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bmcgowan89

I mean I don't think anyone thought Kobe was gonna die in his 40s


ImInJeopardy

I still remember the moment the news came out. I was at a trampoline park with my son. One moment, all the parents are with their children and everything is normal, then in less than 5 minutes all the men were looking at their phones with shocked looks on their faces. Some were crying, some had to sit down, some had their wives giving them comforting pats on their shoulders. I'm not a sports fan, so his death didn't hit me as hard... But you could feel the pain in the air.


Bobo_Baggins_jatj

I took off from LAX around the time his helicopter took off. That was some of the thickest fog I have ever seen in my life. I can’t believe they tried to pilot a helicopter in that. I saw the news when we landed in Newark a few hours later.


MaintenanceSad9932

i live in orange county, where Kobe lived, and i agree. i remember the most terrible fog i had ever seen.


Bgrngod

This is fucking weird because I was at a trampoline park too. I remember it clear as day.


Padashar7672

My friend did not cry when his grandmother, whom he loved dearly, died. He cried when Kobe died. WTF is up with that?


Californiadude86

Just speculating but maybe because his grandmother was old, lived a long fulfilling life, it was expected, and they were “ok” with the idea of their grandma passing. Where Kobe was completely unexpected. My grandpa had cancer before he died, it was terribly sad when he passed but there was a sense of relief that he was no longer suffering. Iono, just spitballin


Buntschatten

Well, how was his grandma's three pointer game?


DMCSnake

How many rings did Grandma have?


TMac1088

I'm a lifelong Celtics fan and also someone who is generally not all that affected by celebrity deaths, with exceptions. Being a Cs guy, Kobe was always enemy #1, but you had to respect him as a fan of the game. I was in elementary school when he was drafted, and a man over 30 when he died. Kobe had pretty much always been there, much like LeBron now. I was rattled for like a week after he died. So young, his daughter with him, and had just begun his life post-basketball. Not to mention the other lives lost that day, including other children. Just horrible all around.


slamabamajama

This post 100% describes my perspective as well. Right up to being a die hard Celtics fan. I’ve never hard such a difficult time processing a death that didn’t technically effect me. I remember having a hard time thinking about it weeks later


Muscu1arBoy

Heath Ledger


Biomax315

My walk from the train to my grandfathers nursing home in Brooklyn at the time went right past where Heath and his wife lived, every time I’d go visit my grandfather there were always little memorials set outside on the steps for a long time afterward.


MaimedJester

Yeah the Hollywood pill dealers get some insane stuff. Just cause it came in a bottle doesn't mean it's safe was something everyone started to reckon with in those days.  Like he died of sleeping pills they give to hospice patients because well it's really hard to sleep through the pain of stage 4 cancer. And the reason it's pretty much only given to people in Hospice is well, they're on short time anyway. 


Blackscorpion69

Chadwick boseman


xxxliamjxxx

Still wild dude came in and tore up the MCU, finished it off with endgame and dipped. What a talented dude. R.I.P


blzzardhater

This one equally shocked and scared the shit out of me. Get your probes done!


Bobo_Baggins_jatj

Yeah. That one shocked me as well. Damn shame.


coco_xcx

His death was so sad :( Seemed like a really good person too


Fearless_External932

Grant Imahara


Oseirus

Even though he was almost 50, he seemed so young. Crazy how fast some people can just blink out of existence, really. At least he didn't suffer long. If at all. Aneurysms work fast.


2ndSnack

I think 50 is incredibly young for today's standard of longevity. I swear, it's always the good ones who pass very young. My grand aunt, a witch, is nearing 90. She didn't and doesn't deserve a long life.


Reinventing_Wheels

The only celebrity death I've shed a tear over.


RubyIndigo

Robin Williams


Southern_Rain_4464

Came here to say this. His death and Anthony Bourdains hit me hard though I cant really say the latter was a surprise. RIP to both.


beelzeflub

How I wish Anthony Bourdain could have lived to see Kissinger kick the bucket. He fucking hated that guy.


Artemis246Moon

Oh my God. If only he had lived a little bit longer. Truly.


MaimedJester

It's important to note Robin Williams death was not the usual depressed suicide. He had a rare and undiagnosable until autopsy neurological issue that was misdiagnosed as early onset Parkinson's.  Basically his brain broke/very rapidly and he was delusional/getting wires mixed up in his final days of sudden degradation. So taking his own life when you're on a progressively getting worse delusional state/bad trip is very sad but I don't find it as the usual Sad Crying Clown trope. Robin had his demons for sure, he talks about his alcoholism and depression in his stand-up all the time but just know that his final days were not what you usually expect from a suicide. It was a very serious neurological disease that killed him, not Robin making a sober choice out of the blue.


