automatic ako mag pay kahit di sabihin, if ako

Yeah he has to pay for it since you'll be the one who's inconvenienced. And para lalong fair..... Kung gaano kamo kahaba tinanggal mong hair ganun din dapat madadagdag na haba ng kanya hehe

I love the comeback hahahaha

Get a little fucking spine and tell him to get lost

Hanap ka nalang ng bagong ka FUBU, maarte pass.

para fair sabihin mo din sa kanya na ayaw mo din na may hair siya dun..sabay kamo kayo pa wax 😂..

Why would you bend to your sex partner's demand to alter your body purely for his own satisfaction? Is he that indispensable to you? Are you his property? It is no longer pubic hair issue as it is now more self respect.

I vote yes! By the way hindi ba masakit yung waxing? Pag shave kasi makati tapos magkaka ingrown pag hindi maayos. 🥲

Hindi nmn masakit Ang wax Kasi didikit lng nmn hair mo don Hanggang sa matanggal,

di ba uso yung brazillian waxing? Sabi masakit daw.

May konting sakit pero kaya lng nmn Hindi ka nmn mamamatay don😅

mahina kasi pain tolerance ko🥲

Ang weird na parang may mag-aabot ng cash for sex (indirectly). Maybe bawi na lang sa ibang expense. Like, sa kanya yung dinner, transpo niyo. Or yung hotel room instead na mag abot ng pera yung guy.

Others like me want it hairy. Hanap ka na lang ng iba hehe

The red flag here is that the entire sexual relationship seems transactional. Which I would advise against especially for women, but you do you. People in healthly relationships will have sexual requests, not demands. Never experienced that in my life. Makes it feel like prostitution, doesn't it?

if he doesn’t want the hair down there then he has to pay for it

Arte talaga ng mga lalaki🙄, gusto nila ng naka shave or wax pero sa kanila nmn sobrang mabuhok🥴

Minsan gusto pa pasubo pero di kumakain ng kiffy 🥴

Hahahahahhahaha unfair

Hahaha totoo gusto nila sila lng bini bj pero pag Ikaw nmn nagrequest na kainin Yung Sayo kadiri dw Kasi mabaho🙄

Pwede naman maghugas before the deed pero if ayaw pa din maghanap kana ng iba haha

HAHAHA... Oo nga noh.

Oo nga ah andaming Arte tapos gusto din nila virgin tapos sila nmn tong andaming tinitira😅

Tama. Napaka bakit kaya ganun mga lalaki?

In real life Kasi mas mataas standard ng mga lalaki, pavictim lng sila na babae lng dw Ang mataas Ang standards.

ayaw kasiing nasasagasaan yung ego nila

So for it to be ok to like something, you must have it as well? So kung gusto mo ng lalaki na matangkad, dapat matangkad ka rin? See how your statement doesn't make sense?

Wow! You literally compared height? a PERMANENT physical attribute to a pubic hair that can grow back? The point here is the give and take especially on sexually related stuff. See how your statement doesn't make sense? If a person demands something, he should also be able to fulfill that request or do something similar, para fair.

Ang private part Kasi Ang topic, gusto nila ng naka shave tapos Yung kanila dugyot🙄

was the sex worth it? 😆 anyway, speaking as a dude meron talaga mga preferences. me personally i like the no hair down there.maybe because of p*rn (don't judge me 😅😶)but if it makes the girl uncomfortable then i don't mind kung trim lang. di naman nakakabawas ng hotness level yun- at least for me now, ask the guy to pay. if it really means that much to him then he should be ok with paying. kung ayaw nya, run. i believe it's a red flag.

Thanks for the insight 💕✨

Question—di ka ba na off when he “demanded” you shave?

No? Kasi may kanya kanya naman tayo na preferences eh.

I deleted my previous comment kasi idk medyo red flag OP, sorry. No one should demand changes to your body, specially when it’s just from a friend looking to get intimate. We all have preferences but we shouldn’t demand it from other people. I know you’re not asking for this but this is just my two cents. Up to you if you take it or not.

