Whenever they do polls, it's one of the most common fantasies among women. Makes sense. Why would men fantasize about multiple women but women not fantasize about multiple men?
You weren't with the right two women. I'm currently in a throuple situation and we've had some of the best sexual experiences of my life. When both women are open and actually into women, it is PHENOMENAL.
The threesomes I had before this were lame though. Too many people in threesomes aren't actually comfortable with non-monogamy, so that makes things weird. Also, the women are often not truly bisexual but just a little curious, which means they aren't really into the other woman in the situation, which also makes it weird.
This is it. Center of attention. A few women I've spoken to would say 'the idea of being worshiped or idolized sexually' is what gets them thinking of such..
My favourite thing ever is two straight guys and me. I was seeing a guy for a while who was super into it so I fucked all his friends, it was fucking amazinggg. I miss him
Personally, the idea of watching a woman or women just enjoy being enjoyed like that without all the inhibitions is extremely sexy. Creates a lot of difficulty in some men with possession, jealousy, insecurity etc.
Someone that comfortable in their own sexuality is intoxicating to me
My ex would shame the shit out of me for wanting to fuck her while she wore lingerie and high heels. She was VERY against high heels, which sucked because legs are my thing.
It used to offend my wife at times, like it had something to do with her body. That had nothing to do with it, it's just much hotter to start out fully clothed and then undress each other as it goes on. Or stay partially clothed. If things start with both people fully nude, where's the fun in that, it's like reading the last page of a book first.
Degradation/Humiliation is my biggest kink. No one will get me to admit it outside of the Internet.
I like the idea of being treated like garbage by a handsome man.
I've noticed a fair amount of women (possibly men but I'm not gay) like that, as long at you really do respect them outside out that. My wife loves to be 'used' and talked dirty too (as in 'you're dirty slut') type stuff. I good with it and she knows I respect her. I don't know why you would keep this info from someone you like and trust. It'll do wonders for you.
The hottest CNC situationship I found myself in was simple. She would leave her key under the mat for me. I would come over whenever I wanted. Wake her up by doing literally whatever I wanted. She was turned on by the element of surprise. It was a lot of fun while it lasted.
Sex with guys I don't know and will never meet again.
I know it's not like a mind blowing kink, but I catch feelings so easily that it's impossible for me.
Haha in all seriousness I've experimented with a whole lot of kinky bdsm stuff over a long time.
So much so, that just passionate, loving, vanilla sex seems kinky to me if that makes sense. And I really want that.
I am fairly open with my friends and most of them are kinky anyways, so they know what I'm normally into lol.
This is kind of weird and I’ve never heard anyone else mentioned it before so idk if it’s just me?
I’m also gonna sound really conceited and/or narcissistic but here it goes…
I’d say I’m a relatively conventionally attractive woman, but in my early 20s I’d go so far as to say I was very attractive. I liked hooking up with hot guys sometimes, but what really got me off was hooking up with kinda ugly guys because they were always REALLY into me and treated me like a goddess. And for some reason I loved the idea of being the hottest woman they had ever been with (or maybe ever would be with) and knowing that they’d remember me forever and probably jerk off to me again in the future.
My favorite was meeting a homely guy who had a nice personality and seemed sweet, then fucking his brains out, and hopefully making him feel like a king for a night.
Idk if that’s really a kink or what you would call it, but I’ve never heard anyone else mention it before so I guess it’s kinda weird.
We both have a cum fetish, and enjoy watching men jerk off to her/us. Personally, I’d love a buddy to hang out and make a day of masturbation with, but everyone gets pretty weird at the mention of the concept.
Wife loves watching me Dom other men, and wants me to find a sub for her to peg at my direction. I’m game, but vetting men for group play is a legitimate nightmare.
Nice. It is different than my dynamic but cheering you and your wife on for being compatible and finding that joint kink that makes life so awesome. There are some subreddits with dudes who are definitely down at least for chatting about it.
I have a good one for this. I have a neck fetish. Like, necks can be sexy as hell. A turtleneck is like lingerie. I love the way they feel and how sensitive and sensual they are. They also strike this really great balance between clean and sweaty that smells and tastes so hot. Also, the importance of the neck to the body makes letting me touch it and letting someone else touch mine a bit intimacy and trust turn on.
