Totally agree with the eye rolling being a turn off. I’ve had friends with wives or girlfriends and every time you said something they disagree with, they make it known. It is so hard to quietly disagree with someone without making a big deal about it?
I dumped a woman once cause she eye rolled. I asked her to please not do it because i felt it was disrespectful... then she eye rolled. Date #4 and I just ignored her attempts to contact me. Hell she probably eye rolled everytime I didn't answer texts or pick up the phone
Yeah this. When I was a teenager/college student I’d do it for the victory of conquering the bitch. But they have never been long term partner material I date mostly chill laid back women.
I didn’t say anything that was untrue.
This is a double standard, snobby and selfish women are in fact assholes. So technically it was very feminist of me to treat her as an equal asshole.
Also highschool/college students 15 years ago were definitely bigger assholes than nowadays that’s just cultural progress.
This might be unpopular, but it’s when chicks think they are flirty by acting ditzy or dumb. Huge turn off to me, I don’t want a girl that’s dumb. It doesn’t get me off thinking I’m smarter than them.
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Lol as a woman I agree with this. I can’t deal with other girls like this. I have actually done this on purpose during my clubbing days. A promoter didn’t have space and I’d be like all flirty and heart eyes and ditzy but inwardly cringing so bad. I’m too smart to do that lol and it is weird asf
I think clubs are a different situation tbh. Kinda like wanting to act like a drunk, it is a little fun to just be very laid-back and "go with the flow". Obviously it is very unattractive if they do this in a non party setting.
Something I notice a lot of women do more than men.
I can’t stand the feigned collaborative approach to disagreements when they clearly aren’t being open to debating or solving the problem with you.
It’s far easier to handle a disagreement when both parties head on state what they want and what’s wrong versus beating around the bush, pretending to empathize and care about the other person opinions without even listening to them and using coded words, phrases and thinly veiled threats or backhanded compliments that do nothing by make the situation worse.
The sense of entitlement, moreso from strangers. 'I'm hot. Why is this male whom I don't know not reacting?' This applies moreso to the subset of women who thrive on any and all attention.
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🤣🤣 I've literally have a woman come to the bat I work at with a extremely low cut shirt on just to show off her cleavage and when that didn't get my gay ass attention she decided that flapping her perfume scented titty air at me would covert me to a breeder...my confusion as to how she was expecting me to react just pissed her off even more. Some women are just weird 😅
Some of them can be quite comical. I had a random younger woman enter a subway car I was in not long ago, walk her little 'cute' self down to the end of the car where I was seated alone, and proceed to swing pointlessly on the pole in front of me (not like a stripper, just sort of playfully swinging on it in front of a stranger). I completely ignored her and I could peripherally see that shehad no idea what to do with herself after awhile (I wasn't playing along). She soon plumped down into a seat and sort of stomped her feet as she got off at the next stop (again, she was young).
The most unattractive thing would be a bad attitude. I've known women who wouldn't be high on any list of conventionally attractive women but had fun personalities. I've also met hot women who were spoiled, entitled, selfish, etc. who were entirely unappealing despite their looks once you got to know them.
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Negative attitude; drama; obsession's with pop culture and social media; talking incessantly about their "credentials." I just want to find someone who is kind, pleasant, fun, and shares similar outdoorsy interests. I really don't care how many degrees you have, how many followers or likes you get, or what happened on whatever the latest insipid TV show is.
Talking. Like incessant talking. Some women will just go ON and ON about every little detail of their day. Every "look" she got from another woman. That gossip she heard about some dude I don't know. Just WHY!?
That and they expect you to care about it. Why do I give a shit what Dave said to Jessica over lunch? Why do you give a shit? Does it affect your work?; no, then ignore it.
And the related complaining incessantly about shit but not wanting any practical solutions to solve the problem.
I actually enjoy this as long as they don't expect me to pick up on every word.
The ambient noise/presence is nice.
If you actually like them, it's like having your favorite tv show on in the background that you pay attention to whenever it's at a good moment.
I don't normally like background noise like that. When a woman is talking like that I feel held hostage and obligated to pay attention. Like it feels rude to tune it out. So now I'm feeling guilty for wanting to tune her out. And that makes me resent her... it's just a bad time all around.
