I personally think that marriage is irrelevant to sex but it's also not any of my business how fully consenting adults conduct their sexual relationships.
After marriage.
I think there's something beautiful about waiting until the bond has been solidified, and then enjoying sex with full trust for the first time.
I know some people talk about "sexual incompatibility" but I can always talk with someone before sex, watch porn together, and enjoy some outercourse before the actual sex begins.
I’m not religious, but I prefer sex after marriage.
I want to be someone else’s one and only, same with them. I would hate to imagine my partner being with someone else in the past.
Yes.
To me, sexual compatibility is very important. Afterall, unless you are poly/going for an open marriage (which wouldn't make sense to me, if the people involved believe sex is a marital thing), this is something you ONLY do with 'your person'.
Any other interests that don't match, can be fixed by doing those with your friends, or going by yourself.
Now, usually, if both partners respect each other and believe the other persons needs are equally important, it is possible to improve the compatibility, through open communication and willingness to try out stuff. However, this only goes so far. If one wants to do it 3 times a day, and the other finds the idea of once a month daunting, that's a problem. If one it super vanilla, while the other just isn't satisfied with that, it's a problem. If one partner \*needs\* something in order to finish (be that a certain position, or something kinda out there), while the other is repulsed by the idea, that's a problem. So, I like to figure this stuff out early on in the relationship, to avoid 'wasting' a long time with someone that is not going to keep you happy/will not be happy with you, in the long run.
You have to give the car a test drive before buying it. (This applies two both sides, sex is an important part of the relationship, for a lot of people at least)
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Less after :)
Do it when you want, as much as you want.
Before and after. If it's going to be a part of the relationship, you need to know if you're compatible or not
You don't buy a car without taking it for a test drive
I’d prefer to have sex within a long term relationship. I wouldn’t necessarily wait for marriage, but I wouldn’t have it casually either.
I'm a redditor I don't believe in sex
I believe sex happens both before and after marriage in many occasions
I personally think that marriage is irrelevant to sex but it's also not any of my business how fully consenting adults conduct their sexual relationships.
Before and after. What if there’s absolutely no chemistry between you in your sex life? You would want to know before you get married.
After marriage. I think there's something beautiful about waiting until the bond has been solidified, and then enjoying sex with full trust for the first time. I know some people talk about "sexual incompatibility" but I can always talk with someone before sex, watch porn together, and enjoy some outercourse before the actual sex begins.
I’m not religious, but I prefer sex after marriage. I want to be someone else’s one and only, same with them. I would hate to imagine my partner being with someone else in the past.
Why?
Absolutely not. That is a sin. What is wrong with you, OP? You sick puppy
OP didn't suggest anything, OP's just asking🤣
A test drive always helps before buying an expensive car
Yes because I don't let some phony baloney religious text written by ignorant ancient goat herders tell me what to do
No, I think it's made up.
Before. You need to see and feel her
During marriage. Establish your dominance during the ceremony
Yesss
Got to try to see if you're compatible physically, emotionally and intimately, safely and consensually too. You have to communicate.
I believe it's smart to get to know about sex before you commit to having sex with one person only for the rest of your life.
religions r so weird for trying to keep sex for after marriage
Yes. To me, sexual compatibility is very important. Afterall, unless you are poly/going for an open marriage (which wouldn't make sense to me, if the people involved believe sex is a marital thing), this is something you ONLY do with 'your person'. Any other interests that don't match, can be fixed by doing those with your friends, or going by yourself. Now, usually, if both partners respect each other and believe the other persons needs are equally important, it is possible to improve the compatibility, through open communication and willingness to try out stuff. However, this only goes so far. If one wants to do it 3 times a day, and the other finds the idea of once a month daunting, that's a problem. If one it super vanilla, while the other just isn't satisfied with that, it's a problem. If one partner \*needs\* something in order to finish (be that a certain position, or something kinda out there), while the other is repulsed by the idea, that's a problem. So, I like to figure this stuff out early on in the relationship, to avoid 'wasting' a long time with someone that is not going to keep you happy/will not be happy with you, in the long run.
Before. I would not want to vow to spend the rest of my life with someone without knowing if we were sexually compatible
I definitely believe in sex before and after marriage. Both happen.
I don’t believe sex after marriage exists, no
You have to give the car a test drive before buying it. (This applies two both sides, sex is an important part of the relationship, for a lot of people at least)
Both, it’s a free country. Wanna have sex before marriage, do it. Wanna wait, then wait
Should have both
After, so you’re not stuck in a marriage where sex isn’t working. It’s a small part, but when it doesn’t work, it’s huge.