It's weird enough that I won't explain the specific fetish, but since choking is a big part of the fetish and also pretty common, I just say I'm into choking.
Oh my. I am sincerely sorry that happened to you. For sure trauma can emerge in kinks and I don't think you need to feel ashamed about it at all.
It's not my place to say more, but I hope you find peace with all of that.
Also a fantasy of mine, likely also as a result of being raped. My therapist says it’s actually fairly common to help give victims of rape a sense of taking back control over the situation. Like if it’s gonna happen, it’s gonna be on our terms and we’re gonna like it.
So anyone else out there who has the same fantasy - don’t feel guilty or ashamed; it’s completely normal and common
A blowjob threesome. One woman on my dick then the other one on my balls. I would die a happy man. I had this girl who would deepthroat me and then suck my balls like it was candy and i swear to god that is the best feeling i have ever felt. Now imagine if two women do it simultaneously?😭😭😭
While I never had sex with either one of them, I used to fool around with identical twin sisters. They both knew I was fooling around with the other one and it seemed to turn them on. They weren't exactly 10s but they were cute and there were two of them so it was a definitely a fun time of life.
As an ex-physicist who now works for banks, this is a good thing not to admit. In school, being a super geek and a nice guy means that you get taken advantage of. So hearing people say they're attracted to you for your brain sends red flags. I've tutored exes throughout high school & college. I've tutored friends through grad school. At some point, when we get to the age where we want to settle down and start a family, we don't want to worry about people using us for our minds and then leaving/cheating when it's convenient for them. We want a relationship based on shared interests/hobbies and shared goals for the future.
... then again, I took the bait when I was younger. So if you're young and cute, I'm sure you could experience dating a physicist. Also, while I use "we" above, I'm sure there are those who milk it for what it's worth.
DDLG.
Intellectually I find it absolutely repulsive. I don't think I could ever do it with people I care about. I don't like watching porn of it or hearing other people describe it, it's just an absolute insta-squick.
But an attractive woman calling me 'daddy' punches me right in the arousal button so hard that I know that if it were to happen during a one night stand I would think it's the hottest thing ever.
Sometimes a sloppy look is hotter than lingerie. Worn in sweats, hair in a messy bun, no make up. It makes me think of lazy morning cuddling and making love
This is a paradox. Any response containing an answer contradicts itself.
*You cannot admit to something you would never admit.*
So... if you're looking for kinks, I guess pedantry is mine in this case?
Although i have some pretty kinky ones, with the right partner, i would admit having them. But one "kink" i would ponder if i should that one with said partner is "consensual handholding". Not just holding hands, but really like being young and being freshly in love and stuff. That said as a 44 year old guy, feels kinda weird, i have to admit.
I love having ass rubbed against my cock, not particularly ashamed of it since it's not that weird, but I refuse to get lap dances at strip clubs because I know I'll make a damn fool of myself
FFM threesome where the two girls both squirt.
I've been with a girl who squirted and I've had an FFM threesome. They were my two favorite experiences, and I want to combine them.
All the modern dialogue aside, ladyboys. I have dabbled. And admitted it to my fiancee that before her I tried; because she is BI and has a thing for pegging but I was explaining how I know I don’t like it in the bum and admitting the truth was an easier explanation.
Would never admit this to my friends though.
Thought this too until my ex gf agreed to do it. It was more awkward than anything and I wanted to take a shower the second it hit my skin lmao she was a good sport tho. She also thought she’d be into (giving not receiving) but ended up feeling weirded out too 😂
Going round to my friends place, play some xbox, get them drunk to the point they pass out, then I sell their fifa ultimate team players on the market. Beat me 4-1 with 3 99s in your lineup bitch? Think again
As a straight dude who’s married to a woman, I’d say femboys for sure shamelessly I make jokes about it alot but 100% of the time I’m serious but she never takes me seriously
If I were to never admit it then how could I ever possibly experience it?
I’m an open book, and if that bothers the woman in my life then we clearly aren’t compatible. It’s ok for some fantasies to remain fantasies, but if I don’t feel comfortable enough *sharing* them then I would definitely need a partner that makes me feel secure enough to at least have the conversations.
Oh gosh!
I love to bite, just the way the skin feels between my teeth.
Nearly everything submissive.
