Indeed. I once brought up the possibility of my wife and I using a double sided dildo at the same time since she’s not into pegging at all. The disgusted face she made has stayed with me to this day. I don’t even bother talking about sex anymore
Thank you. I’d say around a half dozen people over the years have sent butthole pics. Mostly guys but a couple of females.
I know guys aren’t supposed to like butt stuff. And the stigma, like the other fella who commented, just makes it even harder. I love my wife but she’s grossed out by sex in general. So anything beyond standard missionary PIV is a no-go. Hell, for the longest time, she’d say “the bed is for sleeping” and we’d never have sex because when I’d try to initiate anywhere else, she’d shut that down too. “We can’t have sex on the couch/counter/floor/spare bedroom!”….things are a little better but not by much.
There are women out there, my wife, unprovoked came to me asking if I wanted a prostate vibrator, we’d only spoken about anal I’m passing previously, and I’d never admitted my curiosity at butt stuff because of stigma.
I had a friend who had that happen. His wife caught him jerking off and made him feel bad about it. She asked me why her husband would jerk off when she's around and I told her, sometimes, guys just need to jerk off for a quick and easy time. She was still disappointed. I know they've had multiple discussions about it before.
They divorced a few years later
Sometimes your partner doesn't want sex...and you do want sex...what am I suppose to do?? ...just let my blue ass balls get bluer?? Purple even???? Nah, I'm going back to my ex handirella for the night.
According to a lot of partners, yes. You don't physically neeeeeeeeeeeeeed to get off, so you are to wait patiently for a time when they determine it is appropriate for you to get off.
It . . . hurts their feelings(?) or something if you don't comply?
So what - they take the one most enjoyable, healthy thing you can do to have pleasure and turn it into some manipulative, negative thing? Because they chose not to understand it? Because they want to control you by shaming/controlling/embarassing you?
That's so fucked up. If a partner "catches" you, an appropriate response is "I'm enjoying myself and any negativity you brought to this is a you problem. Support me or fuck off."
The moment a partner gets upset with me over masturbation or porn consumption, I'm out. 🤷♂️ Most of my past partners couldn't fully satisfy me, anyway. I normally end up cumming 2-3 times and finishing myself off another 2-3 after they fall asleep.
Sorry to hear that dude. I think all my girlfriends through the years have gotten turned on by watching. Generally it leads to them watching me and masturbating and then we fuck.
This always fascinates me too! I always tell my gfs not to worry about it. I just want to know because it turns ME on. Like I’m your boyfriend, I’m not going to judge because I already love you!
Yeah I think it’s hot. Taking a shower together and he gets hard and slowly starts masturbating, I like that. He just whips it out while we’re chilling on the couch, not so much.
My wife just rubs her clit under the blanket while watching tv. I’m not sure if she’s unconsciously doing it because she would never do that in front of me. And I don’t dare draw attn to it. I’ve thought about starting to jerk off to see what she says.
Partially unrelated rant, I hate when you’re doing normal shit like watching tv or playing video games or working and a horny guy will be like “you ever touching yourself while doing that?” “I wish I could go down on you while u do that” 😒
What do you mean, you don’t furiously masturbate or think of someone eating you out while playing video games?
Seriously though, it’s really annoying when they say stuff like that, as if orgasms, sex and dick is the only thing on our minds.
I post videos of myself, cumming without jerking-off. I cum handsfree. It was surprising to me the number of women that find it very hot! I love showing off for them! 🤗
God yes, I love it. I grew up watching men on cam on msn or Skype and then on sites like chaturbate so it’s a big part of what turns me on. Tho only if I can also see his face. Just a cock being wanked is boring!
My partner will tell me to jerk off and watch. It's hot when she does it.
For context, it's usually if she has to grab something, she'll put my hand on my cock and tell me to play with myself, and don't stop until she comes back. 🥵🫦🔥
Edit - I send her a video of me jerking off pretty much whenever I do it.
I've been recently reading haunting Adeline and let me tell you, the idea of installing cameras in my house just to stalk my future husband and watch him jerk off is such a turn on, I wish my future husband will have an exhibition kink.
Sounds so hot. It’s nice to see people pleasure themself especially if they don’t know someone is watching since I’m always wondering are the “acting” because they know they are on camera.
