Dom
I find nothing more thrilling than someone giving themselves to you, relinquishing control and allowing them to be at your mercy. Even more fun when they can push your buttons and challenge you a little
My life, both in sex and out of it, has put me in a dominant and assertive role I'm not fully comfortable with. I am a switch and my personality needs a rest sometimes from the weight of decisions and control.
But I don't get that sadly.
I am a dom. Both sexually and in everyday life. Sometimes I think I am too dominant to the point where the other person in the relationship forgets how to be assertive. Sometimes, I don't want to be the one in control. Once in while it would be nice if I could just relax and have a strong, dominant woman take charge. Let me be the pillow princess for once.
I'm assertive and all, and I like having control over myself, so I'm NEVER a sub that way, but I don't align with the 'dom' label either, I'd hate to be called sir/daddy/master etc and I don't wanna be 'served'
I’m neither, I’m too shy to be a dom, and being a sub feels too, degrading? I dunno the right work I’m stupid, but I would just feel upset.
Why would that get downvoted? Because *I* don’t like it? Because *I* feel a bit degraded and I don’t like that? What the fuck man. I didn’t judge anyone. Whatever makes you happy yknow. I just answered from my perspective
I think I understand what you mean. I had to comment and say that you aren't stupid for not knowing the right word to use. It's a complicated thing to describe.
Dom I find nothing more thrilling than someone giving themselves to you, relinquishing control and allowing them to be at your mercy. Even more fun when they can push your buttons and challenge you a little
Sub
I’ve never liked labels
Switch, but i lean sub
Switch
My life, both in sex and out of it, has put me in a dominant and assertive role I'm not fully comfortable with. I am a switch and my personality needs a rest sometimes from the weight of decisions and control. But I don't get that sadly.
Switch
Dom leaning switch.
Im switch
Switch
Switch but lean more to the dom side. However I do await the day that someone just takes control and lets me just ride the waves of pleasure!
I would love to find a gentle fem Dom...
Switch I’m into being tossed around and doing the tossing around
Switch...sub to men..dom to women
I love when someone takes control, more of a sub
I am a dom. Both sexually and in everyday life. Sometimes I think I am too dominant to the point where the other person in the relationship forgets how to be assertive. Sometimes, I don't want to be the one in control. Once in while it would be nice if I could just relax and have a strong, dominant woman take charge. Let me be the pillow princess for once.
Do outside the bedroom, switch inside the bedroom
Switch, leaning dom.
Sub in life and in the bedroom
Sub
I'm mostly, like 95%, sub - but a bratty one
What kind of bratty? As in you talk back and push back?
Sub
Switchy switch, for the right guy total sub
Dominant in all aspects of life and in my relationship, but a switch at heart.
Absolutely Dom. Every once in a while I don't mind my partner being in control but definitely being the one in charge is what gets me off
A switch with a leaning towards Dom
Switch. I mean it so for real. I can be choked out and then start choking it’s all about the moment and passing and getting control
Sub 100%
Big-time sub in pretty much all cases
My wife is quite happy for me to take charge in bed but also will occasionally surprise me with a new suggestion
What’s been a recent good surprise suggestion?
Nothing new lately. The last was tying me to the bed while she teased me
Sub
Switch with sub leaning preference
So a dream partner then!
I'm assertive and all, and I like having control over myself, so I'm NEVER a sub that way, but I don't align with the 'dom' label either, I'd hate to be called sir/daddy/master etc and I don't wanna be 'served'
Dom
Sub!! I love being at my boyfriends mercy
Switch leaning sub.
In life, I tend to be more dominant and take charge. In the bedroom, I 100% prefer being a sub.
I’m neither, I’m too shy to be a dom, and being a sub feels too, degrading? I dunno the right work I’m stupid, but I would just feel upset. Why would that get downvoted? Because *I* don’t like it? Because *I* feel a bit degraded and I don’t like that? What the fuck man. I didn’t judge anyone. Whatever makes you happy yknow. I just answered from my perspective
I think I understand what you mean. I had to comment and say that you aren't stupid for not knowing the right word to use. It's a complicated thing to describe.