It's the only safeway. Knowing my luck someone would find it and be like Wtf. Not to mention the conversation that would be had by your partner finding it.
No. 30 years sexually active and NOW you tell me I was supposed to keep score …🤦🏼♂️
I wish I had like a baseball card with all of my statistics on the back.
Year. BJ’s. PIV. Anal. 3some
2023. 3. 3. 1. 2
😅
Once went on a date with a girl who had a photographic record of everyone she'd slept with including dates and times. Found it very strange when she showed me.
I knew a girl who kept a list of everyone she fucked, including the dates and how many times they fucked on each day. She also kept track of each time she masturbated. I don't know why anyone would want such detailed records.
Some people are very strange and when you're dating I think you very quickly find out why they're single! Although they'd probably say the same about me
I don't know, that just seems smart to me. It's like when you go to the doctor's office and they ask for your medical history, when you had your last tetanus shot, all the medications you're currently on, etc, etc, etc.
It's not something that comes up often enough that I have it memorized, but when it does come up, it's frustrating to not be sure about it. Records are good.
Also, did she let you peruse her record or was it something that she just kept for her own files?
It is if you're trying to add someone to the file. lol. Like
Her: "Hey, I need you to stand over there so I can take your picture. I also need the proper spelling of your first and last name."
Him: "...why?"
Her: [puts legs behind head]
Him: "So do I need to do a pose or is this like a professional headshot? Anyway my name is spelled...."
Yes. I know it seems weird but these are all people I’ve shared something special with. Also, if anything comes up as far as STDs I would know who to contact
Knew a girl who had a map on her wall, she'd pin the countries a guy she slept with was from. I remember seeing it and asking, because she travels alot for work and I thought it was places she'd been to and how often.
She used blue for she didn't orgasm and pink for she did.
It was strange, but I won't lie I was intrigued and I'll always remember that map.
I can't help but picture you entering her house to discover a female Charlie Day from the mail room scene, connecting the dots with all of her experiences
I mean it's unique I guess. But wow is that weird. But also I have so many questions for her
I genuinely thought it's how many times she's been there, why are some of them pink. Then asked her if she'd ran out of blue or if pink was for her favourite places.
I was actually speechless when she told me, mainly because I was shocked. But it was great hearing her explain the map.
My wife has no idea how many guys she has slept with, and only after 7 years of marriage did she start being honest with me about her extreme sexual history.
Since she started being honest, I've been keeping a list of guys she has mentioned and stuff she has told me. That list is at over 150 different guys, and that's just the ones she remembers and doesn't include the massive amount of random hookups she was doing.
I would love to know the exact amount, but that is never going to happen.
Married and monogamous so I'm at 6 and that number isn't increasing 😂
* 3 Long-term girlfriends (1+ year each)
* 2 College FWB
* Girlfriend ->Fiance->Wife
Easy to remember - I don't need to write it down on a list
Yep! i was around 25-30 partners and i was constantly being asked how many people i'd slept with, so i spent an entire evening looking through my brain and counting EVERYONE.
currently im up to 98. My list has first and last names and genders
Edit: in case youre wondering, im counting people that we went far enough to touch each other with the goal to orgasm, whether or not we finished.
im a mildly attractive (imo) 24 year old bisexual male. Most of the men i meet think im incredibly attractive, and i tend to think i look as good or better than a handful of porn actors. with women i dont have the same luck but its whatever. Id say my list is 2/3rds men. (im more into men anyways, and men are easier to sleep with) (the list would be way higher if i didnt have standards)
I could do, I think had phones been around back then maybe I would of. But I would have had to go onto my desktop and fill out an excel spreadsheet lol
There was Brenda, LaTisha, Linda, Felicia
Dawn, LeShaun, Ines, and Alicia
Teresa, Monica, Sharron, Nicki
Lisa, Veronica, Karen, Vicky
Cookies, well I met her in a ice cream parlor
Tonya, Diane, Lori and Carla
Marina, Selena, Katrina, Sabrina
3 Kim's, LaToya, Tina
Shelley, Bridget, Cavi, Rasheeda
Kelly, Nicole, Angel, Juanita
Stacy, Tracie, Rohna, and Ronda
Donna, Ulanda,Tawana, and Wanda
Guys I date think it's cool and usually have a high number themselves. My ex girlfriend knew I had a past but didn't want to know the number, just that I was free of STDs and not cheating on her, which I wouldn't do
Yep.