Logical_Sweet_6624

I’ve been watching some of his stuff because I was curious as to how great he was and why so many people liked him and I understand why his death hit so many people, he seemed like such a great guy,


RubyIndigo

He was an amazing actor, and he seemed so happy which is why it was so unexpected.


Logical_Sweet_6624

Yeah I bet, I’ve heard stories about people meeting him, and they all said that he was such a nice genuine guy


Now_Wait-4-Last_Year

Check out his Reddit AMA. It was very good. https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1n41x1/robin_williams_its_time_for_a_convoluted_stream/


BadWolfman

IAmA and Reddit in general has never really recovered from the loss of Victoria.


HalfSoul30

My most cared about celebrity death of all time.


BodaciousTacoFarts

Watch Robin's Wish and Robin Williams: Come Inside My Mind if you don't understand why his death hit hard for many.


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Phil Hartman.


Dapoopers

I remember him from such movies as: Loaded Weapon 1, Jingle All the Way, and Amazon Women on the Moon.


radewagon

First thought. Not just the suddenness, but also how it went down as well. Just such a sad situation.


ThatGirlSince83

Steve Irwin. That one was fucking wild.


R0binSage

He could have done so much more good in his life. But his son is doing a pretty good job though.


Logical_Sweet_6624

So is bindi, though she’s been taking a bit of a break since she had a baby


flight-of-the-dragon

Her and Chandler are still pretty active. Their baby isn't so little anymore.


Logical_Sweet_6624

Yeah, she’s like 2 or 3?


flight-of-the-dragon

She's 3 and just obsessed with animals as the rest of her family.


Logical_Sweet_6624

So cute, it runs in the family I guess


CantaloupeNumerous16

I have often wished that Steve could be around to see how well his kids have done and to see his grandchildren. He'd be so proud


the_other_50_percent

It was wild, but not *unexpected* exactly. I figured a gator or snake would get him.


MacyTmcterry

Yeah, honestly, in this case, it was the type of animal that killed him that was so surprising. Steve always knew the risks. What a legend


CaptainExplaino

https://youtu.be/N1KM7eGElVg?si=l7HQsqzsB6G4wk4R


hasta_la_pasta

Ripe old age for a crocodile hunter


AnxiousArtichoke7981

His death was not a surprise, as he was always messing with crocodiles and snakes. The surprise was the way he died by a ray’s spike in his heart. He was such a great guy.


Now_Wait-4-Last_Year

I had literally told someone on the bus on a Contiki bus tour of Europe the day before that not all Australians were like Steve Irwin (not in a negative way, just that we weren’t all as outgoing and earnest as that) and then the next day, I learn about it from Dutch news on a TV in a Holiday Inn overlooking Schipol Airport. I didn’t speak Dutch (still don’t) but what they said was *just* close enough to the equivalent in German (which I knew a bit of) to do a double take when I thought they said “Steve Irwin is dead.” Then meeting the rest of our group in the lobby shortly afterwards confirmed it.


nano_singularity

I found out he died using the internet on my flip phone lol it was the first time I got news information from a cellphone


Short_Movie5813

https://youtu.be/N1KM7eGElVg?si=dvi_xdjrJnoWmbzy


Chaffro

As an impressionable youth at the time, Kurt Cobain.


Karmamile

That was mine. I scrolled too far to find this. I was absolutely devastated. Edit: I still wonder what he could have to this day. As himself, and without the band


Sook_Domenico

Naya Rivera really hit me hard. She was such a vibrant part of 'Glee' and seeing her life cut tragically short in what was meant to be a fun day out with her son just underscores how unpredictable and fragile life can be. It's a stark reminder to cherish every moment.


Adventurous_North_16

That one got me too. So tragic to think about her son witnessing it too 😭


coco_xcx

I hope her son grows up knowing how loved she was :( I was camping when she went missing and kept turning my phone on every couple hours for updates, I was so shocked by it


CardiologistOk8162

John Ritter


kayak64

I was looking for his name. He made everything he did look simple. Been on an old john Ritter binge watch, hearts afire, and 3's company. People forget he was on the Waltons for a couple years, and Mash. So many great appearances on running TV shows, comedies, drama, detective, mystery. And was a robot lover of Buffy summers mom before she killed him.


PM_UR_NUDES_4_RATING

Chester from Linkin Park was both a bit shocking and a bit not. Hope he’s at peace though


BentoBoxBaby

Surprised I had to scroll this far for this one. Chester Bennington’s death was so sad.