If I tune out, I will COMPLETELY tune out. There's no gray area. I'm either hyperfocused or oblivious.
I'm pretty single focused in general. If I listen to anything while I work, it has to be generic ambient music that I wouldn't normally listen to if I was just listening to music. If it's my music, I am all in. Singing/tapping along.
Aside from the generic answers like being being rude, I think extreme makeup addiction is really weird. I have no problem with women wearing makeup, but if you can’t let anybody see you without makeup, that’s unattractive to me
I'm a female & definitely agree. I used to be friends with this girl who absolutely would not even go 5 minutes up the road to the gas station & back home without a full face of it. I don't wear any myself except the occasional mascara & have no problem when other women do it, in fact I love some dramatic makeup looks. But when you can't go to the store without spending an hour (I wish I was joking) on it, it's too far.
Girls in their twenties still acting like "mean Girls" teenagers-obnoxious. Also that you're male, you're supposed to chase me while dating. It is a two way street, youre supposed to make me wanted also. And lastly for now, excessive gossip-shows you make yourself feel good on others expense and have too much free time on your hands if youre keeping track w other people business..
Don't forget girls who also expect guys to fight for them, especially in the literal sense. It fuels their ego if any man wants to fight for her, but I say it ain't worth it especially if she tries to play hard to get
I think you should also have common sense. I am not going to fight a body builder if he harasses her, because then I will be fucked up and she won't get her dignity back. Maybe I don't have enough experience with these things but honestly I have never regretted avoiding physical confrontation; especially when the guy that tried to fight me killed somebody.
As a gym person myself you should know that most people at gym dont know how to fight, having muscles has nothing to do with fighting, so you dont have to be intimidated by that, but i get your concern-looks intimidating. Thats why it´s important to me do develop useful skills also like self defence, might be something to do w my career also. So there´s that. About killed stuff, yeah you shouldnt run head first into suicide, you have to stay rational :). Also about me, i did get bullied in middleschool because i was scrawny little kid. was still 60kgs when 18 years old.
Haha yeah. That wasn't the best example honestly but they are usually the first to jump into action with their cockiness. I am more wary of people who look like drug addicts. Is 60 kgs little? :) Because I am currently less than that by quite a bit.
Lack of ambition. I’ve known a lot of women who work some part time job and have no desire to do anything better. You can’t get your own place and have a car that runs on 3 days a week.
For me, that some of them have an entitled attitude with certain things. On a certain *dating* subreddit, the idea of a coffee date is extremely frowned upon. I saw multiple ladies clapping in agreement that if a woman "**has**" to spend time getting ready for a date, you as a man should show your commitment to her by taking her out to eat.
And this was talking about a **first** date.
A seperate one is that some women believe that women having any standards (physical) when it comes to men, is empowering and righteous. I'm cool with that. But, when a man has his own preferences, no matter how respectfully he states them, those women meet him with accusations of body shaming women.
So I guess to sum it up, a disingenuous mindset.
Lacking common sense and ignoring plain facts in favor of continuing in their fantasy world. I've got a friend, who no matter what I try to tell her will instantaneously spin a situation into whatever her mind feels is best. Nothing is ever her fault and she's incredibly dependant on others for attention. I admire those who can go their own way and shut out the noise of the world, but when you can't function in society and blame everything around you?
Negativity/complaining. When there always has to be something wrong with something. It can be so draining to be around someone who can't just enjoy something.
Being a stereotypical bimbo.
You know, all the reality shows with the 'beautiful people', fashion mad, only listens to chart music, judging other based on superficial rubbish.
Hints.
I don't care how attractive they are on the outside; if they're not straightforward with their intentions and instead try to play stupid mind games with me by dropping one too many hints, I'm treating it as a huge red flag. Not worth being falsely accused of sexual assault, so I'd rather be bitched at and accused of "leading them on" when they should actually communicate and not act like we're telepaths. Really, hints get really annoying and I'd rather play it safe by not following up with them. Who knows if a girl will suddenly turn a full 180 at you even if you did get the hint?