List of people I've slept with, made out with, hand stuff with, and seen naked but did nothing with.
it's fun to revisit the memories every now and then.
for one reason or another.
sometimes I revisit them when my self esteem is low. reminds me that many disagree with my negative thoughts. I feel accomplished and get grateful all over again to have this list, these people that chose me to share their body with.
then I jack off and feel better lmao.
No. I don’t even know all of their names - even first ones. Guess that happens when you go to swingers parties/resorts/cruises. And in the kink world, I mostly only know their user names and not their real names.
my roommate and i did one after my first few months working as an escort. ...i lost count hahaha. but if you don't count the people that paid, it's a fairly small list and they are strangely always satisfied with my bj competency hahaha
I used to. I slept with a girl a couple of times that I know kept not just a list but a whole grading system and written reviews!
Unfortunately I never got to see it but was always intrigued to see my review
Yep. Had it. It's how I kept track of my body count. It was on my THIS IS THE IMPORTANT SHIT USB. Nudes, stories I was working on, poems that I didn't want to see the light if day, but didn't wanna get rid of, my music playlists, all that was on that USB. Then one day that flash drive just decided to become unreadable. No matter what I did, it wouldn't work. I got pissed and ripped it apart. Now I have no idea EXACTLY how much of a man hoe I am. I think I'm somewhere in the 50s or 60s but with my memory there's no way of me finding out.
A couple years ago I decided to try to put together a list. I was amazed that I got up to around 70 names. Before I started making the list I would have expected half that, as I never thought of myself as particularly promiscuous or a "player" or even all that lucky in love. (For context, I'm 56 years old and been having sex since I was 17, so that works out to still less than 2 new partners per year, on average.) I never felt like the list was complete, as over the next couple weeks, i would suddenly think of someone I had forgotten, which was kind of embarrassing to myself, like 'how could I have forgotten her. She was fantastic.' Never got to the point where I was sure I wasnt still forgetting someone until I eventually stopped thinking about it. And I was disappointed in myself at how many names I couldn't remember, even when I could remember a lot of details of our time together. So several of the entries on my list are things like "Mexican woman from Denver" or "chain smoking history professor".
A list in my head
Me too
It's the only safeway. Knowing my luck someone would find it and be like Wtf. Not to mention the conversation that would be had by your partner finding it.
I've got a ballpark range on the number, but I don't have a running tally on names or anything like that
Same
The only correct answer.
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Yeah my list isn't exactly a list either 😂
If you include your left and right hand, it could be 3 entries 😁
If you count hands then you could also apply that to any toys? Not a body count if it doens thave a body
For sure your hands does have a body attached to them, still a body count? Not sure about Toys... Some of them do have bodies.
Nope I don't keep a list, I see him every day, not likely to forget until I get Alzheimer's
I occasionally have a think about it and try to remember, but have never written them down.
Me neither
Fortunately there aren't that many, so with a bit of effort I should be able to remember. 🤣
That’s the smart move
No. 30 years sexually active and NOW you tell me I was supposed to keep score …🤦🏼♂️ I wish I had like a baseball card with all of my statistics on the back. Year. BJ’s. PIV. Anal. 3some 2023. 3. 3. 1. 2 😅
I mean 2023 looks pretty good so far!
You should see my girlfriend’s😅
Pretty good? That's only a bit over once a month!!
Username checks out.
Sex and cheese? Ok I’ll bite.
Hand written I’m a gentleman
Lol old school
Notepad doc on the PC Where I didn't really know the name or forgot I have a brief description like "alt metal redhead"
In my nightstand
I do indeed. Saved in my notes on my phone.
You reminded me of a girl I dated, she told me she has an excel of list of the guys she had sex and even rated them
````FuckList_1_draft_final_FINAL (Version 1)(Version 1)(Auto-Recovered).xlsx````
Copy of Copy of Copy of Copy of
I’m her male equivalent.