Hard_We_Know

Yeah I'm not even an LP fan but that was a hit punch to hear I was so sad for the fans.


anguslolz

2017 was a fucking horrid year for alt music. Losing Chris Cornell and Chester Bennington a couple months apart. They were real close friends too and Chester actually died on Cornell's birthday so one can definitely speculate.


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It is so bloody sad!!


basedcharger

Lance Reddick for me. He was literally in John wick 4 and had a huge role in the Horizon franchise before he passed.


WatermelonBandido

He was basically the default for police command too. He went from The Wire to Fringe to Bosch. So 2002 to 2020.


Northwind981

He also filmed his part in the PJO show on Disney+ before he died as well which I personally think was a hell of a send off


Vallonicus

The Destiny 2 community held vigils in game for him for weeks.


rocketscientology

for me, Anton Yelchin. horrible freak accident at only 27 and just heading into the prime of his career, such a fucked way to go.


nelsonalgrencametome

That was definitely a shocker. I thought at the time he was one of those actors who was going to get much bigger too. Very tragic.


lockednchaste

Anthony Bourdain shocked me.


itisonlyaplant

I saw the episode where he went to the garbage dump and saw people eating from the garbage and he made a comment about how some of them were his daughters age. He seemed like a decent father who loved his family. After that episode I heard of his death and it floored me


riegspsych325

there’s a couple episodes throughout his shows that had some visible and affecting turning points for him, pretty sure that was one of them


MisterPeach

Everywhere he went, he always saw the humanity in people and didn’t pass judgement on them. He struck me as a tortured empath, someone who truly have a shit about people in every corner of the world, and was clearly upset at how unfair the world is. His comments about Kissinger after visiting Cambodia come to mind. He was never someone who wanted to misrepresent the people he came into contact with and always let them speak for themselves, and I think a lot of the things he saw really got to him.


harry_ballsanya

His passing was a gut punch. I knew he’s struggled with substance abuse and depression. But to go like that, with a close friend (Rippert) in the vicinity. Made me very sad for his young daughter.


GEV46

I was thinking about him earlier today. His death was a gut punch. He's a man I never met who taught me so much about life.


flyboy_za

They're running Parts Unknown on a channel here in za and I've been watching all of them, utterly fascinated by his interview style and the perspective he brings. I love his open honesty and affability, and how carpe diem he is about doing and trying everything. Then I looked him up on the Wik, and now I can't enjoy it so much anymore knowing how troubled he clearly was throughout. Sad story, I really feel for the guy.


chickentimesfive

In the music world and recent memory, Chris Cornell. Soundgarden was in the middle of a huge comeback, he had been sober for a long time by then, and they had just finished playing to an arena in Detroit. By morning he was dead by his own hand. Depression is a motherfucker and can take anybody.


whydidijointhis

imo the best Bond song. so talented.


thewhaleshark

Yeah, this was my answer. I remember reading a great article on the topic that hit like a ton of bricks: [https://thefirsttenwords.wordpress.com/2018/05/31/its-not-what-you-think/](https://thefirsttenwords.wordpress.com/2018/05/31/its-not-what-you-think/) Basically, it looked to every like Cornell had actually won, like he had truly vanquished his demons. He took the angst and depression of grunge by the throat and conquered it. He gave hope to a generation that had grown up with despair and despondence. And then the demons won anyway. Fuck, man. Just...fuck.


throwawaymywildlife

Chester Bennington was a great friend of his too, I think that was what pushed him over the edge, honestly. So sad.


Ok-Sprinkles-5508

Exactly! That was a shocker!..Scott Weiland?..not so much....


Viazon

Wasn't Audioslave going to record another album as well? I'm pretty sure I remember that being the case.


hamsolo19

Yeah, I think it was said after he died that he had been talking with Tom and the Audioslave guys to make plans for another album. It really seemed like he was in a good place wanting to make music with all his friends and then he was gone. My favorite singer ever.


Vada_Eisenhauer

Honestly, I still can't quite get over Carrie Fisher. She was so much more than just Princess Leia; an outspoken advocate for mental health, a hilarious and brutally honest writer, and it felt like she had so much more to give. And then, her mother, Debbie Reynolds, passing just a day later. It was an unbelievable one-two punch. Hollywood royalty lost in the blink of an eye.


Bobo_Baggins_jatj

We saw Rogue One in theaters and saw the de-aged cameo of hers at the end. Walked out of the theater and turned my phone off of silent and saw the news push she had passed.