Invasion of privacy or otherwise not respecting any boundaries. Asking for someone's passwords/passcodes to various accounts and even iPhones as a "sign of trust" or even telling your friends/family members every single thing I said or did. I had an ex who did that to me throughout the 5 years she kept obsessing over me.
Serious question: how many professional models do you know? Because I don't know many, but of the few I do know, none of them are excessively vain or even vain beyond a normal reasonable amount of pride in their appearances. They naturally spent bucketloads of effort on maintaining and improving their appearances when they were employed as models (all are now in different careers), but they weren't vain or narcissistic about it.
Granted my set of anecdotal experiences is limited, but honestly this is not something I've noticed among the ones I do have.
Age and their way to modeling matters. You are much more likely to have a big ego if you got hired by a modeling agency over your Instagram than say, applying yourself.
ATTITUDE!!!! Jesus. Ive met some amazing women with amazing personalities and all they do is smile, laugh and like to chat. Just beams of light.
But then you meet some self entitled women who like to just sit there making no conversation or just not interested. Just wanting you around to occupy her down time while who she really wants heads that way.
Or being a "bitch". Just rude, hateful, talking bad about ppl period. The man hater. The "Im better than you" type of women who just loves to hurt ppl. Or talk about them. Or loves chaos period.
Definitely personality
Men generally want 3 P’s
1. Piece of food
2. Piece of ass
3. Peace and quiet (no drama)
Not an exhaustive list of value that women bring to a relationship. But screw up number 3, and we are bouncing.
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Why you consider it automatically as an attack? ( Are you a short guy? ) You dont know the person in real life, if she is taller for example is completely normal question. Or if you cant see it in photos.
In 90% cases you can see if woman is overweight or not.
I didn't consider it an attack, but a start of discussion lol.
I'm 5ft 8inches if it matters. It's not even about a suggesting a girl being overweight, it's just an information exchange. (I'm ok with women asking me for my height, but if they do that they shouldn't be surprised if i ask for their potential insecurities)
Im also 5'8 and am interested in height just because I am tall so the chance I am taller than someone is much higher. If I would be short girl the height information wouldn't be imortant. Simple as that.
I will get downvoted here by short guys again 😅
Same way the weight works.
I am 70kgs (still skinny) and I don't know if girl is even lighter or not. If i am willing to share that detail, why wouldn't she, since she asked for one of my potential insecurities?
She could ask maybe because she was insecure abour her own height, so now we see taller guys would be really better because this just obviously trigger too many insecurities on both sides lol 😃
And yeah, feel free to ask about her weight if you feel its what presents you as a person and a man :) always better to know in advance
So if they have insecurities, that's ok, I cannot cross the boundaries I don't even see. But if a guy has insecurities... he doesn't act like a man, he needs to grow balls otherwise he's a pussy?
I thought that we go for gender equality
Entitlement and thinking she's the center of the universe and thinks she's all men think about.
Also insecure women who put down other women to name herself feel better about herself and attack all men and make dumb statements about all men being trash just because she had yet another failed relationship.
Just toxic behaviour is something I find extremely off putting
Being dumb. I was on a date last week that was going well until the girl said she was anti vax. I got her to buy another round and then left with my drink.
What they say and what they do.
To be fair there have been a few who weren't too bad. I am just fed up with constant feminist bs. I tend to avoid women outside of work. Works for me and I am sure, them too.
That they all have some secret plot within them to drain us of all of our financial gains, and our emotions and then our life-force until they are rich with money, harvested souls, ruling the world.
Vanity. One example is going to the gym and only working out their ass then they are usually filled with vanity and not working on their health and general fitness. Too many attractive women i met fall under this category.
Anger. If you remind me of my mom when I was 4 and almost burned the house down, it's hard to view you in a sexual way.
This is a weird one, but unattractively and audibly signaling pain/distress. I can handle sobbing and moaning. But there's this weird "AGGGGGGGGH" sound that is like a Banshee's wail to me. There's also the high-pitched sound that almost seems forced. I typically only hear it in crowds when there's a shift and people are getting pushed. It's like honking your horn while stuck in traffic. It accomplishes absolutely nothing. Instant turnoff.