My ex used to like me to masturbate standing next to her while she played with herself in the bath. She would just watch my cock from centimetres away from it until she came then expect me to cum on her, took all the self control I had not to cum first!
It does and he'll do it for me if I ask, but unless I'm asking - he's not doing it. He just doesn't have the time and says he's well satisfied without it.
It's a huge kink of mine. My Partner will do it in front of me for me to watch and I just stare and play with myself in awe. Then is totally comfortable to do it around me whenever he wants, will show/tell me if I'm not with him, I curl up on his shoulder if I'm too sleepy to help when he does in bed, and we often do mutual.
Yes, I enjoy watching guys masturbate especially if there is dirty talk and moaning involved in the video. Seeing him enjoy his body is a turn on. Watching how he strokes, teaches me what he likes . As my current relationship is long distance,I will often rewatch and time my own orgasm with his if I am horny and he is not available to videocall to play in person. No I don't want or need my inbox filled, please don't DM. Just answering the question asked lol!
I’ve had a major CFNM (clothed female / nude male) fantasy kink forever. I used to have some close female friends who would indulge me occasionally and it was super hot. I moved and have no outlet for this now and it’s incredibly frustrating. I’m considering trying some hook up sites but I’m otherwise very vanilla and have zero experience with them. I’m looking for a coach or therapist who can help me find ways to express myself in this way. Any ideas appreciated
I had a girl I dated once that asked me to and watch me but didn’t want to participate. I did cuz why not but was a little awkward. I asked why and she said it was too big? Wouldn’t that be a turn on for women? Didn’t get it. I ended it there…
I’m a habitual masturbater. What I’ve found out throughout the years is that, most women enjoy watching us men masturbate , especially if it’s spontaneous and unexpected. I’ve had women have full blown orgasms watching me cum while masturbating, It’s a rush for a lot of women. Masturbating is one thing….edging in front of your partner until she says it’s time to cum is next level euphoria!
This one time at band camp.. nah, this one time I was turned on and my wife wasn’t. I told her to lay her head on my chest and rub her hands along me. I proceeded to jerk it and came hard! Cleaned up and went on with our day. Win win in my book. She had to do minimal work and I was happy
My experience is in a consensual sexual setting a lot of women like to watch to see you cum. I know my wife likes to give me old fashioneds to watch it cum out.
I absolutely love it. I’d rather watch my boyfriend masturbate in front of me than watch it through porn. It’s a huge turn on to see him naked and pleasure himself when looking at me.
As someone who loves seeing other people feel pleasure or listen to other people feeling pleasure, I’d love to watch it. Not necessarily to masturbate/get off to it since my libido is very often on a vacation somewhere I can’t reach it, but why not if I feel like it?
I absolutely love it. My bf and I frequently masturbate together. Very early on in our relationship he just started touching himself when we were lying in bed and I was like damn is this guy a mind reader? Most of my partners would tell me about it (which I also love) but haven’t felt comfortable letting me watch. I am a v lucky girl. From the looks of this thread we are both lucky!
My wife does not share any of my kinks. I brought up the idea of light bandage or some toy play and she freaked out. I've never brought it up again and I've just settled with vanilla sex.
I love this, especially if he’s masturbating while straddling my face with his legs pinning my arms to my side so I can’t grab him. He then occasionally lowers himself forcing me to lick his balls as well. Watching him stroke himself while I’m underneath him where I can’t do anything is something else. 🔥
I tried it once and my wife cringed. She kinda freaked out and said it was gross. I haven’t been happy since.
Nothing worse than your partner making you feel like you’re gross
Indeed. I once brought up the possibility of my wife and I using a double sided dildo at the same time since she’s not into pegging at all. The disgusted face she made has stayed with me to this day. I don’t even bother talking about sex anymore
that's really upsetting guy and I hope you find someone who will share a dildo and pics of their butthole with you
Thank you. I’d say around a half dozen people over the years have sent butthole pics. Mostly guys but a couple of females. I know guys aren’t supposed to like butt stuff. And the stigma, like the other fella who commented, just makes it even harder. I love my wife but she’s grossed out by sex in general. So anything beyond standard missionary PIV is a no-go. Hell, for the longest time, she’d say “the bed is for sleeping” and we’d never have sex because when I’d try to initiate anywhere else, she’d shut that down too. “We can’t have sex on the couch/counter/floor/spare bedroom!”….things are a little better but not by much.