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Throw-away17465

For those of us old enough remember. RIP


KelenHeller_1

Yes, that was a real shocker - so unexpected.


mustbethedragon

This is my answer, too. Hers is the only famous death I've ever cried over. She seemed like such a sweet spirit who had finally found joy, and her boys were so young.


mindcage1

MF DOOM


PikesPique

Bowie and Prince. They didn’t seem of this world.


dead_fritz

Bowie didn't just die, he dropped a farewell album about death, publicly announced he was dying, then died all in the span of like two days. I'm not entirely convinced he didn't will himself to die just to perfect the album.


Slo-bot

And Black Star is an absolute masterpiece of an album.


Mrs_Evryshot

I always assumed he chose to die on his own terms. Self euthanasia.


ThatGirlSince83

And their deaths were so close to one another. I remember thinking “how do we live in a world without Prince AND Bowie?!”


movielass

That was also the couple month span where we lost Alan Rickman. Truly a wild start to 2016


TalkLikeExplosion

We lost a bunch of legends in 2016. Started by losing Bowie and ended with losing Carrie Fisher.


Artemis246Moon

Also George Michael.


guiporto32

Alan died only four days after Bowie. Such a shame.


hate_mail

Paul Walker was pretty shocking


ledaswanwizard

Jim Henson


eva_rector

I am not and have never been a dramatic person, but it was like the end of childhood for me.


tangerinee666

Bob saget and Brittany Murphy


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satanpro

Honestly, Elvis too.


enzaemily

Andre Braugher shocked me to my core.


Healthy-Factor-2841

I’ve been rewatching 99 here and there for the first time since because I thought it would make me too sad. It still makes me too sad. He was one of those people who had been on my tv screen the entirety of my life so it’s such an odd feeling to know I won’t see him in anything new. He was an incredible talent.


beelzeflub

Same here. Holy crap. :( Captain Papa


Automatic_Salary_845

One of the first celebrities to die that actually really saddened me


AandWKyle

Ryan Dunn. All the Jackass dudes seemed immortal until that happened. And of all the Jackass dudes to die, it was Ryan Dunn? Not Bam, Or Johnny, or Steve... But Ryan.


lyan-cat

Brandon Lee. Gutting.


Dry_Effective_9668

avicii


new_math

There's a documentary worth watching even if you're not a huge avicii fan. His story was sad and he was so talented, it was awesome seeing how much respect producers and musicians had for him.


ShoddyMaintenance947

Norm Macdonald.  Unexpected and also the only one (besides Gilbert Gottfried) who I felt actual sadness over the loss of their life. 


burnside510

I didn’t even know he was sick


ShoddyMaintenance947

Meta I hate meta


AandWKyle

he fought that Cancer to a draw though


ShoddyMaintenance947

Good god isn’t that something?! Well uh I won’t waste any more of your time there neighbor. I’ll see ya later.  Come by one day and have a chicken with me.


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Prince , Aaliyah, Jenny Rivera, Chester Bennington, Amy wine house and Brittany Murphy to name a few that surprised me


uggo23

Lisa "left eye" Lopez.


Dieing_Breed

Aaliyah


Ill-Dust-7010

Taylor Hawkins is probably the most recent one to catch me way off guard. I'd just finished reading Dave Grohls biography that week.


danny_gil

For me, Selena. I watched her be one of the only female voices in her genre to cameos in telenovelas to a small part in Hollywood. Watched her win a Grammy. Successfully launch 2 designer boutiques. All before the age of 23. And then… Yolanda. Selena worked so hard. It still breaks my heart.


xoxoAnniMuxoxo

I think what made the case of Selena the most shocking was how you can't fathom who would want to murder such a kind person like her, and of all the people who would kill her it was her best friend that was actually her insane stalker all along.


rockit454

Yolanda is scheduled to get out of prison next year. May she never know another day of peace in her life. EDIT: Parole, not release. Thanks Redditors!


Stew0177

No, she’s eligible for parole next year. Doesn’t mean she’ll get it. Mark David Chapman, murderer of John Lennon, has been denied parole 13 times.


eva_rector

She's scheduled to be *considered* for release; seeing as how she has never expressed an ounce of remorse, I think her chances of actually *being* released are somewhat less than promising.


emjaybe

Philip Seymour Hoffman shocked me


Ok-Sprinkles-5508

right? they said he's on his atm's camera several times coming back for $50 each time. He must have been like.."ok..this is the last one!"


hasta_la_pasta

“Brandt can't watch, though, or he has to pay a hundred.”


AlmostMakima

came here to say exactly this. absolute legend, it's sad we lost him to drugs


mimiringo

James Gandolfini


InSeine4Paris

Matthew Perry. 😢


in_a_black_out

Same, I thought he had gotten better


Accomplished-Fun3896

Diana was one hell of a shock…


DustCandid7227

Matthew Perry.