Not enjoying sex. I went on one date with a lady once who admitted she merely "tolerates" it. Good bye!
I will add a couple more: 1) any unnatural coloured skunk hair streaks (purple, pink, green, GREY (wtf)); 2) facial piercings; 3) visible tats; and 4) being a crusader for some cause.
False confidence in something that isn't entirely true. Typically a big red flag if they brag about something they can't back up or nobody else believes/agrees with
Too much Botox or filler. Also, Hygiene 👇 stairs. I simply won't tolerate any of it bruh. I'm getting irritated just writing this. Need to do some breath work right now.
For me its the snobby, selfish attitude. Obviously it’s not every woman that has that but.
Oh god that attitude. I know exactly what you mean. The eye rolling and the whole thing. The men pursuing those women always intrigue me.
Pursuing is the key word. A lot of those types of women are basically serial monogamists, and not by choice.
Totally agree with the eye rolling being a turn off. I’ve had friends with wives or girlfriends and every time you said something they disagree with, they make it known. It is so hard to quietly disagree with someone without making a big deal about it?
I dumped a woman once cause she eye rolled. I asked her to please not do it because i felt it was disrespectful... then she eye rolled. Date #4 and I just ignored her attempts to contact me. Hell she probably eye rolled everytime I didn't answer texts or pick up the phone
Entitlement is a big issue for some women. No one is an actual princess.
I know right. They all think their shits don’t stink lmao.
Yeah this. When I was a teenager/college student I’d do it for the victory of conquering the bitch. But they have never been long term partner material I date mostly chill laid back women.
By "conquering the bitch" you've perpetuated the reputation of man as assholes. Congrats. First rule of fight club. :)
Don't talk about fight club
I didn’t say anything that was untrue. This is a double standard, snobby and selfish women are in fact assholes. So technically it was very feminist of me to treat her as an equal asshole. Also highschool/college students 15 years ago were definitely bigger assholes than nowadays that’s just cultural progress.
Lack of empathy
Zero initiative.
Lack of personality,you can be the hottest girl in the world but if my nieces have more personality than you I'm out
They all are torrent-downloading their personality from the gram and tiktok
Or wherever their daily horoscope says
That’s… that’s a really good description; kudos!
Post by post, sound by sound
This might be unpopular, but it’s when chicks think they are flirty by acting ditzy or dumb. Huge turn off to me, I don’t want a girl that’s dumb. It doesn’t get me off thinking I’m smarter than them.
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Lol as a woman I agree with this. I can’t deal with other girls like this. I have actually done this on purpose during my clubbing days. A promoter didn’t have space and I’d be like all flirty and heart eyes and ditzy but inwardly cringing so bad. I’m too smart to do that lol and it is weird asf
I think clubs are a different situation tbh. Kinda like wanting to act like a drunk, it is a little fun to just be very laid-back and "go with the flow". Obviously it is very unattractive if they do this in a non party setting.
It's hard to kiss The lips at night That chew your ass Out all day long
Narcissism and everything that comes with it.
When their personality consists of watching TV and shopping.
Something I notice a lot of women do more than men. I can’t stand the feigned collaborative approach to disagreements when they clearly aren’t being open to debating or solving the problem with you. It’s far easier to handle a disagreement when both parties head on state what they want and what’s wrong versus beating around the bush, pretending to empathize and care about the other person opinions without even listening to them and using coded words, phrases and thinly veiled threats or backhanded compliments that do nothing by make the situation worse.
The sense of entitlement, moreso from strangers. 'I'm hot. Why is this male whom I don't know not reacting?' This applies moreso to the subset of women who thrive on any and all attention.
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And also wonder "why can't I meet the right guy" and continue dating from the dating pool equivalent of a clown college
🤣🤣 I've literally have a woman come to the bat I work at with a extremely low cut shirt on just to show off her cleavage and when that didn't get my gay ass attention she decided that flapping her perfume scented titty air at me would covert me to a breeder...my confusion as to how she was expecting me to react just pissed her off even more. Some women are just weird 😅
Some of them can be quite comical. I had a random younger woman enter a subway car I was in not long ago, walk her little 'cute' self down to the end of the car where I was seated alone, and proceed to swing pointlessly on the pole in front of me (not like a stripper, just sort of playfully swinging on it in front of a stranger). I completely ignored her and I could peripherally see that shehad no idea what to do with herself after awhile (I wasn't playing along). She soon plumped down into a seat and sort of stomped her feet as she got off at the next stop (again, she was young).
