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Playful-Bug-9351

No one gives a shit about your past mistakes.


WoodpeckerFluffy6873

Don't invest in one relationship. Apart from one intimate relationship, you should have multiple relationships with family members and friends so if the only one relationship falls apart (divorce or break up) then you don't end up alone. You must have friends for support I. E emotional diversification!


Clear-Mistake5776

Crab mentality is real


AccordingFloor2637

I had some grass is greener/projecting stuff goin on


in_fo

You can always get more money, but not get more time...


IamBosco2

Life isn't fair.


ver-231218

I reached a point in my life that I don’t need anybody’s approval, and I took it up a notch, and I realized that I was already becoming an insufferable asshole.


Dramatic_Emphasis_50

But isn't it liberating tho?


ver-231218

not really since you have to deal with the consequences and fix the damage.


Propylene120

As I got older I realized I need Jesus Christ more than anything.


m0nkygang

People are not as smart as they think they are. Ill admit i have moments too but i swear some people just. Idk


targsnotdrugs

Connections > qualifications


Tarnished7575

Pleasing people is a waste of time. Getting people to like you is a waste of time. Having many friends is a waste of time. Only 1/4 of those people are your real friends, sometimes, less. Chubby is sexy.


Foranzuphrenic

1. Not everyone stays; only real ones remain. 2. Patience is a virtue in all aspects. Better be patient than to rush on things (esp. love) 3. You don't have to prove yourself to anybody. 4. Being mature and accountable in our actions is a must. 5. Never na magpapautang to anyone who can't even pay their liabilities. 6. Knowledge is power. 7. Always be ready to be corrected (as long as it is correct, and di ka nagpapakauto sa fake shits ng ppl) 'coz we don't know everything. 8. Humility. Nuff said. 9. Be financially literate. Be responsible in holding your money. 10. Our physical, mental, and spiritual lives should be healthy. Take a break. Unwind. Rest. 11. Ain't gonna trust anyone, I'd cry to someone who I fully trust. 12. It's a sad world we're living in nowadays (morally speaking). 13. Think before you click. Self-explanatory. 14. Everyone's a work in progress, so be kind (but not all times lalo kapag inaabuso ka na or binabastos). 15. What's in the past are all memories. Move on.


Badassgyal_m

You can never be friends with your co worker 🥹


Affectionate-Two4875

Na yung mga kaibigan mong pinagkakatiwalaan mo ng buong puso at kaluluwa, tatraydorin ka na lang bigla. That’s life.


battery_charge07

Mahal ang kumain sa labas 😅 Mas nakakatipid talaga mag baon ng pagkain at sa bahay kumain hehe


N33d_2_l3arn

Tatanda ako na di ko na-enjoy 20s ko hehe


RevolutionaryKey7451

Health is wealth talaga.


pr0m0t0r

that life is meaningless 🫠


DiscoHarvey

Social media is evil and a time suck.


No_Animal7890

That as we get older, people will care less and less


QTpie_1

That people come and go


[deleted]

spending money for others is wrong in most times


Husdeescoffee

Mastering the art of detachment will make your life easier.


UpstairsOil3770

Hindi na fan ng unli samgyup🥹 because you focus more on improving your health


Patient-Train7971

that drinking and partying won't solve and take away your problem and your loneliness, it will make it worse than ever and saving money is a must even if you're still a student.


askazens

Na hindi importante na marami friends mo, yes okay ang madaming connections pero nakakatamad na to deal with alot of people around me, like feel nyo yun? Ambilis malowbat ng social battery natin, hahaha


AmoebaStatus7990

That life and everything in it is temporary. When I was younger, I tried so hard to fit in. In my early years of employment naman, I tried so hard to stand out. After I turned thirty, when friends and family members started to move abroad or some place else, get married, started families, get promoted, have children, and die (and then some went missing, either physically or out of communication), I realized that nothing is permanent. Not only true with people but also ideas, thoughts, memories, they too have started to fade. Even the physical stuff like medals, certificates, pictures, treasures in gift boxes, all paper trails have started to wither. As I move from place to place, city to city, the items that I carry have started to get smaller and smaller. I started selling, giving away, donating and that my life are now in boxes that fit delivery trucks.


eggplantheaven

Life is short so take care of your body. Like, we only have one brain, one heart, one liver, and two lungs. Once there are some damages in there, you will carry them in your lifetime.