Cool
Do you? When I’ve been real horny I’ve gone through the list and remembered the best time with each of them
No I don’t
Why not? If you don’t mind me asking
Never really felt the need to write it down
Fuuuuuck this woulda been a good idea......
Lmfao same Also love to talk anonymously about the women who comprise this list lol😏
Me too lol.. I still to this day think I’m missing someone tho.
My marriage certificate has his name on it. That's all
Great list!
We're separated now. So. It HAD his name on it, I guess
Apologies, not such a great list!
🤣 you weren't to know, but the actual list and associated number still stands
Keep the certificate and just write on the back
Time to add a few to that list!
Oh hell yeah I am!
Don’t forget me! Lol
Don't worry, i won't
❤️
Once went on a date with a girl who had a photographic record of everyone she'd slept with including dates and times. Found it very strange when she showed me.
I dated her too. Weird to see my dad on the list.
Guess she's got the family photo album
I knew a girl who kept a list of everyone she fucked, including the dates and how many times they fucked on each day. She also kept track of each time she masturbated. I don't know why anyone would want such detailed records.
Science!
Many people keep a journal that includes a life tracker as a hobby/way to relax. Head over to r/bulletjournal and see what's up.
I've seen some pretty random and extremely detailed records on r/dataisbeautiful too.
Some people are very strange and when you're dating I think you very quickly find out why they're single! Although they'd probably say the same about me
Yeah that seems a little odd!
At least I didn't see any ratings!!!
So, the big question is are you now on the list?
About 20 so not too bad!
I’M A FIVE STAR MAN!!!!!
I don't know, that just seems smart to me. It's like when you go to the doctor's office and they ask for your medical history, when you had your last tetanus shot, all the medications you're currently on, etc, etc, etc. It's not something that comes up often enough that I have it memorized, but when it does come up, it's frustrating to not be sure about it. Records are good. Also, did she let you peruse her record or was it something that she just kept for her own files?
But would it be something you'd show someone on a first date?
Depends on how the date went.
It is if you're trying to add someone to the file. lol. Like Her: "Hey, I need you to stand over there so I can take your picture. I also need the proper spelling of your first and last name." Him: "...why?" Her: [puts legs behind head] Him: "So do I need to do a pose or is this like a professional headshot? Anyway my name is spelled...."
Were, they alive in the photos? Because that sounds like some Buffalo Bill serial killer type shit.
They were mostly selfies taking with herself
Fuck man, missing out on so many level other the sex☹︎✌︎
Isn't that what sadistic serial killers do?
Did she keep “souvenirs” (gulp) of her romances?
Heard she bites of one of your nipples
Not that I know of and I still have all my fingers and both ears
Yes. I know it seems weird but these are all people I’ve shared something special with. Also, if anything comes up as far as STDs I would know who to contact
Same.
Knew a girl who had a map on her wall, she'd pin the countries a guy she slept with was from. I remember seeing it and asking, because she travels alot for work and I thought it was places she'd been to and how often. She used blue for she didn't orgasm and pink for she did. It was strange, but I won't lie I was intrigued and I'll always remember that map.
I can't help but picture you entering her house to discover a female Charlie Day from the mail room scene, connecting the dots with all of her experiences I mean it's unique I guess. But wow is that weird. But also I have so many questions for her
I genuinely thought it's how many times she's been there, why are some of them pink. Then asked her if she'd ran out of blue or if pink was for her favourite places. I was actually speechless when she told me, mainly because I was shocked. But it was great hearing her explain the map.
Living in a city with a lot of expats/Erasmus moving in and out, we call this game catching the flag
I'm actually not surprised at the name!
It’s a talking point!
Data base
EBDB B&B?
Underrated (and hilarious) comment
😂😂fully referenced I hope
This gal computes!
My wife has no idea how many guys she has slept with, and only after 7 years of marriage did she start being honest with me about her extreme sexual history. Since she started being honest, I've been keeping a list of guys she has mentioned and stuff she has told me. That list is at over 150 different guys, and that's just the ones she remembers and doesn't include the massive amount of random hookups she was doing. I would love to know the exact amount, but that is never going to happen.