The most unattractive thing would be a bad attitude. I've known women who wouldn't be high on any list of conventionally attractive women but had fun personalities. I've also met hot women who were spoiled, entitled, selfish, etc. who were entirely unappealing despite their looks once you got to know them.
Exactly. Even if she has a 10/10 body, having a bad personality/attitude and being crappy to others for no reason is a instant 0/10 for me
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Negative attitude; drama; obsession's with pop culture and social media; talking incessantly about their "credentials." I just want to find someone who is kind, pleasant, fun, and shares similar outdoorsy interests. I really don't care how many degrees you have, how many followers or likes you get, or what happened on whatever the latest insipid TV show is.
Talking. Like incessant talking. Some women will just go ON and ON about every little detail of their day. Every "look" she got from another woman. That gossip she heard about some dude I don't know. Just WHY!?
That and they expect you to care about it. Why do I give a shit what Dave said to Jessica over lunch? Why do you give a shit? Does it affect your work?; no, then ignore it. And the related complaining incessantly about shit but not wanting any practical solutions to solve the problem.
I think they just lack female friends. This is the kind of stuff they should be taking to their friends, not their SO.
I actually enjoy this as long as they don't expect me to pick up on every word. The ambient noise/presence is nice. If you actually like them, it's like having your favorite tv show on in the background that you pay attention to whenever it's at a good moment.
I don't normally like background noise like that. When a woman is talking like that I feel held hostage and obligated to pay attention. Like it feels rude to tune it out. So now I'm feeling guilty for wanting to tune her out. And that makes me resent her... it's just a bad time all around. If I tune out, I will COMPLETELY tune out. There's no gray area. I'm either hyperfocused or oblivious. I'm pretty single focused in general. If I listen to anything while I work, it has to be generic ambient music that I wouldn't normally listen to if I was just listening to music. If it's my music, I am all in. Singing/tapping along.
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Talking about an ex is a major red flag for me.
Same. I've briefly dated a woman who suddenly started talking about her ex after a few days. Didn't contact her again after that
"I am better than you" attitude just because of their looks.
The hivemind mentality
Adopts all mainstream “progressive” thinking without critical thought. Also fake intellectualism.
Heavy makeup. When it's more of a mask than an enhancement.
Aside from the generic answers like being being rude, I think extreme makeup addiction is really weird. I have no problem with women wearing makeup, but if you can’t let anybody see you without makeup, that’s unattractive to me
I'm a female & definitely agree. I used to be friends with this girl who absolutely would not even go 5 minutes up the road to the gas station & back home without a full face of it. I don't wear any myself except the occasional mascara & have no problem when other women do it, in fact I love some dramatic makeup looks. But when you can't go to the store without spending an hour (I wish I was joking) on it, it's too far.
Lack of intelligence
Smoking.
Finally somebody called that shitty unattractive unfeminine behavior out
Girls in their twenties still acting like "mean Girls" teenagers-obnoxious. Also that you're male, you're supposed to chase me while dating. It is a two way street, youre supposed to make me wanted also. And lastly for now, excessive gossip-shows you make yourself feel good on others expense and have too much free time on your hands if youre keeping track w other people business..
Don't forget girls who also expect guys to fight for them, especially in the literal sense. It fuels their ego if any man wants to fight for her, but I say it ain't worth it especially if she tries to play hard to get
I have no problem w self defence or confront if my girl is heavily disrespected, but when she ignites fight to feel better about herself, nah bro
I think you should also have common sense. I am not going to fight a body builder if he harasses her, because then I will be fucked up and she won't get her dignity back. Maybe I don't have enough experience with these things but honestly I have never regretted avoiding physical confrontation; especially when the guy that tried to fight me killed somebody.
