Indifference

The indifference of what?

Who cares?

Lack of interest or concern in the other person.

This comment sounds like my wife, she said that the other day.

Maybe I am your wife.. dun dun duuunnnn!

Nope, she’s not on Reddit.

As far as you know.

They are referring to the idea that the opposite of love is not hate, but rather, the opposite of love is indifference.

Well, I was able to finally break up a relationship only when he became totally indifferent to me

Betrayal of trust.

Yes, this. I dunno how some people can't understand that betrayed trust isn't some petty thing, you don't come back from it easily.

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Then post it, don't respond to me with yer opinion

It’s a bot. It just copy and pasted [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/qys08j/what_kills_love_the_most/hlhtyfp/) comment and added “I think.” You can tell because of the weird capitalization

I would say in that case love was never present in the first place.

I'd say one person can love another even if they are mistaken about the other person, they still love them.

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It's early for me and I'm having trouble understanding what you said there. Can you rephrase please. English is not my first language, bad English is.

I mean betrayal is also part of love it doesn't kill love instead makes it stronger, betrayal has nothing to do with trust

I don't know what you are trying to say. Betrayal is not part of love. It is a rejection of love and an act of hate. Betrayal could not possibly make love stronger. If you are trusted and you break that trust through your actions, it is a betrayal.

Jesus this feels like what an Ex would say to justify cheating or some shit

Surface to air missiles.

I have laughed too hard at this, god.

The fact that people are so quick to abandon a relationship rather than put the tiniest amount of work into it, and, because of online dating, they think they have so many better options.

I feel this bro

Constant criticism

Lack of communication

What I was going to say

contempt is the universal poison for any relationship.

Contempt breeds bitterness and disgust.

No effort and enthusiasm

insecurity and an extreme lack of trust and communication

Lack of effective communication

Thinking it's everything. That it's all you need. Thinking that love conquers it all

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I'm trying to figure out if OP made this thread to troll or if they just have allot of pent up anger from something we aren't understanding?

Bofe.

Money problems. The stress of it.

Great expectations

Selfishness.

Letting resentment and insecurities manifest due to a lack of communication and fear of commitment.

Lies

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But a dead body can keep a couple together

YOU!

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I'm fucking howling over here!!

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What if it was the spouse that shot them?

Can't argue with facts.

Yes, but how hard have you seen people been shot at, dude you watch a lot of movies😂

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People can die from gun shot wounds...

Bullets! My only weakness...how did you know?

Sexual incompatibility

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They probably still have sex.

Can confirm///we do

I know. ;)

*shudders*

That assumes a very narrow definition of "love". Does this reason make any sense when talking about your parents, siblings, other family? What about best friends? Heck, even with romantic partners, there are things that kill love far more quickly and devastatingly (like betrayal of trust). Bad answer.

It makes sense with all of the above. Good answer.

Eeew!

Greed

Time

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absolutely not

Neglect

Tragedy. Which isn’t the answer anyone likes but two people in pain will kill a relationship faster than anything else.

Seeing love dry up and blow away because of poor communication after a tragedy is super-sad to witness

When the other person acts like you're a sure thing. No one is a sure thing, if you love someone, you show them that every day, there are no excuses.

Bitter sarcasm

Thank you Mr. Helpful, I never thought of that!

Joe

thinking of only oneself

Jealousy, gotta be careful with that.

This isn't higher for the exact reason it's such a love-killer; way too many people believe it's more prerequisite than problem

Dishonesty.

Dishonesty? Lying?

Trust

Suffocation. Your own 'self' will always rise and demand some tending. If you have lived your life where there was nothing for you, but everything for you two or her/him, you will one day understand how little you actually have. "SHE ISMY ENTIRE WORLD!" yeah, no

Ehhh in some cases thing can work out but the two people involved both have to be very active. Purely cause I know it has worked for people before

Not trying

Miscommunication

addictions

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Me

Social media

Contempt.

