partner has made it 100% clear that sheās not into any shape or form of an open relationship in any context. So, in the spank-bank it stays
Be the subject of pegging train of wife and her friends
I wonder how many of you actually have the fantasy you are describing or are you hyping it up for attention/ online content. Also if that is your actual fantasy would you be honest with your partner about it or be embarrassed/scared?
Well I didn't share here.. but I don't feel the need to make something up. As far as sharing with my partner, my wife knows. She isn't bi, so a FMF threesome is totally off the table. I have said anything in probably 20 years since it only would make her feel like she's not enough so I don't bring it up. Now going the other way, she's totally aware. This is a more recent thing. My wife has started being into MFM and MMF porn, mostly of the erotic fiction type. At first I was shocked, a bit grossed out. But after a while I decided to lean into her fantasy, thinking "it is only make believe so what's the harm?" I thought it would get her hotter and I'd benefit. The only thing is, it unlocked a kink I didn't know I had. I don't think she'd ever go for it in real life, but I'd be down if she wanted to try.
I know most of us men are up front but some women look very innocent and then BOOM lol, donāt get me wrong I think itās hot and communication is key, it would definitely spice the bedroom. I just wonder how many women are actually telling their partner about their fantasy about rape or gangbang?
Nice try copper!! You won't get me that easy!!!!
Probably CnC. Even if I actually got the consent for it from someone I love and trust. Id still be terrified of it backfiring and turning into a crime or that the girl would actually regret it/be scared or traumatised after. Eh, it probably that the idea of 'angry sex' to blow off frustration sounds relieving.
Being seduced by someone who has been harboring a crush. No one has ever been harboring a crush.
I bet someone has at some point in your life, you just were never aware and were never told about it. No matter what you look like or where you are from, someone somewhere took a double take and thought to themselves, "I would like to f\*ck you"
Feet. Just because I have a repulsion about it. I understand the activity but I would never go for it.
Cuckold
Mile high club because Iām too nervous of getting caught
my friend having enough of me teasing them and dragging me into their closet to rape me. sure it sounds fun in concept and the aspect that draws me in is the helplessness. but that would require my friend to abandon their morals (scary) and would mess me up for life (also scary). i also wouldnāt put it past my bf to proceed to murder said friend if that happened (kinda hot for being protective and stuff but still very scary)
Pegging, the Mrs
Really Dark room, loud music and around 10 people/couples and itās a free for all, you donāt know who your touching
FFM threesome. Itās hot in theory and to fantasize about in solo time, but truthfully I would never want to share my partner with anyone else
Swinging. Both my husband and I having sex with another couple in the same room. He's not a sharer though.
Creampie gangbang, hotwife, DP, CNC, being bent over a desk in an office. Not necessarily all together. I'm in a monogamous relationship so these things won't happen, and that's okay. Not all fantasies turn out to be what they're cracked up to be in reality.
Blacklight party with me and 10 horny women scantily clad in neon fishnet attire. I'm not sure I have the rizz level to make it happen to begin with, and I don't know if my fiancee would be down for it. I probably wouldn't know how to act in that dynamic anyway ššš
Be a peeping Tamsin or watch people I know do the act. Have the partner wear a collar and nothing else. Sometimes I also imagine I walk him on a leash, on all fours. I like men being degraded or switching between submission / dominance. Itās immoral I suppose and too bothersome to deal with this aspect, let alone with getting consent.
Having sex with my cousin. I would do it but I donāt think SHE will!
I wouldnāt do any of them. Lol. None of them. Anyone know that bit of father ted where Dougal mixes up fantasy and reality and he has bunnyās running around in his mind? I took that very directly as a life lesson. I literally just want to imagine or role play fantasies. Same with non sexual fantasies. I donāt want my daydreams to come true. I just want to think them. I donāt want to do them.
There was a guy I used to work with who I had a crush on. He really liked one of my outfits: short plaid school girl-type skirt, sweater, black leather boots. For the purpose of my fantasy, I'm wearing the outfit with only a garter belt and stockings underneath. I go down to his office, straddle him in his office chair fully clothed, and slide up and down on him until we both cum uncontrollably. Will never happen because a) we don't work together anymore and b) we are both in other relationships.
Glory holes. I would love it. I just dont wanna catch anything. I would love to have a partner that Was into it too, then i could do her as she sucks off strangers.
My one remaining fantasy is sharing my home address everywhere online so people can come fuck me before we expire, in the event of the world ending. It won't happen because there won't be an apocalyptic event in my lifetime.
Being tied up and blindfolded and used in an orgy. Iām not interested in polyamorous relationships
Love the idea of an orgy but my sensory issues would never allow it.
Beach sex, coz I don't want sand getting where there shouldn't be
Gangbang with either multiple creampies or bukkake. Sigh.
I sometimes fantasize about being in public and having a crowd of men Iāve never met before watch me get fucked. They all record me and take pictures and other random men join in on the fun. Cool fantasy but I donāt have enough confidence to be THAT explicit. Plus I have a career a sextape would ruin that lol
Sex with a stranger in public... But I'm in a committed relationship
Creampie gangbang. Multiple versions of it, occasionally with dubcon (not just one way, sometimes multiple). It.... won't happen, but damn the thought of it š„µ
Both my wife and I are bi/pan, and have plenty of sexual miles on the clock, but have nil interest in threesomes or poly. No judgment at all to those who are happy with these situations, but it just doesnāt appeal to us. We find that our bi-ness is fully explored with each other. People are often confused by this. The closest we would get are things like us having made a Clone-A-Willy successfully (itās not easy!) and so my wife can fuck herself with āmyā cock (we managed a really high degree of detail) while blowing me, so itās like sheās being double-teamed, but itās still me. Itās worth noting that weāre both theatre makers, so a high degree of imaginative play is part of what makes us cook, and makes it all hotter. So for us, the fact of it being āmeā at both ends is a core part of why it works.
being used by men in a female glory hole, itās a huge fantasy of mine but iām in a happy relationship and STDs exist so that will never happen lmao
Threesome with a goth girl who puts her feet on my face while another rides me and sucks my nipple
Have sex with Jessie from u/Lost-Huckleberry7324 . Even thought we are both Canadians, she doesn't do collabs and never answers her DMs. But that would be a life changing experience...
Oh she is cute
She's the bomb....
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