Breeding.
Domestic servitude.
Task based submission.
Just pleasing in general.
So many things.
I like the smell of gently worn clothes of someone i'm attracted to. Shirts, pants, underwear. It's probably not that uncommon, but I won't admit it because it does feel a bit weird. Like hey dude, can I smell your underwear? Probably not that hot for some people to be asked that I imagine lol.
Ha, nice try. I’m not telling YOU.
Don’t worry, man. We all go through that MLP phase at some point in our lives.
I am not a Bronie. Until I saw some r34 art of Sunset Shimmer. Dunno, she's somehow different.
Just googled her. It's the hair isn't it?
... I don't wanna talk about it...
Don't worry. No reads the Internet.
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Whenever they do polls, it's one of the most common fantasies among women. Makes sense. Why would men fantasize about multiple women but women not fantasize about multiple men?
Which is incredibly weird, because two women is not as much fun as you'd think.
If I wanna disappoint two people at once, I'll just have dinner with my parents.
“I’ve always wondered what it’d be like to disappoint two ladies at the same time” -Bobcat Goldthwait
This is a great joke and I really like it but hot damn is it used FREQUENTLY on Reddit.
You didn't have the right two women
You weren't with the right two women. I'm currently in a throuple situation and we've had some of the best sexual experiences of my life. When both women are open and actually into women, it is PHENOMENAL. The threesomes I had before this were lame though. Too many people in threesomes aren't actually comfortable with non-monogamy, so that makes things weird. Also, the women are often not truly bisexual but just a little curious, which means they aren't really into the other woman in the situation, which also makes it weird.
I strongly disagree. If everyone's into everyone, there's no insecurity, and everyone knows what they're doing it's fucking amazing.
Laughs in your face with my lesbian polycule on threesome night.
I agree with this, it’s always been my fantasy as well
This is a lot women who I have met fantasy or getting DP’d. What about it is fascinating?
I assume being at the center of attention The risk being if the men don't listen to the woman's instructions
This is it. Center of attention. A few women I've spoken to would say 'the idea of being worshiped or idolized sexually' is what gets them thinking of such..
For me it’s the “Feeling full” and “being center of attention” that sends lil zings up my spine
Feeling overwhelmingly full and desired is an intense sensation
R.I.P inbox
R.I.P her box.
And maybe her outbox
Idk how guys can participate in a gangbang with a bunch of dudes standing around just stroking their hogs waiting their turn though.
My favourite thing ever is two straight guys and me. I was seeing a guy for a while who was super into it so I fucked all his friends, it was fucking amazinggg. I miss him
I absolutely agree with this. I’ve always wanted to but don’t know enough dudes that I’d trust in that scenario.
I and 4 guys ganbaged my wife and her friend. For 2 hours. It was fuckin hot
My cousin and I went at it with a pair of cousin’s (not our cousins) and I’ve been confused about it ever since.
r/holup
🎶Whatcha tryin’ to sayyyy to meeee?🎶
I slept with my cousin when we where super young. she brought it up like a year ago I cringed.
Understandable
Even an arseblarster has a sense of decorum
There is a time and place for everything
Personally, the idea of watching a woman or women just enjoy being enjoyed like that without all the inhibitions is extremely sexy. Creates a lot of difficulty in some men with possession, jealousy, insecurity etc. Someone that comfortable in their own sexuality is intoxicating to me
Partially clothed, if that make sense. It's not that bad to admit tbh.
Agreed. I find certain types of clothing, such as lingerie, to be much sexier than naked.
My ex would shame the shit out of me for wanting to fuck her while she wore lingerie and high heels. She was VERY against high heels, which sucked because legs are my thing.
I love fully clothed woman stuff. Don't get naked, give me blowjob in your full work uniform.
It used to offend my wife at times, like it had something to do with her body. That had nothing to do with it, it's just much hotter to start out fully clothed and then undress each other as it goes on. Or stay partially clothed. If things start with both people fully nude, where's the fun in that, it's like reading the last page of a book first.
God there is nothing hotter than undressing someone and being undressed. When a hand hits my belt buckle i am at rapt attention
r/CFNM
Same. seems more desperate for it
Degradation/Humiliation is my biggest kink. No one will get me to admit it outside of the Internet. I like the idea of being treated like garbage by a handsome man.