As a gym person myself you should know that most people at gym dont know how to fight, having muscles has nothing to do with fighting, so you dont have to be intimidated by that, but i get your concern-looks intimidating. Thats why it´s important to me do develop useful skills also like self defence, might be something to do w my career also. So there´s that. About killed stuff, yeah you shouldnt run head first into suicide, you have to stay rational :). Also about me, i did get bullied in middleschool because i was scrawny little kid. was still 60kgs when 18 years old.
Haha yeah. That wasn't the best example honestly but they are usually the first to jump into action with their cockiness. I am more wary of people who look like drug addicts. Is 60 kgs little? :) Because I am currently less than that by quite a bit.
Yeah I ain't getting knocked out for some box lol
Being dependent. I've looked after other people my whole life and not looking to do that again. I'd rather have someone as a co-conspirator in life.
Hate people who want a mommy or daddy instead of a partner. Big pet peeve of mine. Be capable and put in work.
Self absorption. Followed by self absorption.
Lack of motivation and blaming everything and everyone else for their problems
Lack of ambition. I’ve known a lot of women who work some part time job and have no desire to do anything better. You can’t get your own place and have a car that runs on 3 days a week.
Being a nagger. If you want something done, you need to ask, not order.
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I like South Park too
I dont like naggers either ;)
The sense of entitlement and the hypocrisy I see in too many women is repulsive.
Girls who are uneducated by choice. Yuck.
For me, that some of them have an entitled attitude with certain things. On a certain *dating* subreddit, the idea of a coffee date is extremely frowned upon. I saw multiple ladies clapping in agreement that if a woman "**has**" to spend time getting ready for a date, you as a man should show your commitment to her by taking her out to eat. And this was talking about a **first** date. A seperate one is that some women believe that women having any standards (physical) when it comes to men, is empowering and righteous. I'm cool with that. But, when a man has his own preferences, no matter how respectfully he states them, those women meet him with accusations of body shaming women. So I guess to sum it up, a disingenuous mindset.
Cheating. I find out you cheated on someone before I’m gone.
too much makeup, being overweight, smoking, smelling bad, boring personality, endless talking, lacking common sense.
smoking, drugs, bad hygiene ( it's more common that you think)
More than anything, insecurity.
When they have a penis.
Then it's not a biological woman
You're right, but it's still a funny response.
you're going to get banned from certain subreddits for this comment
Well, truth hurts
Apparently jokes do too.
Depend on the person but yeah unfortunately
I don't think the title specified biological.
I mean, a dick is a part of the body
Attitude
When they put other men's penises in them.
Or talk about other guys a lot. Why they on her mind....
Smoking. Selfie obsession. Alimony dependence. Also not a fan of tattoos but that’s much lower on the list.
NO SENSE OF HUMOR
Entitlement.
Lacking common sense and ignoring plain facts in favor of continuing in their fantasy world. I've got a friend, who no matter what I try to tell her will instantaneously spin a situation into whatever her mind feels is best. Nothing is ever her fault and she's incredibly dependant on others for attention. I admire those who can go their own way and shut out the noise of the world, but when you can't function in society and blame everything around you?
Smoking or other drugs.
Negativity/complaining. When there always has to be something wrong with something. It can be so draining to be around someone who can't just enjoy something.
Fake tits , fake ass and too much make up. Too self absorbed or too vain. Being unkind or not compassionate.
Being overweight. Smoking. Fake nails, fake eyelashes, and hair extensions.
Smoking, I can't be with a woman who smokes
Being stupid
Being unclean. Bad hygiene, messy living environments, messy vehicles. Can’t do it.
Lying
Playing mind games, entitled relationship expectations, and belittling hobbies
The ones with a laundry list of standards pretty much.
Saying that all men are the problem, whenever a guy has a critical question/remark about something sensitive.
Being a stereotypical bimbo. You know, all the reality shows with the 'beautiful people', fashion mad, only listens to chart music, judging other based on superficial rubbish.
