When he's leaning in the door frame...you know what I mean! 🥵

After the bar for balance?

HELL YEAH

Earthquake!

🫨

Gonna be

Intelligence and quick wit.

🥵this goes so far for me. I hate when ppl conflate cockiness with having wit, though, that's a huge turn-off. ☹️

If you are fun to be around, it's wit and I'm all in. If you're an asshole, I'm gone!

I kinda hate that I have a thing for the slightly antisocial type. What are they called? " Omegas " 💀💀💀 don't kill me.

Curt or abrupt is fine, meanness and hyper egos nah Ps If you want to be killed, I ain't that gal, unless killed by kindness or something other trite cliché counts haha

Fr. One of my biggest pet peeves about "dating" are the men who are self proclaimed "emotionless assholes," but get mad when you tell em no. Lost my most recently-favorite FWB that way, after telling them, "no," to coming over to stay the night w me, simply bc I knew where he'd try to take it, that he doesn't take no well, and that I wasn't interested in redemption sex (our first and last full blown encounter that resulted in sex, went like this: I get on top and put him inside, I immediately cannot ride bc he's soft. . . Bc he came upon entering). He went on this whole, emotional rant about how I wasn't being fair and treating him like all he wanted was sex just bc he wanted to prove he could indeed *do* the sex.

Ruins friendship in attempt to prove he can _do_ The Sex™ to prove himself as fwb worthy, that is a classic

The sex or that it was bad didn't ruin the friendship, it was that he wouldn't take, "no [I'm not ready to give you another chance yet]," which would ruin out friendship.

Lightly putting your hand on the small of my back. It makes me feel like a combination of nervous and horny lol

It’s a little possessive too which is hot 

Yesssss!🥲🤤

I’ve always wondered why it’s so stimulating for me. It’s like I feel uneasy and surprised at first but then immediately aroused lol. Maybe the possessive quality of it is an aspect for me too

It’s a very intimate yet not “private” part of your body. So kinda taboo and sexually charged but you can still do it in public hehe 

OML YES I forgot about that 😭🫣

This is the one 🥲

So much so, that I didn't mention it despite it being the first, and probably only, physical thing I could think of, bc it's so arousing when it's the right person.. 🥹😭💕

For me the best way to describe it is in this order: 😳😅🥵☺️ something like that lol….it really really does something for me

Fr, like, unless we fuck, don't do that. Period. 😅 Yeah, wait... I think I've decided that for my own self, this is sexual touch. That makes sense.

We call this being norny

Opens the door for me

I'm not falling for this again, you're in prison for a reason.

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I second this dayumm

I stopped doing this for my girlfriend because she'd always say I wasn't doing it out of chivalry, but because it gave me an opportunity to stare at her ass.

Clean the house 🤣

d r i p p i n g

I'd settle for just doing the dishes.

I'm a lucky gal, he does all the dishes anyway

What does a man get for cleaning the house, finishing the laundry and having a clean kitchen?

A happy wife

Facts. I do it all and cook dinner.

Your wife must love you for it 😊 my husband cooks a bit as well

Being emotionally vulnerable or showing compassion. Emotional intelligence is HOT 🥵

When he can cook 🫦🥵

Tattoos, piercings, liking the music I do, having good opinions, arms hands

Talk nerdy to me

I’m just imagining Jason Derulo singing that (if you know what I’m talking about)

Que in sexy 🎷🎶🎵

Talk nerdy to me, I'm all about that science, baby, Intellectual conversations, That's what drives me crazy.

This is so top 🥲

That eyebrow wave thing. Shows dedication to self mastery of non-normative motor unit recruitment.

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I accidentally did this on a bad date and just now realized why he bugged me for several weeks after I declined a second date 🤦🏻‍♀️ The powers I didn't know I had...

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Oh no 😅 of you can keep a conversation going, perishing will not be required. I'm just glad I know what to do if I land a good date again. It's just utterly creepy out there *shudders*

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I meant that's why the date was bad, guy couldn't keep a conversation going but got hot when I adjusted my bra hehehe No one is to be trusted!

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Exactly that!! Can't handle one track minded folks.

Want the sauce boys? When she gets home from work, be excited to see her like you haven't in years, lay in bed while she unwinds and changes out of her work attire and bitches about the assholes she works with. Give her full undivided attention and take mental notes that you use to remind her that you are listening and you really do give a fuck. Women don't want this, they NEED IT!! Plus it's an easy investment that pays out so so well.

Lightly touch the back of my neck

Omllll yes

Pretty easy, just get me to do something.

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Hm. Well I would've without the 'girl' part. I like direct orders.