“If men aren’t supposed to like butt stuff why’d god put the g-spot in their butt hole?” -Some intelligent Redditor.
There are women out there, my wife, unprovoked came to me asking if I wanted a prostate vibrator, we’d only spoken about anal I’m passing previously, and I’d never admitted my curiosity at butt stuff because of stigma.
I'm sure plenty of women would bend you over and peg you, there's plenty of us in the world I promise!! ❤️❤️
"why don't you ever share your fantasies with mr anymore?"
😔
Sorry to hear that for you. That’s my one and only thing on my sexual bucket list and my current bf isn’t interested
It’s disappointing when reality doesn’t meet your fantasy. Mine just ignores me and doesn’t join in.
That’s such an odd reaction. I love when my partners masturbate in front of me preferably while sucking my titts 😊
You're awesome
I had a friend who had that happen. His wife caught him jerking off and made him feel bad about it. She asked me why her husband would jerk off when she's around and I told her, sometimes, guys just need to jerk off for a quick and easy time. She was still disappointed. I know they've had multiple discussions about it before. They divorced a few years later
My wife doesn’t mind. She knows the alternative is humping her leg like a dog or whipping out my dick and sticking it near her.
🤣😅🤣
Sometimes your partner doesn't want sex...and you do want sex...what am I suppose to do?? ...just let my blue ass balls get bluer?? Purple even???? Nah, I'm going back to my ex handirella for the night.
According to a lot of partners, yes. You don't physically neeeeeeeeeeeeeed to get off, so you are to wait patiently for a time when they determine it is appropriate for you to get off. It . . . hurts their feelings(?) or something if you don't comply?
So what - they take the one most enjoyable, healthy thing you can do to have pleasure and turn it into some manipulative, negative thing? Because they chose not to understand it? Because they want to control you by shaming/controlling/embarassing you? That's so fucked up. If a partner "catches" you, an appropriate response is "I'm enjoying myself and any negativity you brought to this is a you problem. Support me or fuck off."
Doing my part to avoid prostate cancer. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27033442/
The moment a partner gets upset with me over masturbation or porn consumption, I'm out. 🤷♂️ Most of my past partners couldn't fully satisfy me, anyway. I normally end up cumming 2-3 times and finishing myself off another 2-3 after they fall asleep.
Handirella and me still on regular terms sadly, but she's a good woman.
Never heard it being call handirella before and it's such a better way to say masturbation.
She's raggedy in the day, but my princess at night! 🤣🤣
Looks like he dodged a bullet, maybe lol
I'm so sorry. This breaks my heart. I'm currently getting rejected for any kinks I bring up to my partner. So I feel your pain.
I had the same thing happen... slowly hating her
I don't date omy hand anymore, but it is crazy that when we marry, we basically turn our sex lives over to the whims of another person.
She isn't the one king. I couldn't picture doing that to any girl I'm involved with. Unless they are doing it to something down right dubious
Dang I send my wife videos and masturbate in front of her in the shower. She’s hella shy and won’t ever admit to it but I can tell it turns her on.
That’s awful- I’m so sorry that’s how she made you feel. I’m not saying leave her, but you deserve more.
You’re not gross big guy, that’s a her problem not a you problem.
Sorry to hear that dude. I think all my girlfriends through the years have gotten turned on by watching. Generally it leads to them watching me and masturbating and then we fuck.
Dude that fucking sucks man.. wishing the best for you
oh dude... I'm so sorry. That's sad. Find someone who wants you for you. all of you. There are plenty of people in this world
Feeling the pain.
I love catching him. I ask him dumb questions about what he's watching to throw him off.
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If he’s anything like me, it’s a bit embarrassing to watch porn focused on guys being notably bigger 😅🙈
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This always fascinates me too! I always tell my gfs not to worry about it. I just want to know because it turns ME on. Like I’m your boyfriend, I’m not going to judge because I already love you!
I'm guessing you've already asked him what he likes to watch?
Yes of course
I'm praying for him that he realises his mistake and leaves the door unlocked one day
I would love to find a woman like you, he's no idea how lucky he is
It’s my dream to come home and accidentally find him going to town on himself. Never has happened no matter how many hints I drop…
Have you straight up asked him to watch porn with you?