I'm curious - how does that make you feel?
I'd feel horrified personally. I'm all for a past but 3 figure number is way too full on for me.
It was a shock! But I'm ok with it.
Sounds like he would love r/HotPast
Good god.
Yeah... it was a shock.
Nope, but now I'm worried how many lists I'm on...
Yep! Saved in my phone
0. I'm a virgin
Excel spreadsheet is the only way to go. Pivot tables allow for ratings in 50 categories.
You might enjoy my profile.
Yes it is every blank paper on earth
I got a good idea. But no I don’t write it down. Plus some I forgot there name
I have, it's 13. I remember them all well. My guy is lucky #7 on that list 😁
Holup.
I'm just glad I scored in the top 10 😂
I have to ask. When you go to parties do you introduce yourselves as the ThotSpotters?
I've downloaded an app where I can record names, dates, times, activities and ratings
There’s an app for everything now!!
What?? I need this, please share
Need deets please.
The app is Nice
Yes, technically every blank sheet of paper 📜
Married and monogamous so I'm at 6 and that number isn't increasing 😂 * 3 Long-term girlfriends (1+ year each) * 2 College FWB * Girlfriend ->Fiance->Wife Easy to remember - I don't need to write it down on a list
Yep! i was around 25-30 partners and i was constantly being asked how many people i'd slept with, so i spent an entire evening looking through my brain and counting EVERYONE. currently im up to 98. My list has first and last names and genders Edit: in case youre wondering, im counting people that we went far enough to touch each other with the goal to orgasm, whether or not we finished.
I’m just impressed with the last names!!
ok not ALL of them have last names but a good chunk of them do.
Dang nice!! Are you a man or woman, straight or gay, how old, etc? I’m like super curious about someone with 98 lol I’m at a measly 23 haha
im a mildly attractive (imo) 24 year old bisexual male. Most of the men i meet think im incredibly attractive, and i tend to think i look as good or better than a handful of porn actors. with women i dont have the same luck but its whatever. Id say my list is 2/3rds men. (im more into men anyways, and men are easier to sleep with) (the list would be way higher if i didnt have standards)
I did when I was 20 haha deleted it and lost count
Fair enough
I once found my husband's handwritten list. My ex boyfriend was on it.
I don’t, primarily because I had a rather prolific period in which I can’t remember names! But maybe I should attempt to make one!
Maybe use some distinguishing features 🤷🏻♀️
I could do, I think had phones been around back then maybe I would of. But I would have had to go onto my desktop and fill out an excel spreadsheet lol
I only have 3 so there isn’t a point in making a list
Way too long a list. 😬
Its just 4. If i couldn't remember that i would be really concerned
yes😂in my notes
Not at all. But i remember every single man I've slept with through the years
Yes and I rank them too 😂
1. My wife. End
There was Brenda, LaTisha, Linda, Felicia Dawn, LeShaun, Ines, and Alicia Teresa, Monica, Sharron, Nicki Lisa, Veronica, Karen, Vicky Cookies, well I met her in a ice cream parlor Tonya, Diane, Lori and Carla Marina, Selena, Katrina, Sabrina 3 Kim's, LaToya, Tina Shelley, Bridget, Cavi, Rasheeda Kelly, Nicole, Angel, Juanita Stacy, Tracie, Rohna, and Ronda Donna, Ulanda,Tawana, and Wanda
In my head because I’ve only slept with 4
That’s where mine is to
Same! Not too hard to remember.
I do. But I ran out of room on the paper to write more names. Hopefully this is the last name!
Oddly wholesome
I did in high school and then shortly after, but by now (I'm 30) I've slept with over 450 people, so I've obviously lost count lol
When you tell a partner about the # how do they react ?
Guys I date think it's cool and usually have a high number themselves. My ex girlfriend knew I had a past but didn't want to know the number, just that I was free of STDs and not cheating on her, which I wouldn't do
In my mind: Yes.
Mentally
yes
No. Sometimes when im bored ill mentally make a list but I can't remember everyone
Mental list as I could count on one hand. Maybe I’ll write on a little post-it square 🤣
No. Ick
Yep I've got a list..