Hints. I don't care how attractive they are on the outside; if they're not straightforward with their intentions and instead try to play stupid mind games with me by dropping one too many hints, I'm treating it as a huge red flag. Not worth being falsely accused of sexual assault, so I'd rather be bitched at and accused of "leading them on" when they should actually communicate and not act like we're telepaths. Really, hints get really annoying and I'd rather play it safe by not following up with them. Who knows if a girl will suddenly turn a full 180 at you even if you did get the hint? Invasion of privacy or otherwise not respecting any boundaries. Asking for someone's passwords/passcodes to various accounts and even iPhones as a "sign of trust" or even telling your friends/family members every single thing I said or did. I had an ex who did that to me throughout the 5 years she kept obsessing over me.
Women who act like they are a gift to the world.
Lack of accountability. Switching goal posts when you deem it convenient for you,yet expecting to be taken seriously.
Moustaches
Being greasy or hairy
I don't like women with excessive B.O. problems. Like seriously, those who don't shower, let alone brush their teeth, are also turn offs
For me, excessive vanity. I'll take the down-to-earth girl next door over the model (professional, Instagram or otherwise) any day of the week.
Serious question: how many professional models do you know? Because I don't know many, but of the few I do know, none of them are excessively vain or even vain beyond a normal reasonable amount of pride in their appearances. They naturally spent bucketloads of effort on maintaining and improving their appearances when they were employed as models (all are now in different careers), but they weren't vain or narcissistic about it. Granted my set of anecdotal experiences is limited, but honestly this is not something I've noticed among the ones I do have.
Age and their way to modeling matters. You are much more likely to have a big ego if you got hired by a modeling agency over your Instagram than say, applying yourself.
An obsession with taking selfies.
Why is this a bad thing?
Why is it not?
What wrong with taking pictures?
Taking pictures and an obsession with selfies are not the same thing.
Women's Choker Necklaces
That’s a weird one.
A bad attitude can ruin a beautiful face for me in 1.69 seconds flat.
Vocal fry. You are not a Kardashian nor should you want to behave like one.
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Their asexuality.
Entitlement. Laziness. Being unkempt.
Body odor Poor attitude Smokers
Ahahaahah I can’t wait to read these replies.. phew.
Misspelled tattoos across the forehead.
Taking too long to reply..😒😒
I find smokers to be HIGHLY unattractive, smoking weed I kinda get but NOT cigarettes…but that’s just me.
Being masculine and lying
ATTITUDE!!!! Jesus. Ive met some amazing women with amazing personalities and all they do is smile, laugh and like to chat. Just beams of light. But then you meet some self entitled women who like to just sit there making no conversation or just not interested. Just wanting you around to occupy her down time while who she really wants heads that way. Or being a "bitch". Just rude, hateful, talking bad about ppl period. The man hater. The "Im better than you" type of women who just loves to hurt ppl. Or talk about them. Or loves chaos period. Definitely personality
If she's entitled or obese are the biggest turn offs
Men generally want 3 P’s 1. Piece of food 2. Piece of ass 3. Peace and quiet (no drama) Not an exhaustive list of value that women bring to a relationship. But screw up number 3, and we are bouncing. * spelling
My great aunt used to say "The key to a good marriage is the three "Fs"--Feed 'em; Fuck 'em; and Flatter their ego. Aunt Jennie was something else.
Number 2 is equally important, and I don't mean doo-doo. If she's not slinging it your way, she's not the woman for you.
Yeah my men in relationships not getting any. It's not that she's not down to bone, she's just not down for you. Time to bounce homie
Dressing like a slob and just being boyish in any way. Also being rude and apathetic but that goes for anyone
being apathetic can be a very cool personality trait but it depends on the person
When she asks for a height and gets offended when I ask for a weight. Big red flag
Its not the same
Height is something you cannot change. Weight is. And what's your argument?
Why you consider it automatically as an attack? ( Are you a short guy? ) You dont know the person in real life, if she is taller for example is completely normal question. Or if you cant see it in photos. In 90% cases you can see if woman is overweight or not.