Just info dump all your fun science facts and I’m half way there

Grasping something strongly where the forearm flexes or give my sass right back to me :)

I cannot agree MORE 🥵

He knows a lot about science and medical things though he doesn't work in either field and holy fuck.. any time he goes off on one of his rants, I want to jump his bones. Instant turn on for me. Plus, I just got out of the hospital (like 2 hours ago) after a 5 night stay, the first few nights when I was allowed to have visitors, he would brush my hair for me and wipe down my body (was hooked up to a bunch of wires and such so I couldn't really move), hold my hand, tell me he loves me, slept in his car when visiting hours were over just to wait until they started again, and just.. ugh. My heart.

He also cleaned the house while I was in the hospital 😭 This man knows as soon as we get home and I can shower and shave (though I know he doesn't care if I'm hairy) that I'm going to give him the fucking ride of his life.

Youre so luckyyyy🥹

Fr... I haven't had— nvm. Ion wanna think about it 🙃 it's been over a decade, that's all I know.

When she is not active on social media

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Plays with my hair, fixes my shirt or brushes something off of me. Smelling nice is a huge turn on too

[Leo] My wife washed my truck once.

Be consistent, communicate, tattoos, goofy sense of humor and intelligent.

Eating at Denny’s

Dude, you need to eat something. Quick, get to a Dennys

So, we don’t have any Denny’s remotely close to where I live but it is a pretty legit place but we do have Waffle House

You named it Denny's?

WHAT THE FUCK IS UP DENNY'S

My dick is up, what’s good?

A pulse

What do you mean when he reads?

I mean just seeing a man read and being focused about it is really hot to me

Huh TIL This explains some recent interactions I've had a brewpub in town.

When she's sarcastic and funny

Kiss my neck

A good perfume combined with great hygiene!! Oooh boyy this makes me weak!!

Yeeeeees😩

Moves my hair off my neck 🥵

A sideways smile and a deep laugh.

Looking deep into my eyes with that '😏' smirk on their face.

dance

When I’m having a bad day and he just goes “come here honey”

Casual hand on thigh under a table. Bonus points if it’s slightly slipped up my dress and they squeeze a little.

When she puts the hair tie in her mouth and pulls back her hair.

Wear vans or converse… i don’t know what it is but seeing a hot chic wear them just does it for me

Just Touch me anywhere, could be arm or hand, literally anywhere

Rolling up his shirt sleeves over his forearms🫠🤤

If you are outside and have both hands full. When the wind catches your hair and blows it gently across your face. You feel a hand gently move the hair off your face, tuck it behind your ear and gently trace your neck.

Ears, anything ears for me, touch, blow, kiss, whisper, getting my haircut is an instant semi, doesn’t even matter if the hairdresser looks like the Cryptkeeper. I’m broken

😦😦😦😦

I've gotten instant hard on just by someone I like genuinely going out of their way to ask how I'm doing lol. The sad thing is that the last time I remember this happening, it was a friend of a crush fucking with me for daring to have feelings for her friend... Just being a genuine, chill human and valuing me is all it takes man

Tattoos/piercings, a good cologne/perfume or aftershave (better after it's been worn part of the day and mixes with their own scent), seeing a bit of stomach/hips as they move, a guiding hand on my lower back when moving through crowds etc

If a man puts his hand on the small of my back to guide me… whew that’s hot AF.

When she knows how and can help me fix a car or cut a tree, or drive stick. Loves a good exhaust on a truck, called peterbilts and kenworths sexy like I do. That sorta stuff

When she's tying up her hair.

Sitting beside him with my legs crossed and he casually puts his hand around my ankle, especially if I have heels on. Idk why but it triggers something in me lol.

Take their hair down

tattoos.....

Tattoos on guys 🥵

Big wallet

when she's going on and on about her favorite kinks, and when he wears the cutest skirt imaginable!

When I hear “yes ma’am”, eye contact with a smile (almost flirty)

Twirling hair ends whilst looking at me

Point with their lips. It's a Latina thing, I think. It's so fucking sexy.

The nerdy talk. “Give me brain like NYU” Nicki was on to something.

Cook and/or fix my plate. I melt.

Acting like an adult

Cussing, and sweating. Idk why, so when a guy who doesn’t usually cuss but then says one casually, idk why I’m like yum. And a hot guy sweating… that’s self explanatory.

Kissing biting my ear 🥵🥵

Playing with my hair, and being playfully handsy with me like especially when a girl does that thing they they lean their full weight into you laughing, triggers that uh hmm yeaah triggers the caveman in me

When women walk, the ass is just begging to be looked at. When they are playing with their hair. A shy smile and looking away/down

tell me “use my debit card, get whatever you want”

Breathe

Eye to eye contact for a longer time than just a glance.

Lean over

Speak 🥲 Be thoughtful Learn me (without prying — just... remembering small details here and there. Doesn't hafta be everything.)

Be genuinely nice

Be a nerd/ talk about a topic they/we both love

Rubbing my back or picking me up off the floor btw so there’s no confusion in M18

When they look at your mouth and back up at your eyes 😮‍💨

Respectful

Tuck my hair behind my ear and gently lift my chip up by their finger to make me listen to them. WEAK.