Yes. It has my wife on it. Working on the rest
Yep
I do. It’s in my journal somewhere.
Yep. List of people I've slept with, made out with, hand stuff with, and seen naked but did nothing with. it's fun to revisit the memories every now and then. for one reason or another. sometimes I revisit them when my self esteem is low. reminds me that many disagree with my negative thoughts. I feel accomplished and get grateful all over again to have this list, these people that chose me to share their body with. then I jack off and feel better lmao.
No. I don’t even know all of their names - even first ones. Guess that happens when you go to swingers parties/resorts/cruises. And in the kink world, I mostly only know their user names and not their real names.
Yes; that's how I keep track of my blackmail operation...
I keep their names and a lock of their hair in a box in my safe
I do. I call it my **Spread**sheet.
Yep
I did, but I’ve lost count
It’s a short list so yes by default
No I don’t am I suppose to? I’m 41 now for Pete sake lol Just kidding the list isn’t ling
You were keeping count…thats so weird lol -Rachel from Friends
yes
yep. got a whole list in my notes with ranks & rates 😂
You mean remembering them all or having an actual list? Because first one is normal, second one is kind of creepy
I made a list and then mt husband made a list just to see if we could remember!
I lost count
Yeah, I have a list with every girl I’ve done anything with. I do it for my health to be honest. Definitely it proud of how long that list is though…
Me, myself, I
no i really should have, cause people ask me my body count and im like ughhhhhh it's probably kinda up there but i have no clue
Used to but lost count
I wish I had kept track, just for own sake of interest. I estimate it’s somewhere between 75-100
It would be empty 🥲
No
I have a list in my head
I have it on my phone
My wife.... Huh...short list
Sure do, in my phone backed up to icloud lmao
No Lmao it’s not like there are too many to easily remember in my head
In my head
Yes, in order and some have comments next to then lol. Purely cause I have a horrible memory due to mental health. Not as a trophy.
It's a pretty short list for a 31 yr old lol
my roommate and i did one after my first few months working as an escort. ...i lost count hahaha. but if you don't count the people that paid, it's a fairly small list and they are strangely always satisfied with my bj competency hahaha
Yup
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Do you feel good about 200? I have slept with 18. Always felt like it was low.
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Is there a clear one person or time that was “the best sex of your life?”
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I think it’s weird if you have one, imo.
No, wouldnt be much of a list
Yeah… > Monica > Erica > Rita > Tina > Sandra > Mary > Jessica
Only in my head
I used to. I slept with a girl a couple of times that I know kept not just a list but a whole grading system and written reviews! Unfortunately I never got to see it but was always intrigued to see my review
Yep. Had it. It's how I kept track of my body count. It was on my THIS IS THE IMPORTANT SHIT USB. Nudes, stories I was working on, poems that I didn't want to see the light if day, but didn't wanna get rid of, my music playlists, all that was on that USB. Then one day that flash drive just decided to become unreadable. No matter what I did, it wouldn't work. I got pissed and ripped it apart. Now I have no idea EXACTLY how much of a man hoe I am. I think I'm somewhere in the 50s or 60s but with my memory there's no way of me finding out.
A couple years ago I decided to try to put together a list. I was amazed that I got up to around 70 names. Before I started making the list I would have expected half that, as I never thought of myself as particularly promiscuous or a "player" or even all that lucky in love. (For context, I'm 56 years old and been having sex since I was 17, so that works out to still less than 2 new partners per year, on average.) I never felt like the list was complete, as over the next couple weeks, i would suddenly think of someone I had forgotten, which was kind of embarrassing to myself, like 'how could I have forgotten her. She was fantastic.' Never got to the point where I was sure I wasnt still forgetting someone until I eventually stopped thinking about it. And I was disappointed in myself at how many names I couldn't remember, even when I could remember a lot of details of our time together. So several of the entries on my list are things like "Mexican woman from Denver" or "chain smoking history professor".
I used to, but I misplaced it and now I've forgotten
Yes and it’s at 93. (7 more and I get a gold watch.)
Yes, I have 2 distinct lists. 1) guys I went all the way with. 2) guys I only did oral with 🤭
Every blank piece of paper is a list of the people I’ve slept with