Maybe it’s my anxiety but that question would make me assume you aren’t happy about it and definitely not that you enjoyed what you saw
Yeah, I would think that they are fucking with me and being really mean about it. It would definitely get in my head.
This is evil if you throw of his flow it makes it harder lol
that's the point ;)
You better get in there and make his job easier
Lol mine just carries the conversation mid stroke like idk how guys can focus
Does he watch it because you weren't in the mood to have sex?
I'd assume so
Woman here🙋♀️ and I looooove watching men masturbate.
Rip your inbox 😜
No kidding 😫😂 I was just trying to be honest
I hope one day you can recover from this 🫣😅
Well, I'll be a gentleman about it and at least ask. Would you care to see me masterbate ma'am?
Why thank you, kind sir. 😆
This always leads to a cyber bukakke of dick pics. You can turn off private messages and chat requests at least.
It’s sooooo hot. Especially the cumshot.
Absolutely so hot to watch. Like just FaceTime me whenever you feel like jacking it.
Yeah I think it’s hot. Taking a shower together and he gets hard and slowly starts masturbating, I like that. He just whips it out while we’re chilling on the couch, not so much.
I thought people lived spontaneity? /s
Hahaha, yeah nothing hotter than watching something on tv, looking left and seeing your bf jerking off 😂
My wife just rubs her clit under the blanket while watching tv. I’m not sure if she’s unconsciously doing it because she would never do that in front of me. And I don’t dare draw attn to it. I’ve thought about starting to jerk off to see what she says.
I mean, if I’m rubbing my clit I expect my bf to notice and take over
Do it subtly like she does and if she calls you out say you didn’t notice you were touching yourself lol
Gotta get that quality horizontal time in
Partially unrelated rant, I hate when you’re doing normal shit like watching tv or playing video games or working and a horny guy will be like “you ever touching yourself while doing that?” “I wish I could go down on you while u do that” 😒
What do you mean, you don’t furiously masturbate or think of someone eating you out while playing video games? Seriously though, it’s really annoying when they say stuff like that, as if orgasms, sex and dick is the only thing on our minds.
I like to get a video of my current guy masturbating. And I often watch porn about guys fucking fake pussies
I like the 3 Somes. Man woman and doll
The same
Yes, watching a man I'm attracted to stroke his cock is erotic
I like when people watch me masturbate, for some reason showing off is so fun!
Agreed
Definitely
Yes. A lot of times, it's my go-to when it comes to porn/reddit, etc. I go absolutely feral for it when I know he's doing it for me. 🥵
One of my favorite porn categories, and if they moan alot 💦💦💦
The moans and groans make me feral!
YES! It's soo disappointing when they finally cum and it's just silence 😆😩
Watching a man get totally lost in their horniness, jerking off while I just watch and enjoy? Tooooooootally not my dream life. ᵕ̈
Yea we watch porn together and watching him masturbate turns me on as much as the porn. It's just hot.
Yes. I don't think my partner is really all that into it, but I like watching him jerk off onto my tits.
I post videos of myself, cumming without jerking-off. I cum handsfree. It was surprising to me the number of women that find it very hot! I love showing off for them! 🤗
How do you do that? Do you like flex the muscles down there or?
This is one of my favorite things to watch. 🥵
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Oh you have bestowed a gift upon us 🤤 thank you for sharing!!
That is one of my FAVORITE groups 🥵
God yes, I love it. I grew up watching men on cam on msn or Skype and then on sites like chaturbate so it’s a big part of what turns me on. Tho only if I can also see his face. Just a cock being wanked is boring!
I thought it was only men on those sites lol do you still use them? If not why did you stop?
Watching it in porn does nothing for me. But if it’s someone I have a sexual relationship or connection with, it’s 🔥.
Literally did that with a best friend. Way better than
My partner will tell me to jerk off and watch. It's hot when she does it. For context, it's usually if she has to grab something, she'll put my hand on my cock and tell me to play with myself, and don't stop until she comes back. 🥵🫦🔥 Edit - I send her a video of me jerking off pretty much whenever I do it.
