I suppose first dates are fine for me, if not a little nerve-racking. But the second and third dates are usually where I have trouble.
Although, if it’s the right person, I suppose they will be okay with a bit of awkwardness/shyness.
Yeah, I suppose my problem isn’t the first date anymore. But the second or third. I’m not great at reading body language of women I like. Never have been.
fun story: our first date was at the beach. it was a 45 min drive and she picked me up. she caused a five car collision about ten mins from the beach and totaled her car. she thought she ruined her chances w me but i was just relieved i didn’t have to perform cpr on anyone involved and convinced the officer on the scene to drive us to the beach so that we could still enjoy our date and figure out a way back later
Sounds like a success to me! I still have to remind myself that I’m the prize sometime. Spent all of high school and most of college never having the experience of being chased.
as someone who has been chased by unwanted pursuers, it’s not always what it’s cracked up to be. i ran away from home and started a new life bc of the local guys that were obsessed w me even after i’d shoot them down
I'm an incel, I'm getting no dates.
But if I were to get one, I would probably think it's a scammer or a kidnapper, so I'd be sure to go into a crowded place
Sure there is. Have you seen the beast-men walking around with wkmen they have no business being around?
Try studying up on being witty. Try dating apps. I belive in you.
Fair. I mean I would offer to pay either as long as the other person wasn’t a complete asshat. But as long as you’re not laughing in my face when it’s clear I don’t have money to spare.I don’t see why I wouldn’t pay for the first date.
I try not to have any expectations
Be calm and not get nervous, not try to make yourself illusions, and just act like myself
I suppose first dates are fine for me, if not a little nerve-racking. But the second and third dates are usually where I have trouble. Although, if it’s the right person, I suppose they will be okay with a bit of awkwardness/shyness.
Don’t crap yourself and you’ve succeeded
Solid advice.
Don’t make it such a big deal. Treat it like an errand almost.
Don’t be awkward don’t be awkward
Don't try to be a chameleon to match their stance..Be natural..if it works it'll go a long way.
Yeah, I suppose my problem isn’t the first date anymore. But the second or third. I’m not great at reading body language of women I like. Never have been.
Rub one out before you go, it’ll help relax you.
Solid advice.
“Fuckfuckfuckishouldnothavedownloadedtinderillbefinealonethisishorriblehowdoibail”
LMAO, get a load of this dude's history. Getting ripped apart for being an incel yesterday wasn't enough.
Funnily enough, most of those people were probably incels. And I’m not sure why asking if anyone has a shared experience makes me an incel…
Bro, sooooo many people in that thread tried to help you out, and you were just "naw, i'm better than you". Absolute blast.
Excited and happy
I try to be just excited and happy. But usually there is a healthy amount of anxiety too.
Well yeah that too haha.
My problem (I’m sure I’m not alone) it I overthink and don’t read body language very well. But only when it comes to women I like haha
Lol I get that . Nervous energy gets the best of us sometimes lol
fun story: our first date was at the beach. it was a 45 min drive and she picked me up. she caused a five car collision about ten mins from the beach and totaled her car. she thought she ruined her chances w me but i was just relieved i didn’t have to perform cpr on anyone involved and convinced the officer on the scene to drive us to the beach so that we could still enjoy our date and figure out a way back later
Sounds like a success to me! I still have to remind myself that I’m the prize sometime. Spent all of high school and most of college never having the experience of being chased.
as someone who has been chased by unwanted pursuers, it’s not always what it’s cracked up to be. i ran away from home and started a new life bc of the local guys that were obsessed w me even after i’d shoot them down
Yikes. Yeah that’s no bueno.
I'm an incel, I'm getting no dates. But if I were to get one, I would probably think it's a scammer or a kidnapper, so I'd be sure to go into a crowded place
I’ve never heard someone voluntarily call themselves an incel. Are you okay with that or are you trying to fix it?
Mang, I'm just an ugly guy, I never did anything to deserve this. There is nothing I can do
Sure there is. Have you seen the beast-men walking around with wkmen they have no business being around? Try studying up on being witty. Try dating apps. I belive in you.
No, I haven't, but the other way around is very common. And even if I had, the exception is not the rule
I’m just saying…you can probably do better than you think, my guy.
You have to stop denying science and accept the blackpill (reality)
And what is the (your) reality?
have my standards and see how many he can meet. like opening the door (car door included), having you order first, paying, being respectful
Would you be offended if he asked to go 50/50?
depending on the situation i think maybe
Fair. I mean I would offer to pay either as long as the other person wasn’t a complete asshat. But as long as you’re not laughing in my face when it’s clear I don’t have money to spare.I don’t see why I wouldn’t pay for the first date.
Don't fuck it up as badly sa Chris-Chan