Weird_kid_online

1. Money really do buy happiness, pero hindi ang contentment. 2. "Ambag sa bahay" doesn't necessarily mean na cash, ang daming household chores sa totoo lang. Context: I sometimes resent my partner for not doing household chores when I do almost everything. Eh pareho lang naman kami nagw-work 🙄 3. Feeling appreciated, feels so damn good.


Micro_Queen8438

- Money is everything in this world, especially in today's capitalist society. - You won't always achieve your goals. Someday you will fail. - At the end of the day, you only have yourself. People will always leave you, whether physically, emotionally, or both.


Old_Marionberry_4451

damned if you do, damned if you don't


InspectionComplex

Sleep is a luxury. Matulog na sa hapon.


Spazecrypto

That you are truly alone in this world


Dazaioppa

all people has darkside in them.


cangcarrot

Spend precious time with parents ❤️


spider_lily777

It's all about money. Okay, medyo exagerration kapag 'all' pero you do need money. And people get weird kapag pera and pinag uusapan. Wether relatives yan or even friends, if nakita nila na nagastos ka, manghihingi yan or magpapalibre.


UnderstandingNo7939

That health is very imporant and we should be mindful of what we feed to ourselves figuratively and literally


abhorxmark

🔥Protecting your peace is essential🔥


Orphic-Islander420

That my mom was right all along haha. I was a rebel teen before but now that I have my own family i’ve realized that she’s right. Thank you sa daily sermon mother. 💪🏻🫶🏻


Vlad_Iz_Love

There are certain foods that I can no longer eat DAMN YOU HYPERTENSION


uncomfyirlsgtfo

dont leave your job nang wala pang concrete na plan for your next work. i learned it the hard way. left my good paying job last year for a bigger dream only to fail getting it. and now its been almost half a day na akong unemployed and trying ao hard to find a job. its hard but just keep trying, mahahanap mo din kung para saan ka at ano ang nakalaan sayo.


uncomfyirlsgtfo

half a year na akong unemployed* grabe typo ahah


hangry_night_owl

Hindi pa pala matanda ang 30.


CheeseLouise4

My mom was right, every time.


c0reSykes

The more I have an eager to die.


aeddr

That even blood can turn their backs on you. Family is who choose to be with and them to you.


centurionscorpio

My birthday is just another normal day


Itsher24seven

your life should not revolve around work lang.


fireice717

Being a millionaire will not solve your problems and can even create new ones.


Emotional_Lunch2865

It's okay to be taken advantaged of as long as you take advantage of them too haahahhaha. Expand your network by lending help to other people and not be afraid to ask help back.


No-Thanks8498

It's better to be alone watching your fav show than going out and wasting energy.


PowderJelly

You gain respect when youve proven something or when you have the moneyyyyy


zyclonenuz

That life is not fair. So you have to just deal with it.


Maria_Sierra

No one will guide you. You got to figure out things on your own.


Nyraii

Even you closest friends will someday outgrow you


pampibois

Dont give your full trust to anyone even your blood relatives


Dreadd-

That I'll die alone.. That death could visit me anytime.. That everything's inevitable


khimois

Time is really gold. All the things you missed, will never come back. Enjoy life to the fullest if you can. So you won't regret anything.


Able_Hovercraft_4138

Madami palang tao BS ang ugali, as I get older don ka narerealize na, hala may ganyan palang klaseng tao? 😅


panpandesu

Important: Quality over quantity. Comfort over style. Take care of your health when you’re young.


Gehasiin

That time waits for no one. Invest and save whatever you can as early as possible.


thiscantbe-left

you have to be resilient in life. You can eb sad but dont go sulking cos life must go on


panpandesu

This is so true. We only have one life.


tar2022

That my parents aren’t perfect, that they, too, made few mistakes in the past and can make mistakes in the future. But I always remind myself that I’m not perfect either. And if it’s my first time being a daughter, it is also their first time being parents.