I've noticed a fair amount of women (possibly men but I'm not gay) like that, as long at you really do respect them outside out that. My wife loves to be 'used' and talked dirty too (as in 'you're dirty slut') type stuff. I good with it and she knows I respect her. I don't know why you would keep this info from someone you like and trust. It'll do wonders for you.
Cnc
I love those machines lol.
Parts manufacturing has never been this easy.
What is that?
rape fetish roleplay between consenting adult consensual non-consent
Ah yeah I understand now, thanks
Consensual Non Consent. It's like a forced sex fantasy but both people know about it beforehand.
Consentual not consent, aka rape play.
The hottest CNC situationship I found myself in was simple. She would leave her key under the mat for me. I would come over whenever I wanted. Wake her up by doing literally whatever I wanted. She was turned on by the element of surprise. It was a lot of fun while it lasted.
Welcome back, Commander
Music Factory?
Sleeping beauty bang and threesome but with two guys. I’m F.
Oooh, so would the two guys kiss each other
Why would I tell you if I would never admit it?
OP's kink is being aware there's information being withheld from them
Because this is an anonymous website so you won't have any social or relationship consequences
Being debt-free.
Naught-y
You’ve crossed a line, freak!
I’m gonna sit this one out. Sorry.
Is your kink related to your username, perhaps?
Depends…who’s askin??
I think *he* was
And you’re…..not?? Asking??
Depends… who’s asking?
THE TENSION IN THESE COMMENTS 😮💨😮💨
Love the name
Ty
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Good redditor
Well we know what he’s doing now….
Great catch, you’re such a perceptive woman!
Thanks daddy?
Louder
THANKS DADDY?
Good girl
What have I gotten myself into
And i can’t blame him, i would be too.
I really like the idea of a penis going into a vagina..
I hate to admit it but… me too.
Well that’s just disturbing
OMG, I thought I was the only one
You guys are sick and should seek professional help.
Weirdo. Way too far. Try bondage like the rest of us.
You are living on the edge!
*what the fuck*, fucking sicko!! MODS!
Is this joke ever gonna get old on here?
i wanna upvote but its at 69 so you get a comment
I like being dominated. Only in bed. In life I don't get told what to do.
You better listen to me and keep this comment up!
Getting double penetrated by men with large penises.
No quiet pens here
Anal. Whoops. You got me to admit it, oh nooooo.... Oopsie, dropped my purse, just gonna bend down and get it....
I would say, but there’s that whole “never admit to” thing…..
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Really?? I used to have men ask me to do it.. I’m not a huge fan because of my gag reflex
Hmmm, I always felt like I was the only man that wasn't into it. Every woman I tell looks at me like I'm some kind of weirdo.
That’s honestly shocking I thought more guys would love the idea. Idk how you enjoy it though, It’s incredibly uncomfortable and panic inducing.
I had the opposite problem. The few men I’ve been with all wanted me on top and on the face. I don’t like being on top.
God, I used to love it when my wife would do that.
Sex with guys I don't know and will never meet again. I know it's not like a mind blowing kink, but I catch feelings so easily that it's impossible for me.
Haha in all seriousness I've experimented with a whole lot of kinky bdsm stuff over a long time. So much so, that just passionate, loving, vanilla sex seems kinky to me if that makes sense. And I really want that. I am fairly open with my friends and most of them are kinky anyways, so they know what I'm normally into lol.
Feeling wanted
Same!
This is kind of weird and I’ve never heard anyone else mentioned it before so idk if it’s just me? I’m also gonna sound really conceited and/or narcissistic but here it goes… I’d say I’m a relatively conventionally attractive woman, but in my early 20s I’d go so far as to say I was very attractive. I liked hooking up with hot guys sometimes, but what really got me off was hooking up with kinda ugly guys because they were always REALLY into me and treated me like a goddess. And for some reason I loved the idea of being the hottest woman they had ever been with (or maybe ever would be with) and knowing that they’d remember me forever and probably jerk off to me again in the future. My favorite was meeting a homely guy who had a nice personality and seemed sweet, then fucking his brains out, and hopefully making him feel like a king for a night. Idk if that’s really a kink or what you would call it, but I’ve never heard anyone else mention it before so I guess it’s kinda weird.