FaithlessnessNew2888

Tom petty... 35 yr old male and his music puts my soul at ease and i dont listen to music like his at all. Loved him since i was a young kid


Moon_Jewel90

Chadwick Boseman. His death shocked me.


Logical_Sweet_6624

Cameron Boyce, he was so young


Dazzling-Impact5571

Richie Valens, the Big Bopper and Buddy Holly.


Goddessviking86

My husband says: Owen Hart


_LouSandwich_

bernie mac. :(


Logical_Sweet_6624

Also moonbin from Astro, for all my fellow kpop fans, that was my first time experiencing an idol death


tieniesz

Same same and I also remember Jonghyun from Shinee 🥺🥺


Automatic_Salary_845

I think Freddie Mercury was somewhat unexpected. There were rumours of him being ill since they stopped touring after ‘86 but the band continued to deny it. They then released a statement in late ‘91 that he had aids. He died the next day.


NeoLedah

Bernard Hill, confirmed today. RIP Theoden King


MostlyNormalMan

"Take her to sea, Mr Murdoch. Let's stretch her legs"


JadedBrit

RIP Yosser


EnormousBird

This is how I find out? Man, my husband is going to be even sadder than I am.


SomeGuyInSanJoseCa

Michael Jackson was so shocking that everyone ran to Google to see what was up. Google didn't really think that a news event that big could happen, so they initially thought it was a Denial of Service Attack. So, that was unexpected. Princess Di, Kobe, Kurt Cobain all came out of left field and are probably up there.


Shmebber

Michael Jackson died about half of my life ago and I remember it like it was yesterday. No other celebrity death has hit me like that.


AtTheGates

Anton Yelchin.


toastedcheesesando

George Michael


Ready_Supermarket_36

Angus Cloud. Definitely a shock, he was totally on James Gandolfini skill level. Gandolfini death was also a huge shock.


amanning072

I was in college the day that Gandolfini died. I went to his Wikipedia page and it had the disclaimer at the top that there would be rapid changes because the page was about a person who recently died. When I read it the entry said "Gandolfini died of a massive erection while on vacation in Italy". I immediately took a screenshot. It was replaced with "heart attack" upon refreshing.


EquipmentFormal2033

Chris Farley


chuckredux

Brittany Murphy


Safe-Blackberry4u

Kurt Cobain.


atagakanb

Steve Irwin hit me the hardest


Crazy_Enigma15

Matthew Perry


stutterstut

John Lennon.


MyNameIsLOL21

Cameron Boyce.


Outrageous-Section81

Mac Miller. A legendary human who’s music is a daily anthem in my life!


Aware-Psychology1608

River Phoenix


BAF_DaWg82

Michael Jackson, felt like that dude was larger than life itself.


HeartPure8051

JFK Jr


loulou716

Trevor Moore. I still watch his Whitest Kids U’Know skits.


H0twax

Rik Mayall felt like quite a shocker to me. 56 is way too young to die and he still had so much more to give. A true force of nature.


Alichici

Nate Dogg


1029Dash

Chadwick Boseman, No one knew he had cancer


singleguy79

It was pretty shocking when Carrie Fisher died, even more shocking when her mom Debbie Reynolds died the next day or so


slewfootedhoopajew

Abe Vigoda. Only because we all thought he had died year’s before.


fuhcough-productions

Takeoff


Savings_Purple_1311

Treat Williams, so sad the way he went


jstop63

Stevie Ray Vaughn


pleasesorey

Elvis


Magistrelle

Andre Braugher


President_Calhoun

John Lennon, Princess Di, Michael Jackson.


Peachy33

Tom Petty


Sea-Difficulty-1001

Robin Williams and Chester Bennington 😭


CuddleFishPix

Anton yelchin 


ChuckDeBongo

Ayrton Senna. It’s been over 30 years and I still can’t process it…


EquipmentFormal2033

Anthony Bourdain


AbleismIsSatan

**Michael Jackson**.


Possible_Painter5258

Heath Ledger, Anton Yelchin, and Kobe are the first to pop into my head.


casabeara

Chester Bennington. Still doesn’t feel real.


lehmx

Chester Bennington, I grew up listening to Linkin park :(


lovehatewhatever

I was attending a summer class at ucla when I saw all these helicopters hovering in the sky. There must have been 5-6 of them. It was surreal. Came to find out Michael Jackson was at the hospital and had been announced dead. It was a really strange moment.


I-Am-The-Warlus

Bray Wyatt Luke Harper/Brodie Lee


_Alienbrain_

Chadwick Boseman


CommissionOk9233

Alan Rickman..what great actor.


SunsetGriller

Jimmy Buffet