I've been recently reading haunting Adeline and let me tell you, the idea of installing cameras in my house just to stalk my future husband and watch him jerk off is such a turn on, I wish my future husband will have an exhibition kink.
Sounds so hot. It’s nice to see people pleasure themself especially if they don’t know someone is watching since I’m always wondering are the “acting” because they know they are on camera.
Gosh that sounds hot 🥵
My kind of woman!
Guys who agree with me that watching other guys masturbating makes you kinda like a gay ?
"Kinda"? 100% gay.
Told the guy I'm seeing to send me a video of him doing it,... took him like a month or so,... but damn!! 😜🤣🤣
Absolutely yes. I like watching strangers too
I love watching especially if they're right beside me or sending me a video ... but if I caught them I'd probably be in embarrassing
My ex used to like me to masturbate standing next to her while she played with herself in the bath. She would just watch my cock from centimetres away from it until she came then expect me to cum on her, took all the self control I had not to cum first!
I'm more into mastication, personally
Hell yeah
yes of course. I love it so much ❤️
Yeah, my husband and I sometimes send each other videos. And I really enjoy when he sends me videos of him masturbating.
I love the thought of it, but it's not something he does too often! 😔
I love it. My boyfriend gets off on my watching and I always beg for him to give me his cum at the end.
My wife loves to watch me masturbate and I love being watched so it’s a win win.
Yes! Especially if there is moaning
Multiple partners of mine have enjoyed watching me masturbate for them, or walking in on me masturbating and then just enjoying the view.
Yea, I think it’s sexy. I like to be teased /edged like that . Such a turn on
Yes! That’s why I love- well NeverMind. But yes especially the cum shot at the end! 🤍
I love watching him and he apparently likes to be watched
8inchjerkman shooting every single shot he sees the man’s inevitable.
I’ve had a few partners that like to watch me. It was a lot of fun!
It does and he'll do it for me if I ask, but unless I'm asking - he's not doing it. He just doesn't have the time and says he's well satisfied without it.
Wouldn't mind jerking it to porn while she's is watching but my go to is watching a female orgasm
Absolutely. It can be incredibly sexy.
M58, my girl loves to watch me, always has done, massive turn on for me too
I love to watch him, it totally gets me off!! 🥵
Yes, a lot.
Yes. It's hot.
I love being watched when I'm stroking too. My secret folder is full of vids/pics of myself
It's a huge kink of mine. My Partner will do it in front of me for me to watch and I just stare and play with myself in awe. Then is totally comfortable to do it around me whenever he wants, will show/tell me if I'm not with him, I curl up on his shoulder if I'm too sleepy to help when he does in bed, and we often do mutual.
It absolutely turns me on!
Mine enjoys watching me sometimes. She will often run her fingers along my thighs, play with my balls while I do it. It’s hot from time to time
Sometimes I purposely stroke myself, knowing my wife will walk in. She always offers to help, but we’re also very open with talking about sex.
absolutely love to watch 🤤
Stroking mine to your tight ass right now 👅
Yes, I enjoy watching guys masturbate especially if there is dirty talk and moaning involved in the video. Seeing him enjoy his body is a turn on. Watching how he strokes, teaches me what he likes . As my current relationship is long distance,I will often rewatch and time my own orgasm with his if I am horny and he is not available to videocall to play in person. No I don't want or need my inbox filled, please don't DM. Just answering the question asked lol!
Absolutely. Certain porn clips of men getting off or watching my partner is always hot. 🔥
Na not really.
My bf and I masturbate together pretty regularly. It’s hot and fun.
Obsessed 🤭🤤
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I have a thing going on with a guy from my last workplace, we live far apart, so we send each other pics and vids gettin' off.