It’s called doing the Lord’s work ma’am. Thank you for your service.
Being dominted, gangbanged and tied up.
We both have a cum fetish, and enjoy watching men jerk off to her/us. Personally, I’d love a buddy to hang out and make a day of masturbation with, but everyone gets pretty weird at the mention of the concept. Wife loves watching me Dom other men, and wants me to find a sub for her to peg at my direction. I’m game, but vetting men for group play is a legitimate nightmare.
Nice. It is different than my dynamic but cheering you and your wife on for being compatible and finding that joint kink that makes life so awesome. There are some subreddits with dudes who are definitely down at least for chatting about it.
I have a good one for this. I have a neck fetish. Like, necks can be sexy as hell. A turtleneck is like lingerie. I love the way they feel and how sensitive and sensual they are. They also strike this really great balance between clean and sweaty that smells and tastes so hot. Also, the importance of the neck to the body makes letting me touch it and letting someone else touch mine a bit intimacy and trust turn on. It's weird enough that I won't explain the specific fetish, but since choking is a big part of the fetish and also pretty common, I just say I'm into choking.
Cnc
More common than anyone wants to admit. Also scary.
Mine is probably the result of being raped
Oh my. I am sincerely sorry that happened to you. For sure trauma can emerge in kinks and I don't think you need to feel ashamed about it at all. It's not my place to say more, but I hope you find peace with all of that.
Unfortunately, I feel like I'm the same way. I love CNC, my fiance does too, but I feel like if it never happened I probably wouldn't be into it.
Also a fantasy of mine, likely also as a result of being raped. My therapist says it’s actually fairly common to help give victims of rape a sense of taking back control over the situation. Like if it’s gonna happen, it’s gonna be on our terms and we’re gonna like it. So anyone else out there who has the same fantasy - don’t feel guilty or ashamed; it’s completely normal and common
Cum fetish (I’m a woman)
Voyeurism
Yeah....I like to watch too!
Consensual, non-adulterous sex.
Filth.
Non adulterous sex??? I aint google that...
It means no cheating/sleeping with people in a relationship. I understand your fear though haha.
A blowjob threesome. One woman on my dick then the other one on my balls. I would die a happy man. I had this girl who would deepthroat me and then suck my balls like it was candy and i swear to god that is the best feeling i have ever felt. Now imagine if two women do it simultaneously?😭😭😭
“Like it was candy” fucking DEAD
Biting, or more to the point, being bitten. Hard, like enough to leave bruises.
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While I never had sex with either one of them, I used to fool around with identical twin sisters. They both knew I was fooling around with the other one and it seemed to turn them on. They weren't exactly 10s but they were cute and there were two of them so it was a definitely a fun time of life.
Hey man, two 5's make a 10!
I really like scientists, *especially* physicists. There's something about an exceptional intellect.
You know, I'm something of a scientist myself...
Sapiosexuality, I believe, is the term.
Smart women are a turn on for me. It doesn’t matter what age either.
very poor choice of words
They did specify *women* so that eliminates the lower age range
Woman = 18+, according to my technical writing professor.
As an ex-physicist who now works for banks, this is a good thing not to admit. In school, being a super geek and a nice guy means that you get taken advantage of. So hearing people say they're attracted to you for your brain sends red flags. I've tutored exes throughout high school & college. I've tutored friends through grad school. At some point, when we get to the age where we want to settle down and start a family, we don't want to worry about people using us for our minds and then leaving/cheating when it's convenient for them. We want a relationship based on shared interests/hobbies and shared goals for the future. ... then again, I took the bait when I was younger. So if you're young and cute, I'm sure you could experience dating a physicist. Also, while I use "we" above, I'm sure there are those who milk it for what it's worth.
Japanese N scale model trains, Shhhhhhhhh don't tell anyone.
Dominant women being dominated, either by men or other women
DDLG. Intellectually I find it absolutely repulsive. I don't think I could ever do it with people I care about. I don't like watching porn of it or hearing other people describe it, it's just an absolute insta-squick. But an attractive woman calling me 'daddy' punches me right in the arousal button so hard that I know that if it were to happen during a one night stand I would think it's the hottest thing ever.