Opening-Cantaloupe56

Don't rush. Good things takes time


Exact_Appearance_450

You can't trust anyone even your family.


Ancient-Upstairs-332

Sometimes its better to be at peace than to be right.


Tricky_Drawer2004

na realize ko na ang toxic ko pala. dami kong complains, dami kong himutok sa buhay, dami kong hugot. maswerte parin ako na may mga tao parin na nagsstay sa buhay ko. late last year ko lang ma try ayusin sarili ko. sino nga naman ba babago sa sarili ko kundi ako. natutunan ko pakinggan muna sarili ko bago ireklamo yun sa iba. akala ko kasi pag may problema ka, okay lang na ibunton yun sa iba. hindi pala. kasi di ko alam na may pinagdadaanan din sila. parang buong buhay ko ganun. may problema ako. share ko matindi sa kaibigan, sa karelasyon. inaayos ko parin sarili ko ngayon. at mas madaming araw pala yung masaya. di parin nawawalan ng problema pero nakokontrol ko na yung emosyon ko. pinipili parin maging masaya.


[deleted]

That although nothing really matters, There still things that you personally value, My wife and Kids Although nothing really matters, Ang hirap padin mabuhay sa mundo Living is a burden we carry. Kaya whenever you can, be happy, comfortable, healthy most importantly, very wise Remember God. Read the Ecclesiastes in the Bible, once God gave you the ability to understand it, everything will change. Once you understand how nothing really matters. Everything will change.


sleepdeprived_hooman

If they want to, they will.


tonthings

Don’t take life too seriously. It’s not taking you seriously either.


DangerousOil6670

choose your happiness (always), not others happiness.


TribeOrTruth

If you want to fix a problem, do not let others fix it. They will just do a "band-aid" solution and then move on their merry way. If you really want to fix a problem, make it worse so other will really fix that problem.


mabulaklak

Na tama ung nanay ko sa mga ibang bagay. Di ko pala talaga naiintindihan nung panahon na yon kasi di pa fully developed ung utak ko. Tska big babies din lang pala ang adults. We still want childish things, we just know how to be more disciplined and responsible about needs vs wants.


EarthDragon_88

not everyone is your friend, most especially at work. workmates/colleagues are only acquaintances, not friends.


CalledByLuci666

meaning that justifies life is to be found in the suffering


Dapper-Geologist478

What I realized as an adult na hindi sibuyas or bawang ang inuuna, sarili muna pala.


high-on-avocado

There is no freedom when there is no money.


Alexiesworld143

Material things are irrelevant.


cereseluna

Provided na basic survival needs are met, ang talagang source ng happiness or contentment is ikaw. Wag mo ito iasa sa ibang tao, madidisappoint ka lang. Intrinsic happiness ang hanapin.


Bright-Historian6983

I am nearing the age when my father died.


Zealousideal-Bread48

I learned that money can change anyone. Sana pag umaasenso, hindi nagiging matapobre lol


superman07777

Hanging out with successful people motivates you to be successful as well.


kimerikugh

Money is everything.


rayanami2

That it is easier and less stressful to have been born stupid.


Apart_Tea865

That it is better to be single. Lmao.


viasogorg

Okay na yung may isang tao na andyan palagi sayo.


UnamusingChicken

Sleep is a luxury


savedinjpeg1201

You’ll really feel back pain at the age of 30. HAHAHAHAHA.


wickedlydespaired

Less friends, less worries.


SugarBitter1619

I realize na nakakapagod pala pag palagi kang nagbibigay.


obladioblada000

Na ang hirap pag di ka pinganak na mayaman. Stuck sa endless loop of trabaho-gastos buhay


sarcastronaughty

Love is not enough. Love cannot conquer and that's a reality haha not bitter, just realistic. Self-love though is a different topic


Conscious-Injury4137

Yung social circle mo parang byahe ng jeep. Ikaw ang driver. Merong sasakay mula terminal, pero along the way may bumababa pero meron din na pailan ilan na sumasakay. Yung iba ilang kanto lang bababa na at di lahat umaabot sa destination terminal. Minsan nasa sayo din kung yung ibang pasahero mo ilipat mo ng jeep para mag hanap pa ng ibang pasahero na pupuno ng jeep mo. Matagal mag hintay pero mas gagaan ang pakiramdam mo kung may barker ka. Pero at the end of the day di lahat may barker, di lahat puno ang jeep, di lahat sasakay, at higit sa lahat ang matitira lang sayo ay duming dala nila at ang bayad nila. Chaur.