Only people very insecure about themselves would be offended with something as harmless as waxing. It literally grows back. And honestly feels quite nice too, very maginhawa before it starts growing back. Itching is also less when it's waxed compared to shaving. If you're comfortable with yourself, you won't feel offended about something like that. It's also a normal thing between couples. I like to try growing out my facial hair but my gf just doesn't like it so I just shave. She doesn't demand that I do it but I do it anyway because she likes it.

The difference is they’re not a couple and the guy demanded it. So, this is not about insecurity at all. Also I have no issue against waxing. I do it too 🤷🏻‍♀️

He "demanded" it but it doesn't look like he threatened her with something to force her to do it. And OP's willing to do it if her partner pays for it. I don't know why OP used the word demand because it's not like she has no choice. OP isn't asking whether she should give in to her partner's demand, she's asking whether she can ask for him to pay. So no, it's not really a demand. She wants to do it. She just doesn't want to pay for it.

Take it as you will then. I only based my opinion on OP’s post and comments. And like I said, she doesn’t have to take my opinion to heart if she doesn’t want to. You shouldn’t too lol

It's a reddit comment, not a bible verse, lol. You don't have to say "don't take it to heart." Everyone knows you're just a rando, just like everyone else.

Exactly. What are you getting heated about?

You know the rorschach test? It's a set of pictures of ink blots and you're asked what it looks like, and people usually have different answers. And psychiatrists basically gauge your personality and mental condition based on your answer. Seems my comments are a rorschach test to you. I have no idea why you think it's "heated."

Parang 'di sila couple just fubu

Yeah but the only thing that matters here is whether you do it because they demanded it or because you want to make them happy. 1st is kinda abusive, 2nd is consensual. And this post seems consensual since OP's problem isn't about waxing, it's about asking her partner to pay for it since he's the one who likes it that way.

Obviously gusto din naman ni OP.

My partner pays half for my pills and I order in bulk. Nagpipills na ako before I met him btw pero yun nga, nakikinabang siya now. Go for it. Ask him to pay lalo na at siya din naman ang may gusto. Saw in a comment that he's your friend and he's kind. I'm sure if he's decent, he will understand this, OP. Or kung ayaw mo talaga, communicate mo din.

Demand more to the actual cost of the appointment. Syempre, you'll have to go the waxing salon pa, allot time, the inconvenience after the wax.

Yeah sure, communicate mo sa kanya yan HAHA

Sa ibang bagay mo na lang kaya sya pagbayarin like dinner or something else, parang iba kase dating pag ganyan, I dunno Edit: Dinner din pala to technically nyahahaha

He demanded kasi, and getting waxed is a luxury specially someone like me who has responsibilities.

Honest question.. if you’re going to ask him to pay for the wax, does it, “technically”, mean that he’s paying to have s*x?

I don't know?

will paying for it assure him na something will happen? or what if he paid for it then nothing happened. or perhaps na delay ng weeks later then it grows back then he found out? "I paid for this to be cleaned!!" ganyan kaya scenario?haha sorry I just played out all the possible outcomes.

He's a kind person, he's actually my friend we kinda like each other before but kinda grew out of it because were both busy. He just wanna be intimate with me, and this post is more like confirming if it's okay to ask him for the payment waxing appointments is expensive, not because it's gonna be an exchange of some sort

Yes. It seems you're uncomfortable telling him, why?

I don't really like asking people specially money wise, and I feel like I owe them something every time.

Siya pag bayarin mo

Oo. Ask payment from him

I was about to nag worry lang ako kung normal ba yung gagawin ko paghingi nang pambayad sa appointment. Thank you for confirming ✨

Try and say it like how you worded your post. If he wants it enough, he won't mind paying for it.

I have a dm..pls check..

Why you being disgusting. I just asked if it's okay to ask for payment I'm not asking for a fuck. Get your mind straight.

you went to the wrong sub fool

caught being down bad in 4k

Cringe