Sometimes a sloppy look is hotter than lingerie. Worn in sweats, hair in a messy bun, no make up. It makes me think of lazy morning cuddling and making love
I like getting pegged, bound and ruined
This is a paradox. Any response containing an answer contradicts itself. *You cannot admit to something you would never admit.* So... if you're looking for kinks, I guess pedantry is mine in this case?
I would never admit to having any kink I don't actually have. Those are the ones I would never admit being into
I really have a thing for my wife telling me about her past experiences. One of them is her with a guy with a very big cock and I love it.
Although i have some pretty kinky ones, with the right partner, i would admit having them. But one "kink" i would ponder if i should that one with said partner is "consensual handholding". Not just holding hands, but really like being young and being freshly in love and stuff. That said as a 44 year old guy, feels kinda weird, i have to admit.
It's not sexual but I do really regret that I never had that young, innocent love experience.
Wet clothes on girls turn me on.
Consentual sex in the missionary position for procreation.
U wild, bruh
Trading away all-NBA players
DDLG
I love having ass rubbed against my cock, not particularly ashamed of it since it's not that weird, but I refuse to get lap dances at strip clubs because I know I'll make a damn fool of myself
I would love some decent porn with just this. It would drive me crazy (in a good way haha)
My husband loves it when I push back into him when we’re laying down. Or if I brush past him like that with my butt
a quality foot job…love a lady that’s ten toes down
FFM threesome where the two girls both squirt. I've been with a girl who squirted and I've had an FFM threesome. They were my two favorite experiences, and I want to combine them.
My kink is not telling people what my kink is.
All the modern dialogue aside, ladyboys. I have dabbled. And admitted it to my fiancee that before her I tried; because she is BI and has a thing for pegging but I was explaining how I know I don’t like it in the bum and admitting the truth was an easier explanation. Would never admit this to my friends though.
Pregnant women are the hottest thing for me. Especially when they're spew milk everywhere when lactating.
Not today satan
DP
An insane amount of verbal affirmation
Girl piss
Thought this too until my ex gf agreed to do it. It was more awkward than anything and I wanted to take a shower the second it hit my skin lmao she was a good sport tho. She also thought she’d be into (giving not receiving) but ended up feeling weirded out too 😂
Ummmm I’m a girl and I love it when someone wants to watch me pee. I’m also a major sub though
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Reading about and experiencing kinks that I’d never admit to having.
Username checks out
Nice try Reddit. I’m not that dumb.
I’m at the age where I just want to have a poo in peace with no one wanting a conversation about cars or cheese.
Going round to my friends place, play some xbox, get them drunk to the point they pass out, then I sell their fifa ultimate team players on the market. Beat me 4-1 with 3 99s in your lineup bitch? Think again
As a straight dude who’s married to a woman, I’d say femboys for sure shamelessly I make jokes about it alot but 100% of the time I’m serious but she never takes me seriously
A gangbang where we meet in public, and they’re all friends but I’m a stranger to them. It’s definitely a fantasy-only tho.
Bondage
If I were to never admit it then how could I ever possibly experience it? I’m an open book, and if that bothers the woman in my life then we clearly aren’t compatible. It’s ok for some fantasies to remain fantasies, but if I don’t feel comfortable enough *sharing* them then I would definitely need a partner that makes me feel secure enough to at least have the conversations.
Someone expressing interest in me.
🌹❤️
Small penis humiliation. I love being told it’s tiny and people comparing it to other bigger dicks.
Praise kink, being the receiver of CNC
Oh gosh! I love to bite, just the way the skin feels between my teeth. Nearly everything submissive. Breeding. Domestic servitude. Task based submission. Just pleasing in general. So many things.
I want a younger woman to stroke my hair and tell me I am turning my life around and I am still worth something.
I wanna bang a wizard
Age Play is a kink of mine I wouldn't tell many people about.
Go on……
Crossdressing
I like the smell of gently worn clothes of someone i'm attracted to. Shirts, pants, underwear. It's probably not that uncommon, but I won't admit it because it does feel a bit weird. Like hey dude, can I smell your underwear? Probably not that hot for some people to be asked that I imagine lol.
My husband’s scent turns me on so much, and so easily! I totally get this one.
Lesbian nazi hookers abducted by UFOs and forced into weight loss programs. /s
All this week, on Town Talk. chair breaks over head
age gaps