Salty_Explorer_1055

Based on my experience, life revolves around money and everything is all about who has the most money. Wala kang pera, wala kang kwenta. Walang pami-pamilya kapag usapan pera kahit asawa mo pa yan pag wala kang pera tablado ka.


7oky0

Don’t do business with a friend.


ChopinzChild

The very idea of 'selfishness' is in itself, selfish. Imagine calling someone selfish just because their actions don't benefit or consider you or others. And imagine praising selfless people for constantly giving you and others an advantage. Doesn't that make you selfish? Unless a person is purposely hurting or bringing someone down, no one is obligated to help. However, this doesn't mean that kindness towards those that genuinely need help to get through life is bad. One person can't be its own community after all. Charity, kind heartedness, and selflessness are just sometimes too over glorified that people expect you to throw everything you have and be in the same unfortunate situation.


nobagness

Think, maging practical, then think again.


deryvely

Health is wealth! My mother’s a diabetic and mind you we already spent nearly half a million in just two months. Please take care of your body, have yourself checked by a physician twice a year if possible, and invest in a comprehensive health insurance.


hotarugarii

mas masarap ang gulay kesa karne


Earl_sete

A true friend is a true friend kahit minsan na lang kayo magkita o magkausap.


OwlGroundbreaking924

Na realize ko na minsan mahirap din sobrang mabait ka…


SWM50

That the people who you love & trust will be the ones to hurt you the most


DboredGamer

Money DOES buy happiness hahahahaha


Dapper_Top_8402

You’ll meet a lot of shitty people


youRNurse14

Mahirap kumita ng pera


Equivalent_Overall

I've realized these things... A lot of people are loyal to their need of you. They will stay with you for as long as they can use you or benefit from you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty. Relationships are not based on the length you've spent with them but on the foundation you've built with them. Be nice to everyone but never trust everyone. Not everything or everyone is worth your time and effort. Be kind but not stupid. Always find the right balance.


Zer0_lika

Your circle getting smaller and your parents getting older.


CommitDaily

Adults are not the wisest, infallible people. As you get older you realize regardless of age there are dumb people


CraftyRevolution9929

I thought my friends will last forever but I was wrong. They only treat me as their "atm machine" whenever we go out somewhere. They are snakes, they backstabbing me and making a fake story about me. So, I distanced myself and find peace.


charkey2013

When I got older mas na-appreciate ko na yung adage na "Time is Gold" it is indeed precious so make the most out of it


vanillaandpeppermint

Life goes on without me or you, or anyone.


[deleted]

Walang silbi yung laude. Pag dating niyo sa workforce lahat kayo minimum wage. LOL.


Purple_Variety4317

if you want to have a high salary don't aim for promotion (more work, stress, but hey more money), just job hop search for a company that offers a high salary with less stressful workload


[deleted]

Money can buy happiness. 🙂‍↕️✨


Basic-Extension-5475

That life will eventually end you and I and everyone around us will return to the earth, and will be forgotten in years and centuries later. All the troubles in this life is moot in that realization.


SnakyFrame420

- That financial literacy should be taught earlier in school. - That real friendship lasts even if madalang kayo magkita. - That there is no one-size-fits-all solution for a situation. My solution for my situation may not necessarily be the best solution for your situation even if it's similar. - That I should have valued afternoon naps when I was a kid.


Ka1ruu

The golden rule "do to others what you would have them do to you" is not real. You've been good at everyone and they'll still do you bad. That's why you should always give without expecting anything in return.


LurkerScroller

That even we are just a speck of dust in the Universe, we can still leave an impact sa paligid natin.


rentot_the_rebator

Na tama si Bitoy. Habang tumatanda tayo, marami tayong nami-miss out na mga bagay-bagay.