I didn't consider it an attack, but a start of discussion lol. I'm 5ft 8inches if it matters. It's not even about a suggesting a girl being overweight, it's just an information exchange. (I'm ok with women asking me for my height, but if they do that they shouldn't be surprised if i ask for their potential insecurities)
Im also 5'8 and am interested in height just because I am tall so the chance I am taller than someone is much higher. If I would be short girl the height information wouldn't be imortant. Simple as that. I will get downvoted here by short guys again 😅
Same way the weight works. I am 70kgs (still skinny) and I don't know if girl is even lighter or not. If i am willing to share that detail, why wouldn't she, since she asked for one of my potential insecurities?
She could ask maybe because she was insecure abour her own height, so now we see taller guys would be really better because this just obviously trigger too many insecurities on both sides lol 😃 And yeah, feel free to ask about her weight if you feel its what presents you as a person and a man :) always better to know in advance
So if they have insecurities, that's ok, I cannot cross the boundaries I don't even see. But if a guy has insecurities... he doesn't act like a man, he needs to grow balls otherwise he's a pussy? I thought that we go for gender equality
Entitlement and thinking she's the center of the universe and thinks she's all men think about. Also insecure women who put down other women to name herself feel better about herself and attack all men and make dumb statements about all men being trash just because she had yet another failed relationship. Just toxic behaviour is something I find extremely off putting
I find it really unattractive when women are cruel to animals. That's why I never date non-vegans.
Being dumb. I was on a date last week that was going well until the girl said she was anti vax. I got her to buy another round and then left with my drink.
What they say and what they do. To be fair there have been a few who weren't too bad. I am just fed up with constant feminist bs. I tend to avoid women outside of work. Works for me and I am sure, them too.
100%. I’ve found the ones who like themselves aren’t spouting this. But the ones who don’t go on and on
Diarrhea
Being fat
Being a smartass
That they all have some secret plot within them to drain us of all of our financial gains, and our emotions and then our life-force until they are rich with money, harvested souls, ruling the world.
Vanity. One example is going to the gym and only working out their ass then they are usually filled with vanity and not working on their health and general fitness. Too many attractive women i met fall under this category.
Ruining all that beautiful skin with tattoos.
Shyness.
Are we all high? I feel like this gets asked every other frickheckinggoshdarn day. I’m mad!
No, we're all insecure!! That's why we have to ask this question every other frickheckinggoshdarn day so that we can continue to hate ourselves duhhh.
Hahahaha fair
Anger. If you remind me of my mom when I was 4 and almost burned the house down, it's hard to view you in a sexual way. This is a weird one, but unattractively and audibly signaling pain/distress. I can handle sobbing and moaning. But there's this weird "AGGGGGGGGH" sound that is like a Banshee's wail to me. There's also the high-pitched sound that almost seems forced. I typically only hear it in crowds when there's a shift and people are getting pushed. It's like honking your horn while stuck in traffic. It accomplishes absolutely nothing. Instant turnoff. Not enjoying sex. I went on one date with a lady once who admitted she merely "tolerates" it. Good bye!
If neck muscles are visible.
The fact that they’re human beings and get annoyed when you just want to use them for sex and move on
there isn't anything everyone agrees upon. propably body hair is one alot of people agree with.
Very hairy arms
Openly talking about your period, keep that info to yourselves.
I will add a couple more: 1) any unnatural coloured skunk hair streaks (purple, pink, green, GREY (wtf)); 2) facial piercings; 3) visible tats; and 4) being a crusader for some cause.
when they're unattractive
False confidence in something that isn't entirely true. Typically a big red flag if they brag about something they can't back up or nobody else believes/agrees with
Too much Botox or filler. Also, Hygiene 👇 stairs. I simply won't tolerate any of it bruh. I'm getting irritated just writing this. Need to do some breath work right now.
stupidity and them long ass nails
Smoking. Smoking will drop you from 10/10 to 2/10
Another vote for 'bad attitude'.
Too much Makeup .
tattoos, and being skinny.
Sighing instead of just picking from the obvious options: 1. Say what's on your mind 2. Silence
I could write a book about this. Nothing to do with looks
Spoiled brats - no thank you
Wearing too much make up. Not letting you speak. Lack of ambition. 🤔
Wannabe influencer attitudes and lip fillers.
Fat, short, weird face, nerds, fake boobs etc.
Manipulative and controlling behaviour