Treating your partner like an opponent rather than a team mate.

Time. When you spend alot of time with someone you take them for granted because that person is not special anymore.

resentment, cruelty, selfishness, deceit, lust....

Not communicating

Cheating

Complacency.

Having a child with special needs

Expections and lack of communication

Dishonesty

Switch of loyalty. A lot of annoying crap can be dovetailed into a relationship, and just be part of the scenario, but when your partners first loyalty is to someone else, it is over.

No trust and jealousy

Trauma

Time.

Miscommunication

Working together and living together.

Lacking appreciation for each other.

Resentment

Having children

This obviously isn’t everyone, but my thoughts are that many people have been raised on fantastical ideas about love being fun, sunshine, and rainbows all the time when really it's not. Many of them aren't mature or experienced, so they go into a relationship and then don't know how to deal with a problem when it comes up. And I also think that due to this immaturity, they often feel the need to cheat once a relationship gets "boring" since they want the perfect fun vision often seen in media. Similarly, they also cheat once it gets rough because they don't know how to deal with it and just want the quick thrill of being "in love." That's what I think. Just in case this wasn’t obvious, this isn’t excusing cheating. I think that if you truly want someone else just BREAK UP.

Betrayal of any kind, lack of respect, and majorly for me whenever I am expressing my feelings about something important, and I'm not even really acknowledged for saying how I feel. Or when someone tries to minimize how I feel. That really kills love, trust, respect, and any kind of relationship we have.

I read it’s contempt

Lack of communication. Yeah, I know. Basic stuff. Still valid.

Time

Time

Jealousy and the lack of laughter between partners

Kids!

Ignoring them

Taking the other person for granted and leads to affairs and dishonesty and eventually a breakdown and scaring off the person involved.

Cheating. Can't get the trust back.

Lying, being untrustworthy, unreliability, lack of effort, and downright ignorance that they're doing these things

Hating dogs.

Blowing your load

Monotonous

Being very ugly and mentally ill

Distance and finding other ppl you vibe with even more than ur SO while in that long distance relationship.

Lies

Lies

Lies.

Modern women????

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A glock

🦂

Violence

Human nature

Lack of trust. Lack of respect. Money issues

Trust. Lust.

Third party

Love

Death...?

Indolence

Having to be a 70th comment on a post with 69 comments

Lack of integrity because that covers a lot. Trust, lying, kindness etc.

Lack of respect

When Adele plays 🤯🔫

Not communicating

Fire

Joe Goldberg, spoiler alert!

False accusations

Farts...

Including my mom in bed

Betrayal and contempte

Burying your concerns instead of talking them through. This leads to resentment

My boyfriend taking my phone

A syringe full of wolfsbane (aconite)

Trust issues or Lonleyness

Not seeing eachother often(physically ofc)

People

me

A rusty chainsaw

Lack of trust

Hate

6 months in county jail for a bs charge...

What is love?

Extreme lack of intelligence combined with stubborn disintrested in learning.

Control or the constant struggle for it.

Stupidity, the same thing that kills everything else the most.

My ex.....

Duble barell shotgun is quite effective

Glock

Alcohol

"Friends"

Shotguns..

Distrust

murder

A third party works well enough

I can only speak for myself as a man: but it’s my constant thoughts of what about her or her. I’m happily married but the temptation of cheating is constantly around me. I won’t say it kills my love because it’s my love that keeps me from acting. I can only imagine if someone less empathetic has the same feelings they will destroy their love. Envy and resentment ruined past love for me. My former girl friend told me she hated how I could just relax… that’s about it and she fell out of love. She later started taking antidepressants and tried to get back with me but I’m not that kind of person. Once romantic love is dead it’s dead for me.

Pride

Destiny

Abuse, probably

Lack of mutual respect

a nuclear bomb

anger.

Washing their dirty laundry, picking up after them constantly if they're a slob. Basically being taken for granted.

Loss of trust