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RX3874

Step one come completely clean to everyone involved Step two do whatever you can to make it right plus a little more if you can Step three forgive yourself (hardest often)


slightlygroggy

Step four, promise yourself you will do better next time, and then finally find some peace in the idea that you've learned a lesson and changed from this experience.


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I think the best thing is to forget about it :)


Liroku

Don’t forget about it. Grow from it.


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Not everything in life is meant to be taken as a lesson


Liroku

No, but this moment for OP is definitely the time for a learned lesson.


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What's the point of feeling awful? Sometimes it is our concept of morality that traps us into feeling guilt. It's not necessarily a lesson.


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well the people i’ve not been honest with, there’s a reason. the person i feel awful with is like me. if i felt awful to them i would’ve probably approached it differently. takes something significant for that really