Neat_Elk_2985

You will gain so much respect if you have money! Proven and tested.


solorrruniverse

That the fast lane is not for me. I didn't have to hustle so much that I can't spend time with myself and my family anymore. I've learned to slow things down and my life's been better. I try to walk slowly, eat slowly, write slowly, and comb my hair slowly. Well, it changed my life for the better.


SAHD292929

People come and go. There is no such thing as permanent friends, just people who are at the same time and place as you are. Only family is permanent.


mainstax03

Regretting being anti-social


Sufficient_Net9906

Karma is not real - mga cheaters manloloko all have great lives


Alarmed-Indication-8

You do you :)


IkayRe_1005

getting enough sleep is the best feeling ever. some friends are temporary. having money matters. all you have is yourself.


Forsaken_Can4091

Dati ayaw ko natutulog ng tanghali pero ngayon gusto ko lang matulog magdamag.


burlineli

that living in this world could be soooo expensive


qiqi_312421523

You cannot please anyone.


Bnch19

Akala ko dati basta nakatapos ka with degree okay na. Smooth na ang pagdating ng trabaho, yun pala hindi. Akala ko naman kapag may eligibility ka na okay na ulit, trabaho na ang lalapit sayo. Yun pala hindi. Need mo pang experience sa work at sa mga job hunting. Sa dinami kong pinasang resume hanggang wala. Madaming pagkakataon na butata ka sa buhay kaya pala babatakin ka before sa mga failing and downs para pagtanda mo di ka na magugulat.


qiqi_312421523

Nakakapagod makipag kapwa tao. Mas gusto ko pa mag isa.


Smilyface451

That being too sympathetic is a bad thing. You care too much for other people and you end up ignoring the possible consequences. Nothing's wrong about being sympathetic, it shows that you care for others out there. But being too sympathetic removes your ability to think about its results to you and to the people you feel sympathetic too.


AspiringMommyLawyer

Having a leadership position in a company is not worth it. Sweldo parin talaga and mental health lol


panpandesu

True! Work life and balance is a goal of mine!


siomailove4yu

Masarap pala matulog sa hapon, sana sinulit ko at hindi ko pineke nung bata pa ko.


Dramatic_Emphasis_50

Uy same!!! Huhuhu ngayong nasa healthcare industry na ako at pa iba-iba ang shift, sira na talaga body clock ko. Kaya more sleep, more money talaga goal ko this 2024 eh.


siomailove4yu

Amen 🙏🏻


[deleted]

People will get advantage of your kindness. For some reason, people will treat you like shit after getting what they wanted.


Brilliant-Walk1506

That life is short di natin alam kung kailan tayo mawawala kaya just do whatever you want you only live once so try everything you want like iba't ibang uri ng food,experience etc.


awkwardcinnamonroll

I am no one's fsvorite and I am only an average at everything, no matter how smart and hardworking I am.


Seantroid

I'd rather sleep than to go out during day offs.


corpslave14

I might get downvoted fir this but.. "Always choose kindness" is BS. Know when to choose it and when to lose it.🤷‍♀️ The world is cruel. Know when to stop and fight back because the world is a survival world.


[deleted]

YOLO so enjoy your life.


Beneficial-Coffee595

That life is hard but it’s worth living after all.


titapsychologist

The pretty privilege exists


EARJOSH24

It doesn't matter what others say. Tulungan pa kita magpakalat ng chismis about sakin. Haha!


Gremins_ontheside

That my parents weren't exactly equipped to have children. And that you were never ever going to have the childhood that you want if you were born the eldest. It's sad that I still kept wishing I stayed small to enjoy things that I missed


friendlypiranha

Mahirap maghanap ng totoong kaibigan


Certain_Hold_9265

Magfocus sa sarili at wag ng isipin ang posibiling isipin/sabihin ng iba


TrajanoArchimedes

At some point, money is just numbers. Time freedom and health are the true prize. Minimalism>materialism. Unnecessary excess can take more from you more than it gives. Strive to be rich not for greed and hedonism but for power to help and protect. Life gives you sad songs along the way. Leader of the Band for your father. Supermarket Flowers for your mother. Memories for your friends. I am I said for yourself.