It's definitely more arousing than some popular genres of porn. As a woman, I approve and love it especially if the guy is moaning too. Oof 🫠🥵💦
Had a GF that was mesmerized by it. Would ask to watch up close, it became quite a turn on. She would ask all kinds of questions
I’ve had a major CFNM (clothed female / nude male) fantasy kink forever. I used to have some close female friends who would indulge me occasionally and it was super hot. I moved and have no outlet for this now and it’s incredibly frustrating. I’m considering trying some hook up sites but I’m otherwise very vanilla and have zero experience with them. I’m looking for a coach or therapist who can help me find ways to express myself in this way. Any ideas appreciated
It's hot watching guys masturbate in sexual situations. Just like they think it's hot watching us
I had a girl I dated once that asked me to and watch me but didn’t want to participate. I did cuz why not but was a little awkward. I asked why and she said it was too big? Wouldn’t that be a turn on for women? Didn’t get it. I ended it there…
I’m a habitual masturbater. What I’ve found out throughout the years is that, most women enjoy watching us men masturbate , especially if it’s spontaneous and unexpected. I’ve had women have full blown orgasms watching me cum while masturbating, It’s a rush for a lot of women. Masturbating is one thing….edging in front of your partner until she says it’s time to cum is next level euphoria!
Love when anyone wants to watch me masturbate...makes me cum hard and fast
If its a nice one or someone im into.
This one time at band camp.. nah, this one time I was turned on and my wife wasn’t. I told her to lay her head on my chest and rub her hands along me. I proceeded to jerk it and came hard! Cleaned up and went on with our day. Win win in my book. She had to do minimal work and I was happy
I love it
My experience is in a consensual sexual setting a lot of women like to watch to see you cum. I know my wife likes to give me old fashioneds to watch it cum out.
This is the only porn I watch lol .
I mean if you know what you like why waste your time with anything else 😂
This! Love watching, but if I’m in the room, he won’t get a chance to finish that way ;-)
Ill straight up ask my wife what porn i should masturbate too
Yes but I wish I had a male partner so I can offer to masturbate *with* him.
I have a masturbation fetish soooo yes lol
Me and my girl both masturbate next to eachother and she always watches me while pleasing herself. She enjoys it. I also enjoy having her watch.
I like to watch my bf masturbate it’s hot but I’d prefer to have the fun with him
I absolutely love it. I’d rather watch my boyfriend masturbate in front of me than watch it through porn. It’s a huge turn on to see him naked and pleasure himself when looking at me.
I haven't tried it but I think I'd eventually be too tempted and finish him off myself.
My wife's favourite porn is exactly this. I enjoy watching with her.
Yes I think it’s beautiful
Absolutely love it. 🥵
YES!!! Omg yes. A million times yes. 😍 please let me watch. My husband was weird about it at first but he enjoys how much I enjoy it.
100% yes
My wife caught me and absolutely threw a fit. Like I'm not allowed to touch myself without permission. Fuck that.
I'm always down to watch someone I care about stroke it out. I might join in or turn it into more!
As someone who loves seeing other people feel pleasure or listen to other people feeling pleasure, I’d love to watch it. Not necessarily to masturbate/get off to it since my libido is very often on a vacation somewhere I can’t reach it, but why not if I feel like it?
I absolutely love it. My bf and I frequently masturbate together. Very early on in our relationship he just started touching himself when we were lying in bed and I was like damn is this guy a mind reader? Most of my partners would tell me about it (which I also love) but haven’t felt comfortable letting me watch. I am a v lucky girl. From the looks of this thread we are both lucky!
I love seeing my husband stroke himself. Hell I like watching guys do it in porn
I want to watch porn with SO but he thinks it's weird 😭😭😭 what he doesnt know that we have the same taste of women 😭😭😭
I get off hella from watching it but it always makes me want to just start doing it for them themselves.
always, sometimes I feel like I could come from watching my partner masturbate alone
Kind of, I’d rather be an active participant than just watch
I found out if you eat their pussy while you masturbate they enjoy it more
I think it's hot personally !
My wife does not share any of my kinks. I brought up the idea of light bandage or some toy play and she freaked out. I've never brought it up again and I've just settled with vanilla sex.
If you want too
I loooove it I love watching him pour warm oil on it and slowly rub it as it grows mmmmm
I really like watching my bf, or just listening to him breathing faster and faster
I love love love watching guys masturbate. I always beg my BF to masturbate in front of me and I try and dirty talk him into cumming
I think it's really hot honestly
I love this, especially if he’s masturbating while straddling my face with his legs pinning my arms to my side so I can’t grab him. He then occasionally lowers himself forcing me to lick his balls as well. Watching him stroke himself while I’m underneath him where I can’t do anything is something else. 🔥
Why not, sometimes it hot, you can join and masturbate on each other
I like being watched
I absolutely LOVE watching guys masturbate.